That’s how I overcome all my insecurities and impostor syndrome | Saloni Verma | UPSC CSE 2020

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  • Опубликовано: 11 сен 2024
  • In this video,Saloni Verma talks about the imposter syndrome and insecurities in upsc preparation of aspirants,how one should deal with the these kind of problems and why it is important to have support from your friends and family. And she also talks about the use of Microsoft excel in the preparation.
    Saloni Verma cleared UPSC CSE 2020 examination and secured AIR 70th in India’s one of toughest examination. Saloni Verma got success in the second attempt.
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Комментарии • 57

  • @Bushrapeerzada_89
    @Bushrapeerzada_89 2 года назад +37

    I haven't heard someone so sorted and balanced with regards to insecurities. She must have done a lot of self work !

  • @kundanahmed4465
    @kundanahmed4465 2 года назад +17

    She talked about a very vital aspect of Preparation. God bless you mam!

  • @pradorocks25
    @pradorocks25 2 года назад +78

    I failed in 9th standard once, took four years to complete BBM, suffered from bed wetting till the age of 21, took five years to complete MBA, lost 13 jobs till date, suffered two broken engagements, left knee ligament fully torn apart, missed twenty eight accidents till now in a span of fourteen years, met with a serious accident three years ago which led me to being bedridden for a month and where i had experienced hell. The nurse used to pour tincture on the raw wound. My last job was working in pure night shifts for more than a year in a job that I was JUST not liking and which ruined my health. I was molested in an interview in January last year. And top of all that, I've not had a proper job for more than a year now. And I'm 38 now!!!!! Wot hope is there for people like me?????

    • @ashmitasharma3910
      @ashmitasharma3910 2 года назад +32

      Im here for you, and dont ask for sympathy. Youre a warrior. We will write a book on your strength.
      People like u are less.. ive learnt a lot of things from you pradeep.
      Doesnt matter what people tell you, but youre special, youre here for a special purpose which you're not understanding.. otherwise u cud have died in any of your accidents, but u didnt.
      you're just lost in stupid things, know your strength, which i can see in you

    • @pradorocks25
      @pradorocks25 2 года назад +2

      @@ashmitasharma3910 but have u learnt from a failure like me yaar???🙄🙄🙄

    • @SeonaleeSobermati
      @SeonaleeSobermati 2 года назад +18

      I understand you have been through a lot buddy. I sympathise with you. But have you ever tried to analyse why have you been experiencing all this?
      The health issues you have had especially mental have you tried to seek help? If you have, has it worked?
      You probably are restless and frustrated about all that you have gone through and that's what has made you come out like this. Calm yourself down a bit and list down all your problems. Categorize them into 2.
      1. would be those that could be solved by you, on which you have some leverage.
      2. Those that are not in your hands.
      Without having any second thoughts squash the entire 2nd list from your mind because there is nothing you can do about it. It's causing you unnecessary stress. Whatever it is accept it as it is.
      Now, look at the 1st list. Think of solutions you can come up with in your capacity and work on them. Don't try to address multiple things at a time. Take it slow. Give yourself a break. It's ok to be 38. Please understand your life starts from the point you meet yourself. Don't worry about numbers. Focus on the progress. Nobody is coming to save you, no magic is coming your way. It's you who has to uplift yourself. You have no one but yourself with you. Own your life. Stay away from negative people. If your life is tangled it's you who needs to untangle it. If you give up it's your loss. Complaining, cribbing, crying nothing’s gonna work. The only thing that'll work is hope. You should be the last person to lose hope in yourself. Don't measure your progress with someone else's parameters. Be your own ideal. Ultimately, focus on your happiness. As long as you are happy don't worry about the standards set by society. Wish you all the best!

    • @MotiveSuccess
      @MotiveSuccess  2 года назад +15

      Anyone who want to fly high also need to have courage face failures,every successful person always go through suffering phase but how you handle all those things matter the most.

    • @pradorocks25
      @pradorocks25 2 года назад +3

      @@MotiveSuccess see now i don't want to be a high flyer big shot blah blah blah ok. All that I'm aspiring for is a simple and peaceful life that's all. But I'm unable to achieve even that.

  • @MrStark-fg7zo
    @MrStark-fg7zo 2 года назад +24

    Padhai kaisi krni hai ye sbko pata hai khud ko sambhalne k liye emotionally log chahiye hume that's true

  • @newton7433
    @newton7433 2 года назад +63

    Yaar ye kitni awesome hai yaar

  • @balrajrao5450
    @balrajrao5450 2 года назад +6

    Loved it
    Super Thankful for you to share it here

  • @Clam782
    @Clam782 Год назад +1

    This is a relatable aspirant 🙌

  • @anooppaswan7938
    @anooppaswan7938 Год назад +2

    God bless you & Thank u Ma'am 🙏

  • @tilleternity
    @tilleternity 2 года назад +13

    She's so well spoken

  • @flamestriker5654
    @flamestriker5654 2 года назад +7

    Respect ❤

  • @nkd2462
    @nkd2462 2 года назад +11

    Ek baar exam clear kro ..fir jo bhi gyan pelo.....moral of the story..

    • @divyanshushankar8134
      @divyanshushankar8134 2 года назад +8

      Impostor syndrome is real. That was the reason I went into depression while preparing for JEE. Competition is real. You feel left out. You think you are not good enough. I gave up in 12th as one of my friends committed suicide. I dropped one year and then went into BITS Pilani. Still I regret giving up and not giving my best.

    • @divyanshushankar8134
      @divyanshushankar8134 2 года назад +4

      More than anything else, mental health is required.

  • @alkn4555
    @alkn4555 2 года назад +10

    Madam Hindu College se h..vo kaafi IIT's se upper h ...hum IIT wale dhaake khaa rhe h.. north campus me personality to develop hoti h....yha na personality develop hoti...or private sector me...or startup's me zindagi nikljaati h..

  • @SaurabhKumar-fz9ok
    @SaurabhKumar-fz9ok 2 года назад +6

    Thank u Mam.

  • @itsnotme2575
    @itsnotme2575 2 года назад +3

    How is using something as basic as MS Excel exclusive to engineers lol :( Great insight btw, thank you!

  • @ankitachatterjee201
    @ankitachatterjee201 2 года назад +3

    Is she talking about something like Ankur Warikoo's Time management excel sheet?

  • @Saarasaranya
    @Saarasaranya 2 года назад +1

    Very useful advice. Thanks a lot

  • @कुजूरram5864
    @कुजूरram5864 2 года назад +3

    Beauty with brain😍🔥

  • @urgentunique5553
    @urgentunique5553 2 года назад

    So Sweet

  • @VickyKumar-qi6ys
    @VickyKumar-qi6ys 2 года назад +2

    Baate uchi uchi.........
    Line is true

    • @Clam782
      @Clam782 Год назад +1

      She is an IAS.

  • @alkafemiinpn6278
    @alkafemiinpn6278 2 года назад +3

    Speed in English :)

  • @subhadip1756
    @subhadip1756 2 года назад

    🙏🙌🙏

  • @nitinthakur6569
    @nitinthakur6569 2 года назад +4

    Her voice😏

  • @lhamthupten7431
    @lhamthupten7431 2 года назад +5

    cutie

  • @pborah1002
    @pborah1002 2 года назад +3

    Vagwaan ka dia hua sabkuch hai doulat hai shaurat hai
    Bas iski kami thi

  • @puneetdubey613
    @puneetdubey613 2 года назад +5

    Communication skill specially body language not good as a IAS

  • @alkasoli4002
    @alkasoli4002 2 года назад +1

    I don't want to be saloni verma

  • @ScorpionIAS10
    @ScorpionIAS10 2 года назад +2

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