When you start to build a secure attachment style, you get to a point were you don't care at all when you face rejection, because you know that not every person, place, or situation will be fruitful for you.
I really like the way you present things lots of people say this but somehow the way you break it down and explain it it just lands differently. You are a real asset in this philosophical space
Well Said and Factual!!! I’ve Stopped Caring About What Other People Thinks Or Accepts. I Respectfully Just Be Me 100% and Continue The Path of My Concepts of Greatness. I’m NOT Perfect But I AM Working Towards My Ideation of Perfection!!!
Let’s be real. She can handle you being fit because she can’t handle you looking better than she is, she needs you looking less healthy so she can justify and making excuse for not being accountable to her own health and trying to be the best person she can be as a woman, if you remember the principal that women dislike accountability and transparency, this riddle will evaporate.
lol his whole point of this video just went over your head. people have to come to reality that just because something is deemed as attractive to the masses does not mean it is attractive to all. their are drop dead gorgeous women who are attracted to bigger men because it’s as simple as that’s just what they like. this take is very ego driven. we are not everyone’s type you can seem perfect all around but at the end of the day you are just not everyone’s cup of tea and that’s nothing to take personal. just like most would assume all men want curvaceous women their are a lot of men who like slimmer women it’s all about preference which is his key point in the video.
🎯great video! I experienced the feeling of being rejected today , and was in my feelings. Essentially, I knew it wasn’t that I was being rejected because the person didn’t want to engage with me, they just weren’t in the space, at that time, to receive me. So I had to check my emotions and see the situations with my heart, and not my ego. Which then in turn, helped me to realize that there was just a disconnect in “space” for me and the other person. Then, the sense of entitled quickly came over me, but ultimately I had a reality check in that moment. All in all, thanks for touching this topic ✨
I feel you, happened to me recently too! I love and am glad that you were able to process through it, accept it, and learn from it so quickly. So many people take years to process through it and end up full of hate, resentment, and end up having a poor outlook on a whole group of people (men v women, etc). And I love how you realize that sometimes the person isn’t in a place to be able to receive what you want to give them. And sometimes they are in that place but maybe they just don’t want it from us because we don’t fit their idea of what they desire. It sucks because for a lot of us it isn’t common to feel desire for someone, so when you come across someone who does it for you in all the ways you like and they end up not wanting it from you, it really hurts. Buuut, it’s beautiful too because you realize that you still see their beauty and see everything about them that captured you and you really want them to be happy and to have what they want, so you wish for them to receive what it is they want. I know how it feels to see someone and value everything they are and want to give them the world, but if they don’t want that from us, then that’s okay, I want them to receive it from the person that does it for them.
Great topic❤ some people are comfortable with ppl they’re better than. Couple competing against each other nowadays. 😢Protection is the most valuable asset God gave.
Hey 😊 great post and so true. Do you think it’s tied to our early childhood need to preserve a sense of safety for survival? Just followed - nice content. Currently fasting (day 4 of 40!), documenting in my channel. Certainly helps clarify thoughts on themes you’re discussing 😊
Rejection is protection
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When you start to build a secure attachment style, you get to a point were you don't care at all when you face rejection, because you know that not every person, place, or situation will be fruitful for you.
Rejection is a great teacher. 👏🏾
I really like the way you present things lots of people say this but somehow the way you break it down and explain it it just lands differently. You are a real asset in this philosophical space
Thanks for watching
Well Said and Factual!!! I’ve Stopped Caring About What Other People Thinks Or Accepts. I Respectfully Just Be Me 100% and Continue The Path of My Concepts of Greatness. I’m NOT Perfect But I AM Working Towards My Ideation of Perfection!!!
Let’s be real. She can handle you being fit because she can’t handle you looking better than she is, she needs you looking less healthy so she can justify and making excuse for not being accountable to her own health and trying to be the best person she can be as a woman, if you remember the principal that women dislike accountability and transparency, this riddle will evaporate.
What your saying is also true
lol his whole point of this video just went over your head. people have to come to reality that just because something is deemed as attractive to the masses does not mean it is attractive to all. their are drop dead gorgeous women who are attracted to bigger men because it’s as simple as that’s just what they like. this take is very ego driven. we are not everyone’s type you can seem perfect all around but at the end of the day you are just not everyone’s cup of tea and that’s nothing to take personal. just like most would assume all men want curvaceous women their are a lot of men who like slimmer women it’s all about preference which is his key point in the video.
Every rejection we face helps us to realize that we gain acceptance of ourselves and closer alignment that better complement with ourselves.
I love the way you articulated yourself. I no longer take it personally, I needed that. Preference
VS. Rejection. Keep dropping 💎’s
Complete Indifference. 💯
🎯great video!
I experienced the feeling of being rejected today , and was in my feelings.
Essentially, I knew it wasn’t that I was being rejected because the person didn’t want to engage with me, they just weren’t in the space, at that time, to receive me.
So I had to check my emotions and see the situations with my heart, and not my ego.
Which then in turn, helped me to realize that there was just a disconnect in “space” for me and the other person.
Then, the sense of entitled quickly came over me, but ultimately I had a reality check in that moment.
All in all, thanks for touching this topic ✨
I feel you, happened to me recently too!
I love and am glad that you were able to process through it, accept it, and learn from it so quickly. So many people take years to process through it and end up full of hate, resentment, and end up having a poor outlook on a whole group of people (men v women, etc).
And I love how you realize that sometimes the person isn’t in a place to be able to receive what you want to give them. And sometimes they are in that place but maybe they just don’t want it from us because we don’t fit their idea of what they desire.
It sucks because for a lot of us it isn’t common to feel desire for someone, so when you come across someone who does it for you in all the ways you like and they end up not wanting it from you, it really hurts. Buuut, it’s beautiful too because you realize that you still see their beauty and see everything about them that captured you and you really want them to be happy and to have what they want, so you wish for them to receive what it is they want.
I know how it feels to see someone and value everything they are and want to give them the world, but if they don’t want that from us, then that’s okay, I want them to receive it from the person that does it for them.
You are a master communicator Damien!
Appreciate it boss!! We need more of these videos
Let’s gooo…Loving these unorthodox topics Broski 🙏🏾
Good morning, beautiful soul! He's still my social media crush ❤. Always has great topics!
Great topic❤ some people are comfortable with ppl they’re better than. Couple competing against each other nowadays. 😢Protection is the most valuable asset God gave.
A man must go by his own criteria.
Shoutout to OG! Each topic has been very useful
thx bro, true speech. so we are on the way to grow our mental status!
My Guy spitting bars
Great message Brother- i struggled with rejection and fears of abandonment for many years
Perfect Timing
I love your wisdom brother
much appreciated.
Sometimes its preference on their part and sometimes its delusions on your part 😭😭
I received a ton of letters from employers telling me and my résumé to kiss off. Well, they have their preferences and I remain confident.
Another One 🗣*Dj Khaled Voice* 😂
Hey 😊 great post and so true. Do you think it’s tied to our early childhood need to preserve a sense of safety for survival? Just followed - nice content. Currently fasting (day 4 of 40!), documenting in my channel. Certainly helps clarify thoughts on themes you’re discussing 😊
how do you shift the vision of a person to feel ashamed of having multiple emotional affairs with different people from not feeling ashamed at all?
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He looked at all wrong when a woman was with someone else. That was arrogance
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