She is 13 it shouldn’t be up for discussion to date. She is a child!!!! Stand strong as a Mom. So many young girls have to learn lessons the hard way and it’s unfortunate. A boy/girl can tell them anything to make them think it’s love and have them running away . Since this is not the first time you have dealt with issues from her where she had to go live with the dad before you may want to consider sending her to a girls group home to help her before more damage is done. It will hurt, but it will save her. Sending prayers from SC.
@@blackcherry6877on one of the post I thought she said 16 but then she said 13 so I’m confused with the age. I’m not understanding how a 13 year old as a runaway can not be picked up from the house she is at!
When a 13 year old runs away to avoid consequences, you should not go looking for that child, calling her friends, etc. You should calmly inform the child that if she's not back by "such and such" time to face the consequences, you are calling the police. You should never give this type of behavior power and a lot of attention by letting this child see you blaming yourself, begging and crying, letting her know you can't sleep, etc. Plain and simple, call the police so that you have a written record that she is currently not under your supervision...1st step. Again, if you give this behavior power, like what you are currently doing, you are encouraging her to do it again whenever she does not want to face consequences for her bad behavior. Take back your power!!! How? Stop begging and pleading and searching for her. And when she comes back, you need to punish her!!! And if she runs away again, put her in a group home where they will have rules and a curfew!! She's going to wish she never ran away. TAKE BACK YOUR POWER!!! Right now, she knows she has power over you. And another thing: you need to turn her phone off right now!
Now THIS IS CORRECT!! And it’s also gentle parenting! What people don’t understand. You don’t engage in the nonsense. You give them a chance to do what will benefit them and then inform them of the consequences. These are NATURAL consequences btw when a child runs away.
At this point I think she likes all the attention she’s getting from this. Look at how she’s not even there and yet she’s STILL the focal point of your entire day. Your entire mood. Your other kids mood. You have 3 other children to care and love for yet she’s dictating every single thing you do. I know it’s hard but for the sake of your sanity and your other children; try to focus on eating, getting some sleep, and gaining your peace back.
And jazz it’s going crazy and crying and recking herself and that girl don’t give 2 shits! Let her go she needs to learn point blank ! I have a daughter like her and mine is almost 30 , years everyone bent over backwards for her ! Gave it all to her !!!! She still making a mess of her life ! I wish I would have let her learn at 13 ! Cause my daughter still to today doesn’t care about no one but herself / my heart is breaking for jazz and the other kids for what. Selfish little girl is putting them through
The fact that the mom would go to the police for you putting her information out there but wouldn't come to you to give you your daughter back it's wild. It shows what type of people that she is around, I'll pray for her to come back home safe
Exactly!! I said this in the last vuelo. Whoever the adult is has to be a drunk or on drugs & jazz just confirmed it. My cousin doing rhe same, letting a 15 yr old lay up with her 17 yr old son & ain't called nobody & she drinks alot. Then always saying the girl don't help clean up, first of all she should be at your own house cleaning up
Let Makayla learn the hard way. Let her experience the foster system. This type of disrespect is beyond her just coming home at this point. Your other three children deserve the best version of you. Makayla is ungrateful!
What’s so confusing is how the boyfriend’s mother is letting all this slide. There is now way as an adult I would allow a 13 year old child to lay in my home without informing the parent. Getting in contact with the proper authorities if I felt like abuse or neglect was the reason for her running away. I pray Makayla wakes up and go home but she may have to see how real this world is before she does.
I dont understand any of that either.. very odd for the LE to have rules like that, i would be flipping out also, i just wish we could all be around Jazz and hug her and support her as best we can, i know she sees comments though. breaks my heart,
Ain’t no way law enforcement is condoning this kind of behavior from another parent. Makayla should have been place in a Group Home if anything the system should have have step in to mediate the situation, and hopefully reunite Makayla. All States have resources that’s supposed to protect the Family as a whole. Counseling , therapy, Something. Where is the empathy and compassion for Jazz. At this point she needs to Make some phone calls and take the necessary steps to file a Complaint against the police department. If something happens the Department is liable. SMDH. Praying for you Jazz and Makayla
Didn't she say she hasn't eaten in 3 days and has a busted lip(Makayla)? The boy is beating on her? I had to rewatch. I didn't understand that part. So this is happening and the mother is allowing this🤔 Then the mother is going to the police about harassment?!?
Girl, you better wipe them tears and stop begging and pleading. You have 3 other children in your home that’s watching this whole thing play out. They need to understand as well as she does that this type of disrespect is unacceptable and won’t be tolerated no matter how much I love you! Watching you cry, plead and beg doesn’t show that. If she comes back home today, unfortunately she’s gonna be more disrespectful than when she left because of how everyone is coddling her during one of the most disrespectful acts she’s put on yet. So the lesson won’t be learned. Love and pray for her and though these videos are therapeutic for you and entertaining for the audience, refrain from posting about her. Allow her to miss you and her siblings and not have the luxury of seeing or hearing y’all via RUclips, don’t share a next move or conversations you’ve had with the police. Leave her clueless. I’m not a parent that’s against soft parenting where soft parenting works. In this case I truly think you need to step back, calm down, breath and regroup. 💛
Some children feed of negative attention and seems like this daughter may be one of them it best she leave talking bout her off the camera instead of playing into her hands as like she said previously she knows her daughter watches her stuff when she was asking people to directly leave her daughter messages on her comments
The mom can and should be charged with contributing to the delinquency of a minor. Girl stop crying and leave her to the consequences of her own choices.
Parents aren’t the only influencers of our kids. We live in a social media led society now and they are exposed to more than just us. Jazz try not to be so hard on yourself-I know it’s hard- but you only have so much control. They have their own will even at 13. Keep her lifted up in prayer.
Jazz I am a mother of 8.....A little advice.... when your daughter comes home....pack up you and your kids stuff and move to another state! You have been having alot of spiritual attacks in NY sis. I uprooted me and my kids before and left my home town...sometimes you gotta bounce and protect you and your babies and start over. God bless to you and your babies .
Moving isn’t going to stop a spiritual attack. You have to pray in the spirit against the spiritual attacks. ”For though we walk in the flesh, we do not war after the flesh: (for the weapons of our warfare are not carnal, but mighty through God to the pulling down of strong holds;) casting down imaginations, and every high thing that exalteth itself against the knowledge of God, and bringing into captivity every thought to the obedience of Christ;“ 2 Corinthians 10:3-5 KJV
How is the adult holding her not being charged with hiding a runaway?! Press charges right back! Continuing to pray for you. You are in the fight of your life for your baby, keep fighting you know what’s best for her -more than any cop, any other adult, any body else. Praying your load gets lighter as you are focused on handling what’s in front of you.
@@somebodylying unfortunately NY has a different set of laws. It doesn’t seem like harboring a runaway is in their laws. The more I looked into it this is a problem across the board in both NY and California. There are parents signing petitions which state the police basically told them unless the child says they are being abused in the house they ran away to, they can’t do anything about it.
Sending lots of hugs! You’re an amazing mom! I love that you as a parent apologize to your kids. I wish as a child I heard those apologies. When I had my kids, I promised I would always apologize when I’m wrong. Keep going Jaz, 💪🏾 this storm will be over soon.
Friend, dont lose your freedom. You still have other children. Turn her phone off, let her stay where she chose, & stay free for the other babies. You are an awesome Mama, I thank God for keeping you in this season. 🙏🏽 🙏🏽🙏🏽
My heart goes out to you. But as a mom myself and someone who was 13 and crazy at one point, you have to let her go. She has to learn the hard way. Let the state handle it. She will find out what she has at home. Don’t keep doing the same thing and expecting a different outcome. You’re hurting her by letting her continue this. Giving her everything she wants teaches her nothing.
This is what’s wrong with the system. A 13 year old should not have the “right” to run away from a good home because they don’t like rules. The cops and cps see she has a mom fighting for her, trying to find her and bring her home. They should have to do a wellness check at the house she is at and remove her. Sending you so much love and strength.
I’ve experienced the same problem in a whole different state. The police just keep saying “it’s not against the law for them to run away”. The system is so messed up! It does not truly support or back up parents. This kind of behavior from police makes the child think they are untouchable and only makes their behavior worse.
This is horrible. As a mother myself I don’t even know how I would handle it. You’ve done so much to guide this little girl, you’ve gave her everything and you’ve gone every avenue. You aren’t to blame jazz.
Sometimes giving too much backfires, and unfortunately it wasn't enough for her. This isn't her first rodeo with boys as shes mentioned in this video. Shes experienced it before in NC with her dad and got away with til she wanted to come home to mom again. Sad
This is Bullshit!!! To hear that another mother is condoning this is absolutely absurd to me and more so the response from the police breaks my heart. I'm so sorry this is happening . WTH!!! This makes me so angry..If a parent can't turn to the police for help, who can you turn too. How is it a 13 year old gets to decide she doesn't want to come home and the police does nothing to help the parent. So messed up on all levels.
@@tndeewhat are they gonna do 😂take her home so as soon as they leave she can do it again ? THOUSANDS OF CHILDREN RUN AWAY EVERY YR ! She obviously needs to learn the hard way so Jasmine needs to let her
@@HOLLYWOODJACKSON5 yes. She did the best she could as a mother. But as a mother myself I think we sometimes have to let them learn the hard way when they don’t listen. I know pushed my mom to make me learn the hard way. It sucked but I recognized once I was in court for not going to school
This is heartbreaking. I’m new to your channel but I can already see the genuine love you have for your kids even the one that’s acting up right now. Cry it out sis, it’s ok. My prayers go out to you and yours sweetie. Stand your ground, you are NOT wrong🙏🏾❤️
This is why I DO NOT COMPROMISE WITH CHILDREN. MY RULES ARE MY RULES. Praying for your family. Honestly if it were my child, that lady would’ve had a better reason to put a charge on me than just giving her address up and that’s on GOD. It’ll be on the news not RUclips.
I am a 17 year old young woman and I have been watching your videos for some time now but I relate to this so much because when I was 14 I was wildly acting out like from stealing cars, to be fast and cursing and disrespecting my mom , and running away and being sneaky.... I did it all yoo at the age of 14 I had child protective services in my life and was on parole and went in and out of mental hospitals all at 14... I regret everything I did to my mother till this day. My mother provided everything that I needed but it was my environment and my actions that caused my actions. Now I'm two years sober and off probation and I'm not stealing or cursing and I give my mom everything... I know for a fact that the material things doesn't matter and sometimes you have to let them hit the ground to notice what they have... To realize that they messed up and they have to choose whether or not to change there actions for the better or the worst... Ik my mom gave me everything I needed.. I was good.. and I was the oldest child of four and I had to grow up with my mom so she could be better as a whole for my siblings....You jasmine are the best parent and doing all you can and your doing so much for your kids than most...I'm proud of you frfr as a 17 year old who did the same things to mines hurts me for life and this world ain't for kids yoo...keep your head up Jas you have other kids too mama... She wants the attention and she knows you'll go all out for her...She knows where you'll hurt the most and how to keep you there...but she is also going thru whatever she is going thru... you've done all you can and your still finding the strength to keep going ,I'm so sorry yoo I don't wish this upon no one literally stay prayed up and you will be in my prayers all of you... I am not ashamed of my story i lived my truth and i will tell mines to always help someone else's. i hope this has kinda help in some type of way...
I definitely feel for you as a parent. If you know in your heart you’ve done all you can do maybe it’s time you go to the family court and have her a ward of the state and placed in a controlled setting where she can receive on site therapy & supervision. Then maybe after time she’ll be able to appreciate what she had at home. I will continue to pray for the best outcome for you and your family 🙏🏾
Yep, I support this 100%. Time to let go and let God but she needs to make it legal. Some kids have to learn the hard way. Her daughter unfortunately is one of them.
I totally agree go to court and make her award of the state and let god and let go. I know this is your child but sometimes u have to do what’s best for u and your other children
We’ve all been a teenager before and I can guarantee something bigger is going on. There’s no way I’m leaving my mother’s home to go literally struggle on the streets. I’m not wishing this on you Jazz but I think she already might be with child and too scared to come to terms with it. I pray that this is NOT the case but something is just not adding up here. Baby girl if you’re reading this, nobody is going to have your back like your mother. And that’s coming from a college-educated, 35 year old woman with 2 children and an amazing husband/father living a comfortable life. You will ALWAYS need or want your own mom ❤
I kinda feel the same way like is she really embarrassed about what she did or is she scared her momma gone take her to the hospital wen she come back like girl what is it
Something has happened to Mkayla whether at home or, or somewhere else , and she is battling with it… aside from already being put thru alot . After seeing the video of Jazzy talking to her in the kitchen , I absolutely do not agree with being that transparent with your kids , and talking to your kids as their your friend .. cussing and talking crazy doesnt make a child be a good a child . But like my daughter told me when i apologized for all my parenting mistakes “ we all only live this life once “ were all learning as we go .. so i get it .. but regardless I hope mkaylas ok .
I don't usually comment, but let me tell you what I told a friend: When these little boys get in these girls' ears telling them they love them, there's nothing a parent can do. When you've done everything right, don't stress!! One day, that boy is gonna find another girl, then she'll be running home crying. Just continue to parent your other kids. I see your pain, but you've done excellent as a mom. You just can't at this time compete with the guy she thinks loves her. And as far as the mom is concerned, she is gonna be the one to open the door for her to leave when her son is done, and to open the door for the next girl he entertains. She's a horrible mom and person!!
Facts! His mom is a terrible person for that. & I can understand being upset about being doxxed that’s a crime but she needs to talk to Jaz. That’s extremely disrespectful but goes to show what type of energy she’s up against.
Yup, it's gonna take for that boy to move on to the next girl or she pisses his mother off and she puts her out... I don't understand the legal system and why there can't be charges brought again this horrible woman
or even the adult that is harboring an underage teen, maybe she will have conflict in her home now mm🤔They are not called rebellious teens for nothing, who wants somone one elses teenager! Very strange, she isnt an older teen she has a lot of teenagering to do😬 @@mtnewt1
Every generation seems to get worse. I did some silly stupid stuff as teenager, worse than my mother. My daughter pushed the envelope and did so much more than me. This is the reason she never wants kids and definitely not a girl. She is 33 now. We are very close, same as me and my mom became. Everything we dealt with was a bridge to each other. Hugs to you and your daughter!
My Lord please please for the sake of your other three children, for the sake of your freedom, please bow out. I know it hurts so much but you cannot keep going through this. Sometimes you have to give it to God and wash your hands. My mother was locked up almost a year behind my twin siblings doing exactly what Makayla is doing right now and thats when my mother let go. She never stopped loving them just could not take the chaos anymore. It was damaging her health, her sanity, her realationship with the rest of us. And at almost 40 they are still the same being enabled by the public or anyone who will believe their lies. Please do whats best for yourself and your other children. You've done all you could do. I'm praying so hard for you all🙏🏽 no real mother deserves this. You can't keep fighting. You have to see her for what shes showing you. Not what you want to believe she is.
@@BlessedBeyondMeasure403 She's not giving up on her. She's done everything she could do in this moment. She has three other children she has to focus on and it isn't fair they aren't allowed to have her fully because of what's going on. She has risked her freedom, if she goes who takes care of the others, if she's sick because of the stress who makes sure they are ok. It's the safest decision as a whole. You cannot save someone who doesn't want to be saved. You cannot pour more into a person then what they are willing to pour into themselves. That's a hard pill to swallow but true. It actually might be the only way to actually help her.
Girl it’s 2am and I’m up thinking about you. I been seen this video when you posted it but it just keeps replaying in my head because I have a young child and this could be any of us. Girl I’m praying ya babygirl gets home safely.! Its bad right now but that’s just because your new year is gonna be GREAT. Keep ya head up mamas PLS! 💕
5 people in a 2 bedroom apartment is not the worst thing in the world. Stop beating yourself up about it. You are a good mom and I’m sorry for saying this but Mikayla might need to go to a group home, it’s unfair to the other children for their lives to be disrupted. Mikayla is picking her path sad to say and I know she’s your child but most likely any piece of a child that was left of her is probably gone because of the things she’s already done and things that may have been done to her. She needs some help and it’s ok for you to need help with her. I’m speaking from having an older sibling who constantly ran away from home and my mom would literally stop our lives for him. We missed out on things because my mom would stop everything every time he ran away. I’m also thinking Mikayla told that mom something about you or something in your household and I’m not saying anything happened but that’s really the only way I can see a mother allowing a child in their home is if Mikayla made an accusation about you or someone in your family/friends.
I’ve been watching these videos with my 13 year old and she says “i won’t take my mother for granted like this” even she sees that you’re a good mother!
Ok Sis straight I'm a New Yorker so I'm here with you. Jazzy when I tell you to give it to God and let her go I'm speaking from experience. Makayla is my daughter all over again and she's 46. I knew Makayla was sexually active when she went down south and when you 1st. posted the runaway I thought she's pregnant. STOP BEATING YOURSELF UP CAUSE IT AIN'T NOTHING YOU DID. There is only 1 reason a child acts out on this level and once it's done it changes them sometimes for good. Jazzy you're smart read between the lines. Keep Your heart open to Makayla, while you pour into your other kids. If you don't get back on track Makayla will take you down with her. I been there done that so I can speak on it. My daughter? When a person doesn't heed God, Wise Counsel or their Parents seener or later God gives them over to an insane mind...that is my Daughter today. Let her be where she is just keep her in Prayer. I Pray God gives you Peace and Rest Jazzy.
Yes, I believe she is already pregnant. The doll was dropping hints. The boy's mother allowing her to be there, is another hint. I pray for her and her daughter because these mother/son combos can be dangerous to a young pregnant girl (watch the news). While the cops may be unwilling to help, maybe child welfare can because it is a separate thing (no crime is being committed).
@@bigg_body_benzz right, I’m thinking maybe the boys mom is either letting her get an abortion and sending her back to Jazz or sum bc idk why she would be keeping somebody else child
It breaks my heart seeing your pain and understanding as a mother how hard it is to protect our children 💔 😔 I'm sending many prayers 🙏🏾 and hugs 🫂 to you ❤ and most importantly strength💪🏾
This is CRAZY! THIS WOMAN HAS SOMEONE ELSE'S 13 YEAR OLD CHILD AT HER HOME AND THIS IS OKAY! She had the nerve to get her funky a$$ up and filed harassment charges?! This is crazy!. I'm so sorry Jasmine. Lord I pray father God returns your child unharmed.
I’ve been following you since day one and you’ve always been a great parent! I’m praying she comes home sooner than later , your hands are tied. She’s going to have to go through her journey and realize she’s made a mistake . Keep doing what you can as her mom but that’s all you can do ❤️ sending love , hugs and prayers
That mother is garbage. For her to be running interference and not even having a conversation with you? Insanity. It's hard to have to let our children learn the hard way, but Mikayla is gonna have to learn the hard way. And watch how they do her when the other mother gets tired and starts tryna flip the script. 😢 My heart hurts for you Jazzy.
Wow the police make me so angry when it comes to rights for parents! I went through the same thing with 2 of my now adult daughters. The first, I thought was off the chain with things she did, but babyyyyy that second one almost took me out with the antics she did, cussing out,calling me a bad mother,telling me she will effing kill me,call cps on me and the list goes on and on! I still suffer from ptsd! I didn’t gentle parent, however I was a cusser and yelled which as time has gone on I’ve learned better ways to communicate with my younger children. I see you and I feel every fiber of the hurt you are felling because I was you! I adopted all but 2 of my sisters children that would be 5 and I know I was a good mother, but like you I questioned everything,trying to remember if I did something and just didn’t remember. At the end of the day no, I didn’t do anything wrong except loving and giving too much! They feel like I owe them whatever they want no matter what they do. My youngest even told me ,#itch you can’t kick me out I’m a minor, when I did call the police because she threatened to harm me, she looked them right in the eye and told them many people are threatened, was she harmed NO, now get F out of my face and they did! Told me to go in my room and lock the damn door! I’m trembling as I write this! Just know it’s NOT YOUR FAULT! Sometimes you have to let go and let God! Oh and trust me the other children are watching! Please get them some counseling and yourself, because the behavior trickles down!Praying for you and your family! ❤
This absolutely breaks my heart. I have watched you take care of your kids for years, and I never seen you hurt or neglect them. This is so sad and I’m definitely praying for you. No one deserves to go through this with their kids and I’m praying for your peace and your kids peace. This is wild
As a mother this breaks my soul😢 I been watching and waiting for an update. I have watched ur channel from the beginning and watched the kids grow. As a mother who have an 18 now but I went through the same thing when my daughter turned 14. U will get through this❤🙏🏾
This is why our parents were so strict and am happy they were I had my first boyfriend at 18 became at 13 I don’t even know what boyfriend is am focused on school. This generation ones they clock 13 they think they grown Even at 10 they thinking about a boy.
Makayla this message for you. Please reach out to your mother. She does not deserve this. What ever you have done, you all can get through this. Your mom is in pain. Please Makayla I beg you please go home. There is no place like home. She loves you, and we do too!
I thought if you were under 18 years old the police make them come back home. My brother ran away at 16 and the police brought him back and they will arrest the parent for harboring a runaway minor. Shame on the adult she's staying with for real! God is with you Jazzy. Stay strong.❤
I believe depends on the state and asge of the child nowadays. Back in the day they didn't play these games or your ass went to a detention center. She 13 in which your able to make those decisions on where you wanna be also. Form what it giving they don't consider her to be in harms ways.
@@JozzyJah111 exactly. My mom rescuee her niece from human trafficking in Florida, and when she didn't get her way or couldn't seduce a man in her presence she'd act out and run away. My mom got tired and the state did too and out her in detention centers and even maximum prison in South Carolina til she was 18. Her last place she and another girl ran away and roamed the streets for months. If the child ain't got blonde hair and blue eyes they ain't too much worried about em.
Jazz STOP!!! It’s not about how you treat your kids you’ve pleaded your case. Your daughter will do what she wants to do and as a parent we can only do so much. Prayers for a safe return but do not beat yourself up for something you can’t control. It’s a struggle as a single parent to be accountable for all kids. Praying for you boo 🙏🏽
As a mother I have been in this same exact seat , son ran away at 12 ..use to try and fight me physically, had no support his grandmother in fact she use to encourage the bad behavior . now my son is 23 years old and can fully understand why I had to give him tough love .. no one cares like a mother does . Jazzy you are me and totally get this .. all I can say is continue to be the best mom you can be .. this parenting thing ain’t come with no manuscript .. and try to get some talk therapy for yourself .. I’m all for mommy support groups .. we need more of that especially in the black community!!
My heart goes out to you and I can definitely feel some of the things you're going thru.... my daughter just turned 13 January 4th and Im a single mom and do the most most for this kid... im talking going all out by myself. But I feel she is growing up, lil attitudes, very unappreciative, and just starting to become a whole diff person. I pray that God guides me through these teenage years bc this generation is out of hand. Sucks my mom passed so I dont really even have my mom to go to. I'm just praying my daughter doesnt become so influenced by all her peers bc she is an only child and that God guides her in the right direction. I've been watching your videos and just praying for you and your daughter and praying God guides and her and keeps her safe and hopefully wakes her up to realize the strong amazing mother that she has.
i remember when my son gave us so many problems at one time we had him admitted . no joke it broke my heart but as a mother we had no choice . today he is a successful RN and a dad of 3 kids . please have hope
Hey Jazzy. I’m 27, I remember my mom going thru this with my little sister when she was around your daughter’s age. My sister is 21 and back in a similar situation and to see my mom as stressed as she is now, triggers me from the past. If your daughter doesn’t want to come home turn her over to the authorities. And seek counseling while she’s in there. My mom did (STILL DOES) everything for my sister and she treats us like poop on the curb until she needs something. This is not your fault but if you’re like my mom STOP Coddling her. If she wants to be disrespectful give her the basic needs to survive (shelter, food and love) outside of that make her earn everything. I wish you well on this journey, please speak with family, friends or community group (in person or online) and know that you are not the only mom with a child who has gone astray!!! Much love.
No to be honest. As a mother myself I can’t even fathom another MOTHER seeing you go through this and keeping your child just because like I don’t get that. Praying for you and her ❤. I hope Makayla understands that every action comes with a consequence and that life isn’t easy 🥺.
Jazz Don't beat yourself up. When I raised my children I gave them my very best. There were days I didn't eat so they could, broke my neck to get them what they need and some of what they wanted. I had my daughter at 15 when I was too young to even work. Was abandoned by my parents at 14 so I was a mother to my baby and lil sister. There was no time to be a child because I was forced into adulthood. Your baby just don't know how blessed she is to have a parent that cares. Wether it's a room or two, at least she has that. I was worrying about how we were going to eat. When they got older, every sacrifice I made they told me it wasn't good enough. I cried because I gave them my best but then I checked myself and got it together. We go through so much as parents. I raised 3 kids, my middle child was the worst. He was the child that loved to challenge me. The oldest tried standing up to me and the youngest stayed out the way. Now the youngest suicidal and on drugs, middle in prison and oldest doing good. As much as I hate to say this, life gotta raise her. She gone wish it didn't but that's what's going to break her. When she cut tired of being drug through the streets, she'll come home. I wish you could press charges against the parent for kidnap. You know wherever she's at there's no parental guidance. I'm praying God protect her from drugs, molestation, abuse and anything that could happen to her. Praying God send her back home. Hold on Ma, you got people praying with you .. Stay Strong
I’m still praying Jasmine. You are an awesome mother and don’t let anyone tell you any different. God has you covered and very soon Makayla will be home. Shame on the adults who are not doing the right thing by you and Makayla 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
My heart and prayers are with you, mom. As a mom, I understand and feel your pain and pray that the Lord will give you the strength, clarity, and support that you need to weather this storm. 😢🙏🏽
Jazz you are an amazing mother! Don't let nobody out here tell you any different. The adults that went to the station should be ashamed of themselves. Instead of taking the word of a 13 year old they should have called and spoke with her parents. I'm for you and your family.
No ma’am! You better let her know who the Mother/Parent is, otherwise she is going to get worse and will continue to disrespect you and your household! You are the mother stand your ground, if not it will not be long before your other children follow in her footsteps!
Heavenly Father, we come to you today to say thank you for allowing us to see another day and another year. We are interceding on behalf of Jazzy and her family, Lord. All parties involved are hurting and need your healing and peace that surpasses all understanding. God, your word says all things work together for the good for those who love the Lord and are called according to his purpose. God, we pray that you will show Jazzy and her family how you can turn our worst situations into a blessing and testimony for others. Bless her baby girl. Soften the hearts of the adults who are harboring and hiding this child. Let them come forward and release this child to the authorities so that she can get the help she needs. Be the source of strength and the rock for the ENTIRE family and keep their minds during this difficult and stressful time. We humbly pray for these things and repent of our sins because none of us are worthy of your grace and mercy, yet you give it to us anyway, and this situation could happen to ANY parent. We act as prayer warriors and intercede on behalf of the family. We know that you can and will turn it around. We will continue to pray without ceasing because we trust you and you are not a man who should lie. In the mighty name of Jesus Christ we pray, Amen 🙏🏾 ❤
Makayla can’t have you and the mom and boyfriend meet because her lies will be exposed. I pray that she finds her way back home. Life has a way of teaches us all lessons and you’re trying to spare your daughter some of these hard lessons. I hope she finds out sooner rather than later. You’re a good mom Jazz. We see through the devil and his attacks. You are blessed.
THIS IS A CHILD!!! It does NOT matter if THE CHILD “wants to be there”. If this boy’s mother is HARBORING A MINOR SHE IS THE CRIMINAL AND SHOULD BE ARRESTED ASAP!!! NOT being able to press charges against THE MOTHER OF THE CHILD!!! And THE POLICE sitting there telling A MOTHER THIS IS CRAZY TO ME!!!! Because if a mother hits THEIR child THEY can be arrested. WTF!?! PRESS CHARGES AGAINST THAT WOMAN ASAP‼️‼️‼️ IT IS AGAINST THE LAW TI HARBOR A MINOR‼️‼️‼️Even IF the lies Makayla is telling what “true”.,. SHE DOES NOT GET TO DECIDE THAT SHE CAN GO LIVE WITH HER BOYFRIEND‼️‼️‼️ @JustJazzy YOU HAVE TO GO TO THE COURT and GET HER TO BE A WARD OF THE STATE., PRESS CHARGES AGAINST THAT WOMAN TOO!!! Under NO CIRCUMSTANCES are you to allow this CHILD, that 15 yr old boyfriend, and DEFINITELY NOT HIS POS MOTHER dictate to you ABOUT YOUR CHILD and HOUSEHOLD. For all you know Jazzy THAT WOMAN and her son may be pimping your daughter out. Especially if he’s beating her. SOMETHING AIN’T RIGHT WITH THAT WOMAN and HER SON. AND WHOEVER ELSE IS IN THAT HOUSE!!! 15:43 What do you do??? YOU CAUSE THE HELL FOR MAKAYLA. I know you’re worrying about losing your daughter Jazzy., but YOU WILL LOSE HER EITHER WAY. At least by YOU taking control as the mother, you save you, your other children. Even Makayla in the long run. It’s time to stop the gentle parenting and start with TOUGH love. Trust me. My mother had to handle me that way at one point. Makayla will get over it eventually and respect you and love you for it as she gets older. You CAN’T “spare her”. She’s NOT sparing you. If YOU were to allow your child to runaway and didn’t report it, they stop going to school, etc. YOU are held responsible. YOU NEED TO GO TO THE COURT ASAP and ASK FOR A “PINS HEARING & WARRANT” (person in need of supervision). ww2.nycourts.gov/COURTS/nyc/family/faqs_pins.shtml And get that boyfriend’s mother ARRESTED. WHAT SHE IS DOING IS ILLEGAL!!! codelibrary.amlegal.com/codes/bixbyok/latest/bixby_ok/0-0-0-2903 ocfs.ny.gov/programs/youth/rhy/find-help.php And find this agency in NYC. He’s an ex cop who will help you with a runaway child. ruclips.net/video/Ke9HOE0Y8bI/видео.htmlsi=3a5gc4_i8dixYi8r
Jazzy her not having her own room is not the problem. She had her own room at her dads and still acted out. I think your a great mom. Im 71 and can cuss like a sailor but I watch it around kids. Different generation. Not trying to tell you what to do. Hope you get your baby home soon.
When I was in a 2 bedroom with my 3 kids I gave up my bedroom for them so they had the 2 rooms and I hooked up my living room one section was my room and another section living room and I brought a divided from amazon a nice one. And no matter what the living situation is they have a warm roof over their heads they eat everyday they have more then what they need I have been following u for a while and u a good parent. When my daughter wants to go out i take them and wait in the parking lot idc i take my tablet little wifi box etc a book snacks im not letting her go no where by herself and she just turned 15 the way the sex trafficking is i rather her be mad then god forbid
I just wanna give you the biggest hug Jazzy ❤️❤️ Kids don't understand, it's sad how ungrateful these kids are. I'm gonna pray God can change her heart and mind. Imagine thinking you're grown and can do grown shit at 13 smh
Jazzy, if your daughter has a social worker, now is the time to ask them for help so they can get the police to pull her out of those people’s house, plus she is being abused getting hit by him. If you get social workers, you will have a stronger bond to help.
Im worried that you may get to a point where you may not want her back. Peace is something that not many have the luxury off. You have other children that need you and its not fair to them to have their mom so broken over a child who is taking advantage of her mothers love. I am so sorry that you and the other children are going through this and I pray for a resolution.
Jazzy I am sorry. I have ran away and had issues within myself and projected that on my mom. The fact I am a mother myself now, I would have never known without your content this is how my mom felt every time I left or lied.
As a mom myself, time for tough love, and you have to protect your other children. You have to also take a minute and stand still and pray and honey keep being the great mom you are!
No baby don’t question yourself at all. My son is 27 and is so disrespectful, he didn’t run away but I did and I questioned myself until God had to whoop me to let it go and give it to HIM. I wasn’t perfect but I bust my behind as 16 years old single mom and I always got compliments about how he was so mannered and respectful. Pray baby and trust in the Lord. You got to move out HIS way love. Not stop anything you’re doing because no one could stop me and unfortunately I’ve been there and the hurt is indescribable. My point DO NOT BLAME YOURSELF! For one these new age kids have something to prove and it’s targeted at the closest person to them. Baby every night at 9pm I will pray for you and I ask you to pray about joining me in the spirit at 9pm if I can’t do anything I can pray love, try to trust in the Lord ❤️ I’m with you
This popped up on auto play and hearing it broke my heart! You’re a strong ass woman because as a single mother of a 17 year old daughter living in Brooklyn myself… I would’ve disconnected her phone, and signed over my rights to the state or the “grown up” that wants her in her house so bad. One thing you gotta know is YOU have done the best you could, she wants to be grown so bad at some point your only option will be to let her have it. Because if you don’t you will drive yourself into the ground,I know you LOVE your daughter but the reality is you have other kids, other daughters that need you just as much. We can’t bail our kids out when they get themselves into heat sometimes, you have to let them get burned if you want them to learn. I’m sorry yours and your children had such a draining holiday season due to this madness, I’m praying for you and all of your children. ❤️🩹
The police should have done a wellness check at those people house. The police should have notified acs. Take all the paperwork and get a pins warrant and have the judge mandate her to a curfew, therapy etc. it’s called cya.
Press charges against the mother that is harboring your child. I had to do the same thing. Your child is a minor and an adult is harboring her thats a crime. I got someone arrested for the same thing.
Babygirl, this is real life and life is lifeing right now.... I refuse to let you down play your parenting ❤. Some kids seem to feel like they can do whatever they want to.. You are a d"*m good parent and just like we as parents have to take accountability for our actions guess what...... kids have to take accountability also... You will not blame yourself!!! Jazz, friend, we are going to get through this... I promise you ❤❤❤❤
This is heartbreaking, my heart actually hurts for you, Jazzy. I’ve been watching you for so long, and I see the vibe you all have together as a family, and I am heartbroken for you all. You are a great Mom, never doubt that.
I know it’s very difficult to know that your child had turned on you, but at this point, Michaela has to existence the hardship of the real world. My daughter went through the same thing and she had my other two children taken out of the house bc she couldn’t get her way. The lies try rolled the authorities interrupted our entire life. I know it’s hard… but you have to let go for you and your other kids before she gives you a great attack or damage your other kids in the process. She’s just beginning but she’s on a mental path of destruction. She won’t stop anytime soon. It’s a mental illness and she will destroy everything in her path with her toxic behavior. People will soon see her for her and back off. She’ll be back when she hit bottom, but you have to love her hard and stand your ground or ride she will always run over you. Raise your other kids and don’t compare their actions if they start to act out. But let her go for now for you and your other kids.
I said the samething. This is who this child is and will become. Shes free now and able to do what she wants. The boy momms sent a strong message calling the police about giving out her address and number.
@lori3310 I mentioned in her last video that if content is what she was gonna keep giving us in agreeance to Jazzy about not bringing it no more on her New Years Eve vlog and how she would focus on her other babeis cuz they needed her too. Shes putting out energy and things her daughter will continue to use against her as she id already doing now. 13 is old enough for the cops to say " hey shes not a missing person", and " kids do this all the time".
@lori3310 exactly! So the less she brings her up in content the more she'll get in her head that her mom is no longer giving her the attention she seeking right now. By the way she cried about the messgaes her Makayla said about her REALLY hurt 😔 to the core. Shes been feeling like this for a while and allowed her listening to music and drawing be her therapy til she couldn't take it anymore
Keep your head up Jazzy. Soon she’ll realize there’s nothing better than home. I was once her and I tell you, I wish I can take it all back. Sending virtual hugs 🤍❤️
Dont beat yourself up, you are good mother! Dont give up keep, keep pushing for your other babies! God will take care of you. Sending prayers. (I think about you and your family Jazzy❤).
I’m so sorry you’re going through this. This just breaks my heart. She is literally a child! Idk how the system is even allowing her to stay there! The mom of that little boy should literally be ASHAMED OF HERSELF! I’m very disappointed in Makayla too. She’s just young and not developed at all yet. You’re so good to your kids. I hope she gets far away from that boy and his mom. Praying for your strength love. Please breathe and take care of yourself because you will get yourself sick. I know. Stress induced my stroke in my 20’s. Please breathe and give it to God. I know it’s hard. I couldn’t imagine what you’re going through. And then the marijuana just on her gift?! Like that’s just Ghetto. Smoke your reefer but keep it clean. I couldn’t even hang out with a boy at 13. Makayla doesn’t know how good she got it smh.
Ngl I know for a FACT I couldn’t be as strong as jazzy,I only have one child my 11 yr old daughter is my WORLD I would absolutely kill myself if she was to ever run away😫
So a minor child can decide they want to stay elsewhere and there is nothing the police can do? As the mother of sons there is NO way any female child would be in my house much less a minor. This is incredible. I am so sorry for your pain. You’re getting it from every angle. I am praying for you.
@@Beth-mi2hfthey sure the hell can she is 13 that’s a baby baby I’m pretty sure their kids are safe and home that’s crazy gone for days and the police can’t get a search warrant is crazy
Jazz ur are the mom that my mom used to be and I took her for granted and ran away and bby life hit like a Tsunami wen I got pregnant at 15 and guess wat my mom was rite there holding and crying with me after the boy I thought loved me put me out behind a phone call..So let her hit the bottom as a parent nobody wants their kids on the bottom bt up is the only way they can go and learn from.. It’s a mental and emotional strain on the u and the rest of the kids U HAVE TO PUT ALL UR ENERGY INTO THEM because it’s not fair to them nor you..Sending hugs 🤗 from Tx
❤❤❤❤❤❤ thinking about you,I'm so sorry you have to go through all this hun. Keep your head up, you are an amazing mother who keeps their kiddos safe and sound.
I’m praying for your entire family Jazzy! My niece did the same thing when she was about Makayla age and my friend and I had to go get from where she was. She ended up being sent to a juvenile detention center for kids with behavioral problems and mental health issues. That was the turning point for her and she straightened up and realized home was better than being on the street or locked up. I pray that Makayla comes home safe soon!❤🙏🏽❤️🙏🏽❤️
Honestly Jazz, let her stay where she is because eventually she will start these antics with his Mom too because if she will treat her own like that, certainly she don’t give a dam about his. Pray for her to come to her senses and just let her be where she thinks she wants to be. Don’t allow her to set ultimatums at 13, she will see when them Jordan’s and clothes and getting hair done is gone. It’s sweet now, but just wait!
You remind me soo much of what my sister went through with my niece. She was a makayla wanting to be grown and felt my sister couldn’t tell her anything even went as far as trying to fight my sister. She really started to appreciate my sister and realize the ppl she was around was part of the influence. Makayla if you see my comment you only have one mother ONE. The boy you date is not going to be here in the yrs to come or the friends nothing. Hurt people hurt people. When people know you come from a good home you can mistake the love being disguised as envy. When you loose your mother that is the worst feeling in life and knowing what you put your mother through on top of that would eat you alive as you get older. Go home and be with your family.
Jazzy you know we are here for you and your family! We're definitely praying for you and your family & are praying that Makayla comes home soon and realizes that she has an amazing hard-working momma that's going to be there for her every step of the way! We love you and praying for you 🙏🏽❤️
Kids go there own way. But, when you spoil your children and treat them like your friend, then they will disrespect you and treat you like they do their friends. I did that with my son and not my other 2 and the difference is so noticeable kids need discipline and to have some type of fear of consequences. Not to fear you but, respect you and know their boundaries. Keep praying and trusting God he will work it out. You are all in my prayers 🙏🏽💜💕
keep ya head up Jazzy, I’m telling you this generation is something different, but as hard as it is, please don’t shut down, your daughter and everyone associated with this is probably watching hoping you’d break down.. it’s in gods hands. We praying for your baby girl and family in Jesus name Amen🙏🏽 ❤
Sweetheart, I feel your pain. Stop blaming self. I had 2 kids. One is excelling in life @29 and one died @ 40 due to an overdose. He was my firstborn for 13 years and I made a special effort to give him all that I never had. When all said and done, we are all individuals. I pray for your family and your healing. God won’t give you more than you can bare. Stay prayed up❤
She is 13 it shouldn’t be up for discussion to date. She is a child!!!! Stand strong as a Mom. So many young girls have to learn lessons the hard way and it’s unfortunate. A boy/girl can tell them anything to make them think it’s love and have them running away . Since this is not the first time you have dealt with issues from her where she had to go live with the dad before you may want to consider sending her to a girls group home to help her before more damage is done. It will hurt, but it will save her. Sending prayers from SC.
Mikayla please go home your mom loves you.
My cousin set the group home on fire they sent her butt home
Wait is she 13 or 16? I cannot believe the police didn't remove the child from that woman's house. She is a minor and thats kidnapping.
@@blackcherry6877on one of the post I thought she said 16 but then she said 13 so I’m confused with the age. I’m not understanding how a 13 year old as a runaway can not be picked up from the house she is at!
Facts!! Anyone that has watched previous videos, seen this coming. I’m not shocked at all
When a 13 year old runs away to avoid consequences, you should not go looking for that child, calling her friends, etc. You should calmly inform the child that if she's not back by "such and such" time to face the consequences, you are calling the police. You should never give this type of behavior power and a lot of attention by letting this child see you blaming yourself, begging and crying, letting her know you can't sleep, etc. Plain and simple, call the police so that you have a written record that she is currently not under your supervision...1st step. Again, if you give this behavior power, like what you are currently doing, you are encouraging her to do it again whenever she does not want to face consequences for her bad behavior. Take back your power!!! How? Stop begging and pleading and searching for her. And when she comes back, you need to punish her!!! And if she runs away again, put her in a group home where they will have rules and a curfew!! She's going to wish she never ran away. TAKE BACK YOUR POWER!!! Right now, she knows she has power over you. And another thing: you need to turn her phone off right now!
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Now THIS IS CORRECT!! And it’s also gentle parenting! What people don’t understand. You don’t engage in the nonsense. You give them a chance to do what will benefit them and then inform them of the consequences. These are NATURAL consequences btw when a child runs away.
At this point I think she likes all the attention she’s getting from this. Look at how she’s not even there and yet she’s STILL the focal point of your entire day. Your entire mood. Your other kids mood. You have 3 other children to care and love for yet she’s dictating every single thing you do. I know it’s hard but for the sake of your sanity and your other children; try to focus on eating, getting some sleep, and gaining your peace back.
And jazz it’s going crazy and crying and recking herself and that girl don’t give 2 shits! Let her go she needs to learn point blank ! I have a daughter like her and mine is almost 30 , years everyone bent over backwards for her ! Gave it all to her !!!! She still making a mess of her life ! I wish I would have let her learn at 13 ! Cause my daughter still to today doesn’t care about no one but herself / my heart is breaking for jazz and the other kids for what. Selfish little girl is putting them through
As a mom its hurts to see another mom going through this.may the lord see you through it and everything goes work out and she comes home🫂🙏🙏❤
The fact that the mom would go to the police for you putting her information out there but wouldn't come to you to give you your daughter back it's wild. It shows what type of people that she is around, I'll pray for her to come back home safe
Just so awful and heartbreaking. I pray she goes home and stops her mum from feeling this pain
Exactly!! I said this in the last vuelo. Whoever the adult is has to be a drunk or on drugs & jazz just confirmed it. My cousin doing rhe same, letting a 15 yr old lay up with her 17 yr old son & ain't called nobody & she drinks alot. Then always saying the girl don't help clean up, first of all she should be at your own house cleaning up
Let Makayla learn the hard way. Let her experience the foster system. This type of disrespect is beyond her just coming home at this point. Your other three children deserve the best version of you. Makayla is ungrateful!
She’s already learning the 😢hard was with a terrible mother like this
What’s so confusing is how the boyfriend’s mother is letting all this slide. There is now way as an adult I would allow a 13 year old child to lay in my home without informing the parent. Getting in contact with the proper authorities if I felt like abuse or neglect was the reason for her running away. I pray Makayla wakes up and go home but she may have to see how real this world is before she does.
I’m confused by this as well. I don’t even know what Jasmine should do at this point other than pray about it. Makayla just gotta learn the hard way 😢
I dont understand any of that either.. very odd for the LE to have rules like that, i would be flipping out also, i just wish we could all be around Jazz and hug her and support her as best we can, i know she sees comments though. breaks my heart,
Ain’t no way law enforcement is condoning this kind of behavior from another parent. Makayla should have been place in a Group Home if anything the system should have have step in to mediate the situation, and hopefully reunite Makayla. All States have resources that’s supposed to protect the Family as a whole. Counseling , therapy, Something. Where is the empathy and compassion for Jazz. At this point she needs to Make some phone calls and take the necessary steps to file a Complaint against the police department. If something happens the Department is liable. SMDH. Praying for you Jazz and Makayla
Probably trying to be the cool Mom for a couple of teenagers.
Didn't she say she hasn't eaten in 3 days and has a busted lip(Makayla)? The boy is beating on her? I had to rewatch. I didn't understand that part. So this is happening and the mother is allowing this🤔 Then the mother is going to the police about harassment?!?
Girl, you better wipe them tears and stop begging and pleading. You have 3 other children in your home that’s watching this whole thing play out. They need to understand as well as she does that this type of disrespect is unacceptable and won’t be tolerated no matter how much I love you! Watching you cry, plead and beg doesn’t show that. If she comes back home today, unfortunately she’s gonna be more disrespectful than when she left because of how everyone is coddling her during one of the most disrespectful acts she’s put on yet. So the lesson won’t be learned. Love and pray for her and though these videos are therapeutic for you and entertaining for the audience, refrain from posting about her. Allow her to miss you and her siblings and not have the luxury of seeing or hearing y’all via RUclips, don’t share a next move or conversations you’ve had with the police. Leave her clueless. I’m not a parent that’s against soft parenting where soft parenting works. In this case I truly think you need to step back, calm down, breath and regroup. 💛
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Agreed!
Some children feed of negative attention and seems like this daughter may be one of them it best she leave talking bout her off the camera instead of playing into her hands as like she said previously she knows her daughter watches her stuff when she was asking people to directly leave her daughter messages on her comments
The mom can and should be charged with contributing to the delinquency of a minor. Girl stop crying and leave her to the consequences of her own choices.
Parents aren’t the only influencers of our kids. We live in a social media led society now and they are exposed to more than just us. Jazz try not to be so hard on yourself-I know it’s hard- but you only have so much control. They have their own will even at 13. Keep her lifted up in prayer.
Jazz I am a mother of 8.....A little advice.... when your daughter comes home....pack up you and your kids stuff and move to another state! You have been having alot of spiritual attacks in NY sis. I uprooted me and my kids before and left my home town...sometimes you gotta bounce and protect you and your babies and start over. God bless to you and your babies .
Yeah, it’s definitely giving a spiritual attack.
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Moving isn’t going to stop a spiritual attack. You have to pray in the spirit against the spiritual attacks.
”For though we walk in the flesh, we do not war after the flesh: (for the weapons of our warfare are not carnal, but mighty through God to the pulling down of strong holds;) casting down imaginations, and every high thing that exalteth itself against the knowledge of God, and bringing into captivity every thought to the obedience of Christ;“
2 Corinthians 10:3-5 KJV
moviing isnt going to stop the mental illness.. makayla has jazzy wrapped aroun her finger
How is the adult holding her not being charged with hiding a runaway?! Press charges right back! Continuing to pray for you. You are in the fight of your life for your baby, keep fighting you know what’s best for her -more than any cop, any other adult, any body else. Praying your load gets lighter as you are focused on handling what’s in front of you.
I didn't know you kids can do that
I would call ACS on her and take this to family court. I don't know what the heck those police officers are talking about
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@@somebodylying unfortunately NY has a different set of laws. It doesn’t seem like harboring a runaway is in their laws. The more I looked into it this is a problem across the board in both NY and California. There are parents signing petitions which state the police basically told them unless the child says they are being abused in the house they ran away to, they can’t do anything about it.
Sending lots of hugs! You’re an amazing mom! I love that you as a parent apologize to your kids. I wish as a child I heard those apologies. When I had my kids, I promised I would always apologize when I’m wrong. Keep going Jaz, 💪🏾 this storm will be over soon.
Friend, dont lose your freedom. You still have other children. Turn her phone off, let her stay where she chose, & stay free for the other babies. You are an awesome Mama, I thank God for keeping you in this season. 🙏🏽 🙏🏽🙏🏽
I think she did turn it off but usually with iPhones long as you have wifi you can use it still .
My heart goes out to you. But as a mom myself and someone who was 13 and crazy at one point, you have to let her go. She has to learn the hard way. Let the state handle it. She will find out what she has at home. Don’t keep doing the same thing and expecting a different outcome. You’re hurting her by letting her continue this. Giving her everything she wants teaches her nothing.
My heart and prayers are with you, Jazz.
This is what’s wrong with the system. A 13 year old should not have the “right” to run away from a good home because they don’t like rules. The cops and cps see she has a mom fighting for her, trying to find her and bring her home. They should have to do a wellness check at the house she is at and remove her. Sending you so much love and strength.
What do they mean willingly there?!?!? She’s 13!
I’ve experienced the same problem in a whole different state. The police just keep saying “it’s not against the law for them to run away”. The system is so messed up! It does not truly support or back up parents. This kind of behavior from police makes the child think they are untouchable and only makes their behavior worse.
This is horrible. As a mother myself I don’t even know how I would handle it. You’ve done so much to guide this little girl, you’ve gave her everything and you’ve gone every avenue. You aren’t to blame jazz.
Tough love seems to be needed. Let her get a taste of the trouble she’s getting herself into? Your family has all my prayers.
Sometimes giving too much backfires, and unfortunately it wasn't enough for her. This isn't her first rodeo with boys as shes mentioned in this video. Shes experienced it before in NC with her dad and got away with til she wanted to come home to mom again. Sad
This is Bullshit!!! To hear that another mother is condoning this is absolutely absurd to me and more so the response from the police breaks my heart. I'm so sorry this is happening . WTH!!! This makes me so angry..If a parent can't turn to the police for help, who can you turn too. How is it a 13 year old gets to decide she doesn't want to come home and the police does nothing to help the parent. So messed up on all levels.
@@tndeewhat are they gonna do 😂take her home so as soon as they leave she can do it again ? THOUSANDS OF CHILDREN RUN AWAY EVERY YR ! She obviously needs to learn the hard way so Jasmine needs to let her
@@HOLLYWOODJACKSON5 yes. She did the best she could as a mother. But as a mother myself I think we sometimes have to let them learn the hard way when they don’t listen. I know pushed my mom to make me learn the hard way. It sucked but I recognized once I was in court for not going to school
This is heartbreaking. I’m new to your channel but I can already see the genuine love you have for your kids even the one that’s acting up right now. Cry it out sis, it’s ok. My prayers go out to you and yours sweetie. Stand your ground, you are NOT wrong🙏🏾❤️
This is why I DO NOT COMPROMISE WITH CHILDREN. MY RULES ARE MY RULES. Praying for your family. Honestly if it were my child, that lady would’ve had a better reason to put a charge on me than just giving her address up and that’s on GOD. It’ll be on the news not RUclips.
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This!!!! 💯💯💯
Sure but people like her can be dangerous. Jazz has to be careful.
I am a 17 year old young woman and I have been watching your videos for some time now but I relate to this so much because when I was 14 I was wildly acting out like from stealing cars, to be fast and cursing and disrespecting my mom , and running away and being sneaky.... I did it all yoo at the age of 14 I had child protective services in my life and was on parole and went in and out of mental hospitals all at 14... I regret everything I did to my mother till this day. My mother provided everything that I needed but it was my environment and my actions that caused my actions. Now I'm two years sober and off probation and I'm not stealing or cursing and I give my mom everything... I know for a fact that the material things doesn't matter and sometimes you have to let them hit the ground to notice what they have... To realize that they messed up and they have to choose whether or not to change there actions for the better or the worst... Ik my mom gave me everything I needed.. I was good.. and I was the oldest child of four and I had to grow up with my mom so she could be better as a whole for my siblings....You jasmine are the best parent and doing all you can and your doing so much for your kids than most...I'm proud of you frfr as a 17 year old who did the same things to mines hurts me for life and this world ain't for kids yoo...keep your head up Jas you have other kids too mama... She wants the attention and she knows you'll go all out for her...She knows where you'll hurt the most and how to keep you there...but she is also going thru whatever she is going thru... you've done all you can and your still finding the strength to keep going ,I'm so sorry yoo I don't wish this upon no one literally stay prayed up and you will be in my prayers all of you... I am not ashamed of my story i lived my truth and i will tell mines to always help someone else's. i hope this has kinda help in some type of way...
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I’m proud of you!
@@itsbrittanynicoletv2988 I thank you so much 🙏🏼💙
I definitely feel for you as a parent. If you know in your heart you’ve done all you can do maybe it’s time you go to the family court and have her a ward of the state and placed in a controlled setting where she can receive on site therapy & supervision. Then maybe after time she’ll be able to appreciate what she had at home. I will continue to pray for the best outcome for you and your family 🙏🏾
I agree with you 💯
Yep, I support this 100%. Time to let go and let God but she needs to make it legal. Some kids have to learn the hard way. Her daughter unfortunately is one of them.
I was about to type the same thing my mom had to do this for my brother years ago
I totally agree go to court and make her award of the state and let god and let go. I know this is your child but sometimes u have to do what’s best for u and your other children
Agreed
We’ve all been a teenager before and I can guarantee something bigger is going on. There’s no way I’m leaving my mother’s home to go literally struggle on the streets. I’m not wishing this on you Jazz but I think she already might be with child and too scared to come to terms with it. I pray that this is NOT the case but something is just not adding up here.
Baby girl if you’re reading this, nobody is going to have your back like your mother. And that’s coming from a college-educated, 35 year old woman with 2 children and an amazing husband/father living a comfortable life. You will ALWAYS need or want your own mom ❤
I kinda feel the same way like is she really embarrassed about what she did or is she scared her momma gone take her to the hospital wen she come back like girl what is it
I was thinking the same thing. Pray she is not but it does seem like something bigger is going on.
I swear I was thinking this same thing
I hope not too but I think so
Something has happened to Mkayla whether at home or, or somewhere else , and she is battling with it… aside from already being put thru alot . After seeing the video of Jazzy talking to her in the kitchen , I absolutely do not agree with being that transparent with your kids , and talking to your kids as their your friend .. cussing and talking crazy doesnt make a child be a good a child . But like my daughter told me when i apologized for all my parenting mistakes “ we all only live this life once “ were all learning as we go .. so i get it .. but regardless I hope mkaylas ok .
I don't usually comment, but let me tell you what I told a friend: When these little boys get in these girls' ears telling them they love them, there's nothing a parent can do. When you've done everything right, don't stress!! One day, that boy is gonna find another girl, then she'll be running home crying. Just continue to parent your other kids. I see your pain, but you've done excellent as a mom. You just can't at this time compete with the guy she thinks loves her. And as far as the mom is concerned, she is gonna be the one to open the door for her to leave when her son is done, and to open the door for the next girl he entertains. She's a horrible mom and person!!
I couldn’t agree more!! It happened to me at 13 too. They are so young and as soon as the next girl catches his eye he’ll be done.
Facts! His mom is a terrible person for that. & I can understand being upset about being doxxed that’s a crime but she needs to talk to Jaz. That’s extremely disrespectful but goes to show what type of energy she’s up against.
Yup, it's gonna take for that boy to move on to the next girl or she pisses his mother off and she puts her out... I don't understand the legal system and why there can't be charges brought again this horrible woman
or even the adult that is harboring an underage teen, maybe she will have conflict in her home now mm🤔They are not called rebellious teens for nothing, who wants somone one elses teenager! Very strange, she isnt an older teen she has a lot of teenagering to do😬 @@mtnewt1
IT's okay jazzy she will learn and come running back home and there is a god just continue to be the best mother u can be
Every generation seems to get worse. I did some silly stupid stuff as teenager, worse than my mother. My daughter pushed the envelope and did so much more than me. This is the reason she never wants kids and definitely not a girl. She is 33 now. We are very close, same as me and my mom became. Everything we dealt with was a bridge to each other. Hugs to you and your daughter!
My Lord please please for the sake of your other three children, for the sake of your freedom, please bow out. I know it hurts so much but you cannot keep going through this. Sometimes you have to give it to God and wash your hands. My mother was locked up almost a year behind my twin siblings doing exactly what Makayla is doing right now and thats when my mother let go. She never stopped loving them just could not take the chaos anymore. It was damaging her health, her sanity, her realationship with the rest of us. And at almost 40 they are still the same being enabled by the public or anyone who will believe their lies. Please do whats best for yourself and your other children. You've done all you could do. I'm praying so hard for you all🙏🏽 no real mother deserves this. You can't keep fighting. You have to see her for what shes showing you. Not what you want to believe she is.
@@BlessedBeyondMeasure403 She's not giving up on her. She's done everything she could do in this moment. She has three other children she has to focus on and it isn't fair they aren't allowed to have her fully because of what's going on. She has risked her freedom, if she goes who takes care of the others, if she's sick because of the stress who makes sure they are ok. It's the safest decision as a whole. You cannot save someone who doesn't want to be saved. You cannot pour more into a person then what they are willing to pour into themselves. That's a hard pill to swallow but true. It actually might be the only way to actually help her.
Girl it’s 2am and I’m up thinking about you. I been seen this video when you posted it but it just keeps replaying in my head because I have a young child and this could be any of us. Girl I’m praying ya babygirl gets home safely.! Its bad right now but that’s just because your new year is gonna be GREAT. Keep ya head up mamas PLS! 💕
5 people in a 2 bedroom apartment is not the worst thing in the world. Stop beating yourself up about it. You are a good mom and I’m sorry for saying this but Mikayla might need to go to a group home, it’s unfair to the other children for their lives to be disrupted. Mikayla is picking her path sad to say and I know she’s your child but most likely any piece of a child that was left of her is probably gone because of the things she’s already done and things that may have been done to her. She needs some help and it’s ok for you to need help with her. I’m speaking from having an older sibling who constantly ran away from home and my mom would literally stop our lives for him. We missed out on things because my mom would stop everything every time he ran away. I’m also thinking Mikayla told that mom something about you or something in your household and I’m not saying anything happened but that’s really the only way I can see a mother allowing a child in their home is if Mikayla made an accusation about you or someone in your family/friends.
I also think that if she lies like the way you say she does that she’s very dangerous and she’s going to get you arrested. Be careful.
@@bluestseaexactly
I’ve been watching these videos with my 13 year old and she says “i won’t take my mother for granted like this” even she sees that you’re a good mother!
Ok Sis straight I'm a New Yorker so I'm here with you. Jazzy when I tell you to give it to God and let her go I'm speaking from experience. Makayla is my daughter all over again and she's 46. I knew Makayla was sexually active when she went down south and when you 1st. posted the runaway I thought she's pregnant. STOP BEATING YOURSELF UP CAUSE IT AIN'T NOTHING YOU DID. There is only 1 reason a child acts out on this level and once it's done it changes them sometimes for good. Jazzy you're smart read between the lines. Keep Your heart open to Makayla, while you pour into your other kids. If you don't get back on track Makayla will take you down with her. I been there done that so I can speak on it. My daughter? When a person doesn't heed God, Wise Counsel or their Parents seener or later God gives them over to an insane mind...that is my Daughter today. Let her be where she is just keep her in Prayer. I Pray God gives you Peace and Rest Jazzy.
Amen had them experience I had to put it all in God hands. It will worked itself out
Definitely agree she has already been sexually active. That’s why there has been a huge shift in her behavior.
Yes, I believe she is already pregnant. The doll was dropping hints. The boy's mother allowing her to be there, is another hint. I pray for her and her daughter because these mother/son combos can be dangerous to a young pregnant girl (watch the news).
While the cops may be unwilling to help, maybe child welfare can because it is a separate thing (no crime is being committed).
I had this thought aswell. That she is pregnant already and that’s why she is scared to go home more than anything.
@@bigg_body_benzz right, I’m thinking maybe the boys mom is either letting her get an abortion and sending her back to Jazz or sum bc idk why she would be keeping somebody else child
It breaks my heart seeing your pain and understanding as a mother how hard it is to protect our children 💔 😔 I'm sending many prayers 🙏🏾 and hugs 🫂 to you ❤ and most importantly strength💪🏾
This is CRAZY! THIS WOMAN HAS SOMEONE ELSE'S 13 YEAR OLD CHILD AT HER HOME AND THIS IS OKAY! She had the nerve to get her funky a$$ up and filed harassment charges?! This is crazy!. I'm so sorry Jasmine. Lord I pray father God returns your child unharmed.
I’ve been following you since day one and you’ve always been a great parent! I’m praying she comes home sooner than later , your hands are tied. She’s going to have to go through her journey and realize she’s made a mistake . Keep doing what you can as her mom but that’s all you can do ❤️ sending love , hugs and prayers
That mother is garbage. For her to be running interference and not even having a conversation with you? Insanity. It's hard to have to let our children learn the hard way, but Mikayla is gonna have to learn the hard way. And watch how they do her when the other mother gets tired and starts tryna flip the script. 😢 My heart hurts for you Jazzy.
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Wow the police make me so angry when it comes to rights for parents! I went through the same thing with 2 of my now adult daughters. The first, I thought was off the chain with things she did, but babyyyyy that second one almost took me out with the antics she did, cussing out,calling me a bad mother,telling me she will effing kill me,call cps on me and the list goes on and on! I still suffer from ptsd! I didn’t gentle parent, however I was a cusser and yelled which as time has gone on I’ve learned better ways to communicate with my younger children. I see you and I feel every fiber of the hurt you are felling because I was you! I adopted all but 2 of my sisters children that would be 5 and I know I was a good mother, but like you I questioned everything,trying to remember if I did something and just didn’t remember. At the end of the day no, I didn’t do anything wrong except loving and giving too much! They feel like I owe them whatever they want no matter what they do. My youngest even told me ,#itch you can’t kick me out I’m a minor, when I did call the police because she threatened to harm me, she looked them right in the eye and told them many people are threatened, was she harmed NO, now get F out of my face and they did! Told me to go in my room and lock the damn door! I’m trembling as I write this! Just know it’s NOT YOUR FAULT! Sometimes you have to let go and let God! Oh and trust me the other children are watching! Please get them some counseling and yourself, because the behavior trickles down!Praying for you and your family! ❤
This absolutely breaks my heart. I have watched you take care of your kids for years, and I never seen you hurt or neglect them. This is so sad and I’m definitely praying for you. No one deserves to go through this with their kids and I’m praying for your peace and your kids peace. This is wild
It is,sometimes these kids don't know how good they have it.
@@kjulien7255 I agree
As a mother this breaks my soul😢 I been watching and waiting for an update. I have watched ur channel from the beginning and watched the kids grow. As a mother who have an 18 now but I went through the same thing when my daughter turned 14. U will get through this❤🙏🏾
This is why our parents were so strict and am happy they were I had my first boyfriend at 18 became at 13 I don’t even know what boyfriend is am focused on school. This generation ones they clock 13 they think they grown Even at 10 they thinking about a boy.
Makayla this message for you. Please reach out to your mother. She does not deserve this. What ever you have done, you all can get through this. Your mom is in pain. Please Makayla I beg you please go home. There is no place like home. She loves you, and we do too!
sometimes when you don’t want your kids to go through what you went through… you spoil them.. && its so sad because it comes from love..
I thought if you were under 18 years old the police make them come back home. My brother ran away at 16 and the police brought him back and they will arrest the parent for harboring a runaway minor. Shame on the adult she's staying with for real! God is with you Jazzy. Stay strong.❤
The police on the East Coast is ruthless and don’t care… but on the west coast and in the south they don’t play that ish
@JM-ip1es I feel you on that because I'm from the West Coast, and they are strict on these teens.
I believe depends on the state and asge of the child nowadays. Back in the day they didn't play these games or your ass went to a detention center. She 13 in which your able to make those decisions on where you wanna be also. Form what it giving they don't consider her to be in harms ways.
@hollywoodb1048 That is so sad! It breaks my heart because it's setting these kids up for failure.
@@JozzyJah111 exactly. My mom rescuee her niece from human trafficking in Florida, and when she didn't get her way or couldn't seduce a man in her presence she'd act out and run away. My mom got tired and the state did too and out her in detention centers and even maximum prison in South Carolina til she was 18. Her last place she and another girl ran away and roamed the streets for months. If the child ain't got blonde hair and blue eyes they ain't too much worried about em.
Jazz STOP!!! It’s not about how you treat your kids you’ve pleaded your case. Your daughter will do what she wants to do and as a parent we can only do so much. Prayers for a safe return but do not beat yourself up for something you can’t control. It’s a struggle as a single parent to be accountable for all kids. Praying for you boo 🙏🏽
As a mother I have been in this same exact seat , son ran away at 12 ..use to try and fight me physically, had no support his grandmother in fact she use to encourage the bad behavior . now my son is 23 years old and can fully understand why I had to give him tough love .. no one cares like a mother does . Jazzy you are me and totally get this .. all I can say is continue to be the best mom you can be .. this parenting thing ain’t come with no manuscript .. and try to get some talk therapy for yourself .. I’m all for mommy support groups .. we need more of that especially in the black community!!
My heart goes out to you and I can definitely feel some of the things you're going thru.... my daughter just turned 13 January 4th and Im a single mom and do the most most for this kid... im talking going all out by myself. But I feel she is growing up, lil attitudes, very unappreciative, and just starting to become a whole diff person. I pray that God guides me through these teenage years bc this generation is out of hand. Sucks my mom passed so I dont really even have my mom to go to. I'm just praying my daughter doesnt become so influenced by all her peers bc she is an only child and that God guides her in the right direction. I've been watching your videos and just praying for you and your daughter and praying God guides and her and keeps her safe and hopefully wakes her up to realize the strong amazing mother that she has.
i remember when my son gave us so many problems at one time we had him admitted . no joke it broke my heart but as a mother we had no choice . today he is a successful RN and a dad of 3 kids . please have hope
Hey Jazzy. I’m 27, I remember my mom going thru this with my little sister when she was around your daughter’s age. My sister is 21 and back in a similar situation and to see my mom as stressed as she is now, triggers me from the past. If your daughter doesn’t want to come home turn her over to the authorities. And seek counseling while she’s in there. My mom did (STILL DOES) everything for my sister and she treats us like poop on the curb until she needs something. This is not your fault but if you’re like my mom STOP Coddling her. If she wants to be disrespectful give her the basic needs to survive (shelter, food and love) outside of that make her earn everything. I wish you well on this journey, please speak with family, friends or community group (in person or online) and know that you are not the only mom with a child who has gone astray!!! Much love.
No to be honest. As a mother myself I can’t even fathom another MOTHER seeing you go through this and keeping your child just because like I don’t get that. Praying for you and her ❤. I hope Makayla understands that every action comes with a consequence and that life isn’t easy 🥺.
Ain’t no way a minor can stay at my place especially without consent from their parents.
@@DivaDivaFashionista totally agree ! I work with kids as well and I can’t even imagine the pain
Jazz
Don't beat yourself up. When I raised my children I gave them my very best. There were days I didn't eat so they could, broke my neck to get them what they need and some of what they wanted. I had my daughter at 15 when I was too young to even work. Was abandoned by my parents at 14 so I was a mother to my baby and lil sister. There was no time to be a child because I was forced into adulthood. Your baby just don't know how blessed she is to have a parent that cares. Wether it's a room or two, at least she has that. I was worrying about how we were going to eat. When they got older, every sacrifice I made they told me it wasn't good enough. I cried because I gave them my best but then I checked myself and got it together. We go through so much as parents. I raised 3 kids, my middle child was the worst. He was the child that loved to challenge me. The oldest tried standing up to me and the youngest stayed out the way. Now the youngest suicidal and on drugs, middle in prison and oldest doing good. As much as I hate to say this, life gotta raise her. She gone wish it didn't but that's what's going to break her. When she cut tired of being drug through the streets, she'll come home. I wish you could press charges against the parent for kidnap. You know wherever she's at there's no parental guidance. I'm praying God protect her from drugs, molestation, abuse and anything that could happen to her. Praying God send her back home. Hold on Ma, you got people praying with you .. Stay Strong
wow im just flabbergasted at the fact that the cops arent snatching her up out that house shes 13 like wtf! Praying for u jazzy
Jazz, stay strong! We are praying for you. Don't let Makayla run your household. Sending hugs and prayers from Mississippi 😢❤
I’m still praying Jasmine. You are an awesome mother and don’t let anyone tell you any different. God has you covered and very soon Makayla will be home. Shame on the adults who are not doing the right thing by you and Makayla 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
My heart and prayers are with you, mom. As a mom, I understand and feel your pain and pray that the Lord will give you the strength, clarity, and support that you need to weather this storm. 😢🙏🏽
Awww Dammmm I can’t stand to see a beautiful woman cry ❤I’m so sorry your going through this I hope it gets better a mothers job is never enough!
SO happy another parent came forward to help how they could. NEVER blame yourself.
Jazz you are an amazing mother! Don't let nobody out here tell you any different. The adults that went to the station should be ashamed of themselves. Instead of taking the word of a 13 year old they should have called and spoke with her parents. I'm for you and your family.
No ma’am! You better let her know who the Mother/Parent is, otherwise she is going to get worse and will continue to disrespect you and your household! You are the mother stand your ground, if not it will not be long before your other children follow in her footsteps!
Heavenly Father, we come to you today to say thank you for allowing us to see another day and another year. We are interceding on behalf of Jazzy and her family, Lord. All parties involved are hurting and need your healing and peace that surpasses all understanding. God, your word says all things work together for the good for those who love the Lord and are called according to his purpose. God, we pray that you will show Jazzy and her family how you can turn our worst situations into a blessing and testimony for others. Bless her baby girl. Soften the hearts of the adults who are harboring and hiding this child. Let them come forward and release this child to the authorities so that she can get the help she needs. Be the source of strength and the rock for the ENTIRE family and keep their minds during this difficult and stressful time. We humbly pray for these things and repent of our sins because none of us are worthy of your grace and mercy, yet you give it to us anyway, and this situation could happen to ANY parent. We act as prayer warriors and intercede on behalf of the family. We know that you can and will turn it around. We will continue to pray without ceasing because we trust you and you are not a man who should lie. In the mighty name of Jesus Christ we pray, Amen 🙏🏾 ❤
Amen!
Makayla can’t have you and the mom and boyfriend meet because her lies will be exposed. I pray that she finds her way back home. Life has a way of teaches us all lessons and you’re trying to spare your daughter some of these hard lessons. I hope she finds out sooner rather than later. You’re a good mom Jazz. We see through the devil and his attacks. You are blessed.
Oh jazzy, I'm sorry your going through this, I'll continue praying for you and your family 🙏❤
THIS IS A CHILD!!! It does NOT matter if THE CHILD “wants to be there”. If this boy’s mother is HARBORING A MINOR SHE IS THE CRIMINAL AND SHOULD BE ARRESTED ASAP!!! NOT being able to press charges against THE MOTHER OF THE CHILD!!! And THE POLICE sitting there telling A MOTHER THIS IS CRAZY TO ME!!!! Because if a mother hits THEIR child THEY can be arrested. WTF!?!
PRESS CHARGES AGAINST THAT WOMAN ASAP‼️‼️‼️ IT IS AGAINST THE LAW TI HARBOR A MINOR‼️‼️‼️Even IF the lies Makayla is telling what “true”.,. SHE DOES NOT GET TO DECIDE THAT SHE CAN GO LIVE WITH HER BOYFRIEND‼️‼️‼️ @JustJazzy YOU HAVE TO GO TO THE COURT and GET HER TO BE A WARD OF THE STATE., PRESS CHARGES AGAINST THAT WOMAN TOO!!! Under NO CIRCUMSTANCES are you to allow this CHILD, that 15 yr old boyfriend, and DEFINITELY NOT HIS POS MOTHER dictate to you ABOUT YOUR CHILD and HOUSEHOLD. For all you know Jazzy THAT WOMAN and her son may be pimping your daughter out. Especially if he’s beating her. SOMETHING AIN’T RIGHT WITH THAT WOMAN and HER SON. AND WHOEVER ELSE IS IN THAT HOUSE!!!
15:43 What do you do???
YOU CAUSE THE HELL FOR MAKAYLA. I know you’re worrying about losing your daughter Jazzy., but YOU WILL LOSE HER EITHER WAY. At least by YOU taking control as the mother, you save you, your other children. Even Makayla in the long run. It’s time to stop the gentle parenting and start with TOUGH love. Trust me. My mother had to handle me that way at one point. Makayla will get over it eventually and respect you and love you for it as she gets older. You CAN’T “spare her”. She’s NOT sparing you. If YOU were to allow your child to runaway and didn’t report it, they stop going to school, etc. YOU are held responsible.
YOU NEED TO GO TO THE COURT ASAP and ASK FOR A “PINS HEARING & WARRANT” (person in need of supervision).
ww2.nycourts.gov/COURTS/nyc/family/faqs_pins.shtml
And get that boyfriend’s mother ARRESTED. WHAT SHE IS DOING IS ILLEGAL!!!
codelibrary.amlegal.com/codes/bixbyok/latest/bixby_ok/0-0-0-2903
ocfs.ny.gov/programs/youth/rhy/find-help.php
And find this agency in NYC. He’s an ex cop who will help you with a runaway child.
ruclips.net/video/Ke9HOE0Y8bI/видео.htmlsi=3a5gc4_i8dixYi8r
Jazzy her not having her own room is not the problem. She had her own room at her dads and still acted out. I think your a great mom. Im 71 and can cuss like a sailor but I watch it around kids. Different generation. Not trying to tell you what to do. Hope you get your baby home soon.
When I was in a 2 bedroom with my 3 kids I gave up my bedroom for them so they had the 2 rooms and I hooked up my living room one section was my room and another section living room and I brought a divided from amazon a nice one. And no matter what the living situation is they have a warm roof over their heads they eat everyday they have more then what they need I have been following u for a while and u a good parent. When my daughter wants to go out i take them and wait in the parking lot idc i take my tablet little wifi box etc a book snacks im not letting her go no where by herself and she just turned 15 the way the sex trafficking is i rather her be mad then god forbid
I just wanna give you the biggest hug Jazzy ❤️❤️ Kids don't understand, it's sad how ungrateful these kids are. I'm gonna pray God can change her heart and mind. Imagine thinking you're grown and can do grown shit at 13 smh
It’s not your fault mama. God has a plan for our kids, just like he has a plan for us. Don’t blame yourself.❤
Jazzy, if your daughter has a social worker, now is the time to ask them for help so they can get the police to pull her out of those people’s house, plus she is being abused getting hit by him. If you get social workers, you will have a stronger bond to help.
Being a mother is so hard especially when you are single and have to do it alone. My heart goes out to you💕
Im worried that you may get to a point where you may not want her back. Peace is something that not many have the luxury off. You have other children that need you and its not fair to them to have their mom so broken over a child who is taking advantage of her mothers love. I am so sorry that you and the other children are going through this and I pray for a resolution.
I pray GOD protects you and your family in this New Year and I pray that your babygirl returns to you safely🙏🏽🙏🏽🥰
Jazzy I am sorry. I have ran away and had issues within myself and projected that on my mom. The fact I am a mother myself now, I would have never known without your content this is how my mom felt every time I left or lied.
I had to call my mother and apologize again forreal this hits home bad
Mother Earth in your will direct this beautiful little girl home so her mom can rest her worrisome heart😢❤
I’m praying for you girl . I KNOW that everything will be alright ❤️🤞🏾
As a mom myself, time for tough love, and you have to protect your other children. You have to also take a minute and stand still and pray and honey keep being the great mom you are!
No baby don’t question yourself at all. My son is 27 and is so disrespectful, he didn’t run away but I did and I questioned myself until God had to whoop me to let it go and give it to HIM. I wasn’t perfect but I bust my behind as 16 years old single mom and I always got compliments about how he was so mannered and respectful. Pray baby and trust in the Lord. You got to move out HIS way love. Not stop anything you’re doing because no one could stop me and unfortunately I’ve been there and the hurt is indescribable. My point DO NOT BLAME YOURSELF! For one these new age kids have something to prove and it’s targeted at the closest person to them. Baby every night at 9pm I will pray for you and I ask you to pray about joining me in the spirit at 9pm if I can’t do anything I can pray love, try to trust in the Lord ❤️ I’m with you
This popped up on auto play and hearing it broke my heart! You’re a strong ass woman because as a single mother of a 17 year old daughter living in Brooklyn myself… I would’ve disconnected her phone, and signed over my rights to the state or the “grown up” that wants her in her house so bad. One thing you gotta know is YOU have done the best you could, she wants to be grown so bad at some point your only option will be to let her have it. Because if you don’t you will drive yourself into the ground,I know you LOVE your daughter but the reality is you have other kids, other daughters that need you just as much. We can’t bail our kids out when they get themselves into heat sometimes, you have to let them get burned if you want them to learn.
I’m sorry yours and your children had such a draining holiday season due to this madness, I’m praying for you and all of your children. ❤️🩹
The police should have done a wellness check at those people house. The police should have notified acs. Take all the paperwork and get a pins warrant and have the judge mandate her to a curfew, therapy etc. it’s called cya.
Press charges against the mother that is harboring your child. I had to do the same thing. Your child is a minor and an adult is harboring her thats a crime. I got someone arrested for the same thing.
Babygirl, this is real life and life is lifeing right now.... I refuse to let you down play your parenting ❤. Some kids seem to feel like they can do whatever they want to.. You are a d"*m good parent and just like we as parents have to take accountability for our actions guess what...... kids have to take accountability also... You will not blame yourself!!! Jazz, friend, we are going to get through this... I promise you ❤❤❤❤
I agree and I mentioned in herast video the child is just at fault as the adult allowing her to be where shes at.
@moniquelucious Well said!
Your hard work will not go unnoticed. Please keep being a great mother
This is heartbreaking, my heart actually hurts for you, Jazzy. I’ve been watching you for so long, and I see the vibe you all have together as a family, and I am heartbroken for you all.
You are a great Mom, never doubt that.
I’m praying for you. Saddened to see you so hurt knowing you’re a great mom and you try your best. Stay strong 🖤
I know it’s very difficult to know that your child had turned on you, but at this point, Michaela has to existence the hardship of the real world. My daughter went through the same thing and she had my other two children taken out of the house bc she couldn’t get her way. The lies try rolled the authorities interrupted our entire life. I know it’s hard… but you have to let go for you and your other kids before she gives you a great attack or damage your other kids in the process. She’s just beginning but she’s on a mental path of destruction. She won’t stop anytime soon. It’s a mental illness and she will destroy everything in her path with her toxic behavior. People will soon see her for her and back off. She’ll be back when she hit bottom, but you have to love her hard and stand your ground or ride she will always run over you. Raise your other kids and don’t compare their actions if they start to act out. But let her go for now for you and your other kids.
I said the samething. This is who this child is and will become. Shes free now and able to do what she wants. The boy momms sent a strong message calling the police about giving out her address and number.
@lori3310 I mentioned in her last video that if content is what she was gonna keep giving us in agreeance to Jazzy about not bringing it no more on her New Years Eve vlog and how she would focus on her other babeis cuz they needed her too. Shes putting out energy and things her daughter will continue to use against her as she id already doing now. 13 is old enough for the cops to say " hey shes not a missing person", and " kids do this all the time".
@lori3310 exactly! So the less she brings her up in content the more she'll get in her head that her mom is no longer giving her the attention she seeking right now. By the way she cried about the messgaes her Makayla said about her REALLY hurt 😔 to the core. Shes been feeling like this for a while and allowed her listening to music and drawing be her therapy til she couldn't take it anymore
Keep your head up Jazzy. Soon she’ll realize there’s nothing better than home. I was once her and I tell you, I wish I can take it all back. Sending virtual hugs 🤍❤️
Dont beat yourself up, you are good mother!
Dont give up keep, keep pushing for your other babies!
God will take care of you.
Sending prayers.
(I think about you and your family Jazzy❤).
I’m so sorry you’re going through this. This just breaks my heart. She is literally a child! Idk how the system is even allowing her to stay there! The mom of that little boy should literally be ASHAMED OF HERSELF! I’m very disappointed in Makayla too. She’s just young and not developed at all yet. You’re so good to your kids. I hope she gets far away from that boy and his mom. Praying for your strength love. Please breathe and take care of yourself because you will get yourself sick. I know. Stress induced my stroke in my 20’s. Please breathe and give it to God. I know it’s hard. I couldn’t imagine what you’re going through. And then the marijuana just on her gift?! Like that’s just Ghetto. Smoke your reefer but keep it clean. I couldn’t even hang out with a boy at 13. Makayla doesn’t know how good she got it smh.
I’m so sorry you’re going through this..I don’t know if I could be as strong as you are 🙏🏾❤️🙏🏾❤️
Ngl I know for a FACT I couldn’t be as strong as jazzy,I only have one child my 11 yr old daughter is my WORLD I would absolutely kill myself if she was to ever run away😫
Girl, these children are a whole another cup of tea. I will be praying for you and your family.
So a minor child can decide they want to stay elsewhere and there is nothing the police can do? As the mother of sons there is NO way any female child would be in my house much less a minor. This is incredible. I am so sorry for your pain. You’re getting it from every angle. I am praying for you.
A minor cannot decide to stay elsewhere, I'm side eying the situation
The cops can do something they just don't want to
@@Beth-mi2hfthey sure the hell can she is 13 that’s a baby baby I’m pretty sure their kids are safe and home that’s crazy gone for days and the police can’t get a search warrant is crazy
There must be more to this story. I wish them the best.
Jazz ur are the mom that my mom used to be and I took her for granted and ran away and bby life hit like a Tsunami wen I got pregnant at 15 and guess wat my mom was rite there holding and crying with me after the boy I thought loved me put me out behind a phone call..So let her hit the bottom as a parent nobody wants their kids on the bottom bt up is the only way they can go and learn from.. It’s a mental and emotional strain on the u and the rest of the kids U HAVE TO PUT ALL UR ENERGY INTO THEM because it’s not fair to them nor you..Sending hugs 🤗 from Tx
❤❤❤❤❤❤ thinking about you,I'm so sorry you have to go through all this hun. Keep your head up, you are an amazing mother who keeps their kiddos safe and sound.
I agree, God will bring her back home.
I’m praying for your entire family Jazzy! My niece did the same thing when she was about Makayla age and my friend and I had to go get from where she was. She ended up being sent to a juvenile detention center for kids with behavioral problems and mental health issues. That was the turning point for her and she straightened up and realized home was better than being on the street or locked up. I pray that Makayla comes home safe soon!❤🙏🏽❤️🙏🏽❤️
Honestly Jazz, let her stay where she is because eventually she will start these antics with his Mom too because if she will treat her own like that, certainly she don’t give a dam about his. Pray for her to come to her senses and just let her be where she thinks she wants to be. Don’t allow her to set ultimatums at 13, she will see when them Jordan’s and clothes and getting hair done is gone. It’s sweet now, but just wait!
praying for you and your family. Keep being the mom that you are
Im praying SOOO hard for you and your family!!!
You remind me soo much of what my sister went through with my niece. She was a makayla wanting to be grown and felt my sister couldn’t tell her anything even went as far as trying to fight my sister. She really started to appreciate my sister and realize the ppl she was around was part of the influence. Makayla if you see my comment you only have one mother ONE. The boy you date is not going to be here in the yrs to come or the friends nothing. Hurt people hurt people. When people know you come from a good home you can mistake the love being disguised as envy. When you loose your mother that is the worst feeling in life and knowing what you put your mother through on top of that would eat you alive as you get older. Go home and be with your family.
Jazzy you know we are here for you and your family! We're definitely praying for you and your family & are praying that Makayla comes home soon and realizes that she has an amazing hard-working momma that's going to be there for her every step of the way! We love you and praying for you 🙏🏽❤️
Kids go there own way. But, when you spoil your children and treat them like your friend, then they will disrespect you and treat you like they do their friends. I did that with my son and not my other 2 and the difference is so noticeable kids need discipline and to have some type of fear of consequences. Not to fear you but, respect you and know their boundaries. Keep praying and trusting God he will work it out. You are all in my prayers 🙏🏽💜💕
You better than me cux i would cry and let her lil grown ass go
She is going to get what’s coming to her for sureeee
keep ya head up Jazzy, I’m telling you this generation is something different, but as hard as it is, please don’t shut down, your daughter and everyone associated with this is probably watching hoping you’d break down.. it’s in gods hands. We praying for your baby girl and family in Jesus name Amen🙏🏽 ❤
Omg mommie I’m praying for you so hard right now! You got this momma keep your head up! I love you and I’m praying for you and the kids!
Sweetheart, I feel your pain. Stop blaming self. I had 2 kids. One is excelling in life @29 and one died @ 40 due to an overdose. He was my firstborn for 13 years and I made a special effort to give him all that I never had. When all said and done, we are all individuals. I pray for your family and your healing. God won’t give you more than you can bare. Stay prayed up❤