@vaderladyl: You seem to be implying a false dichotomy, though, of weak and strong. Being feminine could be about being weaker in your mannerisms as well as being softer. It might be that neither being feminine nor being masculine is weak, but that being feminine is being weaker than being masculine would be. In other words, there is a relevant difference between "weak" and "weaker."
@vaderladyl The word "weak" has a negative connotation, which can include when someone interprets "soft" as being weak. My own boyfriend does that, unfortunately. We both met a person. I saw her as gentle. He saw her as "timid". I saw nothing timid in her, yet he interprets gentleness and softness as timidity and weakness. What a shame.....especially in a man.
@@donnaknudson7296 yes I am using it as negative as well in my comment. But soft is a positive attribute that some people twist into a negative. Timid is not negative per se but some people might use it wrong, meaning something else, and the recipient might take it as offensive.
I love your videos! I am a very large person, I am 6 feet tall with curves and muscles and I am always looking for ways to present as feminine as possible without physically trying to shrink myself with bad posture. These are wonderful tips. I try to carry myself always as a maternal, earthy presence, and I find that it eases my way in the world. If you are genuinely kind and friendly, and give people your attention and care because some people go through entire days with no one smiling at them, you will find that the world starts to seem a lot less hostile. Love your tips, Parmita!!!
A type of gestures that is not very suitable for Italian women, we would never be able to give up enriching the verbal message with personalized and spontaneous, extemporaneous and non-stereotypical movements
How would that be "non stereotypical"? It's just different. One could even stereotype it as Italian (if one is going to think in stereotypes), although I wouldn't.
Actually the body language is more important than we think! This shows a man that we are not enemy, we are something special what they attracted ...a Woman! If you use masculin body language, it makes your husband angry in no time,no matter what you say. Body language is way more important than the words you are useing in a conversation. If you ever talk to a man, use her tips!
Love this, it makes perfect sense. Suggestion for another video, Please could you walk down a busy high street and have someone record other peoples reactions to your confident feminine walk? X
I’m in my 30’s and my family has wrinkles early and I’ve always had a hard time carrying my self in a feminine way . Especially because of I like sports and didn’t have sisters . I keep trying to learn but it’s so hard to see all my friends looking good and I trying to get use to the fact that I’m aging … and also losing weight feels like a lost dream. I only get male attention from old icky guys But also I’ve battled with depression but I am doing better .
I understand as I have the same issues. It's a process & at 75 I recognize how young 30 is. Please be gentle & forgiving of yourself. You will now forever be in my prayers. ☮️💞🙏🏼🙏🏼
Consider trying high quality red light therapy for arthritis. We now have so many instruments at our hands to heal our bodies and recreating natural beauty from within. ❤
I am plus size. How do I do everything you suggest in this video. For example - it's hard for me to cross my legs at my knees. I wish you would demonstrate using plus size women.
Agreed. But it varies from person to person and situation to situation. A female boss during board meeting, a model on ramp and a teenage girl giggling with friends, all needs different body language.
In my 40's I learned to only cross my legs at the ankles in order to discourage varicose veins. Now, at 75, I have 3 tiny spots on my thighs; 2 on my right leg, 1 on my left leg. And I've mostly eliminated cellulite by doing The Big 6, taught by Perry Nickelston here on RUclips. My friend reduced her smokers wrinkles by doing The Big 6.
That is so against my grain hahaha. It will be hard but please keep the how to be feminine videos up. It will be nice to try to atleast be a little bit elegant and get rid of my Tom boy additive from a kid. I'm not a kid anymore. I'm starting a business. So this is refreshing thank you parmita
I think you can do all of the hand movement things, sitting up straight type of things. Dress in feminine clothing. Maybe add some jewelry. Way of speaking.
Thanks a lot for the great tips...I have to put attention to my posture...Sometimes I don't have the right One because I don't wanna appear the kind of woman Who wanna show her chest as they are Queens of beauty or super attractive...they seems unpleasant, desagreeble...I don't wanna appear in that way. So I have to study very well the tip n. 4! ❤️☺️ Thanks a lot and have a nice day ☺️
That was somehow funny To be feminin is not a matter of these things, short or long hair, to sit feminin or to talk. I don’t believe in feminin poses or something like that. I will never correcting or changing my poses because that just could be more feminin in other people’s eyes. I personally prefer long hair for women.short hairs are definitely masculine. But it has nothing to do with our feelings as a man or woman.
There are mannerisms that are associated with feminine or masculine energy, that is in the social conscious of people. That is the reality of life. If you want to or don't care to be be perceived as more manly, that is your prerogative. It is like aa gay guy that has feminine mannerisms, he will be perceived as not so manly.
these are fairly universal truths through the eyes of the majority of people whether you like it agree with it or not. So it just matters whether you’re ok with being perceived this way by others or not.
All nonsense. One should sit, stand as they feel comfortable. Stereotypes. What is dominating or masculine or alpha? Soft, gentle, empathy or emotions is feminine? And why should woman be soft, or gentle with everyone? Not everyone deserves softness, gentleness. Nor does a woman have to be sensuous or glamorous all the time. It depends on situation to situation, person to person. How does crossing legs make someone masculine or feminine? Or dominating? Someone gotta be really insecure if one finds even leg position as dominating. This video looks like a tutorial for a model. I do not think every woman needs to sway her hips everywhere unless she has to seduce on a date. Swaying hips is crass at school, college, work or a sacred place. Sad to see such stereotypes about feminine or masculine repeated even in 2024. Medieval stereotypes all over. One can eat any way one finds comfortable. Why just small bites or eating too less? Now also ask women to lower gaze, be silent, use lower tone.
Such beautiful thinking, this is patriarchal We are still following the stereotypes. Why being strong is not considered as feminine trait? Women are also strong. Why being empathetic is not considered as masculine. Men are also empathetic.
@Anushka_san-b7b Well said. Does a man become feminine if he has empathy and is sensitive? I cannot believe these stereotypes are still there after so many centuries
Quite useless. All these things won't help you make money and never again depend on men. Develop your ambitions and technical skills in technology, management and matial arts. You'll have all you wish on your own 😂. Forget men. Be free. Be your secret weapon. The only person who'll never betray you is your own self.
@@Chizoba1996@Chizoba1996 you can be a "proper" women of course, but don't present it as a desired and "proper" standard. Don't cry then when you become miserable because of men who will most likely fuck you, use you and throw you away for a younger one. Money and career are much more precious than any man. Men come, men leave, I rest.
Yes, thanks for reminding people that being feminine is not about being weak, but being softer in your mannerisms.
@vaderladyl: You seem to be implying a false dichotomy, though, of weak and strong. Being feminine could be about being weaker in your mannerisms as well as being softer. It might be that neither being feminine nor being masculine is weak, but that being feminine is being weaker than being masculine would be. In other words, there is a relevant difference between "weak" and "weaker."
@@derekg5563 I don't see feminine as being weak, that is the difference.
@vaderladyl The word "weak" has a negative connotation, which can include when someone interprets "soft" as being weak. My own boyfriend does that, unfortunately. We both met a person. I saw her as gentle. He saw her as "timid". I saw nothing timid in her, yet he interprets gentleness and softness as timidity and weakness. What a shame.....especially in a man.
@@donnaknudson7296 yes I am using it as negative as well in my comment. But soft is a positive attribute that some people twist into a negative.
Timid is not negative per se but some people might use it wrong, meaning something else, and the recipient might take it as offensive.
@@derekg5563 the things men say to try to convince women theyre inferior.. tsk tsk
I love your videos! I am a very large person, I am 6 feet tall with curves and muscles and I am always looking for ways to present as feminine as possible without physically trying to shrink myself with bad posture. These are wonderful tips. I try to carry myself always as a maternal, earthy presence, and I find that it eases my way in the world. If you are genuinely kind and friendly, and give people your attention and care because some people go through entire days with no one smiling at them, you will find that the world starts to seem a lot less hostile. Love your tips, Parmita!!!
A type of gestures that is not very suitable for Italian women, we would never be able to give up enriching the verbal message with personalized and spontaneous, extemporaneous and non-stereotypical movements
How would that be "non stereotypical"? It's just different. One could even stereotype it as Italian (if one is going to think in stereotypes), although I wouldn't.
Thank you very much this is so funny but quite informative...
I am a big fan from Nigeria 🇳🇬
Sincerely I love your low hair it's just like mine though I am black 😊
Blessings from Bangladesh ✨.. Prio Parmita ❤
Yes l agree on what you showed 👏
Actually the body language is more important than we think! This shows a man that we are not enemy, we are something special what they attracted ...a Woman! If you use masculin body language, it makes your husband angry in no time,no matter what you say. Body language is way more important than the words you are useing in a conversation. If you ever talk to a man, use her tips!
This was great, thank you.
Wow this is a useful video ma'am 😊😄
OMG! I LOVED THIS video!!!! Enjoyed the practical examples. I'll start applying them NOW. Many thanks for the quality content, Parmita!
Love this, it makes perfect sense. Suggestion for another video, Please could you walk down a busy high street and have someone record other peoples reactions to your confident feminine walk? X
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I’m in my 30’s and my family has wrinkles early and I’ve always had a hard time carrying my self in a feminine way . Especially because of I like sports and didn’t have sisters .
I keep trying to learn but it’s so hard to see all my friends looking good and I trying to get use to the fact that I’m aging … and also losing weight feels like a lost dream.
I only get male attention from old icky guys
But also I’ve battled with depression but I am doing better .
I understand as I have the same issues. It's a process & at 75 I recognize how young 30 is. Please be gentle & forgiving of yourself. You will now forever be in my prayers. ☮️💞🙏🏼🙏🏼
Thank you for your kind words .
How can you be in your 30’s and say you are aging?
You are as young as young can be!
Love this video‼️
I love ur vdoz Parmita but I laughed when the leg postures were discussed. I can not undo it 😅😖😖😅😅😅
Thank you ❤🙏
I have knock knees. How do I balance my body with walking. I also suffer with arthritis of my left knee and hip. What can I do?
Dr Anthony Chaffee helped me to get rid of authritis naturally. He is very informed and is a God send.
Consider trying high quality red light therapy for arthritis. We now have so many instruments at our hands to heal our bodies and recreating natural beauty from within. ❤
See a doctor please
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Nice, liked the video for the first time
You are very beautiful in this dress!😊
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Great job.Globally educate to develop nice feminine figures .
My God, sometimes I have such masculine gestures and poses, I laugh at myself!!!! I try to be feminine, but my "tomboyish" side is stronger!!!!
मुझे नहीं पता क्यों, लेकिन मेरे लंबे काले बालों के माध्यम से मेरी उंगलियां चलाने से पुरुषों और कुछ महिलाओं को ड्राइव लगता है। 🤪
Applaling.
I am plus size. How do I do everything you suggest in this video. For example - it's hard for me to cross my legs at my knees. I wish you would demonstrate using plus size women.
Stay away from spandex
and wear flowing skirts
and or dresses
is very attractive
for the + sized ♀️
in my opinion.
Why not cross your legs at the ankles? Just suggestions.
@@google12greekmythsthatprove. thank you for that suggestion.
Cross them at the ankles or lay them flat together.
Crossing our legs at the knees encourages the development of varicose veins. It's better to cross at the ankles. ☮️💞🙏🏼🙏🏼
From the other side, the tomboyish confident body language can be attractive too
How so?
Sorry but no. Why do women want to look and behave like men? Uncomfortable in their own skin?
Agreed. But it varies from person to person and situation to situation. A female boss during board meeting, a model on ramp and a teenage girl giggling with friends, all needs different body language.
In my 40's I learned to only cross my legs at the ankles in order to discourage varicose veins. Now, at 75, I have 3 tiny spots on my thighs; 2 on my right leg, 1 on my left leg. And I've mostly eliminated cellulite by doing The Big 6, taught by Perry Nickelston here on RUclips. My friend reduced her smokers wrinkles by doing The Big 6.
@@coreen-justcoreen Easy sis. Being feminine means not being aggressive.
That is so against my grain hahaha. It will be hard but please keep the how to be feminine videos up. It will be nice to try to atleast be a little bit elegant and get rid of my Tom boy additive from a kid. I'm not a kid anymore. I'm starting a business. So this is refreshing thank you parmita
Lol on sitting...unless you play the Cello..
I sit that way all the time
Your skill supercedes the need to sit in a feminine fashion while playing. 🎵🎶 ☮️💞🙏🏼🙏🏼
Ideas for doing in a wheelchair ¿♡
I think you can do all of the hand movement things, sitting up straight type of things. Dress in feminine clothing. Maybe add some jewelry. Way of speaking.
Thanks a lot for the great tips...I have to put attention to my posture...Sometimes I don't have the right One because I don't wanna appear the kind of woman Who wanna show her chest as they are Queens of beauty or super attractive...they seems unpleasant, desagreeble...I don't wanna appear in that way. So I have to study very well the tip n. 4! ❤️☺️ Thanks a lot and have a nice day ☺️
Thx mem
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Please take class on how to smile in public gatherings
Great suggestion, Ridhi! But do look out my other videos on smile improvement
RUclips suggest the strangest things. What is this? I think I'll just relax and ignore all this.
This reminded me of Annya Taylor Joy, I don’t know what makes me hypnotized by her, even tho I am not into girls haha
That was somehow funny
To be feminin is not a matter of these things, short or long hair, to sit feminin or to talk. I don’t believe in feminin poses or something like that. I will never correcting or changing my poses because that just could be more feminin in other people’s eyes.
I personally prefer long hair for women.short hairs are definitely masculine. But it has nothing to do with our feelings as a man or woman.
There are mannerisms that are associated with feminine or masculine energy, that is in the social conscious of people. That is the reality of life. If you want to or don't care to be be perceived as more manly, that is your prerogative. It is like aa gay guy that has feminine mannerisms, he will be perceived as not so manly.
these are fairly universal truths through the eyes of the majority of people whether you like it agree with it or not. So it just matters whether you’re ok with being perceived this way by others or not.
Haha, Michele Obama as the masculine, Melania Trump is the ultimate feminine.
Man vs adult Star... No comparison
All nonsense. One should sit, stand as they feel comfortable. Stereotypes. What is dominating or masculine or alpha? Soft, gentle, empathy or emotions is feminine? And why should woman be soft, or gentle with everyone? Not everyone deserves softness, gentleness. Nor does a woman have to be sensuous or glamorous all the time. It depends on situation to situation, person to person. How does crossing legs make someone masculine or feminine? Or dominating? Someone gotta be really insecure if one finds even leg position as dominating. This video looks like a tutorial for a model. I do not think every woman needs to sway her hips everywhere unless she has to seduce on a date. Swaying hips is crass at school, college, work or a sacred place. Sad to see such stereotypes about feminine or masculine repeated even in 2024. Medieval stereotypes all over. One can eat any way one finds comfortable. Why just small bites or eating too less? Now also ask women to lower gaze, be silent, use lower tone.
Such beautiful thinking, this is patriarchal
We are still following the stereotypes. Why being strong is not considered as feminine trait? Women are also strong. Why being empathetic is not considered as masculine. Men are also empathetic.
@Anushka_san-b7b Well said. Does a man become feminine if he has empathy and is sensitive? I cannot believe these stereotypes are still there after so many centuries
I liked this video 🩷🩷
Quite useless. All these things won't help you make money and never again depend on men.
Develop your ambitions and technical skills in technology, management and matial arts. You'll have all you wish on your own 😂.
Forget men. Be free. Be your secret weapon.
The only person who'll never betray you is your own self.
Everything isn’t about money and dominating the work force.
Some of us like being proper women and yes, we also know how to make money.
@@Chizoba1996@Chizoba1996 you can be a "proper" women of course, but don't present it as a desired and "proper" standard. Don't cry then when you become miserable because of men who will most likely fuck you, use you and throw you away for a younger one.
Money and career are much more precious than any man. Men come, men leave, I rest.
What about your face ? 😂😂😂😂
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