I just want to acknowledge I mispronounced Depti's name throughout this entire video, sorry about that. It's actually pronounced Deep-ti ( like tea ) not deep-ta. Hopefully you are able to still enjoy the video.
I just want to warn women and men that the opposite spectrum would be love bombing. Don’t fall for a person putting you on a pedestal either. It has to be balanced.
Shake is not even attractive though. The fact that he is white wash, egolistical and superficial it confuse me for who and what women gave him a chance or entertain him. People like him are never attractive.
Melted dark chocolate is beautiful. Iam sure you understand Shake has to overcompensate for living in a white world that may not celebrate his looks or his women's looks and features. So he wants to fit in so bad, he dissed his own people cause it his own internal hatred reflecting out. So blondes, white ladies his his "preference " it's really his programming and self rejection being expressed. Be easy on him. He is what African Americans battle for hundreds of years. Now we seeing it by other groups races live on TV.
Why did I just see this clip on TikTok and knew right away he just wanted to use her. They just met and he’s being extremely way too touchy and that’s disrespectful how he feels so entitled to touch her.
(Spoiler) I’m so proud of Deepti for choosing herself instead of Shake Shack…out of all the male participants he was the only one talking sht behind their girl 😭
@Ahe Ddi majority of Indian women tend to get midsection fat, loose skin and stretch marks after 25, added with not working out many times. Shake's mood changed when she wore a bikini. She gave aunty vibes right there.
I had an Indian Manager and he was the worst and our department was all female. He had that attitude and when you gave him push back he didn’t like that. His wife is a Pharmacist and he moved his mother in with them so that his wife couldn’t work to be home with his mother. During a one on one his wife kept calling him asking where was this and that. Why does she need to call you to find out where a prescription is at??? Talk about control. She called like 3 times looking for ish.
@@Samahsingsyes and even tho he was a Supervisor he felt that he should be in a higher position (Corporate level) so that was another thing with him. He felt that role was beneath him. Whew he was hell!!
@@Mochahontas091 Seems to be common. My mum manages nurses at a retirement home. One head chef was Indian and was always disrespectful towards the female staff. He even called a young Indian nurse ugly randomly one day. My Mom ended up getting rid of the Chef. The Chef tried to sue the workplace on the grounds of “racial discrimination”, but his record of bullying and harassment towards the female staff was high.
I am dealing with that now. Very sad and unfortunate, started with mixed signals that became very clear in short time. I am still hopeful.. though not until he cleans up his act and is healthier person.
Great reminders...It's in the mans effort, chase, willing to please, give, wondering when apart, desiring showing and telling that they falling in love. This stage never really stops, reduces once deep in love, but forever cat and mouse. Tell tell sign is joyfully sacrifice, consistency, and choosing you forever over all others. Depti didn't allow him to earn her, miss,desire, anticipate, allow space to chase. He may never fall but you wont be all in by yo self. It will be undeniable.
Can we stop w/ the Patriarchy view of relationships. He clearly is a narcissist & like many men built their view of women from caucasian beauty stamdards. Men like that view women as accessories. They are incapable of emotional intelligence.
Loved this video, but I’m confused about this relationship and you got me thinking that maybe I’m not seeing something here. Can I get some clarity. In my opinion Shake was real from the start(not in a good way), I think the producers allowed him to stay in to stir the pot/for views. Every person on both sides of the pods knew he was trash. Idk why Depti continued trying to fix him or see inside him when was an empty shell from the start. I think she thought she could fix him instead of looking for a husband she choose a project. She is an amazing and beautiful woman that should have never been treated like that and I am glad in the end she said no but she shouldn’t have encouraged this relationship at all especially after he made all those comments to her while still in the pods(weight, lifestyle, blondes).
She said she's doesn't believe in some of the aspects of their religion which he also agreed with. Deepti seemed to really want to be with an Indian man despite her dating history of blondes. She did give him a lot chances but it seems like a desire to be with someone from her community rather than anything else.
He was the most dislikable person in season 2 according to me. He’s entirely personality is soo annoying and cringy. Glad Deepti left this asshole and chose herself! More power to her❤
Girls watching this - the video creator is being extremist. Not all men operate this way. Men need space and boundaries at times. Relationships progress naturally. This victim mindset will plague your future relationships. Relationships are about boundaries. Treat a man well and if he cares about you he will treat you well back, some people need more time than others to warm up.
She was a low value woman from the start honestly letting him ask weird questions, grab her body so gross and she was also racist toward her own race she is not a victim she got her reflection. But made the right choice off course cause he never liked her physically
Right, she's not a victim. She was the accomplice and she decided to bounce. She accepted so much of his crap when the other women weren't having it at all.
I just want to acknowledge I mispronounced Depti's name throughout this entire video, sorry about that. It's actually pronounced Deep-ti ( like tea ) not deep-ta. Hopefully you are able to still enjoy the video.
No worries, still a great video!
I just want to warn women and men that the opposite spectrum would be love bombing. Don’t fall for a person putting you on a pedestal either. It has to be balanced.
Shake is not even attractive though. The fact that he is white wash, egolistical and superficial it confuse me for who and what women gave him a chance or entertain him. People like him are never attractive.
Shake is a 4
Deepti is a 2
Without his shirt, he is a 4 1/2 because he built
Deepti looks terrible in a bikini
@@AyanAli-py7ci your moms a 1
Melted dark chocolate is beautiful. Iam sure you understand Shake has to overcompensate for living in a white world that may not celebrate his looks or his women's looks and features. So he wants to fit in so bad, he dissed his own people cause it his own internal hatred reflecting out. So blondes, white ladies his his "preference " it's really his programming and self rejection being expressed.
Be easy on him. He is what African Americans battle for hundreds of years. Now we seeing it by other groups races live on TV.
@@ladyofspa you're thinking too much into this. He just wanted a fit girl. She looked bad in a bikini so said no
@@AyanAli-py7ci Shake is a 2. Deepti is an 8.
The way he grabbed her behind was sooo cringe
Why did I just see this clip on TikTok and knew right away he just wanted to use her. They just met and he’s being extremely way too touchy and that’s disrespectful how he feels so entitled to touch her.
Exactly, he did her so wrong on love is blind but Im glad she got the last laugh!
(Spoiler) I’m so proud of Deepti for choosing herself instead of Shake Shack…out of all the male participants he was the only one talking sht behind their girl 😭
I couldn't agree more!
Don't insult shake shack 😝
And apparently what he said was even worse, the show just gave us a “watered down” version according to the cast! 😬
@@itscoriiiiiiiwokk I wonder what he said off camera
I think he only identified with her because she also dated yt people. And when he said she reminded him of his auntie was putting her down.
He was definitely putting her down with the auntie comment, basically saying he's not attracted to her.
@@samology1 the auntie comment is because she has stretch marks and loose skin when she was in bikini
If a man is too short for a woman's standards nobody gives a fuck 🤷
@@AyanAli-py7ci 99% of women have stretch marks. Even the ones that were never fat.
He was trying to embarrass her.. it backfired on him..
Deepti is a 2 out of 10
@@AyanAli-py7cieveryone has their own opinion I actually find her gorgeous.
You sound like a minus 2 out of 10.
How did you binge the whole series and still pronounce Deepti’s name wrong?
@Ahe Ddi majority of Indian women tend to get midsection fat, loose skin and stretch marks after 25, added with not working out many times. Shake's mood changed when she wore a bikini. She gave aunty vibes right there.
@@AyanAli-py7ci are you sure? That sounds a little bit racist...
@@Jaimelikegem girl it’s self hate his obviously suffering from that.
Ayan Ali after 25?? What the heck, sounds like you suffer from the same self hate as shake. Very sad.
@@zm4344 lol self hate? I'm not Indian
Her name is deep-ti ( like tea ) not deep-ta! Lol
Who cares
😁
It matters. It's not that hard. And if gonna do reviews act like you know.
I have dated Indian men as a non Indian women and this is how they behave. I also have Indian friends who have had similar experiences.
Kind of putting us in one group now aren’t you.
I had an Indian Manager and he was the worst and our department was all female. He had that attitude and when you gave him push back he didn’t like that. His wife is a Pharmacist and he moved his mother in with them so that his wife couldn’t work to be home with his mother. During a one on one his wife kept calling him asking where was this and that. Why does she need to call you to find out where a prescription is at??? Talk about control. She called like 3 times looking for ish.
@@Mochahontas091 I had Indian managers and the women all said they don’t treat women in the office with respect. Not even surprised by your comment.
@@Samahsingsyes and even tho he was a Supervisor he felt that he should be in a higher position (Corporate level) so that was another thing with him. He felt that role was beneath him. Whew he was hell!!
@@Mochahontas091 Seems to be common. My mum manages nurses at a retirement home. One head chef was Indian and was always disrespectful towards the female staff. He even called a young Indian nurse ugly randomly one day. My
Mom ended up getting rid of the Chef. The Chef tried to sue the workplace on the grounds of “racial discrimination”, but his record of bullying and harassment towards the female staff was high.
I think shake is gay on the down low
This guy has mommy issues lmao he’s masking the mommy part with “Aunty” because he doesn’t want to say mommy
Mixed signals = mixed emotions = he's not sure, or really not that into you.
I am dealing with that now. Very sad and unfortunate, started with mixed signals that became very clear in short time. I am still hopeful.. though not until he cleans up his act and is healthier person.
U look JUST like Doja Cat lol
Omg yes if Doja was brown skin
Yaaaassss
Great reminders...It's in the mans effort, chase, willing to please, give, wondering when apart, desiring showing and telling that they falling in love. This stage never really stops, reduces once deep in love, but forever cat and mouse.
Tell tell sign is joyfully sacrifice, consistency, and choosing you forever over all others.
Depti didn't allow him to earn her, miss,desire, anticipate, allow space to chase. He may never fall but you wont be all in by yo self. It will be undeniable.
Can we stop w/ the Patriarchy view of relationships. He clearly is a narcissist & like many men built their view of women from caucasian beauty stamdards. Men like that view women as accessories. They are incapable of emotional intelligence.
ok, so her name is deepti, not deeptuh
Loved this. The auntie edits had me in tears 😭
Loved this video, but I’m confused about this relationship and you got me thinking that maybe I’m not seeing something here. Can I get some clarity. In my opinion Shake was real from the start(not in a good way), I think the producers allowed him to stay in to stir the pot/for views. Every person on both sides of the pods knew he was trash. Idk why Depti continued trying to fix him or see inside him when was an empty shell from the start. I think she thought she could fix him instead of looking for a husband she choose a project. She is an amazing and beautiful woman that should have never been treated like that and I am glad in the end she said no but she shouldn’t have encouraged this relationship at all especially after he made all those comments to her while still in the pods(weight, lifestyle, blondes).
I’m pretty sure she’s like religious and I think she felt the need to change him and make him a better person
She said she's doesn't believe in some of the aspects of their religion which he also agreed with. Deepti seemed to really want to be with an Indian man despite her dating history of blondes. She did give him a lot chances but it seems like a desire to be with someone from her community rather than anything else.
I love the Govinda Auntie shots added! Brilliant. 🤣🤣🤣
Exactly, that was soooooo funny🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Your make up is flawless 😻😻😻 you are gorgeous
Thank you so much!!
Love your video. You are one very smart woman, and we are lucky that you are sharing it with us (great analysis and advice).
Thank you so much, that really means a lot❤️
Btw u are really pretty ❤
Thank you❤️
Amazing how you managed to mispronounce “Deepti” her name is spelled the way it is pronounced LMAO
" Your personality is stank" 😆 🤣 😂 When you said that I died.
I just found your channel and love the content!! You’re hilarious😂
He was the most dislikable person in season 2 according to me. He’s entirely personality is soo annoying and cringy.
Glad Deepti left this asshole and chose herself! More power to her❤
Self hate is so real
omg you're saying her name wrong the entire video.
@Ahe Ddi literally I go by jam cause my name is never said right lol
No shit Sherlock no one cares about her name
Girls watching this - the video creator is being extremist. Not all men operate this way. Men need space and boundaries at times. Relationships progress naturally. This victim mindset will plague your future relationships. Relationships are about boundaries. Treat a man well and if he cares about you he will treat you well back, some people need more time than others to warm up.
“Not all men” Proceeds to make a blanket statement on all men.
You could’ve at least got her name right…
Shaker is the man
Deepti looks like an aunty
She is not a celebrity lol no one gives a fuck
Who cares! She corrected herself in the comments. Be quiet.
So when a woman ask how tall are you where do you work what kind of car you drive 🤯🤯🤯 Y'all delusional
This is my first video, don’t even watch the Love show, but this is great 👍🏾
Thank you❤️
She was a low value woman from the start honestly letting him ask weird questions, grab her body so gross and she was also racist toward her own race she is not a victim she got her reflection. But made the right choice off course cause he never liked her physically
Right, she's not a victim. She was the accomplice and she decided to bounce. She accepted so much of his crap when the other women weren't having it at all.
Karma
@@Tamara-ed1qq Y’all are weiredos. Deepti did nothing wrong.
🤣🤣🤣you’re so damn funny!!!
Your delivery was really hard to watch, I preferred to watch the entire season again and look out for the signs myself.
i don’t think the background music is necessary…you’re perfectly engaging all on your own. ☺️
Everyone is in to me