Why Living Abroad on Social Security in The Philippines Can Be Risky
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- Опубликовано: 20 фев 2024
- Retired and Living Abroad on Social Security/Don't Move to The Philippines?@paulinthephilippinesolddog9234 Reasons you may want to take another look before you decide to retire to the Philippines
Link to Kate and John Video
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👍 Good health Best Wishes to all .
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Don't think going there on a meager SS check is a very wise move. You could get stranded have no property etc
Hi @raycatlin3554 Thanks for the kind words and wisdom! We appreciate your positivity!
"I didn't come here to change the Philippines, I came here to have the Philippines change me." Well said!
It's how I Felt when i came those first few times and that is what SOLD me and then I met a Filipina and it was just how quickly can i get my affairs in order and now just a few months away. As that peaceful feeling and enjoyment Every day verses the USA is the Difference
Hi @barryalderson3081 Thanks for understanding our perspective!
yes my senses got used to PH man-made annoyances such as litter, sewer smell, noise of motorbikes, karaoke, substandard public toilets and learnned to accept them all as part of PH sights and smell immersion. Things that only a handful of vloggers will dare document. My only annoyance left is when they use the word paradise. Hell I can’t accept that kind if pinoy baiting it’s pure gaslighting.
Hey Paul! Thanks for the shoutout of our channel and for sharing your honest opinion about the Philippines. You’ve gained a new subscriber! I appreciate how you structured your video and how you have your opinion and also allowed for ours. Very respectful. Happy anniversary to you & your wife and thank you for the views! ❤
My pleasure!!
Pretty inaccurate video you made. Read the comment I left on your video.
Watched the video in the link. It's good to have an honest unfiltered observation of what you all experienced. Personally I am not a city person, so I may not have the same experience. Take care.
Happy Anniversary, Paul and Mae. I've been to the Philippines quite a few times back in the 90's (when I was a bit younger) and had fun over there. The advantage of living in the Philippines (in my opinion) is that many do speak English, while other SE Asian countries don't. I would suggest taking trips to different countries (Philippines, Thailand, Cambodia, and Vietnam), to see which country could be your next home. The good thing about living in an Expat community, is that you could get some help from them, to get things set up. You would have to determine what is more important to you: people speaking English, infrastructure, good hospitals, food, nightlife, less pollution, cheaper rent, adequate housing, friendship with the locals and/or other expats.
Pls go back to where you came.from. dont change us and my country. If you complain and find us not according to your standards then go back where you came from. Every country has their own pros and cons. We dont want you if you dont like us. As visitors adapt to your host country. Dont change us and respect us because you are not perfect but racist.
Hi @stand.6008 Thanks for the anniversary wishes! We're loving life in Dumaguete too!
Agree. Im in the PH because of the English and the USD price arbitrage. These 2 main reasons make talking with provincial lasses much easier.
Good job, Paul. I'm a 75 year old USA expat living here fulltime retired on SS. Married to a Filipina who takes good care of me for over 10 years.. I'd hate to live here on my own. She's my muse, I just help with the bills and follow her lead. Just grateful to have a loving soulmate who guides me through and around all the pitfalls of a different culture. I don't miss the USA except for some family and friends I stay in touch via Messenger and Skype. You tube is my connection to the world, sitting in my sturdy rocking chair . I have no interest in being part of an expat community. Don't speak much tagalog but get by with English and my wife's translations. Fun and beautiful country full of problems, Life is an adventure, go live it. Glad I live here and not somewhere else. My grass is green enough here, not looking for more.
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You take care of her
Hi @stevendavis8636 Thanks for sharing your inspiring story!
Always refreshing to watch your videos Paul. Sensible, honest, reflective.
Hi @justinmcintosh6554 Thanks for the kind words! We appreciate your support.
If you are a married couple and your partner is not Filipina who wants to live here, there are so many other places in the world to go live and explore as a couple besides the Philippines. Try them all.
That may take a while...
@@patrickwilliam3322, sir, with all due respect “that’s an excuse we tell ourselves”!
@@DD214-Alumni The world's a big place! I've been to 60 countries and lived in 5. Trying everywhere would take several lifetimes.
If you bring a Western GF/Wife to the Philippines they won't be for long...
Thanks for the latest video Paul. One of the many reasons You are my go to guy is your candor and views. It's as if you and I are seeing things through the same prescription glasses. It will be soon that Juls and I return. One of the 1st things that I want to glean from you is a referral to the attorney that has handled several matters for you and Mae. I don't know when I'll ever learn my lesson about putting me/us out there and trusting others who initially seem to want to help or facilitate our goals. I've endured and painfully made sacrafices and lost big time in trusting people.
Someday, we'll meet and begin what I know will be a great friendship. I haven't forgotten that Mae is fond of chocolate. Take care buddy and stay safe.
Congratulations Paul and Mae on your anniversary! Thanks for the video!
Hello Paul, i arrived in Cebu City on 02/17/2024 and was surprised how different it really is even with over a year of research and listening and watching your vids and many others, so far its been three 4 days since i arrived and i have yet to meet an unfriendly Filipino they are so nice and they try to be as helpful as they can.
I love the food the people the laid back way of life i have dicovered here. The only individuals that i have met at malls, grocery stores, coffee shops restaurants etc. that will not acknowledge even a simple hello are other expats, very sad indeed, i will be here on my retirement recon mission till 03/11/2024 and i will hang out with the happy people,Thank you Paul for the valuble information you have shared with us through out the years.
Thats awesome, let us know how its going, please.
Hi @user-fs3ws4br2d Thanks for sharing your experience! We're glad to hear you're enjoying life in Cebu City.
Congratulations on your one year wedding anniversary Paul. You give me hope to find my soulmate in the Philippines when I come there. I like your common sense videos without sugar coating the way things are there. Keep up the good job and I wish you ongoing success and happiness.
Hi @michaellewis5133 Thank you, means a lot coming from you! We appreciate your kind words.
When I compare your channel to all the others I watch it is actually really refreshing that you do not do reaction videos and you have a good way with words no wonder your subscribers dwarf the others. Some people just have got the gift. a nice drama free steady consistent channel.
Yup. This is why I switched from "Every Man Has a Story," "Tim K," and "Sunshine Shoulders" to Paul's channel. I'm staying away from the dramas and just want lighthearted information.
Hi @Philippines-Anthony-Sandra Thank you, means a lot coming from you! We're glad to be a breath of fresh air in the expat vlog space.
Good on you and your dear wife. You guys are REAL-GOOD people. Keep sending out your good vibes and info.
I have lived here a long time. I stay away from most expats and live my life very low key. Living anywhere has its own challenges uniquely their own. Can’t change that simple fact but you can change what short comings are acceptable or unacceptable to you. Good blog, God Bless.
Expats 99% suck. Good advice.
I think this is the best take on the issue of whether or not to move and live in the Philippines. Very honest and very frank. Kudos to Paul.
Hi @BobCasti Thanks for your kind words! Glad you found the video informative.
Watched 15 seconds of the video that you linked. Tatted neck and I was done. Love your attitude Paul and your common sense in how to evaluate what you experience. Your life is whole, wholesome, and sane. I even watch some of Baby Mae's videos. Congratulations on your first anniversary. May you have decades more....smile..
LOL, 100% agree, I gave it 2 minutes, cuzz I didn't want to be THAT GUY. But you are RIGHT ON and encouraged me to make a comment above about it as well. As Paul stated, nothing personal, just NOT my cup of tea!
Me too fat woman with a tattoo on her neck is something I recall of the white trash living in a run down trailer in America. There are lots of poverty in most cities in the Philippines as well as homeless drug addicted places in Los Angeles, Oakland, San Francisco in America. I stay away from those areas and same in the Philippines. I can afford to stay in resorts and upscale places in Manila like BGC, Makati, Pasig, MANILA bay Area also in Cebu IT park, Mactan Newtown, iloilo near the Esplanade and short stays in Boracay, El Nido, Coron, Panglao island in Bohol and Samal Island in Davao. Since Im older I stay near the big cities near a good hospital.
That neck thing just put me off too. But even worse is its obvious they did little to no actual research.
Once again, I appreciate you, Paul, for being candid about your thoughts and experiences here in the Philippines 🇵🇭 ❤️ ❤. You're one of the best 👌 ❤. Congratulations on your one year anniversary 💕 💞 😊
Hi @bemcorrales5358 Thanks for the kind words! Appreciate your support.
Everyone doesn't like the same things in life. I know some people that would absolutely hate the Philippines. But like you it works for me.
I didn't vibe with Thailand and I was only 21 and highly adaptable. Philippines was just cool the moment I arrived.
Hi @lavonyoung2366 We're glad it's a good fit for you!
Always great videos...miss the ride alongs
Another great video, thank you for telling like it is.
Thank you Paul for everything you have shown and talked about in your videos
Happy belated anniversary Paul and baby mae
Happy Anniversary Paul and Mae!🥳
Agreed, the Philippines has some beautiful locations, but there are also areas of abject poverty, too. Sometimes both are right next to each other. 🤔 I’ve come to accept the good with the bad, but overall, accepting the lifestyle here, I still see more good than bad. Since this will be my forever land, I’ll try to stay in the better end of the scale
Been here full time since October after being back and forth for 9 years. Cons are traffic, poverty, pollution, mostly unhealthy food, and healthcare, especially if you are a senior citizen. I’ve personally almost been in two scooter accidents from people driving on wrong side of road or not paying attention. Driving is chaotic here. Pros, costs (but rising), people, English language everywhere, islands and beaches (those not polluted). Great video post, well said!
Very true ! I live in PH and agree on everything you pointed out. 😢
I wouldn’t pee on the best part of the Philippines and I have been there 5 times.
Philippines is a nice country . . .a rich country speaking on it s natural resources but it s a pity that corruption and crimes and slums overshadowed the beauty of this country. I d like to live there again too but I couldn t imagine I m living a comfort life and so many around me are suffering. Thanks God . . . he blessed me and in my heart I wished they will be also be blessed.
Hi @chrisj302 Thanks for sharing your experiences, we appreciate the honesty!
Paul I respect your truthfulness and candor.
thanks for the link to Kate an John video. no disrespect, but their video was how I remember the Philippines. my memories go back close to 50 years.
As much as I do love the Philippines, I've found Thailand, specifically Chiang Mai, more to my liking. That said, living overseas isn't for everyone, I'd actually say most, but credit to everyone who has given it a shot even if it didn't stick.
I moved to Vietnam but was thinking about Thailand for sometime before I made the move. I had the advantage of being the military and had visited many countries in Asia before I retired.
@saigoncowboy8149 yes, 12 years in the US Navy got me introduced to Southeast Asia (and pretty much the rest of the world) so I knew what I was getting into. And no matter, the good far outweighs the bad!
@@briandumont7272 Are there many American expats where you live? I rarely find any here in HCMC. I guess that's both a blessing and a curse.
Thailand is cheaper and isn’t corrupt
The visa is a bit more complicated in Thailand.
Love the Philippines. Love it. Love it. Love it.
Hi @robertcrotty9000 Thanks for watching! We're loving life here too!
As always, I appreciate your approach, Paul!
An absolute gem of a video!! Thank you so much for taking the time you took to make this.
Great honest take on the Philippines. Vacationing here is different than staying long term, but I love the life here!
Hi @bfrank9079 Thanks for your kind words! We feel the same way about Dumaguete's charm.
I went and watched their video. Bless their hearts. I think they did all of their "research" on TikTok and Instagram. They relied on "influencers" too much it seems. If they had watched videos from older expats, I think they would have seen and learned about almost everything they said surprised them.
Nothing new
If I am a judgemental person , I will say, I can see more trash in them than this country has. They think they are much better than anyone else because they are "AMERICANO". I can never do what they did, trashing globally a country. What if I will say, she looks like a freak, fat, ugly, unkept, dumpy .....then advise men not to marry her because of all her above flaws, how do you think she will feel. People are so ignorant, they thought all countries are like 🇺🇸.
Yep. I learned nothing from the video, other than they hated the PH.
Hi @anaveragejoeslife Thanks for the honest feedback! We appreciate all perspectives and will keep sharing our experiences honestly.
Happiest anniversary Paul and Mae may God bless you both ❤❤❤
Happy Anniversary I wish you guys good health and many anniversaries to comes🥂🍾
I was surprised watching your video because last year I had the feelings that you have enough from the Philippines. Now it sounds more positive and l am happy for you.... Most of the vloggers don't know anything about the Philippines and the Filipinos when they posting their videos. The information they have is only second hand information which can be very positive or very negative. If you live more than 30 years in SEA and 18 years in the Philippines you will have a different opinion than people who are still in tourists mood when they move to the Philippines.
Life is what you made and not what others say.... I am retired since 7 years and it's the best time of my life without thinking about others opinions.... Thanks for your vlog and keep doing it in a positive way ....
Hi @klausschumacher7126 Appreciate your thoughtful comment and understanding of our experience. We're happy to share our story positively. Thank you!
Personally, I love the Philippines! I been there four times and I’m planning to become an expat in about ten years or less. At the end of the day everybody is different.
Hi @danielpasterp5837 Thanks for your enthusiasm! We're glad you enjoy our home country. Best wishes on your future expat adventure!
Glad to see you doing well 🤠
Hi Paul,
I have been a subscriber of yours for sometime now and really enjoy your videos.
But recently I have been watching videos about some of the trouble spots around the and finding it quite depressing.
So I have decided to return to you and watch your videos to watch and listen to nice people.
It so refreshing.
Thank you Paul.
Hi Paul. I've never commented before, I don't live in the Philippines and I never will, but for some reason your video popped up on my feed about 3 years ago while I was in quarantine in Thailand when you were still quite new. Anyway, of course, I got sucked into many other channels but faithfully l watch yours and feel like I know you. You look almost identical to my father when he was younger (im in my early 40s) but I just want to say how much I appreciate your maturity and level-headedness. I have seen the "DRAMAguete" stuff these past couple of weeks and there are so many channels that sit on the camera for hours and just talk about people's lives that they dont know and dehumainze people and literally yell and scream at each other - its beyond crazy. I appreciate that you aren't one of them and it makes you stand out from the rest of the crowd. Well done, you are THE stand-out channel in the Philippines full of honesty, integrity and sanity. Keep it up.
Hear hear
America is best country for many things. But high priced. I like living in Lapu-lapu. Close to shops, open markets and medical, building house for fraction of cost it would in USA. Yes there is massive poverty, garbage, dogs and traffic. You eirher deal with it or leave.
Or not go there in the first place
YOU WERE RIGHT ABOUT THAT COUPLE & VERY KIND OF YOU TO SEND PEOPLE THEIR WAY THANKS AGAIN !!
Hi @davymoose3815 Thanks for your kind words and understanding!
Uncle Pauly , your one well thought out human. I love your inspiration and seeing your love for the Philippines. You give me hope, love you brother ❤🎉
Hi @HexFlex-ss9rm Thanks for the kind words, brother! Means a lot coming from you. ðŸ
Good morning from England Paul, though it's afternoon over in your place, I've been all over the Philippines travelling there since 1992 well before mobile phones and the internet, despite these vast differences like the heavily polluted Pasig river to the beautiful sea in Boracay, the very hot and humid Leyte to the cool Baguio, the street seller with chicken feet to eat, to the Marco Polo hotel with exquisite delicious foods you thought weren't even available in the Philippines, and of course the smiling friendly Filipinos, if you can just go with the flow of often slow bureaucratic progress and often very slow traffic, then this is the place for you, I'm emigrating very soon, once I've got a pad sorted and the visas explained at the Philippine Embassy 😊
Hi @GeoffsPhilsInfo Thanks for sharing your experiences in the Philippines! We love it here. Good luck with your move!
@@paulinthephilippinesolddog9234 thanks Paul, if I get time, I'll pop in and join you guys for a coffee
Hey Paul I watched there video and there were very honest I was suppose to spend 3 months in the PHs but only lasted 6 weeks and I couldn't get back to Thailand fast enough. there is just no comparison IMO.
Very well said sir Paul...welcome to the Philippines and enjoyed life with your beloved wife. 😊🙏🇵🇭❤
Love your state of mind. I will arrive hoping to be favorably affected by the Philippines.
Just keep an open mind and Enjoy the Beauty all around and the peace you feel within and NO Stress and as Paul says be able to Adapt, Adjust and Accept and have a Wonderful time as every time i came it only made me want to come back More till i decided to Move there
Hi @normanzimmerman5029 Thanks! We're glad you like our vibe. Best wishes for a great experience here!
Congratulations on your one year anniversary.
It sounds like that couple only pointed out the negative things that are present in the Philippines. Keep in mind, just about any place you visit has areas like those. We have less than desirable areas here in the good old USA. But as many of the expats have pointed out, there are many positive aspects of being in the Philippines. Just focus on the good things and accept the bad as part of living there. Enjoy what you have and don't worry about the other stuff.
Hi @bobbymeadows7519 Thanks for the well-wishes! You're right, every place has its downsides. We choose to focus on the positives here in Dumaguete.
We don't hate the Philippines after coming here for 41 years now and the last 8 years of living here full time..We knew years ago the medical care and facilities here lets just say its not the best..far from it.. For those reasons & a few more We made the plan to be out of here by the time i turn 68 and I'm turning 65 next month..We planned well the last 38 years..For our senior years..We will be in the Ocala fla. Area For better health care, better roads & drivers. Better restaurants. My wife & I have been married now for 41 years. And we're going to celebrate our 42nd anniversary in Singapore in August. We love to travel Singapore & Australia are our favorite go to places. Even though we're moving back to the states we will still come back here every year for a month or two..and do that for as long as we can health wise..It pays to plan well..
Hi @stephenduling5024 Thanks for sharing your experiences and plans! We understand the importance of planning for healthcare and other necessities in retirement. Best wishes for your upcoming anniversary celebration in Singapore!
Very informative video Paul. It’s refreshing to see someone speak the truth about infrastructure, brownouts(power outages), lack of inventory, and so on….its just something you have to accept in the Philippines. There are workarounds for those issues to if you’re financially capable.
The problem with expats living on US$1000 pension, they tend to settle down on third class provinces, that is why they experience those power outages, poor infrastrucures, less choices for good restaurants, supermarkets, and other amenities. For me personally, I can settle down in 3rd class provinces because the nature and sceneries are unspoiled, and the food are always fresh and organic.
Hi @user-jk9hh6ws9n Thanks for watching! We agree, it's essential to be aware of these challenges when living abroad here.
On the road to 100k subscribers. I'm happy to see your channel booming lately. This video has gotten over 40k views in a day. Another great video Paul.
Hi @kingbeestacker873 Thanks for the support, appreciate it!
Thanks Dog , I would like to move there but I’ve got 2 more years to work . My Fiancée’s visa was just approved . I like it there
long distance relationships rarely work out. Buyer's beware
Thanks Paul! My 2cents. Its really showing peoples life experience. There will be good and bad anywhere you move. I've been lucky? in living in different places in my country and different countries. Moving to a new place is overwhelming at first. Where to find things, where to go, where NOT to go, etc. If you are not able to change your mindset to live in a new place, learn new routines, language, money, law, you shouldn't be there. That said, I plan to move to the Philippines when I retire. I've done my research, understand the downsides and drawbacks but still believe it is in the top 4 places to live as an expat. IF you CAN be an expat - you know what I mean. :) Congrats on your Anniversary! Hope you are as happy in 30 years as you are today.
What are the other 3😊
@@javidallas84for ME. In no order, Mexico, Indonesia, Germany. Location really depends on the expat and how much research they do, if any. Personally I've been researching for over 2yrs to find a place that meets my criteria. So far the PI keeps coming out on top.
Hi @lowtech67 Thanks for sharing your thoughts, appreciate the kind words and anniversary wishes!
Happy anaversery to youl, you know time flies by , youl take care
Such an honest take on retired life in the Philippines. Being single over 50, the insights are relatable.
I’ll be moving there in a couple years. Me and my wife love it there despite its many issues you pointed out
We've heard about a few negativities regarding the Philippines but there's more positivities about our beloved country. My husband and I would love to retire in the Philippines but can't do so because we've got young grandchildren. But we can still holiday there even for a month or so. More people prefer to retire in the Philippines for various reasons.
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Hi @gregorypeter9719 Exciting to hear! We're loving life here too, despite the challenges. Enjoy your time in Dumaguete!
Paul, being here over 10 years. My time here became much better after moving to province it is more enjoyable. I regularly talked with my American friends and I truly believe I have it much better than them. My money goes much farther than theirs. I spoil my family and myself at least once a month. The remarks you give are very true but it is livable. Only regret I did not buy health insurance here before I got so old..
Hi @tennesseehillybillyintheph835 Appreciate your honest perspective! We've found that moving to the province has its own perks, and we're glad to hear it's worked out well for you.
Hey Paul!!...very enlightening video.🇨🇦🇨🇦
Those videos are very informative. Critical reviews are great
Kate and John's video completely encapsulated my three month visit that I cut six weeks short because I could not stand what I was living. I left early and was glad to get out of there. I had been to the Philippines for vacation and loved most of it. But when it comes to living similar to a native and doing it every damn day,...it is not for me.
Thank you for watching ❤
Of course it’s not easy living similar to the natives!
Hi @johntalley7326 We understand, different strokes for different folks. Thanks for sharing your experience!
I have dogs, horses and other animals. One thing I would have problems with in the Philippines is the lack of empathy for dogs, as you stated in another video. I don't think I can take that, I probably would have a bunch of strays and feeding them all. I can't watch an animal starve.
Hi @dukeman7595 I understand your concern about animals, especially dogs. It's definitely a challenge here, but many expats are making a positive impact by rescuing and rehabilitating strays.
As always Paul...you delivered a great video with the plain truth and very informative
Hi @SpiritRobert-gq3pl Thanks for watching! I'm glad you found it helpful.
Greetings from Hampton Virginia. Thank you for this great video. Will check out the link to the other video you mentioned. Hope you continue to enjoy your retirement there in the Philippines !!! 😇😇😇
Hi @larrygraham3377 Thanks for watching and I'm glad you found it helpful! We're loving life here in Dumaguete.
After much research and many visits since 2012, I decided NOT to retire to the Philippines. I realised I like western comforts too much so I just do 4 long vacations to The Philippines every year. The free healthcare in the UK keeps me healthy and the Philippine vacations keep me young.
Hi @MickyBrownEye1 Thanks for sharing your perspective! We're glad you've found a balance that works for you.
The problem many people fail to understand is each person looks at things differently. What one man might find great, for another guy it is a problem. A good comparison is every guy I know has a different taste in women. It is not good or bad, just different. As for the Philippines, I visited once and discovered real fast, it was not for me. The thing that every man should do is go there and check it out for himself. If you know you prefer Asia, then go check it out and decide for yourself.
Agree 100%. For me it's Thailand. Been visiting since 95, close to 50 trips. Some as long as 3 months. Definitely a great fit, retiring there shortly. To move anywhere without a thorough vetting would be foolhardy.
Hi @GBU61 Thanks for sharing your perspective! We agree that everyone's experience is unique.
Hello Paul. I love your channel and want to thank you for your straightforward opinions on life in the Philippines. I've been following you for the last few years. Keep up the good work!
Hi @John-ew6yn Thanks for the support, appreciate it!
Good job Paul! Another great video.
Hi @randypi91 Thanks, appreciated!
well.....I went to that link and listened to those vloggers and I got a good laugh. Here are 2 entitled people, used to what a first rate country offers, and tried to compare a developing country to theirs. They stressed all the bad things they saw and didn't really go to any places other than the worst cities in the Philippines (in my opinion). They didn't go to any of the provinces which offers many nice things for visitors, nor did they find any of the large grocery stores the Philippines have. All I heard was "negativity". They said the temperature was always 100 degrees, but they didn't go to the areas higher in elevation which is much cooler. I could go on and on, but perhaps they need to do their homework before they go to any other country. "Don't judge someone without walking in their shoes".
Hi @jamesnichols2511 Thanks for the honest take! We appreciate your perspective and understanding of life here in the Philippines.
It's working for you because you made it work for you, and you only. You found a woman who cares and appreciates you for you, and you took your time doing it. You've accepted the lifestyle and adjusted to it. Enjoy life, enjoy Baby Mae, enjoy you. Great open conversation, job well done. 😊👍🏼👍🏼👍🏼
Hi @MrJrweir Thank you, truly grateful for the kind words!
Very nice videos. When you have a guest/guests it's entertaining listening to you guys discuss certain topics, including one another's experiences in life. Keep it up
Great suggestion!
Every few years I send my wife home to Cebu with 8 to 10 grand on her. Her family (and extended family and "friends") will line up to get their cut from her rich American husband. Absolutely disgusts me. I will never move there simply because of that. Cost of living in my NE Texas is high but not having to deal with beggers and thieves is priceless to me. Nuff said.
why send your wife home w that amount.? The Inlaw family now seems to expect it whenever you send your wife home... It's your money and your call...
@@limtseho3540 I love my wife and want her to enjoy her trip with resorts,shopping,etc. Problem is she can't say no to the leeches and pester her till she gives in.
Thing about stray cats is once you start feeding them, you own them. Learn the power of "No".
I find I could live in a small town in Texas [like Luling near Austin] for only a little more than in a small city in Mindanao. I have noticed that my friends in the Philippines have nothing to say to me when my wallet becomes empty. ...hmmm.
Rather than giving in person "from the rich husband" I choose to do it through a Rotary service Club or church. Then people do not hound us
Happy Annversary
Thanks for doing this Paul. Good show
Hi @scottmullis4230 Appreciate your support!
Information is a tool. Thanks.
Hi @strangeanimal1535 Appreciate the insight!
Happy Anniversary 🎊 🎉
I watched the other video. I told them that over the years you have mentioned each and everyone of their concerns. They just crammed it all into one very concise video. I think theirs is a fair representation. I am 76 and their video would not deter me from considering parts of the Philippines as home if I had that desire. Thanks for sharing their video.
Hi @fulks19 Appreciate the shoutout! Glad my content has been helpful to you. Thanks for watching!
I miss your driving videos so I’m happy to hear you are considering doing more. Another great interesting video thank you. I actually like the chickens sounding off but I can understand how they would bother people. Never know until you experience it for yourself
Hi PAUL , HAPPY BELATED WEDDING ANNIVERSARY TO YOU AND MAE , may you have many more.
Good video as usual.
I am 1 of your crazy subscribers , my take on all this , I LIKES YOUR TIKI DANCE...
TAKE CARE GOD BLESS CIAO
Hi @nottelling620 Thanks for the well wishes! Glad you enjoyed the video.
Good story here..Thank you for sharing…
Hi @jefferylorance7988 You're welcome!
Happy anniversary to both of you chap 🎉🎉🎉😊🥂😊
Great reaction video Paul, Excellent job !!! LOL
Hi @commonsense212 Thanks for watching!
great video paul
Hi @chrissmith9538 Thanks! Glad you enjoyed it.
Appreciate your honesty
Great video Paul
I'm happy for you and your wife, that you are both happy where you are living. We all have to do what we think is best for us. Congrats. 🤗🤗🤗
Hi @lorrainedempsey3320 Thanks! We're loving life here too!
Congratulations on 88,000 subscribers!
Really appreciate your honesty
Hi @donaldcastillo2408 Thank you for appreciating our honesty!
Enjoyed the video, thanks for sharing!
Hi @discoverglobeliving Thanks for watching and understanding the importance of careful planning when living abroad on a fixed income.
Great Video Paul. To each their own. If you’re not happy where you are and don’t like it then leave and go someplace that makes you happy. That’s just my opinion. You never have sugarcoated living in the Philippines. I hope to meet you and baby May sometime in the near future when I retire and moved to the Philippines. Keep up the good work my friend kudos
Hi @dougsmyth8092 Thanks for the support, appreciate it! We're happy to be here and sharing our experience with others. Kudos back at ya!
Funny this video came about. Its pretty much what we talked about last week. Im back stateside, thanks for your time.
Hi @whatsnext-007 Glad to hear you're back home safely!
Thanks Paul for sharing your story.
Hi @mattwright4804 Thank you for watching!
Your doing a great job Paul keep it going!
Thanks Paul interesting
Hay Paul thank you for honesty I have been a long time follower
I like 1 yr 8 months and I will be out there hey thank you for all of your help
Great video I love America
Hey Paul long time sub and member I'm with you avoid drama for sure days away from buying those tickets finally checking out Cebu area first as always healthy way to look at things
Hi @jerrystanley6820 Thanks for the support, glad we're on the same page! Enjoy your trip to Cebu.
Honest Paul ..thanks for sharing how much social security money you were getting ..when you arrived …you deserve your additional financial success.. as your stories of yourself and others is interesting …I’m not fan of babymae but you’re great
Your a great guy and there is only 2 bloggers I watch because you 2 are totally honest. I have been there around 16 times, I will be moving there with in the next 2 months, I have gotten everything thing done as your recommendation, just waiting on selling my place. I'm ready to enjoy life with my great girl. I hope to meet you two someday soon.
Great video. I would add a huge asset you have that helps live there and it’s Mae! Don’t forget to give her credit. She’s a gem as are you
Hi @koufax174 Thank you, she's indeed a big part of our adventure here in the Philippines!
paul, I went to the site for kate and john and I loved their video because eveything they said was spot on. I have lived on Mactan Island since 2014 and I agree with everything they said. I am 74 years old with a filipino wife of 16 years, we are returning to our home in the US because we have had enough of the RP. However, that being said I do agree if your pension or SS is not enough to live anywhere else then the RP works for you, especially when the exchange rate is north of 50 to 1. Paul as you said, the RP is the best fit for YOU......enjoy. Robert
I married a Filipina 10 years ago and dated for 2 years before that…we have a small house in Lapu Lapu and a larger one in rural Medellin at the north tip of Cebu Island. Good things about Philippines: sweet attractive women that like older guys, generally good basic inexpensive food with plenty of fresh fruits and vegetables, relatively inexpensive (can make due on $1-2k/month), nice people. Bad things: it’s hot really hot (can’t really go outside between 10a and 4p, limited access to western food, terrible traffic and crowded if living in the city, lots of street dogs all over, litter and poverty (but people seem happy), need at least $3K/month if you want more of a western lifestyle.
I just got back from a trip to Dumaguete. I wouldn’t live in that place.
Why? I am planning to visit there soon
Nope I don't need 3k a month in USA money to survive in the Philippines! I more conservative about my way of living as a western man !!
@@keith3812 How long have you lived here ?
Good for you Keith. I do have a question. Are you able to go without AC? Electric and other expenses, Automobile for example, just add to my monthly budget.@@keith3812
Working in radio for well over 20-25 years in the States. I must say Paul you're a natural at this. :))) Thanks for sharing. I got married last year to a Filipino girl from near ILOILO City. Sincerely, Scott
Hi @scottmullis4230 Thanks, Scott! Glad you're enjoying the content. Congrats on your marriage!