I want people to realize that this is HER pregnancy journey that she is sharing with us. This is NOT strictly for our entertainment. This is her life that she is in control of. No one has any right to suggest anything concerning major decisions in her pregnancy. She is her own person with her own decisions to make. She shares her life on RUclips for work, not for the opinions of others.
That is the cutest reason for not finding out. I was a bit sad (?) to not know (just a teeny tad bit) and didn't understand why it was a big deal to not know but how very very sweet and loving of you to be conscientious of Zach's feelings...
Finding out the gender early is a completly personal choice and don't worry about what anyone else thinks or wants. You do you girl. Oh, and absolutely get massages! I wish I had done them sooner. They helped with all the aches and pains and with my headaches and migraines.
Yay for all the babies coming! My sister had her second baby three weeks after I had my daughter and it’s been so fun having them play together and watching them grow up together.
you are such a kind person and amazing mama! it's so rotten that people make you feel like you have to explain yourself. little bump will have a blessed life no matter what gender they are. this is your pregnancy, your family, and i hope that you do everything you need to in order to enjoy this wonderful time in your life. sending lots of love x
Hi Delilah! it's my first ever msg to anyone on youtube. I have one baby 8 months old. I just wanted to share my pregnancy experience to you. While I was having my ultrasound scan done in 20th week I coincidently....unintentionally came to know the gender of my baby while i was looking at my baby on the monitor of ultrasound machine. And what I saw was right. My heart filled with candies just by knowing what's inside me. That just happened completely unintentionlly.
You do what feels right! Life is too short to worry about the random meany (I know easier said then done). Love you and your channel. Thank you for being transparent and sharing your journey.
You have no reason to apologize, this is your pregnancy. I agree with your comment on compromise within the marriage. My husband wanted to know the gender right away, and I was okay without knowing. So we ended up finding out and kept it secret, everyone thought we were going to be surprised. It was great for us. Congratulations to your family!
We love not finding out for both our girls! I absolutely adored my husband being the one to tell me the gender during birth rather than a doctor telling me in an ultrasound. It made it that much more special for my husband and it really gave him a big part in the whole experience. It’s so fun! And we won’t do anything different here on out!
Recently started watching your videos. Love your cute lil family😊... I'm actually pregnant with my first bby right now so watching your videos is super helpful. Especially since it turns out our due dates are very close!!
I have such a feeling it's a little boy, I think Eloise's spunky personality would get along so well with a baby brother! But a sister would be fun to boss around as well 😂
Hi delilah.. its absolutely your's and zach's decision only.. you donot need to explain yourself or apologize for not finding out the gender. Praying for your baby and your family. God bless. Btw.. eloise is so precious im sure the next baby will be too. ❤
Where I come from (netherlands) it's very common to not know the gender and wait until the birth. It's not odd at all and the baby would be loved either way so why should it matter what gender the baby is? It's all about having a healthy, happy baby right? Very sweet video!
I'm American living in the Netherlands lol small world... I found out the gender but actually it never cross my mind to leave it for a surprise but what a beautiful idea...
I am from Holland too and I have never really known that it is common. I thought it was common to find out, personally I will once I finally conceive, but I think it is up to the couple. If they don't want to find out it is definitely their decision. Either way it is never a strange thing, there are so many people who don't find out and I think it is totally normal.😋
Congrats to your in law family and to you, auntie and uncle!😁 Such happy news. Little cousins plus a new baby brother or sister for Eloise to play with. How exciting! That's so nice of you to consider Zach's feeling about this... I couldn't do it, lol! I was like, I push baby out, I wanna know!😝 Was miss Eloise emptying the kitchen cupboards?😜 She's sooo cute!😍
Everyone is different and have different needs and longings in a pregnancy ❤️ I totally respect and understand your choice to not now the gender ☺️I am having trouble with ligament pains, so uncomfortable!! :/
We are waiting too! We tried to see but the cord was in the way so we took it as a sign to wait. My husband never wanted to but now he's super excited to announce it to me as baby is born. Plus we already love gender neutral clothes and decor so no biggie. I LOVE the anticipation of waiting! My fam not so much.....lol💁
I don't think you should explain yourself about not finding out the gender, it is your decision and you should not be worried about the haters. It is your life, it is a big decision and I think it is a good thing you guys aren't finding out if you feel like it is the right thing to do for you 2. You guys are awesome.
Congratulations to ua sis n law nd cousin..I think ua having a pretty lil gal 💖on the way...jus guessing. ...I ould like to see more of what I eat in a day video's nd also how u ould do a make over to eloises room b4 d baby arrives...excited for all those updates..😘
Did you mean 21 weeks and 5 days? Was watching and you said 21 days and 5 weeks. Lol. Baby brain. I'm 29 weeks and 5 days and i leave the cereal in the fridge!
You're not leading anyone on about the gender! Your journey is your journey and is subject to change! As a viewer I'm excited to find out whenever you do, and am happy to have the privilege to get the peek into your life!
I want people to realize that this is HER pregnancy journey that she is sharing with us. This is NOT strictly for our entertainment. This is her life that she is in control of. No one has any right to suggest anything concerning major decisions in her pregnancy. She is her own person with her own decisions to make. She shares her life on RUclips for work, not for the opinions of others.
That is the cutest reason for not finding out. I was a bit sad (?) to not know (just a teeny tad bit) and didn't understand why it was a big deal to not know but how very very sweet and loving of you to be conscientious of Zach's feelings...
Finding out the gender early is a completly personal choice and don't worry about what anyone else thinks or wants. You do you girl.
Oh, and absolutely get massages! I wish I had done them sooner. They helped with all the aches and pains and with my headaches and migraines.
Don’t apologize for not sharing the gender! I’m pretty excited to follow you along this journey till the end to see what baby is! I’m team blue 💙
Yay for all the babies coming! My sister had her second baby three weeks after I had my daughter and it’s been so fun having them play together and watching them grow up together.
you are such a kind person and amazing mama! it's so rotten that people make you feel like you have to explain yourself. little bump will have a blessed life no matter what gender they are. this is your pregnancy, your family, and i hope that you do everything you need to in order to enjoy this wonderful time in your life. sending lots of love x
Hi Delilah! it's my first ever msg to anyone on youtube. I have one baby 8 months old. I just wanted to share my pregnancy experience to you. While I was having my ultrasound scan done in 20th week I coincidently....unintentionally came to know the gender of my baby while i was looking at my baby on the monitor of ultrasound machine. And what I saw was right. My heart filled with candies just by knowing what's inside me. That just happened completely unintentionlly.
Team pink! So happy for you guys and I think it's great that you're waiting to find out! It's your pregnancy journey!
You do what feels right! Life is too short to worry about the random meany (I know easier said then done). Love you and your channel. Thank you for being transparent and sharing your journey.
Im 22 weeks now...everytime i watch your videos it gives me confidence about motherhood since this is my first pregnancy...hi eloise
You look so happy!!!! I’m glad you followed your heart with this decision 💛💛💛
You have no reason to apologize, this is your pregnancy. I agree with your comment on compromise within the marriage. My husband wanted to know the gender right away, and I was okay without knowing. So we ended up finding out and kept it secret, everyone thought we were going to be surprised. It was great for us. Congratulations to your family!
We love not finding out for both our girls! I absolutely adored my husband being the one to tell me the gender during birth rather than a doctor telling me in an ultrasound. It made it that much more special for my husband and it really gave him a big part in the whole experience. It’s so fun! And we won’t do anything different here on out!
Recently started watching your videos. Love your cute lil family😊...
I'm actually pregnant with my first bby right now so watching your videos is super helpful. Especially since it turns out our due dates are very close!!
I have such a feeling it's a little boy, I think Eloise's spunky personality would get along so well with a baby brother! But a sister would be fun to boss around as well 😂
Hi delilah.. its absolutely your's and zach's decision only.. you donot need to explain yourself or apologize for not finding out the gender. Praying for your baby and your family. God bless. Btw.. eloise is so precious im sure the next baby will be too. ❤
I’m so excited that you’re not finding out! I wanted to it to be a surprise to but gave in and found out and now I regret it.
I'm so excited too :)
Where I come from (netherlands) it's very common to not know the gender and wait until the birth. It's not odd at all and the baby would be loved either way so why should it matter what gender the baby is? It's all about having a healthy, happy baby right? Very sweet video!
I'm American living in the Netherlands lol small world... I found out the gender but actually it never cross my mind to leave it for a surprise but what a beautiful idea...
I am from Holland too and I have never really known that it is common. I thought it was common to find out, personally I will once I finally conceive, but I think it is up to the couple. If they don't want to find out it is definitely their decision. Either way it is never a strange thing, there are so many people who don't find out and I think it is totally normal.😋
@@CB-jv6cj oh wow , Hi there :) sending baby dust your way...
@@Chassymusic Thank you so much 😊 Waiting to find out if this is finally the month right now, I expect af within the next 5 days so 🤞🤞.
@@CB-jv6cj sending much luck you way.. :)
Congrats to your in law family and to you, auntie and uncle!😁 Such happy news. Little cousins plus a new baby brother or sister for Eloise to play with. How exciting!
That's so nice of you to consider Zach's feeling about this... I couldn't do it, lol! I was like, I push baby out, I wanna know!😝
Was miss Eloise emptying the kitchen cupboards?😜 She's sooo cute!😍
Haha she was emptying the coffee nook 😂 It kept her entertained at least!
Everyone is different and have different needs and longings in a pregnancy ❤️ I totally respect and understand your choice to not now the gender ☺️I am having trouble with ligament pains, so uncomfortable!! :/
We are waiting too! We tried to see but the cord was in the way so we took it as a sign to wait. My husband never wanted to but now he's super excited to announce it to me as baby is born. Plus we already love gender neutral clothes and decor so no biggie. I LOVE the anticipation of waiting! My fam not so much.....lol💁
I don't think you should explain yourself about not finding out the gender, it is your decision and you should not be worried about the haters. It is your life, it is a big decision and I think it is a good thing you guys aren't finding out if you feel like it is the right thing to do for you 2. You guys are awesome.
I honestly think it’s a boy 😭🐻 can’t wait to see you transition from one to two kids & Eloise into a big sister 💛
Congrats to your sister- in- law & cousin- in- law! :D
Congratulations to ua sis n law nd cousin..I think ua having a pretty lil gal 💖on the way...jus guessing. ...I ould like to see more of what I eat in a day video's nd also how u ould do a make over to eloises room b4 d baby arrives...excited for all those updates..😘
I’ll be doing lots of those videos in the New Year!
@@LoeppkysLife 💝wow dat sounds amazing
Did you mean 21 weeks and 5 days? Was watching and you said 21 days and 5 weeks. Lol. Baby brain. I'm 29 weeks and 5 days and i leave the cereal in the fridge!
Haha did I say that? Oh dear 😂
My sister in law is due two weeks after me can't wait for the babies to play with eachother
You're not leading anyone on about the gender! Your journey is your journey and is subject to change! As a viewer I'm excited to find out whenever you do, and am happy to have the privilege to get the peek into your life!
Those baby kicks !! 💛
Hi delilah how are you?
Didn’t you wait with Eloise too? I watched the video when she was born and you guys were like “it’s a girl” like nobody knew lol
yayy I am 2nd!!
21 days and 5 weeks haha pregnancy brain!
I think since you said the ultrasound person was “pretty confident” that it’s absolutely a girl. if it were a boy she would have been positive.
You’re beautiful!
I think you should make a video in which you revel baby name in cake
It's a girl