I don't feel that your daughter could have been blessed with better parents. I am a black mother of 2 adult daughters and I know what it's like to raise girls. I was opposed to ppl raising children of a different race b4 I began watching your videos. I feel the love you two have and it fills my heart that you love her so much. Thank you for loving her and proving to the world color doesn't matter!
John and Rhianna,am praying for your family and for the healing of John"s ankle. Your guys are doing a really good job. Let the Haters hate, and continue the openess of your hearts. Blessings
Honestly, I had no idea you guys received so many opinions about parenting/racism etc. Please know you have fans who truly support you and enjoy watching your weekly vlogs💜
I only found your channel last week and doing binge watching. I cannot get enough of the Schoeller family, great family, mum, dad and beautiful little girl. I look forward to Sundays!
Right the question only come from ppl who's thinking weird that they adopted a black beautiful child.They are doing what any parents would do. That is they baby and I just love watching them, I follow them on IG & RUclips. I really love when they travel, Tyanna be so worn out just from all the fun shes having 🙃.
You guys are doing a wonderful job of raising your daughter Tyanna the love the support the kindness that you guys are given to her is beautiful she loves you guys so much so it should not matter what other people say about you raising a girl that is not the same race is you are it doesn't matter
I’m sorry people feel like they can tell you how you should/shouldn’t raise your daughter 👎 please ignore the negative or intrusive comments - Tyanna is clearly a happy, healthy, emotionally intelligent little girl so y’all are obviously doing an excellent job. Love y’all and thanks for sharing your lives with us 🫶
Great parents. This baby is well loved. Color doesn't matter. Love is the most important part of being a good parent. You both are a blessing to her. ❤
I wish my own parents had parented me like you guys parent Tyanna. My parents were very strict. My brothers and I basically had to be quiet around adults and not to speak until spoken to. We also got paddled and were not encouraged or shown much love. To this day, I am quiet, shy, and have low self-esteem. So keep on being the great parents you are to your beautiful daughter! She is very blessed to have both of you for parents! 😊❤ ❤
As a 72 year old grandma, watching my children raise their children without corporal punishment, I totally agree with you , How could we ever, back in the day have thought that was a good idea ? When you know better you do better.
My cousins were beaten by their mother as punishment (I don't call her my aunt, I hate her). One of them literally had a bloody nose. The kids should have been taken away but it wasn't taken as seriously 30 years ago. And guess what? All those kids despise her now. Shocker.
I think you're doing great introducing healthy foods early on. Don't feel bad to say No and don't allow her to say NO back. Use your own disciplinenary style but don't be too soft. Give her tough love! She has to learn that every time she goes into a store she doesn't has to get a toy. Also teach her about the less fortunate. Overall yall are doing great. I'm new and love watching your vblogs
I think its also super important to have her around diversity and children who look like her. Im a white parent to black children and it was important for me to live in a diverse neighborhood and my children go to a diverse public school and be around other black children, as well as incorporate their culture into our daily lives.
That's why they chose to live in a diverse area and have black people in their inner circle. Tyanna is around her bio family and loves being around her cousins on that side of her.
@@bathos22 yes, I am aware of that and have noticed her with her cousins recently. However, often certain things can be a struggle at no one's fault. I watched Kapernicks documentary even though he was around others, who looked like him he figured some things out on his own. The parents did not notice certain treatments he received as a black person with parents of another race. I love this family's videos and I don't believe anyone means any harm, at least I don't.
As a black mom. The more diverse schools in my town are ghetto. So unfortunately my 5 year old goes to the "white" schools. Private schools. He sees his own with his cousins and his outside buddies.
My husband and I enjoy watching your channel. Racism will always exist, and since my husband and I are an interracial couple, we love to stare back or wave at ignorant folks who may stare at us.
I’m just a middle aged white woman from alabama but I hate racism and when I’m with my black family members I do a lot of staring back. I’m very impulsive so it’s a win for me to keep my mouth shut.
Time out, and taking away her toys are the best punishment. I use to take away my child electronics and make her read because she hated it. She became so great at reading over the years.
Everyone has their own parenting ideals and too many have opinions of other people's parenting styles. I say, do whatever works for you and the lifestyle you lead. Tyanna seems a well rounded, well adjusted, happy and healthy child. You must be doing something right 😉
I loved this Q & A! I took custody of my 6 week old brother and I’ve had him for 15 months now! It’s been a struggle taking care of a child and I never had any previously. My boyfriend and I have been learning as we go. We are raising him as our own💙
i grew up being beaten too and I 100% agree on the redirection, that would definitely make your child respect you rather than fear you. I don't think any good parent would rather their child fear them than respect them (I'm 15 and from Kenya) love your videos!
I'm fairly new to your channel & I love you guy's!!! I pray the comments don't bother you both, as you do have fans that just adore how you're parenting your daughter. It's such a blessing both ways. Keep up the great work!
@@jeanataku3829 Why do you believe that her parents don't discipline her? They clearly stated that they DO discipline her. They just do not practice hitting or spanking.
Protect your beautiful daughter against those racists people asking racist and silly question. Tyanna Very amazing girl. I love you guys ❤ God bless your family
I grew up in an abusive environment both physical and emotional even sexual abuse by my uncle, it hurt so bad😢 I have forgiven everyone that hurt me in the past, I pray for their repentance; God is love! I love you guys .💯❤️
Parenting is so dear to all of us because most of us have wounds that we got from our parents. We can learn from each other but no one is perfect. We should just aim to do our best. Lots of love.
And vice versa. Somehow, you seem to forget the wounds (from the time of conception) you gave your parents, the 's--t' they've to literally take from you, however you look at it.
I'm guessing her participation in routines are so appreciated that it doesn't appear "being strict" to her She's having fun being included in routines 😊❤😂
I grew up being beaten by my Dad including my siblings, he was a disciplinarian by nature we had so much bad experience thru our growing up years. I believe in not spanking your child and talking to them is more effective. Love you Schoeller family.
You guys are always doing a fantastic job raising your daughter. A home full of love is all everyone can ask for and your daughter gets it 💯 keep up the good work.
Not ever kid goes through that "l hate you stage", l know l didn't. Loved and respected MY MOM and all that she did and still do and lm over 50. You two are AWESOME! I believe your daughter will grow with a deep appreciation.
I was beaten during my childhood and grew up fearing my father, and even today that fear of being hit by anyone has made me scared of people that are mad. I decided never to have children because of my fear that I had learnt about discipline. It also helped to increase my depression and anxiety, so I applaud you for your decision to not spank your child. The two of you are terrific parents!
It's important to ensure your child has a diverse group of friends, and has adults from her race around her. What may seem all cosy and secure now will change as she gets older.
It depends. People are people. Girl is surrounded by good people who invest a lot of love in her. She will grow with great safe esteem. She probably would not be hit by reflection or have any inferiority complex to compensate.
I truly believe y’all are doing Amazing! I adoptee my daughter from birth and I was told I babies her and she always slept with me. She is now about to be 22 in November and is SPC Hoffman MP, in the Army and will graduate EMT College December 2023… Y’all are raising a beautiful Warrior also !! God Bless y’all !
Tyanna is a happy child and is speaking so well. Parenting is trial and error based on so many variables. You guys are inspiring and informative. I enjoy watching you❤
I can’t believe people are accusing you for not giving her healthy food. In fact you’re the most healthy eaters I know and learn from. Don’t listen to this rubbish people. You are the perfect parents I wish I was to my son. I’m hoping in my next life I’ll be just like you. 🙏😍
Love the intentional parenting approach. Some of our parents did the best they knew, but as we learn better, we should strive to do better. She will be so much more well adjusted emotionally and better able to work through whatever life throws at her. Love following your families journey!❤
To the scholler family you guys are doing a wonderful job with Tianna love knows no color your her parents period your approach with her is gentle and patience and you have to have those traits to be a good parent 😊 keep up the good work forget the haters
Children should be allowed to say NO! They may have to say no to a stranger or an abuser. Discipline is necessary but abuse is not discipline. So we should nit discipline in anger. Always stay calm.
Recently started watching…. And I’m staying watching. You guys are AMAZING!!! I love your family channel, dinamic, respect for each other, how you all seem one… very rare to see honestly between step parents and well adopted families, you all have something very very special and you guys could teach others ways to achieve a great connection between adopted parents and children… books for adults/kids or even a dedicated channel for adoption related only
I stumbled across one of your shorts. It was a short of Tyanna with her step and suitcase traveling. Her sheer joy made me click on your channel. As I watched some of your videos I noticed you guys are such kind people. I think the amount of love and safety you guys provide for Tyanna is heartwarming. Listening to your adoption q&a videos and how you guys respond to very personal and at times confrontating questions is inspirering. It is very clear to me that you guys are navigating parenting the best that you guys can. You guys make a conscious effort to prioritize Tyanna's needs and make decisions that are in her best interest. You guys are awesome!
I truly love your take on physical discipline. Wow🙏🏾 It makes perfect sense because me getting beats when I was a child just made me afraid of my parents and afraid to open up.
You're doing an incredible job parenting your baby girl. Please don't mind the haters who feel entitled to impose their ignorance and prejudice. God bless you more abundantly. ❤❤❤
Hi dear parents. I think you are correct in telling people this is how "we" raise our child, "you" raise yours in your own way. One hope is that you will get her involved in some kind of music -- maybe piano, or other musical instrument, or even dancing -- so I just want to say, now is the time to do so (being the music teacher that I am -- smiles). Music is not just an arbitrary activity -- it can help with math skills, discipline, concentration, self-control, focus and a myriad of benefits including possible scholarships, etc... Sooooo, I hope one day I'll look in on you guys and I'll see Tyannna sitting patiently learning an instrument. P.S. it is recommended by the "experts" to start with the piano -- here again not just for arbitrary reasons.
Thank you guys for your love she is getting so BIG and she loves you and she's really happy where she's at you guys are good parents thank you for sharing❤ JESUS LOVE'S YOU SO MUCH ❤️
At the end of the day, as a parent you do the best you can with the resources and information you have. Culture plays a big part too. Once you understand that you become a lot less judgemental towards other parents including your own for doing things differently. You two seem to be doing great!! The idea of homeschooling doesn’t really sit well with me but studies show that homeschooled kids turn out just fine. So really whichever way you go, it will be just fine. And you can always change your mind if it doesn’t fit. Great video, and beautiful family 😊
Tyanna the best kid, she uses manners all the time, she says thank you bcuz she appreciates you two. And my favorite thing is how she really Listens to you guys . I don’t think you guys are her think about color you just enjoy your Life💪🏾💯❤️
Beautiful Family and I know when Tyanna gets older she's going to love You BOTH More Than You'll Ever imagine ❤ continue to be great parents ❤ I love your honesty Jon 🥰
I love the way you guys answered those questions;Tianna is a toddler and as she grows there will be different methods/levels of discipline..do what's best for ur family, continue to love and cherish each other and stay blessed 😊love from Trinidad 🇹🇹
You Are Right ! You Are The Captains of Your Ship . There Are A Lot of Mean Miserable Trolls out There . I 😍 Love The Way You Two Are Raising Your Daughter 🤗 😘.
Thanks for the feedback and I understand , what people don't seems to understand is parents are their child/children first line of defense and their child first line of destruction , and Jon is very correct on saying every child is different and will requires different parenting , just keep loving and protecting your child she is worth it and more
I just found your channel, so I’m late to the party. I taught in public and private schools. Trust me, home school and military kids were awesome!Nothing beats traveling and seeing things for themselves, that type of learning could never be beat by reading a textbook!💕
There are many many great mothers but its still unusual to see a great father to his daughter. Fathers are so important to daughters, its the one they will compare men too. As a woman who had very little to no attention from her father its something I love to see.
So much warmth, love and affection in your home, and that’s all a child needs to thrive. You guys are such great parents. I admire the both of you and your parenting skills ❤️
We travel a lot and have a 4 year old and a 5 year old. After covid, they both got to go to school and it was the absolute best thing we ever did. Montessori 100% is the way to go honestly.
A lot of people are saying: you are good/great parents. Others may differ because your parenting style is not conservative. I think the general consensus should be: whatever works for you.
@@TheSchoellerFamily I'm all for research...and just be mindful that whatever you put out there can be a representation of what your family practice...so they are going to judge you on that. Love you guys
Okay random but y'all need to Google "young Britney Spears smiling" and you'll see the ressemblance with Rhianna 😮it's crazy! You're gorgeous. And your family with Jon and Tyanna is so precious! Keep up the good work 💕
Both of you are such good parents, you are damn right your child,you all are doing a great job with her the way how both of you love her is great,love you all keep up the good work you all are blessed,
I have so much respect for you guys! I don't know where to begin. Been watching your videos for a while now. You are going to get criticized no matter what but I'm glad that you do what's right for your family. You guys are awesome. 💕
Rhianna has a beautiful smile...she's always smiling and looks happy..i think mixed schooling is great! She needs to be with her friends at school as she is an only child and you two need time to yourself as well. And if you want her to travel you take but, i am not sure how the american system works...
I love you all… your family makes me so proud . You are doing an amazing job. Parenting can be challenging and rewarding all in one moment. Ignore the negative comments it’s just ignorance . We love watching gabby girl grow up. Keep the travel videos coming.
I don't feel that your daughter could have been blessed with better parents. I am a black mother of 2 adult daughters and I know what it's like to raise girls. I was opposed to ppl raising children of a different race b4 I began watching your videos. I feel the love you two have and it fills my heart that you love her so much. Thank you for loving her and proving to the world color doesn't matter!
Amen 🙏🙏🙏
I’m so relieved you’ve “come round”. Just wondering why you was originally opposed to that 🤔
@@fizzypop1249😂😂 funny but valid question. I’d also like to know.
John and Rhianna,am praying for your family and for the healing of John"s ankle. Your guys are doing a really good job. Let the Haters hate, and continue the openess of your hearts. Blessings
You were right! One word….MONETIZATION
Honestly, I had no idea you guys received so many opinions about parenting/racism etc. Please know you have fans who truly support you and enjoy watching your weekly vlogs💜
Thank you so much!
I only found your channel last week and doing binge watching. I cannot get enough of the Schoeller family, great family, mum, dad and beautiful little girl. I look forward to Sundays!
100% Right. The two of you are one of the best Parents ever. God bless both of you.
I didn't even have to watch this video to say that the two of you are doing a phenomenal jobs as parents!❤
Aww thank you! We are doing our best :)
So true
Right the question only come from ppl who's thinking weird that they adopted a black beautiful child.They are doing what any parents would do. That is they baby and I just love watching them, I follow them on IG & RUclips. I really love when they travel, Tyanna be so worn out just from all the fun shes having 🙃.
Truth❤
You guys are doing a wonderful job of raising your daughter Tyanna the love the support the kindness that you guys are given to her is beautiful she loves you guys so much so it should not matter what other people say about you raising a girl that is not the same race is you are it doesn't matter
Tyanna looks so cute in her glasses
I’m sorry people feel like they can tell you how you should/shouldn’t raise your daughter 👎 please ignore the negative or intrusive comments - Tyanna is clearly a happy, healthy, emotionally intelligent little girl so y’all are obviously doing an excellent job. Love y’all and thanks for sharing your lives with us 🫶
Thank you for the nice comment 🥰
Jon is such a protector of his family❤️❤️❤️
Great parents. This baby is well loved. Color doesn't matter. Love is the most important part of being a good parent. You both are a blessing to her. ❤
You're freaking awesome parents!!!! 🤗💝💐🦋
Incríveis mesmo❤
Mad respect to you both. You are Amazing parents and people!!
I admire you guys so much!
Cheers from Toronto, Canada ❤
I totally agree
YESSSS💖💖💖
@@elainecristinacristina2657 🤗💝💐🦋
I wish my own parents had parented me like you guys parent Tyanna. My parents were very strict. My brothers and I basically had to be quiet around adults and not to speak until spoken to. We also got paddled and were not encouraged or shown much love. To this day, I am quiet, shy, and have low self-esteem. So keep on being the great parents you are to your beautiful daughter! She is very blessed to have both of you for parents! 😊❤ ❤
As a 72 year old grandma, watching my children raise their children without corporal punishment, I totally agree with you , How could we ever, back in the day have thought that was a good idea ? When you know better you do better.
My cousins were beaten by their mother as punishment (I don't call her my aunt, I hate her). One of them literally had a bloody nose. The kids should have been taken away but it wasn't taken as seriously 30 years ago. And guess what? All those kids despise her now. Shocker.
Amen!
😘
I think you're doing great introducing healthy foods early on. Don't feel bad to say No and don't allow her to say NO back. Use your own disciplinenary style but don't be too soft. Give her tough love! She has to learn that every time she goes into a store she doesn't has to get a toy. Also teach her about the less fortunate. Overall yall are doing great. I'm new and love watching your vblogs
I think its also super important to have her around diversity and children who look like her. Im a white parent to black children and it was important for me to live in a diverse neighborhood and my children go to a diverse public school and be around other black children, as well as incorporate their culture into our daily lives.
Amen! Thank you for posting this. My community, if not assembled to it at anytime, can cause an identity crisis.💔
That's why they chose to live in a diverse area and have black people in their inner circle. Tyanna is around her bio family and loves being around her cousins on that side of her.
@@bathos22 yes, I am aware of that and have noticed her with her cousins recently. However, often certain things can be a struggle at no one's fault. I watched Kapernicks documentary even though he was around others, who looked like him he figured some things out on his own. The parents did not notice certain treatments he received as a black person with parents of another race. I love this family's videos and I don't believe anyone means any harm, at least I don't.
As a black mom. The more diverse schools in my town are ghetto. So unfortunately my 5 year old goes to the "white" schools. Private schools. He sees his own with his cousins and his outside buddies.
@@rialequay1787 "As a black mom" Tell that to your racist kin.
I'm now watching this, and I honestly believe there's no better parent like you guys, you are doing a great job and I'm actually learning from you
My husband and I enjoy watching your channel. Racism will always exist, and since my husband and I are an interracial couple, we love to stare back or wave at ignorant folks who may stare at us.
I’m just a middle aged white woman from alabama but I hate racism and when I’m with my black family members I do a lot of staring back. I’m very impulsive so it’s a win for me to keep my mouth shut.
That is the very best thing to do...Smile and wave at ignorance. It shows up ignorance and the stupidity it truly is.
I'm a African American woman who raised my son,s best friend who is white with blue eyes ,blonde hair,and yes we experienced racism.
John is sooo funny when it comes down to Tyanna . You are the most disciplinary 😂😂😂😂
Time out, and taking away her toys are the best punishment. I use to take away my child electronics and make her read because she hated it. She became so great at reading over the years.
You all are amazing parents. Tyanna is blessed to have you. Don’t let the idiots who are racist get to you, they’re dumb.
I enjoy watching ur daughter she is sweet and she is polite.❤
She's the best :)
Everyone has their own parenting ideals and too many have opinions of other people's parenting styles. I say, do whatever works for you and the lifestyle you lead. Tyanna seems a well rounded, well adjusted, happy and healthy child. You must be doing something right 😉
I loved this Q & A! I took custody of my 6 week old brother and I’ve had him for 15 months now! It’s been a struggle taking care of a child and I never had any previously. My boyfriend and I have been learning as we go. We are raising him as our own💙
@The.SchoellerFamily KeiAsia Allen
I hope everything turns it well for you
🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
GOD bless You all ❤
i grew up being beaten too and I 100% agree on the redirection, that would definitely make your child respect you rather than fear you. I don't think any good parent would rather their child fear them than respect them
(I'm 15 and from Kenya) love your videos!
My children received swats on the bottom, NOT BEATEN.. They did NOT grow up fearing me. They all respect me. To each his own.
All 10 of us would sleep with our mom even as adults until she would make us get out. Lol
You’re God sent, your daughter will always love you more than you can ever imagine 🙏🏾❤️❤️❤️ she will be a reflection of you both!
Yes, it's so important to realize that each child will need individualized parenting according to their developmental levels and personality.
Yep! Agreed.
I'm fairly new to your channel & I love you guy's!!! I pray the comments don't bother you both, as you do have fans that just adore how you're parenting your daughter. It's such a blessing both ways. Keep up the great work!
Please just try to discipline her. We know you love very much but as a growing child she needs to grow in all senses. Love you all.
@@jeanataku3829 Why do you believe that her parents don't discipline her? They clearly stated that they DO discipline her. They just do not practice hitting or spanking.
Intuitive parenting is KEY!
Protect your beautiful daughter against those racists people asking racist and silly question.
Tyanna Very amazing girl.
I love you guys ❤
God bless your family
I grew up in an abusive environment both physical and emotional even sexual abuse by my uncle, it hurt so bad😢 I have forgiven everyone that hurt me in the past, I pray for their repentance; God is love! I love you guys .💯❤️
We are so sorry that you had to go through that. That's awful and we hope you know that it is NOT your fault. :(
It was never your fault Shantel Always think of the positivities in life The goodness ❤
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Sorry to hear that
Parenting is so dear to all of us because most of us have wounds that we got from our parents. We can learn from each other but no one is perfect. We should just aim to do our best. Lots of love.
Agreed!
Well said ‼️
And vice versa. Somehow, you seem to forget the wounds (from the time of conception) you gave your parents, the 's--t' they've to literally take from you, however you look at it.
I'm guessing her participation in routines are so appreciated that it doesn't appear "being strict" to her
She's having fun being included in routines 😊❤😂
John looks good in blue! I love this family and you are doing an excellent job of parenting her.
You guys are quite good at parenting I love the fact that you allow Tyanna such choice as it develops critical thinking .
You guys are the best parents ever! The greatest! 100% 👍👍
Ty!!
In my opinion yes
I agree! These two are amazing
I grew up being beaten by my Dad including my siblings, he was a disciplinarian by nature we had so much bad experience thru our growing up years. I believe in not spanking your child and talking to them is more effective. Love you Schoeller family.
Sorry you had/have to deal with that :( We believe the same about there being alternative disciplinary solutions.
P.s. You'll have no clue what true Love is unless you come to the knowledge of the SAVING Love of God.
He is so lovely! I want a husband like him ❤
😊
Look at the wife too. They are smart and beautiful couple ❤
I need a husband like that to even though I know they have little issue, everybody do but love your love
My son slept with me until he was at least ten. I think even though I was a single parent, he turned out fine
I love your family, true love from the heart ❤️. You guys inspired the world 🌎. Love is not the color it's the posture of a good heart ♥️.
You guys are amazing the way you stay with Tiana am out of words honestly I have been watching your video am out of words.
People will always have an opinion. Raise your child the best possible way .
To what end? Unless you're able to answer that absolutely confidently, how do you determine what is best?
You guys are always doing a fantastic job raising your daughter. A home full of love is all everyone can ask for and your daughter gets it 💯 keep up the good work.
Your are very good parents don’t let no one tell your what to do
Thank you! The feedback can be overwhelming at times but we just continue to do our best.
You are such a great family. Your parenting style is working for you, so don’t let anyone tell you how to parent. Tyanna has the best life with you. ❤
You guys are great parents; do not care what anyone else says, please.
Ty!! :)
Not ever kid goes through that "l hate you stage", l know l didn't. Loved and respected MY MOM and all that she did and still do and lm over 50. You two are AWESOME! I believe your daughter will grow with a deep appreciation.
Thanks for sharing honestly. I love watching your channel! You guys do a great job with your daughter.
Thank you so much!
I was beaten during my childhood and grew up fearing my father, and even today that fear of being hit by anyone has made me
scared of people that are mad. I decided never to have children because of my fear that I had learnt about discipline. It also helped to increase my depression and anxiety, so I applaud you for your decision to not spank your child. The two of you are terrific parents!
Hello. So sorry that you have to deal with that trauma :(
Hahaha!! “Immediately, she’s got to pack her bags and get out!”😂😂 Too funny!!
It's important to ensure your child has a diverse group of friends, and has adults from her race around her. What may seem all cosy and secure now will change as she gets older.
It depends. People are people. Girl is surrounded by good people who invest a lot of love in her. She will grow with great safe esteem. She probably would not be hit by reflection or have any inferiority complex to compensate.
This! I think she’ll be just fine
Unfortunately, she has to be prepared for the racism she will face. The love you are showing her now will certainly help with that.
That was a great video, and please keep doing the things you do with Tyanna, and travelling is awesome for the kids
I truly believe y’all are doing Amazing! I adoptee my daughter from birth and I was told I babies her and she always slept with me. She is now about to be 22 in November and is SPC Hoffman MP, in the Army and will graduate EMT College December 2023…
Y’all are raising a beautiful Warrior also !!
God Bless y’all !
I say homeschool bc the schools nowadays are scary !!!
I started watching you before adopting my baby boy and you had such a huge impact on my journey. You’ve been so inspirational ❤
Luv luv luv this beautiful family 😊
you both doing great job as parents. and you all great
Tyanna is a happy child and is speaking so well. Parenting is trial and error based on so many variables. You guys are inspiring and informative. I enjoy watching you❤
You guys are awesome parents!!! ❤
Don't worry we have skinny ankles to..thank you so much for being so loving and caring 💖 💗 💕 💓 ❤️ 💛 💖 we appreciate you..
I can’t believe people are accusing you for not giving her healthy food. In fact you’re the most healthy eaters I know and learn from. Don’t listen to this rubbish people. You are the perfect parents I wish I was to my son. I’m hoping in my next life I’ll be just like you. 🙏😍
We've learned that no matter what we do, someone fill find soemething wrong with it. Oh well. Thanks for watching :)
Homeschool for the WIN! Try Abeka Homeschool and unschooling while traveling, along with co-op & kids groups!
Love the intentional parenting approach. Some of our parents did the best they knew, but as we learn better, we should strive to do better. She will be so much more well adjusted emotionally and better able to work through whatever life throws at her. Love following your families journey!❤
To the scholler family you guys are doing a wonderful job with Tianna love knows no color your her parents period your approach with her is gentle and patience and you have to have those traits to be a good parent 😊 keep up the good work forget the haters
Children should be allowed to say NO! They may have to say no to a stranger or an abuser. Discipline is necessary but abuse is not discipline. So we should nit discipline in anger. Always stay calm.
Home schooling is great. She has other opportunities to mix during parks and travel
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And I’m staying watching. You guys are AMAZING!!! I love your family channel, dinamic, respect for each other, how you all seem one… very rare to see honestly between step parents and well adopted families, you all have something very very special and you guys could teach others ways to achieve a great connection between adopted parents and children… books for adults/kids or even a dedicated channel for adoption related only
I stumbled across one of your shorts. It was a short of Tyanna with her step and suitcase traveling. Her sheer joy made me click on your channel. As I watched some of your videos I noticed you guys are such kind people. I think the amount of love and safety you guys provide for Tyanna is heartwarming. Listening to your adoption q&a videos and how you guys respond to very personal and at times confrontating questions is inspirering. It is very clear to me that you guys are navigating parenting the best that you guys can. You guys make a conscious effort to prioritize Tyanna's needs and make decisions that are in her best interest. You guys are awesome!
You guys are too funny with the joke on grass eating 😂❤❤❤
Just a couple of vegans in the wild.
You guys are a beautiful family and I am a true fan.❤❤❤
I love you guy's bond as a couple, I think you guy's are really great parents.
Enjoy your travels, that's a Beautiful time in life! Good luck with everything! God Bless ❤️😅
I love her skin! It looks so healthy ❤
Yall are doing a great job!!! We love Tyanna a lot 💕💕💕
I truly love your take on physical discipline. Wow🙏🏾 It makes perfect sense because me getting beats when I was a child just made me afraid of my parents and afraid to open up.
You guys warm my ❤️
You're doing an incredible job parenting your baby girl. Please don't mind the haters who feel entitled to impose their ignorance and prejudice. God bless you more abundantly. ❤❤❤
Hi dear parents. I think you are correct in telling people this is how "we" raise our child, "you" raise yours in your own way. One hope is that you will get her involved in some kind of music -- maybe piano, or other musical instrument, or even dancing -- so I just want to say, now is the time to do so (being the music teacher that I am -- smiles). Music is not just an arbitrary activity -- it can help with math skills, discipline, concentration, self-control, focus and a myriad of benefits including possible scholarships, etc... Sooooo, I hope one day I'll look in on you guys and I'll see Tyannna sitting patiently learning an instrument. P.S. it is recommended by the "experts" to start with the piano -- here again not just for arbitrary reasons.
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I respect your transparency here. I don't have kids but I believe that my parenting style would be very similar to yours if I were to have them
Thank you guys for your love she is getting so BIG and she loves you and she's really happy where she's at you guys are good parents thank you for sharing❤ JESUS LOVE'S YOU SO MUCH ❤️
Amén ❤❤
What you said about not hitting makes so much sense. Thank you.
At the end of the day, as a parent you do the best you can with the resources and information you have. Culture plays a big part too. Once you understand that you become a lot less judgemental towards other parents including your own for doing things differently. You two seem to be doing great!! The idea of homeschooling doesn’t really sit well with me but studies show that homeschooled kids turn out just fine. So really whichever way you go, it will be just fine. And you can always change your mind if it doesn’t fit. Great video, and beautiful family 😊
Thank you for being supportive and open-minded :)
Tyanna the best kid, she uses manners all the time, she says thank you bcuz she appreciates you two. And my favorite thing is how she really Listens to you guys . I don’t think you guys are her think about color you just enjoy your Life💪🏾💯❤️
Beautiful Family and I know when Tyanna gets older she's going to love You BOTH More Than You'll Ever imagine ❤ continue to be great parents ❤ I love your honesty Jon 🥰
We hope so!!
You guys are amazing parents. God bless
I love the way you guys answered those questions;Tianna is a toddler and as she grows there will be different methods/levels of discipline..do what's best for ur family, continue to love and cherish each other and stay blessed 😊love from Trinidad 🇹🇹
You Are Right ! You Are The Captains of Your Ship . There Are A Lot of Mean Miserable Trolls out There . I 😍 Love The Way You Two Are Raising Your Daughter 🤗 😘.
Thanks for the feedback and I understand , what people don't seems to understand is parents are their child/children first line of defense and their child first line of destruction , and Jon is very correct on saying every child is different and will requires different parenting , just keep loving and protecting your child she is worth it and more
I just found your channel, so I’m late to the party. I taught in public and private schools. Trust me, home school and military kids were awesome!Nothing beats traveling and seeing things for themselves, that type of learning could never be beat by reading a textbook!💕
There are many many great mothers but its still unusual to see a great father to his daughter. Fathers are so important to daughters, its the one they will compare men too. As a woman who had very little to no attention from her father its something I love to see.
I will always do my best for her and her mother :)
❤ I think you guys are doing a phenomenal job. I am a grandmother of 5 I had did things differently . You guys are awesome parents
So much warmth, love and affection in your home, and that’s all a child needs to thrive. You guys are such great parents. I admire the both of you and your parenting skills ❤️
We travel a lot and have a 4 year old and a 5 year old. After covid, they both got to go to school and it was the absolute best thing we ever did. Montessori 100% is the way to go honestly.
A lot of people are saying: you are good/great parents. Others may differ because your parenting style is not conservative. I think the general consensus should be: whatever works for you.
Agreed. But we do think that research and peer reviewed studies should be considered for best practices. :)
@@TheSchoellerFamily I'm all for research...and just be mindful that whatever you put out there can be a representation of what your family practice...so they are going to judge you on that. Love you guys
totally agree on your parenting principles and realize how taxing some situations r...
I love how you do hair.
Okay random but y'all need to Google "young Britney Spears smiling" and you'll see the ressemblance with Rhianna 😮it's crazy! You're gorgeous. And your family with Jon and Tyanna is so precious! Keep up the good work 💕
I just started watching your channel. And you guys are great parents. Much love ❤️
I am new to guys please page but from what I see little mama is very lucky keep up the good work Blessings
Both of you are such good parents, you are damn right your child,you all are doing a great job with her the way how both of you love her is great,love you all keep up the good work you all are blessed,
Love you guys, Her hair is Beautiful, she is Beautiful ❤
I have so much respect for you guys! I don't know where to begin. Been watching your videos for a while now. You are going to get criticized no matter what but I'm glad that you do what's right for your family. You guys are awesome. 💕
Rhianna has a beautiful smile...she's always smiling and looks happy..i think mixed schooling is great! She needs to be with her friends at school as she is an only child and you two need time to yourself as well. And if you want her to travel you take but, i am not sure how the american system works...
I love your family. What a beautiful union. God bless you all. 💖💕
Best parents keep on doing great❤❤
Your parenting skills are example setting and anyone watching can learn a lot from your well thought out loving affectionate connection.❤❤❤
You both would be loving parents and your baby is in the best place.
I love you all… your family makes me so proud . You are doing an amazing job. Parenting can be challenging and rewarding all in one moment. Ignore the negative comments it’s just ignorance . We love watching gabby girl grow up. Keep the travel videos coming.