@@uditraj8290 apne maa baap se pucho. Tumhe raat ko 2 bje ghar se bahar bhej denge jarurat pdne pr, pr tumhari bhen ko nahi. Moreover ladko ka gangrape and murder nahi krti ladkiya. To ladko k saath crime mostly ladke he krte hai. But ladkiyo k saath crime bht hai one side love mai murder kr diya ya rape and murder you should read newspaper daily, kitni news hoti h aisi.
@@priyanshukansall5291 to didi agar aapko lgta hai ki Ladko ke saath ye sb nhi hota to aap bhi khuch din phle ka Newspaper dekh lijiye delhi ka tb pta chal jayega🙏 but jaha tak meri samajh hai late night bahar nhi jane se Kisiki development to nhi ruk jati. Mere parents to mujhe v late night to kya late evening tak bhi aaj tak bahar nhi jane diye🙄
I am in my early 40's and I totally relate to this speech. Every guy in 20 should focus on their professional growth, skillset and health. Only this matter in life, rest will follow as you go along. Even, sometimes, your own mother will disown you if you do not achieve something in your life. Then no one is there to love you except you.
so young girls are waiting outside of your house like they do for Riyaz ali? 😂 plus, girls are throwing money on him & he's driving car that you can only dream of 😂
Right sir . Its also happen in my life ........ Pehle koi value ni deta tha mujhe ..... After clearing ssc cgl examination ... Now i'm assistant section officer in home ministry ....... Now everyone respect me value me .
Advice to brothers ... Never get attached to any girl.. They will leave you at any moment cause there is always another guy with more money than You... Never get attached... Be Practical ..
I might love but that must be mutual. As you grow older you'll realize no point in choosing extreme options just find someone who respects you and puts in same efforts.
Abe gharwao se faltu attach na ho. Ladki to chaiye hi hota hai koi milta hai to sahi se bana ke rakho. Boyfriend aur kutte me fark hota haj to soch samjh kar bano
“Aukaat ke bahar ka kaam karna”, is SUCCESS.This definition was given by sir when he came in our school seminar(in ujjain) when i was in 11th std. The session was amazing. Thank you sir for motivation ❤️🙏✨
I am 35 year old guy. Whatever you said sir is damn correct. I wish mujhe pahle pata hota, maine to time k sath sikha. All people who are younger than me can learn from my example. Since, childhood due to family issues, I have always considered relationship first above everything else, even career and money. Last year lost my business as well due to family issues. Log chhod gae bhai meko...dost..rishtedaar. Or wo log b jo lagta tha k ye kahi na ja rahe😁😁. Restarting life again and its not late. Building my lost self image. Will come here again after one year and will share the progress. Lots of love Chetan sir.
Same her brother. My relatives upheld my downfall and I can see it in my own mothers and wives eyes the loss of respect and pity and that hits hard. But I am growing.
This is absolutely true. I have seen the bitter face of this world, being jobless during a phase of my life, with everyone criticizing me for all the decisions I took and all the things that were even out of my control. That phase was the real eye opener. Today I truly understand what the value of a decent job is and how the world treats you when you are at your lows!
As a young guy myself, i believe this is very true. I mean, as men we are born to be a leader, be strong and powerful. Well, I am working on myself everyday, will always do. Thank you chetan sir, lots of love.
That is so true, and one thing I would like to emphasize is that when one guy outperforms his contemporaries, he becomes alienated and criticized for no reason, without appreciating his struggle.
I can totally relate with it. I failed misreably in my career at the age of 30 after struggle of almost 8 years Now i shifted to pursuing PHD and trying to gain confidence No any relative or friends talk to me while my successful elder brother is invited and loved by all
Remember one thing. You have come to this world alone and will die alone. So don't think about others. And you're not alone. There are many persons around you who're having the same fate.
Aapne sahi kha sir,,, mere saath aisa he hua hai.... Jise apna samjha usi ne dhoka diya.. Aapne bilkul sahi kha ki aukaat honi chahiye aur stability honi chahiye.... Jiske pass ye 2no ho to ladki usi ki bahon jati hai.. Ye to ab samjh aaya hai
Chetan Sir, there is an essence in every video of yours that you make. Thanks for choosing the core areas. When the world has given up on you, what you have at the end is yourself.
@@shivangidubey333 I get your point but he's making a generic statement that happens with most of the population (not with all of the population). Your point might be right to some extent but you'll realise what he has spoken in his video once you grow mature enough and seen the world around you.
I agree...What women brings to the table is not always tangible, in general, men provide and protect which gives men the feeling of being worthy and with ambitions while women nurture and I agree many women also provide, nowadays...In a general term, yes, women look for the best male there is and it's their choice depending on how she grew up, childhood memories/traumas, religious beliefs and morals, etc...The media has pushed the propaganda that money is everything and have skewed the minds of both men and women...people wanna succeed no matter the cost, mostly employing questionable methods, for social media clouts and attention! Relationships in general, is complicated and we humans come with inherent complications
@@shivangidubey333 that's exactly the kind of speech and freedom we never practice. "And yes I'm no one to decide whether you are mature or not, infact no one should!" But this kind of language itself shows you're just some pampered child. So yeah, definitely I won't fight with a kid!!
Sir I don't know how you stole my word from my heart !! ❤💯 Man should respect Woman but shouldn't give her over-priority just because she is a pretty girl, and nowadays 90% of boys are doing this mistake.
His videos have changed my life, from a lethargic lifestyle to an active one. He has bluntly slapped how relationships, family, and the whole society works in my face and given me a new perspective. Always wait for your videos and will always be grateful ⭐
आपकी बातो से पूरी तरह सहमत हूं बिलकुल यही सत्यता है लड़का हो तो पैसा जरूरी है पैसा नहीं तो न कोई अपना है और न ही प्यार और न अपनापन लड़की थोड़ी सी भी सुंदर हो तो भी काम चल जाता है
There is no reason to hate you, Sir you're showing all guys that they must see in the mirror and says themselves to be your own hero. As I started my journey from India to Singapore and now in Germany, this journey starts from almost nothing. Just follow one sentence in my head: Utho - Jago and Jya sudhi siddhi na male tya sudhi Mandya kro, from swami Vivekananda. Lots of love Chetan sir. from Saarland Germany.
Bade Bhai!! What a channel... Ladko k asli maseeha to aap hi ho... Aur qa zaher sach bolte ho... Ladko ki hath m aa jati hai... Aur ladkiyan,, wo to door door tak apke channel par nahi phatakti h.. scrolled down in comment section, not even a single girl.. sach kadwa hota h...
I was chasing the love like a stupid guy.. I faced rejection many times..... Today I am busy in making my okat🙏🙏 Thank you sir .... Meri aankhe kholne ke liye....
@@ChetanBhagat1 You are right. I understand that money gives respect but it repect depends upon deeds. Jo har halaaton mein khush ho us ke liye ye sab bekar hai. Pyar ki aisi taisi. Jab aukaat bana lunga ye duniya bhi talwa chategi.
I can relate this very well sir Before 2 year I proposed a girl to whom I use to like but At that time I use to give home Tution in Delhi along with that I was doing my graduation from (Delhi University). She denied my proposal , she even doesn't replied my messages on WhatsApp. But in 3rd yr of my graduation I got recommended in Army ssb . She msged that she failed to understand my love and now she want to be with me. But This time I took the stand and Denied her proposal even she was my 1st crush because I was knowing that in my hard time she is going to kick on my ass. Thanks sir❤️
Brutal truth. Boys just focus in your career development+ health development+mental peace. This combination will make you the best a man can become. Because good health and mental peace is as important as Money.
Meme pages walo ne apka nam kharab karke rakha hai , mai bhi apko mazak mai hi leta tha , , lekin when i had difficult times in life, and i searched through RUclips for guidance , , you are the only person who guide me, and apne hi supportive and helpfull content par bat ki hai , i respect you sir 👏👏👏
thanku so much sir♥️ whenever i wake up i just put up the headphones and listen to u for 10-15 min daily...its like my daily prayer...u say things which my inner self has felt from time to time but i had no one to talk to... Please keep making such unfiltered deep content...
I also working on making my aukaat.... InshaAllah oneday i will be achieved it...thnx Chetan sir u always inspired million of people but i m one of them...
दुनिया है ही ऐसी,और होनी भी चाहिए,इससे आदमी अपने विकास पर ध्यान देता है,दृढ़ इच्छाशक्ति वाले बनते है,ज़िन्दगी में आगे बढ़ते है।।। ये जरूरी है बहोत जरूरी है समाज के विकास के लिए।।
For mutual learning, let us agree to disagree sometimes sir :) Mere success can't guarantee love. Sometimes, simply giving respecting, helping people, over long periods of time do spread love. I have seen this in my life many times without telling anyone about my achievements such as IIT or job. But their love was beyond this as they were unaware. Love and success are both process in life. And the latter requires giving military commands to the spinal cord to gather enough strength to work for extra hours and say come on, wake up buddy ! In the end, you are doing great !
Sir , it’s so nice to hear from you. This is what it makes You - Chetan Bhagat. The way you talk about male life , real world , the extra responsibilities of man that carry. All those words do really hit us , in short resonates in every frequency that sends out to us through your words of wisdom. You really make it connect to reality of the real world. Keep continue providing / feeding us with these perspectives/ advices to us regularly. Always thankful ❤😊
Sir lgta hai yeh video apne mere liye bnaiye hai mai abhi apne total potential ke hisab se - mein ho but i know mera max version aur logo ke sapne mein bhi nhi hoga , yes apke video ne merko mere goals again remind kiye respect u sir
This is something which I have experienced... So basically I am in class 12th right now. When I was in class 9th i used to score good marks till my 10th and 11th.but unknowingly I was suffering from OCD and Intrusive thoughts which later turned into depression in class 12th. I wasn't able to study and the problem was too odd that it was difficult for me to tell to my parents.after some time I told them but what I saw that nobody trusted me(yeah my parents are helpfull and I am getting medications and counseling) but I saw my respect from 9th class till 12th class changed a lot.. this video is truly eye opener for all the boys out there.. start investing on yourself guys....
""" There is no matter of car , business, success...etc... We are already happy with taxi ..,."""""" Waoo sir... Excellent 👌👍 And the definition of success you gave in this session, this is actual meaning of success.... Lots of love 💕 and respect 🙏🙏🙏🙏👏👏👏👏
Baat toh sahi kahi hai sir Mummy se lekar Biwi tak sabne meri izzat utaari hai kyunki meri aukaad nahi hai. Demotivated nahi hoon lekin kadwa sach hai jo accept nahi kar paa raha.
Sir I am a student right now... Before the pandemic I was a good student... During pandemic I had disturbed... Nowadays I am listening you and learning from you... I am trying to improve myself day by day... Thank you sir
Wow! Aukaat wale videos toh alag level pe hote hai.🔥 sir you're the best teacher I have ever come across. I have learnt a lot from this YT channel and i am applying many things also in my real life. It seems working :)
छोटे बच्चे cute होते है... लोग उनकी cuteness पर प्यार देते है.. लेकिन जब तुम बड़ा होकर लड़का बन जाता है तो तेरी cuteness की किसी को कोई परवाह नहीं है l
3 months ago I started to read your book only for my English improvement (my uncle have 5 Chetan bhagat's novels ) i started with'5 point for someone'( because I'm a student) then I complete 1st book and then I read remaining 4 books and sir u don't believe me but I really connect with you and your books . Love u sir 😇. Your all books are really fantastic.
Sir, Thanx a lot for giving straight gyan. Your videos are so true and to the point. I am one of your fans. By watching all videos and reading your books, I had also got some gyan and have started my own RUclips channel. Sir ji, please continue guiding the youth of our country, your advice is true and very very relevant in today's scenario. Warm regards,
I was throughout unsuccessful in my career (Years of drop in Engg., pre eng.) and never bothered about it, and was careless, The day I recognized I am behind everyone while doing below avg. Jobs and then I ran so so so fast like I would die if I won't run. CUT 2 - Worked for one of the most beautiful country for several years with too much pride on my assignments and responsibilities and now working with companies like FAANG/ MAANG. 2 cents from me - The run was too brutal with blood Sweat & Tears, and honestly, It doesn't please me at all even at this stage, while looking back. Better change yourself at the right time as Chetan Sir said else, from my perspective, running like this is next to hell, or the chances of giving up are high.
Chetan sir, I related to this topic. Whenever I look back on my life ( hardly 3-4 months) I found myself in the same position. When I self analyzed what happen wrong to me I always remember your words increase your Aukaat. No one cares about your current situation always try to increase your aukaat. Sir, I also ask a one question how your video is so relatable to us??
This is Damn Truth 💯. I am facing the same . Literally there is no girl in my life to even talk just because i have no value. I feel like an average person and achieve nothing in my life yet. No one like to join me. This is the ultimate Truth boys. I am not a blind faith person but i fully agreed with this💯.
It's true 😐 --When I used to be a topper everyone treats me very Good and with respect --And somehow due to my foolishness I got very poor marks in next board exam Everyone started treating me like a garbage, they use to say you are useless 😒, you can't do anything in life, berojgar They treated me like I did some sin or murdered someone 😌. *It's teach me love depends on your status, either of girl or of parents and family* --thanks to you now again I am doing very fine in my studies 🙃🙂😊.
@@iamonmymission1082 😅😅 when someone asked me I say I don't know..... --Study all subjects daily even for 10min if you want or don't want you have to study -- most important When online teacher teaches you think and study like he is just teaching you only you he is on yt(or screen) just for you . 😉
My life is changed after seeing your videos Chetan bhagat Sir before seeing your videos i have no goal for my future eveytime I waste down my time.After seeing your videos I found my goal a grat roar arises in my heart.Please don't stop making astonishing videos.
"I love being a guy. Because ek ladka apni kismat khud likh sakta hain" .... well said sir
Yep ladki ko itna freedom nahi hota he
@@peteck007 kya nhi hota???
@@uditraj8290 apne maa baap se pucho. Tumhe raat ko 2 bje ghar se bahar bhej denge jarurat pdne pr, pr tumhari bhen ko nahi. Moreover ladko ka gangrape and murder nahi krti ladkiya. To ladko k saath crime mostly ladke he krte hai. But ladkiyo k saath crime bht hai one side love mai murder kr diya ya rape and murder you should read newspaper daily, kitni news hoti h aisi.
@@priyanshukansall5291 to didi agar aapko lgta hai ki Ladko ke saath ye sb nhi hota to aap bhi khuch din phle ka Newspaper dekh lijiye delhi ka tb pta chal jayega🙏 but jaha tak meri samajh hai late night bahar nhi jane se Kisiki development to nhi ruk jati. Mere parents to mujhe v late night to kya late evening tak bhi aaj tak bahar nhi jane diye🙄
@@uditraj8290 abhi massoom ho Thora bare ho jao sab samajh jaoge
"There's nothing less valued than a young boy in his 20s, but that starts to change towards his 30s if he's successful"
~ Jordan Peterson
" only children , women and dogs are loved unconditionally, but A man is only loved under a condition that he provide something."
~ Chris rock
Women aborted in the womb would disagree*
I am in my early 40's and I totally relate to this speech. Every guy in 20 should focus on their professional growth, skillset and health. Only this matter in life, rest will follow as you go along. Even, sometimes, your own mother will disown you if you do not achieve something in your life. Then no one is there to love you except you.
so young girls are waiting outside of your house like they do for Riyaz ali? 😂 plus, girls are throwing money on him & he's driving car that you can only dream of 😂
Absolutely True
Very Very True.
Agreed
Ya first important is to love yourself
"Only women, children, and dogs are loved unconditionally, and men are only loved under the condition that they provide something." -- Chris Rock
Waaah
Maturity is when you focus on your career more than making girlfriend 😇
Right sir . Its also happen in my life ........ Pehle koi value ni deta tha mujhe ..... After clearing ssc cgl examination ... Now i'm assistant section officer in home ministry ....... Now everyone respect me value me .
congrats❤😊
Advice to brothers ... Never get attached to any girl.. They will leave you at any moment cause there is always another guy with more money than You... Never get attached... Be Practical ..
I might love but that must be mutual. As you grow older you'll realize no point in choosing extreme options just find someone who respects you and puts in same efforts.
Ek dum sahi baat brother you are 100% right , no dought .....it's the golden words for all the boys ....👍
In this world, money is your best friend. People come and go, but financial strength is essential
@@genuinehuman1 bhag bsdk.. i don't want to rescue a gal by marring her
Abe gharwao se faltu attach na ho. Ladki to chaiye hi hota hai koi milta hai to sahi se bana ke rakho. Boyfriend aur kutte me fark hota haj to soch samjh kar bano
Even parents stop respecting you when they see you are not working hard. Auqaat banana is the only option for us Guys if we want to survive...
Absolutely true . Even parents and wives loose respect with time if you are not successful.
💯
“Aukaat ke bahar ka kaam karna”, is SUCCESS.This definition was given by sir when he came in our school seminar(in ujjain) when i was in 11th std. The session was amazing. Thank you sir for motivation ❤️🙏✨
I'm also from Ujjain 😀
@@sachinpatidar113 jai shree mahakal❤️🙏
@@lavishneema__ jai shri mahankal 🙏🙏
Jab aukat k bahar kaam kar dia to vo tumhari aukat me hi hai
I am 35 year old guy. Whatever you said sir is damn correct. I wish mujhe pahle pata hota, maine to time k sath sikha. All people who are younger than me can learn from my example. Since, childhood due to family issues, I have always considered relationship first above everything else, even career and money. Last year lost my business as well due to family issues. Log chhod gae bhai meko...dost..rishtedaar. Or wo log b jo lagta tha k ye kahi na ja rahe😁😁. Restarting life again and its not late. Building my lost self image. Will come here again after one year and will share the progress. Lots of love Chetan sir.
You will brother
Same her brother. My relatives upheld my downfall and I can see it in my own mothers and wives eyes the loss of respect and pity and that hits hard. But I am growing.
Wife bhi gayi?
Same here story
No need to show it to anybody dear, good wishes
bhai bilkul aisa lag raha hai ki koi bada bhai chote bhai ko samjha raha hai duniya ki sacchai. Love you Bhai.
Thank you!
Once A Legend Said-
Only Babies,Women/Girls and Pets Are Loved Unconditionally
Men Are Only Loved Only If They Can Provide Something In Return.
True
Aur ye legend kon tha jo aisa bola
khi aap hi to nhi.
@@rajnishrao8832
Jo Bhi Ho Kaam Ki Baat Ki Hai Bande Ne
@@J_R_S sahi
bhai pests aur pets mein farak hai 🤦
I think isliye masculinity is so damn important in Men. 🙏🏼
लड़कों से कोई प्यार नहीं करता
यह सच्च बात है सर जी 🙏
मेरे साथ भी कुछ दिन पहले ही यह हुआ है ❤️
Correct 💯
Napasand karne ki koi baat hi nhi bola aapne sir , every single word is true
Ladko ko pyaar k liye bhi paise or izzat chahiy I feel this line sir ❤️
This is absolutely true. I have seen the bitter face of this world, being jobless during a phase of my life, with everyone criticizing me for all the decisions I took and all the things that were even out of my control. That phase was the real eye opener. Today I truly understand what the value of a decent job is and how the world treats you when you are at your lows!
You're right sir I'm now 19 years old and i understand it when i was 17. Always focus on your goals.
As a young guy myself, i believe this is very true. I mean, as men we are born to be a leader, be strong and powerful. Well, I am working on myself everyday, will always do. Thank you chetan sir, lots of love.
That is so true, and one thing I would like to emphasize is that when one guy outperforms his contemporaries, he becomes alienated and criticized for no reason, without appreciating his struggle.
He is telling the universal truth around the globe....
कभी ना कभी लड़कों को एहसास होता है कि आपके घर वालों का भी प्यार एक समय के बाद आपकी सफलता और आपके पहचान पर निर्भर करता है
100%
100% Right ✅ 👌🏽
बच्चे पैदा ही मतलब के लिए करते हैं. लोगों की आपसे expectation है. आप पूरी कर देते हैं तो फ़िर सही है वर्ना नहीं.
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I can totally relate with it.
I failed misreably in my career at the age of 30 after struggle of almost 8 years
Now i shifted to pursuing PHD and trying to gain confidence
No any relative or friends talk to me while my successful elder brother is invited and loved by all
Hold through bro. Atleast you are growing.
@@rupeyy300 yeah, he will reach his prime when he becomes 40 yrs old, bald & rich, then he'll get all girls 😂 men age like fine wine bro😂
Same here
Jo nhi kr rhe hai voh zindagi hi behoshi me ji rhe hai
Remember one thing. You have come to this world alone and will die alone. So don't think about others. And you're not alone. There are many persons around you who're having the same fate.
खरी खरी सुना दी ultimate truth of our society .who are you not the matter, "what are you doing "that's the "औकात "💕💕
Aapne sahi kha sir,,, mere saath aisa he hua hai.... Jise apna samjha usi ne dhoka diya.. Aapne bilkul sahi kha ki aukaat honi chahiye aur stability honi chahiye.... Jiske pass ye 2no ho to ladki usi ki bahon jati hai.. Ye to ab samjh aaya hai
Watching this video 5 am in the morning and having tears in my eyes being a boy at 27 and achieved nothing..
Bhai kya bola hai ❤
One day u ll achieve brother
Never lose hope🫂❤️
@@SOHAIL_1998 sure brother wish you the same :)
U are not a boy u are a man remember this
Ye baat to bilkul sahi hai Sir ..ladko ko jaldi log pyar nahi karte Bina judge kiye ..but Sir aap hum sabko jaroor motivate karte ho ...apni baato se
There is no reason to hate you Sir , you are the real source of brightness in life ❤️
Thanks a lot!
Bhaiyaa aap bilkul sahi bole aap aise kadwi baatein hamesha bolte rahe taki hamlog sachai jaan sake aur Sikh sakke
Truths are always harder to accept..Thank You Sir for motivating us..Big fan Sir❤️
It's true 200% sir, I'm 20 years old and I already have experienced this 🙂
Chetan Sir, there is an essence in every video of yours that you make. Thanks for choosing the core areas. When the world has given up on you, what you have at the end is yourself.
The person who generated the spark of self respect in me that is Chetan Bhagat... Hats off you sir
Couldn't agree more sir. Woman is loved unconditionally, however a man is loved only if he fulfilled certain conditions. 🙂
@@shivangidubey333 I get your point but he's making a generic statement that happens with most of the population (not with all of the population). Your point might be right to some extent but you'll realise what he has spoken in his video once you grow mature enough and seen the world around you.
Aman bhai ne shi kha, I support u, I support chetan bhagat
😂Women ☕
I agree...What women brings to the table is not always tangible, in general, men provide and protect which gives men the feeling of being worthy and with ambitions while women nurture and I agree many women also provide, nowadays...In a general term, yes, women look for the best male there is and it's their choice depending on how she grew up, childhood memories/traumas, religious beliefs and morals, etc...The media has pushed the propaganda that money is everything and have skewed the minds of both men and women...people wanna succeed no matter the cost, mostly employing questionable methods, for social media clouts and attention! Relationships in general, is complicated and we humans come with inherent complications
@@shivangidubey333 that's exactly the kind of speech and freedom we never practice.
"And yes I'm no one to decide whether you are mature or not, infact no one should!"
But this kind of language itself shows you're just some pampered child. So yeah, definitely I won't fight with a kid!!
उसकी बाते सुनकर इतना सुकुन नही मिलता जितना किआपकी बाते सुनने से मिलता है। सच में। Real truth'sir .
Respect.
And who said Andrew Tate is in jail? He's here with a beard and hair, spitting out the harsh truths.
100%
100% 🥷
Bro don't compare him with him
@@MindANDCulture😂😂 Bro you kidding?? People lack the ability of understanding sarcasm nowadays.
@@MindANDCulture focus on the good self improvement message ignore the rest to God. Be a better person and a genuine human being.
शानदार जबरदस्त जिंदाबाद आप भटके युवाओं को सही रास्ते दिखाते हैं इसके लिए हृदय से धन्यवाद
Sir spitting the truth in every video!
Sir I don't know how you stole my word from my heart !! ❤💯 Man should respect Woman but shouldn't give her over-priority just because she is a pretty girl, and nowadays 90% of boys are doing this mistake.
Yes this is correct. Men don't get unconditional love in society.
These brutally honest talk is the need for young generation 💖🔥 Thank you 🙏
His videos have changed my life, from a lethargic lifestyle to an active one. He has bluntly slapped how relationships, family, and the whole society works in my face and given me a new perspective. Always wait for your videos and will always be grateful ⭐
Happy to help!
Finally a channel that is doing something for men 👑👑👑👑. Indian Top g you are sir 👑👑
आपकी बातो से पूरी तरह सहमत हूं बिलकुल यही सत्यता है लड़का हो तो पैसा जरूरी है पैसा नहीं तो न कोई अपना है और न ही प्यार और न अपनापन लड़की थोड़ी सी भी सुंदर हो तो भी काम चल जाता है
There is no reason to hate you, Sir you're showing all guys that they must see in the mirror and says themselves to be your own hero.
As I started my journey from India to Singapore and now in Germany, this journey starts from almost nothing. Just follow one sentence in my head: Utho - Jago and Jya sudhi siddhi na male tya sudhi Mandya kro, from swami Vivekananda. Lots of love Chetan sir.
from Saarland Germany.
Bade Bhai!! What a channel... Ladko k asli maseeha to aap hi ho... Aur qa zaher sach bolte ho... Ladko ki hath m aa jati hai... Aur ladkiyan,, wo to door door tak apke channel par nahi phatakti h.. scrolled down in comment section, not even a single girl.. sach kadwa hota h...
I was chasing the love like a stupid guy..
I faced rejection many times.....
Today I am busy in making my okat🙏🙏
Thank you sir .... Meri aankhe kholne ke liye....
Keep it up!
@@ChetanBhagat1 You are right. I understand that money gives respect but it repect depends upon deeds. Jo har halaaton mein khush ho us ke liye ye sab bekar hai. Pyar ki aisi taisi. Jab aukaat bana lunga ye duniya bhi talwa chategi.
@@adityasrivastava2842 Abe jaa be
@@babaramdev1077 bhai kyu demotivate krte ho ?
If you were really honest with someone then it was not your fault. Because after you success people just love your success and nothing more nor you.
Just wwwwwwow,,, My age is 24 years ,I have watched lacs of videos but no one has explained and motivated like this ,thank you chetan sir
It's my pleasure!
Aakhe khol di Sir 🙏 Abse jang shuru. Love from Assam ❤️
I can relate this very well sir
Before 2 year I proposed a girl to whom I use to like but At that time I use to give home Tution in Delhi along with that I was doing my graduation from (Delhi University). She denied my proposal , she even doesn't replied my messages on WhatsApp.
But in 3rd yr of my graduation I got recommended in Army ssb .
She msged that she failed to understand my love and now she want to be with me.
But This time I took the stand and Denied her proposal even she was my 1st crush because I was knowing that in my hard time she is going to kick on my ass.
Thanks sir❤️
We need uncles like him in society
Brutal truth. Boys just focus in your career development+ health development+mental peace. This combination will make you the best a man can become. Because good health and mental peace is as important as Money.
Meme pages walo ne apka nam kharab karke rakha hai , mai bhi apko mazak mai hi leta tha , , lekin when i had difficult times in life, and i searched through RUclips for guidance , , you are the only person who guide me, and apne hi supportive and helpfull content par bat ki hai , i respect you sir 👏👏👏
Thank you so much!
4:21 great!!! Very humble person. Loved it. Even I use public transport l
sir you are doing a great job, all struggling males will be indebted to you.....big fan ❤
It's too strange ki yha ek b ladki ka comment ni dikha muje is bat se sch sabit ho gya ki ye sch h jo sir ne bola h
thanku so much sir♥️
whenever i wake up i just put up the headphones and listen to u for 10-15 min daily...its like my daily prayer...u say things which my inner self has felt from time to time but i had no one to talk to... Please keep making such unfiltered deep content...
So nice of you. Thank you!
Amog lila prabhu, Osho, Shwetab gangwar,and chetan bhagath changed my perspective and thinking of life ...
Hare krishna 🕉
Bina pyaar aur izzat ke life meaningless lgti hai but ldko ko ye dono chije earn Krna pdta hai ...
Apki baat se sehmat nhi Hui mujhse is se ghanta fark nhi padta agar Paisa hai toh tab pyar krneege toh voh apse nhi apke paise se pyar kr rhe hai
Galat bola hum ko nahi chahiye piyar 😂😂😂
You're 100% correct paaji!! I fully agree and appreciate your point of view!! 🙏
I also working on making my aukaat....
InshaAllah oneday i will be achieved it...thnx Chetan sir u always inspired million of people but i m one of them...
That's great! Keep it up!
दुनिया है ही ऐसी,और होनी भी चाहिए,इससे आदमी अपने विकास पर ध्यान देता है,दृढ़ इच्छाशक्ति वाले बनते है,ज़िन्दगी में आगे बढ़ते है।।।
ये जरूरी है बहोत जरूरी है समाज के विकास के लिए।।
THIS MAN IS SPEAKING FACTS ❤️🔥❤️🔥❤️🔥❤️🔥❤️🔥❤️🔥❤️🔥❤️🔥
For mutual learning, let us agree to disagree sometimes sir :) Mere success can't guarantee love. Sometimes, simply giving respecting, helping people, over long periods of time do spread love. I have seen this in my life many times without telling anyone about my achievements such as IIT or job. But their love was beyond this as they were unaware. Love and success are both process in life. And the latter requires giving military commands to the spinal cord to gather enough strength to work for extra hours and say come on, wake up buddy ! In the end, you are doing great !
I really like your frankness. At least you are not a hypocrite, thats what i respect. Keep up the great work!
samay nikalne se pehle yadi satya pata chal jaaye...toh us insaan ka jiwan sudhar jaaye...
saubhagya hai sir jo apko sunne ka avsar mila....
Sir , it’s so nice to hear from you. This is what it makes You - Chetan Bhagat.
The way you talk about male life , real world , the extra responsibilities of man that carry. All those words do really hit us , in short resonates in every frequency that sends out to us through your words of wisdom. You really make it connect to reality of the real world. Keep continue providing / feeding us with these perspectives/ advices to us regularly. Always thankful ❤😊
So nice of you. Thank you!
Sir lgta hai yeh video apne mere liye bnaiye hai mai abhi apne total potential ke hisab se - mein ho but i know mera max version aur logo ke sapne mein bhi nhi hoga , yes apke video ne merko mere goals again remind kiye respect u sir
This is something which I have experienced...
So basically I am in class 12th right now. When I was in class 9th i used to score good marks till my 10th and 11th.but unknowingly I was suffering from OCD and Intrusive thoughts which later turned into depression in class 12th. I wasn't able to study and the problem was too odd that it was difficult for me to tell to my parents.after some time I told them but what I saw that nobody trusted me(yeah my parents are helpfull and I am getting medications and counseling) but I saw my respect from 9th class till 12th class changed a lot.. this video is truly eye opener for all the boys out there.. start investing on yourself guys....
You are lying 😡. You are already successful in cricket and you are married to an actress named Anushka
Harsh truth bro.. No one cares about us guys until we have status
@@Peepaltree551 duniya m sirf ek vkohli nhi hai 🙃
Only women, dogs and children are loved unconditionally, A man is onnly loved on the basis of what he brings to the table !
""" There is no matter of car , business, success...etc...
We are already happy with taxi ..,.""""""
Waoo sir...
Excellent 👌👍
And the definition of success you gave in this session, this is actual meaning of success....
Lots of love 💕 and respect
🙏🙏🙏🙏👏👏👏👏
It's really bitter truth. Appreciate it.
गुरूजी एक प्लेलिस्ट बना दो "Build औकात" नाम से 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙂
Sir aap dil bhout bhout sukriya kyu kay Aaj kal kay society may ladkay kay baaray koi baat nahi karta hai .
Ohh God... You r just amazing sir... Harsh truth.. Just speechless 😑
Thanks!
Kutto* ke mje li ho....😎
Baat toh sahi kahi hai sir Mummy se lekar Biwi tak sabne meri izzat utaari hai kyunki meri aukaad nahi hai. Demotivated nahi hoon lekin kadwa sach hai jo accept nahi kar paa raha.
Sir I am a student right now...
Before the pandemic I was a good student... During pandemic I had disturbed... Nowadays I am listening you and learning from you...
I am trying to improve myself day by day... Thank you sir
I was topper of my school before pandemic i ruined myself 😣
Now i am struggling to even get 60%
That's great. Keep it up!
The fact of today's life you talked. A person's Value really matters a lot, respect or love is a matter of how valuable he is to any body.
This is a Universal Truth. kalyug ka sabse bada rahashya...❤❤❤❤
Wow! Aukaat wale videos toh alag level pe hote hai.🔥
sir you're the best teacher I have ever come across. I have learnt a lot from this YT channel and i am applying many things also in my real life. It seems working :)
Thank you! Happy to help!
छोटे बच्चे cute होते है... लोग उनकी cuteness पर प्यार देते है..
लेकिन जब तुम बड़ा होकर लड़का बन जाता है तो तेरी cuteness की किसी को कोई परवाह नहीं है l
Absolutely right sir, we feel many times in life that aukat is most important in life to handle all other things in life.
Thanks 😊
प्रभु जी भगवान सबको प्यार करते है। हम फिर भी उनकी ओर नही जाते ,ये हमारा दुर्भाग्य है।
3 months ago I started to read your book only for my English improvement (my uncle have 5 Chetan bhagat's novels ) i started with'5 point for someone'( because I'm a student) then I complete 1st book and then I read remaining 4 books and sir u don't believe me but I really connect with you and your books . Love u sir 😇. Your all books are really fantastic.
Glad you like them! Keep reading!
@@ChetanBhagat1 🥰😇
Very true!!
Only women, children and dogs are loved unconditionally, Men are only loved if they have something to give.
Harsh reality.
Right sir Nobody come to tell do something in your life and build your aukat.thank you so much sir ❤️
💯 % Correct, No mean of male emotion, pain, loneliness, just chase for money. Then everybody will surround you.
Sir, Thanx a lot for giving straight gyan.
Your videos are so true and to the point. I am one of your fans.
By watching all videos and reading your books, I had also got some gyan and have started my own RUclips channel.
Sir ji, please continue guiding the youth of our country, your advice is true and very very relevant in today's scenario.
Warm regards,
Thank you! Stay connected!
It's damn true,sir, not only girls but also society will see your "aukat".
Truth as it is! My favourite Alumni from IITD 🤗
The best thing i like in sir he is not motivating us he is showing us the reality hattsoff to you sir
I was throughout unsuccessful in my career (Years of drop in Engg., pre eng.) and never bothered about it, and was careless, The day I recognized I am behind everyone while doing below avg. Jobs and then I ran so so so fast like I would die if I won't run.
CUT 2 -
Worked for one of the most beautiful country for several years with too much pride on my assignments and responsibilities and now working with companies like FAANG/ MAANG.
2 cents from me - The run was too brutal with blood Sweat & Tears, and honestly, It doesn't please me at all even at this stage, while looking back. Better change yourself at the right time as Chetan Sir said else, from my perspective, running like this is next to hell, or the chances of giving up are high.
Sir yeh universal truth hai.... Har maa baba ko yeh bolna chiyhe.... Ladke ko koi pyarr nahi karta.....
Chetan sir,
I related to this topic.
Whenever I look back on my life ( hardly 3-4 months) I found myself in the same position.
When I self analyzed what happen wrong to me I always remember your words increase your Aukaat.
No one cares about your current situation always try to increase your aukaat.
Sir,
I also ask a one question how your video is so relatable to us??
This is Damn Truth 💯. I am facing the same . Literally there is no girl in my life to even talk just because i have no value. I feel like an average person and achieve nothing in my life yet. No one like to join me.
This is the ultimate Truth boys. I am not a blind faith person but i fully agreed with this💯.
I'm watching this video on 12 jan., it's a gift for me to change myself. Thank you ❤
Nice video thanks sir aapne asli sach bataya aur ladko ke liye ye ek blassing hai kyuki yahi cheez ladko se perform karwati hai hamesha
It's true 😐
--When I used to be a topper everyone treats me very Good and with respect
--And somehow due to my foolishness I got very poor marks in next board exam
Everyone started treating me like a garbage, they use to say you are useless 😒, you can't do anything in life, berojgar
They treated me like I did some sin or murdered someone 😌. *It's teach me love depends on your status, either of girl or of parents and family*
--thanks to you now again I am doing very fine in my studies 🙃🙂😊.
Any study tips bro😁
@@iamonmymission1082 😅😅 when someone asked me I say I don't know.....
--Study all subjects daily even for 10min if you want or don't want you have to study
-- most important
When online teacher teaches you think and study like he is just teaching you only you he is on yt(or screen) just for you . 😉
My life is changed after seeing your videos Chetan bhagat Sir before seeing your videos i have no goal for my future eveytime I waste down my time.After seeing your videos I found my goal a grat roar arises in my heart.Please don't stop making astonishing videos.
Always happy to help! Keep watching!