Plus him not having to get another job while living with her. It gets me that I'm sure the 2 cheaters went out, movies, dinners hotels in afternoons etc. And the wife was paying for it
The only reason why Liam didn't want get a divorce from op but he didn't want to give up that free ride from op and op should have went no contact with her daughter
I am so sick and tired of "family members" putting their two cents in. Why should OP apologize to such an ungrateful and malicious daughter? She disrespected her mother at OP's own birthday party. As hard as it is, OP needs to cut ties and let Mary live with her choices.
Apologize? I did nothing wrong Get counseling? Why? Nothing wrong with my head, ethics or morals. We can fix this? I didn't break anything, why am I fixing anything?
That must have been such an emotional moment for you. It's tough when family dynamics become strained, especially on important occasions like birthdays. I hope you and your daughter can find common ground and heal from the past. Communication and understanding can go a long way in mending relationships.
At first, I was sure Mary had a Reddit confessions level connection with her dad that she felt guilty about… But after listening to the update, Mary is probably just wanting to offload taking care of her father back to her mom.
"I can imagine how painful it must have been to experience that, especially on your birthday. It's clear that you're going through a lot of emotions, both as a parent and as someone hurt by betrayal. It’s important for both sides to communicate openly and try to understand each other's pain, even when it’s difficult. Sometimes, a situation like this can feel overwhelming, but hopefully, with time and patience, both you and your daughter can find a way to heal and rebuild trust. I hope the future brings peace and understanding for both of you."
9:01 =As much as I loved and idolized my dad, I had difficulty of forgiving him when he cheated on mum and I got the front row seat of seeing the evidence first. He is already gone but... Its getting complicated, my emotions for dad... I still love him but to me, Loyalty and honesty is everything... He stood alone against 4 of us family members for his sin... He invalidated everything we sacrificed and and did for the family...
10:39 ="Accidentally"? Try 4 times, as he admitted... That's an accident to you kid? Once drunk is an accident. More than that is conscious destruction, a bad habit formed. An addiction... Not an accident but conscious destruction, allowing one's self to fall down the slippery slope.
I don't know how in the world you can get obbbbby out of Abby. Like Dear Abby. Downtown Abby, Abby Road (I know their spelled differently I'm just trying to make a point). No way with that word ever be pronounced the way that this man is pronouncing it. It was so awful I couldn't even listen to the whole story. So sorry thumbs down.
17:57 =Nope... NTA, mother dear... She needs that lesson. She chose to go public after all. Let her take her own medicine... Hell, I can never do that CONSCIOUSLY to my mother and not feel guilty afterwards... Seriously, WTF is wrong with Mary? Sure Ill support my father if I had a job back then, but I will Always woudl remind my dad that he is the idiot...
15:31 =She isn't afraid huh? Sins like these, they trickle down... I don't want to end either cheated on like my mother or cheating like my father... This Mary... Isn't she afraid of suffering her mother's fate? The reason why I am so angry at my father when I found him cheating on mum was due to the fact that my fate would end either of theirs... To cheat or be cheated on... It might happen... Either to me or to my descendants as it happened to my paternal grandparents to my uncles and then to my father. The line ends with us... I'll make sure of that...
17:21 =I pray that she'll understand it when she is finally on the same stage as her mum... When she gets cheated on by the man she trusted the most... And be blamed and judged when she chose to leave like how she judged her mother before... Everything comes aroudn after all... Patterns never leave in one's life... What you give is what you get... What you do is what will be done in the future... Either to you or your descendants...
The prenup: that’s why he didn’t want to get a divorce!
Always the hardest part
Plus him not having to get another job while living with her. It gets me that I'm sure the 2 cheaters went out, movies, dinners hotels in afternoons etc. And the wife was paying for it
I like this OP. None of that stupid AITA and displaced guilt. I loved the pan throwing, and not forgiving the daughter was A ok in my book.
I thought the same
Your daughter doesn't want to support her father.. that's why she wants you to reconcile 😂😂😂
Makes sense
Very easy for others to demand you forgive at your expense.
The only reason why Liam didn't want get a divorce from op but he didn't want to give up that free ride from op and op should have went no contact with her daughter
Yes!
I am so sick and tired of "family members" putting their two cents in. Why should OP apologize to such an ungrateful and malicious daughter? She disrespected her mother at OP's own birthday party. As hard as it is, OP needs to cut ties and let Mary live with her choices.
Apologize? I did nothing wrong
Get counseling? Why? Nothing wrong with my head, ethics or morals.
We can fix this? I didn't break anything, why am I fixing anything?
Absolutely on point. Op should never apologize, I cant see him as someone subject to ask for forgiveness
Lol Yes
That must have been such an emotional moment for you. It's tough when family dynamics become strained, especially on important occasions like birthdays. I hope you and your daughter can find common ground and heal from the past. Communication and understanding can go a long way in mending relationships.
Agree with you, bad timing to act like that
At first, I was sure Mary had a Reddit confessions level connection with her dad that she felt guilty about… But after listening to the update, Mary is probably just wanting to offload taking care of her father back to her mom.
Makes sense
Mary, as the home owner, wait until the family leave and change the locks.
Good idea
"I can imagine how painful it must have been to experience that, especially on your birthday. It's clear that you're going through a lot of emotions, both as a parent and as someone hurt by betrayal. It’s important for both sides to communicate openly and try to understand each other's pain, even when it’s difficult. Sometimes, a situation like this can feel overwhelming, but hopefully, with time and patience, both you and your daughter can find a way to heal and rebuild trust. I hope the future brings peace and understanding for both of you."
Very good points!
No you are perfectly correct. It’s time you explained it to her .its best that you are separated from her .
Absolutely
You are the one they're upset with? She's the one that stood up and had words first. It's not your fault.
Absolutely. No need to feel guilty about the situation
9:01 =As much as I loved and idolized my dad, I had difficulty of forgiving him when he cheated on mum and I got the front row seat of seeing the evidence first. He is already gone but... Its getting complicated, my emotions for dad... I still love him but to me, Loyalty and honesty is everything... He stood alone against 4 of us family members for his sin... He invalidated everything we sacrificed and and did for the family...
I suppose the best approach is to forgive and love him. He did his mistakes but it was out of ignorance, he is not a bad guy 🙏🏻
10:39 ="Accidentally"? Try 4 times, as he admitted... That's an accident to you kid? Once drunk is an accident. More than that is conscious destruction, a bad habit formed. An addiction... Not an accident but conscious destruction, allowing one's self to fall down the slippery slope.
Good points
I don't know how in the world you can get obbbbby out of Abby. Like Dear Abby. Downtown Abby, Abby Road (I know their spelled differently I'm just trying to make a point). No way with that word ever be pronounced the way that this man is pronouncing it. It was so awful I couldn't even listen to the whole story. So sorry thumbs down.
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I thought it was Ovie as in Olivia. LOL. I should have turn on the captioning.
💯% hard to believe and be interested in subscribing.
It's an obvious AI voice.
17:57 =Nope... NTA, mother dear... She needs that lesson. She chose to go public after all. Let her take her own medicine... Hell, I can never do that CONSCIOUSLY to my mother and not feel guilty afterwards... Seriously, WTF is wrong with Mary? Sure Ill support my father if I had a job back then, but I will Always woudl remind my dad that he is the idiot...
Absolutely! Completely agree with you
15:31 =She isn't afraid huh? Sins like these, they trickle down... I don't want to end either cheated on like my mother or cheating like my father... This Mary... Isn't she afraid of suffering her mother's fate? The reason why I am so angry at my father when I found him cheating on mum was due to the fact that my fate would end either of theirs... To cheat or be cheated on... It might happen... Either to me or to my descendants as it happened to my paternal grandparents to my uncles and then to my father. The line ends with us... I'll make sure of that...
I think you are right. She has some trauma to be worked on
17:21 =I pray that she'll understand it when she is finally on the same stage as her mum... When she gets cheated on by the man she trusted the most... And be blamed and judged when she chose to leave like how she judged her mother before... Everything comes aroudn after all... Patterns never leave in one's life... What you give is what you get... What you do is what will be done in the future... Either to you or your descendants...
Im sure life will give her the necessary lessons so she can understand better how things work
Send the video to your child? Your kidding 😢
Good story though.
Mary isn’t a child, she’s a full grown adult.
@@jodihubbs2054thanks
@@abunnybts6871I thought the same
No. I mean when they dumped the children on her while on vacation…call their father.
Why didn’t Mary just call the children’s father ?
She may have not had his number
Probably he was a distance father
@@julesa2894maybe
Your pronouncing Abby wrong. I
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