manifesting your sp by christmas
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- Опубликовано: 6 фев 2025
- its great if you have a goal, and its 100% possible to manifest anything by a certain time, but you need to do the work, you need to give it your all, especially if you are dealing with anxiety and intrusive thoughts. if there is no need for a deadline, please do yourself a favor and just focus on the actual goal, not the time.
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Exactly I don't care if it doesn't happens in a particular date. There is whole life remaining where we could have lots of Christmas to celebrate together.
I have done the work, I have worked on my self concept. I use to have to actively think of my SP & of him telling me what I wanted to hear. Now, it comes in automatically by itself. I'm sitting here watching TV & I can LITERALLY FEEL my SP coming in every few minutes over & over & over, telling me how much he loves me, how he wants to be with me & that I'm the only woman for him & VERY STRONG!! It's crazy, last night it was SUPER STRONG & I was literally crying as if EVERYTHING he was saying to me was happening IN THAT MOMENT. I've NEVER experienced this before. 🥰😍❤️
@@InkedCountryGirlBee that sounds absolutely incredible ♥️🥹
Hey Jay, I’m so glad I found you 3 months ago. I went through a heartbreak with my SP and also struggled with the anxiety of it. We were literally in no contact. I did the work, watched your videos and it has helped me a lot. Whenever I got anxious I would rewatch your video and it brought me comfort. As you were going through the same things that I did.
All of a sudden my SP & I met up and he said everything I wrote down and said everything when I spoke “on the phone” with him. I also persisted to believe in a better version of me and my SP.
SP and I are back together working things out and everything has been great. I just want to say thank you. I hope you know you’ve changed my perception of manifestation ❤ I only wish success for you!
You’re genuinely one of my favourite manifestation RUclipsrs because you share about the struggle with the anxious thoughts. Thank you for being authentic.
This is exactly what I am going through. It is nice to know that I am not alone. But i have not gotten him back in the 3d yet. But i know it will happen!
exactly persist till it shows up not until you feel it should've shown up!
I recently found your channel, and your down to earth tone made me sub. No aggressive advertisement for coaching, no toxic positivity, no clickbaits. Thank you so much.
Suggestion, maybe a compilation of success stories? A lot of us would appreciate that!
@@mariatillah6937 I appreciate you so much, thank you love ♥️
And that’s a great idea actually, will do!
the pasta metaphor was so funny 🤣 will start thinking of my sp journey as cooking pasta now. The way you handle and talk about things is so so refreshing compared to the 90% of the manifestion content on social that just stress everyone out even more
@@Mira-gf4sv I’m so glad it resonated 😂 and thank you, that’s my intention, to keep it as real and light as possible ♥️
I'd been stressing over christmas since november and now that it's almost here I'm only seeing it as a way to go full in just a tad harder, just in case 👀 no countdown, not even looking at what day it is. I don't want to think about time coming and passing anymore, it just triggers the heck out of me :)
the fact that you're so passionate about how it's guaranteed is so comforting ❤️ thank you!
I salute you, love! Bravo for being aware of what triggers you and choosing to avoid it!
And YES, it is 100% guaranteed 🥰♥️
Your authenticity is so refreshing.
Since I've watched your videos I have felt so much more peaceful. 🥰
@@Lotus_x9 that makes my heart so happy 🥹♥️
I have also seen so much more movement both internally and externally regarding my sp.
I always thought I was doing something "wrong".
But once I watched your videos it's like I released all of my resistance. I am seeing movement. And now I truly do believe that what I am affirming is coming to me no matter what.
I used to scroll videos everyday. I don't feel the need to do that anymore.
I used to get so upset with myself because things took "longer" than they should.
But I don't get upset anymore with myself. I give myself grace.
I feel confident.
So thank you, from the bottom of my heart.
@@Lotus_x9 that is already a win! That progress on its own, is already a win! Bravo love! Bravo! 🫂♥️
Omg I just LOVE the pasta example in this video, so relatable! 😂
As for me, my “deadline” wasn’t Christmas, but the day my SP leaves the country we currently live in to go back home (he’s a foreigner). I didn’t know when exactly he’s leaving, I just knew that this was his plan, and then he just told me one day that he’s leaving tomorrow. I was so shocked and hurt, god. But did I stop persisting? Nope! Actually, I’m trying to use this circumstance to my advantage, affirming things like “he wants to show me the place where he grew up, he sends me lots of pictures and videos 24/7” or “he thinks about how his family would love me during family reunion dinner” lol
This guy is my soulmate, we belong together, so how could I possibly give up on him? I know he’s coming back to me, I just know it ❤
UPD: we’re talking non-stop and he actually does send me pictures and videos all the time, showing me the place where he grew up in. Also, he’s coming back in January, and he said multiple times he can’t wait to meet me 😎
@@v9a9l9e9r9i omggg YES! Bravo bravo bravo! It’s like the warmest hug for my soul when somebody tells me they are using the circumstance to their advantage! AS YOU SHOULD LOVE! 🥹 that’s how it’s done! That is your hubby ♥️
I struggle a lot with my mind. Like one day I can't get rid of intrusive thoughts imagining my sp with 3p, then I have a hard time believing my affirmations are powerful enough, then one day I feel like it won't work, then next day 3d circumstances bother me, I feel so stupid that I find hard controlling all those thoughts 😅
@@theyjustcallmemc don’t feel stupid hon, it ca be extremely overwhelming to constantly have these thoughts. Don’t give into them, recognize them as only some background noise, some pop up adds and choose your desired thoughts over them. But also, as I always say, make sure to regulate your nervous system so you’re able to calm your mind and body and handle those thoughts easier ♥️🫂
@@jaytalksmanifestationhow to regulate a nervous system? Breath work?
@ yes, it can be breathwork, eft tapping, butterfly tapping, etc. There are many ways to do it and many RUclips videos on it ♥️
@jaytalksmanifestation so we just need to install a pop up blocker lol. That would be so wonderful!
Jay, you have no idea how much I needed to hear this. This a long comment sorry 😅
Today I was overwhelmed with information I forced on myself with manifesting, and today I ended up throwing up. I know that’s not good. Lately I’ve heard success stories on a manifest community I’m on and while I feel so happy for them and their SP’s, I also just felt a little down that I didn’t get it.
I wanted to try SATS as that helped one person and I tried it and I found it tricky. I do visualising, scripting and affirming and sometimes I question if I do them right but at the end of the day it’s about persistence and intention.
I told myself my autistic brain makes it complicated and that it’s a burden but that is truly not true.
My friend said to me as well with anxiety, you want to control anything but when we need to trust the process and let it happen then it’s anxiety inducing for sure. But doesn’t mean we can’t do it.
I even had a positive dream with SP and I being back together and in the dream I remember thinking ‘this wasn’t so bad after all’ and there was a tiger in my dream! Tigers are a ‘yes’ answer from the universe and I must’ve unconsciously asked the universe if my manifesting is going to come true. I even made time to make my own subliminals and been journaling a lot more! I do the phone call method as well. I was worried if I did it wrong but if I have an intention behind it then that’s all that matters.
I’m still persisting. I’ve had 3D triggers regarding SP (in NC since the split up in July but I don’t want to go into the other stuff out of respect). Even after a cry and calling him all the names under the sun in my head, I always go back to ‘I want to rekindle with my SP and stay with him for good’. Even if I question ‘is this worth my energy’ I always go back to that.✨
I am also manifesting a job I’m applying for as well 🥰
Sorry for the long comment, I wanted that off my chest 🥰
Sending love to you Jay, and manifesting amazing things for you. You deserve all the love here. Thank you for being you and being your lovely self 🥰💖Xxx
- Love, Lucy🥰🫂💖 (P.S. that ‘you got this’ got me a little today 🥹 always reach out my hands at that point)
@LuceBY aaww my love 🫂 please take care of yourself mentally and physically. If stepping back out of the community would help you, please consider that. Step out of any groups where people talk about their experiences, cause you don’t need others’ experiences or triggers, you need to focus on your experience, your journey and well being. Who is gonna take care of that if not you, right? Please take a moment to think about it ♥️
And yes, all that matter is intention and persistence, but also taking care of your mental health and your nervous systen.
And Lucy, your brain is a beautiful piece of you, it’s what makes you you, and it’s what’s protecting you everyday. Maybe it requires a bit more convincing, but even that’s ok, my brain is a anxious little a-hole that doesn’t let me rest thanks to what I can only assume is a form of adhd, but we keep rolling, right? Nothing can stop us! We got this!
YOU GOT THIS ANGEL ♥️🫂
@ awwww Jay, this has brought a smile to my face!!! 🥹 thank you angle, and yes I do have this! I’ll give it a think but regardless I am still persisting in my SP. It’s guaranteed! 🥰💖✨🫂
Oh my gosh, thought transmission happened between me and my friend Brandon. We were discussing about movies and I was about to mention one of my past posts related to the movie we were talking about. Like not even a second later he sends me the post I was about to mention. Thought transmission is crazy! That’s literal proof that thought transmission works with my friend sp, even if I don’t see it. When I think something of her (affirm my positive thoughts) she picks up on that! There’s always movement in the background.
@@cobrakairobloxenthusiast4291 uu I love that! That was quick!
Yup! Therr is ALWAYS movement going on!
Im here ❤ my dad has recovered Jay ❤
@@Lilithishere_ OF COURSE HE HAS!!! ♥️♥️♥️♥️
Literally what I needed to hear, because some time ago I thought like I’ll try to manifest my sp before a new year, if he wouldn’t conform - I’d drop that manifestation. But I really love him, so I was kinda scared and maybe even now I’m a bit scared that we won’t be together before 2025, but yeah… I think I need to persist or I’ll suffer for months without him
Sometimes I don’t know is it even worth my time
@@hospitalsmeds please get clear on that. You need to get clarity on your desires, on what you want in your life if you want to get results. Because if you’re unsure, you’ll be going back and forth during the process, which will bring you either no results, or hot and cold results, which will lead to a burnout. Dig a little bit, get clear, and once you’re clear - eyes forward! And of course, YOU GOT THIS HON ♥️🫂
omg same. i was planning on giving up at new years, cos i dont want to pine for someone for years. im constantly wondering if thats what i should really give up, but i find it this unhealthy and i havent been getting movement
and im someone that, if i give up, i will 100% not take him back even if he comes back next year. so idk too:/ but really leaning towards giving up
@@gaddie.t well, I think I really want my sp to come back, but my ego is telling me oh just give up etc
I realized that this pattern will repeat again with another sp, so there’s really no sense in giving up
@@jaytalksmanifestation thank you
@@hospitalsmeds thats true, but what if it takes years? (not trying to ask you to give up, im still deciding what i should do so im just seeing what you would do. i cant decide:/)
Yesssssss this helped so much 💖💖💖🙏 thanks beautiful 🙏😇😇you’re an angel
@@KingKai365 🫂♥️
persist till it shows up. also i’d rather miss one holiday knowing i’d spend a life time with my person
Istg you’re the most comforting loa coach I’ve ever encountered. So grateful for you Jay❤🦋🙏🏻
@marteegold2171 aaww I appreciate you so much love ♥️🫂
I agree. She’s so empathetic
Today was one of the hardest days I’ve ever had. I felt completely lost. After my ex left me, all our mutual friends left too, and I still don’t know why. Watching your journey inspired me, and I’ve been trying to stay aligned-doing fake calls with him, listening to my affirmation tape once a day (though I miss it sometimes). Even with a 3P involved, I had confidence that he is mine and didn’t let it bother me.
I don’t affirm every day, but when I do, I feel connected. However, today in college, I felt so lonely. I started doubting everything-my faith, my process, and whether I’ll ever achieve this. I got affected by the 3D, and now I’m questioning if what I’ve been doing is right or wrong.
I remember in one of your videos, you said we feel like quitting just before the outcome. Right now, it’s so hard, and I feel lost. I’d really appreciate your genuine guidance-will what I’m feeling affect my manifestation? Is my process still valid?
@@charishma_ I’m sorry you’re feeling this way love. It’s completely valid and natural to feel this way, you’re only human, you’re in love, you’re in the middle of the process… it’s gonna feel like this sometimes… but yes breakthroughs often come as breakdowns, and here it’s importag to remind yourself that it’s just a day, it’s just feelings. It’s not the result, it’s not the end. It just sucks atm, but it’s not done. Crazy things are happening behind the scenes that you can’t even fathom, believe me. Make sure to be there for you, make yoirself happy, be patient with yourself, with your 3D and your sp and allow it to happen by not intefering. You just take care of you ♥️ sending you a big hug 🫂
Thank you so much, this was exactly what I needed. ❤️ Right now, having my SP come back to me alongside a good career is all I want. As you said, it’s just one tough day-I’m going to buckle up from tomorrow and get back to my routine. Your presence in your videos feels like having someone who genuinely believes in me, manifesting love and respect into my life. Thank you so much again! 🤍
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My struggle is letting the past go with my Sp. We have years of history and there is not a day I don’t think about him but there is resentment there due to him coming and going so many times. I know I have created it but my resentment is still there and hard to let go at this point 😕
I guess at this point I’m scared to believe he will actually stay.
@@Vaness319 letting go of resentment starts with understanding that your SP is only reflecting your inner story. The past doesn’t define your future unless you keep feeding it with your focus. Shift your perspective, it’s gonna require effort, yes. But ask yoirself first “is it worth it? Is it worth my energy, my time?” Choose to see the past as irrelevant because you’re creating a new version of your SP through your assumptions. Persist in affirming the relationship you desire, and remind yourself that resentment only holds you back, aka keeps you where you are. Trust that as you change your inner story, they will conform and stay in the reality you persist in. They have no other choice but to 🫂♥️
I really love your video cause u adressed so much realistic stuff in manifesting. You are the best coach i’ve seen
@@HuongTran-mk1cy I appreciate you a lot ♥️
You look gorgeous Jay! Thank you for this video btw x
@@j-brit-a thank YOU ♥️
You’re so real and I love that. So glad I found your channel, super relaxing to listen to. ❤
@@anny_222x thank you for being here love 🫂♥️
You’re so amazing for this 🙏💖 This resonates so much 💙💖💖
@@KingKai365 I appreciate you love ♥️
(English is not my first language so sorry if there are errors 😅).
Usually when I have anxiety I listen to one of your videos to give me more peace of mind and not stress about the process so thank you very much for showing me the true reality of this path 💞.
My birthday was December 16 and unfortunately I was obsessed with the fact that he would write to me to come back that day, (it didn't happen) but at least now watching your video I know what can happen even if he didn't write to me on Monday, and obviously that didn't make me Giving up only made me want to continue persisting 😂, and a couple of questions to make my process a little easier :
- Is it wrong if I stalk his social media from time to time?
-Do you recommend imagining or writing what the message he would send me could be when he wants to get back with me? because normally before going to sleep I listen to a subliminal audio that a friend recommended to me, and while I listen to it I write affirmations in my notebook so as to give more strength to the audio and one day I wrote what the message would be like (thinking that he would write to me on Monday and then, I would like to know if it would be advisable to do that).
Sorry for so much text 😅, I just want to resolve the accumulated doubts I have and I really thank you very much for being you 💖.
its not wrong to check their social media, mostly coaches suggest not to do it so you dont end up wavering and dwelling in something you see in your 3d cuz thats not your endgame so do not let it affect you even if you check be cool about it whatever the case may be. Also id recommend the love letter method it helps me a lot just write a letter from his perspective to yourself and then read it as if you actually received that letter from your SP.
also if youre ever confused about something just ask yourself "does what im doing rn serve my end result?" youll know exactly what to do and what not! hope this helps;)
@@notlissy_07 Oh my god, thank you very much, I will start using the love letter method and thank you very much for the advice, I really needed it
@@Alder_MiauxwiWi no worries
@@notlissy_07 Yes, we will get them if we persist because they have no other choice but to :D
Love your content!! Such a powerful message as always! Persist persist persist!
@@MagneticSubliminals I appreciate you ♥️
I needed this jay thanks♥️
@@hanieaghmiuni856 ♥️🫂
Love this
amazing video!!! can i revise getting desired grades through robotically affirming?
Yeah, I get that. I would rather want to spend my life with my sp as to focus ons one day. The same with manifesting contact. I waisted so many years on focusing on manifesting a text or communication. In the end that was all it was it did not develop into something more. How much time I could have more if I did not waist clipbait content.
I dont say it is not possible. However, I do agree why set a time label.
@@Authenticallymaskless what matters is what you have now, the knowledge you have now and the awareness you have now. Take all that from the past as guidance to know what and where you need to keep your focus on and don’t blame yourself for anything. You know everything you need to know NOW ♥️
@@jaytalksmanifestation yeah, super true. WONDERFUL CONTENT. keep it raw and honest. Love your message
@@Authenticallymaskless thank you love ♥️
Gold ❤
@@absloutelyRasha ♥️♥️
Would it be nice? Of course, but I would rather have it, like imagined, than reaching a certain date and saying "oh well too late now etc", and miss out on a lifetime of more christmas days and new years eves
@@benjaminprince6424 👏👏👏
what’s the difference between waiting and trusting the process. and can you make a vid about thought of transmission
Could you make a video about scripting methods?
Hii Jay I am just so glad that I found you and I wanna ask that can you make a detailed video on subliminals ?
Are the worth to hear?
@@ananyabhardwaj4485 they are worth it if you assume so, of course. I personally love them. I’ll make a video yes ♥️
@jaytalksmanifestation Thank you so much I am waiting for that...
I'm in the 3d purge with both SP and job after 6 weeks of manifesting. I'm trying to persist and stay in the desired reality. But I feel like I'm not allowed to grieve because when I cry, my thoughts are not good. Help! 😢 We had such a beautiful Christmas planned.
@@magical-mind-meditations-222 yes you ARE allowed! Cry as much as you need. And of course your thoughts are automatically gonna be bad, that’s why you’re crying, that’s what’s making us cry in general. You have the choice to rampage your affirmations in those moments, speak to your sp, to your 3D speak to God…. But be conscious enough to break the pattern ♥️
Hi jay❤️ how to manifest many desires at once ? 🥺❤️ I adore u nd your videos you gave me hope
@@speedlogic-is5si you know what, I’m gonna do a video on this very soon! ♥️
@jaytalksmanifestation god knows i adore u
@ 🥹♥️
unfortunately, ill be one of those people that cant manifest sp and complain😔
im giving up at the 1 year mark (few weeks left) cos i dont understand how people can wait for someone for years... i dont want to give up but theres been no movement and i need to move on from this person
You need to move or you want to move on?
@ i dont really know how to explain but i have this feeling of 'i need to move on from this person cos im stuck right now'. emotionally i dont want to and have difficulties actually doing it (unfollowing, blocking) but i keep having that feeling and thought. i try not to be stuck on it, but i cant fully focus on just either yes or no. and idk if thats whats causing no/opposite movement
If I want to manifest my SP is it contrary to miss her. Like I know Im going see her again and it’s all going to work out. But if I am affirming that we are together, feeling all those emotions of what that would be like. Believing that she misses me and loves me, it makes me realize even more that I don’t have it. What I’m trying to say is it wavering to miss my SP because it’s contrary to believing that I already have it?. I hope that makes sense ❤
@@JayVee88 makes a lot of sense. Don’t worry, that’s not wavering, that’s being a human. Did you watch my video how I manifested my so? I was a hot mess 😭 utilize your emotions, all of them, regulate your nervous system, and_____ - persist ♥️
I tell myself that my thought transmission is working because I can feel them missing me now. Sometimes it is hard because I am responsible for feeling how hard I miss them some days. I manifested them missing me, which makes me feel how hard they miss me. And if your SP is stubborn like mine, she is fighting it. But can't deny those thoughts. So. Use that feeling to tell yourself it is working
@ thanks I’ll give it a shot
I have a question. If you manifest something that you're not consistent with, but you're not thinking of opposing thoughts against the certain manifestation, is it still inevitable to happen no matter the amount of time it takes?
what if it’s kind of obvious for me that i’m spending New Year’s eve with him? like if i’m thinking to myself “of course we are spending New Years together, like every year. He already asked me out” etc like my end goal is to get him back but i occasionally think about spending the New Years with him.
@@kikiscolaa I love that!! That’s confidence, that’s certainty, that is FACT ♥️
When you were manifesting back your sp, did you always check if he already texted you or what he’s doing ? I caught myself having this impulse of checking what he’s doing on social media and when I get a notification I instantly check my phone, should I stop doing that ?
Oh okay, you just said "stop checking you’re 3D obsessively" I guess I have my answer now lol
Yed
@@whnsarah precisely 😅😂
what to do while manifesting things that do have an official deadline?
Unwavering persistence and discipline to commit to the outcome you want. Like I said, don’t accept anything, any thought, any circumstance that contradicts your desired outcome ♥️
@jaytalksmanifestation thankyou🫶🏻
Jay , how often do we need to affirm . Sometimes I do all day. Is it over doing ? Please let me know.
It does’t matter how often as long as you don’t think against your desired outcome. You can also watch my affirmations video
@ thank u ❤️
Hi Jay! Today was my birthday. I had a wonderful day! ❤ But I’am a little upset at my SP. A month ago he was texting me about my birthday that he will remember it and that he will look for a present. I did not get a message from him today sadly and my brain is taking this as an opportunity to say “see, he doesn’t think about you at all. He is happy with his gf. This is not working..” even after months of affirming. Now this isn’t the first time he forgets something or doesn’t come back at his promises, so it’s starting to get annoying and I don’t really know what to do about it. Do you perhaps have any advice? ❤ Thank you for this video!
@@n.oekiee hon…. First of all HAPPY BIRTHDAY ♥️♥️ second, nope, nothing to say but reject those unfavorable thoughts and stick to your desired ones. You know this! I see you on here 😉 you know nothing that happens matters babe. NOTHING. You keep persisting IF you still want your sp ☝️
But i get you
I like the videos - however; respectfully, it does seem that your only example is YOUR example as a success story on each of your videos - as gorgeous as you are and as good as your videos are - it's the results that are encouraging for people.
I see the comments down below - it's 'yes this makes sense' or something similar - but this is more triggering than the time of year - because there is little evidence to show this working (out of 6500 subscribers) or people updating their situations.
Be more encouraging to see other examples.
@@gaza10 you think people would resonate me talking about my clients? Too many get triggered by success stories which is why I don’t even share them like I used to.
But if you need proof, if you need evidence, there are tens of thousands of success stories online
Its bc it would be nice :(( but i dont think it will happen by xmas :(((
@@_itsholly it doesn’t matter if it happens by then! Focus on the goal, not the day! ♥️
@jaytalksmanifestation its even my birthday on Christmas eve lolll I wished my sp happy 30th too even tho the outcome was negative!!! Things were not ready 😞 bit like his 30thhhh man the way I am I just did it bc I thought its a new decade I wanted to wish him well :( even though he may not care about his age still it shows how I am as a person overall
Dieses Jahr habe ich nichts an Content verfolgt, also schon seit Monaten nicht mehr. Was so „abgeht“ in der Community. Aber, letztes Jahr habe ich es gesehen und wenn’s dieses Jahr wieder so ist: oh mein Gott.
Ich hoffe dir geht es gut ❤❤
Und dieses Video, mit dem Inhalt, was du dazu sagst, also zu dem Thema, ist wirklich toll. Vor 1 Jahr hätte ich dir nicht recht gegeben, weil ich völlig außer Rand und Band war. Heute jedoch schon. Und am Ende kamen die Dinge auf eine völlig komische Art und Weise. Und tun sie immer noch.
You are seriously the greatest human being! Love you, Jay! 🫶✨️
Haha, I've used this EXACT pasta example!!! I love it hoe you say we don't throw it away!👌
Was just stressing out about this that i will get my sp before Christmas but i am so fucking tired of feeling like a shit 🥲 thank you,
@@sarahazel4767 omg babe, I can actually feel the stress you just let go! Sending you the tightest hug! I’m so happy you just decided this, bravo! Keep the focus where it’s needed, everything else is absolutely irrelivant♥️
@jaytalksmanifestation I love you ❤️ I will keep persisting
@@sarahazel4767 ILY ♥️