@@athorpe1937 i think your right, i think she wanted the "cooler" sister and was willing to hurt her friend in the process. that twin is mean spirited and will turn on her as well.
This whole culture of the MOH and other bridesmaids having to drop their whole life for someone else's wedding needs to stop. Why should anyone prioritize someone else's relationship?
The bride is awful. Dana should let this go and not look back. The twin sister is another matter. She doesn’t seem to particularly care about the original MOH. She said her twin was “dead to me”? I’d be civil in family situations, but let her go too. Stick with your husband and your daughters, and new friends will come along.
"I feel the way I feel." One of the hardest things for people to understand is that feelings are not reality. Feeling are a response to a situation, and as such there are many ways to interpret and react to a situation.
Feelings are a reality to the one experiencing it. There are many factors that play a role in how a person feel about a situation or person. It is not just a flippant "that's how I feel". Of course feelings can change, but they should never be disregarded and disrespected, because then you disregard and disrespect the person.
@perfectlyimperfect9129 Absolutely. But it's possible for someone to realize, well this is a feeling, which is important, but does it reflect objective reality? Is there another way to interpret or think about this thing? That's what people mean when they say, you may not be able to control what happens to you, but you can control how you feel about and react to it. In this situation, she's just being stubborn and clinging desperately to her "feelings" to avoid change.
@@TinaMBass83 yeah there's definitely a power dynamic there and the "friend" is just loving the attention from the popular sister. It's so shallow and mean spirited.
The sister in the burgundy shirt looks very vindictive. The sly eyes on her really stood out 😮 I wouldn’t bother with her or the bride. This woman was betrayed by both women. They’re not sorry either. It’s a build up of many many things over a lot of years. Not just being left out of a wedding party. Good luck to this lady, her husband and children.
My immediate sense from this is that the friend is involving herself in the twin dynamic. She LOOKS like the original maid of honor. I think she wanted to involve to be associated with the "hot" twin. And I think the "hot" sister in highly motivated by a an almost "sociopathic" self involvement. Is she even really friends with this bride? Why is she there? She looks like a witch. Some attractive people really get high on their own supply and develop more arrogance than beauty.
I cant imagine this level of drama. I had my BF as my MOH, but she gave me a hard time about a table that would he covered, lol. I was ready to use a card table covered, and my BF wanted a fancy table that would be covered. This was a Jewish Wedding and the table was only significant for literally holding things. A bridesmaid told me about it. My MOH and I talked about it. We cried, held hands, and we each gave an inch. This is ridiculous ☹️
It is BS that you need your mother in your life. those of us who cut off all ties to our mothers and led happy and fulfilling lives prove him wrong!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
She looks like the friend she dumped. She wanted the sister to escape her own feelings of inadequacy by joining the dance on top of her friend with her sister, even though the sister won't ever seriously like her.
One narcissist sister manipulating the other sister that was so wako, that instead of just replacing the bridesmaid and having her in the wedding ....or going back to a normal human after the wedding and reintegrate with her other sister. All gave too much free time in their hands and not enough difficulties to create unnecessary dumb dramas.
Don't always have to go with what everyone does. If they're both special people in her life, then she could've had both of them as her "maids of honour." Replacing her maid of honour with her twin is hurtful.
Oh man that bride is brutal. Straight up bully. I'm 100% convinced she didn't want her as her maid of honor because she's overweight and she would "ruin the pictures". I've read so many stories of brides doing that to their friends. It's disgusting
11:39 I have two daughters and one step daughter, The way this twenty year old is behaving is definitely immature! Basically If she can't get her way she's going to throw a toddler tantrum !! So much she doesn't want her mother to be happy ?! Oh, no. Her mother asked if she was okay how dare she!! 🙄 13:47 They are both to BLAME HERE
Our society has prioritized the show of a wedding and the relationship between the bride and groom is the most important part. When you are married at the end of the day, let it go. This MOH had children to prioritize and the gracious way to handle this would have been to talk to her instead of being catty, hurtful girls, not women. I would drop these two like hot rocks. There's no grace or internal beauty in these two. Distance yourself as long as you need to but know there are other women out there that do not represent the characteristics of these two.
Ok this thing where the maid of honour has all these “duties” is ridiculous plan a bachelorette? Like plan your own! All of these brides who put on all of these responsibilities on them are bridezillas! Glad to see everyone siding with the former moh!
Imagine you're dating the prettier twin and then you tell your buddy you're gonna hook them up with their twin sister and say you have a double date planned. Omfg I'd be heated but that would be hilarious.
Replacing your maid of honour with her twin sister, is nasty. Clearly done with intentions to hurt her.
100%
The bride has like a look in her eyes like she's just disgusted with ex maid of honor. You Can Tell She's just full of contempt that looks mean
I might be more sure of that if the twin sister wasn’t a bridesmaid to begin with. The bride may have just moved on to her next closest bridesmaid.
I suspect she might have wanted a certain look for her bridesmaid.
These girls aren't her friends. It's not her it's them
@@athorpe1937 i think your right, i think she wanted the "cooler" sister and was willing to hurt her friend in the process. that twin is mean spirited and will turn on her as well.
Bride is ice cold and twin is a viper to betray her sister!
This whole culture of the MOH and other bridesmaids having to drop their whole life for someone else's wedding needs to stop. Why should anyone prioritize someone else's relationship?
The bride and twin sister appear to be selfish, shallow, petty and cruel.
The bride is awful. Dana should let this go and not look back.
The twin sister is another matter. She doesn’t seem to particularly care about the original MOH. She said her twin was “dead to me”? I’d be civil in family situations, but let her go too.
Stick with your husband and your daughters, and new friends will come along.
"I feel the way I feel." One of the hardest things for people to understand is that feelings are not reality. Feeling are a response to a situation, and as such there are many ways to interpret and react to a situation.
It's reality to the person that's feeling the feelings.
Feelings are a reality to the one experiencing it. There are many factors that play a role in how a person feel about a situation or person. It is not just a flippant "that's how I feel". Of course feelings can change, but they should never be disregarded and disrespected, because then you disregard and disrespect the person.
@perfectlyimperfect9129 Absolutely. But it's possible for someone to realize, well this is a feeling, which is important, but does it reflect objective reality? Is there another way to interpret or think about this thing? That's what people mean when they say, you may not be able to control what happens to you, but you can control how you feel about and react to it. In this situation, she's just being stubborn and clinging desperately to her "feelings" to avoid change.
That twin sister is mean and seems to enjoy hurting her sister.
There’s something about her sisters face…
She’s probably done it her whole life bc she’s the “pretty” one 🙄
@@TinaMBass83 yeah there's definitely a power dynamic there and the "friend" is just loving the attention from the popular sister. It's so shallow and mean spirited.
@@TinaMBass83I don't know which one is considered "the pretty" one?
@@fromn.y.top.r.5889Which one of the twins?
I think the bride needed to find someone else as a replacement and not her own twin sister.
You don't need to call the cops to make the text messages stop. That's what blocking someone is for.
This was 13 years ago 😂 it wasn't that simple then.
The "friend" and the sister are awful.
Integrity and loyalty are rare attributes.
What “obligations” does a maid of honor have???
The sister in the burgundy shirt looks very vindictive. The sly eyes on her really stood out 😮
I wouldn’t bother with her or the bride.
This woman was betrayed by both women. They’re not sorry either.
It’s a build up of many many things over a lot of years.
Not just being left out of a wedding party.
Good luck to this lady, her husband and children.
They must be fraternal twins.
From a different set of parents.
Obvi
I would not survive a childhood NOR adolescents with her as my twin sister, God is diabólico
They don't look alike at all
@@virginiasanchis1717yes they do
My immediate sense from this is that the friend is involving herself in the twin dynamic. She LOOKS like the original maid of honor. I think she wanted to involve to be associated with the "hot" twin. And I think the "hot" sister in highly motivated by a an almost "sociopathic" self involvement.
Is she even really friends with this bride? Why is she there?
She looks like a witch. Some attractive people really get high on their own supply and develop more arrogance than beauty.
Needs new friends...dont try to be close to both...keep sister let friend go....just be over it all...
Let her sister go as well.🤷🏽♀️ Her sister wasn’t loyal.😏
Just wondering who TF would marry the first woman in the first place
"So how old are you?"
"I'm 20" - 10:17 I thought she was older
The pics they put on the thumbnail video were cold blooded lol they knew what they were doing
As someone who just got married... Pick people who show 👏 up 👏 on 👏 time 👏 Its too stressful to not be able to rely on people
The ex maid of honor said the bride had turned into a bridezilla i can believe it. She has that im better than you look about her
How stupid. They have nothing better to do than do this?
Sad little lives.😢🦘
I cant imagine this level of drama. I had my BF as my MOH, but she gave me a hard time about a table that would he covered, lol. I was ready to use a card table covered, and my BF wanted a fancy table that would be covered. This was a Jewish Wedding and the table was only significant for literally holding things. A bridesmaid told me about it. My MOH and I talked about it. We cried, held hands, and we each gave an inch. This is ridiculous ☹️
It is BS that you need your mother in your life. those of us who cut off all ties to our mothers and led happy and fulfilling lives prove him wrong!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
The supposedly hot twin is creepy ! All she cares about is how she looks on camera!
She's a very cold fish, as is the bride. The original MOH is much prettier and far more likeable than either of the other two
Whats wrong with the brides face ?
I'm what way?
@@Falangemary123 I think' they're talking about her puffy cheeks, that looks like a medical condition to me.
She’s missing a chin and has chipmunk cheeks
She looks like the friend she dumped. She wanted the sister to escape her own feelings of inadequacy by joining the dance on top of her friend with her sister, even though the sister won't ever seriously like her.
Small mouth with too many teeth
All three of them...me, me, me!!
You are right! All of them are problematic in their own way
The bride's voice is sooooo annoying
The bride is ridiculous and entitled. She’s not a pretty person on the inside, which makes her look less pretty on the outside.
"Textual abuse"! Dr. Phil's cracking me up!
From minute 6:33 to 7:44 what Dr. Phil says is so true and important. Relationships would be different if we consider what he said.
The bride and twin sister are bunch of weirdos
Adult mean girls...smh 😒
All the marriages are doomed! No doubt about it
Petty highschool DRAMA
I just feel like there are way more deserving people to be on the show~
One narcissist sister manipulating the other sister that was so wako, that instead of just replacing the bridesmaid and having her in the wedding ....or going back to a normal human after the wedding and reintegrate with her other sister. All gave too much free time in their hands and not enough difficulties to create unnecessary dumb dramas.
Don't always have to go with what everyone does. If they're both special people in her life, then she could've had both of them as her "maids of honour." Replacing her maid of honour with her twin is hurtful.
What a ridiculous 1st world issue.
What are some wedding issues in your third world
What are some wedding issues in your third world
Oh man that bride is brutal. Straight up bully. I'm 100% convinced she didn't want her as her maid of honor because she's overweight and she would "ruin the pictures". I've read so many stories of brides doing that to their friends. It's disgusting
11:39 I have two daughters and one step daughter, The way this twenty year old is behaving is definitely immature! Basically If she can't get her way she's going to throw a toddler tantrum !! So much she doesn't want her mother to be happy ?! Oh, no.
Her mother asked if she was okay how dare she!! 🙄 13:47 They are both to BLAME HERE
I thought we were supposed to leave this stupid drama behind in middle school.
She looks more like the friend than her twin! Way too much drama in this group
Women can be so ice cold to their female friends over such minimal and trivial things but they will forgive a man for doing devastating things.
Daina is so pretty and better than these mean girls who are her sisters which is worse
Our society has prioritized the show of a wedding and the relationship between the bride and groom is the most important part. When you are married at the end of the day, let it go. This MOH had children to prioritize and the gracious way to handle this would have been to talk to her instead of being catty, hurtful girls, not women. I would drop these two like hot rocks. There's no grace or internal beauty in these two. Distance yourself as long as you need to but know there are other women out there that do not represent the characteristics of these two.
Wait, what happened with the twin sisters?
What’s wrong with the twin’s face??? She has a crazy look in her eyes like she’s enjoying her sister hurting 😮
I read that also her eyes definitely tells her intentions
20 !!!!!!!
The daughter in the second story is such an entitled brat lololol
Im gonna go ahead and guess this has more to do with all around jealousy of her "twin" sister than the replacement itself?
God above I couldn’t imagine doing this to my twin.
She’s like my arm.
Or my foot.
Or my heart.
This is so very, very sad.
Phew the evil pettiness
Ok this thing where the maid of honour has all these “duties” is ridiculous plan a bachelorette? Like plan your own! All of these brides who put on all of these responsibilities on them are bridezillas! Glad to see everyone siding with the former moh!
It's a long standing Tradition, if a maid of honor agrees to the duties that's on her! No one made anyone do anything
@ the only thing I would ask is maybe a little help here and there, and to sign the wedding certificate!
Modern day Jerry Springer
My sister did this same type stuff. Her wedding kicked me out cuz I couldn’t go do all the bridezilla stuff. Also I had kids she didn’t etc
How much do these people get paid to humiliate themselves?
Being human is nothing to be ashamed of. The first step to getting help is admitting you have a problem.
Sometimes i find Dr.phil is rude
Weddings are so dumb lol this is ridiculous
That's your opinion
@ duh?
Imagine you're dating the prettier twin and then you tell your buddy you're gonna hook them up with their twin sister and say you have a double date planned. Omfg I'd be heated but that would be hilarious.
How sad that you comment about this young ladies looks! I wonder if you are an oil painting? Hmmm I’d place bets not!
Which one is the pretty one?
How shallow you are
No, nothing funny about that. Grow up.
thats why i;m having beardsmaids - bearded dragon brides maids lol, no backbiting, b!tching, drama etc