Great video. summary: 1. We do too much for them 2. We yell too much 3. We don't apologize to our child 4. Not enough positive reinforcement 5. Not enough affection 6. We lack empathy 7. Not present when we should be
00:00 intro 01:16 we do too much for them 02:30 we yell too much 03:56 we don't apologize to our child 05:17 not enough positive reinforcement 06:34 not enough affection 07:52 we lack empathy 09:40 not present when we should be
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My fiancée is out of the first trimester tomorrow and our little baby is due in October! I’m excited but scared at the same time. This channel has been very reassuring and informative! Thank you so much for your videos 😁
Thanks for the solid advice. I’ve gotta 2 month old daughter (my first child) I’m about to come home from deployment and meet for the first time. I’ve been watching a lot of these videos, because I feel like I’m behind the curve on learning what to do as a parent/dad. So yeah, just wanted to thank you, your videos have helped me feel better about coming home.. I’ll definitely like and share your vids man.
I 100% agree with the first one!if we keep doing little things for kids they'll never learn to be self sufficient. we never want to underestimate our kids they can do more than we think even as little babies. it's funny bc when I was young my mom always had do our own stuff. pick up, we sis our school projects etc. As we got older we had more responsibilities. I won't lie as Teens we struggled a bit with those tasks like getting up for school or taking the bus ( tho to be fair, there was some bullying in those situations.) but once dad stepped in we got back in line. Nowadays I see it everywhere to the point where some kids are kist plain bossy. Carry this! where's my lunch?! Take me here! and I am jsut floored by it. if we don't teach our kids how to be self sufficient and these generations will just keep getting worse. I also agree with 2. yelling too much. back to my childhood, if we were misbehaving the first thing was to usually get yelled at whether big or smal and I worry about that fi that's the typ of parent I'll be bc that was natural instinct in my house. I dont want tomea, hollering parent where my kid wont wanna come to me but there needs to be rules set and they need to know I mean it. so icant really hope to apple those tips about focusing on the positive reinforcement. bc I can easily can get very negative and I dont want to be that way
I found out im going to be a first time dad come March. I found this channel by accident but its already helping me a ton, not having real parental figures made me unbelievably nervous lol but these videos are washing some of that away with pure excitement. So thanks Dad university 👍
I love the information. Life gets crazy and i dont always remember to use what ive learned. I also havent always taken the advise and guidance as serious as i should. I appreciate the learning tools. I am practicing them
Great video.
summary:
1. We do too much for them
2. We yell too much
3. We don't apologize to our child
4. Not enough positive reinforcement
5. Not enough affection
6. We lack empathy
7. Not present when we should be
Found out I'm gonna be a dad in December I'm so nervous... But these videos are helping a lot. Thank you
Congratulations. My son was just born on July5th
me too :D and also being uplifted with these videos. thank you!!
Did the videos help?
WOW... My friend just shared this video with me and I can't thank him enough for it. God bless Dad University!!!
00:00 intro
01:16 we do too much for them
02:30 we yell too much
03:56 we don't apologize to our child
05:17 not enough positive reinforcement
06:34 not enough affection
07:52 we lack empathy
09:40 not present when we should be
this video is such a win! i pray I'll continue to have a teachable heart and improve myself everyday to be a better Dad for my two young sons.
Thank you so much for all your videos, your channel, your solid advice. It is always very much needed and appreciated. Please keep doing what you’re doing.
My fiancée is out of the first trimester tomorrow and our little baby is due in October! I’m excited but scared at the same time. This channel has been very reassuring and informative! Thank you so much for your videos 😁
Man, RUclips should have been available 35yrs ago for my pops. Awesome videos and I can't wait to apply the knowledge in December.
Yeah my dad solves things with the first thing that he could reach lol
Thanks for the solid advice. I’ve gotta 2 month old daughter (my first child) I’m about to come home from deployment and meet for the first time. I’ve been watching a lot of these videos, because I feel like I’m behind the curve on learning what to do as a parent/dad. So yeah, just wanted to thank you, your videos have helped me feel better about coming home.. I’ll definitely like and share your vids man.
Charles Gerety thanks man.
Marcus congrats man. She’s around 4 months now and she probably owns you lol. I know the feeling.
I 100% agree with the first one!if we keep doing little things for kids they'll never learn to be self sufficient. we never want to underestimate our kids they can do more than we think even as little babies. it's funny bc when I was young my mom always had do our own stuff. pick up, we sis our school projects etc. As we got older we had more responsibilities. I won't lie as Teens we struggled a bit with those tasks like getting up for school or taking the bus ( tho to be fair, there was some bullying in those situations.) but once dad stepped in we got back in line. Nowadays I see it everywhere to the point where some kids are kist plain bossy. Carry this! where's my lunch?! Take me here! and I am jsut floored by it. if we don't teach our kids how to be self sufficient and these generations will just keep getting worse. I also agree with 2. yelling too much. back to my childhood, if we were misbehaving the first thing was to usually get yelled at whether big or smal and I worry about that fi that's the typ of parent I'll be bc that was natural instinct in my house. I dont want tomea, hollering parent where my kid wont wanna come to me but there needs to be rules set and they need to know I mean it. so icant really hope to apple those tips about focusing on the positive reinforcement. bc I can easily can get very negative and I dont want to be that way
“If they are old enough to have a backpack then you can carry a backpack.”
Great videos my fellow dad brother. I greatly appreciate your time with creating these helpful wonderful clips. Enjoy them all.
I found out im going to be a first time dad come March. I found this channel by accident but its already helping me a ton, not having real parental figures made me unbelievably nervous lol but these videos are washing some of that away with pure excitement. So thanks Dad university 👍
That sounds pretty awesome! Congrats. Glad to have you as part of the community.
PLEASE, keep your channel going, don't give up! with the quality of your content very soon you will have a lot of subscribed. You're awesome!!
As a Marine it’s very hard not to yell. Lol honestly I try so hard but sometimes it just comes out
Great points! I’m days away from
Being a first time dad!
I love the information. Life gets crazy and i dont always remember to use what ive learned. I also havent always taken the advise and guidance as serious as i should. I appreciate the learning tools. I am practicing them
I'm glad you got value from the video
Doing too much also means always paying for everything when they re in there 30s
Brilliant advice. Thks and best regards from the Uk
Another great advice. Thank you.
Thanks for your videos, we are expecting , following all your videos
Great points!