Dealing with divorce & it’s healing process || #85

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  • Опубликовано: 8 ноя 2024

Комментарии • 30

  • @ZendelAtkinson
    @ZendelAtkinson Месяц назад +103

    Facing difficulties in relationships is normal, but there’s always a path to resolution. My marriage went through tough times, but with the right assistance, my wife and I resolved our issues and enhanced our connection. Solutions exist if you’re willing to work together and persevere. Don’t lose faith-answers are possible.

    • @SERIKAmrabat
      @SERIKAmrabat Месяц назад

      I’m encountering serious challenges in my relationship and can’t bear the thought of losing her. My love for her is immense, and I miss her deeply. I’m willing to do anything to win her back. I would be extremely grateful for any advice or support you can provide.

    • @ZendelAtkinson
      @ZendelAtkinson Месяц назад

      Moving on from someone you hold dear is invariably challenging, but in my experience, I was guided by a spiritual counselor who prevented the breakdown of my marriage. Her name is Suzanne Ann Walters.

    • @SERIKAmrabat
      @SERIKAmrabat Месяц назад

      I'll promptly start searching for her online. I appreciate it. I'm optimistic that pursuing this approach will also lead to favorable outcomes for me; her absence weighs heavily on me.

    • @ZendelAtkinson
      @ZendelAtkinson Месяц назад

      You should

    • @realist1641
      @realist1641 Месяц назад

      Bots 😂

  • @redz1219
    @redz1219 Месяц назад +24

    Big up west for opening up defo ain’t easy, divorce has so many factors to it which is why it’s such a difficult thing for example my parents divorced when I was a kid and I have step brothers and sisters that I wasn’t able to build a relationship with even though we’re blood related so it’s kinda like a domino effect especially when you have kids involved

  • @rahmaali8476
    @rahmaali8476 Месяц назад +7

    This episode had me in tearsssss SubhanaAllah west literally spoke from the heart. You never really hear a man’s side or hear about his emotions becoz we r taught u guys have no emotions which is wrong. I got emotional for 2 reasons…my dad was the best dad in the world Allayarahma he was a father to just girls like you and u sound a lot like him a lot of love for ur girls MashaAllah…Another reason was I would never want to divorce due to my children everything u mentioned always plays in my mind when times r hard! May Allah bless you with a great wife InshaAllah as u have a great head on ur shoulders Allahumabarik! May Allah bless u all with marriages that you thrive in ameen 🥰
    P.s the bants between u 3 kills me everytime 😂😂 this was a emotional rollercoaster forreal

  • @Sabreen.1
    @Sabreen.1 Месяц назад +9

    What a great episode Allahuma Barik my Allah heal what has been shattered West your a wiseman !
    We need a pod with lessons shared for newlyweds and why it’s so important to stand up for your children as a divorced man ! Jazakallahu khairan guys big up !

  • @HapsuuuA-gz6hn
    @HapsuuuA-gz6hn Месяц назад +10

    This was a great episode . Ma sha allah west carried as the topic was personal to him . Thank you Westside for giving an insightful breakdown of divorce , whilst still maintaining the respect and privacy of you and the mother of your children . Thank you for also encouraging men to still be in their childrens lives and be a FATHER! Overall , I think that you demonstrated how difficult and painful divorce can be , but time heals and alhamdulilah you healed through your trauma . May allah bless you all 🙏🏽🤍

  • @meriemmussa4512
    @meriemmussa4512 Месяц назад +2

    Allahuma barik to our brother for his vulnerability. May Allah reward you ameen. This episode was exceptionally important for me as a viewer, it is a difficult thing for a good man to divorce when he has children and also for a woman to choose to obtain a khula. The guilt that occurs is too much to handle at those times. Only Allah knows what happened and how it affected you West and your ex wife but Well done West for being so honest yet beautifully tactful and humble.

  • @Sawmert1
    @Sawmert1 Месяц назад +7

    Big up for discussing such a deep and sensitive topic. For a future episode, could you guys maybe talk about ideal age to get married, ideal age gaps between husband and wife etc and why men are women are getting married later in age than our parents generations. As a 29 year old single Muslim man I'd be intrigued in hearing you guys' thoughts

  • @hamdag8467
    @hamdag8467 Месяц назад +1

    What a beautiful episode ! May allah bless west immensely, really commend him for the way he handles himself. I hope Allah continues to bless him and and his children❤️❤️❤️

  • @UmmWafaa
    @UmmWafaa Месяц назад +6

    Your editor needs to start doing a spud count for Izzy and Sharp lool. Allahuma Baarik their friendship is beautiful.

  • @fargo1228
    @fargo1228 Месяц назад +1

    Much needed conversation. Appreciate the lessons in this and the vulnerability shown. Big up the mandem

  • @abdallsaid8389
    @abdallsaid8389 Месяц назад +6

    What great episode ❤

  • @MP-fy6nk
    @MP-fy6nk Месяц назад +2

    Nah wallah I'm upset about Evz leaving he was crucial to the show and elevated its level, Free Evz

  • @youheard03
    @youheard03 Месяц назад +2

    West is a deep guy bless him

  • @syhass6347
    @syhass6347 Месяц назад +1

    West ❤️

  • @Layla.17
    @Layla.17 Месяц назад

    Very good ep👏

    • @figuringitoutpodcast
      @figuringitoutpodcast  Месяц назад +1

      We’re glad you like it

    • @AHMEDKONE20
      @AHMEDKONE20 Месяц назад +1

      ​​@@figuringitoutpodcastSalam, brother, how can I be on this podcast kindly let me know, I've so much to share with you Insh'Allah.

  • @Ilyasdinho11
    @Ilyasdinho11 Месяц назад +2

    Expertise 🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @Yasminaaaaaaaaaaaaaa
    @Yasminaaaaaaaaaaaaaa Месяц назад

    omg I'm so happy he has left, wish him all the best though

    • @misss3461
      @misss3461 Месяц назад

      Happy?

    • @Yasminaaaaaaaaaaaaaa
      @Yasminaaaaaaaaaaaaaa Месяц назад +1

      @@misss3461 yes it wasn't a typo babe

    • @misss3461
      @misss3461 Месяц назад

      @@Yasminaaaaaaaaaaaaaa 😂😂😂 interesting