Great reminder as to why never look back.....it is sometimes hard but the reality of the situation is once you had the courage to leave you MUST NEVER LOOK BACK! we are warriors seeking truth and that is what will set us free. Amen.
14 Reasons Why You Should Always Be Willing To Walk Away: 1. A willingness to walk away eliminates neediness. 2. A willingness to walk away encourages you to not seek revenge. 3. A willingness to walk away helps you get what you want out of life. 4. A willingness to walk away helps you grow. 5. A willingness to walk away indicates an abundance mindset. 6. A willingness to walk away is the key to freedom. 7. A willingness to walk away projects confidence. 8. A willingness to walk away projects fearlessness. 9. A willingness to walk away projects strength. 10. A willingness to walk away protects you from being taken advantage of. 11. A willingness to walk away protects your integrity and self-respect. 12. A willingness to walk away will bring you peace of mind. 13. A willingness to walk away will change your mindset. 14. A willingness to walk away will not make history repeat itself.
There's only one reason why you need to walk away.. to let your tormentor know they will never ever hurt you again....the sweetest revenge is to show them you can live happily without them...
Yes, as blinded as you are... you will realize over time it was best move. You still didn't win, but the sting will slowly fade away to an easily manageable set of emotions!!
Never ever associate with confused, unrealiable people. They will steal your peace and give you an unending circle of anxiety. Protect your peace at all cost. That's self love.
Yes, when you are really over anxious it’s very draining you could find someone you can talk to and be very open in a future relationship. I got really anxious as I could not communicate with a partner
You’re so right. I walked away from an emotionally abusive relationship only to return after he begged me back. He then began to not take me seriously and no longer cared. I decided to walk away forever.
Same thing happened to me! Today i decided no more... I'm out for good and this time it feels real and final! I feel so much better and self valued ❤️❤️❤️
Truth is truth and it can not contradict itself. Never fight the people you are walking away from. Quietly leave. And surrender all to God. Allow God to fight for you.
After almost 2 yrs I walked away. May 8th, 2021 just 5 weeks ago. I loved this girl, but to avoid the loooooong story. I will just say that in my heart I knew it was the right thing to do. It has been a long 5 weeks but in the last few days the greaving process is getting better. You can only obsess about something over and over, again and again before it begins to lose its sting. Much like your favorite new song on the radio. After a while it loses that magic and becomes another good song. Stay strong everyone because weakness will get none of us anywhere. Time heals all of us!!
Wow makes it easier to move on when you know u left 4da best. Listen to our hearts even wen it hurts... idk wat if ur heart tells ubtogo back? Listen to ur self respect if u have any left....😶 wow I realize I'm dynamic I have many personality traits but being single feels natural until I find that relationship that feels just as natural I'm just fine alone...I'm tired of trying 🥲
@@mr.l3260 Yes I have, and its interesting what time does. I think of my emotions back then and can't believe that was me. Now is just a normal memory tucked away nicely in the corner of my mind. 🤷♂️
That’s so true I split up with an ex few years ago after toxic behaviour hot cold blocking childishness no support . If I see an old pic now of him it’s weird I just see a man a stranger .. funny how one time I was madly in love with him 😂. Now I know no matter whatever happens if I split with someone times a healer no matter how hard it is at first you do heal and come out the other side stronger . Never put up with narcissists never be taken for granted never settle for crumbs bec just around the proverbial corner is a lovely empath waiting to love you in a healthy way 🤗😊🌈
Ask yourself if you dont have self-respect for yourself by being the best version of yourself why should you expect anyone to respect you. (This goes for friends, family, relationships, marriage, etc.) It's your psychological house after all. Why give low value permission for someone to loot and destroy your mental home as they see fit? Walk away to enjoy another day.
Perfect timing. For the 1st time in my life I said no to disrespectful behaviour. Someone I've cared for for almost 4 years wanted me back after splitting up with a girlfriend, we were just starting out as friends but he began playing mind games with me, hot and cold, super communicative then bouts of silence and then he stood me up with no explanation. From that point I shut the door on him. He's missing me I know, but that was the last straw. Sitting here tonight I was starting to feel miserable - so this video couldn't have come at a better time. Self-respect is everything! Thanks!
They are not worth it!! Been there done that!! They never change! It's sad but true!! They do prey on your sense of self. They make you doubt yourself and want you to distrust your inner self. I made the decision that I was in control of myself not him!! You got this!!!
@@rhondaduncan7228 bless! Yes, it's about not letting them control how we feel about ourselves. Whatever their behaviour is, that's on them and not a reflection of our worth.
Wow you're exactly describing how a guy behaved towards me as well during six months of connecting. That's it: hot and cold. Texting daily, very thoughtful with good morning messages or complimenting, caring then suddenly days of silence. Now personal space or no answers within the same day are not a crime in itself but it sums up with emotional games. It's a different feeling when a manipulator, male or female is silent bc it's poison vibes / negativity shooted at you. You feel that invisible hand putting you down, restless in your system and you can't really enjoy your days ( as hard as you try to ignore tge fact that this person you love is quiet on you) . I once told him how I felt. He replied 'I'm not ignoring you I'm with my parents'. He was abroad and visiting them, even sent me a picture of him with his mother. So I would feel assured okay he's sincere no mind games. I would feel silly and stupid as if I was being dramatic but my pain was intense. Very confusing. I never chased bin but I suffered on the inside. This went back and forward. Doubts, relief, doubts, relief. Anger, hurt, frustrations vs feeling connected and complete. I also started to think I was wrong and I apologised after expressing my hurt or anger about feeling disrespect. But all this time evidence of agessive behavior and put downs, bullying insults ("I was only joking") were in front of me. I wanted to be wrong so I could see him as a new genuine friend or love growing towards me. The positive side of the connection made me think it was just some distortion and he didn't do it on purpose.. I knew better all the time. Not rarely, looking back, we realise that we never truly liked them from the start. There are always turn offs like indecent behavior right after the encounter, but they chose us as their next target. We never chose them. At least this is my thought on this. I resisted in the beginning and was angry bc he kept pushing his wish to schedule our first date. Had no understanding for me when I said I didn't like to meet late in the afternoon bc it was getting dark early. He called me rude for suggesting to postpone our first date. While it was about my feeling of safety to meet by daylight. Etc. They often have abnormal expectations but will act like you are the abnormal one being to worried. They will often say ' just enjoy, you overthink'. No I am fine the way I am, think and act. I'm not conforming myself anymore to narcissistic types. Yet I am aware it's tricky bc I am still human and the signs are not always legit red flags. Narcissist can be very good actors by validating your opinions or feelings and seemingly civil. Just to play along... Win our trust and after that the stranger feeling or rejection games start. I don't want to spend any words on them anymore but it's also powerful to read and share experiences on yt including watching video's.
They really act like you have built a band with them and they care about you but it's never shown in their long term behavior. I always felt an inner voice telling me: what if you were in need emotionally or practically would you feel you could call him.. My answer would be no bc he doesn't want me to call him. He wants to stay in control. This means he wants me on a distance and sending nice texts to keep me in is so easy... Etc. Happy for you you are out of that circle and same here. Moments of feeling sad but no more insults and head space for things that are good for me. Bless you 🌹
Perfect advice, a narcissist thinks they are better than you , they hate your spark, and are very jealous of you, they have none of the qualities you possess.. and it’s why they always start fights . Let them go and do all their shit to someone else. Bottom lines is they are incapable of changing and being nice ..the demon behind the mask!!
It’s not walking away unless you stay away. If you return, you pulled away. If you planned to pull away you are gaming, playing, breadcrumbing, manipulating and maneuvering the damaged relationship along.
I always say this... A snake will always be a snake, no matter how many times it’s skin it’s shed. People very rarely change their ways, once you have accepted their behavior. Excellent video. Thnx for sharing 🙏🏽
I walked away from someone with fearful avoidant attachment style. My life is so much better. I also thought long about what it all meant and realised I have anxious attachment style. So I know what my lesson is. To learn secure attachment.
I've always had toxic friends all of my life, because I was just a very nice person but I didn't fight back in an argument or whatever, because I've always told myself that friendship is more important than respect or winning an argument. Oh boy.... I was so wrong ... Also people never ever apologize to you if they think that you are weak or that you have no value in their eyes. I recently cut all contact to my last friends who never ever contacted me first or texted me first after 18 years of friendship. I've always thought that distance or whatever was the reason they were not so involved with me. That is bullshit, for now on, I know deep down that people will completly change their behaviour when they really like someone. So I thought about it and it has been like that, No one apart of my family has really liked me as a friend despite me being loyal, listening to them, not spitting on them behind their back, etc,. Now I decide if I allow people in my life, I have nothing to prove to anyone. I know who I am.
Amen that's the happiest place to be in I walked away from my teenage friends bc the female and male friends belittled and mocked me regurarly. I walked away from them in my late twenties They kept looking for me via asking my number from my parents but I am gone!!!!!! ❤️ I left the small-town for my study, my two female friends followed me to the city where I studied. Looking back that kept me kind of stuck but I eventually took my distance bc I always felt like they wanted to let me know that I was silly and different then nornal and that I was not a gifted person. They draft wanna to go higher but I did and I am still going strong despite all narcissistic toxic people. I am successful and made some good choices regarding buying and selling properties. They are still in the same old gossip group. I don't need to price anything to them but sometimes I hope they know how well I'm doing......narcissist make it t clear that they don't take you serious. They feel threatened by ityers, always!
Truth is we all have wronged someone out there but that doesn't mean we shouldn't get second chances. Learning from our mistakes can work both ways but that's just me.
All these videos, every single one, goes on and on about how to get ur ex back! U say stay away! The bad feeling, the revenge! The revenge !!!!! So right !!! The going back because u don’t want to be lonely.... so right!!!! I know this feels awful,lonely on and on! But it’s going to feel a whole lot worse if I go back! This video is spot on!
When ur health nd ur mental state are changing for the worst. That's a sign walk away nd definitely stay away!! If u don't it cld be the end of u. Being wth toxic ppl u end up paying a very heavy price if u don't walk away whn u begin to feel depressed nd depleted. I walked away nd it is absolute FREEDOM!!! Good video... thank u God bless 👍👌🙏😁😊
After being in a back and forth relationship, I ended yesterday. Buy starting my self-care and wellness online consulting business, I realised I help so many people and now it is my time.
Best thing I ever did was walk away from this guy who was a Narcissist...was with him for over a year...did not know why he treated me the way he did, but spoke to a friend of mine in trying to help me understand what this guy was all about...that is when I was advised that he was a narcissist, had never been with one...not looking forward to him if he does try to return, hoping he doesn't...
@Kim Lewter Yes that's tough but self protection bc you have the human right to feel treated with dignity. I walked away from my family it's still a weight of guilt but I couldn't help but completely shutting myself like an oyster. I'm wishing you well and the right, genuine individuals crossing your road who will understand you with insight and affirm your feelings. That you may trust yourself above your family, knowing you're on the right path by following your heart. Step by step. ♥️
Thank you, left a narc one year ago and was starting to feel lonely, almost contacted him then your video came up, thank god for you, I almost went backwards, I’ve come so far... 🙏
@@lorainegardener559 thanks 🙏 I stayed strong 💪 didn’t call. Feel better now , the feeling just came on for a few days was such a unbelievably strong feeling but I got through it. ❤️💪🙏
@@kate238 Good for you I wasted 10 years with a covert narcissist they don't change i went back to mine several times after 2 months history repeated i can only give you my experience i had to walk away I truly loved this man im older woman I get lonely but I got my church thank God they are brain washing you if he is narcissist read on u tube they pattern if he is a narcissist I been nearly year from mine
Oh, I feel for you! My former girlfriend has borderline personality disorder, which is related to narcissism. Borderline people are not as extreme as narcissists, though they are famous for taking their boyfriends on emotional roller coaster rides, up and down. They play runner and chaser. They nearly always blame their boyfriends for any and every problem in the relationship. They get hurt over the littlest things, and they don't know who to let go of old hurts, even the little ones. On the contrary, they make mountains out of molehills.
Until you understand BPD and know what's going on, life in the madness makes no sense. You can't believe the person you fell in love with has changed and they are blaming you for everything. It takes some people years to realise that they aren't the problem. Walk away from a BPD and never ever look back.
When I was 21, I found a good paying job and had the best time of my life. I decided to reconnect with my family hoping we will have a better relationship this time. I was so wrong. The moment they had a grip on me, they started to commit the same old pattern of manipulation, gaslighting, toxicity, and making you their scapegoat. For ten miserable years, I suffered depression and committed suicide a thousand times. Then this 2023, finally, I decided to cut all ties from my family. I walked away and never looked back. Now I am free. I am alive. And for the first time in a long time, I feel genuinely happy.
Its true. If you decide to Walk Away from a Toxic Situation. Do not go back. I repeat. Do not go back. Stay Away. I went back and now have permanent damage to my health. So if the Universe is telling you to walk. Walk and never go back 🔙💯
Of course! There is no walking away without staying away. To walk away and return is weak and game playing and now the person you walked away from and returned to will never forget how you played them. Cheers!
I walked away from one of my longest friendships, over twenty years long. I found out about some things he'd kept hidden from me from the beginning, some things that shouldn't be forgiven. I didn't explain myself, just disappeared and never returned any contact from him. It was interesting when that first happened. The constant texts, threats, you name it. But I held my ground and never returned a single word. He knows what he's done and can think about it every time he thinks about me.
Lovev's life true love Never die I know a great and powerful healer that can get back your ex or crua without delay Just forever within 48hours he helped me too immediately
I'm finding some strength in this channel. I was dumped 6 months ago, hand on heart, I gave it my all and treated her very well with holidays and romantic weekends away, she told me I treated her very well but it wasn't enough, she also treated me very well in the relationship I must say but I'm pining after her, I still love her and Xmas is only 2 days away. I feel broken but trying to get some strength for these vids
I walked away from my son and feel enormous relief. I felt disrespected used and undermined for many years. I put up with this dreadful behaviour something I would not have done with friends. I am NEVER going back I learned my lesson.
Thanks man ..I needed to hear that, I walked away from my mom and her relatives, they are horrible people...(my own mother made fun of me when I lost my kid)....you are right!! Better things are just around the corner.
I strongly agree, I have decided to have fewer friends that I know they support me. Also I have decided to focus on myself and to never look for love again. I will let love find me.
Walked away from a 20 year friendship today after he told me he don’t get excited for other people (me, basically) and then continued to jus talk about himself and his accomplishments and career. That was when I just realised it was not a friendship anymore and left. I’m sad, but I respect and like myself more than I like being disrespected and nullified.
And the list is endless if we don't walk away...forced to have had a taste of everything...God will save you only if u hv the sense to pick ur self up n walk away...work hard and stay away from evil people👍❤️🙏
I have tears in my eyes listening to this being in a narcissist marriage all my life dealing with infidelity and her even saying to me she did nothing wrong cheating if that doesn’t spell narcissist nothing does
I walked away from family... I had to go back after years and years, just to realize they got more abusive, so I confirmed I did the right thing on the first place... I have always walked away from abusive countries and husband... Only today I was correcting my speech... You are not walking away because you are a coward... You walk away to avoid all the side effects of being around over excited people... Their low vibration feels literally like a trauma in your brain. You only have 2 options... You either skip them and have a happy life, or stay in live in their low vibration, which only brings more of that... Why be a fool, when you are clever...?
She tries this because she knows you are the best she can have but she's not the best you can have. There are far way better people for you. Burn bridges, social media makes walking away difficult but by blocking, removing from friends, removing friends that show her and other things will stop these reach outs from her. Blocking someone does not show weakness but strength And there's no shame in it if your state of mental health is involved in it
"you're a manipulator, I'm better off without you" A line I've used to great effect down the years. Excellent to hear a British video on this subject. Most are American, and although nothing wrong with American versions, they can be a bit over dramatic. 👍
This is a really great video I have just walked away from a very damaging 6 year relationship and found this very motivating that I am doing the right thing .. thank you 🙏🏻
This is so amazingly liberating!!! It gets me excited for my future! I’m leaving a 7 year hard exhausting relationship that is hurting me , I got cancer, got depressed and stopped living, got down on my knees and cried and lost my path. I want change, I want my life back!!! I can be the only one to change My relationship is not the answer but he’s not helping me ONe bit!!!!! He’s so negative and mean!!!! I can’t believe he loves me! I know people like this don’t change!! I’m leaving! For the last time!! Thank you for your lovely truth. I’m still listening to the work! Never to look back !
i just walked away from a girl who didn’t care about me. didn’t care that we broke up, just wanted to use me for company. barely included me in her life. i hate that i’m the one heartbroken when i actually tried my best and made her a priority. i know i have to stay away but feeling that rn is so hard :/
You cant walk away from reality or whoever you are in the past ,it will always haunts you coz it has been recorded in your subconcious mind already..it is much better if you stay away from things that keep you upset or whenever bad situation will come on your way dont ever try to get yourself into it
I just had a talk yesterday with my girlfriend and she told the same phenomena I realized in my life...couple that have a bossy and rude wife stay forever vs having a nice and loving wife.. confused.. doesn’t add up ... thank you for sharing with us your energy and knowledge...
I walked away from 28 years of Marriage, No more ghosting, I dont here F OFF anymore. My money stays in my wallet it no longer vanishes. A lot more peaceful now im moving on to start a new life.
I'm walking away from my second marriage as it got too claustrophobic. On Tuesday I move into my own place and can't wait! My second husband has learning disabilities so for now I will still stay in contact with him until I can get an adequate support package in place as he's vulnerable. However, I have put boundaries in place to protect me and he understands that I mean what I say. He also knows that I will have my own life and still be working. If he even thinks I'm taking time out of my day to see him every day he'll find out very quickly it's absolutely not. I deserve better and that's how it's staying.
2023. The year of disposable relationships, and advocated for on the latest platforms. Yep, bright future out there for you all. P.s. My comment is not applicable to anyone in an actually abusive relationship / career, but these are rarer than reported ;)
Thank you so much for this…. I broke up with my narcissistic GF 2 months ago, and she was a childhood friend I reconnected with 20 years and definitely a strong soulmate, I blocked her since …. But last few days I really wanted to contact and see how she is…. I needed this. 🤙🏽
This videos and others like it have convinced me to finally do what Jessica and everyone else has told me to do. Walk away and stay away. For my good and her good we were both much better off before we met. She had resigned herself to being single and dying that way, I was looking for a kind-hearted simple love relationship and it's turned into a nightmare
Truth...be good to yourself dont walk, but, rather, run away as fast as you can from toxic people Edit: I had to learn the hard way putting others who I thought were my friends ahead of my own children in spending wasted hours with
Its easy to assume that the OP suffered and therefore learned from losing you. MOST cases that does not happen! They are NOT suffering. We like to think we are the exception to the rule but remember we are NOT. A cheater CAN change but this will be over the course of a lifetime not within context of same relationship. And only if they are able & willing to.. I know because many many years ago I cheated prolifically on a man I loved very much.. Now years later cheating is not something I would ever be open to..I can say that with 100% confidence....BUT It took real PAIN and many years to come to that state.
That was a very encouraging video, especially the last reason. I won't ruin the surprise by bringing it up in the comments because I want everyone who needs to walk and stay away, to watch this video on their own. Thank you for the reminded wisdom of such reasons. I have been in those situations before and you have brought them to light for me to greatly remember why I do stay away. Thank you🙏
After 4yrs he cheated the whole time.. I forgave him..started seeing him again…Then finally blocked him yesterday.. hardest thing I did.. I am so in love with him.. it hurts more blocking than the cheating
My cheating not-yet ex husband is dead to me. I stopped referring to him by his given name, I use his ugly middle name when I have to talk about him with friends which I try to avoid. He has NPD and, yes, narcs get worse with every cycle of discard you have with them. I do my best to focus on me and things that make me happy and heal my wounds.
Hey I had dated a few Narc as well. A person who has great info about Narcissism Dr Ramani from YT called MED CIRCLE OR another person on YT called MENTAL HEALNESS
@@LarennPBel Yes, Dr Ramani has helped me a lot. I occasionally listen to HG Tudor, although he is a narcissist (and proud about it), but he gives good advice how to deal with “his kind” aka narcissists.
This is soo helpful. Just today was day dreaming about going back to a person who treated me as a second option for over 6 months. Playing hot and cold all the time and warming up when he wished to only. Never allowing me to share much or open up much because that didn't suit him. Never made me comfortable to become the first one to text or call. It was bad. Thanks for this video. I walked out on him last week. Is there any suggestion for an online support group to talk of relationships and such? Something like a place agnostic SLAA online?
This is a much better video than the one I watched the other day that talk about your superpower of walking away because there was a lot of resentment in that one I don’t think that that’s the point you want to drive home It’s stooping to the level of the narcissist and the whole idea of not being with that energy is presumably that you are not the same frequency but if you’re behaving that way you’re thinking that way and you’re speaking that way then that’s what attracted to you in the first place
I have less subs than letters in this title. I made a video that embodies this message for humanity. No its not about relationships. Its about all of us.
My friend/crush has feelings for my other friend they knew I liked her but decided they be happy together. That I know I can't change or control and I accept it but accepting the reality is tuff. People are saying I need to walk away from them
Great follow up to last Walking Away vid, STAY Away! Wonder how many of us can break through barrier of our circumstances to do, BOTH. I'm trying to walk away, n tks to this new vid, Stay Away even, w regards to my most Toxic Train Station Staff harassment/disturbances Commute Situation. How do you walk away from sometbing like that when u can't/very hard to (Physically) avoid/bypass it, not to mention Stay Away, when you don't have means to alternative modes of transport. Always cabs/private too expense, always bus too slow/impracticable on longer routes, my own car, well where I live cars cost same price as houses (Singapore), and I also lost drivers license ages ago. So, anyone with pointers (from presenter/readers) on how to Walk Away, then Stay Away from this toxic commute that's causing your mind/emotion/body hell. I think the people that's running me down approximates what presenter might term as narcissistic, or why else isn't it stopping? Cheers Thanks Wish me Luck here - Also, I think there might be some Racist bent to what I'm experiencing, I'm a Catholic Eurasian minority and my station detractors are mainly Muslim Malays in cahoots with non Xtian type local Chinese managers? I'm terrified if this might be the case as I can change my Eur-asian stripes for sure. If soz I need to RUN away from this. Oh yeah, maybr u should make.a other vid titles How To RUN away from Toxic Pp/Situations and follow that up with How to Keep 🏃 Running Away from that situation, this is predicated on the thing still chasing u of course. Gosh I'm getting paranoid. I contemplated just that, leaving the country altogether as I couldn't even travel the trains with my basic peace and dignity intact, in my own freakin country! But the Covid situation put paid to that last year May, so here am, still in this country riding out same toxic train systems (SMRT). My problem is highly unique so I need similar walk away/stay away SOLUTION!
I was raised by a "COVERT, NARCISSISTIC PERSONALITY DISORDERED" Mother...just learned this 10/2021, I'm 60, she's 88..At no time in my life did I get any acceptance, validation, or encouragement from her, instead I got the opposite... also relized this set me up for a narc. partner... ( 40 yrs.), again got undermined at every turn... too bad I didn't figure this out sooner...might have had a life...now feel financially, physically, beaten down...still constantly planning my escape...not sure if I will be able to, as he financially controls everything, & I'm not as employable now. The point...save yourself, the narc. is not going to change...your needs will not get met...your life doesn't matter, except to hold the mirror for the narc. My dreams never came to fruition...my goal is just to get some financial security, & a modest place to live in peace, alone, with my dog, the only unconditional love I ever had...sick of sacrificing for narcs.
I once put a woman on a pedestal. After walking away. I put my own self on the pedestal. And now she can't even reach me anymore. And I'm glad I did it because I just realized that she's not good for me. It is what it is. She almost had the gold but unfortunately it turns to a regular stone. She don't know what she's missing.
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Great reminder as to why never look back.....it is sometimes hard but the reality of the situation is once you had the courage to leave you MUST NEVER LOOK BACK! we are warriors seeking truth and that is what will set us free. Amen.
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I almost called her last night but I’m glad I didn’t .
To the person reading this: Stay firm, stick to your guns, you are worthy of love and you did the right thing ❤️
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I needed to hear this.
@@darlenemartin8859 Me too! ❤️
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14 Reasons Why You Should Always Be Willing To Walk Away:
1. A willingness to walk away eliminates neediness.
2. A willingness to walk away encourages you to not seek revenge.
3. A willingness to walk away helps you get what you want out of life.
4. A willingness to walk away helps you grow.
5. A willingness to walk away indicates an abundance mindset.
6. A willingness to walk away is the key to freedom.
7. A willingness to walk away projects confidence.
8. A willingness to walk away projects fearlessness.
9. A willingness to walk away projects strength.
10. A willingness to walk away protects you from being taken advantage of.
11. A willingness to walk away protects your integrity and self-respect.
12. A willingness to walk away will bring you peace of mind.
13. A willingness to walk away will change your mindset.
14. A willingness to walk away will not make history repeat itself.
There's only one reason why you need to walk away..
to let your tormentor know they will never ever hurt you again....the sweetest revenge is to show them you can live happily without them...
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Yes, as blinded as you are... you will realize over time it was best move. You still didn't win, but the sting will slowly fade away to an easily manageable set of emotions!!
last one hits strong 💯
Exactly. @@vulvapitR333
Never ever associate with confused, unrealiable people. They will steal your peace and give you an unending circle of anxiety. Protect your peace at all cost. That's self love.
For sure!
Yes, this is my lesson.
Walking away is easy. Staying away is the ultimate test esp in a relationship. Staying away is true power
Just walked away from a year long situationship... I couldn't handle the anxiety anymore, but it was still so hard to do.
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Yes, when you are really over anxious it’s very draining you could find someone you can talk to and be very open in a future relationship.
I got really anxious as I could not communicate with a partner
@@ingridhaughney3645 I agree. It's best to just move on and find someone who can communicate in a healthy way.
I've literally just done this 😒
@@danielscotthorne7061 I'm sorry you're going through this, I know it sucks.
I walked away from a toxic relationship (Narc) knowing I can do much better and never looking back !!! ✌
Thanks for watching
I did the same, stay strong, these people are evil.
I just walked away from a Narcissist! I went back way too many times! Never again!
Sameee!!
Facts
You’re so right. I walked away from an emotionally abusive relationship only to return after he begged me back. He then began to not take me seriously and no longer cared. I decided to walk away forever.
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Same thing happened to me! Today i decided no more... I'm out for good and this time it feels real and final! I feel so much better and self valued ❤️❤️❤️
If your absence does not entertain their love your presence never will
The mind is a powerful tool
Truth is truth and it can not contradict itself. Never fight the people you are walking away from. Quietly leave. And surrender all to God. Allow God to fight for you.
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After almost 2 yrs I walked away. May 8th, 2021 just 5 weeks ago. I loved this girl, but to avoid the loooooong story. I will just say that in my heart I knew it was the right thing to do. It has been a long 5 weeks but in the last few days the greaving process is getting better. You can only obsess about something over and over, again and again before it begins to lose its sting. Much like your favorite new song on the radio. After a while it loses that magic and becomes another good song. Stay strong everyone because weakness will get none of us anywhere. Time heals all of us!!
Wow makes it easier to move on when you know u left 4da best. Listen to our hearts even wen it hurts... idk wat if ur heart tells ubtogo back? Listen to ur self respect if u have any left....😶 wow I realize I'm dynamic I have many personality traits but being single feels natural until I find that relationship that feels just as natural I'm just fine alone...I'm tired of trying 🥲
It has been 1 year. Are you still away ?
@@mr.l3260 Yes I have, and its interesting what time does. I think of my emotions back then and can't believe that was me. Now is just a normal memory tucked away nicely in the corner of my mind. 🤷♂️
That's great to know 😄
@@DesertCruiser1 😊💐
It is hard and frustrating at times. The longer I stay away, the more unattractive he is becoming 💪🏽
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That’s so true I split up with an ex few years ago after toxic behaviour hot cold blocking childishness no support . If I see an old pic now of him it’s weird I just see a man a stranger .. funny how one time I was madly in love with him 😂. Now I know no matter whatever happens if I split with someone times a healer no matter how hard it is at first you do heal and come out the other side stronger . Never put up with narcissists never be taken for granted never settle for crumbs bec just around the proverbial corner is a lovely empath waiting to love you in a healthy way 🤗😊🌈
Ask yourself if you dont have self-respect for yourself by being the best version of yourself why should you expect anyone to respect you.
(This goes for friends, family, relationships, marriage, etc.)
It's your psychological house after all. Why give low value permission for someone to loot and destroy your mental home as they see fit?
Walk away to enjoy another day.
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Perfect timing. For the 1st time in my life I said no to disrespectful behaviour. Someone I've cared for for almost 4 years wanted me back after splitting up with a girlfriend, we were just starting out as friends but he began playing mind games with me, hot and cold, super communicative then bouts of silence and then he stood me up with no explanation. From that point I shut the door on him. He's missing me I know, but that was the last straw. Sitting here tonight I was starting to feel miserable - so this video couldn't have come at a better time.
Self-respect is everything!
Thanks!
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They are not worth it!! Been there done that!! They never change! It's sad but true!!
They do prey on your sense of self. They make you doubt yourself and want you to distrust your inner self. I made the decision that I was in control of myself not him!!
You got this!!!
@@rhondaduncan7228 bless! Yes, it's about not letting them control how we feel about ourselves. Whatever their behaviour is, that's on them and not a reflection of our worth.
Wow you're exactly describing how a guy behaved towards me as well during six months of connecting.
That's it: hot and cold. Texting daily, very thoughtful with good morning messages or complimenting, caring then suddenly days of silence.
Now personal space or no answers within the same day are not a crime in itself but it sums up with emotional games.
It's a different feeling when a manipulator, male or female is silent bc it's poison vibes / negativity shooted at you.
You feel that invisible hand putting you down, restless in your system and you can't really enjoy your days ( as hard as you try to ignore tge fact that this person you love is quiet on you) .
I once told him how I felt. He replied 'I'm not ignoring you I'm with my parents'.
He was abroad and visiting them, even sent me a picture of him with his mother. So I would feel assured okay he's sincere no mind games.
I would feel silly and stupid as if I was being dramatic but my pain was intense. Very confusing. I never chased bin but I suffered on the inside.
This went back and forward. Doubts, relief, doubts, relief.
Anger, hurt, frustrations vs feeling connected and complete. I also started to think I was wrong and I apologised after expressing my hurt or anger about feeling disrespect.
But all this time evidence of agessive behavior and put downs, bullying insults ("I was only joking") were in front of me. I wanted to be wrong so I could see him as a new genuine friend or love growing towards me.
The positive side of the connection made me think it was just some distortion and he didn't do it on purpose..
I knew better all the time.
Not rarely, looking back, we realise that we never truly liked them from the start. There are always turn offs like indecent behavior right after the encounter, but they chose us as their next target. We never chose them. At least this is my thought on this.
I resisted in the beginning and was angry bc he kept pushing his wish to schedule our first date. Had no understanding for me when I said I didn't like to meet late in the afternoon bc it was getting dark early.
He called me rude for suggesting to postpone our first date.
While it was about my feeling of safety to meet by daylight.
Etc.
They often have abnormal expectations but will act like you are the abnormal one being to worried.
They will often say ' just enjoy, you overthink'.
No I am fine the way I am, think and act.
I'm not conforming myself anymore to narcissistic types.
Yet I am aware it's tricky bc I am still human and the signs are not always legit red flags.
Narcissist can be very good actors by validating your opinions or feelings and seemingly civil. Just to play along... Win our trust and after that the stranger feeling or rejection games start.
I don't want to spend any words on them anymore but it's also powerful to read and share experiences on yt including watching video's.
They really act like you have built a band with them and they care about you but it's never shown in their long term behavior.
I always felt an inner voice telling me: what if you were in need emotionally or practically would you feel you could call him.. My answer would be no bc he doesn't want me to call him.
He wants to stay in control. This means he wants me on a distance and sending nice texts to keep me in is so easy...
Etc. Happy for you you are out of that circle and same here.
Moments of feeling sad but no more insults and head space for things that are good for me.
Bless you 🌹
Perfect advice, a narcissist thinks they are better than you , they hate your spark, and are very jealous of you, they have none of the qualities you possess.. and it’s why they always start fights . Let them go and do all their shit to someone else. Bottom lines is they are incapable of changing and being nice ..the demon behind the mask!!
Wow I love being alone it’s feels freeing .. 56 and two years now .. I have learned and grown so much it’s mind blowing 🙏🙏🙏🙏
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Just watch out, not to end up old and lonely and nobody to talk to.
@@holgerhaupt I have tons of family and friends , I’m blessed
You are so right. I walked away from some family members and an ex lover. Best thing ever. And I’ve never looked back.
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It’s not walking away unless you stay away.
If you return, you pulled away.
If you planned to pull away you are gaming, playing, breadcrumbing, manipulating and maneuvering the damaged relationship along.
I always say this... A snake will always be a snake, no matter how many times it’s skin it’s shed. People very rarely change their ways, once you have accepted their behavior. Excellent video. Thnx for sharing 🙏🏽
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I disagree! People do change.
Walked away from family….romantic relationships…and many disloyal friends….it’s not easy and it is painful but it had to be .
I walked away from someone with fearful avoidant attachment style. My life is so much better. I also thought long about what it all meant and realised I have anxious attachment style. So I know what my lesson is. To learn secure attachment.
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@@highvibezwithgrace3917 okay
@@victoriaalbastra6325 it wasnt to you darling it was to the scg show
Did they get back?
I've always had toxic friends all of my life, because I was just a very nice person but I didn't fight back in an argument or whatever, because I've always told myself that friendship is more important than respect or winning an argument. Oh boy.... I was so wrong ... Also people never ever apologize to you if they think that you are weak or that you have no value in their eyes. I recently cut all contact to my last friends who never ever contacted me first or texted me first after 18 years of friendship. I've always thought that distance or whatever was the reason they were not so involved with me. That is bullshit, for now on, I know deep down that people will completly change their behaviour when they really like someone. So I thought about it and it has been like that, No one apart of my family has really liked me as a friend despite me being loyal, listening to them, not spitting on them behind their back, etc,. Now I decide if I allow people in my life, I have nothing to prove to anyone. I know who I am.
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This is sooo true
Amen that's the happiest place to be in I walked away from my teenage friends bc the female and male friends belittled and mocked me regurarly. I walked away from them in my late twenties
They kept looking for me via asking my number from my parents but I am gone!!!!!! ❤️
I left the small-town for my study, my two female friends followed me to the city where I studied.
Looking back that kept me kind of stuck but I eventually took my distance bc I always felt like they wanted to let me know that I was silly and different then nornal and that I was not a gifted person.
They draft wanna to go higher but I did and I am still going strong despite all narcissistic toxic people.
I am successful and made some good choices regarding buying and selling properties.
They are still in the same old gossip group.
I don't need to price anything to them but sometimes I hope they know how well I'm doing......narcissist make it t clear that they don't take you serious.
They feel threatened by ityers, always!
Truth is we all have wronged someone out there but that doesn't mean we shouldn't get second chances. Learning from our mistakes can work both ways but that's just me.
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All these videos, every single one, goes on and on about how to get ur ex back! U say stay away! The bad feeling, the revenge! The revenge !!!!! So right !!! The going back because u don’t want to be lonely.... so right!!!! I know this feels awful,lonely on and on! But it’s going to feel a whole lot worse if I go back! This video is spot on!
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When ur health nd ur mental state are changing for the worst. That's a sign walk away nd definitely stay away!! If u don't it cld be the end of u. Being wth toxic ppl u end up paying a very heavy price if u don't walk away whn u begin to feel depressed nd depleted. I walked away nd it is absolute FREEDOM!!! Good video... thank u God bless 👍👌🙏😁😊
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Taking back a cheat is like aiding and abetting.
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Thank you very much. It’s very informative and helpful👍🏽
After being in a back and forth relationship, I ended yesterday.
Buy starting my self-care and wellness online consulting business, I realised I help so many people and now it is my time.
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Best thing I ever did was walk away from this guy who was a Narcissist...was with him for over a year...did not know why he treated me the way he did, but spoke to a friend of mine in trying to help me understand what this guy was all about...that is when I was advised that he was a narcissist, had never been with one...not looking forward to him if he does try to return, hoping he doesn't...
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I'm trying to stay away. It isn't easy
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It's never easy. Set boundaries that help you build you back! You are worth it!
@Kim Lewter Yes that's tough but self protection bc you have the human right to feel treated with dignity.
I walked away from my family it's still a weight of guilt but I couldn't help but completely shutting myself like an oyster. I'm wishing you well and the right, genuine individuals crossing your road who will understand you with insight and affirm your feelings. That you may trust yourself above your family, knowing you're on the right path by following your heart. Step by step. ♥️
Thank you, left a narc one year ago and was starting to feel lonely, almost contacted him then your video came up, thank god for you, I almost went backwards, I’ve come so far... 🙏
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Never go back to a narcissist they repeat what they done there are maney being hurt by these monsters
@@lorainegardener559 thanks 🙏
I stayed strong 💪 didn’t call. Feel better now , the feeling just came on for a few days was such a unbelievably strong feeling but I got through it. ❤️💪🙏
@@kate238 Good for you I wasted 10 years with a covert narcissist they don't change i went back to mine several times after 2 months history repeated i can only give you my experience i had to walk away I truly loved this man im older woman I get lonely but I got my church thank God they are brain washing you if he is narcissist read on u tube they pattern if he is a narcissist I been nearly year from mine
All the best for your future and karma will come to them who are wicked in one form or another
I just keep thinking I wont find anyone like him, he truly was unique to me, never met anyone like him
You will
Oh, I feel for you!
My former girlfriend has borderline personality disorder, which is related to narcissism. Borderline people are not as extreme as narcissists, though they are famous for taking their boyfriends on emotional roller coaster rides, up and down. They play runner and chaser. They nearly always blame their boyfriends for any and every problem in the relationship.
They get hurt over the littlest things, and they don't know who to let go of old hurts, even the little ones. On the contrary, they make mountains out of molehills.
How did u just describe her cause damn! This is who I’m dealing with rn
@@seriously999 That's exactly my ex
I realize you discribe my ex
Until you understand BPD and know what's going on, life in the madness makes no sense. You can't believe the person you fell in love with has changed and they are blaming you for everything. It takes some people years to realise that they aren't the problem. Walk away from a BPD and never ever look back.
Damn, exactly my ex. It's weird how all this is so true
When I was 21, I found a good paying job and had the best time of my life. I decided to reconnect with my family hoping we will have a better relationship this time. I was so wrong. The moment they had a grip on me, they started to commit the same old pattern of manipulation, gaslighting, toxicity, and making you their scapegoat. For ten miserable years, I suffered depression and committed suicide a thousand times. Then this 2023, finally, I decided to cut all ties from my family. I walked away and never looked back. Now I am free. I am alive. And for the first time in a long time, I feel genuinely happy.
This helps me recovering from a narcistic relation , even it hurt so much, more flashback, every tears falling,, i still manage my anger,,
Its true. If you decide to Walk Away from a Toxic Situation. Do not go back. I repeat. Do not go back. Stay Away. I went back and now have permanent damage to my health. So if the Universe is telling you to walk. Walk and never go back 🔙💯
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Trying to heal from toxicity .. I’m trying to grasp that this will never work and stop thinking about him
Of course!
There is no walking away without staying away.
To walk away and return is weak and game playing and now the person you walked away from and returned to will never forget how you played them.
Cheers!
I walked away from one of my longest friendships, over twenty years long.
I found out about some things he'd kept hidden from me from the beginning, some things that shouldn't be forgiven.
I didn't explain myself, just disappeared and never returned any contact from him.
It was interesting when that first happened. The constant texts, threats, you name it.
But I held my ground and never returned a single word.
He knows what he's done and can think about it every time he thinks about me.
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I'm finding some strength in this channel. I was dumped 6 months ago, hand on heart, I gave it my all and treated her very well with holidays and romantic weekends away, she told me I treated her very well but it wasn't enough, she also treated me very well in the relationship I must say but I'm pining after her, I still love her and Xmas is only 2 days away. I feel broken but trying to get some strength for these vids
Wonderful!
I walked away from my son and feel enormous relief.
I felt disrespected used and undermined for many years.
I put up with this dreadful behaviour something I would not have done with friends.
I am NEVER going back I learned my lesson.
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Thanks man ..I needed to hear that, I walked away from my mom and her relatives, they are horrible people...(my own mother made fun of me when I lost my kid)....you are right!! Better things are just around the corner.
Just walked away from a 6 year relationship. It's over and my heart was broken 💔 😢 too many times. Never again 😒
I strongly agree, I have decided to have fewer friends that I know they support me. Also I have decided to focus on myself and to never look for love again. I will let love find me.
Well done
Some great videos on RUclips explaining The Backwards Law .
Food for thought.
Walked away from a 20 year friendship today after he told me he don’t get excited for other people (me, basically) and then continued to jus talk about himself and his accomplishments and career. That was when I just realised it was not a friendship anymore and left. I’m sad, but I respect and like myself more than I like being disrespected and nullified.
And the list is endless if we don't walk away...forced to have had a taste of everything...God will save you only if u hv the sense to pick ur self up n walk away...work hard and stay away from evil people👍❤️🙏
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I have tears in my eyes listening to this being in a narcissist marriage all my life dealing with infidelity and her even saying to me she did nothing wrong cheating if that doesn’t spell narcissist nothing does
This is good. Walking away is not enough. I need to stay away.
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I walked away from family... I had to go back after years and years, just to realize they got more abusive, so I confirmed I did the right thing on the first place...
I have always walked away from abusive countries and husband...
Only today I was correcting my speech... You are not walking away because you are a coward...
You walk away to avoid all the side effects of being around over excited people...
Their low vibration feels literally like a trauma in your brain.
You only have 2 options... You either skip them and have a happy life, or stay in live in their low vibration, which only brings more of that...
Why be a fool, when you are clever...?
Yep. When you know, you go. And don't look back.
I had virtually the same exact experience with my now ex. She's truly devious. But, it's been difficult to reject her reaching out.
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She tries this because she knows you are the best she can have but she's not the best you can have. There are far way better people for you. Burn bridges, social media makes walking away difficult but by blocking, removing from friends, removing friends that show her and other things will stop these reach outs from her.
Blocking someone does not show weakness but strength
And there's no shame in it if your state of mental health is involved in it
@@dedmeme5849 thanks man appreciate it. Really.
"you're a manipulator, I'm better off without you"
A line I've used to great effect down the years.
Excellent to hear a British video on this subject.
Most are American, and although nothing wrong with American versions, they can be a bit over dramatic. 👍
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This is a really great video I have just walked away from a very damaging 6 year relationship and found this very motivating that I am doing the right thing .. thank you 🙏🏻
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Hopefully soon I meet a strong woman like you Claire to keep loved and care till end of life
This is so amazingly liberating!!!
It gets me excited for my future!
I’m leaving a 7 year hard exhausting relationship that is hurting me , I got cancer, got depressed and stopped living, got down on my knees and cried and lost my path. I want change, I want my life back!!!
I can be the only one to change
My relationship is not the answer but he’s not helping me ONe bit!!!!! He’s so negative and mean!!!! I can’t believe he loves me! I know people like this don’t change!!
I’m leaving! For the last time!!
Thank you for your lovely truth.
I’m still listening to the work!
Never to look back !
So much better ...my God so much better from such sickness as an NPD
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i just walked away from a girl who didn’t care about me. didn’t care that we broke up, just wanted to use me for company. barely included me in her life. i hate that i’m the one heartbroken when i actually tried my best and made her a priority. i know i have to stay away but feeling that rn is so hard :/
You cant walk away from reality or whoever you are in the past ,it will always haunts you coz it has been recorded in your subconcious mind already..it is much better if you stay away from things that keep you upset or whenever bad situation will come on your way dont ever try to get yourself into it
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I just had a talk yesterday with my girlfriend and she told the same phenomena I realized in my life...couple that have a bossy and rude wife stay forever vs having a nice and loving wife.. confused.. doesn’t add up ... thank you for sharing with us your energy and knowledge...
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Thanks so much for this.....it speaks facts. Even though I know God is getting me thru...I have to do my part and stay strong.
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Thank You
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I walked away from 28 years of Marriage, No more ghosting, I dont here F OFF anymore. My money stays in my wallet it no longer vanishes. A lot more peaceful now im moving on to start a new life.
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I'm walking away from my second marriage as it got too claustrophobic. On Tuesday I move into my own place and can't wait! My second husband has learning disabilities so for now I will still stay in contact with him until I can get an adequate support package in place as he's vulnerable. However, I have put boundaries in place to protect me and he understands that I mean what I say. He also knows that I will have my own life and still be working. If he even thinks I'm taking time out of my day to see him every day he'll find out very quickly it's absolutely not. I deserve better and that's how it's staying.
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2023. The year of disposable relationships, and advocated for on the latest platforms. Yep, bright future out there for you all. P.s. My comment is not applicable to anyone in an actually abusive relationship / career, but these are rarer than reported ;)
Thank you so much for this…. I broke up with my narcissistic GF 2 months ago, and she was a childhood friend I reconnected with 20 years and definitely a strong soulmate, I blocked her since …. But last few days I really wanted to contact and see how she is…. I needed this. 🤙🏽
Good advice they don't change
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Yes walking away is a super power!
I made the mistake of walking away once just and when I went back after staying away for a while I went back to find nothing had changed
This was such a good follow up and perfect timing. Thank you
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This videos and others like it have convinced me to finally do what Jessica and everyone else has told me to do. Walk away and stay away. For my good and her good we were both much better off before we met. She had resigned herself to being single and dying that way, I was looking for a kind-hearted simple love relationship and it's turned into a nightmare
Not letting red flags fly and set boundaries ASAP is the greatest lesson learned 🙌. Thank you for the content 🙏
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Truth...be good to yourself dont walk, but, rather, run away as fast as you can from toxic people
Edit: I had to learn the hard way putting others who I thought were my friends ahead of my own children in spending wasted hours with
You are taking advice from a stranger that is building abundance while you are listening.
So glad I watched this one
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If it's really bad walk away But nowadays people walk away from perfectly fixable relationships with minor problems. That's a big problem!
Better move on than to repeat.. awesome video!
Its easy to assume that the OP suffered and therefore learned from losing you.
MOST cases that does not happen! They are NOT suffering.
We like to think we are the exception to the rule but remember we are NOT.
A cheater CAN change but this will be over the course of a lifetime not within context of same relationship. And only if they are able & willing to..
I know because many many years ago I cheated prolifically on a man I loved very much..
Now years later cheating is not something I would ever be open to..I can say that with 100% confidence....BUT
It took real PAIN and many years to come to that state.
That was a very encouraging video, especially the last reason. I won't ruin the surprise by bringing it up in the comments because I want everyone who needs to walk and stay away, to watch this video on their own. Thank you for the reminded wisdom of such reasons. I have been in those situations before and you have brought them to light for me to greatly remember why I do stay away. Thank you🙏
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Thanks for sharing your videos, it motivates us to keep moving forward not going back to the toxic people
Enjoyed every bit of this video
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After 4yrs he cheated the whole time.. I forgave him..started seeing him again…Then finally blocked him yesterday.. hardest thing I did.. I am so in love with him.. it hurts more blocking than the cheating
This is the best advice I've heard all year!!! Detailed and accurate!! So happy I found your channel! Thank you!!!!
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My cheating not-yet ex husband is dead to me. I stopped referring to him by his given name, I use his ugly middle name when I have to talk about him with friends which I try to avoid. He has NPD and, yes, narcs get worse with every cycle of discard you have with them.
I do my best to focus on me and things that make me happy and heal my wounds.
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Hey I had dated a few Narc as well. A person who has great info about Narcissism Dr Ramani from YT called MED CIRCLE OR another person on YT called MENTAL HEALNESS
@@LarennPBel Yes, Dr Ramani has helped me a lot. I occasionally listen to HG Tudor, although he is a narcissist (and proud about it), but he gives good advice how to deal with “his kind” aka narcissists.
Yep gotta start walking away from my parents for sure once I'm straight financially pa fuera y a la calle
History repeats itself. Jesus understatement
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I can't thank you enough for these Videos.
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This is soo helpful. Just today was day dreaming about going back to a person who treated me as a second option for over 6 months. Playing hot and cold all the time and warming up when he wished to only. Never allowing me to share much or open up much because that didn't suit him. Never made me comfortable to become the first one to text or call. It was bad. Thanks for this video. I walked out on him last week.
Is there any suggestion for an online support group to talk of relationships and such? Something like a place agnostic SLAA online?
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It's horrible stay away from these people they will destroy your life otherwise.
I wish I had heard this 2 years ago
Not so easy when you have kids and your parents are narcissists as well. They reap revenge and I never went back
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This is a much better video than the one I watched the other day that talk about your superpower of walking away because there was a lot of resentment in that one I don’t think that that’s the point you want to drive home
It’s stooping to the level of the narcissist and the whole idea of not being with that energy is presumably that you are not the same frequency but if you’re behaving that way you’re thinking that way and you’re speaking that way then that’s what attracted to you in the first place
I have less subs than letters in this title. I made a video that embodies this message for humanity. No its not about relationships. Its about all of us.
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My friend/crush has feelings for my other friend they knew I liked her but decided they be happy together. That I know I can't change or control and I accept it but accepting the reality is tuff. People are saying I need to walk away from them
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This is perfect, for my New year!! Thank you so much.
Perfect!!! Love this comment!!!
Thank u!!🍀👍🍾💫🥰
I wii do this!!!
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Great follow up to last Walking Away vid, STAY Away! Wonder how many of us can break through barrier of our circumstances to do, BOTH. I'm trying to walk away, n tks to this new vid, Stay Away even, w regards to my most Toxic Train Station Staff harassment/disturbances Commute Situation. How do you walk away from sometbing like that when u can't/very hard to (Physically) avoid/bypass it, not to mention Stay Away, when you don't have means to alternative modes of transport. Always cabs/private too expense, always bus too slow/impracticable on longer routes, my own car, well where I live cars cost same price as houses (Singapore), and I also lost drivers license ages ago. So, anyone with pointers (from presenter/readers) on how to Walk Away, then Stay Away from this toxic commute that's causing your mind/emotion/body hell. I think the people that's running me down approximates what presenter might term as narcissistic, or why else isn't it stopping? Cheers Thanks Wish me Luck here -
Also, I think there might be some Racist bent to what I'm experiencing, I'm a Catholic Eurasian minority and my station detractors are mainly Muslim Malays in cahoots with non Xtian type local Chinese managers? I'm terrified if this might be the case as I can change my Eur-asian stripes for sure. If soz I need to RUN away from this. Oh yeah, maybr u should make.a other vid titles How To RUN away from Toxic Pp/Situations and follow that up with How to Keep 🏃 Running Away from that situation, this is predicated on the thing still chasing u of course. Gosh I'm getting paranoid. I contemplated just that, leaving the country altogether as I couldn't even travel the trains with my basic peace and dignity intact, in my own freakin country! But the Covid situation put paid to that last year May, so here am, still in this country riding out same toxic train systems (SMRT). My problem is highly unique so I need similar walk away/stay away SOLUTION!
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I was raised by a "COVERT, NARCISSISTIC PERSONALITY DISORDERED" Mother...just learned this 10/2021, I'm 60, she's 88..At no time in my life did I get any acceptance, validation, or encouragement from her, instead I got the opposite... also relized this set me up for a narc. partner... ( 40 yrs.), again got undermined at every turn... too bad I didn't figure this out sooner...might have had a life...now feel financially, physically, beaten down...still constantly planning my escape...not sure if I will be able to, as he financially controls everything, & I'm not as employable now. The point...save yourself, the narc. is not going to change...your needs will not get met...your life doesn't matter, except to hold the mirror for the narc. My dreams never came to fruition...my goal is just to get some financial security, & a modest place to live in peace, alone, with my dog, the only unconditional love I ever had...sick of sacrificing for narcs.
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Thank you, I agree with you that is clever to follow your advice in our life, but difficult path
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Yes I enjoy the video , I liked the video
Every word in the video hits me so hard that I cried a lot after watching. Thank you for this inspiring video. I feel hopeful right now.
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Only took me 2 months to walk away...he was passive aggressive...low key insecure..was tempted to reconnect but NO way...
I once put a woman on a pedestal.
After walking away.
I put my own self on the pedestal. And now she can't even reach me anymore.
And I'm glad I did it because I just realized that she's not good for me.
It is what it is.
She almost had the gold but unfortunately it turns to a regular stone.
She don't know what she's missing.
Exact situation. Including leaving for 2 yes to be back locked out in rain and shelter for 3rd time
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