Thank you!!! Come for the parent not the artist. We will always have raunchy music ,. Parents don’t do their job to protect their own children, they’re lazy and always have an excuse lmfao . Blaming music for a generation , no ur the reason why your kid failed not society . Stop letting society raise ur kids
I (30) am a huge Lil Kim fan but I didn't get into her until I was a teen, well after her career faded. Why? Because my mother wasn't playing her music around me and if she was it was a clean version. These parents are not parenting. It would break my heart if I had kids and they were singing a sexyy red song or anything similar. I would feel like a failure!!
Thank u. A lot of people making up excuses stop it, save the kids from this, whether it's from the past or now, it's irrelevant to stop promoting nonsense that can destroy your kids' brains and lives
Truer words could have never been spoken because I think Sexyy Red is a horrible influence on children especially little girls who are 5-9 years old and what I find more crazy is that parents in this generation think that it's cute for their daughters to listen to her nasty lyrics at their young ages.
Yea. Cause she was totally "calling out parents" by posting on an app where the main demographic are preteens😂. Adults like her are literally the problem as to why these young children find sexualized Content in the first place. If the grown ass adults like her left tiktok alone for the kids how it was originally intended then there wouldn't be sexy redd tiktok challenges. Seriously. Anyone over 17 on tiktok should be on a watchlist
Right rap music is what’s running the young generation I think it’s long overdue for rap music to be banned but ofc they ain’t gone do that the elite are purposely recruiting black individuals from the hood to rap death,sex,drugs and everything else to children
We’ve got a 9-year-old rapper talking about pulling drugs in his hood, a 16 year old catching a murder charge and now a 5-year-old girl wanting to twerk to Sexxy Red? What is happening?
It's been a thing but people assume it's gonna go away. People felt the same way about Miley Cyrus, cierra, cardi B. I remember in 2009 we talked like the characters from south park. Sexual jokes we didn't understand include. 5 years ago people hated SoundCloud rap for the same reason
Kids been selling drugs in the hood, teenagers been toting guns catching bodies in the hood, and it’s always been bad parents that let they kids say and do whatever. Life is happening, nothing new.
Parenting. I can tell you. I go to a school in the suburbs. I’m talking rich kids failing and doing drugs going to parties, smoking, vaping and not wanting to do anything. And these parents don’t care 💯.
tiktok is happening, future generation gonna get dumber making it easier for china to take over, our attention spans are already fucked because of tiktok.
I’m 29 and I have an 8 year old son. I am very careful with what he listens to and he’s made it to a point to hear a song and cover his ears when he knows if it’s too explicit. I believe parents need to do a better job of keeping their kids from being exposed to these explicit tracks we listen to PERIOD.
@@rockcandidate My parents use to tell me to cover my ears as a kid to music they would play. It gets the point across as to not listen to what they’re saying and that it’s bad, but I agree, don’t play that trash music around kids anyways cause.. you know, it’s trash 😂
this isn't different from the nasty shit we listened to as kids tbh. the problem is parents aren't taking the time to explain to their kids why this stuff isn't age appropriate. it's impossible to keep them away from it, so instead they should be told about it because when you try to hide stuff from kids, it makes them more interested.
Kids shouldn't have access to the internet, maybe some restricted version for kids where you find games for kids and some fairy tales but not the whole internet. There is a 100% chance they will end up somewhere they shouldn't be.
Its way different homie we had to listen listen to understand wtf was going on and media wasnt so easy to access we was older kids still no excuse but not 5 singing this like 13-15 on bet un cut. Even then was afraid to be like that because our parents wasnt going for it even in the blues you gotta listen and research to know whats going on now its so blatant and uncaring its disgusting as a artist i do my thang too i like making spicy music but my whole thing aint it make constructive music/media to counter your creativity so the brain has time to grow
I recently looked up the lyrics to this song and then watched the video. There's no f@cking way children should be exposed to this. As an adult i was horrified. This "music" is gutter trash.
It’s disgusting how much backlash the teacher is getting over voicing a valid point. I genuinely feel bad for this generation, I’ve been saying this since I first heard her music as well and it’s nice to hear a big platform talk about this. When I was growing up I was listening to Akon and Eminem and they have some certain songs that a kid shouldn’t listen to but my parents always told me to cover my ears at some parts or to not take it serious and it’s supposed to be fun. Nowadays, we got women artists talking about literally being wh03rs and getting their backs blown out and men artists encouraging killing and almost making it okay to be a gang banger and it’s showing in real time that the kids are following in these artists footsteps. Shits just sad man. I’m on the teachers side. W blacky for talking about this again.
Artists are allowed to do that and voice their pain and struggles or fun they're having as ADULTS. It's really on parents to educate their child at the right times in their lives to what's aceptable and what is not appropriate for their age ie: Kid singing along to a explicit part in a song. A parent should take the time to tell their kid "No you dont sing that part or we're not listening to this anymore" Kid asks Why not? And you explain to them that it's not appropriate for kiddos like you. PS. (I'm agreeing with you btw) I agree w not taking it serious or covering ears, my mom explained what Eminem was talking about in his songs that were serious at a certain age when i was maybe 11 sh'ed get burned music and get clean versions a lot too. I never swore around my mom and she would explain in a kid friendly way what he meant in his songs to where it made sense to me, sometimes you sing along not even knowing what lyrics mean you sing along cuz its catchy to a kid but I feel it's on the artists to a certain point cuz they can claim their music isn't meant to be heard by kids and if they made nothing but kid friendly music they would never have a career Ie: Eminem.. So then it's on the parents to do the right thing and expose their kids to the appropriate things at the right time and if their kid likes something that they know isn't appropriate they need to take it away and explain to them why they're taking it away and give the best explanation as to why a kid at whatever age the kid is at should not be listening to this music.
Literally… that’s why Blacky loses me on these topics. My best friend and mom are both school teachers. Both have had parents threaten their safety over trivial things. My mom had a student give her the middle finger and parent literally asked my mom if she was calling because her feelings were hurt. Not only that the parent then proceeded to come up to the school that day to fight her. Now explain to me how that has anything to do with rap? Not only that we live in a more “small town feel” city. Like we barely even have gangs let alone actual NY Chicago type of crime. This has little to do with the music and this supposed agenda and more to do with lazy ass parents. A lot of these children have parents who only house, feed, and dress them. A lot of people have kids and do not realize the entirety of their responsibilities.
Facts parents are way too lazy and wanting someone else to babysit their kids all the time. They let Internet personalities and celebs entertain their kids instead of just speaking to them. Dumb parents complain about musical artists instead of controlling their kids watching and listening habits more
this is really sad. i'm turning 15 soon, but i'm DEVASTATED of the way young boys n girls are like this. they wanna be grown soooooo ... bad, and they don't wanna understand how much responsibility ur gonna have as an adult. focus on the present. be a CHILD.
I'm also turning 15 soon, and I am HORRIFIED for my young cousins and nieces and nephews, ESPECIALLY my nieces. This is SO BAD, 5 year olds shouldn't be twerking and listening to STD music. I like rap but not only is Sexy Redd's music *ss, it's also rotting the next generation.
Bro I'm 30. I really feel bad for these kids. I remember I was playing what these bitches want by DMX. My dad busted my room like like wtf u listening too 😂😂😂 and now I have a wife so obviously it was just entertainment for me but I really feel bad for you kids. BET uncut came one 3 n the am for a reason. Now the internet is like a 24/7 bet uncut
It gets deeper. Fights breaking out (Chrisean Rock spirit), not being motivated to do work, always being on their phone, parents can no longer control them, and cursing out the teachers is a national issue; hence teachers are leaving the field.
@@benxcellso every generation has problems, meaning we should tackle and address it right?? Try to make a point when you comment coz it sounds ignorant.
You would think that as a mom herself, Red would agree with the dance teacher and say to the parents, “Shame on you for letting your kids listen to my music. I do not condone this.” but she does quite the opposite and she is like, “Play my music and STFU!” in response to the dance teacher calling parents out for letting their little girls listen to sexually explicit music and not discipling them when they act out in dance class. This is appalling and it shows.
Sexy red is the prime example of when u get the wrong people famous I blame the youth for getting her famous she should’ve been a here today gone tomorrow type thing but instead we blew her up to the point to where she got drake features and now she’s doing damage i don’t blame her for what she’s doing I blame yall for blowing her up
I blame everyone who listens to her music😂 or most rap music in general nowadays. They glorify and promote drug abuse and other horrendous activities. If the top artists weren’t promoting and encouraging what’s wrong with society then I would still be a die hard rap head. But now that I’m an adult i can’t pretend like it isn’t happening.
I'm 40 and my daughter is 22, the fact that these kids today are being told you can do whatever you want literally scares the mess out of me when I'm old those same kids will be running things and this can't be good!
Yeah.. I'm glad my mom doesn't give me access to tiktok, insta, twitter, snap etc. I can listen to this type of music ( i dont like sexxy red ) with my parents permission as long as i dont repeat the inappropriate stuff. One day, we had a special event happening in the gym and they started playing one of her popular songs and the kids were singing every word. i'm concerned for kids at my school..
Sexxy Red could care less about the new generation. It’s the PARENTS who should set boundaries, discipline their kids, and give respect to authority. Before this generation kids we would get yelled at for not even saying “please” or “thank you”. Not to long ago me, my sister, and our cousin talked about music videos and there not the same anymore because it’s only about drugs, hood, and sexual content.
Sexxy Red is a parent. I feel so sorry for her son. How pathetic is it she has her son around all this and that other stupid pregnant girl in the video is probably just as bad. Both of them should have their kids taken away!!
our biggest problem is how decade after decade we keep letting our kids follow nonsense under the guise of it being "against what the government wants" and "self expression of life in the hood" this generation being overly sexualized is no different from the 90s and 80s kids who grew up listening to drug dealers, showing them you will look cool and be popular if you do it too. the parents minds so gone off "go get a bag" whether legally or not, everybody too wrapped up In getting money to actually raise their kids.
I get what u mean but this is somehow wayyy more sinister. I grew up in the 80’s and 90’s and me and my friends listened to all that kinda music to, but it’s just something way more dark going on with this generation. A lot of us listened to that type of music growing up and still ended up being productive members of society, we still had some type of moral compass and respect. I get what you’re saying but something is different now
@@danarespress164Y’all are not wrong at all actually. But I just get the feeling that the influence now is wayyyy worse than it was when we were kids. We listened to all that type of music but something is different now with this generation. I think it’s the parenting. The parents now weren’t like our parents in the 80’s and 90’s.
I think im with the mass majority when i say no parent should let there kids listen to her music and i can also say that she should distance herself from kids as well by not posting and reposting them dancing to her music. Theres a balance with everything and i think her music is not the worst thing but it should also be for adult ears only.
Parents shouldn’t let kids listen to explicit adult music until at least later on in their childhood. And if they do, parents should be making their kids understand that the music is inappropriate, is a bad influence, and carries harmful energy. That’s what my parents taught me growing up. As a responsible parent, you shouldn’t shelter kids but make sure youre the primary entity educating them and guiding them not other family, friends, school, govt, etc
@@reyesI165that’s the thing parents just put this shit on in their car and act like it’s normal ofc your kids gonna wanna listen to her when that’s all they hear
Ain’t no we. Speak for yourself. Black folks aren’t a tribe or monolith. What other individuals do have nothing to do with them as a whole. Stop grouping folks together just cause of their skin and race that’s bogus and weird.
@@queenofnyc5584 i would if we as a whole weren’t affected. in no way can you justify the actions, or lack thereof, of the parents she describes. black people need a community, we are some of the sole americans that do not support each other as a whole. so yes, we need to do better. if the shoe fits… 🤷🏿♂️
@SM_MEX Of course, but he's referring to a specific problem within the black community as a whole. Even the glamorisation of gang culture in rap is concurrently having a huge negative effect on the younger generation of men
I don’t know about not having internet access since most teachers nowadays have students do online assignments and assessments and using programs like Microsoft Word. Hell I’ve been using a computer since I was 7 and am now 24 but they def need to have blocks and restrictions as to what kids can look at. They did something like that back at my old high school
Sexyy Red’s response was very much not a good look. That being said, I’ve said the same sentence time and time and time again. It is not the entertainer’s job to be your child’s babysitter. Their job is to entertain. And their form of entertainment is very clearly for adults. So it is up to the parents to monitor this stuff and teach their kids that they’re not old enough to be listening to this kind of stuff. It is so annoying to see parents blame the entertainer for their lazy parenting by being paranoid over shit that they made up in their head like, “ohhh they’re poisoning the youth.”
Oh no. This music is not targeted to adults at all. It's targeted to kids and "Adults" with Children's brain capacity. Actual responsible Adults don't go for this shit.
I’m in highschool and this is a huge issue in my area. It’s worse when you live in an area of poverty and parents are not good a role model. They act like the 5 year olds she’s describing. (Throwing things, cussing at teacher, refuse to follow instructions,) except there catching adult charges cuz we’re all in HS. It’s truly a sad world
@vinniestaydrippy4... Stay in school, graduate & go to college! I wish you the best in life but only you can do it. And you sound like that's what you want!!!! Best wishes to you.... Happy New Year!!!
When rap was about real things going on in the ghetto they wanted it off the radio. When it started to destroy our image it became the biggest genre in musical history.
Pimps and prostitutes go hand in hand. You can’t have one without the other. Listen to women in California it’s a way of life they had no choice to do like a drug dealer. Women have been degrading themselves since eve bit the apple. Since a dollar was invented. Poverty and money leads you to provide with any resource you have.. whether it be your body a gun or a sack of dope. Rappers simply told you how it was. I’m not talking about those artists either although I cleared up your statement. The hip hop artist I’m referring too actually had impactful messages and uplifted people. They talked about their experiences in the ghetto and motivated similar people in bad circumstances to get out and be intellectuals. All music talks about those features you named not just hip hop. That’s white media putting an earwig inside your brain making you believe we are the only ones. They didn’t want black music to continue to be uplifting and calling out the failure and first sin of America. It shows capitalism failed us and they don’t want to feel guilty but show we are animals.. boast that… they have someone to point the finger at and not feel guilty about… because If they show remorse.. socialism starts and elites don’t want that.
Didn't Tupac talk about Someone's disease? Or killing people? Didn't Kendrick talk about alcohol addiction Didn't emninem talk about killing his ex wife , and raping his mom. Didn't x and juice rap about drug use? This is why we separate art from artist, and reality from fantasy. If you want to apply this we will have to purge EVERYTHING
@@eatingwithtytv6682 “When was it about real things?” Bruh. From its inception until large record companies took over and started gatekeeping the narrative nearly ALL hip hop was about real things. You got to remember that it’s been around since the early to mid 70s. It was damn near 15 years of black people making hip hop for black people. And it was story telling and party music. It really wasn’t until the mid 80s until the bulls*** started to infiltrate the genre. Even then, it was so many different styles that if thats not what you wanted to listen to, you had a bunch of other artist to choose from that had nothing to do with the gutter ish. On top of that, even when the garbage was beginning to come in the other artist out there were just as popular if not more popular. Now, the most popular music is filled with trash and the image of BW is clearly under attack. The gatekeepers make sure that artist like Sampa the Great, Jean Grae, Sa-roc, Rapsody don’t see the big stage. They’re not financially backing these artist and we all know why. They can’t say it won’t sell because we’ve seen it sell millions of records. That’s where the outrage is coming from. We literally lived through seeing this sh** go from positive to negative. The Message - Grand Master Flash & The Furious 5 Brendas Got a Baby - 2 Pac Children’s Story - Slick Rick Don’t let it go to your head - Brand Nubian The Breaks - Kurtis Blow And anything from BDP. To act like popular hip hop narratives back then were even remotely close to hip hop narratives now is either being grossly misinformed or willingly ignorant of hip hops history.
This will lead to social upheaval. If the parents act this way, it's generational. The ramifications of which will take, two, maybe three generations to correct. Growing up as a white dude in a black community with my father in prison I understand how serious having a father figure is. Bless this lady, and bless you Blacky for putting more notice on the topic. She went viral, you're clutch.
Thanks for bringing up this topic Blacky. The deterioration of the morality of the youth and the world at large is something that sadly will only get worse, and it makes even some like me afraid to have children in this world. But there is hope especially for those who share the same viewpoint as you. Only god can save us now..
I am currently in Norway and I am about 18. What I have seen in the past 2-3 years is that kids and people that are few years younger than me are treating teachers and adults like shit, it's almost as if they think them as NPC that they can have there fun with. There has been record high cases of violence against teachers in Norway amoung middle school to primary levels which is a really fucked up thing. Teachers play such a vital role in society. it seems to me they are definitely being influenced by the music and the culture we are pushing.
If you are familiar with the PISA-document, the newest records shows a significant reduction in the avg. students' level in reading comprehension, math and science. As someone who lives in Oslo, the problem isn't actually the music/hiphop, but more so the lack of resources like good teachers, and a rather abysmal curriculum that expects nothing off their students in terms of perfoming to their best. I recall that one time when the english teacher gave us all a piece of paper to write up on a topic at that time, no one could write more than a signle sentence after being given 15-20 minutes of the topic. So yeah. We're so screwed.
THESE. CHILDREN. NEED. FATHERS. shout out to all the real dads out there involved in their children's life's. A father who genuinely cares would simply not let this fly.
@@018milliondollarbaby cant generalize a whole group of people, its up to the individual. Im brown and an active parent in my kids life. its all a choice, dont shack up with shitty men and act surprised, and if a man wants to be part of the kids life, dont be spiteful if he moves on from a bum woman and does better for himself. its not about you, its about the kids. simple really
Nope they just need a good parent. I grew up without a dad most my life, he was emotionally absent and then my parents divorced. I don’t act like that, my younger sister 21, 15, 11 don’t either. Our mum raised us right, one good i oh aren’t makes a great difference. These kids don’t even have a good parent, if they did they wouldn’t know about this shit. My 5 year old brother only knows Taylor Swift, Harry styles, Clairo , Arctic monkeys because he’s started learning guitar. Music can be good when age appropriate. These kids need a parent that is actively in their life, it doesn’t need to be a dad. The people I know that had dads are these types in the video js….
It’s heartbreaking. I feel the ballet instructor. I’ve been working with youth since I was 25, so about six years now. It gets worse and worse. Some are fine and you can tell which parents are really doing their best but the entertainment is CRAZY
It doesn't matter whether you let your daughter listen to her or not, if they want to they will find a way regardless. You can't monitor your child's internet use 24/7 and if that's the type of music all her friends are listening to then chances are she will too as children are followers and don't like to be missing out. My parents didn't want me listening to rap music when I was growing up but I still did, just in private.
Her musics boring and no one need to hear it. I don’t live in US but no one plays that crap where I live. Kids would have to have access to the internet unsupervised to find it if I had kids.
@@MR12AMAZING Just because kids will find a way to listen to age- inappropriate music doesn't mean there's no point in parents and future parents attempting to instill some lessons and values in their children about the messaging in certain music. Tbh this defeatist and dismissive attitude a lot of you have isn't helpful at all.
100% agree. Loved that you straight away called Sexyy Red's response as the 'System's Brainwashed' - cause it most likely is! Keep posting BlackySpeakz! We're with you
Years ago, I was a matron of honor in my best friends wedding and my 5 y/o daughter was one of the flower girls. At the reception when we were to walk in the venue, my best friend told the flower girls to dance while coming in. The other flower girls were dancing like adults and my daughter was doing ballet. My "Best friend" asked me what was she (my child) doing? Now, what I do with my grown friend ( at the time we were over 35) is different from how I behave in front of my 5 year old child. I never played explicit rap around her in my car but once I dropped her off at daycare I do as I please. I have respect for my child and I want her to have respect for herself and don't care who doesn't like it. I'm not raising a future hoodrat! --By the way, my best friend is still my best friend, she just knows I have limits when it comes to my children.
@@lifewiththejonesfamily897this is the thing, youth and innocence aren’t respected Childhood is such a short window, there’s nothing to gain by growing up too fast
My main issue with her is how people that support her intentionally act obtuse and pretend like music doesn't influence people, specifically the youth. The same people that act like pushing agendas in movies and tv shows can't effect the minds of children. They can. I get that I am not her target demographic, and that's okay, my issue is her music is too easily accessible to younger people who just straight up don't need to hear this degenerate content
@@retronerds6884 And it bothers me, because have all kinds of crazy content being greenlit in Media because people want to pretend like it doesn't affect people.
It’s not they’re we’re obtuse it’s y’all are making music the scapegoat. My siblings are ages 12 and 15. Neither one of them acts this way and my 15 y/o sibling has been dancing/ listening to hip hop since she was 4. The issue is parenting. Both my mom and best friend teach children. My best friend teaches elementary school and my mom teaches middle. They have parents who hang up in their faces when they call about behavior issues. They have parents who will try and get teachers fired because their child is an “A student and never had anything lower until your class.” My mom, who is a black woman, had been accused of “targeting” so many BLACK students it’s ridiculous. Not only that my best friend has worked in a school where one girl who was about 8 was blackmailing her peers with nude pics she took of the peer on ft and the mother’s response was, “Well the little girl shouldn’t have been naked on FaceTime.” Saying it’s the music is a lazy take. It’s more like there’s a lot of parents who aren’t handling their responsibilities sad the internet just added to it. If you’re a vigilant parent you’ll been vigilant irrespective of the world around you. There are internet filters that can be placed on phones, and conversations that need to be had.
@@kaymitchell6143 Firstly, your personal experiences are not the norm nor do they invalidate the fact that media in all forms influences children. This is a documented fact. Second, vigiliant parents raise degenerate and irresponsible children all of the time. So what happens if you did your role as a parent and your child still ends up a sorry excuse of a human being? Who can you blame? Outside influences like their peers, media they consume, and the environment you raise them in. In this era where practically everyone has a screen in their face since the age of 5, the media they consume is by far what they spend the most time consuming. People spend more time with technology than they do their own parents sometimes, and not always by choice. Case in point, just a week ago Ti literally got into a physical fight with his own blood son because his son is choosing to adopt a lifestyle he never lived. His parents didn't raise him that way, but the rap music and media who consumed influenced him to pretend to be something he isn't. Let's not play ignorant here, we've all seen men and women from good homes with good parents become pretend to be thugs and hoodrats when they get older.
@@overlord6815 Maybe you need to go back to the beginning of the video to see where the teacher literally placed 90% of the blame on the parents, if you think my perspective is based on “anecdotal “ evidence. Additionally, I am also talking statically fact as well. If you actually looked at sociopolitical research you would see that the crime rate has actually been on a steady decline and children are choosing to have sex later in life. According to the department of justice youth violent offenses have actually decreased by 20% over the last few years. All of these things directly contradict this “rap is running the children” perspective. In addition children who are choosing to not participate in these activities for health and safety reasons which leads me to believe they’re being talked to by parents and realize the bad consequences. So I think the idea that all students are two seconds from being mini Sexxy Red’s because of this “agenda” falls flat. Because if you actually take a deeper look you’ll see the kids who actually gravitate towards this life style “because of the music” are already immersed in it. I know this is going to tigger you but I’m going to speak from personal experience. My partner has a friend who has two parents who were gang members. His parents literally had to go on the run from the gang life to protect their kids. Not only that they had to scrape and scratch to get by but one thing he says they always did was keep him in programs to keep him off the street. There was rarely a time that I went to his house and everyone was in their separate rooms. His parents worked to provide for hims and his brothers so they never turned to the streets and they always made themselves available to their kids to they wouldn’t have to turn to the streets for family. If you talk to real people who actually have lived that life or people who actually deal with these “problematic” kids you’ll see it’s one thing being pushed its people being crushed under a system. They distract y’all with topics like “Sexxy Red is running the youth,” so that you focus on all these imaginary good kids that are being corrupted. Y’all are in echo chambers feeding into the fear bait the internet is feeding you. As someone who recently graduated I can tell you the people most susceptible to the music are the young adults. Young adult are trained to believe you’re supposed to be reckless and have fun in your 20s. Not the kids. Meg the Stallion performed at my HBCU before she even blew up like she has now and the tickets were sold out instantly. The kids on the other hand, only respond to their environment. If the child is acting “fast” the parents are acting “fast” as well. In my young life it’s rare that I’ve seen any child that was fully loved and supported turn into a delinquent. What I have seen is families that look good on the good in the outside that have lots of crazy dynamics that end up fucking up the child. Even in the case of King, to me a kid acting a fool to that extent points to a bigger issue in the family dynamics. I’ll give you another celebrity family as an example so you can understand why I said this. King is around the age Jaden and Willow Smith were when they started to get heat for acting weird. I think this was around 2015/2016. Everyone just thought the kids were tweaking or being out of touch whiny celebrity kids, now years later, we find out that Jada and Will was on some weird shit around that time. None of us could’ve imagined just how crazy everything was because up until recently we thought the Smiths we somewhat “normal” for a celebrity couple. Yes the kids grew up with money, but money couldn’t fix the way Jada fucking Jaden’s friend messed him up. The Smiths being famous and rich did not stop them from having such a messy family life it tarnished all of their public images. You need to google how family of origin issues impact someone before telling me to be real. If parents aren’t focused on being parents and aren’t actively trying to create the correct environment for their child to be raised, in then of course the child will use outside sources to fill the gap. If my parents never tell me about sex but give me unrestricted access to the internet of course I can information that tells me I need to go through a hoe phase. If my mom doesn’t talk to me about sex but I see her turn up to the City Girls of course of going to think that’s a positive thing. But that’s not an agenda that’s an inactive parent. I remember when the first iPhone came out, it would’ve been crazy drunk that time to buy one for a child. Nowadays we think it’s not so for child to have smart phones then complain that an “agenda” is being pushed. When to me the fact that people never pause in these conversations to even point out how parents take no responsibility in providing the access to the “pushed agenda” in the first place. Phone companies still sell flip phones. Why does anyone under the age of 16 need a phone with email, internet access, and social media? What happened to having shared family technology like a family computer/ iPad? When I was younger my whole house use to pug our phones up by tht door and use alarm clocks. Hell, most parent now don’t even check to see who their son is playing games with and talking to in game chat. Which had been proven for decades to be a great place for pedophiles to groom young boys. So don’t talk to me about being realistic when you’re not even touching grass.
I would go as far as to say it's a parenting issue, not necessarily just a Sexxy Red issue. It's the Parents fault for not teaching their kids what their doing isn't all that great & Sexxy Red isn't a Role Model for little kids to look up to. Same with any other female rapper (or anything other music artist for that matter.) And the parents should know better than to play some adult shit around little kids when they around
it doesn't matter whether or not celebrities decide to embody a "role model" or not, it doesn't defeat the reality that literal children look up to them as one. sometimes individuals have to grow up and take responsibility for how they're potentially impacting their community. certain celebrities make children feel seen and heard more than their parents do. some children see these celebrities more than their own parents. certain things have to be taken into consideration.
As my grandmother said. If you do not raise your kids, then the world will. This is a classic example. No child should have access to this. Moreover, a 5 year old ahould even have a phone to access this. Play with blocks or actually try to educate them. To many parents would rather hand their child something to shut them up, than to actually parent. We need to do better.
Parents are thinking it’s someone else’s job to fix their kid and tbh the schools are probably too bad for the parents to think they’re gonna fix anything, school will just make it worse
There's a big lack of accountability on the part of the parents. Parents need to gatekeep. Parents need to parent. As misguided as she obviously is the onus ain't on Sexxy Red.
Speaking facts, the issue is there no balance between inappropriate music and music that positively empowers the next generation. If so it's not being promoted. I'm no parent but some of these parents should not be, letting little kids do whatever they want never a good idea, they become adults and get in trouble and learn, that they were set up to fail and your actions have consequences. I digress keep sharing bro.
There is also a lack of media for children and teenagers. Only media for adults. Kids do not like Disney or Nick. When I was growing up there were shows, music, and stores just for teenagers. Im sad these kids nowadays do not really get to experience that.
To be honest, this isn't Sexyy Red's fault. Elementary school kids a decade ago would often listen to 50 Cent, watch South Park, Family Guy and play GTA too. The issue is the parents not having careful conversations with their kids about how to discern entertainment from a healthy mindset. Pointing the finger at Sexyy Red is just a lazy way to make yourself feel better while not solving the problem.
I'm so glad my daughter loves her kids music. Me and my sister make sure anything explicit gets turned down or changed immediately. I always get told as a late 20s parent, I have more sense and parent better than most parents and guardians above my age. People have kids and want to live their lives the way they want and that includes having them around all the type of music and behaviors at home. YOU HAVE TO SACRAFICE anything that you want to do, to live a certain way after having children. This shows how many parents are selfish and obviously need parenting classes and just don't care! I teared up hearing this teacher and than the lyrics??? That's what lil girls are listening to??? I never liked sexyred from the day she came out, her music and the way she is, is just way too trashy. 😢
She doesn't make KID MUSIC she is a grown Àsz woman making music for GROWN ÀSZ WOMEN. Y'all need to raise y'all own kids. 😒 The Youth shouldn't be listening to her and that's her JOB... She pays taxes etc. she is literally an employee and gets paid to promote that so go at the people paying her. Not the employee.
As someone who is going to turn a teenager I see how music affects the mind but I really don't be listening to music like this because I'm not a fan . I seen other kids my age or younger act mature in a good way and bad way like acting out and stuff it's important to help the generation because we are going to be the next to help set rules and raise another generation which can turn out bad or good
I grew up in the hood...I got corrected every time. I once started singing "Oh baby I like it raw" out loud and my mom made me stop. If I ever sing anything my mom would question me if I knew what I was talking about and regardless of my answer, she would tell me not to sing everything I hear like when I started reciting "gimme that sweet, that nasty, that gushy stuff". I normally wouldnt sing stuff out loud, but if I did, I got corrected real quick every time. I knew what lyrics to recite and what not to recite, when I should censor myself during certain parts, and when to not sing at all or who I shouldnt be singing around. Even my moms boyfriend at the time would correct me by saying stuff like "whatchu know about that kinda stuff" in a very angry tone that made me realize okay I just said something I probably shouldnt have. I grew up listening to uncensored DMX, Bone Thugz n Harmony, 2pac, Biggie, Eazy E, NWO, Ice Cube, and so many gangster rappers that talked about sex, drugs, and murder and I knew when to hold and when to fold, and when to just listen and what I could actually rap to. My mom was really young too and despite that and our situation she made sure, and in her words "I stayed in a childs place".
Thank you!! Like, I get parents these days struggle with keeping their kids from hearing and seeing certain things because of social media and the internet BUT at the very least, correct the behavior!!
haha I remember I put on my moms SPM album to show my aunt because the lyrics were so silly to me at the time. Got in sooo much trouble. My mom told me that music was just for me and her ! I didn’t smoke/drink/sex until I was over 18. Im gay now lmao so it’s definitely parenting styles because my little sister is the same way.
I did start to look at her different after she retweeted that tweet with the ballet teacher. It’s not her job to cater her music to any audience. but it is tone def to disregard children, not preteens, reciting raunchy lyrics, for the sake of your music becoming more popular, children being involved in a negative way is where I have to take a step back
@@khamrhod8360absolutely but I have to be honest as someone who is 18. I feel like there’s a major difference between an adolescent and a teenager listening to this type of music. I feel there’s is a certain level of maturity you have to have to take in this type of content and that always doesn’t correlate with age. It is still inappropriate for anyone under 18 to listen to this type of music, technically yes but again me personally as a he or she gets older it wouldn’t be as harmful as a sole child
I agree. This has been happening for many years. To television to mobile devices. Anything that kids see, will influence them. I get it, children are very demanding. But putting a moblie device in their face isn't going to help their problems. Like children are not your poverty, they are not people you ignore, they are still young human beings who are still developing. And the worst excuse that a parent can say that makes me so mad is: "It's my child, I can do whenever with it." NO YOU CANNOT! You cannot just basically just ignore your own child like that. You have to monitor them of what the hell they are watching because there is so much shit that is going on the internet for the past decades.
Man we should normalize allowing these teachers for recreational activities (ie ballet teachers) to not let these kids be in their classes. It’s the parents fault, but ballet isn’t an essential class, and if the child doesn’t want to sit in their spot and learn then what is the point of them even attending the class? i know young girls (esp at that age) struggle with instructions at times anyways, but if they’re not listening at all, and the parents are negligent, it shouldn’t be considered wrong for the teacher to not let them be in the class anymore.
Millennial parents need to collectively take responsibility and address this because Gen Alpha is their offspring. They can't blame Boomers on this one. They give their kids iPads to calm them down instead of disciplining them. They're also the ones to adopt "gentle parenting".
Millennials are the types of people who adopt the right opinions of an ideology instead of actually being good people. Which is ironic, because they were so sure they would not become the same Republican parents who believed going to Church would absolve them of their sin rather than being good people. Yet, here they are. . . . :/
I actually feel my generation (early 20s) are a bit more aware about this stuff than the generation of late 20s and 30s who are currently the majority of parents. My hope is in 10 years when we are having kids there’s a bit more sense.
Preachers back in 1998-2008, were out spoken about this issue in music and warned of a time when the youth couldn’t be told anything. they got called lame and were ignored. Community leaders involved with the youth, pointing out this issue and were outspoken about how there’s something wrong with the music and various “cultures” being targeted toward us. They were called lame, haters, and were ultimately dismissed. Now a whole generation grew up and is seeing what they were warned about decades ago. Wild.
@@mysticlegion8088 or they where called conspiracy theories used to be a whole section of RUclips that called this shit out decades before this happened 🤦🏽♂️
These negligent asf parents don't want to parent but play like they do. I am feeling the pain and frustration in this teacher's voice, she can honestly do so much until she finally snaps I don't like saying this, but in the case of the kids' parents: apples don't fall very far from the tree. If their grandmother didn't set boundaries and rules with their moms when they were young, the young moms are sure as hell not going to do any of that either. It's so very sad
I’m so sick and tired of seeing crap like this. Parents need to do a better job on keeping their kids from being exposed to garbage like this. These parents 100% deserve blame as well.
Mine will be listening to Stevie Wonder, Earth Wind & Fire, Musiq Soulchild, Jill Scott, and Paramore (to add some flare in there). Y’all stay safe out there
I'm thinking back to when I was a kid. I was definitely exposed to shit I was too young for. When I was 4-6 years old, it was all about D12 and G-Unit. They definitely had inappropriate songs about murder, sex, drugs, and crime. My favourite movies also had a lot of violence and sex scenes too. My parents didn't restrict me from these things, but at the same time I wasn't allowed to act out, they made sure i undestood "this behaviour and language isnt appropriate for someone your age" kind of like they respected my intelligence enough to not emulate what id see and hear. Even though I was exposed to adult media, I was also exposed to children's media, which I also loved. Bike riding, swimming, playing with toys, dressing up I was allowed to be a kid. So all the adult media only consisted of maybe 20% of my entertainment. These kids need other sources of entertainment and stimulation suitable for their ages, but its clear the parents almost exclusively bring them up on adult content
This is one of your best content choices to date!!! Very well narrated on your part and the included portions are well done including reed's lyrics. I want to mention my voice is a loud, powerful, female and mother. I turned down a big job when I realized when my child was a few months old, that I could not trust another soul, to guide and protect my son. Of mixed culture, but west indies background I was a volunteer in his classrooms and always there to pick him up and drop him off, until I was offered a supervisor's job. At a catholic school, I proclaimed it was a public school under the guise. I SPOKE TO THE PRINCIPAL & PARENTS all the time. It was the most satisfying as many of them remmemmber how kind and funny I was yet could direct them properly; with love and respect. Children are our gifts .. there is NO GUIDEBOOK, because it IS SIMPLE: Love them. Protect them. Guide them. Be their voice for the future. The friends part will come when they are self realized, happy, healthy, and successful. PROTECT THE CHILDREN!!!!!!!!
Can we please get SexyRed 15 minutes of fame done and over with. She'll be like most, once her buzz dies down, she will be distraught talking about how she been screwed over. These terrible ass people.
Modern rap is truly in a downward spiral and whats sad is how the kids will turn out. Being 18 I remember how easily influenced i was when i was younger as it wasn’t too long ago. And kids will always be like this, then difference is what is being shown to them
It's not a 'Modern rap' problem. You had female rappers like Foxy Brown back in the 90's who rapped about this exact same ratchet shit. The main difference today is the presence of the internet and how widely accessible these forms of content are to people of young ages. Back in the 90's you actually had to have the physical CD to listen to this music but nowadays any person can easily access it.
And there will still be people who say she’s not a bad influence. They are delusional. Children are being exposed to too much and i wish social media like TikTok were no longer a thing.
Ballet teacher is taking the childrens' lives more seriously than the parents. Kids today are listening to their favorite tiktok and not common sense of real life.
I’m super glad you actually did a video on my suggestion!!! I watched the teacher’s video when she first uploaded it. After a few weeks, i saw sexy red’s deleted response and it most definitely didn’t catch major attention like it should’ve. Artists most definitely ARE NOT responsible for being children’s models when they aren’t artists made for children BUT explicit artist need to stay out of children’s entertainment. Sexy red even shot her “female gucci mane” video involved with CHILDREN at a park and offering free food etc for “turning up” for her music video. If she shot the video differently; it would’ve been perfect but instead, she just HAD TO involve local children. Sexy Red needs to keep adult content (her music + anything involving with her) AWAY from children and the youth. Her music and her persona are not healthy for children. I took a child development class as well as psychology, people need to take care of their kids. They’re marketing and exploiting children as well as exposing them. “I’ll make kids bopz” like how more greedy is sexy red? It’s not just Sexy Red, this has been happening since the 80s and 90s but it’s not an excuse for modern artist to continuously enable it. Adult artists need to stay away from children’s entertainment and children overall. Children regardless need to be protected, major industries try to profit from them.
Thank God for this channel and ‘The Truth is’ channel! You both are on the right side and exposing the how the music hip hop industry is corrupting our youth with vile sexual music and drill music.
I never leave a comment but i always agree with everything you say, but honestly, i really just feel like i have to add on to this, its actually insane the point we are in now in society. In no way, shape or form should children of this age be exposed to music or anything like this, hell, back when i was younger my parents would change the channel or cover my eyes if a explicit scene came out on TV. Same would go for music but it was extremely rare they played something explicit while i was in the car or home. Anyways, compare music from early 2010’s to now, back then it seemed to be a bit more like watered down in terms of violence, sex, drug use. Examples: Starships by Nicki Minaj, Headlines by Drake, Hookah by Tyga. But now? Everything is in the forefront. You got pound town, skeeyee, and you got lil kids now like in previous videos you showed of them rapping about killing and murdering all before their 20’s… and it isnt only the hip hop community, im mexican and i be seeing the same thing in like latino music, something very VERY dark and demonic is happening.. i been trying to get closer to god myself 💯🙏 keep the videos up blacky, keep bringing light to all this, its horrifying to see barely a few awakened to all this.
Yeaea Satan wants our children. From the music to the chosen lifestyle, to the homework at school. It's all following an agenda, the agenda is to ruin the kids before they even get the chance to spell the word "ruin". To eventually bring down society and irs standards and rules. Have you read about some of the laws being passed? Some allowing straight up p3d0phillia ... smh
???? Literally 50 cents whole shit, a lot of RNB and many more music were heavily sexual; They get big because they get played in clubs and parties. It's up to the parents to monitor what they're children are listening to; Because clearly this content was made for adults. Why should artists babysit your kids? This is just like Rockstar vs parentd again.
It's crazy what fame and money can do to a person and being humans, innately we want more of what makes us feel good. Sexyy Red's response is like you said, a result of systematic brainwashing and to be honest, it's very devastating to see because the least she could've done was ACTUALLY listen to what the young teacher was saying and expressing. In the end, I believe it's actually down to both creators (Artists) and parents to be conscious at least of the younger generation because they're gonna be here when we're gone. I don't believe in pushing the responsibility on only the parents. Been watching you for a while Blacky and I enjoyed this one, thanks for sharing.
Lust is the most powerful drug in the world, I think this kind of music is destructive around all ages not just children but adults also because if it wasn’t destructive parents would be taking initiative. We live in a soulless world of pleasure and instant gratification, music is magic and this kind of music promotes meaning less hookups with results into kids without proper parenting, modern day music also leads to destruction which results into people taking other people’s lives, and depression across society, music is deeper then just a tune that people play, it’s literal magic
17:07 Honestly, the truest statement on here. It's honestly sad. It's upsetting how these souless, heartless, emotionless, and talentless artists, are getting such high numbers. I've always knew that your worst work usually gets the most popular, but they, are an entirely escalated level of that fact.
This semester, I was in a Ethnic Studies class (which is basically code word for African American studies because of you know, the whole ban shenanigans going on but that’s besides the point). There were these girls who sat on the right of where I was in the room and they were so disrespectful to the teacher. It seemed like everyday they would be blasting their music to the point where we could hear it over the lessons, having conversations that spoke over the teacher despite him asking them nicely to stop. And it was already bad enough that they would be on their phones majority of the time during the lessons (Im not even gonna lie I was on my phone too but I was actually interested in the lessons). Then one day, one girl from that same group was arguing with this girl in the back of the room for taking a picture of her and airdropping it to the class. They were just yelling like they had no fucking sense and that must’ve been the teacher’s breaking point right there cuz he yelled REALLY loud at them to shut up (mind you that he warns them not to get on his bad side on a daily). I feel really bad cuz I know that he genuinely cares about we were learning in that class and they were taking advantage of that and being disrespectful. Ironically, we were talking about this rapper that the teacher was familiar with and he kinda joked how nowadays we only listen to rappers like Sexy Redd. 😂
In America: (When a teacher cares.. the parents demotivate the teacher’s will to care). (When the teacher doesn’t care.. the parents call out the teacher for not caring for their children). **IT IS A LOSE LOSE SITUATION**
It’s not just America. Stop picking on America for no reason. Ain’t there a war going on over there because they wanna be racist and kill people? Oh ok
The problem is we have fatherless children raising fatherless daughters. The really sad part is that this kind of music only serves to repeat and continue that cycle. As an industry plant it then becomes clear this this is, by design, an agenda...and I'll just leave it at that.
I'm not even disagreeing with you, and I won't. But I've seen enough dads introduce their kids to adult content at like 6-7 years of age. Many times I see little boys inappropriately touching CLOTHED mannequins while their dad's laugh in the background and mum looks horrified. ik you might think I'm making this a 'oh no you're holding this party accountable so I'll defend them' situation, but believe me I'm not. I've seen single mothers in my country and their kids grow up to have excellent moral conduct because our moms are strict asf, one foot out of line and they'll have it, and I mean it. what these kids need, is a better education system and a ban on social media. when these parents realise that there's a world outside useless social media dances and look into the humongous curriculum their kids have, everything will fall into place. and of course, two responsible loving parents who also love each other.
After watching that video of the ballet teacher, i feel it's honestly a parental issue. When a parent denies everything a teacher says without even talking with their kid first, this is to me an obvious sign of someone so delusional that they should never have had a kid in the first place. All these kids acting outrageous because their parents are not parenting, giving all these kids access to whatever they want through social media as you said... Sexyy Red is a complete bozo for that statement, but we all knew that already. Just look at her. 5 year olds being disrespectful to their teacher for no good reason is a parent's issue, and it's infuriating hearing these stories knowing that these types of parents should NEVER EVER HAVE EVEN GOTTEN CLOSE TO GETTING A CHILD!!!!! I feel so sorry for the young kids with parents who clearly don't actually care for their kids, and got children just because they felt like they had to or because they want a mini-version of themselves to help pay the bills. It pisses me off seeing these delusional and ignorant parents creating and raising complete narcicist idiots. "He was such a good kid omg he was always so kind to his mama😭"
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If you’re a parent allowing a pre pubescent child listen to sexy red, you’re a terrible parent point blank period.
Thank you!!! Come for the parent not the artist. We will always have raunchy music ,. Parents don’t do their job to protect their own children, they’re lazy and always have an excuse lmfao . Blaming music for a generation , no ur the reason why your kid failed not society . Stop letting society raise ur kids
I (30) am a huge Lil Kim fan but I didn't get into her until I was a teen, well after her career faded. Why? Because my mother wasn't playing her music around me and if she was it was a clean version. These parents are not parenting. It would break my heart if I had kids and they were singing a sexyy red song or anything similar. I would feel like a failure!!
Not just prepubesant, many kids are in puberty before age 10. Under 18 should not see this stuff at all
@@maleeamckinney559agree but in this case it’s fuck The artist as well after that response.
Thank u. A lot of people making up excuses stop it, save the kids from this, whether it's from the past or now, it's irrelevant to stop promoting nonsense that can destroy your kids' brains and lives
It's real sad that sexy red attacked the teacher that actually cares about the youth.
Secsy Red looks exactly like how she acts, trashy
She’s a machine
Says a lot about her character, or lack of it
Truer words could have never been spoken because I think Sexyy Red is a horrible influence on children especially little girls who are 5-9 years old and what I find more crazy is that parents in this generation think that it's cute for their daughters to listen to her nasty lyrics at their young ages.
Which is a selfish thing to do because I don't blame that teacher for feeling the way she does.
This poor woman truly cares. I’m sorry Miss. I as a mother of 3 girls I appreciate you, your dedication and awareness.
Yea. Cause she was totally "calling out parents" by posting on an app where the main demographic are preteens😂. Adults like her are literally the problem as to why these young children find sexualized Content in the first place. If the grown ass adults like her left tiktok alone for the kids how it was originally intended then there wouldn't be sexy redd tiktok challenges. Seriously. Anyone over 17 on tiktok should be on a watchlist
There have always been disrespectful kids with bad parents
@@seanian8986 she is a kid expecting other kids to take her seriously. It's not that deep. If there was an adult in the room they would've listened
These answers are the problem nobody cares
@@aarongisclair4803slowest comment I've heard
The way children are being exposed to so much sexual content and no one is doing anything about, is just sad. No one cares… no one.
Right rap music is what’s running the young generation I think it’s long overdue for rap music to be banned but ofc they ain’t gone do that the elite are purposely recruiting black individuals from the hood to rap death,sex,drugs and everything else to children
It’s the internet. Can’t live with it can’t live without it.
And how is this sexxy reds fault?
@@jennyjenjen9180 You can live without the internet
This is what happens when your idea of parenting is giving your child an ipad and putting it on autoplay.
We’ve got a 9-year-old rapper talking about pulling drugs in his hood, a 16 year old catching a murder charge and now a 5-year-old girl wanting to twerk to Sexxy Red? What is happening?
It's been a thing but people assume it's gonna go away. People felt the same way about Miley Cyrus, cierra, cardi B.
I remember in 2009 we talked like the characters from south park. Sexual jokes we didn't understand include.
5 years ago people hated SoundCloud rap for the same reason
Parent's have no boundaries these days.
Kids been selling drugs in the hood, teenagers been toting guns catching bodies in the hood, and it’s always been bad parents that let they kids say and do whatever. Life is happening, nothing new.
Parenting. I can tell you. I go to a school in the suburbs. I’m talking rich kids failing and doing drugs going to parties, smoking, vaping and not wanting to do anything. And these parents don’t care 💯.
tiktok is happening, future generation gonna get dumber making it easier for china to take over, our attention spans are already fucked because of tiktok.
When the ballet teacher started crying my heart really broke
Strongest part of the video
Womp Womp
It was sad
@@cutemoonpie10roblox55 ok sexxy red glazer 😂
I'm not saying she is but she prob faking to put on an image. But I'm Abt ppl wanting to twerk to sexy red.
I’m 29 and I have an 8 year old son. I am very careful with what he listens to and he’s made it to a point to hear a song and cover his ears when he knows if it’s too explicit. I believe parents need to do a better job of keeping their kids from being exposed to these explicit tracks we listen to PERIOD.
You’re a good parent 🙏
Covering your ears isn't gonna do anything, so don't play explicit music around him
telling him to cover his ears gonna do nothing, either dont play those types of music around him or smartly talk to them about it.
@@rockcandidate My parents use to tell me to cover my ears as a kid to music they would play. It gets the point across as to not listen to what they’re saying and that it’s bad, but I agree, don’t play that trash music around kids anyways cause.. you know, it’s trash 😂
... most of that will stop, once they start hanging around friends 😒 ...it happened to the best of us
this isn't different from the nasty shit we listened to as kids tbh. the problem is parents aren't taking the time to explain to their kids why this stuff isn't age appropriate. it's impossible to keep them away from it, so instead they should be told about it because when you try to hide stuff from kids, it makes them more interested.
EXACTLY! it’s not the music it’s these irresponsible ass parents
Kids shouldn't have access to the internet, maybe some restricted version for kids where you find games for kids and some fairy tales but not the whole internet. There is a 100% chance they will end up somewhere they shouldn't be.
Its way different homie we had to listen listen to understand wtf was going on and media wasnt so easy to access we was older kids still no excuse but not 5 singing this like 13-15 on bet un cut. Even then was afraid to be like that because our parents wasnt going for it even in the blues you gotta listen and research to know whats going on now its so blatant and uncaring its disgusting as a artist i do my thang too i like making spicy music but my whole thing aint it make constructive music/media to counter your creativity so the brain has time to grow
Still doesn’t make it ok😅 look how majority of this generation turned out
Nah fam out right just saying my booty hole pink and my pussy brown just crazy at least the old heads try hid that shit
This just breaks my heart to hear 5 year olds have been TWERKING to this kind of music. IT NEEDS TO STOP!!!
Immediately 💯
I recently looked up the lyrics to this song and then watched the video. There's no f@cking way children should be exposed to this. As an adult i was horrified. This "music" is gutter trash.
It’s disgusting how much backlash the teacher is getting over voicing a valid point. I genuinely feel bad for this generation, I’ve been saying this since I first heard her music as well and it’s nice to hear a big platform talk about this. When I was growing up I was listening to Akon and Eminem and they have some certain songs that a kid shouldn’t listen to but my parents always told me to cover my ears at some parts or to not take it serious and it’s supposed to be fun. Nowadays, we got women artists talking about literally being wh03rs and getting their backs blown out and men artists encouraging killing and almost making it okay to be a gang banger and it’s showing in real time that the kids are following in these artists footsteps. Shits just sad man. I’m on the teachers side. W blacky for talking about this again.
Artists are allowed to do that and voice their pain and struggles or fun they're having as ADULTS. It's really on parents to educate their child at the right times in their lives to what's aceptable and what is not appropriate for their age ie: Kid singing along to a explicit part in a song. A parent should take the time to tell their kid "No you dont sing that part or we're not listening to this anymore" Kid asks Why not? And you explain to them that it's not appropriate for kiddos like you.
PS. (I'm agreeing with you btw) I agree w not taking it serious or covering ears, my mom explained what Eminem was talking about in his songs that were serious at a certain age when i was maybe 11 sh'ed get burned music and get clean versions a lot too. I never swore around my mom and she would explain in a kid friendly way what he meant in his songs to where it made sense to me, sometimes you sing along not even knowing what lyrics mean you sing along cuz its catchy to a kid but I feel it's on the artists to a certain point cuz they can claim their music isn't meant to be heard by kids and if they made nothing but kid friendly music they would never have a career Ie: Eminem.. So then it's on the parents to do the right thing and expose their kids to the appropriate things at the right time and if their kid likes something that they know isn't appropriate they need to take it away and explain to them why they're taking it away and give the best explanation as to why a kid at whatever age the kid is at should not be listening to this music.
The label that Sexxys label is signed to said, and I quote, that they produce content with a “focus on black culture”. Let that sink in…
I grew up during the late 90's/ early 2000's. We were exposed to way worse than the kids now a days.
yeah Eminem does explain this in Sing for the Moment too
Akon really had me singing "smack that" at like 7 or so not even knowing what it meant lmao
The parents response to the teacher should give you the answer to all your concerns it ain’t the music it’s the parents the IRRESPONSIBLE PARENTS
Best comment that this channel audience will miss since they have an agenda and no solutions.
@@ItsJustCartier 💯👁️
Literally… that’s why Blacky loses me on these topics. My best friend and mom are both school teachers. Both have had parents threaten their safety over trivial things. My mom had a student give her the middle finger and parent literally asked my mom if she was calling because her feelings were hurt. Not only that the parent then proceeded to come up to the school that day to fight her. Now explain to me how that has anything to do with rap? Not only that we live in a more “small town feel” city. Like we barely even have gangs let alone actual NY Chicago type of crime. This has little to do with the music and this supposed agenda and more to do with lazy ass parents. A lot of these children have parents who only house, feed, and dress them. A lot of people have kids and do not realize the entirety of their responsibilities.
Not always the parents
Facts parents are way too lazy and wanting someone else to babysit their kids all the time. They let Internet personalities and celebs entertain their kids instead of just speaking to them. Dumb parents complain about musical artists instead of controlling their kids watching and listening habits more
God Bless that ballet teacher! We need more young women like her to help guide the next generation of girls.
I agree
She definitely quit by now
Its not just girl bro 🤦♂️
@@KameraKiss who said it was
this is really sad. i'm turning 15 soon, but i'm DEVASTATED of the way young boys n girls are like this. they wanna be grown soooooo ... bad, and they don't wanna understand how much responsibility ur gonna have as an adult. focus on the present. be a CHILD.
I'm also turning 15 soon, and I am HORRIFIED for my young cousins and nieces and nephews, ESPECIALLY my nieces. This is SO BAD, 5 year olds shouldn't be twerking and listening to STD music. I like rap but not only is Sexy Redd's music *ss, it's also rotting the next generation.
Frfr I’m 27 and everyday I wish I can reverse the clock but it don’t work that way
Im 24 and adulthood is disgusting, I miss the luxury of not having to worry back when I was a child and nowadays kids are trying to grow up so fast
@@chanela.778625 and you are speaking facts . Everything it’s difficult
Bro I'm 30. I really feel bad for these kids. I remember I was playing what these bitches want by DMX. My dad busted my room like like wtf u listening too 😂😂😂 and now I have a wife so obviously it was just entertainment for me but I really feel bad for you kids. BET uncut came one 3 n the am for a reason. Now the internet is like a 24/7 bet uncut
It gets deeper. Fights breaking out (Chrisean Rock spirit), not being motivated to do work, always being on their phone, parents can no longer control them, and cursing out the teachers is a national issue; hence teachers are leaving the field.
Every generation literally said this about kids💀
@@benxcell With smartphones it's not the same, its 100x worst.
@@ActionBastard88absolutely
@@benxcellso every generation has problems, meaning we should tackle and address it right?? Try to make a point when you comment coz it sounds ignorant.
@@benxcellyes and it’s worse isn’t it?? Go read a book
You would think that as a mom herself, Red would agree with the dance teacher and say to the parents, “Shame on you for letting your kids listen to my music. I do not condone this.” but she does quite the opposite and she is like, “Play my music and STFU!” in response to the dance teacher calling parents out for letting their little girls listen to sexually explicit music and not discipling them when they act out in dance class. This is appalling and it shows.
Sexy red is the prime example of when u get the wrong people famous I blame the youth for getting her famous she should’ve been a here today gone tomorrow type thing but instead we blew her up to the point to where she got drake features and now she’s doing damage i don’t blame her for what she’s doing I blame yall for blowing her up
I was getting on my friends for this very reason. For popularizing stupidity, someone without talent, and just an all around bad person.
@@nymphohalohow is she a bad person? Because she ghetto? 😂
You can say that about a lot of male rappers too
I blame everyone who listens to her music😂 or most rap music in general nowadays. They glorify and promote drug abuse and other horrendous activities. If the top artists weren’t promoting and encouraging what’s wrong with society then I would still be a die hard rap head. But now that I’m an adult i can’t pretend like it isn’t happening.
You could say that about any artist in any genre come on
The issue with Sexyy Redd is she isn’t even that Sexyy…
Lmao exactly.
Lmfaoooooo you not wrong 😂😂😂😂
It's Slutty Red all day
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@@jermeygallmorejr7615Lmao Hell Yeah No doubt When I First seen her I Thought it Was A Transgender
I'm 40 and my daughter is 22, the fact that these kids today are being told you can do whatever you want literally scares the mess out of me when I'm old those same kids will be running things and this can't be good!
Yeah.. I'm glad my mom doesn't give me access to tiktok, insta, twitter, snap etc. I can listen to this type of music ( i dont like sexxy red ) with my parents permission as long as i dont repeat the inappropriate stuff. One day, we had a special event happening in the gym and they started playing one of her popular songs and the kids were singing every word. i'm concerned for kids at my school..
This why nobody wants to be a teacher no more. Overworked, underpaid, under appreciated.
And people ask why I slander Sexyy Red every chance I get.
cuz your a incel
Or maybe you have too much time on your hands
me or the other guy
@@marcustaylor6492actually I don’t 😂
Sexxy Red could care less about the new generation. It’s the PARENTS who should set boundaries, discipline their kids, and give respect to authority. Before this generation kids we would get yelled at for not even saying “please” or “thank you”. Not to long ago me, my sister, and our cousin talked about music videos and there not the same anymore because it’s only about drugs, hood, and sexual content.
Sexxy Red is a parent. I feel so sorry for her son. How pathetic is it she has her son around all this and that other stupid pregnant girl in the video is probably just as bad. Both of them should have their kids taken away!!
our biggest problem is how decade after decade we keep letting our kids follow nonsense under the guise of it being "against what the government wants" and "self expression of life in the hood" this generation being overly sexualized is no different from the 90s and 80s kids who grew up listening to drug dealers, showing them you will look cool and be popular if you do it too. the parents minds so gone off "go get a bag" whether legally or not, everybody too wrapped up In getting money to actually raise their kids.
100% right.
I get what u mean but this is somehow wayyy more sinister. I grew up in the 80’s and 90’s and me and my friends listened to all that kinda music to, but it’s just something way more dark going on with this generation. A lot of us listened to that type of music growing up and still ended up being productive members of society, we still had some type of moral compass and respect. I get what you’re saying but something is different now
@@GrinchyGreen334the difference isn’t in the music it’s the parenting.
@@danarespress164Y’all are not wrong at all actually. But I just get the feeling that the influence now is wayyyy worse than it was when we were kids. We listened to all that type of music but something is different now with this generation. I think it’s the parenting. The parents now weren’t like our parents in the 80’s and 90’s.
@@GrinchyGreen334 the only difference is INTERNET tbh, these children have way more access to everything, good and bad
I think im with the mass majority when i say no parent should let there kids listen to her music and i can also say that she should distance herself from kids as well by not posting and reposting them dancing to her music. Theres a balance with everything and i think her music is not the worst thing but it should also be for adult ears only.
Real 💯
Thing is kids shouldn’t be listening to any of this type of music why is everyone acting like she’s the only one wildin
Parents shouldn’t let kids listen to explicit adult music until at least later on in their childhood. And if they do, parents should be making their kids understand that the music is inappropriate, is a bad influence, and carries harmful energy. That’s what my parents taught me growing up. As a responsible parent, you shouldn’t shelter kids but make sure youre the primary entity educating them and guiding them not other family, friends, school, govt, etc
@@reyesI165that’s the thing parents just put this shit on in their car and act like it’s normal ofc your kids gonna wanna listen to her when that’s all they hear
@itswilbur52 wow we've finally gone to far. Our grand parents were right
I feel so bad for the youth. One thing my parents always told me was if you as a parent don't discipline your children the streets will
she is speaking nothing but facts we as black people have to do better
Ain’t no we. Speak for yourself. Black folks aren’t a tribe or monolith. What other individuals do have nothing to do with them as a whole. Stop grouping folks together just cause of their skin and race that’s bogus and weird.
@@queenofnyc5584 i would if we as a whole weren’t affected. in no way can you justify the actions, or lack thereof, of the parents she describes. black people need a community, we are some of the sole americans that do not support each other as a whole. so yes, we need to do better. if the shoe fits… 🤷🏿♂️
Everybody not just black folks
@SM_MEX Of course, but he's referring to a specific problem within the black community as a whole. Even the glamorisation of gang culture in rap is concurrently having a huge negative effect on the younger generation of men
Thats facts, but everybody gotta get better@@insultlk
Kids don't need internet access until age 16+
I don’t know about not having internet access since most teachers nowadays have students do online assignments and assessments and using programs like Microsoft Word. Hell I’ve been using a computer since I was 7 and am now 24 but they def need to have blocks and restrictions as to what kids can look at. They did something like that back at my old high school
agree 💯💯
Kids need internet in order to do assignments nowadays. Kids can have internet as long as the parents are being parents and watch what they do
I feel children need to be restricted but also taught how to navigate the internet/phone usage in a healthy/good way that wouldn't damage their lives
@@chanela.7786agreed
This teacher absolutely loves her students and this is breaking her heart 😢
Sexyy Red’s response was very much not a good look. That being said, I’ve said the same sentence time and time and time again. It is not the entertainer’s job to be your child’s babysitter. Their job is to entertain. And their form of entertainment is very clearly for adults. So it is up to the parents to monitor this stuff and teach their kids that they’re not old enough to be listening to this kind of stuff. It is so annoying to see parents blame the entertainer for their lazy parenting by being paranoid over shit that they made up in their head like, “ohhh they’re poisoning the youth.”
exactly! the parents are parenting anymore and that's the problem because every generation has had a "Sexyy Red", so this is actually nothing new.
Oh no. This music is not targeted to adults at all. It's targeted to kids and "Adults" with Children's brain capacity. Actual responsible Adults don't go for this shit.
@@FunkSwaggMusiK you can still be a responsible adult and listen to fun music. not every song has to be about deep and meaningful stuff.
@@TheLastCin Doesn't make it right though, if it's nothing new we should be calling it out.
@@Allswagyep well tell the parents to monitor their kids 🤷🏽♀️ we shouldn't have to miss out on fun music because parents don't want to do their job
I’m in highschool and this is a huge issue in my area. It’s worse when you live in an area of poverty and parents are not good a role model. They act like the 5 year olds she’s describing. (Throwing things, cussing at teacher, refuse to follow instructions,) except there catching adult charges cuz we’re all in HS. It’s truly a sad world
@vinniestaydrippy4...
Stay in school, graduate & go to college! I wish you the best in life but only you can do it.
And you sound like that's what you want!!!!
Best wishes to you....
Happy New Year!!!
When rap was about real things going on in the ghetto they wanted it off the radio. When it started to destroy our image it became the biggest genre in musical history.
When was it about real things?? Older rapper still degraded women and talked money, sex, and drugs like please don’t do the double standards game
Pimps and prostitutes go hand in hand. You can’t have one without the other. Listen to women in California it’s a way of life they had no choice to do like a drug dealer. Women have been degrading themselves since eve bit the apple. Since a dollar was invented. Poverty and money leads you to provide with any resource you have.. whether it be your body a gun or a sack of dope. Rappers simply told you how it was. I’m not talking about those artists either although I cleared up your statement. The hip hop artist I’m referring too actually had impactful messages and uplifted people. They talked about their experiences in the ghetto and motivated similar people in bad circumstances to get out and be intellectuals. All music talks about those features you named not just hip hop. That’s white media putting an earwig inside your brain making you believe we are the only ones. They didn’t want black music to continue to be uplifting and calling out the failure and first sin of America. It shows capitalism failed us and they don’t want to feel guilty but show we are animals.. boast that… they have someone to point the finger at and not feel guilty about… because If they show remorse.. socialism starts and elites don’t want that.
Didn't Tupac talk about Someone's disease? Or killing people?
Didn't Kendrick talk about alcohol addiction
Didn't emninem talk about killing his ex wife , and raping his mom.
Didn't x and juice rap about drug use?
This is why we separate art from artist, and reality from fantasy.
If you want to apply this we will have to purge EVERYTHING
@@eatingwithtytv6682 “When was it about real things?” Bruh. From its inception until large record companies took over and started gatekeeping the narrative nearly ALL hip hop was about real things. You got to remember that it’s been around since the early to mid 70s. It was damn near 15 years of black people making hip hop for black people. And it was story telling and party music. It really wasn’t until the mid 80s until the bulls*** started to infiltrate the genre.
Even then, it was so many different styles that if thats not what you wanted to listen to, you had a bunch of other artist to choose from that had nothing to do with the gutter ish. On top of that, even when the garbage was beginning to come in the other artist out there were just as popular if not more popular.
Now, the most popular music is filled with trash and the image of BW is clearly under attack. The gatekeepers make sure that artist like Sampa the Great, Jean Grae, Sa-roc, Rapsody don’t see the big stage. They’re not financially backing these artist and we all know why. They can’t say it won’t sell because we’ve seen it sell millions of records.
That’s where the outrage is coming from. We literally lived through seeing this sh** go from positive to negative.
The Message - Grand Master Flash & The Furious 5
Brendas Got a Baby - 2 Pac
Children’s Story - Slick Rick
Don’t let it go to your head - Brand Nubian
The Breaks - Kurtis Blow
And anything from BDP. To act like popular hip hop narratives back then were even remotely close to hip hop narratives now is either being grossly misinformed or willingly ignorant of hip hops history.
This will lead to social upheaval. If the parents act this way, it's generational. The ramifications of which will take, two, maybe three generations to correct. Growing up as a white dude in a black community with my father in prison I understand how serious having a father figure is. Bless this lady, and bless you Blacky for putting more notice on the topic. She went viral, you're clutch.
wise man right here.
As a new father and black I respect this 🙏🏽
💯
I agree what your saying but what’s wrong with this generation
Well said
Thanks for bringing up this topic Blacky. The deterioration of the morality of the youth and the world at large is something that sadly will only get worse, and it makes even some like me afraid to have children in this world. But there is hope especially for those who share the same viewpoint as you. Only god can save us now..
I was at a kids party and this little girl was singing “shake yo dreads” I couldn’t believe it this is so sad honestly
head scratch moment fasho ☠️ dam fam
I feel like they just see it as a dance that’s funny like we danced to Soulja boy in the early 2000s
@@liljoshlol5720 yeah same. I knew a lot of songs as a kid that I was only exposed to a small part of them or didn't understand the deeper meaning
What is that?
Its literally just.a song about shaking your dreads and having fun
I am currently in Norway and I am about 18. What I have seen in the past 2-3 years is that kids and people that are few years younger than me are treating teachers and adults like shit, it's almost as if they think them as NPC that they can have there fun with. There has been record high cases of violence against teachers in Norway amoung middle school to primary levels which is a really fucked up thing. Teachers play such a vital role in society. it seems to me they are definitely being influenced by the music and the culture we are pushing.
Damn dude and Norway is supposed to be one of the examples we all look up to lol
If you are familiar with the PISA-document, the newest records shows a significant reduction in the avg. students' level in reading comprehension, math and science. As someone who lives in Oslo, the problem isn't actually the music/hiphop, but more so the lack of resources like good teachers, and a rather abysmal curriculum that expects nothing off their students in terms of perfoming to their best.
I recall that one time when the english teacher gave us all a piece of paper to write up on a topic at that time, no one could write more than a signle sentence after being given 15-20 minutes of the topic. So yeah. We're so screwed.
@@rsb__ The gun violence in Sweden is getting out of hand as well.
From the US, sorry our #1 export (culture) is leaking into norway
Bring back the belt
THESE. CHILDREN. NEED. FATHERS. shout out to all the real dads out there involved in their children's life's. A father who genuinely cares would simply not let this fly.
Facts
Okay so where they at though? Black and brown men need to stay in their children's lives, even if they aren't romantically involved with the mothers.
@@018milliondollarbabythank you.
@@018milliondollarbaby cant generalize a whole group of people, its up to the individual. Im brown and an active parent in my kids life. its all a choice, dont shack up with shitty men and act surprised, and if a man wants to be part of the kids life, dont be spiteful if he moves on from a bum woman and does better for himself. its not about you, its about the kids. simple really
Nope they just need a good parent. I grew up without a dad most my life, he was emotionally absent and then my parents divorced. I don’t act like that, my younger sister 21, 15, 11 don’t either. Our mum raised us right, one good i oh aren’t makes a great difference. These kids don’t even have a good parent, if they did they wouldn’t know about this shit. My 5 year old brother only knows Taylor Swift, Harry styles, Clairo , Arctic monkeys because he’s started learning guitar. Music can be good when age appropriate. These kids need a parent that is actively in their life, it doesn’t need to be a dad. The people I know that had dads are these types in the video js….
It’s heartbreaking. I feel the ballet instructor. I’ve been working with youth since I was 25, so about six years now. It gets worse and worse. Some are fine and you can tell which parents are really doing their best but the entertainment is CRAZY
No lie, if I had a daughter, I would NOT let my daughter listen to her. I've never even been a fan of her music in the first place.
It doesn't matter whether you let your daughter listen to her or not, if they want to they will find a way regardless. You can't monitor your child's internet use 24/7 and if that's the type of music all her friends are listening to then chances are she will too as children are followers and don't like to be missing out. My parents didn't want me listening to rap music when I was growing up but I still did, just in private.
Her musics boring and no one need to hear it. I don’t live in US but no one plays that crap where I live. Kids would have to have access to the internet unsupervised to find it if I had kids.
@@MR12AMAZINGSo we shouldn’t even try huh? Do nothing since they’re just gonna find a way to do it anyway?
@@TCapo1185he cap you can monitor them it’s call parental controls I have a 7 year old with a iPad it lets me see everything and approve
@@MR12AMAZING Just because kids will find a way to listen to age- inappropriate music doesn't mean there's no point in parents and future parents attempting to instill some lessons and values in their children about the messaging in certain music. Tbh this defeatist and dismissive attitude a lot of you have isn't helpful at all.
100% agree. Loved that you straight away called Sexyy Red's response as the 'System's Brainwashed' - cause it most likely is! Keep posting BlackySpeakz! We're with you
Years ago, I was a matron of honor in my best friends wedding and my 5 y/o daughter was one of the flower girls. At the reception when we were to walk in the venue, my best friend told the flower girls to dance while coming in. The other flower girls were dancing like adults and my daughter was doing ballet. My "Best friend" asked me what was she (my child) doing? Now, what I do with my grown friend ( at the time we were over 35) is different from how I behave in front of my 5 year old child. I never played explicit rap around her in my car but once I dropped her off at daycare I do as I please. I have respect for my child and I want her to have respect for herself and don't care who doesn't like it. I'm not raising a future hoodrat! --By the way, my best friend is still my best friend, she just knows I have limits when it comes to my children.
That's awesome of you ❤
Same here my daughter's don't know how to twerk or dance explicitly. I don't play that at all. We should respect our children and their innocence.
@@lifewiththejonesfamily897this is the thing, youth and innocence aren’t respected
Childhood is such a short window, there’s nothing to gain by growing up too fast
@@alkahinat4558 That's right I totally agree 💯
We love respectable and parents goodjob mama 🩷🩷
Sexy Redd being 25 is scary bc I’m only 24 😭😵💫 she’s washed bad wth. I thought she was pushing 30 like the rest of the “girlies” 😅
Same. I'm 25 as we speak and thought she is in early 30 lmao 😭
Really? I’m 24, damn she looks rough
It’s very important to not expose kids to sexual media to early bc it can really affect their ability to connect with other people later in life
My main issue with her is how people that support her intentionally act obtuse and pretend like music doesn't influence people, specifically the youth. The same people that act like pushing agendas in movies and tv shows can't effect the minds of children. They can. I get that I am not her target demographic, and that's okay, my issue is her music is too easily accessible to younger people who just straight up don't need to hear this degenerate content
People always want to talk about music having a positive influence but get quiet as hell when you talk about the negative influences
@@retronerds6884 And it bothers me, because have all kinds of crazy content being greenlit in Media because people want to pretend like it doesn't affect people.
It’s not they’re we’re obtuse it’s y’all are making music the scapegoat. My siblings are ages 12 and 15. Neither one of them acts this way and my 15 y/o sibling has been dancing/ listening to hip hop since she was 4. The issue is parenting. Both my mom and best friend teach children. My best friend teaches elementary school and my mom teaches middle. They have parents who hang up in their faces when they call about behavior issues. They have parents who will try and get teachers fired because their child is an “A student and never had anything lower until your class.” My mom, who is a black woman, had been accused of “targeting” so many BLACK students it’s ridiculous. Not only that my best friend has worked in a school where one girl who was about 8 was blackmailing her peers with nude pics she took of the peer on ft and the mother’s response was, “Well the little girl shouldn’t have been naked on FaceTime.” Saying it’s the music is a lazy take. It’s more like there’s a lot of parents who aren’t handling their responsibilities sad the internet just added to it. If you’re a vigilant parent you’ll been vigilant irrespective of the world around you. There are internet filters that can be placed on phones, and conversations that need to be had.
@@kaymitchell6143 Firstly, your personal experiences are not the norm nor do they invalidate the fact that media in all forms influences children. This is a documented fact.
Second, vigiliant parents raise degenerate and irresponsible children all of the time. So what happens if you did your role as a parent and your child still ends up a sorry excuse of a human being? Who can you blame? Outside influences like their peers, media they consume, and the environment you raise them in. In this era where practically everyone has a screen in their face since the age of 5, the media they consume is by far what they spend the most time consuming. People spend more time with technology than they do their own parents sometimes, and not always by choice.
Case in point, just a week ago Ti literally got into a physical fight with his own blood son because his son is choosing to adopt a lifestyle he never lived. His parents didn't raise him that way, but the rap music and media who consumed influenced him to pretend to be something he isn't.
Let's not play ignorant here, we've all seen men and women from good homes with good parents become pretend to be thugs and hoodrats when they get older.
@@overlord6815 Maybe you need to go back to the beginning of the video to see where the teacher literally placed 90% of the blame on the parents, if you think my perspective is based on “anecdotal “ evidence. Additionally, I am also talking statically fact as well. If you actually looked at sociopolitical research you would see that the crime rate has actually been on a steady decline and children are choosing to have sex later in life. According to the department of justice youth violent offenses have actually decreased by 20% over the last few years. All of these things directly contradict this “rap is running the children” perspective. In addition children who are choosing to not participate in these activities for health and safety reasons which leads me to believe they’re being talked to by parents and realize the bad consequences. So I think the idea that all students are two seconds from being mini Sexxy Red’s because of this “agenda” falls flat. Because if you actually take a deeper look you’ll see the kids who actually gravitate towards this life style “because of the music” are already immersed in it. I know this is going to tigger you but I’m going to speak from personal experience. My partner has a friend who has two parents who were gang members. His parents literally had to go on the run from the gang life to protect their kids. Not only that they had to scrape and scratch to get by but one thing he says they always did was keep him in programs to keep him off the street. There was rarely a time that I went to his house and everyone was in their separate rooms. His parents worked to provide for hims and his brothers so they never turned to the streets and they always made themselves available to their kids to they wouldn’t have to turn to the streets for family. If you talk to real people who actually have lived that life or people who actually deal with these “problematic” kids you’ll see it’s one thing being pushed its people being crushed under a system. They distract y’all with topics like “Sexxy Red is running the youth,” so that you focus on all these imaginary good kids that are being corrupted. Y’all are in echo chambers feeding into the fear bait the internet is feeding you.
As someone who recently graduated I can tell you the people most susceptible to the music are the young adults. Young adult are trained to believe you’re supposed to be reckless and have fun in your 20s. Not the kids. Meg the Stallion performed at my HBCU before she even blew up like she has now and the tickets were sold out instantly. The kids on the other hand, only respond to their environment. If the child is acting “fast” the parents are acting “fast” as well. In my young life it’s rare that I’ve seen any child that was fully loved and supported turn into a delinquent. What I have seen is families that look good on the good in the outside that have lots of crazy dynamics that end up fucking up the child. Even in the case of King, to me a kid acting a fool to that extent points to a bigger issue in the family dynamics. I’ll give you another celebrity family as an example so you can understand why I said this. King is around the age Jaden and Willow Smith were when they started to get heat for acting weird. I think this was around 2015/2016. Everyone just thought the kids were tweaking or being out of touch whiny celebrity kids, now years later, we find out that Jada and Will was on some weird shit around that time. None of us could’ve imagined just how crazy everything was because up until recently we thought the Smiths we somewhat “normal” for a celebrity couple. Yes the kids grew up with money, but money couldn’t fix the way Jada fucking Jaden’s friend messed him up. The Smiths being famous and rich did not stop them from having such a messy family life it tarnished all of their public images. You need to google how family of origin issues impact someone before telling me to be real.
If parents aren’t focused on being parents and aren’t actively trying to create the correct environment for their child to be raised, in then of course the child will use outside sources to fill the gap. If my parents never tell me about sex but give me unrestricted access to the internet of course I can information that tells me I need to go through a hoe phase. If my mom doesn’t talk to me about sex but I see her turn up to the City Girls of course of going to think that’s a positive thing. But that’s not an agenda that’s an inactive parent. I remember when the first iPhone came out, it would’ve been crazy drunk that time to buy one for a child. Nowadays we think it’s not so for child to have smart phones then complain that an “agenda” is being pushed. When to me the fact that people never pause in these conversations to even point out how parents take no responsibility in providing the access to the “pushed agenda” in the first place. Phone companies still sell flip phones. Why does anyone under the age of 16 need a phone with email, internet access, and social media? What happened to having shared family technology like a family computer/ iPad? When I was younger my whole house use to pug our phones up by tht door and use alarm clocks. Hell, most parent now don’t even check to see who their son is playing games with and talking to in game chat. Which had been proven for decades to be a great place for pedophiles to groom young boys. So don’t talk to me about being realistic when you’re not even touching grass.
I would go as far as to say it's a parenting issue, not necessarily just a Sexxy Red issue. It's the Parents fault for not teaching their kids what their doing isn't all that great & Sexxy Red isn't a Role Model for little kids to look up to. Same with any other female rapper (or anything other music artist for that matter.) And the parents should know better than to play some adult shit around little kids when they around
thank you i was looking for this, sexyy red doesn’t blatantly advertise towards kids its what the parents allow the child to watch
@@alexiiconner So why did she perform pound town at a high school? You guys sound like puppets repeating the same thing. Hold the artist accountable.
@@alexiiconner I mean, some one had to say it
it doesn't matter whether or not celebrities decide to embody a "role model" or not, it doesn't defeat the reality that literal children look up to them as one. sometimes individuals have to grow up and take responsibility for how they're potentially impacting their community. certain celebrities make children feel seen and heard more than their parents do. some children see these celebrities more than their own parents. certain things have to be taken into consideration.
@@mothersins i getting accountability is a thing & so is being responsible but here we are, I guess
As my grandmother said. If you do not raise your kids, then the world will. This is a classic example. No child should have access to this. Moreover, a 5 year old ahould even have a phone to access this. Play with blocks or actually try to educate them. To many parents would rather hand their child something to shut them up, than to actually parent. We need to do better.
This is so sad for the young generation .
agree 💯
There are too many parents replacing “parenting” with IPADs. Can’t blame her for that.😅
It is so sad how parents just don’t care anymore. They just don’t
Problem is that there’s no discipline in the household. Just complete anarchy.
Parents are thinking it’s someone else’s job to fix their kid and tbh the schools are probably too bad for the parents to think they’re gonna fix anything, school will just make it worse
There's a big lack of accountability on the part of the parents. Parents need to gatekeep. Parents need to parent. As misguided as she obviously is the onus ain't on Sexxy Red.
I remember a time where parents wanted bullshit like this banned now look at the times 🤦🏽♂️
@@retronerds6884 So true.😞
That ballet teacher cares more about the kids than the parents
Speaking facts, the issue is there no balance between inappropriate music and music that positively empowers the next generation. If so it's not being promoted. I'm no parent but some of these parents should not be, letting little kids do whatever they want never a good idea, they become adults and get in trouble and learn, that they were set up to fail and your actions have consequences. I digress keep sharing bro.
There is also a lack of media for children and teenagers. Only media for adults. Kids do not like Disney or Nick. When I was growing up there were shows, music, and stores just for teenagers. Im sad these kids nowadays do not really get to experience that.
There is you just have to find it and most “white” music is appropriate but y’all don’t like that
To be honest, this isn't Sexyy Red's fault. Elementary school kids a decade ago would often listen to 50 Cent, watch South Park, Family Guy and play GTA too. The issue is the parents not having careful conversations with their kids about how to discern entertainment from a healthy mindset. Pointing the finger at Sexyy Red is just a lazy way to make yourself feel better while not solving the problem.
To be fair he only pointed her out because of her tone deaf response against the ballet teacher’s concern
You can have that conversation but for a lot of kids it's just going to go in one ear and out the other.
@@MR12AMAZING It's the parents own fault if they can't get their OWN kids to listen to them
@@jornoa- Sexyy Red can tell her to stfu if she wants, she don't owe her a damn thing
@@MrSquakynot being able to get your kid to listen to you is…sad to say the least. Take that phone away, discipline them, ground them, etc.
I'm so glad my daughter loves her kids music. Me and my sister make sure anything explicit gets turned down or changed immediately. I always get told as a late 20s parent, I have more sense and parent better than most parents and guardians above my age. People have kids and want to live their lives the way they want and that includes having them around all the type of music and behaviors at home. YOU HAVE TO SACRAFICE anything that you want to do, to live a certain way after having children. This shows how many parents are selfish and obviously need parenting classes and just don't care! I teared up hearing this teacher and than the lyrics??? That's what lil girls are listening to??? I never liked sexyred from the day she came out, her music and the way she is, is just way too trashy. 😢
Her, Doja, and Ice Spice are all trash bro, mfs be blowing the wrong people up smh
*What she promotes is detrimental to the youth, like its so sad fr*
It's the youth fault for supporting her.
no. that's not how influence works.@@urasenseii
pretty much all rappers promote detrimental things to the youth, sexy red isn’t the first to do it
@@maydaezyallnare hypocrites yall dont care how drill rap ruined the youth and all sexy red does intake fun music
She doesn't make KID MUSIC she is a grown Àsz woman making music for GROWN ÀSZ WOMEN. Y'all need to raise y'all own kids. 😒 The Youth shouldn't be listening to her and that's her JOB... She pays taxes etc. she is literally an employee and gets paid to promote that so go at the people paying her. Not the employee.
This teacher is just so real.. she is so real to the point I find her really cute.
As someone who is going to turn a teenager I see how music affects the mind but I really don't be listening to music like this because I'm not a fan . I seen other kids my age or younger act mature in a good way and bad way like acting out and stuff it's important to help the generation because we are going to be the next to help set rules and raise another generation which can turn out bad or good
whats sad, it seems she cares more about the kids than the damn parents.😞
I grew up in the hood...I got corrected every time. I once started singing "Oh baby I like it raw" out loud and my mom made me stop. If I ever sing anything my mom would question me if I knew what I was talking about and regardless of my answer, she would tell me not to sing everything I hear like when I started reciting "gimme that sweet, that nasty, that gushy stuff". I normally wouldnt sing stuff out loud, but if I did, I got corrected real quick every time. I knew what lyrics to recite and what not to recite, when I should censor myself during certain parts, and when to not sing at all or who I shouldnt be singing around. Even my moms boyfriend at the time would correct me by saying stuff like "whatchu know about that kinda stuff" in a very angry tone that made me realize okay I just said something I probably shouldnt have. I grew up listening to uncensored DMX, Bone Thugz n Harmony, 2pac, Biggie, Eazy E, NWO, Ice Cube, and so many gangster rappers that talked about sex, drugs, and murder and I knew when to hold and when to fold, and when to just listen and what I could actually rap to. My mom was really young too and despite that and our situation she made sure, and in her words "I stayed in a childs place".
Thank you!! Like, I get parents these days struggle with keeping their kids from hearing and seeing certain things because of social media and the internet BUT at the very least, correct the behavior!!
haha I remember I put on my moms SPM album to show my aunt because the lyrics were so silly to me at the time. Got in sooo much trouble. My mom told me that music was just for me and her ! I didn’t smoke/drink/sex until I was over 18. Im gay now lmao so it’s definitely parenting styles because my little sister is the same way.
I did start to look at her different after she retweeted that tweet with the ballet teacher. It’s not her job to cater her music to any audience. but it is tone def to disregard children, not preteens, reciting raunchy lyrics, for the sake of your music becoming more popular, children being involved in a negative way is where I have to take a step back
Just children🤨anybody under 18, so that includes teens
@@khamrhod8360absolutely but I have to be honest as someone who is 18. I feel like there’s a major difference between an adolescent and a teenager listening to this type of music. I feel there’s is a certain level of maturity you have to have to take in this type of content and that always doesn’t correlate with age. It is still inappropriate for anyone under 18 to listen to this type of music, technically yes but again me personally as a he or she gets older it wouldn’t be as harmful as a sole child
It’s not her fault these kids parents let them listen to her music
@@KSL215 Nah it's definitely her fault, the industry targets kids.
@@KSL215I agree more with the fault being on the parents cause at the end of the day it’s the parents job to raise their kids
I'm scared for the next generation of kids because this shit is getting ridiculous. I also blame these "parents" for letting this shit happen.
I agree. This has been happening for many years. To television to mobile devices. Anything that kids see, will influence them.
I get it, children are very demanding. But putting a moblie device in their face isn't going to help their problems. Like children are not your poverty, they are not people you ignore, they are still young human beings who are still developing.
And the worst excuse that a parent can say that makes me so mad is: "It's my child, I can do whenever with it." NO YOU CANNOT! You cannot just basically just ignore your own child like that. You have to monitor them of what the hell they are watching because there is so much shit that is going on the internet for the past decades.
I agree with the teacher 100%,it's crazy how kid's behave these day's and it's because there parent's ain't parenting.
Man we should normalize allowing these teachers for recreational activities (ie ballet teachers) to not let these kids be in their classes. It’s the parents fault, but ballet isn’t an essential class, and if the child doesn’t want to sit in their spot and learn then what is the point of them even attending the class? i know young girls (esp at that age) struggle with instructions at times anyways, but if they’re not listening at all, and the parents are negligent, it shouldn’t be considered wrong for the teacher to not let them be in the class anymore.
Millennial parents need to collectively take responsibility and address this because Gen Alpha is their offspring. They can't blame Boomers on this one. They give their kids iPads to calm them down instead of disciplining them. They're also the ones to adopt "gentle parenting".
I'm 31 years old. I'm a rapper, I even did a skeeyee remix lol
I keep telling my friends who have kids to not let them listen to MY music....
Millennials are the types of people who adopt the right opinions of an ideology instead of actually being good people.
Which is ironic, because they were so sure they would not become the same Republican parents who believed going to Church would absolve them of their sin rather than being good people.
Yet, here they are. . . . :/
I actually feel my generation (early 20s) are a bit more aware about this stuff than the generation of late 20s and 30s who are currently the majority of parents. My hope is in 10 years when we are having kids there’s a bit more sense.
This video is heartbreaking, it makes me so emotional and I’m not even a mom
When the girl in the video said she was 22, that made me feel even MORE bad for her because I'm literally only a year younger than her😭
Preachers back in 1998-2008, were out spoken about this issue in music and warned of a time when the youth couldn’t be told anything. they got called lame and were ignored.
Community leaders involved with the youth, pointing out this issue and were outspoken about how there’s something wrong with the music and various “cultures” being targeted toward us. They were called lame, haters, and were ultimately dismissed.
Now a whole generation grew up and is seeing what they were warned about decades ago. Wild.
A lot of these problems we are experiencing now there was a warning. Nobody listened.
@@mysticlegion8088 or they where called conspiracy theories used to be a whole section of RUclips that called this shit out decades before this happened 🤦🏽♂️
@@retronerds6884 facts 🤦🏻♂️
People said the same about rock and roll. There is nothing new under the sun.
@@cash8688 where is a song with rock and roll where they detail deleting an op and how they did it with mutiple responses?
These negligent asf parents don't want to parent but play like they do. I am feeling the pain and frustration in this teacher's voice, she can honestly do so much until she finally snaps
I don't like saying this, but in the case of the kids' parents: apples don't fall very far from the tree. If their grandmother didn't set boundaries and rules with their moms when they were young, the young moms are sure as hell not going to do any of that either. It's so very sad
I’m so sick and tired of seeing crap like this. Parents need to do a better job on keeping their kids from being exposed to garbage like this. These parents 100% deserve blame as well.
Salute to that ballet teacher as well as you, Blacky.
My child is gonna listen to 80s music and peaceful music, THATS IT
and watch thomas the tank engine and power rangers.
You dont need to go that extreme
Mine will be listening to Stevie Wonder, Earth Wind & Fire, Musiq Soulchild, Jill Scott, and Paramore (to add some flare in there). Y’all stay safe out there
@KameraKiss wtf is extreme about listening to classics? You weird asf like what
@@KameraKiss i mean if u think about it every other genre is influencing children to do bad so why not listen to a good genre?
Been saying it's an issue for a while
Omg you have???
Great job. Thank you sir :)
I'm thinking back to when I was a kid. I was definitely exposed to shit I was too young for. When I was 4-6 years old, it was all about D12 and G-Unit. They definitely had inappropriate songs about murder, sex, drugs, and crime. My favourite movies also had a lot of violence and sex scenes too. My parents didn't restrict me from these things, but at the same time I wasn't allowed to act out, they made sure i undestood "this behaviour and language isnt appropriate for someone your age" kind of like they respected my intelligence enough to not emulate what id see and hear.
Even though I was exposed to adult media, I was also exposed to children's media, which I also loved. Bike riding, swimming, playing with toys, dressing up I was allowed to be a kid. So all the adult media only consisted of maybe 20% of my entertainment.
These kids need other sources of entertainment and stimulation suitable for their ages, but its clear the parents almost exclusively bring them up on adult content
True 😺
Being brought up on adult content myself, and as a teacher its unhealthy. A lot of people think if things arent so bad, its not bad at all.
This is one of your best content choices to date!!!
Very well narrated on your part and the included portions are well done including reed's lyrics.
I want to mention my voice is a loud, powerful, female and mother.
I turned down a big job when I realized when my child was a few months old, that I could not trust another soul, to guide and protect my son. Of mixed culture, but west indies background I was a volunteer in his classrooms and always there to pick him up and drop him off, until I was offered a supervisor's job. At a catholic school, I proclaimed it was a public school under the guise. I SPOKE TO THE PRINCIPAL & PARENTS all the time. It was the most satisfying as many of them remmemmber how kind and funny I was yet could direct them properly; with love and respect. Children are our gifts ..
there is NO GUIDEBOOK, because it IS SIMPLE:
Love them.
Protect them.
Guide them.
Be their voice for the future. The friends part will come when they are self realized, happy, healthy, and successful.
PROTECT THE CHILDREN!!!!!!!!
Great comment and insight. Thank you for being so outspoken, we need more strong women like you in the world.
Another banger from blackyspeaks been loving the double content videos recently nobody does them like you my boy stay up 🙏
It really made me sad when the ballet teacher started crying
Can we please get SexyRed 15 minutes of fame done and over with. She'll be like most, once her buzz dies down, she will be distraught talking about how she been screwed over. These terrible ass people.
Modern rap is truly in a downward spiral and whats sad is how the kids will turn out. Being 18 I remember how easily influenced i was when i was younger as it wasn’t too long ago. And kids will always be like this, then difference is what is being shown to them
Fax, it wasn't that long ago we was jits out here soaking up what we saw. nowadays this shii is too confusing for these kids bro
It's not a 'Modern rap' problem. You had female rappers like Foxy Brown back in the 90's who rapped about this exact same ratchet shit. The main difference today is the presence of the internet and how widely accessible these forms of content are to people of young ages. Back in the 90's you actually had to have the physical CD to listen to this music but nowadays any person can easily access it.
@@marxwafflez8928 You still a jit
And there will still be people who say she’s not a bad influence. They are delusional. Children are being exposed to too much and i wish social media like TikTok were no longer a thing.
The most messed up thing is Sexyy Red is a mother and going to bring another one into this world.. shame on her and her baby daddies
THANKY YOU SEE BLACKY UNDERSTANDS THE POWER THAT CHILDREN HOLD IN THIS WORLD!
Ballet teacher is taking the childrens' lives more seriously than the parents. Kids today are listening to their favorite tiktok and not common sense of real life.
I’m super glad you actually did a video on my suggestion!!!
I watched the teacher’s video when she first uploaded it. After a few weeks, i saw sexy red’s deleted response and it most definitely didn’t catch major attention like it should’ve.
Artists most definitely ARE NOT responsible for being children’s models when they aren’t artists made for children BUT explicit artist need to stay out of children’s entertainment. Sexy red even shot her “female gucci mane” video involved with CHILDREN at a park and offering free food etc for “turning up” for her music video. If she shot the video differently; it would’ve been perfect but instead, she just HAD TO involve local children. Sexy Red needs to keep adult content (her music + anything involving with her) AWAY from children and the youth. Her music and her persona are not healthy for children. I took a child development class as well as psychology, people need to take care of their kids. They’re marketing and exploiting children as well as exposing them. “I’ll make kids bopz” like how more greedy is sexy red? It’s not just Sexy Red, this has been happening since the 80s and 90s but it’s not an excuse for modern artist to continuously enable it. Adult artists need to stay away from children’s entertainment and children overall. Children regardless need to be protected, major industries try to profit from them.
Thank you for the suggestion I appreciate you 🙏🏾
@@BlackySpeakzno one dares to speak on how drill music is completely dead
Thank God for this channel and ‘The Truth is’ channel! You both are on the right side and exposing the how the music hip hop industry is corrupting our youth with vile sexual music and drill music.
Bless this lady, shes one of the few folks in our generation that sees past the BS that the crowd pushes & actually cares to speak up against it
I never leave a comment but i always agree with everything you say, but honestly, i really just feel like i have to add on to this, its actually insane the point we are in now in society. In no way, shape or form should children of this age be exposed to music or anything like this, hell, back when i was younger my parents would change the channel or cover my eyes if a explicit scene came out on TV. Same would go for music but it was extremely rare they played something explicit while i was in the car or home. Anyways, compare music from early 2010’s to now, back then it seemed to be a bit more like watered down in terms of violence, sex, drug use. Examples: Starships by Nicki Minaj, Headlines by Drake, Hookah by Tyga. But now? Everything is in the forefront. You got pound town, skeeyee, and you got lil kids now like in previous videos you showed of them rapping about killing and murdering all before their 20’s… and it isnt only the hip hop community, im mexican and i be seeing the same thing in like latino music, something very VERY dark and demonic is happening.. i been trying to get closer to god myself 💯🙏 keep the videos up blacky, keep bringing light to all this, its horrifying to see barely a few awakened to all this.
Yeaea Satan wants our children. From the music to the chosen lifestyle, to the homework at school. It's all following an agenda, the agenda is to ruin the kids before they even get the chance to spell the word "ruin". To eventually bring down society and irs standards and rules. Have you read about some of the laws being passed? Some allowing straight up p3d0phillia ... smh
????
Literally 50 cents whole shit, a lot of RNB and many more music were heavily sexual; They get big because they get played in clubs and parties.
It's up to the parents to monitor what they're children are listening to; Because clearly this content was made for adults.
Why should artists babysit your kids? This is just like Rockstar vs parentd again.
@@boxtupos7718it’s about influence, 50 cent didn’t influence these kids like Sexxy Red and other artists.
No REAL father would let their little girl do all that 😢💔
ONG
plain and simple.
Or mother
You don’t need a father to know how to respect yourself. Y’all some clowns 😂
@@szacntrl do I smell a thot 👃?? Hope your kids are being raised right🤣 but I doubt it 🥵
It's crazy what fame and money can do to a person and being humans, innately we want more of what makes us feel good. Sexyy Red's response is like you said, a result of systematic brainwashing and to be honest, it's very devastating to see because the least she could've done was ACTUALLY listen to what the young teacher was saying and expressing. In the end, I believe it's actually down to both creators (Artists) and parents to be conscious at least of the younger generation because they're gonna be here when we're gone. I don't believe in pushing the responsibility on only the parents. Been watching you for a while Blacky and I enjoyed this one, thanks for sharing.
Lust is the most powerful drug in the world, I think this kind of music is destructive around all ages not just children but adults also because if it wasn’t destructive parents would be taking initiative. We live in a soulless world of pleasure and instant gratification, music is magic and this kind of music promotes meaning less hookups with results into kids without proper parenting, modern day music also leads to destruction which results into people taking other people’s lives, and depression across society, music is deeper then just a tune that people play, it’s literal magic
I'll never look at the colors " pink "and "brown" the same again..
I want to cry for that ballet teacher & all teachers in this day & age. I can't imagine how frustrating it must be. 😢😭
17:07 Honestly, the truest statement on here. It's honestly sad. It's upsetting how these souless, heartless, emotionless, and talentless artists, are getting such high numbers. I've always knew that your worst work usually gets the most popular, but they, are an entirely escalated level of that fact.
These types of artists also get heavily pushed by the industry and the powers that be.
This semester, I was in a Ethnic Studies class (which is basically code word for African American studies because of you know, the whole ban shenanigans going on but that’s besides the point). There were these girls who sat on the right of where I was in the room and they were so disrespectful to the teacher. It seemed like everyday they would be blasting their music to the point where we could hear it over the lessons, having conversations that spoke over the teacher despite him asking them nicely to stop. And it was already bad enough that they would be on their phones majority of the time during the lessons (Im not even gonna lie I was on my phone too but I was actually interested in the lessons). Then one day, one girl from that same group was arguing with this girl in the back of the room for taking a picture of her and airdropping it to the class. They were just yelling like they had no fucking sense and that must’ve been the teacher’s breaking point right there cuz he yelled REALLY loud at them to shut up (mind you that he warns them not to get on his bad side on a daily). I feel really bad cuz I know that he genuinely cares about we were learning in that class and they were taking advantage of that and being disrespectful. Ironically, we were talking about this rapper that the teacher was familiar with and he kinda joked how nowadays we only listen to rappers like Sexy Redd. 😂
Thanks for another great video. I feel sorry for society as a whole. It's only going to get worse.
In America:
(When a teacher cares.. the parents demotivate the teacher’s will to care).
(When the teacher doesn’t care.. the parents call out the teacher for not caring for their children).
**IT IS A LOSE LOSE SITUATION**
It’s not just America. Stop picking on America for no reason. Ain’t there a war going on over there because they wanna be racist and kill people? Oh ok
It all starts AT HOME.
I agree and feel bad for these teachers. Teachers need parents who are positive and involved.
The problem is we have fatherless children raising fatherless daughters.
The really sad part is that this kind of music only serves to repeat and continue that cycle. As an industry plant it then becomes clear this this is, by design, an agenda...and I'll just leave it at that.
I'm not even disagreeing with you, and I won't.
But I've seen enough dads introduce their kids to adult content at like 6-7 years of age. Many times I see little boys inappropriately touching CLOTHED mannequins while their dad's laugh in the background and mum looks horrified.
ik you might think I'm making this a 'oh no you're holding this party accountable so I'll defend them' situation, but believe me I'm not. I've seen single mothers in my country and their kids grow up to have excellent moral conduct because our moms are strict asf, one foot out of line and they'll have it, and I mean it.
what these kids need, is a better education system and a ban on social media. when these parents realise that there's a world outside useless social media dances and look into the humongous curriculum their kids have, everything will fall into place. and of course, two responsible loving parents who also love each other.
Artists like Sexyy Red are the ops for our community. No respect from me tbh
She’s a living stereotype that will forever have people thinking we all behave that way and think that way.
After watching that video of the ballet teacher, i feel it's honestly a parental issue. When a parent denies everything a teacher says without even talking with their kid first, this is to me an obvious sign of someone so delusional that they should never have had a kid in the first place. All these kids acting outrageous because their parents are not parenting, giving all these kids access to whatever they want through social media as you said...
Sexyy Red is a complete bozo for that statement, but we all knew that already. Just look at her. 5 year olds being disrespectful to their teacher for no good reason is a parent's issue, and it's infuriating hearing these stories knowing that these types of parents should NEVER EVER HAVE EVEN GOTTEN CLOSE TO GETTING A CHILD!!!!!
I feel so sorry for the young kids with parents who clearly don't actually care for their kids, and got children just because they felt like they had to or because they want a mini-version of themselves to help pay the bills.
It pisses me off seeing these delusional and ignorant parents creating and raising complete narcicist idiots. "He was such a good kid omg he was always so kind to his mama😭"