“Each one of us has so much expertise on what it means to be human, and when we remember that, then every person is a potential world renowned scholar.” “Being in a body is the ultimate form of Drag.”
Kindness is a choice, to yourself and others. And not letting the bullying, slurs and opinions of others define how you look at yourself. My take, I'd rather be ugly on the outside than ugly on the inside. I have been called horrible derogatory words, by family members and strangers. But as a non-binairy person I am living my biggest revenge: queer joy!
My personhood, gestures and gayce all conspired to betray me. Once you have been bullied and it never stops even at sixty-one years...talking about yourself isn't narcissism there is no love bombing for someone or even for yourself. Talking about yourself thinking about yourself is all about survival managing the hurt to hopefully thriving right now even at this advanced age I am a zombie on autopilot.
Alok, your words help me get through every day. Thank you for being who you are. Thank you for being yourself. It helps me feel like I can be myself too.
This is also a guy who seeks to date straight men - and wonders why he “can’t get laid” and calls little girls “kinky” saying there’s no purity in little girls. I have a feeling that years down the line we’ll all be asking how this guy got so much pop culture praise. Narcs have a way of getting clumsier as they age.
First of all, when has Alok ever said either of those things ?? Secondly, they're getting recognition because they're spreading a movement of love that makes people feel good about themselves. If you can't see or accept that, I don't think you're getting the right message from them. Sure, everyone has the capacity to stand up & talk about their experiences, but few ever truly do & I'm glad Alok has had the confidence to speak their truth & spread their love. Also don't use the term 'narcissist' unless you're a trained psychologist in a professional setting, it's a bad look & an untrue take.
Imagine making a whole career out of just talking about yourself. A narcissist’s dream? What has Alok actually done? He’s not an artists, designer, writer etc. Literally all he does is talk about himself. I was bullied too - where’s my interview about how far I’ve come from elementary school? 🙄
Really shows you haven't heard their spoken poetry nor read their book nor watched the video because they are a living, walking art piece, as everyone can be. & if you have a story to tell, tell it. Nobody's stopping you but yourself. Get a camera, or a pen, or a paintbrush -- tell your story.
“Each one of us has so much expertise on what it means to be human, and when we remember that, then every person is a potential world renowned scholar.”
“Being in a body is the ultimate form of Drag.”
Beautiful conversation, I have become enlightened. Thank you!
so powerfull and beautiful, thank you for sharing your wisdom❤
Kindness is a choice, to yourself and others. And not letting the bullying, slurs and opinions of others define how you look at yourself. My take, I'd rather be ugly on the outside than ugly on the inside. I have been called horrible derogatory words, by family members and strangers. But as a non-binairy person I am living my biggest revenge: queer joy!
Wow, fantastic job 👏 I LOVED this conversation “The main event is that I’m alive, how about you??”
Alok just has me stunned. Every second of this is fueling my love for humanity. I am so grateful that I get to be alive at the same time as Alok.
My personhood, gestures and gayce all conspired to betray me. Once you have been bullied and it never stops even at sixty-one years...talking about yourself isn't narcissism there is no love bombing for someone or even for yourself. Talking about yourself thinking about yourself is all about survival managing the hurt to hopefully thriving right now even at this advanced age I am a zombie on autopilot.
This conversation changed me♥️
Hot Take: Humans are worth it
you quoted my favorite line in the interview:)
It was such a wonderful conversation.Thank you :)
@@javawatson1350 thank YOU ❤
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Alok, your words help me get through every day. Thank you for being who you are. Thank you for being yourself. It helps me feel like I can be myself too.
Wonderful interview. Liberating. 👍👏
I love you
Yes.
🩵🎊💜🎊💓💜🎊🩵
This is also a guy who seeks to date straight men - and wonders why he “can’t get laid” and calls little girls “kinky” saying there’s no purity in little girls. I have a feeling that years down the line we’ll all be asking how this guy got so much pop culture praise. Narcs have a way of getting clumsier as they age.
First of all, when has Alok ever said either of those things ??
Secondly, they're getting recognition because they're spreading a movement of love that makes people feel good about themselves. If you can't see or accept that, I don't think you're getting the right message from them. Sure, everyone has the capacity to stand up & talk about their experiences, but few ever truly do & I'm glad Alok has had the confidence to speak their truth & spread their love.
Also don't use the term 'narcissist' unless you're a trained psychologist in a professional setting, it's a bad look & an untrue take.
Imagine making a whole career out of just talking about yourself. A narcissist’s dream? What has Alok actually done? He’s not an artists, designer, writer etc. Literally all he does is talk about himself. I was bullied too - where’s my interview about how far I’ve come from elementary school? 🙄
Also his outfits are just tacky 😭
Exactly right? When people simply can’t digest your existence, all you do is voice yourself out there and STAND UP!
Really shows you haven't heard their spoken poetry nor read their book nor watched the video because they are a living, walking art piece, as everyone can be.
& if you have a story to tell, tell it. Nobody's stopping you but yourself. Get a camera, or a pen, or a paintbrush -- tell your story.
I hope you'll find people, who will listen and care about your story.
@@00st307-m Your mother wants you to move out of her basement.
why are you celebrating a PDF.file?