Chris Evans good sex woman one girl friend back me look good on one day at this time and be back on Monday night and I will be now that day and I will do it tomorrow if that you can find out now
Glad you mentioned Body Dysmorphia/Body Image issues cause it definitely does affect someone’s sex life and it’s crazy how some people don’t take it seriously.
9:02 When I was going through a “libido slump” and my partner’s was high, we would listen to spicy audiobooks together. They handled their own pleasure and I just listened to the story or sometimes hung out beside them and played video games 😅 Even though I wasn’t “participating”, being together felt intimate and we both really enjoyed it. Their needs were met, I was able to relax and stop putting pressure on myself, and we’d usually snuggle after 💜
Didn't expect to hear about autism and trauma and how that affects your experience with sex right off the bat. The sensory issues yesss. Also the body keeps the score!! I feel very seen 😭😭 i really like your emphasis on enJOY, it can be hard not to feel performative or feel obligated to do more then you necessarily want to. I feel like my sensory issues and trauma made it take longer to realize i'm queer too
Thank you! Im on anxiety and Adhd meds, and my libido is very very low, to the point I thought I was asexual for a while. I still think Im demisexual, it takes me a while but it can happen with the right person. I appreciate you're videos so much, Ive been here since I was 13 trying to figure out if I wasnt straight. Five years later, I'm definitely not straight lol!
I watch your videos with interest and adoration, as if there is no persecution of people like me in my country and as if I don't have to hide what I am all my life, even from my loved ones. When I watch your videos, it's like I'm immersed in another world. Thank you that the Internet exists.
Thank you for saying the quiet part out loud and addressing that no one has ownership over another persons body even when in romantic relationships. It’s something I faced being used as a object of pleasure and not valued by others in the relationships but you are 💯 appreciated for addressing this!
Just posting to get my past trauma off my chest and it's December. ☃ Nobody ever forgets their first anything. When I was an undergrad @ USC, my then gf & lover told me "You're very pretty, but I can't live with your workaholic lifestyle anymore, so I've decided to move back to Huzhou, China and finish my education there." To soften the blow, she gave me a new vacuum cleaner. That night, I was devastated and still recall it like yesterday. Thx, Keara Graves. ❤🤘🌈
Thank you for these videos! It’s so nice to see someone explain things when they have been through similar experiences. I am ASD and only been with girls but even that is difficult cuz emotions 😨😨
Hii keara i love your videos, i always get excited when you upload a New video, theyre so fun to watch and make me company while i do college homework and i have dinner haha. lov u
I find it weird in regular films and series there's a lack of consent / communication. They're just randomly kissing or something without a single word 😂
Being kind of cis het, or at least having partners who are, i can say that in my experience, that is realistic. One is expected to read body language to guage willingness, or spoken hints, innuendos, and double entendres. Asking for consent directly can make some people really uncomfortable for some reason. Also, the burden of guageing consent generally lies on the male and not the female, as media has drilled into us that men always want sex, so why bother asking?
@@inspectre27 But in those examples, it sounds like you and your partner are communicating with the innuendos, body language, etc. And with both of you communicating the same thing, that IS consent. Consent doesn’t necessarily need to be freezing and asking “Do you want to do X with me?”. It can be more subtle or playful and still be consent. If my partner puts on lingerie and invites me to join her in the bedroom, me following is giving consent. If she’s taking a shower and I seductively ask her if she wants company, her inviting me in is consent. If we give each other “The Look”, we’re communicating consent 😂 As long as you know each other well enough that your body language and other communication is *loud and clear*, that’s a way to ask for/give consent.
Yeah as an autistic person my problem with sex is cuddling (no!). Some smells i dont tolerate. I also dont like to talk...i make other types of noise 😂 some things are a bit tricky for my partners. Idk. I really need the preferences to align for it to be good.
Wow. I am a little older than you, but I am also nonbinary and pansexual. As I was working through some things, I eventually discovered that I am Autistic as well. Trying to unpack everything about your life as you know it is not an easy thing. I am two years in, and I haven't even come close to figuring it all out. I wish you the best of luck.
(TW) HII I’m 15 and I have autism and adhd aswell as struggling with self harm and body image issues I’ve been struggling with self harm and ed for a while now around 4 years and I worried about s3x because of my body so at the age of around 11 I was working out maybe 1-2 hours a day and eating very little I’ve sort of recovered I guess just still worried about it but you make me so happy and just reassure me that it will be okay when that time comes :3 (I’m so sorry if this didn’t make sense I’m not the best writer or whatever you call it XD, I also doubt you’ll even see or read this)
I‘m not a native speaker so I hope this is understandable and I‘ll choose the right words. There‘s a thing called Nematodes that you can buy and water your plants with. Its literally tiny tiny creatures that will eat the gnat grubs and die afterwards. It sounds weird but it helps 100%. Look it up 😅
I’ve already asked u this and I’m 99% shure u saw it because u liked it but could you please have a community post on this same thing because I have so many questions but I don’t have instagram please please please
On overthinking (from a penis-haver): I used to do a thing during sex that helped with overthinking. Give your brain a task that is difficult and repetitive. I tried a few things, but my goto was picking a random 5-digit number and counting backwards by 7s. This is not easy (I discovered later that I have mild dyscalculia, so it was probably harder for me). For penis-havers, I also noticed an improvement in stamina. ymmv. The drawback is that the task can be distracting, so your pleasure may dip or you may be less attentive to your partner. Attempt at your own risk. 😅
Holy shit, I knew I would be performative when I'm nervous in sex, but it NEVER occurred to me that I could be masking. Mind blown. Questions answered.
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Chris Evans good sex woman one girl friend back me look good on one day at this time and be back on Monday night and I will be now that day and I will do it tomorrow if that you can find out now
Just your friendly neighborhood asexual who will never need this advice but loves watching these anyway 😭
Love that! Thx for being here anyways 🤗💗
Same lmao
Same here!!
Same lol
I'm wondering why I always watch these too 😂
I cant believe that no one asked about how to stay safe during sex between women, it is a very important topic that often goes overlooked
Ooh yes it's a very important topic and I've answered questions about that in previous videos!
Thank you for being the queer sibling or friend you didn't have, it means more than you know!!
Awww ily!!!❤🤗
Glad you mentioned Body Dysmorphia/Body Image issues cause it definitely does affect someone’s sex life and it’s crazy how some people don’t take it seriously.
FOR REALL!!!
9:02 When I was going through a “libido slump” and my partner’s was high, we would listen to spicy audiobooks together. They handled their own pleasure and I just listened to the story or sometimes hung out beside them and played video games 😅 Even though I wasn’t “participating”, being together felt intimate and we both really enjoyed it. Their needs were met, I was able to relax and stop putting pressure on myself, and we’d usually snuggle after 💜
Wait I love that! Thanks for sharing that, and it’s a great idea. 😘
Woah, such a great and creative idea. ^^
Didn't expect to hear about autism and trauma and how that affects your experience with sex right off the bat. The sensory issues yesss. Also the body keeps the score!! I feel very seen 😭😭 i really like your emphasis on enJOY, it can be hard not to feel performative or feel obligated to do more then you necessarily want to. I feel like my sensory issues and trauma made it take longer to realize i'm queer too
Thank you! Im on anxiety and Adhd meds, and my libido is very very low, to the point I thought I was asexual for a while. I still think Im demisexual, it takes me a while but it can happen with the right person. I appreciate you're videos so much, Ive been here since I was 13 trying to figure out if I wasnt straight. Five years later, I'm definitely not straight lol!
I watch your videos with interest and adoration, as if there is no persecution of people like me in my country and as if I don't have to hide what I am all my life, even from my loved
ones. When I watch your videos, it's like I'm immersed in another world. Thank you that the Internet exists.
AYYY I LOVE IT WHEN YOU DO THESE VIDEOS
Thank you for saying the quiet part out loud and addressing that no one has ownership over another persons body even when in romantic relationships. It’s something I faced being used as a object of pleasure and not valued by others in the relationships but you are 💯 appreciated for addressing this!
The idea of a roleplay in which the characters have sex is so good! As an aegosexual I think this could work for me, thank you.
Hehehe it’s actually so fun I hope you try it out 😝😝😝
@@KearaGraves I will if there is the right situation for it someday 😝. Thanks for the response
Just posting to get my past trauma off my chest and it's December. ☃ Nobody ever forgets their first anything. When I was an undergrad
@ USC, my then gf & lover told me "You're very pretty, but I can't live with your workaholic lifestyle anymore, so I've
decided to move back to Huzhou, China and finish my education there." To soften the blow, she gave me a new vacuum
cleaner. That night, I was devastated and still recall it like yesterday. Thx, Keara Graves. ❤🤘🌈
GIRLY YOUR HAIR 😍😍
you are so amazing! you help me feel better about myself and you help me to keep trying and have body and self positivity!! you’re so awesome 🩷🫶
it’s literally been 3 sec and omg u just radiate beauty inside and out! 😭 🥹
Thank you for these videos! It’s so nice to see someone explain things when they have been through similar experiences. I am ASD and only been with girls but even that is difficult cuz emotions 😨😨
I love your channel, and especially this type of videos. I find them so helpful as both me and my partner are neurdivergent and nblw.
Sooo glad you find these videos informative! Love youuuu! 😘
Haven't watched your videos in a while, but this one just got recommended to me again. So excited and happy to see you got married
Happy Friday, Keara! And welcome to the third season of Fall!😊😊😊😊😊😎☀💙💙💙💙💙💙🇺🇸🍁🌷🌈🍁💖💜💖💜💖💜💖💜💖💜💖🎇🎇🎇🎇🎇🎇👍
Hii keara i love your videos, i always get excited when you upload a New video, theyre so fun to watch and make me company while i do college homework and i have dinner haha. lov u
We need to bring back the les confessions in your next video!!!
On it!!! :)
I find it weird in regular films and series there's a lack of consent / communication. They're just randomly kissing or something without a single word 😂
IKR. it’s SO not realistic or healthy???
Being kind of cis het, or at least having partners who are, i can say that in my experience, that is realistic. One is expected to read body language to guage willingness, or spoken hints, innuendos, and double entendres. Asking for consent directly can make some people really uncomfortable for some reason. Also, the burden of guageing consent generally lies on the male and not the female, as media has drilled into us that men always want sex, so why bother asking?
@@inspectre27 But in those examples, it sounds like you and your partner are communicating with the innuendos, body language, etc. And with both of you communicating the same thing, that IS consent.
Consent doesn’t necessarily need to be freezing and asking “Do you want to do X with me?”. It can be more subtle or playful and still be consent. If my partner puts on lingerie and invites me to join her in the bedroom, me following is giving consent. If she’s taking a shower and I seductively ask her if she wants company, her inviting me in is consent. If we give each other “The Look”, we’re communicating consent 😂
As long as you know each other well enough that your body language and other communication is *loud and clear*, that’s a way to ask for/give consent.
Yeah as an autistic person my problem with sex is cuddling (no!). Some smells i dont tolerate. I also dont like to talk...i make other types of noise 😂 some things are a bit tricky for my partners. Idk. I really need the preferences to align for it to be good.
Yes Ask (quing) Queera is back!!
the CUTEST girlie ever! i don’t even care that i am straight, watching just because ily. 🤍🫶🏻
Wow. I am a little older than you, but I am also nonbinary and pansexual. As I was working through some things, I eventually discovered that I am Autistic as well. Trying to unpack everything about your life as you know it is not an easy thing. I am two years in, and I haven't even come close to figuring it all out. I wish you the best of luck.
Taking notes 🏃🏃🏃
Hi, Keara. I will always love your channel and your videos. ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
literally if you find out how to do stuff as an autistic make a video on it pls cause sameee
DEFINITELY WILL!❤
(TW) HII I’m 15 and I have autism and adhd aswell as struggling with self harm and body image issues I’ve been struggling with self harm and ed for a while now around 4 years and I worried about s3x because of my body so at the age of around 11 I was working out maybe 1-2 hours a day and eating very little I’ve sort of recovered I guess just still worried about it but you make me so happy and just reassure me that it will be okay when that time comes :3 (I’m so sorry if this didn’t make sense I’m not the best writer or whatever you call it XD, I also doubt you’ll even see or read this)
SUCH a good video baby
YESSSS ITS ASK QUEERRRRAAAS
This is awesome! 😎
about the period just be careful because it can increase chances of you getting an infection
0:24 SAME my hair got stuck on one once...
Bipolar mood swings affect libido in big ways.
YES!
I agreee!!
I heard that.
Amazing and so important ✨❤️
I‘m not a native speaker so I hope this is understandable and I‘ll choose the right words. There‘s a thing called Nematodes that you can buy and water your plants with. Its literally tiny tiny creatures that will eat the gnat grubs and die afterwards. It sounds weird but it helps 100%. Look it up 😅
Good tip
Mosquito Bits also can be used to take care of fungus gnats
Neem Oil for control of insects on plants. It's organic
love your videos!! ❤
Gurl I’m autistic too
I love your videos there so helpful
Sincerely Maddie she/her
Many thanks, i'm sort of reassured, at the same time nervous ❤❤❤
HEY GORGEOUS
Put vinger in a cup put by plants the nat will fly in ATL ga USA
I like your patterned top Keara, it’s nice and loose❤
Your lovely face makes me smile❤ Lol from Petra❤❤
I want to experience this at least once in life 😖
What is the brand of the toy you talk about here?
You know what else you can use for gnats? Cups filled with apple cider vinegar scattered throughout the house
I'm a bottom gay. So I'm proud 💛
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I’ve already asked u this and I’m 99% shure u saw it because u liked it but could you please have a community post on this same thing because I have so many questions but I don’t have instagram please please please
What does wlw mean???
550 Jacobs Squares
Hello from fellow autistic lesbian. Been following you a while now.
Any advice for a lesbian trans woman who scared to have experiences with cis lesbians? :)
Sexuality is based off of biology, so I don’t think majority lesbians want to sleep with a trans woman
I am gender fluid l like both been with girls and I love to sleep with a man ❤❤😊
🤍🤍🤍
Hi beautiful how are you doing 🏳️🌈❤️ love to be a friend if you don't mind you can inbox me if you want 🏳️🌈❤️
I observe that you respect folk who are gender-fluid, Yes I would feel safe if I met You❤
Love to You Keara from Petra❤xxx
Apple cider vinegar gets rid of nats
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I’m going to have my first wlw sex soon maybe I’m kinda nervous😬
Is dipsy exclusively for cis women and AFABs?
Nope anyone can use it! :)
autistic and queer gang
im in a relationship with a trans guy and hes very much a bottom so im kinda scared lolz
nah. are u from lost and found from like a decade ago
Instruction unclear now we are making out
IM JK😭
@@KikiLOVESEVERYTHINGIM DEAD HII
@@Wrixle.kimvyy HII
On overthinking (from a penis-haver): I used to do a thing during sex that helped with overthinking. Give your brain a task that is difficult and repetitive. I tried a few things, but my goto was picking a random 5-digit number and counting backwards by 7s. This is not easy (I discovered later that I have mild dyscalculia, so it was probably harder for me). For penis-havers, I also noticed an improvement in stamina. ymmv. The drawback is that the task can be distracting, so your pleasure may dip or you may be less attentive to your partner. Attempt at your own risk. 😅
Holy shit, I knew I would be performative when I'm nervous in sex, but it NEVER occurred to me that I could be masking. Mind blown. Questions answered.