The Psychology Behind True Love - Alan Watts

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  • Опубликовано: 28 окт 2024

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  • @dmtdreamz7706
    @dmtdreamz7706 Год назад +92

    If you have something that you really want in your life, spend lots of time loving about it. The more you love the more ideas will pop up the more creative your gonna start to get. Your sublovescious mind doesn't care if your vision is crazy. It doesnt care if you dont know how to do it.
    When you see a thing clearly in your mind, your creative "loving mechanism" within you takes over and does the job much better than you could do it by lovescious effort or love power.
    A different psychedelic from a different planet every nanosecond.
    All sorts of dreams are possible.
    The human nervous system cannot tell the difference between an "actual" lovexperience and an lovexperience imagined vividly and in detail.
    Synthesize "experience," to literally create experience, and control it, in the laboratory of our minds.
    A vision is a very emotional image, the most powerful image that you can come up with for yourself at this time. This vision will become like a hallucination in other peoples mind and this could be the cause of them creating extraordinary things.

    • @spiritlevelstudios
      @spiritlevelstudios Год назад +4

      Thanks for putting words onto that one. Much appreciated 🙏🏻☯️💙

    • @ImSparkels
      @ImSparkels Год назад +6

      dont read this comment after watching this video im tripping balls and climbing the walls.!

    • @joebatista3535
      @joebatista3535 8 месяцев назад +4

      Oh how much I love you, you are speaking an elixir.

    • @kozy15x
      @kozy15x 6 месяцев назад

      Or.. ORRR.. You can get off your azz and go get what you want. While you're sitting there "Loving" about it, the rest of us are making it happen. You think the universe doesn't favor action over inaction?
      All you're doing is creating a fantasy in which to live with and reality will never live up to your fantasy world.
      Stop listening to clowns like Alan Watts.

    • @judithechavarria8966
      @judithechavarria8966 5 месяцев назад +2

      Wow! 🤩 it makes totally sense ! Thank you ❤

  • @rat8cheese
    @rat8cheese 29 дней назад +14

    I broke up with my girlfriend and have regretted it every moment of my life since. It’s destroyed me, but I learned that I am an avoidant from it and the breakup had to happen the way it did. I could not hear her trying to help me while we were together, words can’t change some things but pain always can. I had to lose her to hit rock bottom and seek serious help with a therapist for the past year to tear down this wall I built around my heart since childhood. And now that the wall is gone my exposed heart hurts even more for losing her. I miss this girl so much and want her back but I know that’s selfish of me. I’ve watched this video so many times since the breakup and it hurts so much each time but keep coming back to it. Finally decided to leave a comment today. 😭😭😭

    • @davidmadariaga9675
      @davidmadariaga9675 8 дней назад +3

      Thanks for being brave enough to comment, keep being brave!, all the love in the universe is already within you!, blessings!!

    • @Trent-s4v
      @Trent-s4v День назад +1

      Go get her back

  • @Tubulous123
    @Tubulous123 2 месяца назад +9

    "Love at First Sight" is Projecting our Brokenness into someone else and rushing in to Fix it. "

  • @nikkilowe5819
    @nikkilowe5819 4 месяца назад +20

    People always say, you can’t take this or that with you. But it dawned on me that the only thing you can take with you is…
    Love

    • @friendsofthepygmies3932
      @friendsofthepygmies3932 3 месяца назад +3

      You take the direction of your mind with you. When you die that direction goes to infinity because there is nobody else to constrain it.

    • @Seekersofwisdom-dq9wc
      @Seekersofwisdom-dq9wc 19 дней назад +1

      That's a beautiful realization! Love truly transcends everything. While material things stay behind, love is something that stays with us, shaping who we are and how we impact others. It's the one thing that connects us beyond time and space, and in the end, it may be the only thing that really matters.

  • @pprehn5268
    @pprehn5268 9 месяцев назад +42

    If you love with all your heart and detach with all your soul, You will feel a sense of wholeness.

    • @yaroslavkuznyetsov2932
      @yaroslavkuznyetsov2932 4 месяца назад +3

      Worthlessness is what u meant.

    • @stop7556
      @stop7556 Месяц назад

      ​@@yaroslavkuznyetsov2932not knowing your worth at all though would be freeing. It may be dumb but it's comforting to some.

  • @adamfawkes9972
    @adamfawkes9972 11 месяцев назад +39

    “Love is patient and kind; love does not envy or boast; it is not arrogant or rude. It does not insist on its own way; it is not irritable or resentful; it does not rejoice at wrongdoing, but rejoices with the truth. Love bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things.”
    ‭‭1 Corinthians‬ ‭13‬:‭4‬-‭7‬ ‭

    • @friendsofthepygmies3932
      @friendsofthepygmies3932 3 месяца назад +1

      Much better than this vid

    • @pseudo_ra
      @pseudo_ra 6 дней назад

      Beautiful! The Bible has such beautiful passages/verses filled with truth.

  • @sim._.dhillon
    @sim._.dhillon Год назад +27

    just love this man and his wisdom he left behind for us :) beautiful.

  • @rachelross5829
    @rachelross5829 4 месяца назад +10

    Existence is love so I let it flow through everyday. It's a beautifully heartbreaking experience but being protected heals the hurt I witnessed and actually take on from hearts that are so broken. Met a man a few weeks ago and his guard dropped in my presence so much so that my own daughter said his whole world stood still when I touched him. Later that day he stopped in his whirlwind frenzy, put his hand on a wall, dropped his head and opened his heart with beautiful emotions. People respond to my openess the same.
    Thank you for this video ❤
    We are all here to assist one another and when we do it correctly, the divine renews your heart everyday.

  • @jimmysroom5132
    @jimmysroom5132 9 месяцев назад +53

    "total abandon" is a synonym for codependency. Don't ever abandon yourself for anyone or anything. Love is a reflection of you and what you're needing to grow into a balanced version of yourself, not throw yourself at someone and do whatever they want.

    • @Smoraya88
      @Smoraya88 5 месяцев назад

      Thank you for this. 🙏🏼

    • @haddadiwanassa
      @haddadiwanassa 4 месяца назад

      Totally

    • @The_Great_Beyond
      @The_Great_Beyond 4 месяца назад

      Good advice

    • @TheBeautyBehindTheBlackness144
      @TheBeautyBehindTheBlackness144 4 месяца назад +10

      I believe what he was speaking to, regarding "total abandon", was be completely open, authentic, and vulnerable. To BRING your whole self to the relationship, NOT GIVE your whole self

    • @thetruthtriangle4060
      @thetruthtriangle4060 2 месяца назад

      No you are simply misunderstanding what Alan watts is communicating but it'd OK he still loves you.

  • @dlvsupernovamrstokraks2807
    @dlvsupernovamrstokraks2807 6 месяцев назад +5

    I've been with Alan watts half my life ❤

  • @MrWhatever1234567
    @MrWhatever1234567 5 месяцев назад +4

    He loved them all!!

  • @gotany1
    @gotany1 2 месяца назад +3

    The longing of the human soul comes from separation from its source.

  • @ericpreston5826
    @ericpreston5826 Год назад +5

    I really love how you put the words over the bridge.

  • @taj6519
    @taj6519 Год назад +59

    Lol why do people have such a problem with music in these videos😂 they are videos on letting go. Let it go.. but now I must let it go that people have the issue with it.. what a bind haha

    • @nickinskeep
      @nickinskeep 6 месяцев назад +3

      Haha perfectly put! They are no more right or wrong with how they feel about it than those who don't mind the music

    • @robinjohnsen8471
      @robinjohnsen8471 5 месяцев назад +1

      Cuz it suuucks

    • @southsiren
      @southsiren 5 месяцев назад +1

      You can 😂 all you want but you obviously can't let something go, and you are blaming people who don't like music 😂😂😂 how miserable

    • @Jennifurdawn
      @Jennifurdawn 4 месяца назад +2

      Ha! I have this convo with myself daily. “Why don’t they just let it go?” . . . “Can I let it go that they won’t let it go?” - - around and around! 😂😂😂

    • @nickinskeep
      @nickinskeep 4 месяца назад +1

      @@Jennifurdawn yeesh a lot of negativity coming from you, but that's alright. Hope you're doing ok!

  • @rebeccahutchings5536
    @rebeccahutchings5536 2 месяца назад +1

    The heart of the matter is "How awful they are! What awful things they do!" When you listen tk the awful evil people who do evil things. They are the most interesting people at the table, but the heart of the matter, when we point out to join in the conversation, what WE love, the heart of the matter, all WE have to say, is a reflection of the heart of the matter.

  • @meska5331
    @meska5331 7 месяцев назад +1

    ty Alan

  • @dreammerse
    @dreammerse 4 месяца назад +1

    Alan Watts

  • @DonavanDuncan-w2q
    @DonavanDuncan-w2q 3 месяца назад +1

    That FUCKIN’Music!!!

  • @imcalibro24
    @imcalibro24 8 месяцев назад +14

    Keep music those people aren’t mad at your music they’re mad at something deeper ✌🏽

  • @DRMcG-F
    @DRMcG-F 3 месяца назад +1

    I kinda like the muzak

  • @joebatista3535
    @joebatista3535 8 месяцев назад +3

    Thank you, i love the music you hav attached to the audio

  • @Egoandpride24
    @Egoandpride24 7 дней назад

    Iam rising into love due to my self love for being independant

  • @mayhtoo3576
    @mayhtoo3576 5 месяцев назад

    Dreamt the 🌕,thank you Sir..love,yesss!!😅❤

  • @Jeremy-am
    @Jeremy-am 10 дней назад

    Most people have bass boost and they cannot hear the talking because of the bass

  • @rebeccahutchings5536
    @rebeccahutchings5536 2 месяца назад +1

    What are your thoughts on wisdom and God?

  • @user-ex4si2md6r
    @user-ex4si2md6r Год назад +5

    Love is fickle and ambiguous yet,😢 what everyone wants to have....💔

  • @Cassella_and_Salt
    @Cassella_and_Salt Год назад +4

    16:58

  • @Light-Sat
    @Light-Sat 4 месяца назад

    Please Do Not add music to these precious lectures!

  • @annamatinamariafragkouli9154
    @annamatinamariafragkouli9154 2 месяца назад +1

    I don’t hear any music

  • @carlosrivas3004
    @carlosrivas3004 Год назад +2

    👍

  • @cysince_0875
    @cysince_0875 17 дней назад

    I just broke up with her and I feel like I could’ve fought for it a little more but I just wasn’t happy
    U think I should wait and if I can’t live without her i should text her

  • @Kelbelle-gt3dl
    @Kelbelle-gt3dl 2 месяца назад

    ✨🕯️♥️💫✨ yes, this👇🪷🕯️✨

  • @RB-pm2ni
    @RB-pm2ni 4 месяца назад

    What’s the music started, It was over.

  • @realeyesc9385
    @realeyesc9385 Месяц назад

    As I listen further, there are no contexts and no comparisons..: the lost dangerous of all communications

  • @TheBeautyBehindTheBlackness144
    @TheBeautyBehindTheBlackness144 4 месяца назад +9

    Self Love is not what we say we love about ourselves, it's how we go about showing love to ourselves. Self-love is our internal dialogue that we have it is things we do to care for our health to care for our emotional well-being to care for our physical health and personal hygiene. Self love is speaking our Truth. Self-love is going to the environments where we don't have to hide any parts of ourselves for the sake of impressing others or making others feel comfortable. Self-love is choosing the self, the you, choosing yourself. Self-love is being willing to do all of the things we typically do for others. If you find joy in making yourself a home-cooked meal with good ingredients while singing along to tunes that you love today eat your lovely meal that you prepared for yourself in a nice hot bath.... If you can do that you're loving yourself. If you can speak to yourself with compassion as you would to a dear friend, and be objective with yourself and give yourself the same wise counsel as you would a dear friend, then you know you are loving yourself. An act of self-love is listening to your body when it's tired, self-love is allowing yourself to express the emotions that you're feeling without judgment or labeling them. Self love the compassion for what you otherwise would shame, it's being able to forgive yourself. Self-love is being able to see yourself through The eyes of the Divine, without conditions, without want, simply because you exist.
    And a side note I do believe when Alan wants was saying to give yourself over to a relationship in total abandon, that what he meant is more in line with bringing our whole self to the relationship, being completely open and vulnerable with whom we are in relationship with. So it's BRINGING our entire self with total abandon, NOT GIVING our entire self with total abandon.
    Much love 🤍☄️🕊️
    Kathleen
    abandon.

    • @Bluelotuslily9
      @Bluelotuslily9 17 дней назад +1

      Thank you for writing this so clearly.

    • @TheBeautyBehindTheBlackness144
      @TheBeautyBehindTheBlackness144 16 дней назад

      @@Bluelotuslily9 it is my passion to communicate the message of love. Thank you for your Videos.

  • @adilsulutas2149
    @adilsulutas2149 2 месяца назад

    The message is ok, but please back round sound is awfull. I could'nt lessen until the end

  • @santiagovilaca9251
    @santiagovilaca9251 5 месяцев назад +2

    Why would i want to love Alan watts?

  • @realeyesc9385
    @realeyesc9385 Месяц назад

    The post is spliced. I’m not sure if it’s to expose the hypocrisy of Alan or to support those who enjoy talking things out of context. In this post we all can agree..there is no context and thus more research is needed

  • @rhondamathis1323
    @rhondamathis1323 4 месяца назад +4

    Yall need to get a woman's perspective

  • @MrNidor
    @MrNidor 3 месяца назад

    Turn off this MUSIC!!! Or lower the volume down.

  • @eileenhetherington3704
    @eileenhetherington3704 10 дней назад

    Get RID of the music. Immediately had to stop the video because the words get muddled.

  • @MrGilMoNayO
    @MrGilMoNayO 2 месяца назад

    rabbi watts

  • @aprilkitten
    @aprilkitten 4 месяца назад +1

    Too bad he was part of a deceptive fallen group, studied how to control thoughts and worshiped dark entities. What he was involved in was so bad I won't even mention it. I have forgiven him, but become ill just tearing his voice now and have burned all of his books. I am so sick of learning about how so many were secretly involved in bad actions and motivated to deceive for money and control. This guy really did fool a lot of people and unfortunately I was one of them.

    • @Lethargyca
      @Lethargyca 3 месяца назад +2

      Can you elaborate, please?

  • @rickynewman3019
    @rickynewman3019 2 месяца назад

    I'd rather listen to music then hear 🙉 pencils squggiling movements and people coughing in the back ground but that's me 🤒🤒🤒🤣🤣...

  • @carmelaloperena8972
    @carmelaloperena8972 10 месяцев назад +4

    "Falling in love" it is only in English language.

    • @Stefan69whatever
      @Stefan69whatever 7 месяцев назад +2

      The talk is in English.

    • @DaveRCollins1
      @DaveRCollins1 6 месяцев назад +1

      What language do you speak? What do you say?

    • @ironwoman5887
      @ironwoman5887 5 месяцев назад +2

      Tomber amoureux in French too, but it’s not the case for every language (not italien for example).

    • @carmelaloperena8972
      @carmelaloperena8972 5 месяцев назад

      @@DaveRCollins1 : Spanish.

    • @carmelaloperena8972
      @carmelaloperena8972 5 месяцев назад

      @@DaveRCollins1 : In Spanish you say "Enamorarse".

  • @donovanbryan5000
    @donovanbryan5000 3 месяца назад +1

    In fact there is no such thing as love. What we call love is basically selfishness. Its how the other person makes YOU feel. By doing things for someone makes you feel good. By them doing for you makes you feel good. I have people argue so hard against that. But they are just not thinking. Im not saying its wrong to feel good. Im only saying love is all about you. Not the other

    • @friendsofthepygmies3932
      @friendsofthepygmies3932 3 месяца назад

      That is not love. Love means wanting someone to be happy. You don't love anyone?

    • @rat8cheese
      @rat8cheese 29 дней назад

      Changing the bed pan for a man or woman you’ve been with for say 50 years who no longer can for themselves…I’d say that’s love and it’s pretty selfless, not selfish.

  • @justdriveon
    @justdriveon Год назад +15

    It was great until the music started.

  • @Reeloa
    @Reeloa 11 месяцев назад +1

    song name?)

  • @TabithaSmith-o4j
    @TabithaSmith-o4j Год назад

    2².³.

  • @friendsofthepygmies3932
    @friendsofthepygmies3932 3 месяца назад

    Watts is just wrong about love. Unfortunately the word is used to mean very different things in various languages like English.

  • @thomasj.loebel9809
    @thomasj.loebel9809 4 месяца назад

    The secret to love is that lo weds to above as laws to faith become love..No wait, that is the secret..laws to faith is LO joins ABOVE as laws to faith is then love? no, love is the light around the word as the two sides combined and not love where the two sides combined that say LOVE just like the word real is where it is not real yet until you RE the L from good and evil wed [L} to L L as Love is then ReaL. What is secret? Faith thinks it is love already by wedding lo to above but that is "Jesus Christ" that has "not" yet crossed to "Lord" as love beyond the LO [wilderness laws] to the above as [faith in those laws], when laws of god is Jesus that cross the red sea to faith as Christ next.. and suddenly the combination is LO VE...NO, not without crossing to lord next as true love is "the re born Christ at the other side not born with yet] where lord is 'the lord Jesus Christ" as laws faith and LOVE is true love while "not" love is Lo and above wed to appear as LOVE to us is false and true love waits in the ligh-t [lie crossed] outside of the O God that he made his O satan inside of good and evil wed as the word LOVE that we think is love. Love has no sides to itself as an "I" sees already..because LL cancels a L L sides as neither is love after laws and faith crosses the Jordan river to Lord..so what aL this Love thing is about? someones lies followed means never each them at only follow to learn to fear that lord [love] and find the truth from the copy followed long enough to fear it..and.."the fear of the Lord [false love] is the beginning of wisdom" after we were told to "follow the Lord" first as LOVE is not the word followed but the light from the two sides combined. [laws to faith..then cross to love] and all three wise names are those who make it the first time now or the SECRET is that those who only SE as C are false love assuming to be love that was deceived into [RE] cross [t] back again as good at both sides is Moses that will reach love next time of six.

  • @SUMERUP
    @SUMERUP Год назад +8

    Imagine Biden who can't do without Putin and vice versa 11:35

    • @_d2082
      @_d2082 Год назад +3

      More accurate is trump who can't do without Biden, and vice versa.

  • @robinwilbanksmusic
    @robinwilbanksmusic Год назад +104

    Ruined with the music. Once again.

    • @imcalibro24
      @imcalibro24 8 месяцев назад +40

      There are other pages with no music but you chose to be negative what ever demons your dealing with I hope you get them fixed ✌🏽

    • @wigglywrigglydoo
      @wigglywrigglydoo 7 месяцев назад

      I sometime can agree with what you said. But the content was created for people to listen to for free, with beautiful images and music which other people may love. If you're after contents without music. Try searching for Alan Watts as keywords with No Music in the search string. I wish peace for all of us.

    • @lokomotive28
      @lokomotive28 7 месяцев назад +9

      i would only listen with music

    • @teecooper5595
      @teecooper5595 6 месяцев назад +5

      I understand. I prefer it with quieter music as my hearing isn’t great and it drowns out his beautiful voice

    • @imranxalamin
      @imranxalamin 6 месяцев назад +8

      ​@@teecooper5595no one's forcing you to be here

  • @DRMcG-F
    @DRMcG-F 3 месяца назад

    A l

  • @codycapener3157
    @codycapener3157 5 месяцев назад +1

    Yo this background noise is wack

  • @sonjoseph
    @sonjoseph 5 месяцев назад

    I should call her. No, the other one.

  • @MrWhatever1234567
    @MrWhatever1234567 5 месяцев назад +1

    I hate love

  • @mobill93
    @mobill93 4 месяца назад

    Wth is that ticking sooo annoying

  • @kozy15x
    @kozy15x 6 месяцев назад +1

    Oh yeah, Now this guy KNOWS about love. He cheated on all of his partners and had 7 children with 3 women whom he never saw

  • @utkuesas
    @utkuesas Год назад +3

    please turkish language

  • @tomato1040
    @tomato1040 5 месяцев назад +1

    The⚛️Kosher🇮🇱Kohaine is the🧭DIVINE=mc2🦸Singing🗣️🎶 Priesthood🎺is the🌬️Spiritual✡️Solution✝️to☪️any spiritual🕉️ problems of the🤨unnecessary, 🤥incessantly🤗Buddhist☸️Kohan🧐never☸️Shown😂in😢ITS🤡Frown🙁!😂

  • @Jaylo71
    @Jaylo71 6 месяцев назад

    This sounds like another A.I generated Alan Watts lecture. Which I’m getting sick of hearing.
    They have titbits of actual sentences of Alan Watts lectures. Then the rest is 💯 AI.
    This is AI. The syntax is off.

    • @lindavaliulyte3068
      @lindavaliulyte3068 6 месяцев назад

      It is not AI, I listened to this many years ago

  • @Raimonds-x1j
    @Raimonds-x1j Год назад

    Some creator decided duty call for stupid invasion results not worthy

  • @MuneerAlrabadi-lq5oq
    @MuneerAlrabadi-lq5oq 8 месяцев назад

    When Serbian bight my dog my dog told me cut the till give him olive oill drink the black poison come out the till ho bight