This message was so spot on! Years ago, it occurred to me that the people constantly accusing me of the worst things about myself (too sensitive, for example) where the ones that were abusing me. Thankfully, even as a teenager I had a fighting spirit & GTFO as soon as I could. I'm 44 and still have a strained relationship with my family. Once, a therapist asked me when I would realize that my parents were doing the best they could LOL no ma'am it was deliberate abuse and sabotage! People in healing/spiritual space use victim mentality as an excuse not to acknowledge that trauma has a very long-term effect on our spirit, our brains and out bodies. Refusing to acknowledge trauma is spiritual bypassing at its finest!
Thank you! As a mid30s male in the middle of deep childhood trauma work (father died suddenly when i was an infant, then school was bullied every day, toxic relationships, etc) the victim mindset is instilles by others and its the hardest thing ive ever done to try and grow out of it. Its worth it though. Your fresh and incisive words help me navigate in a new direction. ❤
Me sitting in my bathroom saying get over it, stop being emotional, you weren't abused, stop playing victim your not a victim. Has been me lately and I swear the Morrigan made me write out my childhood trauma I couldn't finish it that day but I saw enough to wake me up abit
You are spot on. I work as a tarot Reader and come across all manner of people with all manner of paradigms. In my own personal experience, I've come across these "manifestation mind infestation" types, that is to say they think the only factor involved in manifesting is "mindset" and if it fails, "your mind wasn't right". I've also come across more toxic positive people, who focus on the "love and light" too much and ignore the very obvious "darkness" within themselves. I've learned that the tough times and exploring the darkness has led to me growing more as an individual. Facing my fears. Doing what is uncomfortable gave me the greatest sense of catharsis when I overcame it. I found your video really useful to prompt my brain thinking about stuff I haven't in a little while.
True I hate whenever people over use or over play the whole terms of playing the victim whenever they're are just expressing genuine concern and some people can also actually think a certain way or have a bit of a "victim mentality" doesn't even always mean someone is a narcissist necessarily because sometimes certain or even some religious view points or bad experiences can or could kinda have people think or be conditioned to think in a certain way and whatever without it or them being a certain way but could very well be perceived some time of way and not be actually going around thinking everything is always about themselves necessarily always because sometimes be it things even surrounding them or other things affecting the nervous system in not so great of ways imo or experience even sometimes idk 🤷♀️ I mean people do express or experience things differently sometimes even if in similar situations or circumstances sometimes it's just how it is I guess 🤷♀️ but yeah and honestly everyone healing journeys can be very different or look very different while one person has to get or be in therapy sometimes somethings people do or get just as good or better results just by Journaling or artwork or poetry or even just stepping more into there own spiritual self or meditation or just being surrounded being in better environments and or better energies or people that are actually good or better at being the encouragement or support that they need at that time I mean what works for one person sometimes somethings different work better for another and yeah sometimes somethings I do agree with though that there needs sometimes to be more empathetic people in the community sometimes it's wild to me since that's the people most spirituality is more geared towards like tf make it make since 🤷♀️
@@munchieswithmorgan2654 oh for sure. For me I’ve found that framing it as confidence in myself and my abilities, and trusting myself are a better way of looking at it. Like the difference between “I can do this” vs deluding myself lol. But I totally agree
Sometimes I find it very hard to share my feelings with many. Most people never guess how sometimes I am in horrible emotional pain. I have always been a 'fake it til you make it', and I must say that putting on a brave face will sometimes bring me back to a point of being able to handle such emotions. My main problem is I tend pull away from loved ones and friends when things get too shifty. It IS NOT the way to handle such matters. So unhealthy. I have so much to work on in how I feel about myself.
15:14 To heal a broken leg, first, you have to acknowledge that it is broken. Then you can take appropriate measures. To continue walking on it because "I'm not a victim bro", will only make it worse. Refusing to accept that you have been victimised is just denial, and that's how you stay a victim forever.
I'm a man who's survived religious, se*, emotional among other A*, and was put through religious therapy that was traumatic on its own. Even with over forty years under my belt it's difficult to emotionally understand it's not my fault even though I understand mentally. It's like the experiment with the puppies where there was no way for them to not get shocked during a test. The puppies just gave up and would lay down and take the shock. Learned helplessness is actually a thing as is cptsd. I'd like to say, just because you had a roof over your head and food on the table doesn't mean you aren't a victim. That took a long time for me to understand. If you've survived this far I'm proud of you. If you need help I hope you can get it. I hope you thrive and know you are loved
I think it would be Jill's fault if she found out her bf was a child molester and didn't leave him in order to protect her kids but if she didn't know them how could she stop or protect her children.
Yeah, one of the few bits of afterlife info I've received and actually think "maybe.." is that the food kinda bad, universally, which is a reason perhaps why sacrifices of food are so appreciated. The Morrigan seems nothing at all like my grandmother but also feels like she should be, rather like an almost shadow, whearas Grandma was practical but kind the Morrigan is slightly baffled as to what Im doing with all these words when she just told me whats up. I built my recovery off this here word salad bar, I dont have anything involving children on the menu, eggs that arent fertilized lack needed components the egg salad is fine:/ I do like stupid jokes wrapped around notes on meditation and the occasional side of Rantch dressing.... Anyhoo, cult leaders have this weird habit the share with literally everone in the news politics, like they cant control themselves, no I dont mean reading to children, only monsters like cross dressers and George W Bush, one to indoctrinate children ... Into reading books and the other as a distraction from 9/11... Kids where scared, what, you wanna show em some hezboallah training videos?? Yeesh, these straw people am I rite.? But ya, the thing about the land, I've had my garden for several years and its been transformative, I think the "as within.." thing makes sense in the context of a personal garden or farm but most anything these days is going to be packaged with a little psychological abuse, not just because anyone working in marketing is evil but more that its easier to sell people things if you can create a trauma event or just reference things that will light up the trauma parts of the brain so they can sell this or that thing or Idea. I image several generations of socially engineered persons could lead to some situations, people behaving in apparently irrational ways, its like, if a person did the sort of stuff corperations do to everyone... But just to another person, that person would probably be jail forever:/ But then, I shouldn't be so eager to get t ocanp. Have a day that upon reflection brings peace and satisfaction!
This message was so spot on! Years ago, it occurred to me that the people constantly accusing me of the worst things about myself (too sensitive, for example) where the ones that were abusing me. Thankfully, even as a teenager I had a fighting spirit & GTFO as soon as I could. I'm 44 and still have a strained relationship with my family. Once, a therapist asked me when I would realize that my parents were doing the best they could LOL no ma'am it was deliberate abuse and sabotage! People in healing/spiritual space use victim mentality as an excuse not to acknowledge that trauma has a very long-term effect on our spirit, our brains and out bodies. Refusing to acknowledge trauma is spiritual bypassing at its finest!
This video is a breath of fresh air for me lately.
Thank you! As a mid30s male in the middle of deep childhood trauma work (father died suddenly when i was an infant, then school was bullied every day, toxic relationships, etc) the victim mindset is instilles by others and its the hardest thing ive ever done to try and grow out of it. Its worth it though. Your fresh and incisive words help me navigate in a new direction.
❤
Well done.
The rambling and swearing are very on-brand for an experience with the Morrigan. :)
@@ravendelacour1917 🤣🤣
@@themorrigansoracle Berserkgang ain't pretty but it's always authentic.
Me sitting in my bathroom saying get over it, stop being emotional, you weren't abused, stop playing victim your not a victim. Has been me lately and I swear the Morrigan made me write out my childhood trauma I couldn't finish it that day but I saw enough to wake me up abit
You are spot on.
I work as a tarot Reader and come across all manner of people with all manner of paradigms.
In my own personal experience, I've come across these "manifestation mind infestation" types, that is to say they think the only factor involved in manifesting is "mindset" and if it fails, "your mind wasn't right". I've also come across more toxic positive people, who focus on the "love and light" too much and ignore the very obvious "darkness" within themselves.
I've learned that the tough times and exploring the darkness has led to me growing more as an individual. Facing my fears. Doing what is uncomfortable gave me the greatest sense of catharsis when I overcame it.
I found your video really useful to prompt my brain thinking about stuff I haven't in a little while.
Thank you for this. It took me 43 years to say that you’re absolutely amazing. And thank you again for this video.
True I hate whenever people over use or over play the whole terms of playing the victim whenever they're are just expressing genuine concern and some people can also actually think a certain way or have a bit of a "victim mentality" doesn't even always mean someone is a narcissist necessarily because sometimes certain or even some religious view points or bad experiences can or could kinda have people think or be conditioned to think in a certain way and whatever without it or them being a certain way but could very well be perceived some time of way and not be actually going around thinking everything is always about themselves necessarily always because sometimes be it things even surrounding them or other things affecting the nervous system in not so great of ways imo or experience even sometimes idk 🤷♀️ I mean people do express or experience things differently sometimes even if in similar situations or circumstances sometimes it's just how it is I guess 🤷♀️ but yeah and honestly everyone healing journeys can be very different or look very different while one person has to get or be in therapy sometimes somethings people do or get just as good or better results just by Journaling or artwork or poetry or even just stepping more into there own spiritual self or meditation or just being surrounded being in better environments and or better energies or people that are actually good or better at being the encouragement or support that they need at that time I mean what works for one person sometimes somethings different work better for another and yeah sometimes somethings I do agree with though that there needs sometimes to be more empathetic people in the community sometimes it's wild to me since that's the people most spirituality is more geared towards like tf make it make since 🤷♀️
I still see a lot of benefit in keeping a positive mindset, balance, and staying aligned. But I mostly believe in putting in the hard work!
@@munchieswithmorgan2654 oh for sure. For me I’ve found that framing it as confidence in myself and my abilities, and trusting myself are a better way of looking at it. Like the difference between “I can do this” vs deluding myself lol. But I totally agree
Sometimes I find it very hard to share my feelings with many.
Most people never guess how sometimes I am in horrible emotional pain.
I have always been a 'fake it til you make it', and I must say that putting on a brave face will sometimes bring me back to a point of being able to handle such emotions.
My main problem is I tend pull away from loved ones and friends when things get too shifty.
It IS NOT the way to handle such matters.
So unhealthy.
I have so much to work on in how I feel about myself.
15:14
To heal a broken leg, first, you have to acknowledge that it is broken. Then you can take appropriate measures. To continue walking on it because "I'm not a victim bro", will only make it worse.
Refusing to accept that you have been victimised is just denial, and that's how you stay a victim forever.
I'm a man who's survived religious, se*, emotional among other A*, and was put through religious therapy that was traumatic on its own. Even with over forty years under my belt it's difficult to emotionally understand it's not my fault even though I understand mentally.
It's like the experiment with the puppies where there was no way for them to not get shocked during a test. The puppies just gave up and would lay down and take the shock. Learned helplessness is actually a thing as is cptsd.
I'd like to say, just because you had a roof over your head and food on the table doesn't mean you aren't a victim. That took a long time for me to understand.
If you've survived this far I'm proud of you. If you need help I hope you can get it. I hope you thrive and know you are loved
@@johngross5224 🖤🖤🖤
I think it would be Jill's fault if she found out her bf was a child molester and didn't leave him in order to protect her kids but if she didn't know them how could she stop or protect her children.
@@ChynaGray-j8i 💯
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Yeah, one of the few bits of afterlife info I've received and actually think "maybe.." is that the food kinda bad, universally, which is a reason perhaps why sacrifices of food are so appreciated.
The Morrigan seems nothing at all like my grandmother but also feels like she should be, rather like an almost shadow, whearas Grandma was practical but kind the Morrigan is slightly baffled as to what Im doing with all these words when she just told me whats up.
I built my recovery off this here word salad bar, I dont have anything involving children on the menu, eggs that arent fertilized lack needed components the egg salad is fine:/
I do like stupid jokes wrapped around notes on meditation and the occasional side of Rantch dressing....
Anyhoo, cult leaders have this weird habit the share with literally everone in the news politics, like they cant control themselves, no I dont mean reading to children, only monsters like cross dressers and George W Bush, one to indoctrinate children ... Into reading books and the other as a distraction from 9/11... Kids where scared, what, you wanna show em some hezboallah training videos?? Yeesh, these straw people am I rite.?
But ya, the thing about the land, I've had my garden for several years and its been transformative, I think the "as within.." thing makes sense in the context of a personal garden or farm but most anything these days is going to be packaged with a little psychological abuse, not just because anyone working in marketing is evil but more that its easier to sell people things if you can create a trauma event or just reference things that will light up the trauma parts of the brain so they can sell this or that thing or Idea. I image several generations of socially engineered persons could lead to some situations, people behaving in apparently irrational ways, its like, if a person did the sort of stuff corperations do to everyone... But just to another person, that person would probably be jail forever:/
But then, I shouldn't be so eager to get t ocanp.
Have a day that upon reflection brings peace and satisfaction!
Hii i love this video! I really want to move forward from this pain but what if seeking a therpist isn't available? My heath care got taken away 😢
@@yourlocalstargal for me journaling is also really helpful.
Thank you for your video. You look amazing btw with long dark hair 🤍🤍
@@adrianaf6715 thank you! 🖤🖤
Omg this video couldn’t come out at the better time 😮 I’ve been reflecting on my disabilities and really falling down the abyss.. Thank you!! ❤