Pole dada yangu. Nii hikiityo ni giriama but i thank God. For 29 years now and i praise God. Ni caitani tu mwari waithe witu waingirire Muthuri waku. Wakwa arugamire nanii riria onire no athukirio mucii. Atumire othe mshe gitio namanjitikire.
I've been married there for the last 34 yrs my husband ni pepo but my in laws ni watu wazuri, even my father in law before dying made sure watoto wangu wamepata uridhi wao,bwana anaishi Nairobi mimi naishi nyumbani, i do my own business there, watoto wamekua wakubwa
Wah been married too there for about 30 years ,it's been a rollercoaster.Umenichekesha ati bwana ni pepo.we should meet and share notes how to navigate.coz lazime tutanyolewa mbui hapo
In this world, dont struggle to prove anything to anyone. Compete with yourself and prove for yourself. Nobody really cares. That man wasted you for years. Pole sana.
The man knew very well that he was sick and did not want to infect you.That is why he said he wasn't able to have sex with you.Thank God that he protected you without knowing. Continue serving the leaving God for the devine protection.God loves you mum.You're blessed.
Hey saimo, hey mom all I hear is muthuri , muthuri , muthuri what of you want responsibility have you taken for your own life. This is an idle lesson for women my age to chase our dreams .
I really understand what this woman passed through....mimi niliyapitia haya and God is faithful because things happen for a reason....we shouldn't always complain but thank God
Pole Mami, but hii kitu ya kuproof aki imefanya wamama wengi waumie.mtu alikuwa Na 33 million Na saa hii mtoto anakosa school fee,woi jipanga Na hiyo job yako aki usijiproof tena .
My aunt married huko lived in Nairobi, when the husband passed on relatives came and carried everything from the house even curtains, she was left standing with her kids.
Women we go through a lot haki😢. I was married to someone who drunk so much, couldn't hold a job and eventually I was left holding trying to rebuild my life. My sister has been married to a Luo man for 28 years, but by God's grace everything has gone well. God is always fighting for us. No matter how bad it gets, we will overcome
Mum umepitia sana but i guess ulishindwa kusoma situation kwamba you got soo comfortable of his money and you did nothing to yourself. Women it's much important for us to chase our dreams and know our values. Let yourself earn whatever little thing it will save you on that rainy day. At least have some money to buy yourself some umbrellas 🌂
Not all are bad, I have been married to one for 34 years now. And if given another chance to chose who to marry I would chose the same person over and over again.
The man knew he was positive even before 2007 n thanks to God bcz maybe he didn't want to infect you..n men always finds somewhere to hook on to blame..shameless to In-laws those who try to break others marriages...may God protect all those women who are faithful 🙏
Mary,you a wonderful 🎉lady who has undergone GBV .You have gone thru financial abuse,emotional abuse, psychological mental torture etc. Your name was tarnished by your partner, but you stood strong and fought for your family. I have faith that your son will go back to school. May God guide your steps as you find healing for your inner wounds.
She is talking the truth,mkikuyu haaminiki whatsoever hata ukiosha your spouse miguu.ni bure tu,but mamaulifumilia kuwa manipulation when young,so maliza safari mama juu you are still with your husband
@@elizabethkibuku3373 but when you claim that there is no time andu a ruguru will get along with Kikuyu ladies! What do you mean by that? the issue here personality and character of that husband not the tribe! if given a chance evenso some of the arume a ruguru can a stereotype,negative views of airitu agikuyu,which can not be true!
Uliitikia kukaliwa .you are very soft lady coz you agreed to be manipulated by narcissistic man. Pia uliangalia pesa ukaitikia kutumiwa.lazima ukue kichwa atleast to tame his ego. Again you are still advising people while still in the same marriage 😂wacha kutupima
The problem with your interview lately,, you interrupt alot and you make your guest keep repeating something....like you don't concentrate on what they are telling you!.. stop with so many questions let the story flow. Also that woman should love herself, i still don't know what she is trying to prove with adults children
First for all.. that doc can be sue for breaking his patient’s privacy.. it’s called HIPPA nway.. I’ll be long gone.. don’t have time to proof anyone anything. Sasa ungekuwa msick for no reason. God is good mama!
The truth is that if the marriage is not ordained by God, the marriage will not be sweet! We have gone through very rough issues even with our own people! Let's pray to God for guidance.
So painful but this guy hunted a disease ur there with cold war What if he is evil n rapes you for revenge Kindly love your live n move on. U did your best u don't need to cry
Hakuna watu wako na stress kama wenye wako kwa ndoa though si wote bt are the majority including me niko hata na ma h pylori juu ya bwana hata Sijui ali lala wapi sija muona hata saa hii na ha kulangi huku 😅😅😅
Am proudly luo,utaskia aje unatusiwa n hujui hio lugha?acha zako.all my brother married to kikuyu ladies am also married to kikuyu man.living here in kenol muranga.tuko sawa
Though he is bad thank God hakutaka kukuambukiza ukimwi wewe ishi maisha yako mkiwa tu nayeye mind your business like he does juu ukitoka itainejana umetoka after pesa kuisha kama sio violent just do your own things yeye alimaliza nawewe kitambo wewe roho yako iko tu kwAke ishi nayeye but live your own life my suggestion
Mimi sitawai ji proof kwa familia ya mtu I've been married to another tribe for soo long but usiwai kubali kujengewa kwa ancestral home nunua mbali sana na nyumbani most of all have a voice kwa kila mipango ya familia yako
wewe mama, anza kujipanga , if he goes before you God forbid , you will be told you killed him, they will sweep your house clean I hope you have shared the messages with police while you are still trying to prove yourself bado utaambiwa you killed him, He does not value you
@@CharityNdumia5th No one is insulting her bt are concerned about her welfare after this interview.. Remember she disclosed evn the health status za bwana. Still about families spiritual mysteries, tribalism, brother inlaws etc weeh... Hii ni nguri😅
Simo siku hizi your interrupting alot with so many unnecessary many questions. Nikama unyiti story nowadays. Let the story flow yawa😂 Pay attention please, your making your guests repeat themselves.
Too bad accept mummy move on. nothing will change at the end if anything happens to him they will still say you killed him. Pls go now and God will help you.
But all what you have sayed have been experienced by peolple married to pple of their own tribe,even from the same village ..its not about tribe bana...achana na this backward mentality....i see couples of same tribe going through even worse things....he was not a bad guy..hata amenjengea wazazi wako ..huna shukrani wewe
Narcissists use messages to emotionally abuse their victims... Madam you've been living with a narcissist... Go for therapy you'll find healing for the sake of your mental health and ur children...
This a similar story to that of my late mum.. It's not about tribe, my dad wa a kikuyu same na mum. So ni tabia ya mtu binafsi.. Unfortunately my mum died one and half years after my father's death.. Very unfortunate
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I love this woman no mama amevumilia mengi n always akumbuke kushukuru God coz she is safe n healthy
Pole dada yangu. Nii hikiityo ni giriama but i thank God. For 29 years now and i praise God. Ni caitani tu mwari waithe witu waingirire Muthuri waku. Wakwa arugamire nanii riria onire no athukirio mucii. Atumire othe mshe gitio namanjitikire.
Nice
I've been married there for the last 34 yrs my husband ni pepo but my in laws ni watu wazuri, even my father in law before dying made sure watoto wangu wamepata uridhi wao,bwana anaishi Nairobi mimi naishi nyumbani, i do my own business there, watoto wamekua wakubwa
Wah been married too there for about 30 years ,it's been a rollercoaster.Umenichekesha ati bwana ni pepo.we should meet and share notes how to navigate.coz lazime tutanyolewa mbui hapo
Uyu mutumia araria maa kuhukira kabira ti muthako 😢
In this world, dont struggle to prove anything to anyone. Compete with yourself and prove for yourself. Nobody really cares. That man wasted you for years. Pole sana.
The man knew very well that he was sick and did not want to infect you.That is why he said he wasn't able to have sex with you.Thank God that he protected you without knowing. Continue serving the leaving God for the devine protection.God loves you mum.You're blessed.
Life is spiritual pray and pray
Hey saimo, hey mom all I hear is muthuri , muthuri , muthuri what of you want responsibility have you taken for your own life. This is an idle lesson for women my age to chase our dreams .
I really understand what this woman passed through....mimi niliyapitia haya and God is faithful because things happen for a reason....we shouldn't always complain but thank God
Women stop proving to anyone, just love yourselves and prove that you can make your life without men😊
Say it again and again
@@janerosemaina7542the level of illiteracy is high
Tell them to know 👍
She looks innocent l pity this lady.may God c her through.
Pole Mami, but hii kitu ya kuproof aki imefanya wamama wengi waumie.mtu alikuwa Na 33 million Na saa hii mtoto anakosa school fee,woi jipanga Na hiyo job yako aki usijiproof tena .
True.
From central 🇰🇪 to Nyanza...na sitoki huko ata na madawa
Hata mimi sitoki NGO', Love them for takng good care of their family. No stupid drunkardness. My sons are well taken care of.
This woman needs to see a chancellor, I have listened to her story well and she seems to be in a depression state
Mary a very calm and goodhearted lady from muthaiga
My aunt married huko lived in Nairobi, when the husband passed on relatives came and carried everything from the house even curtains, she was left standing with her kids.
Women we go through a lot haki😢. I was married to someone who drunk so much, couldn't hold a job and eventually I was left holding trying to rebuild my life. My sister has been married to a Luo man for 28 years, but by God's grace everything has gone well. God is always fighting for us. No matter how bad it gets, we will overcome
Symo please let story flow,siku hizi kwani uko wapi,maswali zingine unauliza already the gust ameelezea
Aki 😅😅
I thought i was the only one who joticed he keeps making the guest repeat themselves,nikama ako distracted
Kumbe am not the only one seeing that? Those questions make him even seem ignorant…
Mum umepitia sana but i guess ulishindwa kusoma situation kwamba you got soo comfortable of his money and you did nothing to yourself. Women it's much important for us to chase our dreams and know our values. Let yourself earn whatever little thing it will save you on that rainy day. At least have some money to buy yourself some umbrellas 🌂
Atumia tiganaii na nyamu cia ruguru
Aya nimagukuigua wa mother 🤔
@@johnmwaura7608 niguo ngurigo wamaitu
Not all are bad, I have been married to one for 34 years now. And if given another chance to chose who to marry I would chose the same person over and over again.
@@sarahgathoni3487 thank God my sister, my sibling has gone thru hell with these so called nduriri
I always tell GOD never to let this happen to me
The man knew he was positive even before 2007 n thanks to God bcz maybe he didn't want to infect you..n men always finds somewhere to hook on to blame..shameless to In-laws those who try to break others marriages...may God protect all those women who are faithful 🙏
I don't understand the point of her being in such a marriage. Mama, choose peace!
Pole sana
Hi Symo K, I like the show but the mistake is one, please don't take too much of Coming up. 8 min is too much for coming up
I agree with you 100%
So painful.mama love yourself,if you're not comfortable just move on with your life.sijui tribalism itaisha lini kenya
Mary,you a wonderful 🎉lady who has undergone GBV .You have gone thru financial abuse,emotional abuse, psychological mental torture etc. Your name was tarnished by your partner, but you stood strong and fought for your family.
I have faith that your son will go back to school.
May God guide your steps as you find healing for your inner wounds.
The partner is a narcissist
This is much painful 😮Make sure you don't mix patience and wasting time. They look similar at times..take heart mamaa🫂
sure!!! 34yrs still proving people you are good is uncalled of.
Wow say it aloud some people get messed with these two things
Pole.sana.my.sister.mungu.mbele
Sasa symo na shidwa, venye mum ame wa anika si kita mlamba haki. Ingekua wise ku ongea kama ha yuko huko. Ata kama ni ku ji prove wehhh...
Muna kosa nini Mt Kenya? Mt Kenya hakuna wanaume?vikirieni ×10.
Rudi shule kwanza kabla utuadvice. Ulifanya data saa ngapi ukajua these problems are only on Mt kenya. Effing tribalist
Haiya
She is talking the truth,mkikuyu haaminiki whatsoever hata ukiosha your spouse miguu.ni bure tu,but mamaulifumilia kuwa manipulation when young,so maliza safari mama juu you are still with your husband
Ukabila nayo weh
Gikuyu na andu a ruguru gutiri hindi igoka maigwithanie, aritu a gikuyu nio mahikagira kabira na airitu aao ni hinya muno kuhikio ni kabira ingi 😢
Wacha ukabila
Kuna kaukweli hapo
@@chebukosiwasikesio ukabila it's rare kuona waschana wao wakiolewa na kabila zingine ,sisi hatuna ukabila
@@elizabethkibuku3373 but when you claim that there is no time andu a ruguru will get along with Kikuyu ladies! What do you mean by that? the issue here personality and character of that husband not the tribe! if given a chance evenso some of the arume a ruguru can a stereotype,negative views of airitu agikuyu,which can not be true!
@@chebukosiwasike 🤣🤣ndeto cianakinya hau, reke ndikirire
Let's educate our girls so they can escape such things.
Kabisa
Very true😢
Mìciì nì ndogo
Mera na agikuyu is like oil 🛢 and water 💧
Jehovah
Weuh, this is a WARNING to us who love Luo menz😂😂but I would rather cry there than SUFFER with my kikuyus..😂😂😂😂😂
wa mama tunapitia
Uliitikia kukaliwa .you are very soft lady coz you agreed to be manipulated by narcissistic man. Pia uliangalia pesa ukaitikia kutumiwa.lazima ukue kichwa atleast to tame his ego.
Again you are still advising people while still in the same marriage 😂wacha kutupima
but remember huyo ni bibi yake ambaye wanashea the same bed.sio ety ni side chic.
Anarcissistic him or she hawawezi mimi nawelewa this woman.may God help innocent women.
Niwateithia ruriri handu hanene, airitu agikuyu nemegutura meroragira rugano ruru rwaku niguo magie mitwe 🙉
Only @ Jesus feet one is safe
Mm Mera chaaa,
God has opened a way for you to work sister, work and continue with your marriage. Press on and build your empire
pole mama
Somehow I think this guy wanted to protect the wife. I cannot condemn him. He tried all he could to ensure she was safe.
Thate three million retirement benefits, within two years hakuna😮kweli kihii no kihii😂
😂😂😂
The problem with your interview lately,, you interrupt alot and you make your guest keep repeating something....like you don't concentrate on what they are telling you!.. stop with so many questions let the story flow.
Also that woman should love herself, i still don't know what she is trying to prove with adults children
It's good u have observed that too hadi Mgeni anakua confused kujirudiarudia
First for all.. that doc can be sue for breaking his patient’s privacy.. it’s called HIPPA
nway.. I’ll be long gone.. don’t have time to proof anyone anything. Sasa ungekuwa msick for no reason.
God is good mama!
There’s no Hippa law in Kenya
Woooi pole Mum
yas iko
Mila zingine zafaa tu kuwa gotten rid off. Wasee wengine wako nyuma km teke ya kuku😅. Support from Seattle
Mary go to police station take those massages take ob incase of anything 😢
Pole sana there is a God of a second chance.
Ngoro ino ni ndwaru ni vile tuu ako strong .may God heal her
Stop blaming the culture...you could have acted wise right from the word go
True I went through the same thing
Mama jipe moyo
My friend underwent the same....
The truth is that if the marriage is not ordained by God, the marriage will not be sweet! We have gone through very rough issues even with our own people! Let's pray to God for guidance.
So painful but this guy hunted a disease ur there with cold war
What if he is evil n rapes you for revenge
Kindly love your live n move on.
U did your best u don't need to cry
Mama jipange aki huyo akufe tu saa hii hata kijiko huwezi toka nayo,hao watu hukua wanyama,thru experience and bythe way
Atapata juu ya watoto
Aty 33 millions, aty aty na saa hii hakuna any 🤔
Any marriage a husband doesn't want a woman to work is not a sure bet.our young daughters work work
True there must-have something hidden as long as he knows you don't make your money
Hakuna watu wako na stress kama wenye wako kwa ndoa though si wote bt are the majority including me niko hata na ma h pylori juu ya bwana hata Sijui ali lala wapi sija muona hata saa hii na ha kulangi huku 😅😅😅
Ghaai kwani tuna share, been battling the same with a narcissist in the House I've seen it all.😢😢
Sorry for what you are going thru
Hahaha mpaka unacheka
Sometyms is better ti stay single stress free bila stress micii ni ndogo waah mpaka mtu anaogopa ndoa😢😢😢
Am proudly luo,utaskia aje unatusiwa n hujui hio lugha?acha zako.all my brother married to kikuyu ladies am also married to kikuyu man.living here in kenol muranga.tuko sawa
Mary we ni mkikuyu original kweli,ama ulikorogewa?😮😮😮
😂
Si kwa ubaya but me western siwezi olewa......wacha niolewe na mtu tunaskizana lugha😢
Mukiugaga aty imundu icio niirimaga mugunda wega 🤔
👍💯
I second you my sister
Mlevi noo.. I love my Luhya man. Very caring❤❤
Though he is bad thank God hakutaka kukuambukiza ukimwi wewe ishi maisha yako mkiwa tu nayeye mind your business like he does juu ukitoka itainejana umetoka after pesa kuisha kama sio violent just do your own things yeye alimaliza nawewe kitambo wewe roho yako iko tu kwAke ishi nayeye but live your own life my suggestion
Mimi sitawai ji proof kwa familia ya mtu I've been married to another tribe for soo long but usiwai kubali kujengewa kwa ancestral home nunua mbali sana na nyumbani most of all have a voice kwa kila mipango ya familia yako
so sad,about proving yourself to a certain tribe is a never for me,as long as you know yourself walk with your shoulders high without turning back.
Mary husband is also a narcissist..may God see her through this...
Ni mbara ya nduriri
Hawajui hadi kwa wakikuyu hatufai kwenda ama kukula kwa burial haituhusu.🤐
Mwathani Ngai
Depression ako naye no baya aende hospital
Ugebuyiwa shamba aky
Mama Sarah,,ndukamake ni muturire
Waa tafarira iino iko aje bona hakuna introduction before the story waa so confusing 😮
Wee umeanzia katikati ama.amji introduce imagine
wewe mama, anza kujipanga , if he goes before you God forbid , you will be told you killed him,
they will sweep your house clean
I hope you have shared the messages with police
while you are still trying to prove yourself bado utaambiwa you killed him,
He does not value you
Symo, adverts every 3 minutes 😢. That's just too much
Mm nimekuja in peace bt ndiriri caa
Yaani nikizaliwa,for 34yrs🥺...kumbe marriage zilianza disputes kitambo
😀😁😁
Heheheh
Waaaaat this is so sad
The tribe is not demonstrated as a damning factor here,many half-truths noted.
Noted the same.
Did i here it right 33million or thaysands.. ??????
33 M
Siwenzi furahisha mtu ni kufe hiyo si kuprof hiyo ni ujinga wacha ikae
KWANI HUYU MAMA NI MNJINGA ANJE
ANAONGEA HII YOTE NA BADO AKO KWA HIYO NDOA
Atarundi wapi😢
Pliz stop insulting her if u uv never passed through any challenge coz desperation is depression
@@mwangikezia9364walizoea kututoloka kikiumana dio wanaturudia 🤔
@@CharityNdumia5th No one is insulting her bt are concerned about her welfare after this interview.. Remember she disclosed evn the health status za bwana. Still about families spiritual mysteries, tribalism, brother inlaws etc weeh... Hii ni nguri😅
@@janemwangi6932 Let's hope She will be okey in Jesus name
Simo siku hizi your
interrupting alot with so many unnecessary many questions.
Nikama unyiti story
nowadays.
Let the story flow yawa😂
Pay attention please, your making your guests repeat themselves.
😂 sure he is,
Very very true kushida akirudia rudia after mgeni,noticed too
@@carolkinyanjui2269 Akona tumaswali very nagging some even hard for quest to find an Answer.
At least Kuna mwingine amenotice hanyiti
Ngai am so sorry mary😢
Too bad accept mummy move on. nothing will change at the end if anything happens to him they will still say you killed him. Pls go now and God will help you.
But all what you have sayed have been experienced by peolple married to pple of their own tribe,even from the same village ..its not about tribe bana...achana na this backward mentality....i see couples of same tribe going through even worse things....he was not a bad guy..hata amenjengea wazazi wako ..huna shukrani wewe
Well said dear
Huyyu mama kina vile ni mjinga, what was her part? Sasa she has exposed him, and bado she is there,does she even care for her kids
Very true,what's she's saying,I'm in the same situation
Jipange Mama
I went through the same I was married to a Muslim and I was a Christian
Hii nayo siwezi jaribu aki
True my father alikataaa dadangu aolewe na mluya 😂
It's soo sad to expose your husband when you are still together, things might be worse than they are
I don't understand why you want to leave after 33 years. Why didn't you leave earlier? Don't you want to prove yourself more?
Njeri athie kuu?
Narcissists use messages to emotionally abuse their victims... Madam you've been living with a narcissist... Go for therapy you'll find healing for the sake of your mental health and ur children...
This a similar story to that of my late mum.. It's not about tribe, my dad wa a kikuyu same na mum. So ni tabia ya mtu binafsi.. Unfortunately my mum died one and half years after my father's death.. Very unfortunate
True
Please report the threat text to the nearest police station for further help.
Wewe ulijifunga mwenyeqe,ulikuwa unajua kuna shinda na wanakuonyesha,ungetoloka kitamboo after kupata mtoi mmoja.,but,uliamua kuoleka.
Intermarriage is the worst...I also made same mistake....paid dearly he ended marrying his tribe
Marry Ur tribe...mtu mtambiana atiriri😅😅...mtu anatembelewa na family member wanakusengenya na uwezi elewa.. that's nonsense...
Exactly...mimi I was manipulated coz of naivity
I have an aunt who is married to her own tribe from her own village,and she goes through hell..it's not about tribe bana..pole for your experience