3 Common Mistakes That Destroy Your Dating Life
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- Опубликовано: 24 авг 2024
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Great to hear man! Remember you did that yourself he just guided you in the right path! Merry Christmas ☦️
1: BEING TOO NEEDY
2: NOT "DOING IT" RIGHT
3: DEPOLARIZATION
Thank you I don't have to watch the video now
@@destinytheunfortunate and this is why you may not be getting the results you want
@@GenericRandomI think he was being sarcastic
@@drzedd5212 i thought about it too but its really hard to understand from a text comment
@@GenericRandom I think he was joking
Merry Christmas
Not there yet.
Merry Christmas man
Merry christmass
too late but merry chrismas bro
@@omarabbas18 bruv it's to late becuase I posted this 3 weeks ago
I felt the polarization with my girlfriend a couple months ago. I was slacking in the gym and I was seeing her several days a week. Our “love” was boring and unemotional. I got grinding in the gym again and saw her once a week and our sexual chemistry sky rocketed again. Hamza for sure knows what he is talking about.
Bruh, haven’t texted her for 3 days and it was killing me until I realized how fucking needy I was. Damn. Hits Hard
I hate this needy texting shit. Everyone is on their phone surfing reddit and Facebook and shit. Everyone sees the texts within 10 min but you need to wait 2 days till u text or you are seen as needy
Real
Do the hard work especially when u dont feel like it
That's right there are days I don't feel like making a vid but we must persist!
Hamza im a 14 year old boy, your advice literally changed my life in every way. Thank you so much Hamza❤️ Merry Christmas everyone brothers 💪💪💪
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hamza saved my life, a brazilian guy who can barely speak english i am very grateful for him.
Some of the shit with depolarization i think just personally should be changed to each is their own. A relationship can’t just be sex but yeah it makes sense that it will increase sexual drive
I agree, relationships founded on sex aren't as viable, you have to spend some time with your partner where you're not doing that stuff.
Thank you Hamza, for everything.
I appreciate him he inspired my channel merry Christmas btw
I don’t see many people commenting on depolarization but wow I have NEVER thought of this concept before and its blowing my mind. The biological need to have a family with a girl is what drives us men, and centering a relationship around that perspective is a good way to look at it.
However, I have a slightly different take - to me, making love is better when I know a decent amount about the girl - so I’d say that to me: 80% of the relationship should be centered around intimacy, and 20% around being friends/knowing each other
i cant say i agree with what youre saying for point 3. yes a woman wants a man who is focused primarily on his work and whose purpose comes first, but I don't believe watching a movie or playing a video game with your girlfriend every once in a while is going to dimish your relationship with her or her sexual desire for you. In my experience if you enjoy similar interests together it actually INCREASES her attraction towards you because she gets to see a different side of you and feels more security knowing she can enjoy her favorite hobbies with the man she loves the most. Ive never seen a woman be happy that her man dislikes every hobby and activity shes into. Its really not about avoiding these "similar activities" such as liking the same movies, and only having sexually charged interactions with your girl lmao. The goal should be about prioritizing where you focus your time and energy. When those fun activities become the norm and you lose focus of your priorities is when it becomes an issue
My thoughts exactly
He means commonly like if you play together for like 2 hours each day it gets too much like a general friendship and not a relationship
Exactly
@@james__games183 Yes
You know, the reason I respect you as a man is because you forgave your parents for their past actions and also made their life better along with yours. I'm so grateful that I found this channel
Loving the name bro
based name
how is the name based you lot are retarded
Nice username bto
But how should you be able to stop depolarization if you move together with ur girl? Like it’s literally implicating that you spend „non love“ time together. Tell me Adonis
8hrs working, 10 hours in bed sleeping, 2 hours in the gym. That leaves 4 hours. You can maintain polarization for 4 hours right?
@@mvalthegamer2450 10 hours SLEEPING💀 that isnt even healthy and is a huge waste of time.
@@tranium67 did u even watch hamza? Its perfectly healthy, especially if you are a teenager and lift. Get educated before you comment smth like that
@@tranium67 you dont sleep for 10 hrs efficiently. Most people are 85- 90% efficient while sleeping so u have to calculate that aspect aswell so if you sleep for 10 hrs u will only efficiently sleep for 8-9 hrs
@@tranium67 Look up sleep efficiency. Normally, you only spend about 90% of the time in bed actually sleeping (unless you're sleep deprived), so out of 10 hours laying down you'll always get the healthy 9 of sleep
We must keep working hard and self Improve brothers
I think what he is trying to say about depolarization is to stay genuinely busy with your goals as a man. (My takeaway)
hamza i just wanted to say that your advice has helped me greatly
i have always been lonely and sad and insecure and lacked confident but i started watching your content 2 months ago and my life has completly changed
i have more friends now and more confidence
i even got asked out by a girl 2 weeks ago and now she is my girlfriend
i would never have reached this moment if it wasn't for you, i thank you from the bottom of my heart.
Hamza you are changing my life, keep up the work!! We all appreciate what you do man.
Hamza i 15 years age and pakistani like you, but in pakistan we r always fed stupid garbage media, have terrible education system and not taught/encouraged proper like in west (i think u can relate) but when i find ur videos, i become more good and have a strive and desire to become more good. i did and became a lot in only 1 year from only ur videos. thx to u alot mr Hamza
soon i will get girlfriend. mein pyaar kar sakun ga
Wow… the part on depolarising is EXACTLY what has happened with my girlfriend. I hope it’s not too late for me to put in the ground work and turn it around.
Hamza i just want to thank you for being part of my journey . Because of you I've started my journey , since watching you I've managed to get in the best shape of my life , got my mindset set and things can only go up from here . Merry Christmas everyone
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Hamza, thank you for helping me improve my dating life and my own life in general. You were definitely right with all of the content you have been producing. I have become the guy that she doesn't leave on delivered, it's funny how other guys texted her like chumps while I was with her play wrestling and having a pillow fight. You have changed my life entirely and showed me the ways of Adonis. This tribe will flourish in the near future and I know it.
Watched it months back but forgot about the lessons i learnt , now almost lost my relationship but luckily i watched it again and gonna solve everything
bro got the lightskin stare in the thumbnail
Hey brother, I'm older and thanks to you we can keep learning and improving 👍🏻👍🏻
Hamza you're litterally saving these generations of young men, thank you!
Having dnd on or whatever so you don’t see notifications was a life changer for me.
At first you notice how much you keep checking and how addicted you actually are, but then you forget about it hours at a time and it’s so freeing.
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now like the video
Hi Hamza, Nothing ever changed things for me like your videos did.... thanks 👍
This helped me to not be needy and be happily independent and welcoming to women, thank you Hamza.
Happy Christmas, Brethren😁✝️
This is one of my fav videos by you so far
Quit watching Andrew and came to Hamza I believe he’s truly good and isn’t disrespecting peoples believes in anyway he’s just helping the world
The best video yet.
That thumbnail is something else. Keep up the good work 👍
Jeffery doesn’t Believe in Santa Claus
“Santa can’t be real, there’s no proof of his existence”
He runs around telling all his friends and what do they do? (Oh no jeffery, they’re laughing in your face)
Why be ridiculed when you can be like….
ADONIS
Adonis loves Santa Claus. Every year he writes in his gratitude journal all the gifts he wants from Santa. He meditates and prays for Santa to bring him gifts. Santa knows Adonis has been a good boy, so Adonis always gets all the gifts he desires
Merry Christmas 🎉
What a comment
This filled me with joy
Thanks for the consistent posting! I always got something to look forward to!
Hamza I want to thank u from the bottom of my heart for changing my life. Had I not watched and listen to you, I would have been in a state where I had no friends, weird and a skinny fat chomp. thank you so much for changing for my life
Thank you for the help you have given me and so many guys my age.
Hamza, Tate and other mentors really are changing our lives in a positive way
The Bible is the best place to get wisdom as well, try it
@@godismysavior6428 yea bro I’ve been trying to apply these things in my life Ik God has a will for me in life and there’s things that hold me back like smoking and stuff sometimes I fall into lust and stuff but I don’t and will not stop trying these men and God ofc know what you need in life and they share it so I take it and use it the Bible is definitely here to help I haven’t read it inna min but imma get back into it
@@josuesalazar776 God bless you brother .
@@godismysavior6428 reading the Bible since a couple of days, just a few pages every day. Already tired of people spoiling when I go to church and the quote a passage I'm not on yet. Sounds funny and yes, it actually is. So far I'm impressed by it.
@@simon7701 😂 God bless you my brother
hamza. thank you so much, you’ve changed my life for the better and you’ve taught me how to keep focus and discipline. merry christmas and happy new years to you sir.
I’ve never had a problem getting a girls and I’m currently in a near 2 year relationship but I still watch these videos because you’re taking the words out of every successful guys mouths, you got to make the girl needy, you just have to have the options.
You're a messiah in this modern times. Thank you Hamza. Greetings from Argentina 💪
The last mistake hit so fu**ing hard
I admit i'm not good in anything but with the help of hamza i'll improve
This has been my experience. We must stay focused brothers💪
I appreciate that you take the time to inspire young men (including me).
Thanks Hamza for being so inspiring to me
Thankyou bro im improving 1 percent every day
BRO THAT ADONIS SAMURAI IS DAMN EPICC
The editors are stealing our kisses!!!!!
Im never going to be a chad but I always like to listen Hamza and learn some stuff from him
Merry christmas Hamza and everyone, 2023 is our year❤
5:40 can recommend. Put your phone on silent and do not disturb. Do you really need a notification when someone says "😂"?
Hamza, thank you for making this video, it changed my mindset of how to keep a long term relationship. Helped a lot because I had a previous relationship that ended due to depolarization, and I’ll never let that happen again.
Haha, I automatically read your entire comment in the voice and tone of the drill instructor :D
The very start of the video resonated with me. I used to have that mindset, but now if I don’t get a response I just move on. It sucks, but not as much as clinging to false hope.
Answered no to all the questions im chilling. Make yourself your first priority boys.
Bro I used to do everything wrong. Thank you for showing me how I was wrong. I love you Hamza.
fr tho, most guys don't understand how cringy neediness becomes because they've never experienced it, but trust me when I say when a girl does this, you'd lose all the interest
Just started no fap and becoming way more disciplined I have lost 10 kg in a month life’s good thanks
Hamza, you made my life so much better and helped me improve myself, thank you.
This video couldn't have been uploaded at a better time for me, thank you Hamza. Appreciate you brother!
you inspire me keep up!!!!!!
@Hamza Here's my take on depolarization. A man often has the basic love requirements unfulfilled when living with his parents. And as we very well know, people want those things in a relationship which they never got as a child, or with their parents. My solution to this was to work on my relationship with my parents. This way, I do not become a little child with my girl. Now I may very well be wrong therefore I suggest that you do give it a thought Hamza...
hamza the modern modernity saver
Sometimes spend time making a cake or play video games with your girlfriend is good. She will never say something like "oh I didnt know you are this feminine". I understand that you are now in an extreme phase. But things will settle and you cannot forever act strong, mascular, and distant to her. What if someday you slip and fall? Will she stay with you when she knows nothing about you or have any bond with you other than the fact that you are a strong, masculine man?
Just like a mother to her son. If that mother only loves her son with a condition, she will not be able to raise him, therefore, being Adonis is not enough. I suggest that, when you are happy, and relaxing, try to be by her side and do whatever silly things that both can enjoy.
Everything has to be productive, everything has to be work, everything has to be gain
Hamza, could you pls make a video for woman aswell like, what are we in a healthy self-improvnent jurney suppose to do? What habits ate we suppose to develop or some advice on how to get a bf...? Or can we follow the same advice that you give guys? Or what if a woman is masculine herself, and what can she do about it, like when she hates dresses and most of the girly stuf?
Btw, thanks for all your videoes, they really helped me to improve my mental health! Keep going bro!
Honestly, you will need different advice and _honestly_ I don't know where you can find it. First place would be the women in your life, Mothers, Cousins, Grandmas, Teachers. Online, the Pink Pill is toxic so avoid that. Though, a lot of the general principles here you can apply to your own life, Hamza has always said this is advice for men. We arn't the same, this isn't one size fits all. Good luck!
And 2. Being masculine. If that is how you are, be that way. Don't pretend to be someone you are not. Tomboys are a fetish for a reason. Girls have a lot more freedom when it comes to expression and dating so use that. Truth is, guys like women, in general, of all kinds, shapes and sizes. Though, certian typesnare more commonly prefered, all have a chance. I personally HATE generic basic girls, so that's why I suggest this. A lot of girls kill their induviduality to get men. On me, this has the opposite effect.
@@maxtheawesome4255 Thanks bro, I appreciate :)
Merry Christmas to all the Adonis in making in the comments. We all gonna make it brahs.
Jeffrey to chad transformation journey 💪💪
Chad to Adonis?
its a loophole
I'm not needy anymore tanx to this guy
Thank you Hamza. I know I speak for everyone when I say I can not express how thankful I am for your guidance.
Hamza. I am so grateful I’ve found you out you’ve helped with my life so much
Hi bro, i really appreciate your videos. Any of your video is full of information and helps me to lose my bad sides. But the problem is i can't move to another video but your next videos. All of your titles appealing.🤣
Hey hamza im a huge fan you’ve definitely helped me to refocus on being my best self. I’ve been in a relationship for the past 3 year so and when you mentioned relationship becoming depolarized it struck a nerve. I’d really appreciate if you could make more videos about this topic. Keep up the great work.
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“Comfort is the killer of man” THST IS SO GODDAMN TRUE
1:40 well i thought i was 'feminine' and 'needy' but i realised my problem is much deeper than that, namely that i got an avoidant attachment. So no it's not neediness but i'm just daydreaming because i am supressing my emotions.
Adonis animations getting better
hamza thank you for the changes that you made in my life i dont think you will see this but THANKS!!!
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hi, if you are an indian/brown guy and feel insecure and stuff about not being attractive to girls, i jus wanna let you know, from an indian female perspective, we are waiting for u guys to pursue us. so gather some confidence and please start asking us out or just talk to us even tho we got strict parents :)
First two points might work for some really lonely guys. The 3rd point gave me a laugh though:D
Thanks Hamza! I make videos too and I’ve been grinding and focusing on me. The Info in your video is great to me bc I’ve been working on bettering myself, but ur sleep advice has really been helping me a lot. Thank you and merry Christmas!
#bring_the_kiss_back
I stopped playing video games because of you, Instead of exploring ancient Greece In games Im reading about it and watching documentaries
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@@chrishansen859 Indeed
@@Basedlocation dude, you want to be my friend in learning computer and workout? It is hard to find men that interest in workout and learn about computer.
@@nguyennguyenkhang5800 sure I’ll be your fren rn lol
Oddly enough, Assassin's Creed Odyssey was the last videogame I played before embarking on this epic journey. Your comment resonates with me deeply.
Ohh the moment u pop up in my mind i see ur video notification 🤣
After watching your videos working is starting to actually make fun. Thanks bro
LETS GOO Another video
That face in the thumbnail though 🗿
Merry Christmas Kings 👑
Your a legend man
it makes me cringe to my CORE how well u described my past. it being me to my knees how many mistakes ive made in the past.
Love you so much ..I was living like a jaffrey but now your videos are guiding me so much in life .. i truly believe in you and respect you ,, love from 🇮🇳 🇮🇳 🇮🇳
THANK YOU
16:14 😭😂
Amazing video!
It’s that time of day baby 😈
Thank you hamza you got me into self improvement merry Christmas 🎄