dinner with girlfriend and her parents

Поделиться
HTML-код
  • Опубликовано: 27 окт 2024

Комментарии • 194

  • @bwgbwg1529
    @bwgbwg1529 5 лет назад +164

    if you think that the first dinner with your girlfriend's parents was a bit "awkward",
    you might watch this.... :D

    • @skidmark2704
      @skidmark2704 5 лет назад +13

      Fair enough, but my girlfriends parents were deaf, and her dad insisted on talk to me. Accents are one thing, but that was a bit much.

    • @y-o-u-b
      @y-o-u-b  6 месяцев назад +3

      exactly the reason why i uploaded it 12 years ago, a friend told be an experience whith his new fiance, and to make it seem much milder, i showed him this ^^ unfortunately she didnt find it funny

  • @thecartercrew3725
    @thecartercrew3725 3 года назад +83

    Even the "normal" parts of this film are so surreal and frightening. You just never know when something is about to go south

  • @gagemcnew
    @gagemcnew 2 года назад +70

    i love the dad so much he’s just so funny

    • @3hooks781
      @3hooks781 Год назад +7

      Same! Carried this whole scene on his back! LOL!

    • @DyslexicTurtle
      @DyslexicTurtle 4 месяца назад +2

      I feel like I know him

  • @mmaforever594
    @mmaforever594 4 года назад +40

    2:14 the fucking bizarre little spaz attack she has is so disturbing and even more disturbing how the mum just starts brushing her hair and acting completely oblivious to it

  • @jacobd8086
    @jacobd8086 2 года назад +35

    The scene is a good way to describe a anxiety attack that’s building up

  • @hootinouts
    @hootinouts 4 года назад +33

    I put every pipe in this damn neighborhood, look at my knees

    • @Doctormario4600
      @Doctormario4600 3 года назад +8

      LOOK AT MY KNEEEEES

    • @andta7889
      @andta7889 4 месяца назад +1

      The knee symbolizes food. When bill says are you hungry after provoking the audience to look at his knees, he is suggesting that knees are a stable source of nutrition for life.

  • @hansgoober35
    @hansgoober35 4 года назад +40

    Those puppies nursing on the dog makes me massively uncomfortable for some reason

    • @danny-li6io
      @danny-li6io 3 года назад +11

      The suckling noise is similar to dragging nails down a chalkboard!

  • @AlephNeil
    @AlephNeil 2 года назад +23

    "Oh, I'm sorry!" gets me every time.

  • @francisco9999
    @francisco9999 6 лет назад +74

    Incredible scene. Lynch was/is a genious

  • @abominusrex3205
    @abominusrex3205 2 года назад +20

    Comparatively this is less awkward than the dinner I had with my girlfriend's parents.

  • @jessicagilbert1974
    @jessicagilbert1974 2 месяца назад +3

    Nobody has even mentioned that Mary was also Miss Beadle in Little House on the Prairie, Charlotte Stewart is an amazing person btw.

  • @chrisitl
    @chrisitl 5 лет назад +47

    R.I.P. Jack Nance 🖤

  • @atticuskoch2965
    @atticuskoch2965 2 года назад +44

    They really pioneered "The Big Bang Theory with no laugh track" trend in 1974.

  • @danny-li6io
    @danny-li6io 3 года назад +52

    Relative to today’s social standards, these 5 people might be considered artful conversationalists.

    • @abcrane
      @abcrane 2 года назад +8

      note to self: Lynch is not a movie to watch during dinner

    • @y-o-u-b
      @y-o-u-b  6 месяцев назад +1

      yes

  • @johnduffy6992
    @johnduffy6992 5 лет назад +53

    nobody mentioned granny tossing the salad? ehhhh.

    • @spontina
      @spontina 5 лет назад +15

      "Tossing the salad" is a sexual expression which is why granny smokes after tossing. One of those puppies is now rumored to be the baby.

  • @Brock2097
    @Brock2097 2 года назад +20

    Very kind of Mary's mom to get grandma to help out with dinner and a smoke

    • @SamuelBlack84
      @SamuelBlack84 2 месяца назад +1

      She wanted to feel involved 😊

  • @blasthead1722
    @blasthead1722 6 лет назад +121

    My therapist told me that I was "too happy" and that wasn't good. He prescribed my viewing this movie.

    • @AliensAnonymous
      @AliensAnonymous 4 года назад +16

      Nobody goes to a therapist becasue they're too happy.

    • @alancosta4760
      @alancosta4760 4 года назад +11

      @@AliensAnonymous exactly hahaha

    • @andta7889
      @andta7889 4 месяца назад +1

      False assumption. A therapists job is to set the optimal level of emotional ratio between all members of society. If one member has too much happiness, it is there job to redistribute the resource to other entities.

  • @Diakonov29
    @Diakonov29 12 лет назад +60

    well henry whadya know?

    • @riley5722
      @riley5722 4 года назад +1

      Are you still with us Ryan?

    • @shanedigby
      @shanedigby 2 года назад +7

      😀.......Oh...I don't know much of anything....................................😀

  • @robertjensen1048
    @robertjensen1048 Месяц назад +2

    Wait until you see the baby. This part here is NOTHING.

  • @gibbons9599
    @gibbons9599 6 месяцев назад +5

    I love Lynch’s ability to turn everyday situations into a nightmare. He really allows the audience to get into the mind and emotions of his characters by presenting the viewer not “reality”, but a particular kind of evocative imagery. It’s almost impossible to tell when he’s being excessive because nearly every scene wants you to have the most extreme reaction possible - and I think that’s why it works so well. Nothing is left untouched by the nightmare, be it subtle awkward interactions like meeting the parents to a woman screaming in terror as she’s murdered by her father possessed by his childhood trauma.

    • @y-o-u-b
      @y-o-u-b  6 месяцев назад +2

      i think more of his films as an impressionistic or other classic, non-kitsch painting come to life and "work" like an intense dream oder nightmare "work", not intentionally. and at the same time there are on the other hand strong elements of immense beauty (not so much in eraserhead, but e.g. in twin peaks, which i suppose you are referencing ("childhood trauma" = bob??) represented by, or just present as the love of james, the soulfulness of cooper, the musical expression by badalamenti which sadly passed away recently, etc

    • @austindarrenor
      @austindarrenor 5 месяцев назад +2

      It's the awkward silence that gets me.

    • @jesco_biafra
      @jesco_biafra 5 месяцев назад +1

      Please tell me you didn't just spoil Twin Peaks for me 😭 I'm literally in the middle of the first season right now.

  • @theodore6710
    @theodore6710 4 года назад +32

    Three families you should never have dinner with:
    Sawyer Family.
    Baker Family.
    This Family.

  • @abcrane
    @abcrane 2 года назад +12

    the way I "read" Lynch: take away the weird stuff, you are left with the mundane neuroses of armored emotion, sexual repression, "normalization" of behavior...the general pathology that a Jung or a Freud would uncover...so the weird stuff is a metaphor for what lies under the facade of such a rigid, stale, lifeless "lifestyle" and culture. the stern frigid mother projecting her toxic standards on the boyfriend "what do you do?' probing to see his "social worthiness" while the neurotic daughter tries to seek the approval...

  • @jonathancarpenter5621
    @jonathancarpenter5621 3 года назад +10

    "What do you know.?" Well I don't know much of anything...

  • @m0kiee
    @m0kiee 5 лет назад +31

    Why is the chicken moving and bleeding? Why is the mom yelling like she's possessed? Why is the dad frozen? Why did the mom start licking henry?

    • @karlfriedmann5320
      @karlfriedmann5320 5 лет назад +37

      Ah a fellow seeker truth, asking the tough questions

    • @kellytrindles984
      @kellytrindles984 4 года назад +13

      I think she’s sexually suppressed

    • @Obama_OReilly
      @Obama_OReilly 4 года назад +7

      Because it is nightmarish and the director wanted the movie to be surreal and nightmarish

    • @gregmercil3968
      @gregmercil3968 3 года назад +6

      I read somewhere once that this whole movie is supposed to feel like you’re in a really weird dream, and only gets weirder as the movie progresses, as dreams usually do.

    • @Watcher4111
      @Watcher4111 3 года назад +1

      So you doesnt understand what surreal art is

  • @stanmonzon5788
    @stanmonzon5788 2 года назад +8

    Yes he sounds very clever.

  • @allyberg2792
    @allyberg2792 4 года назад +19

    This movies a trip

  • @suzanneallen6212
    @suzanneallen6212 4 года назад +20

    The sounds are so uncomforable. I love you david lynch

  • @amapaballpooper9979
    @amapaballpooper9979 5 лет назад +35

    This ambience sound is spooky

    • @AirSandFire
      @AirSandFire 4 года назад +10

      It's how anxiety sounds.

    • @gregmercil3968
      @gregmercil3968 3 года назад +3

      The spooky background noise really makes this movie.

  • @jellyfishrage33
    @jellyfishrage33 4 года назад +21

    Meeting the parents. It's never a happy, comfortable experience.

    • @SamuelBlack84
      @SamuelBlack84 2 месяца назад

      Especially as my ex-girlfriend's mother didn't speak English 😂

  • @user-yk6dn4rp4f
    @user-yk6dn4rp4f 5 лет назад +21

    The Dad reminds me of Jordan Peterson

  • @hootinouts
    @hootinouts 4 года назад +8

    David Lynch almost didn't hire Jeanne Bates for this scene as he thought she was too pretty.

    • @y-o-u-b
      @y-o-u-b  6 месяцев назад

      omg i just realised shes also the old lady in mulholland drive

  • @despertandoparaosomprofess522
    @despertandoparaosomprofess522 5 лет назад +21

    Great movie. For me, It's about getting married and having a baby when you just DON'T want it...

    • @grelm1322
      @grelm1322 5 лет назад +1

      You're extremely short-sighted and perhaps shallow if that's all you see in this

    • @despertandoparaosomprofess522
      @despertandoparaosomprofess522 5 лет назад +16

      @@grelm1322 That's not ALL I see... Anyway, people can see different things... This is how art works. Great that you can see different things too.

    • @alancosta4760
      @alancosta4760 4 года назад +2

      @@despertandoparaosomprofess522 it's about that and a lil bit

    • @alancosta4760
      @alancosta4760 4 года назад +2

      Não sei muito bem porque escrevi em inglês haha

    • @cgi_angel6001
      @cgi_angel6001 4 года назад +2

      Spot on!

  • @Emgee78
    @Emgee78 5 лет назад +24

    holy crap mary is the teacher from little house on the prairie!

    • @netzahuacoyotl
      @netzahuacoyotl 5 лет назад +6

      And she is Bobby Briggs' mom in Twin Peaks. Henry is Pete Martell in Twin Peaks.

    • @cuntdork
      @cuntdork 5 лет назад +3

      I *knew* she looked familiar!! Ha!

  • @kailattimore62
    @kailattimore62 5 лет назад +3

    thankyouu needed to analysis these scene for film studies and the other scenes where onnly the dinner scene with none of the context

  • @br33zy771
    @br33zy771 5 лет назад +35

    the only movie that actually scared my dog

  • @laureljade3476
    @laureljade3476 5 лет назад +11

    thanksgiving/christmas dinners be like.

  • @ryanwagner6715
    @ryanwagner6715 5 лет назад +12

    I guess we’re all a little weird

  • @rubylace9963
    @rubylace9963 5 лет назад +10

    can someone tell me what was up with that little chicken and why the mother was reacting that way?

    • @thenuke24
      @thenuke24 2 года назад +4

      this dinner’s getting mighty cold

    • @Koen75NL
      @Koen75NL 6 месяцев назад

      It's "man-made" chicken.

  • @nrqed
    @nrqed 5 лет назад +20

    I have always wondered how the sale pitch for this movie went....How did he get people to invest money to make it?!

    • @AnnaLVajda
      @AnnaLVajda 4 года назад +3

      I think he went around with 23 cans of film and got rejected repeatedly until the Toronto film fest picked it up.

    • @shape9381
      @shape9381 3 года назад +4

      I mean its all basically in rooms. Doesn't seem like it would take that much, especially with help from other like minded individuals.. and I'm sure a young Lynch was very.. charming.. as he is now

    • @SamuelBlack84
      @SamuelBlack84 2 года назад +3

      He paid for a lot of it with his own money

  • @ANDROLOMA
    @ANDROLOMA 2 года назад +2

    Children, this is why you should never mix your psilocybin with lysergic acid.

  • @ponyboycurtis3795
    @ponyboycurtis3795 11 месяцев назад +4

    The famous "chickens" 🤮 😂

  • @Lockinsign
    @Lockinsign 4 года назад +14

    How was this not made to drop acid to? Like I watched it last night, unpleasant, but worth it!

    • @BlacklightSummerOfficial
      @BlacklightSummerOfficial 4 года назад +1

      Lockinsign okay boomer

    • @alancosta4760
      @alancosta4760 4 года назад +1

      r u hungry?

    • @thinginground5179
      @thinginground5179 2 года назад

      Because no one wants a bad trip. How can you watch baby fetuses getting stamped on on acid? Wtf? It's morbid.

    • @Lockinsign
      @Lockinsign 2 года назад

      @@thinginground5179 sure your correct but trippy nonetheless. Consider me morbidly curious?

    • @thinginground5179
      @thinginground5179 2 года назад

      @@Lockinsign Bruh yes i will consider you morbidly curious

  • @russellm7530
    @russellm7530 3 года назад +3

    This reminds me of the family in TEXAS CHAINSAW MASSACRE 1.

  • @nicktownsend6872
    @nicktownsend6872 7 месяцев назад +1

    1:33 to 2:40 was the first moment they shot for the film. One single take. May 29, 1972.

  • @stellastar7979
    @stellastar7979 Год назад +4

    just finished this movie like 20 mins ago. literally the most disgusting and unsettling movie i’ve ever seen… throw away the 60+ horror movies i’ve already watched, this one takes the cake for the most confusing and stomach-turning film on my list. 😭

  • @kalj21
    @kalj21 Год назад +1

    The granny just sitting there 🤣🤣

    • @SamuelBlack84
      @SamuelBlack84 2 месяца назад

      She's seen things 😂

    • @kalj21
      @kalj21 2 месяца назад

      @@SamuelBlack84 How many premature babies pass through that house a year? Probably like five...
      HUNDRED!!!!

  • @andta7889
    @andta7889 4 месяца назад +1

    The chicken dinner scene symbolizes the creation of life. The chickens were small. Like a baby chick. Did the chicken or the egg come first? The scene answers this question. There is no egg. Instead gravy comes out of the chicken. So gravy is the source of all life.

  • @Enkarashaddam
    @Enkarashaddam 7 месяцев назад

    I love how grandma helps with the salad

  • @Buledde
    @Buledde 3 года назад +2

    Somehow , he hit the nail. Took me like 20 years.

  • @koanikal
    @koanikal 5 лет назад +8

    Whoa, a German version of a film that isn't dubbed!
    edit: You Germans totally know what I'm talking about :)

    • @CavangoVulgora
      @CavangoVulgora 5 лет назад +2

      So true, so true :(

    • @koanikal
      @koanikal 5 лет назад +2

      @@CavangoVulgora I feel for you if you live in Germany. I've had two friends who lived there for a while, and they mentioned the dubbing. Subtitles y'all. Then you get to hear the actors actually acting.

    • @y-o-u-b
      @y-o-u-b  6 месяцев назад

      @@koanikal seldomyl some dubbed versions e.g. clockwork orange, profit a lot from german dubbing

  • @New_Orleans_Ghost_Hunter
    @New_Orleans_Ghost_Hunter 7 месяцев назад

    The dad sounds like Scotty Kilmer 😂😂😂😂😂LOL

  • @jimsmith1856
    @jimsmith1856 4 года назад +4

    Couldn't live with that wallpaper.

  • @ATHFShakeZulah
    @ATHFShakeZulah 4 месяца назад +1

    Dinner at my mums is far scarier than this, not joking either.

  • @HYPNOGLANCE87
    @HYPNOGLANCE87 Год назад

    "Watches the entire video".
    Yea.....the dinners getting.....cold

  • @shanedigby
    @shanedigby 2 года назад +2

    Definitely the weirdest movie I have ever seen, but anything Lynch is weird. And I love it!

  • @monkeyboy4746
    @monkeyboy4746 Год назад

    Henry plays with the couch and it gives his girlfriend the Big-O.

  • @henrykrinkle9703
    @henrykrinkle9703 6 месяцев назад

    Where did you get this version of the film? It is in 4:3 and doesn’t just look like a pan&scan. I’d like to see a full version in this ratio!

    • @y-o-u-b
      @y-o-u-b  6 месяцев назад +1

      some file from somewhere more then a decade ago. maybe there is an "open matte" version, as discussed here: forum.fanres.com/thread-3583.html

    • @henrykrinkle9703
      @henrykrinkle9703 6 месяцев назад

      @@y-o-u-b Thank you for that link. I wonder if there are any mistakes or details visible in this open matte version. Lynch's storyboards for the film are in 1.85, I wonder if they framed things in that or 1.33. anyways, thank you .

    • @y-o-u-b
      @y-o-u-b  6 месяцев назад +1

      @@henrykrinkle9703 you can gather different versiones, compare them in a video editing software, and if needed make your custom framed, cropped version out of an open matte version etc. . btw i feel for this for a few moments, unfortunately only a joke: www.theonion.com/david-lynch-finally-releases-colorized-edition-of-eras-1829335485

  • @razenhell6514
    @razenhell6514 3 года назад +1

    It's bizarrely clever.

  • @teclasicbaldi
    @teclasicbaldi 2 года назад +1

    the only people to have fun watching this stuff were the actors playing in it, i like to imagine they were laughing a lot

  • @robbielad7760
    @robbielad7760 2 года назад +2

    I saw this when I was 10 and at 33 I finally know the name off this movie, I remember it disturbed me to this day and that's 23 years ago it was the chicken on the table crazy stuff

    • @MrShinTensei
      @MrShinTensei 2 года назад

      I'm almost 30. I feel yah I think I saw it around 12.

    • @nightshadegatito
      @nightshadegatito Год назад

      Saw it at like 14, always been in love w it

  • @yvonnemckay7287
    @yvonnemckay7287 5 лет назад +7

    Holy craps this movie is weird

  • @Rei-mn9mn
    @Rei-mn9mn 4 года назад +3

    wow this is super fucked up and i love it

  • @md3833
    @md3833 9 месяцев назад

    Drôle d'ambiance ! J'avais oublié 😂

  • @jaylady1136
    @jaylady1136 2 года назад +1

    This m movie reminds me of my dad my dad used to run a theater called uptown theater and he played this for a dollar movie at midnight I remember it very clearly I was 14 years old and I got to go to the movie to the movies that was so excited but this movie is so weird

  • @isabelbeckerman9226
    @isabelbeckerman9226 4 месяца назад

    I watched this bizarre film last week on Turner Classic Movies, and by GOD, I can't remember a movie that sets my skin crawling than this ghastly thriller. Eraserhead made me feel like I was anywhere near my emotional functionality because I couldn't comprehend completely the plot of the movie in its entirety. You have to wonder if director David Lynch went through an unstable and disabled stage in his life to showcase the breakdown of his mental capabilities in this film. If he did, he successfully made a name for himself by creating the most disturbing horror flick that can whimper the faintest of hearts horrendously.

    • @y-o-u-b
      @y-o-u-b  4 месяца назад

      yes its maybe the worst ever so far

  • @KENKENNIFF
    @KENKENNIFF 5 лет назад +3

    Holy Moly what was that all about

  • @CWPage
    @CWPage Год назад

    10:52
    "Well, ah... Mary?"
    "Mother! *Sob*"
    "Answer me!"
    "Too nervous."
    "There's a Baby. It's at the Hospital."
    "MOM!"
    "And you're the father."
    "But that's impossible, it's all---"
    "Mother, we're still unsure if it's a Baby!"
    "Pretty much sure there's a Baby. And the two of you are married, which is very soon you'll pick the baby up."
    Discuss what difference it makes whether the baby was a baby or not. LOL.

  • @joematthew495
    @joematthew495 4 года назад +1

    in-laws, am I right?

  • @supertrooperaspie9607
    @supertrooperaspie9607 5 лет назад +10

    This one of the sickest Films i have ever Seen !!! Confused ,tears ,esspecially at the end.wow

    • @dunce237
      @dunce237 5 лет назад +1

      super trooper aspie? The “sickest” you’ve seen?? Oh boy mister... you haven’t seen nothing yet.

    • @wleon4068
      @wleon4068 5 лет назад +1

      @@dunce237 Really? Seriously? You want to watch 'The Human Centipede 1 and 2

    • @dunce237
      @dunce237 5 лет назад +2

      W Leon LOL!! That’s more like a child’s cartoon compared to the flicks I consider “sick”

    • @TWH442
      @TWH442 5 лет назад

      @@dunce237 such as?

    • @Dbzmad34222
      @Dbzmad34222 5 лет назад +4

      @@dunce237 edgy

  • @Ugh_ah_Nyaaaa
    @Ugh_ah_Nyaaaa 3 месяца назад

    grandma didn't like that bubbles from chicken

  • @fuffoon
    @fuffoon 9 месяцев назад +1

    Its not funny to think that I really know the same discomfort. I have mingled with the dregs at the bottom of society. Its as comfortable as concrete underwear.

    • @y-o-u-b
      @y-o-u-b  9 месяцев назад

      its lynch .. his unique weirdness is great, quite impressionistic at times, it has to be uncomfortable to work

    • @bruh-pl2ls
      @bruh-pl2ls 8 месяцев назад

      I know exactly what you mean

  • @patrickniggli9686
    @patrickniggli9686 4 года назад +1

    Why did Bill freeze???

  • @BlacklightSummerOfficial
    @BlacklightSummerOfficial 4 года назад +7

    This film is a meme

  • @chrisruth7057
    @chrisruth7057 2 года назад

    This more strange than even Spider Baby

  • @Zauberkaffee2001
    @Zauberkaffee2001 Год назад

    Hhis is how I imagine purgatory to be!

  • @siriusvenus8708
    @siriusvenus8708 Год назад

    The address of this hell parent joint is 2416. 2+4=6 and 1+6=7. 6 is Hell and 7 is Heaven according to some wacked out numerologists. I think the address was intended to have some kind of meaning and not just a random address.

  • @onedayyoumay95
    @onedayyoumay95 4 года назад +2

    Why is the mom kissing him

    • @AnnaLVajda
      @AnnaLVajda 4 года назад +3

      Wild at heart the Mom tries to seduce Nick Cage too.

  • @mikeh2006
    @mikeh2006 2 года назад

    I don't know how to feel about this.

  • @mrbenoit5018
    @mrbenoit5018 Год назад

    At thr I like that the title doesn’t mention this is from a film

  • @opentrunk
    @opentrunk 6 лет назад +4

    Happy Thanksgiving 07:00

  • @Kickballkixcereal
    @Kickballkixcereal 2 года назад

    What is Mary doing at 2:16?

  • @stephenfox8685
    @stephenfox8685 8 месяцев назад

    Wish I knew what the deal was with the creepy mom.

    • @y-o-u-b
      @y-o-u-b  8 месяцев назад

      she seems the only sane one (besides some weird issues)

  • @stewartquark1661
    @stewartquark1661 8 месяцев назад

    Was the mother kissing his neck?

    • @stephenfox8685
      @stephenfox8685 8 месяцев назад

      No. She was fitting him for for a suit.

    • @stewartquark1661
      @stewartquark1661 8 месяцев назад

      @@stephenfox8685 I feel better. Will watch again

  • @bokehintheussr5033
    @bokehintheussr5033 3 года назад +1

    every christmas...

  • @mistylee683
    @mistylee683 Год назад

    Holy ghosts with the mostis

  • @mistylee683
    @mistylee683 Год назад

    I love u David Lynch

  • @MrShinTensei
    @MrShinTensei 2 года назад

    Well that was awkward

  • @robertomoers8261
    @robertomoers8261 5 лет назад +1

    To much is more than enough

  • @willoverdoseonmusic
    @willoverdoseonmusic 2 года назад

    normal tuesday

  • @melissamier7849
    @melissamier7849 2 года назад

    Little miss baby tate feel no paid

  • @mistylee683
    @mistylee683 Год назад

    🧑‍🦽

  • @VC-xj1fs
    @VC-xj1fs 5 лет назад

    What...the...fuck

  • @timstill152
    @timstill152 3 года назад +1

    gross and weird.

  • @paolaloeza2379
    @paolaloeza2379 9 месяцев назад

    Esposa me imagino lleva depresión pos parto

  • @bobjove6511
    @bobjove6511 3 года назад

    women....

  • @shawnmichaels8573
    @shawnmichaels8573 5 лет назад

    demented shit

  • @christopherthorkon3997
    @christopherthorkon3997 5 лет назад +1

    It used to be that this was considered a masterpiece of disturbing art. Now it just looks ridiculous.

  • @seanromanowski
    @seanromanowski 6 месяцев назад +1

    Women, amirite?