దీప్తి,సతీష్ గార్లకు ఈ వివరణకు ధన్యవాదాలు. గతంలో మీ వీడియోల వలన యువత ఆకర్షితులయ్యారు. జీవిత ప్రయాణంలో మనకు ఎంతో అనుభవం వస్తుంది. అప్పుడు రాబోయే జీవితం మానసికంగా,శారీరకంగా ఎలా జీవించాలి అనే మీమాంస ను బట్టి మన ఆత్మ సాక్షిగా ముందుకెల్లాలని సూచన బాగుంది. యు
you spoke the ground reality. True that anyone who has touched 40s would want to return to their roots. Psychology changes. Nostalgia develops..But cannot return for several reasons several issues. Adoptability of kids. Confusion due to downsides of each country. Each one of us can relate to the irritation that we get when we see chaos with queues, traffic, following rules in India.
I stay in Munich and EU from last 9 years … feel same like you .. what we are doing here ? We don’t belong here .. also when health issue strikes more we feel bad staying here I’m from Hyderabad, Telugu Guy
It is always package, comes with advantages and disadvantages. Going back and working in Hyderabad, I can’t even imagine. I scared of traffic and pollution.
మన ఊరిలో మన parents దగ్గర ఉండటమే సుఖం.. పండగలకి Bangalore or Chennai నుంచి వచ్చే మన తెలుగు వాళ్ళకి కూడా same "missing" feeling.. కాకపోతే బయట రాష్ట్రం నుంచి మన ఇంటికి వెళ్ళటానికీ, బయట దేశం నుంచి మన ఇంటికి వెళ్ళటానికీ చాలా తేడా ఉంది లెండి.
Small correction to your telugu title and thumbnail " ఎరక్క పోయి వచ్చాము ఇరుక్కు పోయాము" ఎరక్క means without prior knowledge or lack of information. Thanks
True, I was also a 2005 btech E.CON.E. passed out from Mohanbabu College, I met Sathish at Sai Bajali hostel once. I'm also been working in London for the last 8 years and have not been able to move to India due to my children's education
I am from Africa ,me and patner is having same thoughts,,when i watched you i felt like you are in to our minds😅,Deepu and Sathis we got related by each n everything what you have shared.
I also experienced the same things while I was in Australia, wanted to come back to India but due to quality of life, i was again wanted to stay in AUS. Anyway, i am back now, it's not my decision my company brought me back. But after coming, definitely i am missing the quality of life at the same time my kids are enjoying with their new friends, i do not have that disturbance from Aussies saying don't shout while my kids are playing, i have better social life. I wish India should also advance in terms of quality of life than we do not need to go anywhere!!
I fear that Somebody like you shouldn't stop sharing content thinking that people aren't getting exactly what you are saying. But worthy people will definitely find & appreciate your content.
ఇండియ వదలి వెళ్ళినవారు ఎవరూ తిరిగి రావడానికి ఇస్టపడరు. త్రిశంకు స్వర్గం లాగా అక్కడ ఉండలేరు ఇక్కడా ఉడలేరు. ప్రతి ఒక్కరూ వచ్చేస్తము అంటారు కానీ రాలేరు. స్తలమహిమ. Place ki attachment Chala vuntundi. Parents also can’t stay in other countries . Own country lo pillalaku dooranga vundaleru.
Meeru cheppindhi 1000% correct that is because germany is more towards self no socialness, i mean vallu self alone and conjusted ga vallu chaala thakkuva social beings no sociology but india lo kanipinchina prathi okkarini palakarinchaka poyina telisina vallu mana pakkaney vuntaru that too peddhaga maatlaadaka poyina oka chinna smile is enough!....Most of the germans is having disorders as of studies by researchers...Vallaki depression and anxiety issues yekkuva ipoyayi that is because of their history.
కరెక్ట్ గా చెప్పారండి మా పరిస్థితి కూడా సేమ్ ఇక్కడ మేముండేది ఐర్లాండ్ లో నేను ప్లాన్ చేసుకున్న ఏదైనా పల్లెటూరు సెటిల్ అవుదామని నేను లాస్ట్ జూలైలో హైదరాబాద్ వెళ్ళాను ఆ ట్రాఫిక్ లో కారు నడపడం నాకు చాలా కష్టంగా అనిపించింది 2005లో ఉన్నప్పుడు గల్లి గల్లి తిరిగేవాన్ని ఇప్పుడు ఆ పరిస్థితి లేదు
100 agree with your thoughts. Our kids are in 11th n 10th grade..we r planning to return after their graduation. But as you said we r not willing to work upon returning to India..rather we r not confident that I get a job back there 😢.
Naku edi day 1 nunchi unna feeling akka, back to india ani. Ma thathayya eppudo cheppadu , endhuku ra antha dhooram "dhuurapu kondalu nunupu ani" nenu vinala. Akkada unnapudu 10 mandhitho matlade vadini ikkadiki vachaka natho nena 10 sarlu matladukuntunna.😂.
Open ga mee experience, opinion share chesukunnaru bagundi,ippudu vere countries vellalanu kune vallaku use avuthundi mee video, husband and wife okariki okaru anthe ae country lo vunna, meeku ekkada bagunte akkada settle avvandi kaani ekkada vunna mana(tho/lo)manam vundali 😊 idi valla country idi mana country ani feel avvakandi antha manade antha maname anukondi, place kanna mana pani mana character prakaram limits vunte antha happy ne
Nobody can speak so clearly as you, about topics that are totally useful. If people still try to find faults & presume things about you, it's their problem. Please ignore.
నేను USA లో నివసిస్తున్నాను. నేను రెండేళ్ల క్రితం రిటైర్ అయ్యాను. దేవుని దయతో నేను చాలా సంతోషంగా ఉన్నాను. శాశ్వత పూర్తి సమయం ఉద్యోగాలు(Permanent Full time Jobs) ఉన్నవారికి USA లో జీవితం అద్భుతమైనది. నేను మీ వీడియో నుండి చాలా విషయాలు నేర్చుకున్నాను. ధన్యవాదాలు.
India is a great place but Software lo work life Pina strict policies Levu , Social security concept ledhu .. slog cheyadanii encourage chestharu .. work stress valla chala health issues raise authunnai ivi bagunte India vadhili vellalsina avasaram ledhu it employee ki
Chala real ga manasulo unde dilemma chepparu, it’s been 2 years for me but still I feel something is always missing may be the freedom and confidence in your motherland with the friends and family with you. Miru cheppinattu pillalu 4 th standard lopu vellali, a tarvta vellina malli vallani vadili vachamane confusion, emotionally too much to handle
Good video. Abroad life.. young age existing, after 10 years you get realisation and after 25 years you start regretting. You guys are in realisation phase... all will face this.
Almost everything in this video feels subjective, and I don't see much relevance for the majority of Indians living abroad, actually people return to India after spending several years abroad and having enough earnings . Can you really imagine anyone going back to India after just 2 or 3 years of working abroad? Another point worth mentioning is that expecting Germans to understand and adapt to our culture when we move here seems unreasonable, Why should they? When we come to Germany, it's important that we understand and respect their culture and adapt to their ways, not the other way around, There are certain days where making noise is permitted and tolerated, and yes we should also learn German. People who are moving abroad now are not making the wrong decision. It's not just about the money always; it's also about the quality of life, the experience of exploring different parts of the world, and the opportunity to learn many new things. When we've had enough of these experiences and saved enough money, then we can make the decision to return back to india regardless of the challenges just as how we faced struggles when we initially moved to Germany, every opportunity has its pros and cons.And if everything were better in India than here, it would be easy to return, but the reality is quite the opposite. PS: Things are always gonna change,, we have to deal with it This is my understanding and my gut opinion, don;t get me wrong :D
This ^^ not sure other countries understand our culture, we are in their country. I dont get why should noise even be tolerated. It's already such a mess in India with so much of noise, pollution and population. Why are we even encouraging it? Have these guys seen public sanitary, toilets, food preparation, mosquitos etc in India? What are all these NRIs going back to India trying to prove, they are wearing rose glasses. It's seriously bad in India, 99% of the people are leaving India, data proves it not the other way round. The heat, infrastructure, ease of doing things etc is such a mess in that country. What are they even talking about opportunities? tell me how many opportunities are there in India for the amount of population there? Joke these guys project how great a country India has become. Look at the current flood situation in AP and Telangana. No disaster recover process or procedure in place, how many people are suffering from all problems in that country.
Hello, thanks for all the videos. I very much like you both, you guys are adorable and honest couple. There are so many things I learnt from your videos about life and possible issues that I could experience as I get older. Can you please make a video about relations, pros and cons of marriage/relationship, having kids, typical issues people go through in relations. - Thanks :)
I have stayed in the USA for the past 24 years, We didn't feel like that, Because our INDIAN community is growing like anything. But India grows like anything. My native place is Vijayawada.
We are lucky to be in this growth phase of India. Stock market will grow for next few decades for sure and investors are optimistic which indicates the growth of GDP and per capita income. Slowly things will change year by year
Another perspective: I moved to Germany as a fresh graduate, and the early 20s are a time when one begins to establish individuality. As a student, everything was about learning and adapting-whether it was adjusting to the culture, food, language, or lifestyle. Because of this, many people like me (10+ years in Germany) find little/no difficulty with the social norms around here and choose to stay longer. For example, when we moved into a new flat, we left chocolates and a note in the hallway to let our neighbors know about the noise and disruptions. Not only did no one complain, but some even offered to help us with the move. India, too, has made significant progress in recent years, particularly in the service sector, surpassing Germany in many ways. I believe that both countries and their people have much to learn and adapt from each other and there's nothing wrong with considering a return home!😊
I sense some kind of FOMO in your videos but trust me, in India also you get the same treatment when you go to any state where they don't speak the same language or from the same culture. You totally ignored the caste system and hierarchy. As a fellow Indian living in Germany, I can vouch that you are living in the best country with clean water and less polluted air comparatively. India is the 2nd or 3rd largest polluted country in the world and thus causes other breathing issues and seasonal fevers almost every year. Diagnostics and healthcare as well as education turned into major commercial businesses. Don't even ask about traffic and pollution. We can't trust any quality in the services be it a cab or food ordering here. Everything is manipulated. Unless you face you don't realize. People here are just struggling rather than living and enjoying themselves. You are giving the best life & edu to your kid where learning is really valued. Comparatively you are leading the best life unless you like people interaction more vs egos, family politics, false prestige etc rather than peaceful life. It is a consumption based economy here where people have easy access to many things and purchasing power which is also taking away the mental peace and health from their lives. There is no sense of minimalism or respect towards nature but simply turning the country into a junk yard. Take care of your health.
ప్రస్తుతం ఇండియాలో పరిస్థితి బాగానే ఉంది. ఇక్కడికి వస్తే కొన్ని రోజుల్లో అలవాటు అయిపోతుంది. కల్చర్, ఆహారం, ఆహార్యం అన్నీ మనకు అలవాటున్నవే కాబట్టి ఎక్కువ సమయం పట్టకపోవచ్చు. ఎన్నాళ్లున్నా మీరు కానీ, మీ తరువాతి జనరేషన్ గానీ అక్కడ మైనార్టీ గానే బ్రతకాలి. వారూ మిమ్మల్ని పూర్తిగా కలుపుకోలేరు. మీరూ మొత్తం జర్మన్ సిటిజన్స్ లాగా మారడానికి చాలా ఎక్కువ కాలం పడుతుంది. అమ్మ చేసే అవకాయ పచ్చడి రుచే వేరు. 😊
100 % agree … they just seen one traffic jone and deciding may be not correct but they regret after 5-8 yrs that why we dint move to India …u guys r living in luxurious and comfort jones so let’s enjoy and comeback in ur old age ..
@@rajay654 true. in india every thing is struggle. Stay as long as good, earn money, travel frequent to india. Be like a Roman when in Rome. You got to assimilate. India లో కూడా discrimination వుంది, religion, caste. Even in own families jealousy, don't care attitude. You and your close family only matters.
You can't have cake and eat it too. We need to adopt local conditions. Of course in India we look at foreigners with awe don't except the same from West . Imagine to tolerate noice pollution for the last couple of days blaring loud music on account of Ganesh chaturthi from all corners. Observe how illegal colonies/ constructions were allowed to sprout for decades in Hyderabad and now being demolished . India is good for those who are rich and those who are ready to bribe to get services. It's a catch 22 situation for those who migrated for better future . There is a price for everything.
Exactly, This is what is was thinking while watching. On the other hand, If someone is planning to come to Germany, remember this "You can survive here without the language, but learn it if you want to live"
Thanks for sharing your thoughts 🙏. All English speaking foreigners ( not only Indians ) are living in Germany has the same feelings. If anyone asking me about jobs, opportunities and living in Germany I’m telling them very clearly “Germany should be the last option, try for English speaking countries “.
True once you reach certain age above 40 45 you feel our people place comfort specially servants or maids helpers what you need.your culture makes to feel our place
When the children grow it very difficult to change the residence to India .At the same time when you become aged you become helpless and regret your decision to leave one's own country The facilities that are available for elderly people and the cost living in India make you think and rethink again to go back. Really intriguing situation.
ఒక్క ముక్కలో చేపలంట్ 15 ఏళ్ళు నుండి బియ్యని తిని బోర్ కొట్టి పప్పు అన్నం బెటర్ అంటున్నరు. కానీ ఒక్కసారి కూడా బిర్యానీ తినని వల్లని తిననివ్వండి (యువత ఎన్నో ఆశలతో ఉంటారు). నిరుసహ పరచకండి.
Very nice video...మీరు చాలా స్పష్టంగా మాటలు మరియు అభిప్రాయాలు చెబుతున్నారు. నేను 14 సంవత్సరాల క్రితం USA కి వచ్చాను. వచ్చాము ఇరుక్కుపోయాము. ఒక్కటి మాత్రం నిజం, NRIs INDIA ki return అవడం......??
I am from USA in next three years my kids will be in jobs, then i am thinking of doing the winter birds thing staying 6 months in the USA and 6 months in India , I have many hobbies, USA is the best country for hobbyists.
"I agree with you. I have been living in Germany for a year now, and both my wife and I are working, while my child is studying in the 8th grade. I always feel like this is not our country, and I don't understand why I’m still here. Is it just to enjoy the nature and lifestyle? I feel we can experience that by staying in a remote place near Hyderabad as well. But still, I don’t fully understand why I am here. Please share your thoughts."
కానీ భారతదేశంలో మనం సుఖంగా ఉన్నామని నేను భావిస్తున్నాను. మేము స్వేచ్ఛగా మాట్లాడవచ్చు, మా మంచి ఆహారం తినవచ్చు, ఆనందంగా చిట్‌చాట్ చేయవచ్చు మరియు ఇడ్లీ, వడ, దోసె, పూరీ మరియు ఇతర స్థానిక ఇష్టమైన వాటిని ఆస్వాదించవచ్చు.
India vacheyyandi annayya, Hyderabad lo manchi jobs vunnai and infrastructure is good, hydra is making nature good ... Hyderabad lo international schools vunnai...chakkaga Hyderabad videos chesukochu🎉🎉... looking forward for Hyd updates annayya .
Now you are financially well settled. In next phase of life, important thing is your health , mental peace& education. You will get better health, mental peace in your hometown in India, knowing India has developed a lot. I’m sure you will have good living conditions there.. For kids education, many returning NRIs are doing home schooling in India. It’s new trend here & gains lot of momentum in future. One evident fact is IITs are prioritising home schoolers during their admission based on parent’s qualifications, grown up circumstances & bit of academic knowledge. Future will say good bye to current examination systems in India. Good luck 😊
You both are really shared the true experiences. India also have lot of issues to do the business moreover majority are sholdering hte taxes. specially political leadership, curreption, lack of transparency, education, health, environmental awareness and sustainable development.
Level1: comfort లేక, ఏం చెయ్యాలో clarity లేనపుడు వైల్డ్ గా ఆలోచిస్తాం, ఎలాంటి రిస్క్ తీసుకుని మరీ తన కెపాసిటీకి తగ్గట్టుగా ఫుల్ గా అడ్జస్ట్ అవుతాడు. ఏ సమాజాన్ని, ప్రాంతాన్ని తప్పుగా అర్థం చేసుకోడు, తప్పు పట్టడు ఆ situation కి life అంటే కష్టాలు లెర్నింగ్ వుండాలి అని పేరు పెడతాడు Level 2: clarity and comfort పెరిగినపుడు తనకు తెలిసిన సంఘాన్ని సమాజాన్ని కలుపుకొని ఒక సామ్రాజ్యాన్ని నిర్మించుకోవాలి అంటుకుంటాడు.. ఏదేమైనా మానవుడు బయోలాజికల్ స్టడీస్ ప్రకారం, ఒక సంఘ జీవి, ఒక team player, ఆ ముక్క తెలవనపుడు 'నేను' అనుకుంటాడు.. 'మనం' అనుకునే లోపు పుణ్యకాలం గడిచి పోయి మంచంపై కానీ లేక పోతే 'ఢామ్' అని వుంటాడు..
"జర్మనీ రావడానికి ఎందుకు ఆలోచించరు , ప్రతివాళ్ళు us నే prefer చేస్తారు" అనే ఈ వాక్యం మీ నుండి ఇదివరలో విన్నాను ! 'జర్మనీ' అయినా, 'us ' అయినా వాళ్ళ culture , అలవాట్లు దాదాపు ఒక్కటే విధంగా వుంటాయి - ఆ దేశాలలో మనకైతే ఊపిరి బిగపట్టినట్లు జీవితం ఉంటుంది - పైగా weekend ఎప్పుడు వస్తుందా అని ఎదురు చూడటం, ఇండియా వెళ్ళటానికి ఉత్సాహం - ఏమైనా 'ఫ్రీ జీవితానికి' ఇండియాకు రావాలని అనిపిస్తుంది - అత్తమామలు, ఆడపడుచుల పోరులు (సామాజిక పరిస్తితులు ) law & order తో విసిగెత్తినపుడు us వెళ్లిపోవాలని అనిపిస్తుంది - ఇదే తేడా ! పిల్లలకు ఈ తేడా ఎక్కువ అనుభవంలోకి రాదు - వారికి ఒక్కటే దేశం - వారు పెరిగిన దేశం !
Thanks for sharing your thoughts. I am in the same boat. But luckily, our baby is just 18 months old and by next year I will be eligible for German Citizenship. So, my plan is to move out from Germany after getting the passport. As mentioned in the video, please share info regarding how easily one can work in the USA after getting the German citizenship. Further, I am also waiting for your new house tour and the whole buying process. Pros and Cons of owning a house/apartment in Germany. Please keep posting videos.
how many professions in India , making 1Cr savings !! If both working in Germany, savings would be 5-9L per month!! So, after making good corpus.. we start loving India..
That’s a myth.. couples earning 6L+ per month.. absolutely not true in these days. Unless you have businesses , sacrificed family life.. you can earn that income..
Be it East or West, India is the best. This is my personal opinion, I think Europe is not the right place to settle down for Indians. USA is little better than Germany. I saw a community in near San Francisco, where 98% of people are from India and Indian festivals are being celebrated in the community.
మొత్తం వీడియో లో నాకు నచ్చింది.. ఏమంటే.. ఒకరు మాట్లాడం మొదలెట్టగానే... మరొకరు సైలింట్ అవడం చాలా బాగుంది..I like it very much
పాపం...మీరు ఎంత బాధ పడ్డారో😂😂😂😂
@@pothinenikalyan3482😅😅
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We in India are the best to live.
జీవిత పోరాటం గురించి చాలా బాగా వివరించారు ధన్యవాదాలు
దీప్తి,సతీష్ గార్లకు ఈ వివరణకు ధన్యవాదాలు. గతంలో మీ వీడియోల వలన యువత ఆకర్షితులయ్యారు. జీవిత ప్రయాణంలో మనకు ఎంతో అనుభవం వస్తుంది. అప్పుడు రాబోయే జీవితం మానసికంగా,శారీరకంగా ఎలా జీవించాలి అనే మీమాంస ను బట్టి మన ఆత్మ సాక్షిగా ముందుకెల్లాలని సూచన బాగుంది.
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you spoke the ground reality. True that anyone who has touched 40s would want to return to their roots. Psychology changes. Nostalgia develops..But cannot return for several reasons several issues. Adoptability of kids. Confusion due to downsides of each country. Each one of us can relate to the irritation that we get when we see chaos with queues, traffic, following rules in India.
I stay in Munich and EU from last 9 years … feel same like you .. what we are doing here ? We don’t belong here .. also when health issue strikes more we feel bad staying here
I’m from Hyderabad, Telugu Guy
Super analysis and naration. You both come india and join politics and definitely useful to society.
It is always package, comes with advantages and disadvantages. Going back and working in Hyderabad, I can’t even imagine. I scared of traffic and pollution.
సంపాదించు కున్నారు కదా వచ్చేయండి చక్కగా ఎంజాయ్ చేయండి .ఇష్టమైన ఫుడ్ తింటూ ఇష్టమైన మనుషులతో గడుపుతూ ఇష్టమైన పని చేసుకుంటూ happy life .
ముడ్డి నాది కాదంటే తాటి పట్టెకి ఎదురు డేకమన్నాడట వెనకటికెవడో
Wonderful. Clear expression of views. Let people think over the issue.
Lite theesuko sister, enjoy every minute in Germany, When you want to come back, come happily 😊.
Hi… I now live in US but I followed your videos since I am in Ireland. Your videos has helped me a lot to take my decisions better ….. Thanks
మీ విశ్లేషణ చాలా చక్కగా ఉంది. ధన్యవాదాలు
Same feelings andi, I am from Johannesburg. Over 18 years here.
Vinayaka chavithi subakankshalu Deepu garu and sir ji ....🎉
Thank you very much, I learnt many things now even though I don't belong to this category.......
హాయ్ సూపర్ వీడియో s ఉన్నది ఉన్నట్లుగా ముక్కు సూటిగా చెప్పడం మీరు👏👏👏
మన ఊరిలో మన parents దగ్గర ఉండటమే సుఖం..
పండగలకి Bangalore or Chennai నుంచి వచ్చే మన తెలుగు వాళ్ళకి కూడా same "missing" feeling..
కాకపోతే బయట రాష్ట్రం నుంచి మన ఇంటికి వెళ్ళటానికీ, బయట దేశం నుంచి మన ఇంటికి వెళ్ళటానికీ చాలా తేడా ఉంది లెండి.
Money vunnollaki
@@Anusha_Botsaippudu adhey akkada karuvu
Thanks for talking out. We are going through same. It feels very difficult to either go back or stay here.
Baga chepparandi, good information
మీ ఇద్దరిలో నన్ను నేను చూసుకున్నట్టు ఉంది.
Small correction to your telugu title and thumbnail " ఎరక్క పోయి వచ్చాము ఇరుక్కు పోయాము" ఎరక్క means without prior knowledge or lack of information.
Thanks
Welcome to india mam. Spend your rest of life in own country. 👍
All the best for your family andi.Nenu decided andi intiki vellipovalani.All the love in the world for both of you from London 💕💕💕💕
We are living in Barcelona since 10 years, exactly feel the same as you said 😅
Etha super ga analysis chyse chypauuu..me thought process ma thought process ga ,super andi🎉❤😂
True, I was also a 2005 btech E.CON.E. passed out from Mohanbabu College, I met Sathish at Sai Bajali hostel once. I'm also been working in London for the last 8 years and have not been able to move to India due to my children's education
I am from Africa ,me and patner is having same thoughts,,when i watched you i felt like you are in to our minds😅,Deepu and Sathis we got related by each n everything what you have shared.
I also experienced the same things while I was in Australia, wanted to come back to India but due to quality of life, i was again wanted to stay in AUS. Anyway, i am back now, it's not my decision my company brought me back.
But after coming, definitely i am missing the quality of life at the same time my kids are enjoying with their new friends, i do not have that disturbance from Aussies saying don't shout while my kids are playing, i have better social life. I wish India should also advance in terms of quality of life than we do not need to go anywhere!!
Really amazing andi meeru ♥️💫💕
I fear that Somebody like you shouldn't stop sharing content thinking that people aren't getting exactly what you are saying. But worthy people will definitely find & appreciate your content.
ఇండియ వదలి వెళ్ళినవారు ఎవరూ తిరిగి రావడానికి ఇస్టపడరు. త్రిశంకు స్వర్గం లాగా అక్కడ ఉండలేరు ఇక్కడా ఉడలేరు. ప్రతి ఒక్కరూ వచ్చేస్తము అంటారు కానీ రాలేరు. స్తలమహిమ. Place ki attachment Chala vuntundi. Parents also can’t stay in other countries . Own country lo pillalaku dooranga vundaleru.
Meeru cheppindhi 1000% correct that is because germany is more towards self no socialness, i mean vallu self alone and conjusted ga vallu chaala thakkuva social beings no sociology but india lo kanipinchina prathi okkarini palakarinchaka poyina telisina vallu mana pakkaney vuntaru that too peddhaga maatlaadaka poyina oka chinna smile is enough!....Most of the germans is having disorders as of studies by researchers...Vallaki depression and anxiety issues yekkuva ipoyayi that is because of their history.
కరెక్ట్ గా చెప్పారండి మా పరిస్థితి కూడా సేమ్ ఇక్కడ మేముండేది ఐర్లాండ్ లో నేను ప్లాన్ చేసుకున్న ఏదైనా పల్లెటూరు సెటిల్ అవుదామని నేను లాస్ట్ జూలైలో హైదరాబాద్ వెళ్ళాను ఆ ట్రాఫిక్ లో కారు నడపడం నాకు చాలా కష్టంగా అనిపించింది 2005లో ఉన్నప్పుడు గల్లి గల్లి తిరిగేవాన్ని ఇప్పుడు ఆ పరిస్థితి లేదు
@@ssrinivasraju73 hi Raju garu, all about ireland channel chustara?
100 agree with your thoughts. Our kids are in 11th n 10th grade..we r planning to return after their graduation. But as you said we r not willing to work upon returning to India..rather we r not confident that I get a job back there 😢.
Same here. May not get job there. I can relate to you 😉
Naku edi day 1 nunchi unna feeling akka, back to india ani. Ma thathayya eppudo cheppadu , endhuku ra antha dhooram "dhuurapu kondalu nunupu ani" nenu vinala. Akkada unnapudu 10 mandhitho matlade vadini ikkadiki vachaka natho nena 10 sarlu matladukuntunna.😂.
Open ga mee experience, opinion share chesukunnaru bagundi,ippudu vere countries vellalanu kune vallaku use avuthundi mee video, husband and wife okariki okaru anthe ae country lo vunna, meeku ekkada bagunte akkada settle avvandi kaani ekkada vunna mana(tho/lo)manam vundali 😊 idi valla country idi mana country ani feel avvakandi antha manade antha maname anukondi, place kanna mana pani mana character prakaram limits vunte antha happy ne
Nobody can speak so clearly as you, about topics that are totally useful. If people still try to find faults & presume things about you, it's their problem. Please ignore.
నేను USA లో నివసిస్తున్నాను. నేను రెండేళ్ల క్రితం రిటైర్ అయ్యాను. దేవుని దయతో నేను చాలా సంతోషంగా ఉన్నాను. శాశ్వత పూర్తి సమయం ఉద్యోగాలు(Permanent Full time Jobs) ఉన్నవారికి USA లో జీవితం అద్భుతమైనది. నేను మీ వీడియో నుండి చాలా విషయాలు నేర్చుకున్నాను. ధన్యవాదాలు.
India is a great place but Software lo work life Pina strict policies Levu , Social security concept ledhu .. slog cheyadanii encourage chestharu .. work stress valla chala health issues raise authunnai ivi bagunte India vadhili vellalsina avasaram ledhu it employee ki
Good explanation ,mee manasulo vunnadi vunnattu chepparu. So adjustment is life.akkadi life gurinchi marinni vedeos cheyandi
Good analysis deepu garu
Chala rojulaku kanipistunnaru andi, happy to see you ❤❤
All the best welcome to India
I am from Canada,
more or less feelings are same!
Especially winter experience is a bit tuff.
Cost of living becomes very expensive.
You are fairly expressed your feelings and opinions. It's good 👍🏻
After many days Deepu n Satish....good to see you
Good.. share your valuable experience.
మీరు దమ్మున్న దంపతులు సర్‌/మేడమ్‌. మీరు ఉన్నదున్నట్టుగా ఎటువంటి మొహమాటం లేకుండా మాట్లాడతారు.
Thank you for uploading andiiii waited so long ☀️😊💕💫
‘ఎరక్క పోయి వచ్చాను ఇరుక్కు పోయాను ‘ అక్కినేని సినిమా లో సాంగ్ ఉంది కదా! దానిలో తప్పేమీ లేదు. తెలుగులో మాండలికాల పరంగా అర్థవంతమయిన సమాసమే!
Emi tittukomandi. Good discussion and hope things are work out for greater good.
Chala real ga manasulo unde dilemma chepparu, it’s been 2 years for me but still I feel something is always missing may be the freedom and confidence in your motherland with the friends and family with you. Miru cheppinattu pillalu 4 th standard lopu vellali, a tarvta vellina malli vallani vadili vachamane confusion, emotionally too much to handle
Chala baga chepparu 👌🏽 Memu vachi 8 years ayyindi, mee video chala relate cheskokalam.
Well explained the your situation in Garmany.
Good video. Abroad life.. young age existing, after 10 years you get realisation and after 25 years you start regretting. You guys are in realisation phase... all will face this.
చివరాఖరకు నాకు అర్థం అయ్యిందేమిటంటే చచ్చిన ఆరు నూరైన నూరు ఆరైన మీరు మాత్రం ఇండియాకు రారని
correct ga chepparu
Antega....Antega😂
Almost everything in this video feels subjective, and I don't see much relevance for the majority of Indians living abroad, actually people return to India after spending several years abroad and having enough earnings . Can you really imagine anyone going back to India after just 2 or 3 years of working abroad? Another point worth mentioning is that expecting Germans to understand and adapt to our culture when we move here seems unreasonable, Why should they? When we come to Germany, it's important that we understand and respect their culture and adapt to their ways, not the other way around, There are certain days where making noise is permitted and tolerated, and yes we should also learn German.
People who are moving abroad now are not making the wrong decision. It's not just about the money always; it's also about the quality of life, the experience of exploring different parts of the world, and the opportunity to learn many new things. When we've had enough of these experiences and saved enough money, then we can make the decision to return back to india regardless of the challenges just as how we faced struggles when we initially moved to Germany, every opportunity has its pros and cons.And if everything were better in India than here, it would be easy to return, but the reality is quite the opposite.
PS: Things are always gonna change,, we have to deal with it
This is my understanding and my gut opinion, don;t get me wrong :D
This ^^ not sure other countries understand our culture, we are in their country. I dont get why should noise even be tolerated. It's already such a mess in India with so much of noise, pollution and population. Why are we even encouraging it?
Have these guys seen public sanitary, toilets, food preparation, mosquitos etc in India? What are all these NRIs going back to India trying to prove, they are wearing rose glasses. It's seriously bad in India, 99% of the people are leaving India, data proves it not the other way round.
The heat, infrastructure, ease of doing things etc is such a mess in that country. What are they even talking about opportunities? tell me how many opportunities are there in India for the amount of population there? Joke these guys project how great a country India has become. Look at the current flood situation in AP and Telangana. No disaster recover process or procedure in place, how many people are suffering from all problems in that country.
It's time for you to explore the new Suburb living in Hyderabad.. You will like it..
I feel like you are distant friend even though I don’t know you. Same thoughts and phases.
Hello, thanks for all the videos. I very much like you both, you guys are adorable and honest couple. There are so many things I learnt from your videos about life and possible issues that I could experience as I get older. Can you please make a video about relations, pros and cons of marriage/relationship, having kids, typical issues people go through in relations.
- Thanks :)
Happy ga mee hometown ki vellipoyi oka manchi organic farming or else glossary store pettukondi…happy life lead chesukondi if no financial problems…
I have stayed in the USA for the past 24 years, We didn't feel like that, Because our INDIAN community is growing like anything. But India grows like anything. My native place is Vijayawada.
Well said
But u know no where u get the feeling of Organic living in India 😂😂...
We are lucky to be in this growth phase of India. Stock market will grow for next few decades for sure and investors are optimistic which indicates the growth of GDP and per capita income. Slowly things will change year by year
I exactly feel the same as you do.
Another perspective: I moved to Germany as a fresh graduate, and the early 20s are a time when one begins to establish individuality. As a student, everything was about learning and adapting-whether it was adjusting to the culture, food, language, or lifestyle. Because of this, many people like me (10+ years in Germany) find little/no difficulty with the social norms around here and choose to stay longer.
For example, when we moved into a new flat, we left chocolates and a note in the hallway to let our neighbors know about the noise and disruptions. Not only did no one complain, but some even offered to help us with the move.
India, too, has made significant progress in recent years, particularly in the service sector, surpassing Germany in many ways. I believe that both countries and their people have much to learn and adapt from each other and there's nothing wrong with considering a return home!😊
I sense some kind of FOMO in your videos but trust me, in India also you get the same treatment when you go to any state where they don't speak the same language or from the same culture. You totally ignored the caste system and hierarchy. As a fellow Indian living in Germany, I can vouch that you are living in the best country with clean water and less polluted air comparatively. India is the 2nd or 3rd largest polluted country in the world and thus causes other breathing issues and seasonal fevers almost every year. Diagnostics and healthcare as well as education turned into major commercial businesses. Don't even ask about traffic and pollution. We can't trust any quality in the services be it a cab or food ordering here. Everything is manipulated. Unless you face you don't realize. People here are just struggling rather than living and enjoying themselves. You are giving the best life & edu to your kid where learning is really valued. Comparatively you are leading the best life unless you like people interaction more vs egos, family politics, false prestige etc rather than peaceful life. It is a consumption based economy here where people have easy access to many things and purchasing power which is also taking away the mental peace and health from their lives. There is no sense of minimalism or respect towards nature but simply turning the country into a junk yard. Take care of your health.
Good information andi, right now we are also facing same situation that we want to go back to India…..
This was very insightful
ప్రస్తుతం ఇండియాలో పరిస్థితి బాగానే ఉంది. ఇక్కడికి వస్తే కొన్ని రోజుల్లో అలవాటు అయిపోతుంది. కల్చర్, ఆహారం, ఆహార్యం అన్నీ మనకు అలవాటున్నవే కాబట్టి ఎక్కువ సమయం పట్టకపోవచ్చు. ఎన్నాళ్లున్నా మీరు కానీ, మీ తరువాతి జనరేషన్ గానీ అక్కడ మైనార్టీ గానే బ్రతకాలి. వారూ మిమ్మల్ని పూర్తిగా కలుపుకోలేరు. మీరూ మొత్తం జర్మన్ సిటిజన్స్ లాగా మారడానికి చాలా ఎక్కువ కాలం పడుతుంది. అమ్మ చేసే అవకాయ పచ్చడి రుచే వేరు. 😊
100 % agree … they just seen one traffic jone and deciding may be not correct but they regret after 5-8 yrs that why we dint move to India …u guys r living in luxurious and comfort jones so let’s enjoy and comeback in ur old age ..
@@rajay654 true. in india every thing is struggle. Stay as long as good, earn money, travel frequent to india.
Be like a Roman when in Rome. You got to assimilate. India లో కూడా discrimination వుంది, religion, caste.
Even in own families jealousy, don't care attitude. You and your close family only matters.
S andi I agree with you
You can't have cake and eat it too. We need to adopt local conditions. Of course in India we look at foreigners with awe don't except the same from West . Imagine to tolerate noice pollution for the last couple of days blaring loud music on account of Ganesh chaturthi from all corners. Observe how illegal colonies/ constructions were allowed to sprout for decades in Hyderabad and now being demolished . India is good for those who are rich and those who are ready to bribe to get services. It's a catch 22 situation for those who migrated for better future . There is a price for everything.
Exactly, This is what is was thinking while watching.
On the other hand, If someone is planning to come to Germany, remember this "You can survive here without the language, but learn it if you want to live"
living in Berlin, 100 percent correct
Very good n useful video.welcome to India
Lovely couple
Take care
B happy ❤
Thanks for sharing your thoughts 🙏. All English speaking foreigners ( not only Indians ) are living in Germany has the same feelings. If anyone asking me about jobs, opportunities and living in Germany I’m telling them very clearly “Germany should be the last option, try for English speaking countries “.
spoke from heart, take care
True once you reach certain age above 40 45 you feel our people place comfort specially servants or maids helpers what you need.your culture makes to feel our place
రెండు వేల సంవత్సరానికి ఆటు ఇటు బయటకు వెళ్లినవాళ్ళ అందరి ఆలోచనలు ఇలాగే ఉన్నాయి .భారత్ లో ఉండలేము అలాగే బయట అదే పరిస్థితి .
When the children grow it very difficult to change the residence to India .At the same time when you become aged you become helpless and regret your decision to leave one's own country
The facilities that are available for elderly people and the cost living in India make you think and rethink again to go back. Really intriguing situation.
ఒక్క ముక్కలో చేపలంట్ 15 ఏళ్ళు నుండి బియ్యని తిని బోర్ కొట్టి పప్పు అన్నం బెటర్ అంటున్నరు. కానీ ఒక్కసారి కూడా బిర్యానీ తినని వల్లని తిననివ్వండి (యువత ఎన్నో ఆశలతో ఉంటారు). నిరుసహ పరచకండి.
Life is like that. Happyness doesn't depend on external circumstances. దూరపు కొండలు నునుపు.
Very nice video...మీరు చాలా స్పష్టంగా మాటలు మరియు అభిప్రాయాలు చెబుతున్నారు. నేను 14 సంవత్సరాల క్రితం USA కి వచ్చాను. వచ్చాము ఇరుక్కుపోయాము. ఒక్కటి మాత్రం నిజం, NRIs INDIA ki return అవడం......??
I am from USA in next three years my kids will be in jobs, then i am thinking of doing the winter birds thing staying 6 months in the USA and 6 months in India , I have many hobbies, USA is the best country for hobbyists.
"I agree with you. I have been living in Germany for a year now, and both my wife and I are working, while my child is studying in the 8th grade. I always feel like this is not our country, and I don't understand why I’m still here. Is it just to enjoy the nature and lifestyle? I feel we can experience that by staying in a remote place near Hyderabad as well. But still, I don’t fully understand why I am here. Please share your thoughts."
meeerey maku cheppali guru, masters aipokotti ellipomanttey sardestha nenaithey.
how did your son accustom to the german school/medium at such an age, or is he going to international school
కానీ భారతదేశంలో మనం సుఖంగా ఉన్నామని నేను భావిస్తున్నాను. మేము స్వేచ్ఛగా మాట్లాడవచ్చు, మా మంచి ఆహారం తినవచ్చు, ఆనందంగా చిట్‌చాట్ చేయవచ్చు మరియు ఇడ్లీ, వడ, దోసె, పూరీ మరియు ఇతర స్థానిక ఇష్టమైన వాటిని ఆస్వాదించవచ్చు.
Jobs ledu boss
India vacheyyandi annayya, Hyderabad lo manchi jobs vunnai and infrastructure is good, hydra is making nature good ... Hyderabad lo international schools vunnai...chakkaga Hyderabad videos chesukochu🎉🎉... looking forward for Hyd updates annayya
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Now you are financially well settled. In next phase of life, important thing is your health , mental peace& education.
You will get better health, mental peace in your hometown in India, knowing India has developed a lot. I’m sure you will have good living conditions there..
For kids education, many returning NRIs are doing home schooling in India. It’s new trend here & gains lot of momentum in future. One evident fact is IITs are prioritising home schoolers during their admission based on parent’s qualifications, grown up circumstances & bit of academic knowledge.
Future will say good bye to current examination systems in India.
Good luck 😊
You both are really shared the true experiences. India also have lot of issues to do the business moreover majority are sholdering hte taxes. specially political leadership, curreption, lack of transparency, education, health, environmental awareness and sustainable development.
Good analyst🎉🎉🎉❤
Good Decision ,welcome to India and your relatives like all of our and your Indians are waiting,and your opinion about human life is correct.
Level1: comfort లేక, ఏం చెయ్యాలో clarity లేనపుడు వైల్డ్ గా ఆలోచిస్తాం, ఎలాంటి రిస్క్ తీసుకుని మరీ తన కెపాసిటీకి తగ్గట్టుగా ఫుల్ గా అడ్జస్ట్ అవుతాడు. ఏ సమాజాన్ని, ప్రాంతాన్ని తప్పుగా అర్థం చేసుకోడు, తప్పు పట్టడు ఆ situation కి life అంటే కష్టాలు లెర్నింగ్ వుండాలి అని పేరు పెడతాడు
Level 2: clarity and comfort పెరిగినపుడు తనకు తెలిసిన సంఘాన్ని సమాజాన్ని కలుపుకొని ఒక సామ్రాజ్యాన్ని నిర్మించుకోవాలి అంటుకుంటాడు..
ఏదేమైనా మానవుడు బయోలాజికల్ స్టడీస్ ప్రకారం, ఒక సంఘ జీవి, ఒక team player, ఆ ముక్క తెలవనపుడు 'నేను' అనుకుంటాడు..
'మనం' అనుకునే లోపు పుణ్యకాలం గడిచి పోయి మంచంపై కానీ లేక పోతే 'ఢామ్' అని వుంటాడు..
Chala baaga cheparu
House konnaru kada , then how can you leave Germany in 5 years ? Aren't we loosing money if we sell in 5 years ?
Well said
"జర్మనీ రావడానికి ఎందుకు ఆలోచించరు , ప్రతివాళ్ళు us నే prefer చేస్తారు" అనే ఈ వాక్యం మీ నుండి ఇదివరలో విన్నాను ! 'జర్మనీ' అయినా, 'us ' అయినా వాళ్ళ culture , అలవాట్లు దాదాపు ఒక్కటే విధంగా వుంటాయి - ఆ దేశాలలో మనకైతే ఊపిరి బిగపట్టినట్లు జీవితం ఉంటుంది - పైగా weekend ఎప్పుడు వస్తుందా అని ఎదురు చూడటం, ఇండియా వెళ్ళటానికి ఉత్సాహం - ఏమైనా 'ఫ్రీ జీవితానికి' ఇండియాకు రావాలని అనిపిస్తుంది - అత్తమామలు, ఆడపడుచుల పోరులు (సామాజిక పరిస్తితులు ) law & order తో విసిగెత్తినపుడు us వెళ్లిపోవాలని అనిపిస్తుంది - ఇదే తేడా ! పిల్లలకు ఈ తేడా ఎక్కువ అనుభవంలోకి రాదు - వారికి ఒక్కటే దేశం - వారు పెరిగిన దేశం !
Thanks for sharing your thoughts. I am in the same boat. But luckily, our baby is just 18 months old and by next year I will be eligible for German Citizenship. So, my plan is to move out from Germany after getting the passport. As mentioned in the video, please share info regarding how easily one can work in the USA after getting the German citizenship.
Further, I am also waiting for your new house tour and the whole buying process. Pros and Cons of owning a house/apartment in Germany. Please keep posting videos.
Oh మీరు 2005 బ్యాచ్ ఏనా, నాది అదే , కానీ నాకంటే మీరు పెద్దవాళ్ళుగా కనిపిస్తున్నారు 😊
మీరు డింగ్ డాంగింగ్ ఎక్కువగా చేసి పింగ్ పాంగ్ బాల్ లా maintain చేసారన్నమాట
Because of Stress
మీకు అక్కడ జర్మనీ లో రవీంద్ర గుజ్జుల తెలుసా. He moved to Germany about 50 years back, married a german,
He became a Mayor for a town there.
My SON Want to do UG In Germany what is your suggestion mam..
how many professions in India , making 1Cr savings !!
If both working in Germany, savings would be 5-9L per month!!
So, after making good corpus.. we start loving India..
That’s a myth.. couples earning 6L+ per month.. absolutely not true in these days. Unless you have businesses , sacrificed family life.. you can earn that income..
India lo ne vere state lo job chesevalake ee situation undandi, edi mee state kadani gurthuchesthune untaru
Be it East or West, India is the best. This is my personal opinion, I think Europe is not the right place to settle down for Indians. USA is little better than Germany. I saw a community in near San Francisco, where 98% of people are from India and Indian festivals are being celebrated in the community.