My daughter's resented their mother for divorcing me over money. Now I am a high earner, paid for my daughters college education and was always active. Now she wants us to get back together as she approaches 50 and none of her men will marry her.
I'm a full time firefighter and I can confirm what Kevin told the woman that was 300#. We get a lot of calls from older women and men that fall in the house and can't get up. All of them are usually 250# and over. We even get called to the ones that are married since their spouse doesn't have the strength to get them up by themselves. If you're older and single, at least take care of your weight/health so you can have a better quality of life.
It's all about having mind over matter. Control that damn gut. Control the mouth. Food tastes good,but eating is like sex. The longer you go without it,the better it feels when you have it. Avoid greasy ass food. Avoid ice cream and butter and fatty foods. Bacon,all pork meat has to go. Most importantly, STAY ACTIVE,break a damn sweat at least 3 times a week. A damn good sweat,a workout, not just a little sweat drop. Work that sht.
Since no ones saying it, I will. That caller who nursed her man back to health from not one but two near death episodes is a REAL ONE. It was actually depressing hearing her say that her friends were saying they’d leave that man. I’m glad she’s taken care of now. That’s a real F.B.I woman right there.
63 Impala rag Dude FR tho. She signed up to live with a well off man and when the money looked like it was gone, she loved and nurtured him the most. Most women leave when “it’s not what I signed up for.” That whole story made my heart feel good.
My Mom single handed, ruined the relationship between my Father & I from when I was as young as 7. She had us no contact with him (story of alienation). Long story short, jokes on her. At 17 I re met my Dad & he’s one of the biggest hero’s in my life. My mom? She’s been cut off since then. Women lie and women WILL destroy a family over greed & ego. Kevin isn’t just saying this stuff into thin air hoping it sticks - these are real families. Real children. Real repercussions.
Sounds like my story. My mother lied about my father all my life. I met him at 25 and found out she didn't allow him in my life bc he cheated on her while pregnant with me. I haven't seen or spoken 2 her in 20+ years. I just went no contact.
From a Polish white man, ur show is what I wanted to let myself believe my whole life but couldn't. I want to thank u personally from ALL men, everywhere. U helped me take a hard look at my life to do better. All women are starting to adopt this attitude, and YOU are the one TRUTH that these women cant ignore. I have never respected any man more than u. Most men I know bow to this Disney bs that has been pushed on us as children. I can say that I m overweight and shorter than what women want, but I m facing my reality head on because of YOU. Right now YOU R the Only Man Speaking Truth. Women, Men, dosen't matter. TRUTH matters.... Hiring u will b my personal pleasure. Thank you for YOU...
I am a 67yr. old man. For the past few weeks I have been chatting on a senior dating site out of curiosity. I was stunned by the number of sisters in their 60's still looking for a man to grow with and build a future. Women who in less than 20yrs. are facing 80 yrs.old. That is, if they make it. We have a problem. This has been some of Mr. Samuels' best work. Brutal honesty.
@@celestejacobs7386 That wasn't the point. He was surprised that they still had younger persons "standards" or "requirements" of growing a future instead of finding someone to grow old with n their 60's.
@@celestejacobs7386 That wasn't the point. He was surprised that they still had younger persons "standards" or "requirements" of growing a future instead of finding someone to grow old with n their 60's.
Women in wheel chairs expect to find a young, rich doctor to marry them. They stay delusional to the very end. When they got male attention at 18 years old, it stuck in their brains and never left.
@@celestejacobs7386probably a lot more mature, realistic and able to be honest and self aware. Just what exactly is anyone starting at 50+ years old? Certainly NOT a family. So what should single, senior women be looking for? A permanent companion. A perspective husband with whom she can merge resources to live as comfortably as possible for their remaining years. Sad that this has to be explained to anyone. Age is not just a number. Around 50 years old your body and health begin to change, we slow down significantly from the level of activity we enjoyed so effortlessly at 25, 35, 40, etc. It’s a change over which we have negligible control. We can mitigate these changes with exercise, healthy diet and lifestyle, but genetics also play a role in the aging process. We cannot just will the aging process to stop, and this is something that people don’t often talk about with younger generations. But regardless of our age, we need to be realistic about who and where we are chronologically and act accordingly and appropriately. I heard Kevin talk about a 70 year old woman who thought that “in a couple of years” she’d find a man and settle down. At 72. Unless the man she is going to be looking for is a funeral director and her idea of settling down is pre-planning her funeral she is completely delusional.
The fact she doesn't see the irony in her saying "so I should take care of a grown man" , so another adult should just take care of a grown woman, if we're going to play that game
I think that a lot of women misunderstand or ignore a few key things when they comment or call in: 1. This channel is primarily for MEN. Can we learn from it as women? Absolutely, which is why since he discovered that we are a part of his audience, he dedicates some shows to women only. 2. This channel focuses on a particular class of men- HIGH VALUE MEN (their lifestyle, thought pattern, etc) first. This does not mean that "average" men are not desirable men. A man is a man, is a man. 3. The information exchanged here is based on the rule, not the exception. 4. Facts override feelings here. 5. Men determine your SMV. 6. High value is first of all a mindset, which interprets itself in the real world as success. 7. If we as women have any issue with the requirements or demands of a high value man, then he is not the man for us; you can only change yourself, not him, and so if you're not willing to change, there are other options.There is no "alpha-beta" man, so its either one or the other. My own 2 cents: A high value man MUST start from somewhere, so it is advisable for women to take into consideration a man's overall circumstance and the time in his life when you met him- some men that we may write off as "average" are actually high value men in hiding. Grab your copy early to avoid the certain future rush: there is nothing wrong with partnering with a man to build a future together. High value men do not necessarily come ready-made.
Thank you! I never under stand what the disconnect in understanding this simple fact with our sisters is. Being a High Value Man is a mindset first. Being a Feminine Woman is a mindset first. The will and the body can only follow the mind,so if we want these men,we must get our minds right first!
@ thank you. For the record though, I cannot criticize you, if I don't know you. A young man described his experience with a woman in his office, and some of us reacted to it- if you happen to be that woman, then do with the information, what you will. As for "thinking that you don't have an HVM", ma'am, again, I DON'T KNOW YOU so how would I come to that conclusion? Besides, does having a HVM mean that you're happy or better off than other women? No, it does not, so no, I did not use those words, neither did I imply them. Pls call in as a " case study", as you intend to. It would be interesting to hear your perspective on whatever you want to talk about.
The lady who’s ex didn’t make enough money. She could’ve used that feminine charm to help him secure deal for a higher paying job. Women are gatekeepers to some industries and men need women who’s on their team to put them on game. I told my husband exactly what to say to convince his female manager to be considered for a promotion. It worked too. We’re not rich but we’re doing our best to make things work. Black men and women can work together to create something beautiful seriously!
True statement... I actually understand how a woman wants to leave a man who doesn't wanna work with no drive... but you gotta fight for a marriage.. but alot of women don't even know what female charm is.. I appreciate your comment tho
A shame that this man has to do all the heavy lifting from RUclips to bring back the black family. We got thousands of pastors all over this country that wouldn’t dare touch any of this. The entire concept of wife as ‘helpmeet’ is completely dead, and blasphemous at best, while ‘husband’ as provider and protector is stronger than ever.
You know, I agree with you. I don’t want to be a traditional wife, but I also don’t want a traditional husband. I would like an “equal partner” relationship but most men I meet are looking for a domestic goddess no matter their financial position. I remember discussing with a boyfriend and a prospective boyfriend that I personally would be happy to pay for domestic help so that we could go out and spend more time together. They couldn’t wrap their head around it. I’ve learned that men, whether they make less or more money than I do, do generally want to set the terms of the relationship, and those terms don’t fit me. They seldom want to work out terms together as partners. Since I’m already in “no man’s land” I’m taking a break to focus on building wealth so I can at least die with staff and not alone and get eaten by my cat. Lol!
35, overweight with a kid and thinks things are going to end well....with a man that's financially secure. LOL! Wait a second...LOL...they're killin' me!
Kevin can be short and blunt sometimes but I believe he cares deeply about how our society is eroding. I believe he’s a good person and more sensitive than he lets on. God bless him.
I agree! However so many women calling in have an attitude or are defensive from the jump. They want to be RIGHT verses taking accountability for their stuff. The perspectives Kevin brings to the table should be eyeopening for us black women v being defensive and offended by what he says...many women are more focused on Kevin's delivery than the MESSAGE which is the most important!
He's short and blunt, and so is life at minimum. People need to stop being so damn soft, or suffer the consequences silently. I went to Marine Corps basic training 27 years ago and they tell you right away upon arrival that they don't care and nobody cares. If you don't learn that quick enough, you will get a 1 way ticket back to mommy.
Everytime I hear Kevin pour a can of red bull it makes me laugh because I realize this brother needs that energy to tolerate these ignorant ass calls.....🙄😒😑
It’s scary how many callers truly sound like Kevin Samuels is the first person to ever push back on their red herring deflections. Everytime he asks one of them a tough question, they sound like they want a referee to throw a flag for having “excessive logic and reasoning.” And “not backing down to my buzz words and shame tactics.” How could we let society fall so far. In the age of more available information than ever, you can’t even state the obvious to a woman without her shooting the messenger.
One reason society fell so far is feminist programming. Everything you hear from these women is because they ACTUALLY BELIEVE in those feminist ideals that SOUND good but are flawed because they only take into account the female perspective when the whole world is made up of males AND females! How can feminists NOT take into account the male perspective, when their argument is that men don't take into account the female perspective? Feminism will make a woman become what they complain about.
My Husband had me listen and I'm sorry these women calling in Are DELUSIONAL and MISGUIDED the fact that they put a man's paycheck before the relationship is Crazy!! They must have never dated a man with a lot of money or been in a bad relationship before. Money does solve many problems but A man that will love you and take care of you (whether you work or not) trumps all of that other noise. If a man doesn't make the money you "think he should" then what are you doing to help him. Men go further in life and financially with a good woman/wife by their side, so if he is still in the same place in life, then what does that say about you as a girlfriend or wife. Men need Love, Loyalty, and Understanding. You give them that and they will work hard to give you the world.
You're giving them too much game sista. Hell if they don't know that off top its no need for them. A man can survive without a woman, a woman can't survive with a man. That's why men have to watch who they put they thing in then shit backfires. A man can keep his bread be by himself still ballout,live nice with no responsibility,stay in shape and get a woman. A woman needs the help. These grown women should say what you said it would be a much better world
As a woman, I believe that we need to learn how to listen carefully, not to listen to talk. My boyfriend tells me that every now and again, I am really practicing. I am trying, nobody is perfect right. But yes, we need to do better girls! ❤️💕💯
As a MAN when you say no one is perfect you’ll probably use that when you don’t listen and talk and not understand. Do you know how powerful it is to be quiet and have someone speak ? It’s more powerful to listen and understand and then react. Could be a day or two or so. The key is to not react. Can’t say well no ones perfect as we all know this. Anything done based on emotion(s) will never be well thought out on any decision(s). One love sis!
@@faithsmalls130 negative. You see the thing you must get is that this generation has issues and more likely from the previous. It’s called generational trauma passed down. If in Christ we care for people we all need to have self accountability and self actualization TO save possibly the following generations to come. THIS will be hard to hear, difficult but look at it from a spiritual point of view, it’s easier to sin than to walk through the doors of heaven so how are we to save people. The truth, exposure and harsh reality? Or to tell people what they want to hear, coddling, one sidedness etc.?
@@faithsmalls130 rudeness and being straight forward is subjective mam. U Need to hush. Some people need a reality check that requires a no-nonsense tone. Some of its entertainment because u know very well how silly women can be. It's tiring and exhausting how aloof some people can be at times. KS has also been very very patient at times. U need to change the channel. U and the rest of the get along gang trying to save grown ass women from "hurt feelings". ? Girl bye
My grandmother died alone in her house watching TV at 61. My aunt was found alone in her house on the toilet. She literally drank herself to death at age 55.
My great aunt died 2 years ago alone. Age 66. Neighbors knocked her door down 2.5 weeks after not seeing her car move. Guess what. She was such a mean lady alive that her own kids didnt even claim the body. Other relatives had to go do it. Her funeral was empty den a bih. I didnt even go cause last time I spoke to her 5 years ago days before my grandma funeral, she cursed at me for no reason bc I asked her about loud talking while drunk. Lol. I told her, you were my grandma sister not my kinfolk. She dead now so its whatever. Lol. She got my point. Yeah. My family talk cold like that.
The more I listen to this guy, the more I understand how our Black families were broken up. This was all done thru social engineering. Make the Black woman feel like she doesn’t need her Black man. Fact of the matter is, we both need each other. You all have been lied too.
My wife act like she wants leave from time to time and I be like ok let’s do it😂 being single, very little debt, making some good money, in shape, and faithful😂 good luck replacing me😎 play silly game win silly prizes😂
Larissa Luxe I use to when I was broke out of shape and didn’t have nothing but now😂 that’s laughable. I would have been dipped and let her take her strong independent role on the road but I have a daughter that I have to make sure she don’t die alone being a “strong independent black women” like yourself🤷🏾♂️
Hypergamy mindset is kicking in, playing with her mind. Female hypergamy mindset is telling her she can do better. All women have it to varying degrees, it sounds like it's strong with her. She'll regret it If she leaves you Brother.
I wouldn't test that theory. People make that "grass is greener on the other side" mistake all the time. Always thinking they can do better when BEST is staring them in the FACE. Get it together men. Don't trade a classic in for new community "p"....
I don't fell sorry for any of these old women who can't find a respectable man because they all spit in the face of the men who tried to lock them down
This chick I know has been married for 16 years, has 7 kids, and wants to leave her husband that pays all the bills, because he's not compassionate enough. Tf?🤦🏾♂️
I am a firefighter, among other things, and I have helped remove dead bodies from houses where women lived alone. It's ugly !!! WAKE UP LADIES, it's time for some of you to start making deals !!!!!
Let me tell you how deep what he is saying is. My mom and dad divorced when I was about 1. My dad was abusive physically as well as a big cheater. With all that being said he left and didn’t leave. In her own words that remained consistent until her last day, which is she still wanted to take care of him and be with him. Fast forward my dad died in 2014 in his old folks apartment for three days until my lil sister moms found him. After that happen she still said he should have stay and let me take care of him. He was 53. My mom died in 2017 in her 300k home alone and had a stroke on a Monday and was found on a Wednesday by my older sister still alive but later died. The doctor literally said if she was discovered Tuesday she would most likely be alive. I say that to say he is speaking facts!
My niece is 5, and when I asked what she wants to be when she grows up… she said a mom 😂 at first I was confused but now after listening to Kevin, I think she’s on to something 🧐
A mom? You should’ve told her to be a wife first then a mom. In that order. She didn’t say she wanted to be a wife she says she wanted to be a mom. She’s older now. Ask her again and see if she still saying she wants to be a mom but doesn’t mention getting married
it’s amazing to me how all the women callers say they have an excellent co-parenting relationship when the stats say otherwise. We just allow this false narrative to continue. I know 23 educated fathers with no criminal record, or history of abuse where relationship ended or had divorce with BW and only 1 speaks on having an excellent co-parenting relationship. 17 of us have went to court multiple times to get more visitation or custody unsuccessfully. All are being crippled by support payments. All want custody of their children full time and want no support from the mom. All want more equitable parenting time schedule and get refused by the mom and court. 13 are married (2 more engaged) and in stable households and all but 1 of the mothers are in a single parent household. So it bothers me that we let this ridiculous narrative continue.
As Kevin always says, that's anecdotal. Post an actual stat, not what is personally happening only around you. Im not being mean, but that's how his show works.
My man Kevin always looking sharp. Looking like a guy from a suit catalog. Big ups to you,brother. Glad I came across your channel. You're the new Tom Leykis,giving us all great advice. The best,in my opinion, is bringing women back to earth. Their self-worth is past the stars. Even 3s out here thinking they deserve a rockstar lifestyle. Their kitty and all the thirsties has elevated their self-worth to the point of delusion. Thank you for waking them up.
I grew up in Africa and most dads and uncles can help their daughters in finding a husband and then the daughters get to choose from the potential Suitors, but the daughters usually thought by the moms to have traditional qualities like being a good cook, submissive, and a good helper to her husband.
*Eastside Low Bottoms sh*t !* _Tappin' in from South Central LA_ KS was about to change the landscape of Black relationships. What a loss. Rest easy KS 🙏🏾 You are appreciated. 🤜🏾💥🤛🏾
I dated a few Japanese women and married one. What I learned is that there is a segment of the Japanese population that live alone, unable to form relationships, refuse to leave their homes and participate in that society, and ones that do sometimes leave their homes do it very reluctantly. Japanese have a word for that also - hikikomori, which understandably leads to kodokushi.
@@missmaverick3477 its usually because they are shamed, rejected and made to feel inadequate by other students/peers, as adults by bosses and coworkers, and because of other negative experiences. Here in the U.S., people deal with similar things in similar ways, but less likely to take it to heart, internalize it and remove themselves from society and other people's view.
Bushido Brown awwwwwwwww that’s heartbreaking 😪but isn’t that apart of life. This can’t be normal to take things so deeply. This is coming from a sensitive person myself.. wow
Yeah they have that because feminism took Japan over and women took all the good jobs that were handed to them by the older 51mps. Now the older 51mps are struggling to find grandkids and people to look after them because the women are 304s and they are not providers like men are. Society is dying over there.
Both of my aunts are in their 50’s..they always thought they didn’t need a man, Now they don’t have 1, spoken into existence I suppose..but hey atleast they have each other.. everybody else in my family is married ,including both of the sons, so oh well 🤷🏾♂️
A few years ago South Korea,started reporting on the issue of the government having to address 50 plus year old women who never married needing financial aid. Why? Because they never set aside anything for retirement age .
You are doing God’s work, bro. You are the new prophet of the black people in the west. Not just America, but for all black people under western influence.
You're speaking real shxt Kevin. I pray they are listening. I have several women I know personally who have divorced their husbands and they are 40+. Pride goes before a fall.
I just found out about my Brother Kevin , the day he passed someone posted his passing and so I wondered who he was. I have been stuck ever since. Now I just thought , who is getting the money he's making. Completely off subject, I just removed a ceiling light globe and realized something. We moved in in 1998 and the light bulb has NEVER been changed. This bulb is 24 years old. G.E. messed up once.
The good thing about these videos is ... you learn what lies look and sound like ( there is that pause, then avoidance, then bait and switch, then answer with a question ....then anger or just straight face BS. .i might have to just step up my game and clear out the time wasters ..thx god father
(The 1st caller)Mighty funny the husband seems more stable and consistent after the marriage. She don't want to take care of a grown man, but she want a grown man to take care of her grown self. The nerve, quite strange she can live at her means but expect her man to live beyond his the entitlement 😆
Alot of men view marriage as a death sentence instead of understanding the favor he'll obtain and the spiritual benefits. Unfortunately, alot of women see it as a status just to brag to girlfriends and compete. Marriage is a beautiful thing created by God when it's done the way he designed it to be. When we dont know the purpose of anything abuse is inevitable(money, relationships, jobs, people, pets, alcohol, dating, sex, anything!) This world needs healing first before we can began to really appreciate and thrive in anything!
She does not care about the fact he is a good dad because it doesn't benefit her in her eyes. Also she doesn't want him lookin like a good parent. Women are about reputation shaming and image. This is why she MUST down the man in order to validate her "victim status". Black women and women in general love to do this all the time. Women cannot accept blame and fault. Him being a good dad does not help her in her eyes it hurts her by making her look bad to others which is what she cares about. I can bet that her single friends influenced her to leave him this happens often.
I actually scared a man off because I asked about credit scores, current debt and potential future investments. Dodged a bullet 😌 These are real conversations we need to have before the commitment ensues.
I’m 62 and wish I would have had this common sense advice when at Howard U with all those princes. I did find my King but he died a couple years ago. Young ladies listen and take heed and zip those bell clappers!
My ex played around for 7 years keeping me on the burner while she rode the carousel. I used the situation to maintain free access to my son. Like a “Schneider” I was the go to guy, maintenance man, I came and went as I pleased. I tried after a couple years to rekindle something and when I was up she continued to play around with me. No pu$$y tho. In the same week I finally moved on, her Mom passed and I introduced my new girl! I simultaneously took myself off the “job” of being her Schneider, no more shoveling the driveway, replacing the smoke detector batteries etc. She complained of course, that my new relationship was changing our relationship. She was gonna ask me to get back together and move in again now that she was all alone. Too late I said. You had plenty of time and missed the boat that was at anchor for 7 years! I’m so glad that I moved on. She’s still alone, 7 years later and can’t keep up with the bills and everything around the house. Not my problem, I’m happy!
It's truly beyond amazing as I listen to some of the callers and to hear how truly disconnected from true reality that they are. At half a century I have seen and lived all of this. There is an old saying " Dont worry about the mule just load the wagon".... The only thing is when he gets tired of pulling you might as well kill him. From that point he is willing to do ABSOLUTELY nothing.
Hey Mr. Samuels. Just started listening and this broadcast answered a question I've asked myself for two decades. That question to me was. why are these women following their children after the children have left for college and and are grown and working? the idea of dieing alone is one of their main concerns especially the ones without a husband( divorce, widowed, or intende to leave). I see many living with their children. I find this very distasteful. This program has ansswered that for me indeed. Thank you.
I paid 100% of all the bills and she still filed for divorce. The female will always find a reason to divorce. It cant be changed. A pre nup is a good start.
Maybe. I read an article that said that lesbian relationships are increasing in the black community. So maybe some black women rather not be with a black man but not be alone.
JustBeingMyself wow that has to be some very psychotic mess. I can’t imagine myself paying money to be in an environment that I disagree with. To allow someone to live rent-free inside my head...is definitely a cry for psychological help.🤔
it seems like a lot of people come to these channels to troll. it’s like they hate the opposite sex so much they *must* find a way to argue w/ & insult them no matter what. it’s men & women coming to this channel just to piss each other off. it makes no sense to me.
56 yrs old for as long as I have been an adult this has always been a one way conversation with women side being shouted from the mountaintops. While men have suffered in silence with no voice and helld accountable.
My mom graduated from PLU nursing school to become a RN while being a stay at home mom to me & my brother. Getting up with my dad every morning at 4am making his breakfast & lunch for work everyday. Then she got her Masters degree at the University of Washington while working full time Labor & Delivery and Special Care Nursery at a major hospital here.
I will never forget a friend being completely let down. Thirty adults and ten children down at the COUNCIL PLAZA Hall getting ready for an event we were giving. My friends wife , now ex-wife, just started yelling about she was doing volunteer work (for their children's school event). She said he would not be making as much, since he was let go by his previous employer . She then said she was leaving him and she filed for divorce and took their three children. He is still wary in his relationships with women and that was over 20 years ago. A REAL HOME WRECKER!!!!
@nobody its debatable but what im saying is more in the black community we go at one another . It didn't happen overnight and it wont get solved overnight be we definitely need to start asap
I would love for you to have Rebecca Lynn Pope Or Nicole Michelle as a co host one day. They are just like you. Straight to the point and no BS fantasy.
My daughter's resented their mother for divorcing me over money. Now I am a high earner, paid for my daughters college education and was always active. Now she wants us to get back together as she approaches 50 and none of her men will marry her.
I accept your proposal😀
Don’t do it brother !
Don’t do iiiiit
She’s selfish.
Too little too late
I'm a full time firefighter and I can confirm what Kevin told the woman that was 300#. We get a lot of calls from older women and men that fall in the house and can't get up. All of them are usually 250# and over. We even get called to the ones that are married since their spouse doesn't have the strength to get them up by themselves. If you're older and single, at least take care of your weight/health so you can have a better quality of life.
Yes, try to keep your weight down...I came to that conclusion after 9/11...rescue myself or be rescued, I want both to be possible!
It's all about having mind over matter. Control that damn gut. Control the mouth. Food tastes good,but eating is like sex. The longer you go without it,the better it feels when you have it. Avoid greasy ass food. Avoid ice cream and butter and fatty foods. Bacon,all pork meat has to go. Most importantly, STAY ACTIVE,break a damn sweat at least 3 times a week. A damn good sweat,a workout, not just a little sweat drop. Work that sht.
Lol, you mean get up off the floor.
Father always reminded me “food is for fuel, not pleasure.”
Then you bring them to the hospital and poor nurses have to break their backs moving these obese people.
Kevin Samuels is single handedly trying to save the black family.. I applaud the godfather..
I’m listening 🥰
He should have some help
@Mr Solid Nah black women did
1000 %
Yet, he couldn’t save his own.
Since no ones saying it, I will. That caller who nursed her man back to health from not one but two near death episodes is a REAL ONE. It was actually depressing hearing her say that her friends were saying they’d leave that man. I’m glad she’s taken care of now. That’s a real F.B.I woman right there.
TheDCGuitar13 I agree with that.
Sure is. It's called loyalty.
63 Impala rag Dude FR tho. She signed up to live with a well off man and when the money looked like it was gone, she loved and nurtured him the most. Most women leave when “it’s not what I signed up for.” That whole story made my heart feel good.
@@TheDCGuitar13 that's something MOST PEOPLE couldn't say what they would do in that situation. That's a real wife. Not many of those left.
It's what she is SUPPOSE to do...That is what marriage.
We shouldn't celebrate women who are doing what they are suppose to do in marriages...
My Mom single handed, ruined the relationship between my Father & I from when I was as young as 7. She had us no contact with him (story of alienation). Long story short, jokes on her. At 17 I re met my Dad & he’s one of the biggest hero’s in my life. My mom? She’s been cut off since then. Women lie and women WILL destroy a family over greed & ego. Kevin isn’t just saying this stuff into thin air hoping it sticks - these are real families. Real children. Real repercussions.
Yep. Glad to hear you and your dad reconciled. Me and my sister also had crazy moms
Sounds like my story. My mother lied about my father all my life. I met him at 25 and found out she didn't allow him in my life bc he cheated on her while pregnant with me. I haven't seen or spoken 2 her in 20+ years. I just went no contact.
Good for you
From a Polish white man, ur show is what I wanted to let myself believe my whole life but couldn't. I want to thank u personally from ALL men, everywhere. U helped me take a hard look at my life to do better. All women are starting to adopt this attitude, and YOU are the one TRUTH that these women cant ignore. I have never respected any man more than u. Most men I know bow to this Disney bs that has been pushed on us as children. I can say that I m overweight and shorter than what women want, but I m facing my reality head on because of YOU. Right now YOU R the Only Man Speaking Truth. Women, Men, dosen't matter. TRUTH matters.... Hiring u will b my personal pleasure. Thank you for YOU...
Greetings from Romanian bro, same problems here but hang tight and continue to be a man 😎😎😎
agree......ALL WESTERN LADIES are adopting this confused, selfish, evil, Satanic/Lilith culture/society
@@buyakshaklak6464 From a woman, get super fit, earn money and you will have all the women you want.
@@kansashoneybadger7899 you're watching Kevin in vane...why tf do you need to be fit if you have money ?! Learn what men are...from a man
@@buyakshaklak6464 Why do you have to be fit? Self-respect and quality of life. Dying young isn't smart or fun.
I am a 67yr. old man. For the past few weeks I have been chatting on a senior dating site out of curiosity. I was stunned by the number of sisters in their 60's still looking for a man to grow with and build a future. Women who in less than 20yrs. are facing 80 yrs.old. That is, if they make it. We have a problem. This has been some of Mr. Samuels' best work. Brutal honesty.
I mean, what age were you expecting women to be on a senior dating site?
@@celestejacobs7386 That wasn't the point. He was surprised that they still had younger persons "standards" or "requirements" of growing a future instead of finding someone to grow old with n their 60's.
@@celestejacobs7386 That wasn't the point. He was surprised that they still had younger persons "standards" or "requirements" of growing a future instead of finding someone to grow old with n their 60's.
Women in wheel chairs expect to find a young, rich doctor to marry them. They stay delusional to the very end. When they got male attention at 18 years old, it stuck in their brains and never left.
@@celestejacobs7386probably a lot more mature, realistic and able to be honest and self aware. Just what exactly is anyone starting at 50+ years old? Certainly NOT a family. So what should single, senior women be looking for? A permanent companion. A perspective husband with whom she can merge resources to live as comfortably as possible for their remaining years. Sad that this has to be explained to anyone. Age is not just a number. Around 50 years old your body and health begin to change, we slow down significantly from the level of activity we enjoyed so effortlessly at 25, 35, 40, etc. It’s a change over which we have negligible control. We can mitigate these changes with exercise, healthy diet and lifestyle, but genetics also play a role in the aging process. We cannot just will the aging process to stop, and this is something that people don’t often talk about with younger generations. But regardless of our age, we need to be realistic about who and where we are chronologically and act accordingly and appropriately. I heard Kevin talk about a 70 year old woman who thought that “in a couple of years” she’d find a man and settle down. At 72. Unless the man she is going to be looking for is a funeral director and her idea of settling down is pre-planning her funeral she is completely delusional.
The fact she doesn't see the irony in her saying "so I should take care of a grown man" , so another adult should just take care of a grown woman, if we're going to play that game
They are incapable of recognizing the face in the mirror! Their hypocrisy has no limit.
I think that a lot of women misunderstand or ignore a few key things when they comment or call in:
1. This channel is primarily for MEN. Can we learn from it as women? Absolutely, which is why since he discovered that we are a part of his audience, he dedicates some shows to women only.
2. This channel focuses on a particular class of men- HIGH VALUE MEN (their lifestyle, thought pattern, etc) first. This does not mean that "average" men are not desirable men. A man is a man, is a man.
3. The information exchanged here is based on the rule, not the exception.
4. Facts override feelings here.
5. Men determine your SMV.
6. High value is first of all a mindset, which interprets itself in the real world as success.
7. If we as women have any issue with the requirements or demands of a high value man, then he is not the man for us; you can only change yourself, not him, and so if you're not willing to change, there are other options.There is no "alpha-beta" man, so its either one or the other.
My own 2 cents: A high value man MUST start from somewhere, so it is advisable for women to take into consideration a man's overall circumstance and the time in his life when you met him- some men that we may write off as "average" are actually high value men in hiding. Grab your copy early to avoid the certain future rush: there is nothing wrong with partnering with a man to build a future together. High value men do not necessarily come ready-made.
Good stuff!
Thank you! I never under stand what the disconnect in understanding this simple fact with our sisters is. Being a High Value Man is a mindset first. Being a Feminine Woman is a mindset first. The will and the body can only follow the mind,so if we want these men,we must get our minds right first!
@@zakiyahamahad7404 simple! Thank you, sis.
@@RC-fe9py Thank you.
@ thank you. For the record though, I cannot criticize you, if I don't know you. A young man described his experience with a woman in his office, and some of us reacted to it- if you happen to be that woman, then do with the information, what you will. As for "thinking that you don't have an HVM", ma'am, again, I DON'T KNOW YOU so how would I come to that conclusion? Besides, does having a HVM mean that you're happy or better off than other women? No, it does not, so no, I did not use those words, neither did I imply them. Pls call in as a " case study", as you intend to. It would be interesting to hear your perspective on whatever you want to talk about.
These women stand a better chance on hitting it big on the lotto than finding a man of means.
And it’s not just black women
No
@@cherryblossoms942 huh 😳🥴
You're right because there are very few man of means.
What do you mean by that
The lady who’s ex didn’t make enough money. She could’ve used that feminine charm to help him secure deal for a higher paying job. Women are gatekeepers to some industries and men need women who’s on their team to put them on game. I told my husband exactly what to say to convince his female manager to be considered for a promotion. It worked too. We’re not rich but we’re doing our best to make things work. Black men and women can work together to create something beautiful seriously!
True statement... I actually understand how a woman wants to leave a man who doesn't wanna work with no drive... but you gotta fight for a marriage.. but alot of women don't even know what female charm is.. I appreciate your comment tho
Speak on it, Babygirl!!!!! ✊🏿✊🏿✊🏿🤘🏿🤘🏿🤘🏿🤘🏿🤘🏿🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹
Wisdom
Refreshing. Maybe there's a flicker of light at the end of the tunnel
Exactly!!!
A shame that this man has to do all the heavy lifting from RUclips to bring back the black family. We got thousands of pastors all over this country that wouldn’t dare touch any of this. The entire concept of wife as ‘helpmeet’ is completely dead, and blasphemous at best, while ‘husband’ as provider and protector is stronger than ever.
You know, I agree with you. I don’t want to be a traditional wife, but I also don’t want a traditional husband. I would like an “equal partner” relationship but most men I meet are looking for a domestic goddess no matter their financial position. I remember discussing with a boyfriend and a prospective boyfriend that I personally would be happy to pay for domestic help so that we could go out and spend more time together. They couldn’t wrap their head around it. I’ve learned that men, whether they make less or more money than I do, do generally want to set the terms of the relationship, and those terms don’t fit me. They seldom want to work out terms together as partners. Since I’m already in “no man’s land” I’m taking a break to focus on building wealth so I can at least die with staff and not alone and get eaten by my cat. Lol!
The sad part is it’s women that are trying to cancel him .. I blame B men! 😒
Preach!
35, overweight with a kid and thinks things are going to end well....with a man that's financially secure. LOL! Wait a second...LOL...they're killin' me!
And people say women aren’t funny 😂
Right i'm over 35 no kids...i guess why am i'm even here. Just has me thinking about all the time I wasted.
Blame the society who gives them money to be single moms...
Kevin can be short and blunt sometimes but I believe he cares deeply about how our society is eroding. I believe he’s a good person and more sensitive than he lets on. God bless him.
I agree! However so many women calling in have an attitude or are defensive from the jump. They want to be RIGHT verses taking accountability for their stuff. The perspectives Kevin brings to the table should be eyeopening for us black women v being defensive and offended by what he says...many women are more focused on Kevin's delivery than the MESSAGE which is the most important!
He's short and blunt, and so is life at minimum. People need to stop being so damn soft, or suffer the consequences silently. I went to Marine Corps basic training 27 years ago and they tell you right away upon arrival that they don't care and nobody cares. If you don't learn that quick enough, you will get a 1 way ticket back to mommy.
It's called speaking plain English and being direct. The opposite of what most society offers, that's why it seems so weird to some.
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Everytime I hear Kevin pour a can of red bull it makes me laugh because I realize this brother needs that energy to tolerate these ignorant ass calls.....🙄😒😑
Yeah...he drinks an awful lot of it
Uhm who said the can is filled with Red Bull ijs
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Precisely !
His kidneys are strong in the force. Some of these females, would drive any Brother out to drink.
It’s scary how many callers truly sound like Kevin Samuels is the first person to ever push back on their red herring deflections. Everytime he asks one of them a tough question, they sound like they want a referee to throw a flag for having “excessive logic and reasoning.” And “not backing down to my buzz words and shame tactics.” How could we let society fall so far. In the age of more available information than ever, you can’t even state the obvious to a woman without her shooting the messenger.
Most people haven't heard the truth.
One reason society fell so far is feminist programming. Everything you hear from these women is because they ACTUALLY BELIEVE in those feminist ideals that SOUND good but are flawed because they only take into account the female perspective when the whole world is made up of males AND females!
How can feminists NOT take into account the male perspective, when their argument is that men don't take into account the female perspective? Feminism will make a woman become what they complain about.
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@@Marvello44 Yesssss!!!!! TRUTH!!!!!!!
Accurate.
Rip Godfather...forever watching and taking everything you say into practice...thank you Sir😇😍
Marang, are you in the southern hemisphere? Let's connect.
@@pasqual9193 Hey hey sis...I'm between Mahikeng and Durban, SouthAfrica...let's hook up girl...where are you from?
@@marangmasegomutloane3619 I am a dude, from Namibia, Windhoek.
@@pasqual9193 HI there...I'm from Mahikeng, South Africa 🇿🇦
Thank God for this brother - it's about time we had someone speak on our behalf factually and unapologetically
Oprah Winfrey direct quote: " we (women) want to be happy and we want to be right". I think her statement can stand on it's own as to its effects.
My Husband had me listen and I'm sorry these women calling in Are DELUSIONAL and MISGUIDED the fact that they put a man's paycheck before the relationship is Crazy!! They must have never dated a man with a lot of money or been in a bad relationship before. Money does solve many problems but A man that will love you and take care of you (whether you work or not) trumps all of that other noise. If a man doesn't make the money you "think he should" then what are you doing to help him. Men go further in life and financially with a good woman/wife by their side, so if he is still in the same place in life, then what does that say about you as a girlfriend or wife. Men need Love, Loyalty, and Understanding. You give them that and they will work hard to give you the world.
So true sis
You're giving them too much game sista. Hell if they don't know that off top its no need for them. A man can survive without a woman, a woman can't survive with a man. That's why men have to watch who they put they thing in then shit backfires. A man can keep his bread be by himself still ballout,live nice with no responsibility,stay in shape and get a woman. A woman needs the help. These grown women should say what you said it would be a much better world
@@OlgScoob132 TRUTH! Well said Charles!
This is 100% true.
This is the essence of a woman and a lot of women have no idea what they are in relation to men
Man, Kevin was a LEGEND.
Kevin saving these chics lives and most of them don’t even realize, and wanna fight logic tooth and nail!
As a woman, I believe that we need to learn how to listen carefully, not to listen to talk. My boyfriend tells me that every now and again, I am really practicing. I am trying, nobody is perfect right. But yes, we need to do better girls! ❤️💕💯
Yes, listen. There's not enough of that. But I encourage women not to call into this program. Rudeness is not entertainment.
As a MAN when you say no one is perfect you’ll probably use that when you don’t listen and talk and not understand. Do you know how powerful it is to be quiet and have someone speak ? It’s more powerful to listen and understand and then react. Could be a day or two or so. The key is to not react. Can’t say well no ones perfect as we all know this. Anything done based on emotion(s) will never be well thought out on any decision(s). One love sis!
@@faithsmalls130 negative. You see the thing you must get is that this generation has issues and more likely from the previous. It’s called generational trauma passed down. If in Christ we care for people we all need to have self accountability and self actualization TO save possibly the following generations to come. THIS will be hard to hear, difficult but look at it from a spiritual point of view, it’s easier to sin than to walk through the doors of heaven so how are we to save people. The truth, exposure and harsh reality? Or to tell people what they want to hear, coddling, one sidedness etc.?
@@faithsmalls130 rudeness and being straight forward is subjective mam. U Need to hush. Some people need a reality check that requires a no-nonsense tone. Some of its entertainment because u know very well how silly women can be. It's tiring and exhausting how aloof some people can be at times. KS has also been very very patient at times. U need to change the channel. U and the rest of the get along gang trying to save grown ass women from "hurt feelings". ? Girl bye
My grandmother died alone in her house watching TV at 61. My aunt was found alone in her house on the toilet. She literally drank herself to death at age 55.
Wow. That’s deep, man. Wow...
My great aunt died 2 years ago alone. Age 66. Neighbors knocked her door down 2.5 weeks after not seeing her car move. Guess what. She was such a mean lady alive that her own kids didnt even claim the body. Other relatives had to go do it. Her funeral was empty den a bih. I didnt even go cause last time I spoke to her 5 years ago days before my grandma funeral, she cursed at me for no reason bc I asked her about loud talking while drunk. Lol. I told her, you were my grandma sister not my kinfolk. She dead now so its whatever. Lol. She got my point. Yeah. My family talk cold like that.
damn. so sorry for your loss.
Damn, scary!
@@larissaluxe4303 What you have to say falls on deaf ears. We have already made our decision.
The more I listen to this guy, the more I understand how our Black families were broken up. This was all done thru social engineering. Make the Black woman feel like she doesn’t need her Black man. Fact of the matter is, we both need each other. You all have been lied too.
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My wife act like she wants leave from time to time and I be like ok let’s do it😂 being single, very little debt, making some good money, in shape, and faithful😂 good luck replacing me😎 play silly game win silly prizes😂
Ophelia Veasey you tell me?
Larissa Luxe I use to when I was broke out of shape and didn’t have nothing but now😂 that’s laughable. I would have been dipped and let her take her strong independent role on the road but I have a daughter that I have to make sure she don’t die alone being a “strong independent black women” like yourself🤷🏾♂️
Mines had done the same. We good now but she was on that trip at one point.
Hypergamy mindset is kicking in, playing with her mind. Female hypergamy mindset is telling her she can do better. All women have it to varying degrees, it sounds like it's strong with her. She'll regret it If she leaves you Brother.
I wouldn't test that theory. People make that "grass is greener on the other side" mistake all the time. Always thinking they can do better when BEST is staring them in the FACE. Get it together men. Don't trade a classic in for new community "p"....
I don't fell sorry for any of these old women who can't find a respectable man because they all spit in the face of the men who tried to lock them down
Bruh I swear he speaks for all black men that were created
This chick I know has been married for 16 years, has 7 kids, and wants to leave her husband that pays all the bills, because he's not compassionate enough. Tf?🤦🏾♂️
😂 that sounds about right.
My homie has 4 kids and wife.
Wife sat around watching tik tok and husbands of housewives and wanted to end the marriage
I've come to not even skip past the intermissions because the music is so good.
Music is fire lol
I'd have to agree.
My time to roll up two or three
@@chess-is-king stop doing that and save that money
I play my drum rudiments along to the intermission music...
My wife and I truly enjoy the show & information for the assistance with our adult low 20’s children
I am a firefighter, among other things, and I have helped remove dead bodies from houses where women lived alone. It's ugly !!! WAKE UP LADIES, it's time for some of you to start making deals !!!!!
Let me tell you how deep what he is saying is. My mom and dad divorced when I was about 1. My dad was abusive physically as well as a big cheater. With all that being said he left and didn’t leave. In her own words that remained consistent until her last day, which is she still wanted to take care of him and be with him. Fast forward my dad died in 2014 in his old folks apartment for three days until my lil sister moms found him. After that happen she still said he should have stay and let me take care of him. He was 53. My mom died in 2017 in her 300k home alone and had a stroke on a Monday and was found on a Wednesday by my older sister still alive but later died. The doctor literally said if she was discovered Tuesday she would most likely be alive. I say that to say he is speaking facts!
Powerful story
wow
I’m very sorry you all to experience that 🙏🏽
Deep
Fucking tragic my boi gah damn real sorry
My niece is 5, and when I asked what she wants to be when she grows up… she said a mom 😂 at first I was confused but now after listening to Kevin, I think she’s on to something 🧐
She's ahead of the game already. Nurture her spirit.
A mom? You should’ve told her to be a wife first then a mom. In that order. She didn’t say she wanted to be a wife she says she wanted to be a mom. She’s older now. Ask her again and see if she still saying she wants to be a mom but doesn’t mention getting married
it’s amazing to me how all the women callers say they have an excellent co-parenting relationship when the stats say otherwise. We just allow this false narrative to continue. I know 23 educated fathers with no criminal record, or history of abuse where relationship ended or had divorce with BW and only 1 speaks on having an excellent co-parenting relationship. 17 of us have went to court multiple times to get more visitation or custody unsuccessfully. All are being crippled by support payments. All want custody of their children full time and want no support from the mom. All want more equitable parenting time schedule and get refused by the mom and court. 13 are married (2 more engaged) and in stable households and all but 1 of the mothers are in a single parent household. So it bothers me that we let this ridiculous narrative continue.
@Blue Finally Gets A Clue it takes two to tangle both need to own up that they both made a mistake. And move forward like adults from there.
As Kevin always says, that's anecdotal. Post an actual stat, not what is personally happening only around you. Im not being mean, but that's how his show works.
Amen.
My man Kevin always looking sharp. Looking like a guy from a suit catalog. Big ups to you,brother. Glad I came across your channel. You're the new Tom Leykis,giving us all great advice. The best,in my opinion, is bringing women back to earth. Their self-worth is past the stars. Even 3s out here thinking they deserve a rockstar lifestyle. Their kitty and all the thirsties has elevated their self-worth to the point of delusion. Thank you for waking them up.
I grew up in Africa and most dads and uncles can help their daughters in finding a husband and then the daughters get to choose from the potential Suitors, but the daughters usually thought by the moms to have traditional qualities like being a good cook, submissive, and a good helper to her husband.
*Eastside Low Bottoms sh*t !*
_Tappin' in from South Central LA_
KS was about to change the landscape of Black relationships. What a loss.
Rest easy KS 🙏🏾 You are appreciated.
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Call the paramedics, there's a serial killer on the loose, Kevin is killing these women!
I dated a few Japanese women and married one. What I learned is that there is a segment of the Japanese population that live alone, unable to form relationships, refuse to leave their homes and participate in that society, and ones that do sometimes leave their homes do it very reluctantly. Japanese have a word for that also - hikikomori, which understandably leads to kodokushi.
Bushido Brown May I ask why are a portion of them not able to form relationships? Is it a physiological issue?
@@missmaverick3477 its usually because they are shamed, rejected and made to feel inadequate by other students/peers, as adults by bosses and coworkers, and because of other negative experiences. Here in the U.S., people deal with similar things in similar ways, but less likely to take it to heart, internalize it and remove themselves from society and other people's view.
Bushido Brown awwwwwwwww that’s heartbreaking 😪but isn’t that apart of life. This can’t be normal to take things so deeply. This is coming from a sensitive person myself.. wow
💊I'm sharing Acts 2:38 bless
Yeah they have that because feminism took Japan over and women took all the good jobs that were handed to them by the older 51mps. Now the older 51mps are struggling to find grandkids and people to look after them because the women are 304s and they are not providers like men are. Society is dying over there.
You are 100% correct, keep proclaim the truth my brother. Your perspectives are highly needed.
Kevin You Are Absolutely Right, My Neighbor Was Single, No Kids At Age 62, She Was In Her Home For A Month Dead, And We Didn't Know.
Respect, Godfather. Miss you.
Both of my aunts are in their 50’s..they always thought they didn’t need a man, Now they don’t have 1, spoken into existence I suppose..but hey atleast they have each other.. everybody else in my family is married ,including both of the sons, so oh well 🤷🏾♂️
I guess you get what you get.
So do i
Where’s my dude with the time stamps...
He need to be on payroll cause I look for him everytime
Same thing bro. They’re really helpful
He only puts it when it already says it
@@9188jenni god you're dim
@@9188jenni frfr
A few years ago South Korea,started reporting on the issue of the government having to address 50 plus year old women who never married needing financial aid. Why? Because they never set aside anything for retirement age .
Indeed, I’ve read this myself - spinsters eventually just become a burden of the State.
Kudos brother, you have more patience with these ladies than I have EVER had.
This brother is the man , at the end of the day our culture needs this, bring us back together
On top of wishing Kevin was a family member, his videos always drop as soon as I finish work. Bliss
I applauded you bro.
May The Most High bless your platform tremendously 💪.
Amen!
You are doing God’s work, bro. You are the new prophet of the black people in the west. Not just America, but for all black people under western influence.
Keep doing this work Mr. Samuels. We are listening sir!!! You've taken up the mantle.
Blacks intelligent men appreciate you my brother
You're speaking real shxt Kevin. I pray they are listening. I have several women I know personally who have divorced their husbands and they are 40+. Pride goes before a fall.
Ahh man🤦
Women need to understand. Being a bad boyfriend or husband doesn't equate to being a bad father. I dont like my baby mama, but I love my daughter
“You on the verge of six figures you need to book you a 1 on 1 consult mam”
*you been struck by a smooth criminal *
Get ya money KEV!
Why not get paid for your skill??
Never heard he said that
Mr.Kevin God Father you are so real ,I've learned and continued to learn so much keep it 100
I just found out about my Brother Kevin , the day he passed someone posted his passing and so I wondered who he was. I have been stuck ever since. Now I just thought , who is getting the money he's making. Completely off subject, I just removed a ceiling light globe and realized something. We moved in in 1998 and the light bulb has NEVER been changed. This bulb is 24 years old. G.E. messed up once.
This is the conversation that every, single mother needs to hear !
You have to be a mature adult to understand what he's doing....he has my vote.... been saying the same thing for years
I am so glad he ,touched on the Name taking . If you don't take my name ,you don't take the trip.
Yeah, like he e always said, they want to traditional things when it comes to the expectations of the man , but still be modern.
The good thing about these videos is ... you learn what lies look and sound like ( there is that pause, then avoidance, then bait and switch, then answer with a question ....then anger or just straight face BS. .i might have to just step up my game and clear out the time wasters ..thx god father
Make the most of what you have. This one also has a Splendiferous ending. Love it up folks
Wow that one lady left her man for a little bit of money...sad!🤦
(The 1st caller)Mighty funny the husband seems more stable and consistent after the marriage. She don't want to take care of a grown man, but she want a grown man to take care of her grown self. The nerve, quite strange she can live at her means but expect her man to live beyond his the entitlement 😆
Miss you Godfather
I absolutely loved this!!!!💕💕💕💕 Thank you!!!
Are you learning though?
Me too 🙋🏿♂️
How do women come on & say, “Uh, I’m a size 2, I believe?” Chick, you don’t know what size dresses you have in your closet?
Because too many women lie to themselves constantly and think other people will believe their lies too, but! The proof is in the outcomes 😅
This is one of the reason you see many educated women just want kids from these does so they don’t be alone.
Alot of men view marriage as a death sentence instead of understanding the favor he'll obtain and the spiritual benefits. Unfortunately, alot of women see it as a status just to brag to girlfriends and compete. Marriage is a beautiful thing created by God when it's done the way he designed it to be. When we dont know the purpose of anything abuse is inevitable(money, relationships, jobs, people, pets, alcohol, dating, sex, anything!) This world needs healing first before we can began to really appreciate and thrive in anything!
Part of that is because of how they are treated in marriage.
exactly.
Why get married though when the statistics say the woman will/can divorce for absolutely no reason?
God also designed it for the husbands to have multiple wives if he's able. Bet you don't like that beautiful part of BIBLICAL marriage...
@@alwkicksta whew man that's very few men
You've often heard " She putting up with more Junk from the New Dude than she did with her own Husband"🤔🤔 It's making sense.
She does not care about the fact he is a good dad because it doesn't benefit her in her eyes. Also she doesn't want him lookin like a good parent. Women are about reputation shaming and image. This is why she MUST down the man in order to validate her "victim status". Black women and women in general love to do this all the time. Women cannot accept blame and fault. Him being a good dad does not help her in her eyes it hurts her by making her look bad to others which is what she cares about. I can bet that her single friends influenced her to leave him this happens often.
BINGO! 🎯💯
So you think it’s okay for a man to not have a job? Sir you are a joke.
I actually scared a man off because I asked about credit scores, current debt and potential future investments. Dodged a bullet 😌 These are real conversations we need to have before the commitment ensues.
@NO RETURN another faceless rando 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
"Scared a man off" its the masculine energy
Or, perhaps you showed your true colors and HE doged a bullet 🤷🏾♂️
Great video puts our culture on display with hard truths
This channel is so relaxing and classy. Love your music KEVIN.
Man we lost a Legend and a blessing to us all. Rip Kevin
I’m 62 and wish I would have had this common sense advice when at Howard U with all those princes. I did find my King but he died a couple years ago. Young ladies listen and take heed and zip those bell clappers!
Too late. Men need to forget EvE and stand with GOD...Modern women continue to listen to Satan to dis day
Speak that truth my brother... going off their behavior most black women have no interest in being wives. It’s a damn shame
Get the LIKES UP People!
My ex played around for 7 years keeping me on the burner while she rode the carousel. I used the situation to maintain free access to my son. Like a “Schneider” I was the go to guy, maintenance man, I came and went as I pleased. I tried after a couple years to rekindle something and when I was up she continued to play around with me. No pu$$y tho. In the same week I finally moved on, her Mom passed and I introduced my new girl! I simultaneously took myself off the “job” of being her Schneider, no more shoveling the driveway, replacing the smoke detector batteries etc. She complained of course, that my new relationship was changing our relationship. She was gonna ask me to get back together and move in again now that she was all alone. Too late I said. You had plenty of time and missed the boat that was at anchor for 7 years! I’m so glad that I moved on. She’s still alone, 7 years later and can’t keep up with the bills and everything around the house. Not my problem, I’m happy!
It's truly beyond amazing as I listen to some of the callers and to hear how truly disconnected from true reality that they are. At half a century I have seen and lived all of this. There is an old saying " Dont worry about the mule just load the wagon".... The only thing is when he gets tired of pulling you might as well kill him. From that point he is willing to do ABSOLUTELY nothing.
Hey Mr. Samuels. Just started listening and this broadcast answered a question I've asked myself for two decades. That question to me was. why are these women following their children after the children have left for college and and are grown and working? the idea of dieing alone is one of their main concerns especially the ones without a husband( divorce, widowed, or intende to leave). I see many living with their children. I find this very distasteful. This program has ansswered that for me indeed. Thank you.
I paid 100% of all the bills and she still filed for divorce. The female will always find a reason to divorce. It cant be changed. A pre nup is a good start.
Maybe. I read an article that said that lesbian relationships are increasing in the black community. So maybe some black women rather not be with a black man but not be alone.
And trust and believe....Alot of @$$whoopins in Lesbian relationships..
It looks like some people have paid to become members of the channel just to troll.
yup I saw that too I won’t say her name but she knows who she is
JustBeingMyself wow that has to be some very psychotic mess.
I can’t imagine myself paying money to be in an environment that I disagree with.
To allow someone to live rent-free inside my head...is definitely a cry for psychological help.🤔
it seems like a lot of people come to these channels to troll. it’s like they hate the opposite sex so much they *must* find a way to argue w/ & insult them no matter what. it’s men & women coming to this channel just to piss each other off. it makes no sense to me.
Say the name.
56 yrs old for as long as I have been an adult this has always been a one way conversation with women side being shouted from the mountaintops.
While men have suffered in silence with no voice and helld accountable.
My mom graduated from PLU nursing school to become a RN while being a stay at home mom to me & my brother. Getting up with my dad every morning at 4am making his breakfast & lunch for work everyday. Then she got her Masters degree at the University of Washington while working full time Labor & Delivery and Special Care Nursery at a major hospital here.
I will never forget a friend being completely let down. Thirty adults and ten children down at the COUNCIL PLAZA Hall getting ready for an event we were giving. My friends wife , now ex-wife, just started yelling about she was doing volunteer work (for their children's school event). She said he would not be making as much, since he was let go by his previous employer . She then said she was leaving him and she filed for divorce and took their three children. He is still wary in his relationships with women and that was over 20 years ago. A REAL HOME WRECKER!!!!
Big facts Kevin, other cultures stick it out and work it out plus the elders gave and give sound advice.
@nobody its debatable but what im saying is more in the black community we go at one another . It didn't happen overnight and it wont get solved overnight be we definitely need to start asap
Much RESPECT/APPRECIATION on ur HONEST/BRUTAL Content,Mr.Kevin😎😎.Keep up THE GOOD WORK👌👌.#MUCHRESPECT
Awesome. Thank you.
“Wuzup my G I’m just out here tryna get me one of these Henry’s” 😭😭😭
You are frightening the mess out of me. I don’t want to die alone.
Then quit being picky, forget that steve Harvey 90 day crap!
That #1 intro track was dope.....💯.....lol I actually listened to it multiple times before listening to the show.😅
This brother is on point in the opening monologue.100%!
Absolute classic show Kevin. Practicality > $3,700 a month Romance .🔥🔥🔥
This one is (golden)
Another great show✌🏾
Great Show God Bless!
I would love for you to have Rebecca Lynn Pope Or Nicole Michelle as a co host one day. They are just like you. Straight to the point and no BS fantasy.
Awesome idea!!