On tips for sticking to your December budget, I've heard of colleagues who withdraw hard cash and leave it behind emqashweni for when they return ngo December. Also new on the channel and must say amazing job guys.... might have to unsubscribe from my other podcast 😂
Can I just ask, is the podcast specifically targeted at young women? Coz I don't get the make up bit. It's such a distraction. Unless its aimed at women who maybe enjoy watching other women wearing their make up.
I feel like you guys should also talk about women claiming being rape if the guys don't pay them even though when you two were picking each other up, there was no conversation of payment
Obviously, when you looking to date a certain caliber of woman you will have to pay and I think it even becomes worse when you are a foreigner wanting to date that caliber of woman. In addition generalizing South African women according to the behavior of this caliber is wrong because even the numbers don't allow it.
Originally and naturally Serious relationships and/or marriages are transactional . A man gives his time,attention, protection and providing to a women. In exchange for sex and peace. If the women can't provide the those few things, shes almost useless in that relationship. Same applies if a man can protect and provide because of *HIS MOOD* then his useless in the relationship. You supposed to do. your part regardless of your mood.
The funniest thing in the world is men claiming they want "PEACE". You want peace, you create a peaceful environment. Lol, the distribution of household expenses is almost equal.
Conversations like these done by women are for women. They don't really care about the guy's side that much. Remember, a relationship is often only in jeopardy if the woman is unhappy
@@gintoki_sakata__ men grow up bieng taugt how to treat a women NOT WHAT TO EXPECT FROM THEM. women grow up bieng taugt what to expect from men ( indoda must) they never taugt how to treat a man
the fact that you could potentially see a wife as a peacefull sex doll is scary, im imagining my sister being with someone who only sees her as such. of course relationships are transactional but the roles go way beyond what youve stated and humans are dynamic and multifaceted.
As much as is wrong for people to think men are always ready to go.men also give the impression that they love or long for sex the most or always ready for it. even if it means forcing to get it for some men.
on enthusiastic consent, its really quite tricky, is the lady sexually comfortable and liberated enough to express sexual enthusiasm? especially dating in the early 20s , girls never say yes or no, the guys always has to be the one to initiate, her expressing enthusiasm might make her feel loose because of the narrative that sex is for the enjoyment of the guy. so its safe to say in a situation like this, lets have the conversation about sex on our first date and before you come over for a sleepover. some girls end up laughing with their friends saying he did not touch me the whole night, hes probably gay. and a lot of guys feel some typa way about this conversation and rape in general because we've seen situations where women have weaponised sex and babies against men. like leaving the club with a prostitute who did not say they want money and not paying her in the morning might result in a case of rape being opened or women baby trapping you into marriage
Can we all accept that men and women are wired differently. That's how God intended it to be. All we can do is seek to understand each other especially in " serious " relationships that hopefully lead to marriage.
Is it completely that we're wired differently?? Aren't there socio-psychological factors which hugely account for the differences between men and women?? I personally think that these are the questions we should also ask
@@ndiboe_m1496 You make valid points. The reality of the matter is that we are different. As I've opined earlier, let's seek to understand each other. Pointing fingers will not lead us anywhere. Have a great 2024.
Ursula's aura is so peaceful ❤
I feel like it's okay to repeat conversation like this Bonga. We need to talk about this more and more
You define beauty and your voice is so nice let alone your smile
I feel so ❤
On tips for sticking to your December budget, I've heard of colleagues who withdraw hard cash and leave it behind emqashweni for when they return ngo December.
Also new on the channel and must say amazing job guys.... might have to unsubscribe from my other podcast 😂
I love the get ready with me episodes please please continue with them 🙏🏼 💕 ❤
Can I just ask, is the podcast specifically targeted at young women? Coz I don't get the make up bit.
It's such a distraction. Unless its aimed at women who maybe enjoy watching other women wearing their make up.
I feel like you guys should also talk about women claiming being rape if the guys don't pay them even though when you two were picking each other up, there was no conversation of payment
True crime will always be wrong. If umhalela mshele if angavumi accept it.
“Mswipeni”🤣🤣🤣🤣
Do you think we need a consent form? because even if she said yes, she still can change her mind mid way.
Ive beeen saying this too. i totally agree with u .
Im here for the beautiful and peaceful Ursula😍😍
That was not a joke about Xhosa’s
Stop doing make up during the podcast.
Yoh bruh. I don't even know if does anything for the podcast or maybe the show is actually meant for women.
Ursula is so beautiful...
I am surprised you do your own make up and dont use make up artists. So lovely to see this.
The voices!!!!
Man City❤😊
lol LKG owns Valentine's Day
WHO IS THAT?
@@breslygaseb5465Lerato Kganyago
@@itumelengkomana4390 thank you
Obviously, when you looking to date a certain caliber of woman you will have to pay and I think it even becomes worse when you are a foreigner wanting to date that caliber of woman.
In addition generalizing South African women according to the behavior of this caliber is wrong because even the numbers don't allow it.
"KE MA XHOSA" TRIBALIST NONSENSE😪
Originally and naturally Serious relationships and/or marriages are transactional . A man gives his time,attention, protection and providing to a women. In exchange for sex and peace.
If the women can't provide the those few things, shes almost useless in that relationship. Same applies if a man can protect and provide because of *HIS MOOD* then his useless in the relationship.
You supposed to do. your part regardless of your mood.
The funniest thing in the world is men claiming they want "PEACE". You want peace, you create a peaceful environment. Lol, the distribution of household expenses is almost equal.
Conversations like these done by women are for women.
They don't really care about the guy's side that much.
Remember, a relationship is often only in jeopardy if the woman is unhappy
@@gintoki_sakata__ men grow up bieng taugt how to treat a women NOT WHAT TO EXPECT FROM THEM. women grow up bieng taugt what to expect from men ( indoda must) they never taugt how to treat a man
So women only give sex and "peace" (whatever that means)💀👀?
the fact that you could potentially see a wife as a peacefull sex doll is scary, im imagining my sister being with someone who only sees her as such. of course relationships are transactional but the roles go way beyond what youve stated and humans are dynamic and multifaceted.
Haybo Ursula..singenaphi? Maxhosa njani????
Beautiful episode as always 💥💥
As much as is wrong for people to think men are always ready to go.men also give the impression that they love or long for sex the most or always ready for it. even if it means forcing to get it for some men.
Ursh, your smile, dimples and dental structure gal🥰 u r such a beauty ❤
Ursula I always wanted to ask, is she take or what ? Some days she sound taken other days sound a single and raw on love relationship
Do not say yes to people and then say people did you wrong. Haosa batle, dula ontso hana
If it's a "no" , ngik'Order-ela iUber ugoduke !!!
ar u in relationship?
Good topic, needs to be talked more
First time I come across this channel. Love the authenticity - doesn't feel forced and relatable topics. Enjoyed it.🤍
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Lerato Kganyakgo 😂😅😂
on enthusiastic consent, its really quite tricky, is the lady sexually comfortable and liberated enough to express sexual enthusiasm? especially dating in the early 20s , girls never say yes or no, the guys always has to be the one to initiate, her expressing enthusiasm might make her feel loose because of the narrative that sex is for the enjoyment of the guy. so its safe to say in a situation like this, lets have the conversation about sex on our first date and before you come over for a sleepover. some girls end up laughing with their friends saying he did not touch me the whole night, hes probably gay. and a lot of guys feel some typa way about this conversation and rape in general because we've seen situations where women have weaponised sex and babies against men. like leaving the club with a prostitute who did not say they want money and not paying her in the morning might result in a case of rape being opened or women baby trapping you into marriage
Can we all accept that men and women are wired differently. That's how God intended it to be. All we can do is seek to understand each other especially in " serious " relationships that hopefully lead to marriage.
Is it completely that we're wired differently?? Aren't there socio-psychological factors which hugely account for the differences between men and women?? I personally think that these are the questions we should also ask
@@ndiboe_m1496 You make valid points. The reality of the matter is that we are different. As I've opined earlier, let's seek to understand each other. Pointing fingers will not lead us anywhere. Have a great 2024.
Makeup whilst in the studio.Is that not some kind of disrespectful?
How so? What's your reasoning behind it? What does disrespect mean?
No.
Edbee7674 the video is written makeup and convos do you get that...and besides that she's listening and engaging so it's not disrespect at all