She married a homophobic liar. He was fired from TLC which he says he quit from Counting On. He was fired for attacking the star of the TLC show I Am Jazz (a transgender teen) over social media. He was warned to stop and wouldn't. You can Google it. He tries to make it sound like he walked away to benefit his family. That's a lie.
I love Derek and Jill! They are real. They admit they aren’t perfect and yet share the love of Jesus. I think that’s the way it should be!! Thank y’all for being a light!!!
As a victim of a similar abuse Jill is courageous and strong. Until you have experience this you have no idea how it affects your marriage. You say to say living, blaming yourself questioning yourself so bravo to Jill for speaking up
While it's sad that it happened it being so public was wrong. It should have been on her own terms at the right time for her personally. Just because they were on a reality show doesn't give the public the right to scrutinize their every move. It has done more harm than good. Hopefully through councling a new path will open up Jill is a good soul with alot of talent .
It's refreshing to see her now ! Her family didn't set boundires ( cough, Josh)... Her family trained their children ... not taught life skills (cough, Josh) including sex education.
I would like her to go back to college and enrol in a good English language course first. Her lack of education really shows up when she’s being interviewed.
@@sylvianolan2185 she is a certified midwife and can practice in a handful of states. She is not a registered nurse midwife. They are two different ways with different scopes of practice. Jill is qualified to oversee and deliver low risk pregnancies.
I saw Derek this fall in a video Jill posted flashing the 666 hand symbol lol! They want to be in the spotlight, but the only way anyone is interested in them is if she is talking about her famous family. I think the reason she doesn't hang with her family anymore is because Derek got greedy with the money and made Jill alienate them because of it.. She uses the fact people in the media talk smack about her family for clout
@@debbienedeloff9473 she sent Israel to regular public school. A little surprised that Jill chose that. But Derrick went to public school, and he turned out well. I went to public and Catholic schools. I decided in 4th grade I wasnt Catholic and didnt care for Catholism class every day for years, but I def. liked Catholic school better. Public school had a lot of mean nasty kids
Jill and Derek, I’m so pleased that you made the changes that were obviously needed. You both have been my favourite couple and thank you for being open about therapy and how it helps during hard times as well as the good times. I think by being open in the way you are with your children, they will know by your example to take care of their mental health and be able to let them know how proud you are that they recognized that things were a bit beyond their usual happiness. God bless you and your boys and Jill I’m thrilled about your gardening and Derek you will be getting ready for the bar soon. With the obvious love and respect you show for each other that is what’s important. Put yourselves first before family and your marriage will be golden. I’m very proud of you and thank you for sharing, it really helped.
@@mircat28 you are only saying this because he disagrees with your views and your belief system as a Christian myself I agree with the dillards and where they stand spiritually but I will make clear that he she they as a family went about their stand and verbally harassing another human being wrong there is a loving supportive kind way to poetry your beliefs without attacking or harassing another human being and that is the only place where I think they were wrong you are allowed your opinions and they are allowed their opinions you are allowed to believe what you want to believe and they are allowed to believe what they want to ! I have said what I've said take it or leave it I don't care but please remember every person is allowed to believe and have opinions as they feel convicted to if nothing else please remember this !
I love this duo. They have come through so much growth together. Having been married for 30 years, I can say that that type of adversity and growth is the foundation of a great marriage. If you can survive hard times together and come out stronger in the end, your marriage is being forged in the fire of adversity and you can look forward to a great life together, no matter what happens around you. Edit - the early years are a struggle as you get to know each other as a married couple. But if you learn how to fight as Derrick says, by making it about an external problem that you both need to resolve rather than somebody's character flaw, you’ll find the experience SO rewarding. Promise to grow together and share your spouse's interests. God bless your family ❤️🙏✝️
I bet that’s gonna help a lot of people. Therapy is just a designated place to have structured conversations about conflict resolution, resolving personal traumas or just learning how to better manage stress. It’s about getting some new tools to live your life more effectively, so yeah God bless em.
So glad she was able to step away from her unstable family. her maturity level definitely has changed. She is an open book and I cannot wait for his book comes out. Jim is definitely trying to convince him not too as his density will crumble.
It is really refreshing to see that she does seem to have a higher maturity level & just a stronger sense of what she is about. Looking back, Jill has always been an outspoken person. It’s just that in the past, she was sort of speaking on behalf of the family to represent their values, to toe the line. Given she was kind of the poster child, it is in a way shocking but also like good for her. She’s very careful not to bash her family, but all she is saying sounds pretty normal. There’s problems they need to heal but it takes time. She’s a grown woman and will do things differently than her parents. I am glad she seems to have a partner who will support her in that and has probably pushed her to step out & get her freedom from the past. She’s ultimately the same person but she just speaks a little more freely than she has before. It’s a kind of small change but it’s extraordinary to see. Also I love seeing this long form interview: gives you a better sense of who she really is and who Derick really is
Jill Is VERY open and honest. She seems to be in a good place right now w/ a good husband and 2 kids and a promising future. I like and enjoy all 5 of the older that I am familiar with. And John David always seemed like he would be a fantastic husband- he sure seems to love and treasure Abbie. and well.. ya know. Josh.. in 19 kids there has to be 1 or 2 bad apples.. that one seems rotten to the core
I love your openness. You’ve been through so much. Years on tv where everyone felt they knew you, things that you couldn’t control, family things that came out when everyone felt they had a right to judge you. “Which they did not in my opinion”. You’re amazing. Therapy rocks. Much love and many blessings xoxox love gina
I love how they don’t act like know it all’s and that they have all the answers, unlike Jill’s parents and many of her siblings. They’re open and frank about the fact that they’re always learning. And I especially appreciate that they haven’t started a podcast preaching to the rest of us. (Looking at you, Vuolos)
Jeremy is a Master’s student so he is vastly more articulate than the others on his belief. Or do you feel like it’s more academic and less like “here let’s share our journey and what we learned through making mistakes and living life”. Because I think there’s definitely a need for both
I love these two so much💜 they radiate positive vibes. I'm so happy for Jill and I think she's glowing 😊 she's so beautiful and looks very happy. Thrilled she has found someone who supports her and is doing therapy. I'm SO happy for both of them. Derek seems like a great guy with a good head on his shoulders. I know he will do right by her and I love that he's in law school. I hope he and Jill are healthy.💜
I like Jill and Derrick and their down to earth style, but I agree with you that she needs to let Derrick speak too. It was hard for me to keep watching this when he kept trying to say something and she wouldn't let him cut in, nor did she acknowledge any of the few words he tried to get out. She needs to become more aware and considerate in this regard.
I like these two, individually and as a married couple! They don't present themselves as having the perfect marriage; they have one based in the real world with real issues that we all face. I wish them many blessings as they go through their lives!👏🙏
Yeah, as I got older I started to see Jill as someone who was interesting to listen to because she had a voice and just was real. There was a time I thought she was not very sincere, and who knows maybe she hadn’t found the strength to be her most authentic self. She’s a young woman who was living in a very public family since about 14 years old... so I’m not judging. I’m proud of her actually. They’re just a solid unit. The good the bad, these two seem to just get each other and support each other. That I think is what her parents should be supporting for all they preach about marriage... Jill and Derick seem to be making it work.
Joy is very much her fathers daughter and is married into one of the biggest fundie families so I don’t see her moving on. Plus it’s only Jill who has really broken the chains. Jinger is living a different lifestyle due to her husband but I think she still struggles with her past.
@@letitiakearney2423 As she would. I get the impression those girls did not get a sufficient amount of help for the trauma they went through at a young age. I am happy to see Derick is supporting Jill as she seeks healing from her past.
I’m glad Jill has discovered her own path outside of Jim Bobs way of life. She seems so much more relatable now. But still not a fan of Derek. His comment about being 35 and not married because your standards were too high is just plain wrong. Nothing wrong with being 35 and unmarried because you don’t want to settle
Anyone else watching this like oh snap, they k ew. They found out about Josh and immediately went into therapy and then educated their kids on good and bad touch.
I'm not sure if that's about Josh's current actions or if it's more because of how she had to overcome his past abuse and wanted to make sure their boys have the knowledge and safety of knowing they can talk to their parents and ask for help if they need it and it's nothing they should be ashamed about if anything should happen. It sounds like they might be in therapy for like a year or more as they know the lingo and are more comfortable in their relationship. The catalyst might be that rift they had with the dugger parents two or so years ago. 🤷
Unlike most of the comments here. They both made me uncomfortable. It seems like they are both very cautious about what they are saying. In their channel they have more control of what they say and how they say it🤷
I would love for Derrick to address his transphobic comments from a few years ago. I am hopeful that both Jill and Derrick's beliefs are evolving as they mature and grow. It's great that they have broken away from Jim Bob's control, setting boundaries, and raising their kids in a way that works for them... and hopefully not passing down some of the more toxic ideologies Jill was brought up with.
He addressed them in other videos on their channel and explained his views. It’s really not what you think. You know “reality tv” is not really reality
Im not Christian and I don't agree with LGBT. You can not force people to agree to your ideology. I respect everyone regardless of classification of "gender". They have a voice and are free to say what they feel.
I'm so glad that Jill can stand up to the wrong that was done to get. Yes you forgive if you can. Its hard to but have to. God will take take of the people that have done EVIL to us. Jill has become a strong beautiful woman. She's moving on away from her family. Thank You Derick for being a Good man to her. God has you just keep the Faith and Believe. God has you.
Jill and Derek it's so not fair what you both are going through especially you Jill but both are f y'all have a strong relationship with God and know what he can and will do for you Philippians 4-130 I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me much love prayers and blessings my friends from your friend Tammy from Indy 🙏🙏💖💖🙏🙏
I keep getting the feeling, she looks @ Derrick like her mom looks @ JB. Jill sounds like she has changed...for the better. I can not imagine Jill fighting with her husband. I'm glad Jill is not popping kids out like Jessa & Anna! Wow! Jill must feel so liberated! She is no longer under JB's thumb! So wonderful that she's thinking for herself now. :)
Jill I'm really proud of you and Derrick and loved your show that you guys did Jill counting on but I've been so hurt lately by the way I feel you all have been treated...Really don't like that it seems you guys are not welcome so it's made me sad for you and I don't feel you got the money you deserved...I would love to see a show with you all on it without your parents or Josh and Anna...but I'd enjoy following you guys
They're raising their children though in the correct way and they have a normalized family between the two of them and they're probably trying to come together because they were raised differently and with everything that her brother perpetrated on the family and on her I believe she was one of them I just commend her for being strong and carrying on fighting back and she's got a supportive husband and they make a beautiful team
My kids an I personally have an open door policy. I have always told them, if you have a question no matter how big or small. In life about sex or so on. Come to me. I will always be honest with you. It was the best decision I personally ever made. So when other kids approached them they were like. No that’s not true. Or I’ll ask my Mom and kids were like wait what you talk to your mom about sex and relationships. Absolutely. The running joke between my oldest daughter and I is. “Girl, that’s TOO MUCH INFORMATION 😂😂”. You so have a right to keep stuff to yourself 😂🤦🏼♀️🤣😅
Love you guys but could you try to use the word “like” a little less?? I stopped counting at 27 in the first 5 min. But love hearing what you guys have to say and how you’re doing. Great going with law school D.!!
I lost count of the amount of times Jill said like. They are both smart. Her husband is better spoken, slightly. But, he can’t speak without like either and neither of the two can speak without Ums. I hope he corrects that before making his presence in court. Her like use is excessive, though. Extreme. A big congratulations is in order to both for Derrick finishing law school. Just like a soldier, he isn’t the only one who serves. He has a great woman at his side. I mean like he um has a like great women at his um side. See?
Bless em. When I start thinking about how much I say “like” in everyday conversation, I get really embarrassed. I think that Jill would do well to learn what pageant girls do: they just stop and smile as they gather their thoughts when they get stuck on what to say. I think it’s a verbal tic in anxious situations but also a filler for when you’re quickly trying to gather or recover your thoughts. It does really dampen the conviction of your statements to say “like” a lot.
I think Jill spent a lifetime of not being able to speak and say what she wanted, and told how to act, what to speak etc., She now knows that she can speak her voice. She happened to marry a patient guy who loves her and is allowing her to have a voice.
Give the girl a break people. When she wasn't being home schooled by her Mama she was washing, cooking, ironing, babysitting while Mama was birthing her other 15 siblings after her. Hence the reason why she only had two children of her own. She's been there and done that her whole life.
Wow, Jim Bob and Michelle, I know Josh has broken your hearts but be encouraged, look at your other adult children. Obviously you planted a lot of good seed in their hearts, look at the fruit in their lives. They are very articulate. None of them seem to have a beat down self esteem attitude. Their critical thinking skills are admirable. Don’t beat yourselves up. You did a great job. No one does it perfectly.
@@mgtrendel1 This is probably due to the home schooling curriculum Mommy Dearest used .They all use the words like,and , so.A good friend of mind was home schooled .She speaks nothing like them.They have more carpentry skills than grammar skills.What bothers me the most is they did not know that those contracts said they were volunteers ! So the book they wrote growing up Dugger all went to Daddy Dearest .
@@vernamorales2064 I'm sorry, I won't engage in your unkind and slanderous replies. I love the Duggars so much and homeschooling has nothing to do with it. The other kids don't speak like that, only Jill. It's just her way. I don't put her down, I just find it difficult to listen because I can't follow her thoughts easily. That's all I have to say and I feel sorry for you that you think It's ok to be so hateful and unkind to people with whom you disagree. Sad.
@@mgtrendel1 Got wrong !! Nothing wrong with homeschooling Those words she repeats are all she knows.I don't have a problem with her repeating her words.Nobody else does either !!Do you love Josh ? Just asking
@@susanjohnston8973 it is Jessa does not speak like that so you can't blame it on the parents. JOY has the worst speech pattern between her and Jill I don't know if it was an overlook or what but It pains me to listen to them also.
And I was like, and he was like, and then we both were like.... please take that word out of your everyday language! It's almost intolerable to listen to.
I like this couple but I hate hearing like this like that like .....makes it hard to listen and would like to listen more if Jill would shorten her answers and quit saying like all the time ,let Derrick talk more. Not trying to be mean.
How refreshing to see Jill so animated! Looks like she married a good, supportive man too. 🤗
She looks beautiful and healthy
Supportive if you agree with his bigoted views. Never forget he was chosen by Jim Bob.
She married a homophobic liar. He was
fired from TLC which he says he quit from Counting On. He was fired for attacking the star of the TLC show I Am Jazz (a transgender teen) over social media. He was warned to stop and wouldn't. You can Google it. He tries to make it sound like he walked away to benefit his family. That's a lie.
The Duggars set the bar so low that not viewing your wife as your property or as an incubator that it makes Jill’s husband look like a great person.
I love Derek and Jill! They are real. They admit they aren’t perfect and yet share the love of Jesus. I think that’s the way it should be!! Thank y’all for being a light!!!
As a victim of a similar abuse Jill is courageous and strong. Until you have experience this you have no idea how it affects your marriage. You say to say living, blaming yourself questioning yourself so bravo to Jill for speaking up
While it's sad that it happened it being so public was wrong. It should have been on her own terms at the right time for her personally. Just because they were on a reality show doesn't give the public the right to scrutinize their every move. It has done more harm than good. Hopefully through councling a new path will open up Jill is a good soul with alot of talent .
Blame it on her parents.
I absolutely love this couple. I admire Jills strength for setting her own boundaries and her own path in life. There kids are so adorably cute.
It's refreshing to see her now ! Her family didn't set boundires ( cough, Josh)... Her family trained their children ... not taught life skills (cough, Josh) including sex education.
When Derrick graduates 🎓 law school, Jill should enroll and become an OB/Gyn. She’s a smart girl!
she is already a midwife
@@mariahransom8349 no I dont think shes qualified, more like a nurses aid.
She can train and certify to become a doula! She’s def be great at it. She has a very calm spirit that would help a mother give birth.
I would like her to go back to college and enrol in a good English language course first. Her lack of education really shows up when she’s being interviewed.
@@sylvianolan2185 she is a certified midwife and can practice in a handful of states. She is not a registered nurse midwife. They are two different ways with different scopes of practice. Jill is qualified to oversee and deliver low risk pregnancies.
They love their families but they are adults now with their own family, They wanted to do it their way. As it should be. God Bless.
Right on Liz
I am excited for Jill that she has set her own path for the life of her family.
I saw Derek this fall in a video Jill posted flashing the 666 hand symbol lol! They want to be in the spotlight, but the only way anyone is interested in them is if she is talking about her famous family. I think the reason she doesn't hang with her family anymore is because Derek got greedy with the money and made Jill alienate them because of it.. She uses the fact people in the media talk smack about her family for clout
I’m glad she’s married to someone who will allow that
@@Budaboose ...you have it ALL wrong ...
Are you going to send your boys to school to be with other children they need there own friends u guys r good parents
@@debbienedeloff9473 she sent Israel to regular public school. A little surprised that Jill chose that. But Derrick went to public school, and he turned out well. I went to public and Catholic schools. I decided in 4th grade I wasnt Catholic and didnt care for Catholism class every day for years, but I def. liked Catholic school better. Public school had a lot of mean nasty kids
Jill and Derek, I’m so pleased that you made the changes that were obviously needed. You both have been my favourite couple and thank you for being open about therapy and how it helps during hard times as well as the good times. I think by being open in the way you are with your children, they will know by your example to take care of their mental health and be able to let them know how proud you are that they recognized that things were a bit beyond their usual happiness. God bless you and your boys and Jill I’m thrilled about your gardening and Derek you will be getting ready for the bar soon. With the obvious love and respect you show for each other that is what’s important. Put yourselves first before family and your marriage will be golden. I’m very proud of you and thank you for sharing, it really helped.
What a truly enlightening interview. These two are the best of the family.... open, honest and true to themselves. 👏👏👏👏🙏🏾
He is a homophobic bigot and a liar.
@@mircat28 you are only saying this because he disagrees with your views and your belief system as a Christian myself I agree with the dillards and where they stand spiritually but I will make clear that he she they as a family went about their stand and verbally harassing another human being wrong there is a loving supportive kind way to poetry your beliefs without attacking or harassing another human being and that is the only place where I think they were wrong you are allowed your opinions and they are allowed their opinions you are allowed to believe what you want to believe and they are allowed to believe what they want to ! I have said what I've said take it or leave it I don't care but please remember every person is allowed to believe and have opinions as they feel convicted to if nothing else please remember this !
I so agree with one of people on here said about Jill. It's her turn to go to school and become her life dream
I love this duo. They have come through so much growth together. Having been married for 30 years, I can say that that type of adversity and growth is the foundation of a great marriage. If you can survive hard times together and come out stronger in the end, your marriage is being forged in the fire of adversity and you can look forward to a great life together, no matter what happens around you.
Edit - the early years are a struggle as you get to know each other as a married couple. But if you learn how to fight as Derrick says, by making it about an external problem that you both need to resolve rather than somebody's character flaw, you’ll find the experience SO rewarding. Promise to grow together and share your spouse's interests. God bless your family ❤️🙏✝️
I love when couples normalize therapy! Good job!
I bet that’s gonna help a lot of people. Therapy is just a designated place to have structured conversations about conflict resolution, resolving personal traumas or just learning how to better manage stress. It’s about getting some new tools to live your life more effectively, so yeah God bless em.
Omg Jill's face when asked if quarantine was a little crazy. I FEEL THAT DEEPLY
Jill has come into her own. Love it
She's glowing omg I love it so much
So glad she was able to step away from her unstable family. her maturity level definitely has changed. She is an open book and I cannot wait for his book comes out. Jim is definitely trying to convince him not too as his density will crumble.
It is really refreshing to see that she does seem to have a higher maturity level & just a stronger sense of what she is about. Looking back, Jill has always been an outspoken person. It’s just that in the past, she was sort of speaking on behalf of the family to represent their values, to toe the line. Given she was kind of the poster child, it is in a way shocking but also like good for her. She’s very careful not to bash her family, but all she is saying sounds pretty normal. There’s problems they need to heal but it takes time. She’s a grown woman and will do things differently than her parents. I am glad she seems to have a partner who will support her in that and has probably pushed her to step out & get her freedom from the past. She’s ultimately the same person but she just speaks a little more freely than she has before.
It’s a kind of small change but it’s extraordinary to see.
Also I love seeing this long form interview: gives you a better sense of who she really is and who Derick really is
Jill Is VERY open and honest. She seems to be in a good place right now w/ a good husband and 2 kids and a promising future. I like and enjoy all 5 of the older that I am familiar with. And John David always seemed like he would be a fantastic husband- he sure seems to love and treasure Abbie. and well.. ya know. Josh.. in 19 kids there has to be 1 or 2 bad apples.. that one seems rotten to the core
It's so great to see and hear JILL talk. She's so much more open and relaxed than ever before.
I VOTE FOR A JILL AND DERICK SHOW
Right Jill! It's hard to set boundaries 😪but necessary.
I love your openness. You’ve been through so much. Years on tv where everyone felt they knew you, things that you couldn’t control, family things that came out when everyone felt they had a right to judge you. “Which they did not in my opinion”. You’re amazing. Therapy rocks. Much love and many blessings xoxox love gina
I love how they don’t act like know it all’s and that they have all the answers, unlike Jill’s parents and many of her siblings. They’re open and frank about the fact that they’re always learning. And I especially appreciate that they haven’t started a podcast preaching to the rest of us. (Looking at you, Vuolos)
Jeremy is a Master’s student so he is vastly more articulate than the others on his belief.
Or do you feel like it’s more academic and less like “here let’s share our journey and what we learned through making mistakes and living life”. Because I think there’s definitely a need for both
I would love if they started a podcast.
I never see her as happy as now. I like that! Go Jill :)
Jill and Derrick are so sweet. I love them!
I love these two so much💜 they radiate positive vibes. I'm so happy for Jill and I think she's glowing 😊 she's so beautiful and looks very happy. Thrilled she has found someone who supports her and is doing therapy. I'm SO happy for both of them. Derek seems like a great guy with a good head on his shoulders. I know he will do right by her and I love that he's in law school. I hope he and Jill are healthy.💜
Jill, Derick, you are courageous and strong. Keep on smilin'!
Loved the interview but u should have let Derrick get a word in regarding the questions asked. It’s great you both finally found your voices.
I like Jill and Derrick and their down to earth style, but I agree with you that she needs to let Derrick speak too. It was hard for me to keep watching this when he kept trying to say something and she wouldn't let him cut in, nor did she acknowledge any of the few words he tried to get out. She needs to become more aware and considerate in this regard.
Jill you look amazing.
Jill I just love you.. I love how you finally were able to find your voice. 💪🏻🙌🏻
Love you guys! So down to earth! ❤
I like these two, individually and as a married couple! They don't present themselves as having the perfect marriage; they have one based in the real world with real issues that we all face. I wish them many blessings as they go through their lives!👏🙏
Yeah, as I got older I started to see Jill as someone who was interesting to listen to because she had a voice and just was real. There was a time I thought she was not very sincere, and who knows maybe she hadn’t found the strength to be her most authentic self. She’s a young woman who was living in a very public family since about 14 years old... so I’m not judging. I’m proud of her actually.
They’re just a solid unit. The good the bad, these two seem to just get each other and support each other. That I think is what her parents should be supporting for all they preach about marriage... Jill and Derick seem to be making it work.
Jill and Derek glad to see you both really truly happy
I love these two!! Plz interview them again, they are awesome!!
Love Jill and Derick! ❤️
Good job team!
We learn from our kids too Parents are in need of learning as well!
Derek and Jill ho for it. In your faith. Good luck congratulations ❤
Good for you Jill! Break away from all that strangeness!
I’m so proud of both of you’s!!
Joy, Jill and Jessa RUclips channels are really good it’s great to see them forge their own path
Joy is very much her fathers daughter and is married into one of the biggest fundie families so I don’t see her moving on. Plus it’s only Jill who has really broken the chains. Jinger is living a different lifestyle due to her husband but I think she still struggles with her past.
@@letitiakearney2423 As she would. I get the impression those girls did not get a sufficient amount of help for the trauma they went through at a young age.
I am happy to see Derick is supporting Jill as she seeks healing from her past.
Don't forget Jinger.
You are soo good together!! I love you guys!! 🙂❤🙏 Love&Hugs
I’m glad Jill has discovered her own path outside of Jim Bobs way of life. She seems so much more relatable now. But still not a fan of Derek. His comment about being 35 and not married because your standards were too high is just plain wrong. Nothing wrong with being 35 and unmarried because you don’t want to settle
God Bless you. Derick and Jill
Proud of you both !
Thank you guys for sharing your Real selves.
Follow your ❤ Derrick and Jill
I love them! Great couple!
Anyone else watching this like oh snap, they k ew. They found out about Josh and immediately went into therapy and then educated their kids on good and bad touch.
I'm not sure if that's about Josh's current actions or if it's more because of how she had to overcome his past abuse and wanted to make sure their boys have the knowledge and safety of knowing they can talk to their parents and ask for help if they need it and it's nothing they should be ashamed about if anything should happen. It sounds like they might be in therapy for like a year or more as they know the lingo and are more comfortable in their relationship. The catalyst might be that rift they had with the dugger parents two or so years ago. 🤷
Unlike most of the comments here. They both made me uncomfortable. It seems like they are both very cautious about what they are saying. In their channel they have more control of what they say and how they say it🤷
Kudos for being thoughtful and careful during the pandemic. I like these two.
I am proud of them to not being apologetic about their own choices. Good for them
You guys are a wonderful couple and such great parents !!
Love You Jill & Derrick this is April 30, 2021.
I really do like Jill but geez we need a ticker for how many times she says 'Like' LOL
Could be a nervous tick. I talk normal in my everyday life but I get nervous or anxious I say like or um a lot even if I have rehearsed.
Jills favorite word is like 100 tmes or more.
Our differences make the world a beautiful place ✨❤. Y'all love God and people and that's the focus!
At least they are sensible and responsible people.
I would love for Derrick to address his transphobic comments from a few years ago. I am hopeful that both Jill and Derrick's beliefs are evolving as they mature and grow. It's great that they have broken away from Jim Bob's control, setting boundaries, and raising their kids in a way that works for them... and hopefully not passing down some of the more toxic ideologies Jill was brought up with.
He addressed them in other videos on their channel and explained his views. It’s really not what you think. You know “reality tv” is not really reality
Im not Christian and I don't agree with LGBT. You can not force people to agree to your ideology. I respect everyone regardless of classification of "gender". They have a voice and are free to say what they feel.
I'm so glad that Jill can stand up to the wrong that was done to get.
Yes you forgive if you can.
Its hard to but have to.
God will take take of the people that have done EVIL to us.
Jill has become a strong beautiful woman.
She's moving on away from her family.
Thank You Derick for being a Good man to her.
God has you just keep the Faith and Believe.
God has you.
They are refreshing. The use of the word like is hard to continue listening, too.
The key word here is
“ Balance”
So Good to see her Free of Josh finally she got justice. I like these two. They are a nice couple
Jill, Yeah oh of course but like yeah but like we were um like yeah. If you um like this then um yeah 'LIKE' it. LOL
Good point Derrick
She woke up
Now she is working on her self and wants a normal life for her family refreshing
Jill interrupts Derrick constantly. A good topic for therapy
Agree! I kinda feel like she try to talks for him sometimes in their vlogs, especially.
Katie Hernandez I feel like it’s because she’s much more comfortable/confident in front of the camera
@@ameliadarcy796 possibly. But still lol.
She's controlling what he shares about her family and how he expressed himself about them.
@@WinnieDaou Who knows,since they're kinda having some drama. But you could be right. Idk lol
Jill and Derek it's so not fair what you both are going through especially you Jill but both are f y'all have a strong relationship with God and know what he can and will do for you Philippians 4-130
I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me much love prayers and blessings my friends from your friend Tammy from Indy 🙏🙏💖💖🙏🙏
💘 this couple
Here comes without a crystal ball with her nonsense “ Jill wants nothing more with her controlling family”.
😂😂😂
Seriously all she does is stock you tube and watch these videos and then twists there words 🙄
@@Mammaj1963 Thats all anyone who watches this useless crap does!! So lets not pretend Without a crystal ball is the problem!!
I don’t understand the hate with Katie. I like her channel and I like her. What’s the problem? She’s suddenly enemy #1...why??
@@05BabyReg Because she doesn’t tell the truth she mimics and makes fun of everything they do, she’s a bully!
I just love Jill and Derrick🖤🖤
The Dillards and the Vuolos are my favorites. And Janna.
Not so fond of Jana , she believes her dad is king, wish she would just grow something and leave.
let me guess you are not a Capricorn
@@lizschuller6894 are you 15? Who talks like that? 😂
Part of the problem with Josh was because sex was weirdly taboo. But when Josh did SA the parents did nothing
I keep getting the feeling, she looks @ Derrick like her mom looks @ JB. Jill sounds like she has changed...for the better. I can not imagine Jill fighting with her husband. I'm glad Jill is not popping kids out like Jessa & Anna! Wow! Jill must feel so liberated! She is no longer under JB's thumb! So wonderful that she's thinking for herself now. :)
You guys are amazing!!!
Good job, guy! True examples of Christ! Love their honesty!!
Jill l am so happy for you .Keep your kids away from you know who and have a great life
Keep your kids away from your parents. If they allowed 1 son toolest his own sisters they would allow another son to molest your children.
You guys are Great.
I love these two!
Jill I'm really proud of you and Derrick and loved your show that you guys did Jill counting on but I've been so hurt lately by the way I feel you all have been treated...Really don't like that it seems you guys are not welcome so it's made me sad for you and I don't feel you got the money you deserved...I would love to see a show with you all on it without your parents or Josh and Anna...but I'd enjoy following you guys
They're raising their children though in the correct way and they have a normalized family between the two of them and they're probably trying to come together because they were raised differently and with everything that her brother perpetrated on the family and on her I believe she was one of them I just commend her for being strong and carrying on fighting back and she's got a supportive husband and they make a beautiful team
I think this is perfect and you know the reason why they're teaching them at this age is because of what their Uncle did
34:18 I wonder who she relates to from the Plath family lol
Probably moriah
My kids an I personally have an open door policy. I have always told them, if you have a question no matter how big or small. In life about sex or so on. Come to me. I will always be honest with you. It was the best decision I personally ever made. So when other kids approached them they were like. No that’s not true. Or I’ll ask my Mom and kids were like wait what you talk to your mom about sex and relationships. Absolutely. The running joke between my oldest daughter and I is. “Girl, that’s TOO MUCH INFORMATION 😂😂”. You so have a right to keep stuff to yourself 😂🤦🏼♀️🤣😅
Love you guys but could you try to use the word “like” a little less?? I stopped counting at 27 in the first 5 min. But love hearing what you guys have to say and how you’re doing. Great going with law school D.!!
I think that would be a great idea. 🙏
Let him talk!!!!!
Love Them Both !!!
I lost count of the amount of times Jill said like. They are both smart. Her husband is better spoken, slightly. But, he can’t speak without like either and neither of the two can speak without Ums. I hope he corrects that before making his presence in court. Her like use is excessive, though. Extreme.
A big congratulations is in order to both for Derrick finishing law school. Just like a soldier, he isn’t the only one who serves. He has a great woman at his side.
I mean like he um has a like great women at his um side. See?
Bless em. When I start thinking about how much I say “like” in everyday conversation, I get really embarrassed.
I think that Jill would do well to learn what pageant girls do: they just stop and smile as they gather their thoughts when they get stuck on what to say. I think it’s a verbal tic in anxious situations but also a filler for when you’re quickly trying to gather or recover your thoughts.
It does really dampen the conviction of your statements to say “like” a lot.
I think she is using it waaay to much and is rubbing it off on him, so she needs to stop it now so they both can heal from using this word.
Love u guys ❤ God blessings U ❤ 💕 💞 ♥
I think Jill spent a lifetime of not being able to speak and say what she wanted, and told how to act, what to speak etc., She now knows that she can speak her voice. She happened to marry a patient guy who loves her and is allowing her to have a voice.
I wish there was a link to the video they’re referencing.
Love them❤️
Give the girl a break people. When she wasn't being home schooled by her Mama she was washing, cooking, ironing, babysitting while Mama was birthing her other 15 siblings after her. Hence the reason why she only had two children of her own. She's been there and done that her whole life.
Wow, Jim Bob and Michelle, I know Josh has broken your hearts but be encouraged, look at your other adult children. Obviously you planted a lot of good seed in their hearts, look at the fruit in their lives. They are very articulate. None of them seem to have a beat down self esteem attitude. Their critical thinking skills are admirable. Don’t beat yourselves up. You did a great job. No one does it perfectly.
Jim Bob and Michelle failed their daughters and they disowned Jill
These 2 are leaders.
Leaders is cultish .
U guys are awesome g ood. Fresh parents lolo. 😂🤣😅😆
Love them but she says “like” a lot
Yes. I had to turn it off. I love them but it was so grating I couldn't finish watching!
@@mgtrendel1 This is probably due to the home schooling curriculum Mommy Dearest used .They all use the words like,and , so.A good friend of mind was home schooled .She speaks nothing like them.They have more carpentry skills than grammar skills.What bothers me the most is they did not know that those contracts said they were volunteers ! So the book they wrote growing up Dugger all went to Daddy Dearest .
@@vernamorales2064 I'm sorry, I won't engage in your unkind and slanderous replies. I love the Duggars so much and homeschooling has nothing to do with it. The other kids don't speak like that, only Jill. It's just her way. I don't put her down, I just find it difficult to listen because I can't follow her thoughts easily. That's all I have to say and I feel sorry for you that you think It's ok to be so hateful and unkind to people with whom you disagree. Sad.
@@mgtrendel1 Got wrong !! Nothing wrong with homeschooling Those words she repeats are all she knows.I don't have a problem with her repeating her words.Nobody else does either !!Do you love Josh ? Just asking
@@vernamorales2064 Yes I love Josh. I love them all.
like....yeah....like um...yeah...like...again like yeah...
I want to hear what she has to say but it’s painfully to listen to her talk.
@@susanjohnston8973 it is Jessa does not speak like that so you can't blame it on the parents. JOY has the worst speech pattern between her and Jill I don't know if it was an overlook or what but It pains me to listen to them also.
I need Jill to work on using “like” every other word. It’s painful.
I agree with you. However, Jill sounds much more grown up in the way she is speaking. It sounds like she has found confidence within herself.
All the Duggar’s speak that way. They have not been exposed to other vocublary.
It's her lack of education. That's a teenage way of speaking.
That's a really stupid thing to, like, criticize. Get over it.
@@tiadavenport5465 it
And I was like, and he was like, and then we both were like.... please take that word out of your everyday language! It's almost intolerable to listen to.
Love Jill and Derick. Keep those babies away from your toxic family. They make me sick.
Israel is her favorite
I think she'd be a great lawyer.. unless it was him lol I didn't hear 😆
Derick is the one in law school.
Jill would do great if she wanted to get that nursing degree. I think that’s more her passion. She used to be a doula
I like this couple but I hate hearing like this like that like .....makes it hard to listen and would like to listen more if Jill would shorten her answers and quit saying like all the time ,let Derrick talk more. Not trying to be mean.
Wish they weren’t so vague with everything
Over sharing is actually incredibly unhealthy. They are sharing with appropriate boundaries.