The struggle of TAN or PALE as an Asian 😭

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  • Опубликовано: 23 июн 2024

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  • @MelissaJoans
    @MelissaJoans 7 дней назад +325

    To be fair the difference between tan and pale skin for East Asians (and some SEAs) is a distinct marker between western-born and international students/FOBs

    • @nicolely8708
      @nicolely8708 4 дня назад +1

      As a pale westerner Asian, I absolutely see your point. But there’s a lot more than just that, I’m rarely if ever mistaken as a FOB, despite having pasty af skin. Because I pretty much exist in pajamas and my hair is never done and basically my style is underdressed.

  • @avalovesmusic4310
    @avalovesmusic4310 7 дней назад +313

    This is EXACTLY my problem
    I end up just looking like a different person depending on the season or continent 😅

  • @Aysisse
    @Aysisse 6 дней назад +75

    Totally true for the Europe thing. I live there. I'm the type who spends lots of time creating unique outfits and I take lots of inspiration from korean and japanese fashion. Well I tend to get glances a lot in the street.
    I went to visit Japan and South Korean a month ago, and I actually felt underdressed 😅 it was so refreshing to see everyone wearing such cute outfits tho

  • @kodeinekitten
    @kodeinekitten 6 дней назад +21

    kpop idol douyin makeup look for the winter. sabrina carpenter makeup look for the summer

  • @janhavisingh2640
    @janhavisingh2640 6 дней назад +50

    Idk why but you look literally gorgeous in that hairstyle

  • @blessparco
    @blessparco 6 дней назад +34

    For me, as a SE Asian, I love being tan a bit more than pale but sometimes I go for pale too. I understand the struggle. 🇵🇭🇫🇷❤️

  • @Orange_paenutbutter
    @Orange_paenutbutter 6 дней назад +5

    Omg me to girl I understand your struggles😭

  • @kimkardashianlostearring5277
    @kimkardashianlostearring5277 6 дней назад +15

    Off topic but that capybara is so cute😭💗

  • @johngomes4278
    @johngomes4278 5 дней назад +2

    You look beautiful ❤️ in either way 🎉

  • @ngocbao_111
    @ngocbao_111 6 дней назад +3

    Capybara ❤

  • @Jess_icaaaaaaa
    @Jess_icaaaaaaa 5 дней назад +2

    SAME WITH ME GURL! I'm half Thai and British and I'm naturally a very pale person likeeee I'm giving casper the ghost.. And I'm currently living in the uk and. I get so jealous of seeing people with tanned skin and i really want that but at the same time I wanna embrace my skintone... it's really werid but i totally get u!!

  • @Rosezys742
    @Rosezys742 6 дней назад +3

    the "cant" was so satisfying

  • @MikaR0AN
    @MikaR0AN 2 дня назад

    Its a struggle for me as an 🇩🇪🇮🇹🇫🇷 everytime I see so much beautiful asians 🥹

  • @Marshmallow764
    @Marshmallow764 2 дня назад

    THE CAPYBARA PLUSH❤ THAT WAS LITTERALY THE FIRST THING I SAW IN THIS VIDEO

  • @Airia16
    @Airia16 6 дней назад +4

    Same! And even with dressing up, or social culture, its like who do I listen to? Complete opposites 😭😭✋

  • @Yourheartsdesire
    @Yourheartsdesire 6 дней назад +2

    YESS OMG I used to want to be tan but now I actually want to be paler even though I’m alr somewhat pale

  • @Ondine275
    @Ondine275 2 дня назад

    This is EXACTLY my problem

  • @user-td6gd1by8q
    @user-td6gd1by8q 4 дня назад

    Love the capybara❤

  • @MaiNguyen-co4jh
    @MaiNguyen-co4jh 2 дня назад

    as a western-born southeast asian, i used to try to stay pale and would spend so much energy to avoid the sun during summer. now i don’t care and just let my body tan if im in the sun. i naturally tan when exposed to the sun and im honestly tired and too sweaty to cover up all the time

  • @Cancino99
    @Cancino99 6 дней назад +3

    Tan

  • @akidaki235
    @akidaki235 2 дня назад

    Omg the capybara plush I got one too but Mine looks funkier

  • @sadgirlmuseum
    @sadgirlmuseum 5 дней назад

    this is my struggles right now 😂😂😂 I can shape shifting

  • @Mini-pg9sb
    @Mini-pg9sb 7 дней назад +2

    Im.half chinese ill.only use temp tan and bronzer on soem.days but it has to be a statement thing for me like ineed some heavy teal blueissh eyeliner on the bottom remindsme of the ocean and my skin is the warm sando. The beach when i use bronzer but msor of the time i want to be pale

  • @jhazonio7219
    @jhazonio7219 День назад

    Omg!!! You're so pretty girl you look like IVE Wonyoung🥰💖

  • @barbiebunnybakery1896
    @barbiebunnybakery1896 5 дней назад

    As a German- Jamaican who grew up with anime, visual kei, k-pop and 90s RnB and hip hop. This is ringing so true 😅😂💜

  • @purnimarongpipi8624
    @purnimarongpipi8624 День назад

    Pale

  • @ayasilva_
    @ayasilva_ 4 дня назад

    I'm German but still pretty pale. I have the same problem because my grandmother tell me every time that I would look prettier with a tan.😢

  • @vinayagamvinayagam9753
    @vinayagamvinayagam9753 7 дней назад +3

    Cute

  • @Warisha572
    @Warisha572 6 дней назад +2

    Bangladeshi girl piz piz piz piz 🙏🙏❤

  • @MONA_620
    @MONA_620 6 дней назад +1

    pls do India

  • @happygokate8521
    @happygokate8521 5 дней назад

    So true 😂

  • @weyheyjackie
    @weyheyjackie 7 дней назад +1

    I love kbeauty but i always add bronzer

  • @Laura-du6ev
    @Laura-du6ev 6 дней назад +1

    "americans dressing comfortable" VS "europens dressing comfortable"

  • @Hayne6
    @Hayne6 6 дней назад

    I have trouble which style I want 😂😅

  • @aozora21
    @aozora21 6 дней назад

    Same for me too

  • @chunellemariavictoriaespan8752
    @chunellemariavictoriaespan8752 6 дней назад +1

    ... Bloody hell... Admittedly, its like that in the Philippines too... I tried to do like how Westerners style in shows like Euphoria/ Harajuku style/ mash-up of Vivienne Westwood-Dior with biker jacket and you know what I got?
    "Are you going on a date?"
    "You look Korean"
    Me: "Guys, its just for Sunday Mass and this is how I see myself!"

  • @xxromanovaxx6682
    @xxromanovaxx6682 5 дней назад

    I'm not Asian but being pale is just healthier for my skin, so I gladly stay pale.

  • @Akasuki_idk
    @Akasuki_idk 5 дней назад

    Same😭

  • @zweiwing4435
    @zweiwing4435 5 дней назад

    Since my childhood, I do not know those options.

  • @savitamishra2390
    @savitamishra2390 5 дней назад +1

    "Casul dressing in Asia is overdressed in Europe" ... Correction "South East Asia"
    Not all Asians dressed like this on casual days (I'm also Asian)

  • @Nekon3k0
    @Nekon3k0 5 дней назад +1

    I dunno about the casual dress thing is overdressed... I'm Chinese born in UK, I walk to the local shops in my pajamas and slippers.

  • @caffeinatedprn1705
    @caffeinatedprn1705 19 часов назад

    Same

  • @ki.44524
    @ki.44524 День назад

    how do i make my face paler? my body is white but my face is more pink... does weight loss help?

  • @user-lo8ol3we4z
    @user-lo8ol3we4z 6 дней назад

    This but I'm Hawaiian chinese! Do I be pale and doyin or go with my family tan and pacific islander style!!

  • @rayaheenhamdi6330
    @rayaheenhamdi6330 3 дня назад

    Never ever eveerrrr be basic for NOBODY . Honey , shine bright, let them burrrrnnnnnn
    - a wise woman

  • @luvddeonuts
    @luvddeonuts 4 дня назад

    why is barely no one talking about the capybaraa 😭

  • @celestric
    @celestric 6 дней назад

    I can’t be that pale unfortunately… so I gotta dress western no matter what 😭

  • @TheNameless-
    @TheNameless- 4 дня назад

    I want to wear cute things in europe but it's weird when everyone stares, if this is a thing in asia then that's cool

  • @patvanquish4586
    @patvanquish4586 5 дней назад

    There are two questions to answer. Are you aiming to please a particular demographic (including 'you') and which culture do you mostly live in? The convention for beauty is determined by the local culture so you need to establish what that is and whether you are aiming to meet or challenge those standards.

  • @rhaelsura96
    @rhaelsura96 6 дней назад

    I guess pale? Since i wssume its easier to tan afterwards, than be tan and try reverting to pale

  • @PastelPixie99
    @PastelPixie99 День назад

    As a black person atleast u have the option to be pale or tan lol

  • @lillu4evernice
    @lillu4evernice 5 дней назад

    As a European i hate tan and the eu style and i get so much negative attention for it from people😂

  • @user-ln7xr3nu2f
    @user-ln7xr3nu2f 4 дня назад

    First be pale and Korean style and then tan by the sun and like European style.😂😂 Because you can always tan if ur pale

  • @Taesanonehourloop
    @Taesanonehourloop 2 дня назад

    Well again asia isn't just south korea, china and japan

  • @thouchild
    @thouchild 6 дней назад +1

    As a disabled goth girl who tans at the drop of a hat, this also applies to me LOL 🎀 Love you doll, your beauty tips are the best whether you’re feeling idol pale or ganguro 🌸💕

  • @wawawawawa8009
    @wawawawawa8009 2 дня назад

    You’re western born??

  • @user-vu1pe2vs4q
    @user-vu1pe2vs4q 2 дня назад

    Idk what part Europe you have been but that's totally false as European myself Balkan countries are totally glam even though if you're gonna grab a coffee

  • @AhmadIlyas-rq7yb
    @AhmadIlyas-rq7yb 6 дней назад

    I have a questions with you sister your Follow Any Religion I invite you to Islam ☪️ Accept or not your saying this your becomes a Muslim Laaa Ilaaha Illa-llaahu Muhammadur-Rasoolu-llaah There is none worthy of worship except Allah and Muhammad is the Messenger of Allah I don't force you