She's in denial, still looks at him like a woman who is in love... just my opinion 🤷 body language, he's not into her though. I pray she completely disconnect from him emotionally 🙏
I don't think I'd be able to have this maturity about the situation. Especially if he already knew before we got married. I don't want to be anyone's beard, don't waste my time like that. I understand it's difficult to live in that truth but deal with that on your own don't bring someone else into your battle.
Matthew I'm glad that you are living your truth with your very best friend. That's what is most important. Wishing you and your family the best. Jessica you are the epitome of strength 💪🏾 and a great portrait of forgiveness ❤ This is so very important. You're both awesome 🙌🏾!
That’s what I’m saying ….and many times it’s better to cut the line clean .That’s ultimate betrayal .U find out that your husband is homosexual,and your just like,”Ok let’s be bffs “.She needs to get counseling ,because there is no way your okay within your soul to be bffs with someone who not only betrayed your marriage but also came out as a homosexual man at that .Like,no .We are not going to sit here and ACCEPT this as normal when it is not .
@@shalimarie9016 I disagree. I think her behavior supports the notion that she truly loves him as a human being. I'm sure she was not happy when this was all going down, but she's chosen the enlightened path on this journey. She could've chosen hell. She could've chosen endless suffering. But she didn't...I personally think it's remarkable.. this is how humans *should* behave toward one another. Your anger by proxy is a product of the society we live in - it's surprising and taboo to you because we are used to seeing so much hate, so one might not even recognize the true love story in this.
Having kids with your ex wife while knowing inside that you are gay, you betrayed all of them. Just make those sweet wedding vows to a man not a woman, avoid hurts. She's smiling probably for the public reputation but she needs more therapy." Otherwise she wouldn't have asked you to come out publicly before the divorce announcement! "Son, ur dad loves another man after we had you🤔"
@@michaelturner2177 Sir, you are being super judgemental, you! "We black people are more judgemental"! Seriously, I think it probably depends on your surroundings but I did agree with white brothers and sisters on my opinion.
@@claireBwiza_4029 How so, let be honest. A lot of brothers are married to yall sisters; is lying about his sexuality to please their parents; because there religious beliefs. When gay men trying to let yall know about your husband or boyfriend is down low. You don't believe it until it to late. At least he told her about his sexuality.
@@michaelturner2177 That’s not woman’s fault that’s patriarchy’s fault and the community of men always pretending at manhood I’m mixed with a black mother but Ik those men but all blame on the woman cuz they can’t account their own manhood sad I pray for those women to leave that community
@@michaelturner2177 the point is, you get to feel that you're gay before anyone else can find it out, so there's no reason to lie to your soul and go ahead and marry a lady, then break her heart, I hope u get what I mean. I'd admire if he never got to his knee and propose a wrong person for life together. The rest you're saying that hide it for religions or beliefs "do not" have the freedom this man had and has, yet he acted like them🤷🏼♀️😒
She will get her reward one day. God sees that she continues to sacrifice her heart and life for the welfare of her children while he has his cake and eating it too. I hope some hot Godly warrior rescues her one day and treats her like the queen she is. Because this guy never had and never will have the balls.
Beautiful this is true love because if you truly love unconditional you help them love themselves and don't put them in a place to not be able to talk to you. I wouldn't give a crap if my ex husband was gay baby let me hook you up. Lol we have to love and help people truly feel free to open up. She never left him she was non judgemental this is true love. Child please I would go out with him to show baby I support you. Don't give a damn about those who hate. Live your life!!!!!!! what right do we have to tell people who to love... None!¡ It's love!!!! Love covers a multitude of sins. People please understand that. Love without seeing love without judging love people through the dark........it can save lives
OMG! this story, I can't. Happiness is the goal. Kudos to this family.
YOU ALL ARE ALL CRAZZZYYYY
She's in denial, still looks at him like a woman who is in love... just my opinion 🤷 body language, he's not into her though. I pray she completely disconnect from him emotionally 🙏
This is just beautiful!! Congratulations to the whole family, keep on loving 💯👌❤️
I don't think I'd be able to have this maturity about the situation. Especially if he already knew before we got married. I don't want to be anyone's beard, don't waste my time like that.
I understand it's difficult to live in that truth but deal with that on your own don't bring someone else into your battle.
if it happened to Tamron she would not be that.accepting. she selfish too
Matthew I'm glad that you are living your truth with your very best friend. That's what is most important. Wishing you and your family the best. Jessica you are the epitome of strength 💪🏾 and a great portrait of forgiveness ❤ This is so very important. You're both awesome 🙌🏾!
I’d be so insecure if this happened to me….like how messed up, after having kids and all sis …mhm
Wait did I miss it? Did he say he KNEW he was gay going into the marriage?
That’s what I’m saying ….and many times it’s better to cut the line clean .That’s ultimate betrayal .U find out that your husband is homosexual,and your just like,”Ok let’s be bffs “.She needs to get counseling ,because there is no way your okay within your soul to be bffs with someone who not only betrayed your marriage but also came out as a homosexual man at that .Like,no .We are not going to sit here and ACCEPT this as normal when it is not .
@@shalimarie9016 I disagree. I think her behavior supports the notion that she truly loves him as a human being. I'm sure she was not happy when this was all going down, but she's chosen the enlightened path on this journey. She could've chosen hell. She could've chosen endless suffering. But she didn't...I personally think it's remarkable.. this is how humans *should* behave toward one another. Your anger by proxy is a product of the society we live in - it's surprising and taboo to you because we are used to seeing so much hate, so one might not even recognize the true love story in this.
@@breezyncj "he knew who he was"!!!and she's saying all that for the public admiration.
What would be the reason for being insecure? Him being gay has nothing to do with her..
So did he tell her before marriage??
Having kids with your ex wife while knowing inside that you are gay, you betrayed all of them. Just make those sweet wedding vows to a man not a woman, avoid hurts. She's smiling probably for the public reputation but she needs more therapy." Otherwise she wouldn't have asked you to come out publicly before the divorce announcement! "Son, ur dad loves another man after we had you🤔"
Claire, most white people are more acceptance than African Americans being gay. We black people are more judgemental.
@@michaelturner2177 Sir, you are being super judgemental, you! "We black people are more judgemental"! Seriously, I think it probably depends on your surroundings but I did agree with white brothers and sisters on my opinion.
@@claireBwiza_4029 How so, let be honest. A lot of brothers are married to yall sisters; is lying about his sexuality to please their parents; because there religious beliefs. When gay men trying to let yall know about your husband or boyfriend is down low. You don't believe it until it to late. At least he told her about his sexuality.
@@michaelturner2177
That’s not woman’s fault that’s patriarchy’s fault and the community of men always pretending at manhood I’m mixed with a black mother but Ik those men but all blame on the woman cuz they can’t account their own manhood sad I pray for those women to leave that community
@@michaelturner2177 the point is, you get to feel that you're gay before anyone else can find it out, so there's no reason to lie to your soul and go ahead and marry a lady, then break her heart, I hope u get what I mean. I'd admire if he never got to his knee and propose a wrong person for life together. The rest you're saying that hide it for religions or beliefs "do not" have the freedom this man had and has, yet he acted like them🤷🏼♀️😒
Why they're divorce?
This would be my worst fear!! My first boyfriend (he was white) came out to me and it was hard to accept.
She will get her reward one day. God sees that she continues to sacrifice her heart and life for the welfare of her children while he has his cake and eating it too. I hope some hot Godly warrior rescues her one day and treats her like the queen she is. Because this guy never had and never will have the balls.
Why are people getting angry about this? They’re both happy
GOD bless you two
ShaloM
Love oneself in order to Love another .
For G✝️D iS Love
Once again ShaloM
Truth sets us free!!! ♥️
He is a Good person. been FB Buddy about 6 yrs. What a Class Act ! love ya
❤
Beautiful this is true love because if you truly love unconditional you help them love themselves and don't put them in a place to not be able to talk to you. I wouldn't give a crap if my ex husband was gay baby let me hook you up. Lol we have to love and help people truly feel free to open up. She never left him she was non judgemental this is true love. Child please I would go out with him to show baby I support you. Don't give a damn about those who hate. Live your life!!!!!!! what right do we have to tell people who to love... None!¡ It's love!!!! Love covers a multitude of sins. People please understand that. Love without seeing love without judging love people through the dark........it can save lives
So many levels to this situation. Poor children. The ex wife is putting on for TV. 🙄
he will regret it. just selfish
Down low...
I think he deceived her.He should have stayed single until he figured it out. Years wasted on her part. Smh