I wad engaged to marry a man who got red pilled. It's like the beautiful man I loved got eaten up and spat out and turned into a hateful goblin overnight. He already had the girl. We already had the life. And then... The red pilled chewed it up and spat it out and destroyed him. I am devastated about what this is doing to our young men.
I truly do not mean to offend, but to play the devil's advocate here: could it have been he was unsatisfied in the relationship and so went to look for answers, and the redpill is what he found? In other words: is it not much more likely he was unhappy with you first and then went online to seek advice, as opposed to him being in a happy and satisfying blue-pill relationship and then getting into the red pill out of nowhere?
@@someguycalledcerberus9805 he found some new friends who I caught up with later.... They were literally just feeding him this stuff. One was trying to break us up. He has a weird thing with Trump. So, yeah. Offensive whether or not you mean to be and devils advocate is kinda dumb lmao
@@someguycalledcerberus9805 one of said friends really wanted to date me. It was some of the cruelest stuff I've ever seen. But he bought it nonetheless, which is his responsibility. And begged and begged for me to come back. But I won't be around the ignorance.
@@someguycalledcerberus9805 also just that some of that stuff, much like the vid says here, is just false information but compelling. It was like watching someone slide into a cult. I really never knew it could happen to me.
Also known as: *3 “Why do you look at the speck of sawdust in your brother’s eye and pay no attention to the plank in your own eye? 4 How can you say to your brother, ‘Let me take the speck out of your eye,’ when all the time there is a plank in your own eye? 5 You hypocrite, first take the plank out of your own eye, and then you will see clearly to remove the speck from your brother’s eye.*
"So long as you don't know yourself, the world can tell you who your are." Dang bro, that was eye opening right there. Made me want to know myself so much more. Thank you for the insight.
Wow, this video is honestly such a life savor. I used to be this guy, I'm glad I watched this. This guy is the most authentic person on RUclips. Keep making good content Angelo
The best self-improvement channel out here. I'm so glad I've discovered your channel, you say things nobody does, I mean your perspective is very different and more profound and you just make sense with combining all of these pieces of information together. Thank you.
As a 45 year old father of a 17 year old boy, I LOATHE all of the red pill bullshit that he is (or likely will be) exposed to - and I welcome this unbiased and refreshing viewpoint from someone who clearly has his head screwed on. That said, my take on this is always that ultimately all of this is caused by simply trying too hard to be something that we're not. If there's one thing I've learnt in the last 20 years, it's that being yourself, unashamedly, and unconditionally, has far better outcomes for your mental, social and spiritual wellbeing than following any particular social doctrine or political bias. Still, I'm from another generation - so, I applaud this video. Great work!
I’m 20, I don’t have a father I’ve never been into the red pill shit because I can see how poorly directed it is and it’s simply not that true but emotionally I recognise I’ve internalised it. It’s a part of me now and it’s holding me back. I have no self confidence or self esteem it makes me very unattractive because I am insecure, I don’t take pride in myself or my body. For the sake of your son don’t let him turn out like me. Encourage him to take pride in himself, his self image to build his confidence, encourage healthy social interactions I.e. get him a hobby, a sports club or something. This will allow him to make friendships with both sexes and should eventually lead him to be romantically successful. Then he won’t need this toxic weak mindset that has a death grip over young men. This is because his romantic success will be proof of concept that the red pill is hateful bs. I think it’s great as a parent you’ve looked into the challenges of current young men and I hope you can safeguard your son from this mindset, good luck.
@@GrimmWitchands well hopefully what I’ve shared will help prevent someone else turning out like I have, which in my opinion is a great thing. You seem to be a good father, your son is lucky to have you looking out for him. I’m sure he’ll turn out to be a good and kind man.
Maybe it sounds empty, but it's not too late for you. Find something your passionate about, meet men and women interested in that and just have conversations. While those women might not be the one for you, maybe they introduce you to someone who is. As for your pride in your body. You only get one my dude. I'm far from perfect myself, but I recognize how close 30 is for me, and I can't eat like this forever. My advice, start trying to buy stuff that is better for you, wean yourself off the terrible stuff. But don't forget to enjoy somethings too. I was drinking nothing but soda for a few years there, how I'm not diabetic I'll never know. But I started moving towards sparkling ice since they're carbonated and sweet, and then slowly went to straight water. Maybe try something similar? Switch from burgers to fried chicken, and then move to grilled or baked chicken. Something along those lines.
@@joeyhoy1995 I eat quite well actually I rarely have fast food or anything really sugary, the problem is I don’t exercise cause I’m lazy but yeah it’ll be fine, tbh I’m pretty much beyond caring.
I am 41 and mostly at the point that you talk about. it was a sometimes painfully way to understand the truth about myself and seeing the real problems inside of me. Hopefully more people see your stuff and maybe some of them will understand what's really going on in their lifes... Thanks for the thoughts and your channel in general. Keep on doing this
There is a good quote from a bring me the horizon song that I think fits this video very well. "Before the truth will set you free, it'll piss you off"
just realized im watching this video with 60 other people atm crazy edit: I appreciate your ability to simplify abstract concepts in a digestable way. Kinda reminded me of @hoe_math. Also reminded me of that Kafka quote, "I was ashamed of myself when I realized life was a costume party and I attended with my real face." I find it important to digest the information given and output what I feel I should based on my goals. I don't want to manipulate, but I want to use the power I have to achieve the goals I want to achieve. To be sure I'm not manipulating myself into a bad path, I need to be sure my identity is virtuous. Huh. Good video!
i also want to add that media literacy is important, a lot of those videos r rage bait or edited (probably) imagine how many women they interview on the streets that gave a different answer? but they know that kind of video will cause a reaction like those fake gold digger pranks on RUclips back in the day
Angelo i’d like to see you collab with Gerbert for a video, or at least connect. You guys make videos on the same issues but with very different perspectives and I think your audiences would love to see the other channel featured. I’ve been watching Gerbert for a while now and only recently discovered you
Honestly i kinda want to see someone debate Gerbert lmao. I absolutely love his content, it's relatable and thought-provoking... but at the same time I feel like he lacks nuance if yk what I mean. Like that one time he said "people aren't moving out because they can't grow up and that's why they can't find dates" instead of the rent prices in populated areas being crazy high (also, I'm Asian and most people here don't move out early either, yet they can very much still function normally and find bonding relationships). Or another time he somehow connected witchcraft, feminism and declining birthrate? While not even explaining what parts of those beliefs are "making people childfree"?? He isn't always wrong, but his views are a bit doomer-ish so sometimes he doesn't see the full picture basically.
Such a great video. I have watched all your videos. Great work on your editing and also always bringing good content. Looking forward to your next video 🙏🏻your channel is growing so fast, congrats 👏🏻
i love your videos, your ideas and i truly love that there are people so honest like you, i'd love to see a video where you describe your own introspection in regards of all of these arguments and ideas, cheers
holy shit man It’s been a long time I’ve come across a channel and a person on youtube that resonated so much with me. Love your ideas and your very skilled way of expressing them.
Angelo, first off, I want to thank you for making this video. Your help is always appreciated and the messages you’re fomenting and preaching are highly needed nowadays, to of which, I thank you. I wish you talked about negative perceptions (specially those that may be deeply rooted into oneself). Things such as self insufficiency, self hatred, self sabotage, etc etc etc., and how these translate to the diverse areas in your life (most importantly dating. I remember being into this one girl, but as soon as she started talking about how she owned her family business and spoke about all of her job and laboral history. Basically, I del “emasculated” or uncomfortable because, in my perception, she was more mature and successful than me, which sabotaged any chance of construction even a friendship with her) Sorry for my unsynthesized texting format, but apart for my likeness to use a more complex form of words and sentence making (for the sake of it) I wished to portray my inner thoughts into this comment. Overall, another thing I wish it was more talked about (in case you have any experience dealing with the next issue) is solving “poor mental focus” and intrusive thoughts; random memories related to internet memes and video games and whatnot; basically brain rot, this is another major issue I haven’t seen attended anywhere (think HealthygamerGG had a video on this subject called “25 year old thinker”). Thank you Angelo or whoever stumbled across this comment for reading, have a good day.
This is a great topic suggestion, I’ll add it to the list But in short; first figure out if your feelings of insufficiency are true/accurate or not, then go from there Bearing in mind: if you can change it, change it If you can’t: embrace it
3:53 Carl Jung, the guy with the the “make the darkness consciousness” is the same guy who invented the mbti system, which many people know from the 16personalities test. Originally, he used it as a way to put similar people in a group, and figure out common weaknesses and insecurities in them, as well as solutions to their problems. For instance, ExTPs have this huge need to feel loved by everyone around them. The solution to this, is to learn not to care what others think about you.
yo big fan bro ima watch this then edit this comment edit: i kina watched this in a mix of 2x speed and normal speed but overall was a verry interesting insight. gotta say man since i discovered your channel my whole mentality has changed. each video gives me a new insight. this video was very interesting and good to hear that i should not just focus on "figures light" but in reality i should focus on myself and not blame others for my own flaws but instead should work on them thus not having to keep reassuring myself on what i think i am. What u said on power was also really interesting to hear and it doesnt have to be a form of greed but almost a desire for freedom. And that there are tools that require skill/mastery in order to have power. (im kina tired so ima stop writing (yes ik there is a lot of bad grammar))
People rather start to redpill and to go to the gym 5 times a week, than to acknowlege that they may need to go see a therapist or work on their social skills.
That’s wrong. Ultimately red pill men just want a healthy family so they get their passports. America is heading towards population collapse and we intend to survive. Only weak people need therapy.
To see a therapist to convince me that everything we see nowadays is not real it's just in our heads or imagination? 😅 You people are the biggest gaslighters in human history no kidding. Social engineers of 20th century are newbies in comparison to you all.
To reach equality men became more feminine and women became more masculine. The problem is feminine men like masculine women, but masculine women don’t like feminine men. Therefore men have to become hypermasculine to attract masculine women. This works at an individual level, but we are seeing relationships collapse on a societal scale.
I got back here to ask: I used to watch Hamza and I do because I am dependent for advice. Like business, charisma, gym, how do I find alternatives? Like, I watched things such as 9 ways to be happy and it was genuinely good advice, but I realize even though I’m a fool I need to find an alternative and consume information another way, hwo though? I want to learn, but YT videos are the fastest way
How about thinking for yourself? You've probably consumed a ton of content, now its time to process them, reflect and decide for yourself which information was useful and which are not.
Sometimes i see a girl in a video saying stuff like „i only date men over 6 foot“ And i think „wow girls are so superficial these days, they should give short guys a chance“. But then i think about how bitter this thought is and move on. Am i suppressing my negative believes because i just label these thoughts as bad and shove them down or am i making progress towards integrating my shadow?
@@fabian_ms when you acknowledge that it’s bitter you’re moving in the right direction Also ask yourself: would you give a 2/10 a chance? If not, does that make you shallow too?
Its easy to be contrarian, and the new contrarian is to be counter contrarian. But the great folly and strength of youth is thinking you've got lasting paradigms figured out in your youth. It takes a lot of variety of experience and time and maybe some guidance to really come towards wisdom. Wisdom is not acceleration but duration or load under time in various novel experiences that gradually become familiar. The sad thing is we would do better to wait years to speak our view on things, once we've matured and understood our position. But the shortcut is to be young and offer some kind of certainty and finality to a viewpoint instead of humility. Humility isnt rewarded by youth. What is rewarded is saying this is the way it is and thats that. Its easier to absorb and sounds better. Its comforting to the world to be like that But actually its more i dont know and let me try this then evaluate over anything else.
Your video is really great and I really like the way you approach and explains things!! But where are you getting all that knowledge from ? Is it just your point of view on the subject or is it more general ( I hope it makes sense :) ) ?
Red pill content creators have created a generation of men with victim mentality because it provides the creators clout and profitability. Glad to see you opening their eyes.
Bloody wonderful content. Perfect blend of modern day manosphere with jungian psychology and a sprinkle of authenticity throughout. Very refreshing! I’m 26, and taking a lot from your channel in a time where my introspectiveness has been leading me round in circles. I love the point about doing the internal work. I’ve neglected this in favour of the external in my 20s (as the red pill pushes so much) and found myself wanting. Having external “things” doesn’t make you happy. It’s about finding a state of being which brings true content, and than comes from within. Thanks again mate!
Also known as: *3 “Why do you look at the speck of sawdust in your brother’s eye and pay no attention to the plank in your own eye? 4 How can you say to your brother, ‘Let me take the speck out of your eye,’ when all the time there is a plank in your own eye? 5 You hypocrite, first take the plank out of your own eye, and then you will see clearly to remove the speck from your brother’s eye.*
The first thing i ask is wjats wrong with me. People always say "nothing" i beg them to be honest they continue to say nothing. If nothing is wrong with me then cleanly there wouldn't be any problems with attractiveness.
I agree with you on some stuff, but I will say this: Very few people succeed in the Game of Power. Not all of us can be King, and if we all went for that one role, society would collapse. However, black pill is not the answer to this either. That should be the next season of uncut growth and I hope we can agree that BP is coping but not making the world better. You don’t need to be ambitious to make the world better and win the game of life. You need to make the World a better place, regardless of reward or of mistreatment. Money, status, nor coping can save you. Following God and leaving a mark on bettering our world can.
think of what qualities you always admire in others. what draws you to someone else-whether they’re cool or extremely disciplined or kind or charismatic-is usually representative of the personal qualities you wish you possessed more of. alternatively, if you have a vision for who you want to be, you can think of what kind of things the person you want to become would do that you don’t do. those will be the actions and strengths that would lead you to be more of your ideal of self
For the most par, he has fresh ideas. Unfortunately I have not gotten around to finishing any of his writing. Thus Spoke Zarathustra was too abstract and Beyond Good and Evil was a bit intimidating.
First don’t hate the player and if you hate the game cool… now what? You can’t change the players and you can’t change the game and even if you don’t like how it works you still have to play. Why not make the most of it.
This video is still the red-pill, though, only diet. Even the "Hollywood is lying to you. Women want the jock." message is not true. The problem is the insistence upon these low-resolution, stereotypical models of actual people. Certain women want characters like that, but other women do not.
The harsh truth is that the red pill is going to make men over think how to communicate to woman. I got too much information in college and from 21 to 26 I have not got any action. The first 3 years of college I just was out meeting people and learning from my mistakes so hung out with women. Just work out, dress better, slow your tone and be direct of what you want to do with a woman. If you as a man have a crush on a woman either it be left, right, cheerleader, goth, tall, BBW....just talk to her. Of course for obvious reasons look yourself in the mirror and say are you actually somebody you want to be. If the answer is no, do not approach them.
@@lazylurker2842 Many dudes act like a woman is an algebra problem to solve. It is not hard, make your self presentable, ask her about her life and ask for her opinoin on things in your life. This whole RP crap is taking simple concepts and cranking it up to 11. Many dudes should know by now to do the basic work, but they hide from it. And another thing for the men, once you guys are starting to cuddle and makeout just ask her what she likes to do in bed. The whole mysterious thing is BS.
good qualities of a friend:- shared interests,dependability and emotional support good qualities of a mate:- attractiveness,shared interests,emotional support and dependability i know what is wrong with me shared interests:- i am into niche genres i barely see any women in them and i took engineering so even worse dependability:-i let myself down and i have tried and i can't change it i struggle with sociao anxiety way too much and i have been constantly failing to diet since i was 13 now i am 20 and i have chronic health issues emotional support:- i am the one who needs it and idk i cant get my shit together how can i comfort others is what i think attractiveness:- i am ugly like definitely in bottom 10 percent of looks so i dont have any saving grace idk why people think mental health can be improved when literally psychiatry has bad success rate in general i didnt choose my mind nor my body its pretty much over for me
@@carmelcutie1991 not disagreeing with what you said here. The problem is modern feminism has become a man hating ideology. If a woman rips on men, she's "empowered". If a man rips on women he's a "misogynist"
It sounds like you confuse pickup art with red pill. Pick up is easy when you understand red pill but that's not the goal of it. It's about education and understanding.
@@AngeloSomers To be truly honest, it comes off as aggressive and posh like a privileged person talking down to me. I believe that the direction of the video should have been more supportive/empathetic of men’s issues. I don’t want to attack you either, I just don’t think this content is what that space needs, and you have a lot of influence to give. But I may be wrong about my interpretation. I hope you understand where I’m coming from.
Angelo gives out such good advice, and I like the way he mocks other self-improvement creators haha. Some ideas in his videos I don't really understand, but I can hear from his confidence that it's the truth.
Youll find more succes using your face as a brand. Even if there isnt a profit incentive. Its just that i could quickly scroll by without realizing its your video. Put your face on the thumbnail amd make it sexy. Get creative with it!
In the beginning, there is lies, propaganda and delusion. (blue pill) Then there's realization, feelings of betrayal, anger and depression. (red pill) Finally, there's understanding, acceptance and moving on. (black pill) The red pill isn't making people weak, it's an incomplete phase. It's supposed to be transitory not an end-destination. Problems will arise if you stay on that phase, but it is also necessary for growth.
From what I ve seen the black pill is more like believing everything is genetically determined and accepting that you got the short end of the straw. But only looking in shallow/obvious things like height and other “looks” genetics. There is no actual introspection or attempt of self mastery. You can argue they are doing the opposite of introspection when they convince themselves that they are ok with never finding a partner. I completely understand why someone would go through a black pill phase but it certainly should not be a destination.
@@KostasAlexiou0 You're half right. The black pill is indeed about determinism, but there actually is introspection and attempts of self-mastery. It's the acknowledgement that you cannot change your circumstance, only yourself, and then it wants you to look inwards and determine who you are. Determining who you are is dependant on your actions, thus these are actions of what you'd call "self-mastery". Sadly, what you desire in life and what one can achieve are two different things, and it is sadly very often that basic needs of (sadly, more and more every year) people cannot be met; Love - Acknowledgement - Respect - Acceptance etc. will for some , never manifest. That's just life, and should be accepted. If that means that life itself isn't something that brings you joy anymore, so be it. That sadly is life as well.
@@asdfasdf-dg2qx I don’t know man maybe that is in theory but from what blackpill content I have seen it is more about spotting the unfairness in the world and it kind of stops there. Like an “it is what it is” deal on everything. I d like to see some examples of black pill creators/content that demonstrates what you are saying though.
Which is half the picture: knowledge of how YOU work is the other half The idea of this video is pointing out the subset of red pill viewers who focus on the world to distract from themselves
I wad engaged to marry a man who got red pilled. It's like the beautiful man I loved got eaten up and spat out and turned into a hateful goblin overnight. He already had the girl. We already had the life. And then... The red pilled chewed it up and spat it out and destroyed him.
I am devastated about what this is doing to our young men.
I truly do not mean to offend, but to play the devil's advocate here: could it have been he was unsatisfied in the relationship and so went to look for answers, and the redpill is what he found? In other words: is it not much more likely he was unhappy with you first and then went online to seek advice, as opposed to him being in a happy and satisfying blue-pill relationship and then getting into the red pill out of nowhere?
@@someguycalledcerberus9805 he found some new friends who I caught up with later.... They were literally just feeding him this stuff. One was trying to break us up. He has a weird thing with Trump. So, yeah. Offensive whether or not you mean to be and devils advocate is kinda dumb lmao
@@someguycalledcerberus9805 one of said friends really wanted to date me.
It was some of the cruelest stuff I've ever seen.
But he bought it nonetheless, which is his responsibility. And begged and begged for me to come back. But I won't be around the ignorance.
@@domeatown I appreciate the answer. Sounds like it was mainly the new friends then. Pretty sad.
@@someguycalledcerberus9805 also just that some of that stuff, much like the vid says here, is just false information but compelling.
It was like watching someone slide into a cult. I really never knew it could happen to me.
"Don't blame a clown for acting like a clown. Ask yourself why you keep going to the circus".
Lesson: Don’t blame the outside. Disillusion yourself. Be better.
Also known as: *3 “Why do you look at the speck of sawdust in your brother’s eye and pay no attention to the plank in your own eye? 4 How can you say to your brother, ‘Let me take the speck out of your eye,’ when all the time there is a plank in your own eye? 5 You hypocrite, first take the plank out of your own eye, and then you will see clearly to remove the speck from your brother’s eye.*
@@alephmale3171 😮, 😞 i love Jesus, truly. But I just now realized I learned nothing new…
"So long as you don't know yourself, the world can tell you who your are."
Dang bro, that was eye opening right there. Made me want to know myself so much more. Thank you for the insight.
Wow, this video is honestly such a life savor. I used to be this guy, I'm glad I watched this. This guy is the most authentic person on RUclips. Keep making good content Angelo
You are a bright soul, Angelo. Been thinking about this topic so much lately... There's still a lot of good left in this world.
Love u to bits
gerbert johnson and wheat waffles are blackpilled btw and theyre chill
love this video man, keep up the good work
The best self-improvement channel out here. I'm so glad I've discovered your channel, you say things nobody does, I mean your perspective is very different and more profound and you just make sense with combining all of these pieces of information together. Thank you.
As a 45 year old father of a 17 year old boy, I LOATHE all of the red pill bullshit that he is (or likely will be) exposed to - and I welcome this unbiased and refreshing viewpoint from someone who clearly has his head screwed on.
That said, my take on this is always that ultimately all of this is caused by simply trying too hard to be something that we're not. If there's one thing I've learnt in the last 20 years, it's that being yourself, unashamedly, and unconditionally, has far better outcomes for your mental, social and spiritual wellbeing than following any particular social doctrine or political bias.
Still, I'm from another generation - so, I applaud this video. Great work!
I’m 20, I don’t have a father I’ve never been into the red pill shit because I can see how poorly directed it is and it’s simply not that true but emotionally I recognise I’ve internalised it. It’s a part of me now and it’s holding me back. I have no self confidence or self esteem it makes me very unattractive because I am insecure, I don’t take pride in myself or my body. For the sake of your son don’t let him turn out like me. Encourage him to take pride in himself, his self image to build his confidence, encourage healthy social interactions I.e. get him a hobby, a sports club or something. This will allow him to make friendships with both sexes and should eventually lead him to be romantically successful. Then he won’t need this toxic weak mindset that has a death grip over young men. This is because his romantic success will be proof of concept that the red pill is hateful bs. I think it’s great as a parent you’ve looked into the challenges of current young men and I hope you can safeguard your son from this mindset, good luck.
@@jamiebowler4693you broke me to tears
@@GrimmWitchands well hopefully what I’ve shared will help prevent someone else turning out like I have, which in my opinion is a great thing. You seem to be a good father, your son is lucky to have you looking out for him. I’m sure he’ll turn out to be a good and kind man.
Maybe it sounds empty, but it's not too late for you. Find something your passionate about, meet men and women interested in that and just have conversations. While those women might not be the one for you, maybe they introduce you to someone who is.
As for your pride in your body. You only get one my dude. I'm far from perfect myself, but I recognize how close 30 is for me, and I can't eat like this forever.
My advice, start trying to buy stuff that is better for you, wean yourself off the terrible stuff. But don't forget to enjoy somethings too. I was drinking nothing but soda for a few years there, how I'm not diabetic I'll never know. But I started moving towards sparkling ice since they're carbonated and sweet, and then slowly went to straight water. Maybe try something similar? Switch from burgers to fried chicken, and then move to grilled or baked chicken. Something along those lines.
@@joeyhoy1995 I eat quite well actually I rarely have fast food or anything really sugary, the problem is I don’t exercise cause I’m lazy but yeah it’ll be fine, tbh I’m pretty much beyond caring.
I am 41 and mostly at the point that you talk about. it was a sometimes painfully way to understand the truth about myself and seeing the real problems inside of me.
Hopefully more people see your stuff and maybe some of them will understand what's really going on in their lifes...
Thanks for the thoughts and your channel in general.
Keep on doing this
There is a good quote from a bring me the horizon song that I think fits this video very well. "Before the truth will set you free, it'll piss you off"
Which song?
@@NateB Mantra
I’m working on my social skills. Yes I have my shortcomings, but I at least acknowledge them and I’m trying to change.
Good for you. Good work bro 💪
just realized im watching this video with 60 other people atm crazy
edit: I appreciate your ability to simplify abstract concepts in a digestable way. Kinda reminded me of @hoe_math. Also reminded me of that Kafka quote, "I was ashamed of myself when I realized life was a costume party and I attended with my real face." I find it important to digest the information given and output what I feel I should based on my goals. I don't want to manipulate, but I want to use the power I have to achieve the goals I want to achieve. To be sure I'm not manipulating myself into a bad path, I need to be sure my identity is virtuous. Huh. Good video!
i also want to add that media literacy is important, a lot of those videos r rage bait or edited (probably) imagine how many women they interview on the streets that gave a different answer? but they know that kind of video will cause a reaction like those fake gold digger pranks on RUclips back in the day
strongly considering joining the patreon lol cuz ur definitely my favorite creator
Pointing finger out creates 3 fingers pointing back...
Angelo i’d like to see you collab with Gerbert for a video, or at least connect. You guys make videos on the same issues but with very different perspectives and I think your audiences would love to see the other channel featured. I’ve been watching Gerbert for a while now and only recently discovered you
@@crimsonfang8518 that would be dope, don’t think I’m on his radar just yet tho
Honestly i kinda want to see someone debate Gerbert lmao. I absolutely love his content, it's relatable and thought-provoking... but at the same time I feel like he lacks nuance if yk what I mean. Like that one time he said "people aren't moving out because they can't grow up and that's why they can't find dates" instead of the rent prices in populated areas being crazy high (also, I'm Asian and most people here don't move out early either, yet they can very much still function normally and find bonding relationships). Or another time he somehow connected witchcraft, feminism and declining birthrate? While not even explaining what parts of those beliefs are "making people childfree"??
He isn't always wrong, but his views are a bit doomer-ish so sometimes he doesn't see the full picture basically.
@@kngxn yeah i agree. i feel like he has some personal maturing to do.
@@AngeloSomers message him, he's not a clout goblin. I doubt your sub count matters to him.
Such a great video. I have watched all your videos. Great work on your editing and also always bringing good content. Looking forward to your next video 🙏🏻your channel is growing so fast, congrats 👏🏻
i love your videos, your ideas and i truly love that there are people so honest like you, i'd love to see a video where you describe your own introspection in regards of all of these arguments and ideas, cheers
Babe wake up.....uncut growth season 2 just dropped
holy shit man It’s been a long time I’ve come across a channel and a person on youtube that resonated so much with me. Love your ideas and your very skilled way of expressing them.
Dude your content is gold. Please keep going
This thinking and introspection>>> great content!
Angelo, first off, I want to thank you for making this video. Your help is always appreciated and the messages you’re fomenting and preaching are highly needed nowadays, to of which, I thank you.
I wish you talked about negative perceptions (specially those that may be deeply rooted into oneself). Things such as self insufficiency, self hatred, self sabotage, etc etc etc., and how these translate to the diverse areas in your life (most importantly dating. I remember being into this one girl, but as soon as she started talking about how she owned her family business and spoke about all of her job and laboral history. Basically, I del “emasculated” or uncomfortable because, in my perception, she was more mature and successful than me, which sabotaged any chance of construction even a friendship with her)
Sorry for my unsynthesized texting format, but apart for my likeness to use a more complex form of words and sentence making (for the sake of it) I wished to portray my inner thoughts into this comment.
Overall, another thing I wish it was more talked about (in case you have any experience dealing with the next issue) is solving “poor mental focus” and intrusive thoughts; random memories related to internet memes and video games and whatnot; basically brain rot, this is another major issue I haven’t seen attended anywhere (think HealthygamerGG had a video on this subject called “25 year old thinker”).
Thank you Angelo or whoever stumbled across this comment for reading, have a good day.
This is a great topic suggestion, I’ll add it to the list
But in short; first figure out if your feelings of insufficiency are true/accurate or not, then go from there
Bearing in mind: if you can change it, change it
If you can’t: embrace it
@@AngeloSomersThanks man, apologies if I’m all over the place with my comment.
3:53 Carl Jung, the guy with the the “make the darkness consciousness” is the same guy who invented the mbti system, which many people know from the 16personalities test. Originally, he used it as a way to put similar people in a group, and figure out common weaknesses and insecurities in them, as well as solutions to their problems.
For instance, ExTPs have this huge need to feel loved by everyone around them. The solution to this, is to learn not to care what others think about you.
This Channel ist a hidden gem. Thanks for these authentic videos man. You're a very wise man ❤
I appreciate that brother
u still goated bro
@@cooperdaggoe my guy
yo big fan bro
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i kina watched this in a mix of 2x speed and normal speed but overall was a verry interesting insight. gotta say man since i discovered your channel my whole mentality has changed. each video gives me a new insight. this video was very interesting and good to hear that i should not just focus on "figures light" but in reality i should focus on myself and not blame others for my own flaws but instead should work on them thus not having to keep reassuring myself on what i think i am. What u said on power was also really interesting to hear and it doesnt have to be a form of greed but almost a desire for freedom. And that there are tools that require skill/mastery in order to have power. (im kina tired so ima stop writing (yes ik there is a lot of bad grammar))
@@SeboVlogs1 yeah, we often want to imagine ourselves better but don’t want to look at the reasons we aren’t
Do you think hypergamy or social proof are not real?
@@NateB no. i think they are real, i think you're missing my point, maybe rewatch the video
People rather start to redpill and to go to the gym 5 times a week, than to acknowlege that they may need to go see a therapist or work on their social skills.
That’s wrong. Ultimately red pill men just want a healthy family so they get their passports. America is heading towards population collapse and we intend to survive. Only weak people need therapy.
To see a therapist to convince me that everything we see nowadays is not real it's just in our heads or imagination?
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You people are the biggest gaslighters in human history no kidding.
Social engineers of 20th century are newbies in comparison to you all.
I understood that love is beyond my reach, so I decided to pursue single life filmed with helping other and perfecting myself.
This is the content that people need to see not FreshNFit. Hope you don't change like everyone else does after blowing up
Finally someone smart. Thank you for your content.
22:16 - you nailed it there brother. Great content and glad I subscribed!
This guy is different, he is the truth that's all. I don't think i have ever seen smth like this anywhere. Keep opening our eyes bro, much love!
@@danielzaimi1466 my fucking guy that just fired me up holy moly LESSGOOO
How old are you bro? You have enlarged knowledge for a guy close to my age.@@AngeloSomers
another 10/10 vid bro, loving season 2 and the new set up, keep up the hard work brother👊🏼
My guy, you an OG
You're perfect at gaslighting!
Gerbert collab when?
holy cow brother I just subbed and you had 7.9k now you got 8.1k
Really thought provoking
To reach equality men became more feminine and women became more masculine. The problem is feminine men like masculine women, but masculine women don’t like feminine men. Therefore men have to become hypermasculine to attract masculine women. This works at an individual level, but we are seeing relationships collapse on a societal scale.
The real truth within the black pill
good video angelo
I got back here to ask:
I used to watch Hamza and I do because I am dependent for advice. Like business, charisma, gym, how do I find alternatives? Like, I watched things such as 9 ways to be happy and it was genuinely good advice, but I realize even though I’m a fool I need to find an alternative and consume information another way, hwo though? I want to learn, but YT videos are the fastest way
How about thinking for yourself? You've probably consumed a ton of content, now its time to process them, reflect and decide for yourself which information was useful and which are not.
Great video mate. also love the new setup
Cheers bredren 🙏
Sometimes i see a girl in a video saying stuff like „i only date men over 6 foot“ And i think „wow girls are so superficial these days, they should give short guys a chance“. But then i think about how bitter this thought is and move on.
Am i suppressing my negative believes because i just label these thoughts as bad and shove them down or am i making progress towards integrating my shadow?
@@fabian_ms when you acknowledge that it’s bitter you’re moving in the right direction
Also ask yourself: would you give a 2/10 a chance? If not, does that make you shallow too?
@@AngeloSomers good point!
Really thought out and constructive video. Red pill community (Especially the kids) need content like this. Job well done. Keep it up.
Much appreciated!
Angelo is on top
Lange hat niemand mehr solche facts über Macht rausgehauen. Respect 🥶
Love the content!
Its easy to be contrarian, and the new contrarian is to be counter contrarian.
But the great folly and strength of youth is thinking you've got lasting paradigms figured out in your youth.
It takes a lot of variety of experience and time and maybe some guidance to really come towards wisdom.
Wisdom is not acceleration but duration or load under time in various novel experiences that gradually become familiar.
The sad thing is we would do better to wait years to speak our view on things, once we've matured and understood our position.
But the shortcut is to be young and offer some kind of certainty and finality to a viewpoint instead of humility. Humility isnt rewarded by youth.
What is rewarded is saying this is the way it is and thats that. Its easier to absorb and sounds better. Its comforting to the world to be like that
But actually its more i dont know and let me try this then evaluate over anything else.
Great comment.
Your video is really great and I really like the way you approach and explains things!! But where are you getting all that knowledge from ? Is it just your point of view on the subject or is it more general ( I hope it makes sense :) ) ?
Phenomenal speaker, I subbed❤
Red pill content creators have created a generation of men with victim mentality because it provides the creators clout and profitability. Glad to see you opening their eyes.
Drinking game: Take a shot whenever Hamza says “mAsCuLiNe mEn”.
had the same thought
Bloody wonderful content. Perfect blend of modern day manosphere with jungian psychology and a sprinkle of authenticity throughout. Very refreshing! I’m 26, and taking a lot from your channel in a time where my introspectiveness has been leading me round in circles. I love the point about doing the internal work. I’ve neglected this in favour of the external in my 20s (as the red pill pushes so much) and found myself wanting. Having external “things” doesn’t make you happy. It’s about finding a state of being which brings true content, and than comes from within. Thanks again mate!
What a flipping video , this is pure gold 🥇 thank you that's how you will win once the self is mastered
Angelo Rules, on point video yet again
Also known as: *3 “Why do you look at the speck of sawdust in your brother’s eye and pay no attention to the plank in your own eye? 4 How can you say to your brother, ‘Let me take the speck out of your eye,’ when all the time there is a plank in your own eye? 5 You hypocrite, first take the plank out of your own eye, and then you will see clearly to remove the speck from your brother’s eye.*
The first thing i ask is wjats wrong with me. People always say "nothing" i beg them to be honest they continue to say nothing. If nothing is wrong with me then cleanly there wouldn't be any problems with attractiveness.
production quality update alert!!!!!!!!
bro has been cooking hard
....I wish there had been an adult to explain the content in this video for me when I was 11.
i was learning about jung the other day
You articulate yourself well.
love the new room bro. your visuals are becoming very high quality
Keep up the good work
Great video
I agree with you on some stuff, but I will say this: Very few people succeed in the Game of Power. Not all of us can be King, and if we all went for that one role, society would collapse.
However, black pill is not the answer to this either. That should be the next season of uncut growth and I hope we can agree that BP is coping but not making the world better.
You don’t need to be ambitious to make the world better and win the game of life. You need to make the World a better place, regardless of reward or of mistreatment. Money, status, nor coping can save you. Following God and leaving a mark on bettering our world can.
a lot of your life, how people treat you, and also your confidence is determined by your looks (face). It’s just the truth
Red Pill became a problem when the pick up artists and scammers monetized The Red Pill Rage
I have question what is the best way to discover your own weaknesses
think of what qualities you always admire in others. what draws you to someone else-whether they’re cool or extremely disciplined or kind or charismatic-is usually representative of the personal qualities you wish you possessed more of. alternatively, if you have a vision for who you want to be, you can think of what kind of things the person you want to become would do that you don’t do. those will be the actions and strengths that would lead you to be more of your ideal of self
@crimsonfang8518 thank you so much for that
What are you saying? I really can't keep up
“Just be yourself!”
Red pill == slave morality (not an exact match obviously) is definitely a take I haven’t heard of before. Any book recs?
No wonder a lot of red pillers are christians.
Ahhh a fellow Nietzsche fan?
For the most par, he has fresh ideas. Unfortunately I have not gotten around to finishing any of his writing. Thus Spoke Zarathustra was too abstract and Beyond Good and Evil was a bit intimidating.
@@MR-lx7kc the RUclips channel essentialsalts has some good breakdowns
Bluuuuuue pill I got that bluuuuuuue pill
First don’t hate the player and if you hate the game cool… now what?
You can’t change the players and you can’t change the game and even if you don’t like how it works you still have to play. Why not make the most of it.
Yo Angelo, good stuff but can you please cut the R word from your vocab
This video is still the red-pill, though, only diet. Even the "Hollywood is lying to you. Women want the jock." message is not true. The problem is the insistence upon these low-resolution, stereotypical models of actual people. Certain women want characters like that, but other women do not.
Where did u find that lizard clip?
The harsh truth is that the red pill is going to make men over think how to communicate to woman. I got too much information in college and from 21 to 26 I have not got any action. The first 3 years of college I just was out meeting people and learning from my mistakes so hung out with women. Just work out, dress better, slow your tone and be direct of what you want to do with a woman. If you as a man have a crush on a woman either it be left, right, cheerleader, goth, tall, BBW....just talk to her.
Of course for obvious reasons look yourself in the mirror and say are you actually somebody you want to be. If the answer is no, do not approach them.
Omg this. I'm a woman and it's like let's just have a natural conversation my god.
@@lazylurker2842 Many dudes act like a woman is an algebra problem to solve. It is not hard, make your self presentable, ask her about her life and ask for her opinoin on things in your life. This whole RP crap is taking simple concepts and cranking it up to 11. Many dudes should know by now to do the basic work, but they hide from it. And another thing for the men, once you guys are starting to cuddle and makeout just ask her what she likes to do in bed. The whole mysterious thing is BS.
Childs play
Editing reactions to your own punchlines is crazy. Fuckin madlad 😂.
What you attacking hamza for. He’s one of the most real ones with a great character
good qualities of a friend:- shared interests,dependability and emotional support
good qualities of a mate:- attractiveness,shared interests,emotional support and dependability
i know what is wrong with me
shared interests:- i am into niche genres i barely see any women in them and i took engineering so even worse
dependability:-i let myself down and i have tried and i can't change it i struggle with sociao anxiety way too much and i have been constantly failing to diet since i was 13 now i am 20 and i have chronic health issues
emotional support:- i am the one who needs it and idk i cant get my shit together how can i comfort others is what i think
attractiveness:- i am ugly like definitely in bottom 10 percent of looks so i dont have any saving grace
idk why people think mental health can be improved when literally psychiatry has bad success rate in general i didnt choose my mind nor my body its pretty much over for me
Why do you think you're ugly?
Red Pill/Feminism. 2 wings of the same bird. Must avoid
Yeppp!
Ok feminism isn't bad. If women want to work or be sahm that's a choice we're free to have. If we don't want kids that's also a choice.
@@carmelcutie1991 not disagreeing with what you said here. The problem is modern feminism has become a man hating ideology. If a woman rips on men, she's "empowered". If a man rips on women he's a "misogynist"
gerby mentioned
Bro pls make a vid on Fear,and how to overcome it plssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssss
My other female fans hit like
Who else got sent here by ryan horgan
How about stoicism?
@@erickkisreal9398 Will do a video on this soon, generally stoicism is epic, but as a tool, but probably not as a complete uncompromising way of life
It sounds like you confuse pickup art with red pill. Pick up is easy when you understand red pill but that's not the goal of it. It's about education and understanding.
@@sveng9933 again, my problem is not with the red pill, or pick up. It’s with the way that it’s consumed, as an anaesthetic
CC is a bit too much
2 minutes and 2 views bro fell off.
Fuck.
@@AngeloSomers lol
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I don’t find this video helpful
@@abereu8405 ok
@@AngeloSomers To be truly honest, it comes off as aggressive and posh like a privileged person talking down to me. I believe that the direction of the video should have been more supportive/empathetic of men’s issues. I don’t want to attack you either, I just don’t think this content is what that space needs, and you have a lot of influence to give. But I may be wrong about my interpretation. I hope you understand where I’m coming from.
@@abereu8405 yeah maybe, or maybe you’re projecting
Angelo gives out such good advice, and I like the way he mocks other self-improvement creators haha. Some ideas in his videos I don't really understand, but I can hear from his confidence that it's the truth.
Youll find more succes using your face as a brand. Even if there isnt a profit incentive. Its just that i could quickly scroll by without realizing its your video. Put your face on the thumbnail amd make it sexy. Get creative with it!
In the beginning, there is lies, propaganda and delusion. (blue pill)
Then there's realization, feelings of betrayal, anger and depression. (red pill)
Finally, there's understanding, acceptance and moving on. (black pill)
The red pill isn't making people weak, it's an incomplete phase. It's supposed to be transitory not an end-destination.
Problems will arise if you stay on that phase, but it is also necessary for growth.
Except black pulled ppl don't move on lmao
From what I ve seen the black pill is more like believing everything is genetically determined and accepting that you got the short end of the straw. But only looking in shallow/obvious things like height and other “looks” genetics. There is no actual introspection or attempt of self mastery. You can argue they are doing the opposite of introspection when they convince themselves that they are ok with never finding a partner. I completely understand why someone would go through a black pill phase but it certainly should not be a destination.
@@KostasAlexiou0 You're half right. The black pill is indeed about determinism, but there actually is introspection and attempts of self-mastery. It's the acknowledgement that you cannot change your circumstance, only yourself, and then it wants you to look inwards and determine who you are. Determining who you are is dependant on your actions, thus these are actions of what you'd call "self-mastery".
Sadly, what you desire in life and what one can achieve are two different things, and it is sadly very often that basic needs of (sadly, more and more every year) people cannot be met; Love - Acknowledgement - Respect - Acceptance etc. will for some , never manifest. That's just life, and should be accepted. If that means that life itself isn't something that brings you joy anymore, so be it. That sadly is life as well.
@@asdfasdf-dg2qx I don’t know man maybe that is in theory but from what blackpill content I have seen it is more about spotting the unfairness in the world and it kind of stops there. Like an “it is what it is” deal on everything. I d like to see some examples of black pill creators/content that demonstrates what you are saying though.
@@KostasAlexiou0maybe you should take a hard look on black pill community forum not just black pill youtuber
Red pill is just a knowledge of how the word works.
Which is half the picture: knowledge of how YOU work is the other half
The idea of this video is pointing out the subset of red pill viewers who focus on the world to distract from themselves
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