We're Not 'Gang Rivals' - We're Lovers | LOVE DON'T JUDGE
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TRINO and Adam have been together for 18 years, but the couple have endured backlash throughout their relationship. Both proud Mexican-Americans, the men's Chicano culture means that not everyone approved of their love. Speaking to truly about their culture, Trino explained: "The gay man, it's an embarrassment to the family," and Adam added: "Someone said they'd rather be a drug addict than gay. It's the bottom of the barrel for some people." Growing up in Los Angeles' gang neighbourhoods, the pair's dress sense has been heavily influenced by their upbringing. Adam said: "Sometimes people will say, 'It's ok to be gay, but just dress like you're gay,'... How do you dress like you're gay?" Agreeing, Trino added: "People want us to be a certain way, they just can't understand that gay guys come from the hood!" In this episode of Love Don't Judge, Trino and Adam will have an honest conversation with Trina's sister, Brenda, about her initial concerns of the relationship. We'll also meet the couple's daughter, Natalie, who opens up on how people reacted to her having two dads. Reflecting on their relationship judgement, Adam said: "People see us and they think a certain way, but you know what, for us, we really give our heart."
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Videographer: Ben Fredman
Producers: Kathryn Lewsey, Kate Moore, Amy Nicholson & Yasmin Walker
Editor: Jonny Poole
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This is the epitome of,
“Whatcha looking at foo?”
“Looking at your eyes homie”
😂
Yo.ooo shit ☠️💀☠️
💀
😂😂😂😂😂 You foo
😂
"Eyy, I love you foo."
"Orale, I love you too, vato."
-How it became official, probably.
“They were homies. They were homie-sexuals!”
- Pablo Francisco
I love Pablo Francisco 😂
It's refreshing to see both men retain their male energy.
They both seem like, really nice people.
True. The flamboyant ones can be annoying 😑
Exactlyyyyy!!!
Lmao a lot of gay dudes are masculine, you likely pass by or interact with plenty without knowing. People think feminine gay guys are the majority sense those types are the only ones that you really know are gay.
Like if you walk by ten gay people and only three say or display that they're gay you'll base your stereotypes on them.
That’s most of them but the effeminate ones dominate the scene
Literally my favorite couple I've ever seen. Not just lovers, but best friends.
Really? Do you know them in person?
@@RobertPadilla-qj2wm🤭
I'm guessing she meant her favourite couple she's seen in this series.
They're not just lovers, but best friends.
Most of the couples are not like that. So it is nice to see.
@@sarahcaitlyn88 okay I understand you now thanks. Where do you live
@@RobertPadilla-qj2wm I could be wrong, I'm just ASSUMING that was what the original poster meant.
Your response was funny though.
@@RobertPadilla-qj2wm5 day old spam account 😂
My teacher told me to do my Ese, but I think I misunderstood the assignment.
😂😂😂😂
Lmaooo 😂😂😂😂😂
They are really blessed to have each other and to be together so long
You're very sick ,do you know what's called blessings 🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮
Gays can't be blessed
1:23 very sad and true, some family members are also more comfortable with the family pervert/ pedo than a
Gay family member 😢
Those families are garbage themselves if they rather deal with a pedo, gross
They are truly blessed to be together that long. Their relationship is truly special & how they both raised their daughter Natalie together is awesome. Natalie looks happy & proud of Trino & Adam. Thank you for sharing your love story.
You looked very cute and beautiful at your profile there Lore! Do you mind been friends 🥀 if that's ok with you?
Love this. This is what standing in your truth looks like. Authenticity is so hard to come by these days. Kudos to yall for embracing your culture, and fully loving and accepting yourselves ❤💙🖤
No it's disgusting
@Lauraperez_4 - then why are u even here?!?
I'll bet these 2 men have a cleaner record than most straight Mexican men living in downtown LA.
Don't get me wrong im not some liberal gay rights activist, but they seem like a nice couple. And i would prefer them as my neighbors instead of a loud family that argues all the time, or a racist old white man with a huge gun collection.
Authenticity is so difficult to come by these days because people don't even go by their actual pronoun and gender and all this other made up garbage.
😢 cope@@Lauraperez_4
There's something very nice about their relationship. Best of luck and many blessings to the both of them 🙏🏼❤
Its not gay if its with the homies.
Lmfao
😂😂
lol 😂
Still is
@@ManB-r6y not if you don't make eye contact.
Best gay couple ever! They are so not stereotypical and it feels like a fresh breeze tbh ❤
This is probably the best gay couple I've ever seen..they cool and super normal 🤙
😂😅
😆😂😂🤣
I'm no gay expert but I think they'd see ur compliment as an insult. That said.....😂😂😂
@@gioluvs1893I'm gay and don't see the insult
@@bbb12124 Well then wtf do I know.
Love these two! You can tell how much they love each other and that is wonderful! More power to them! 🥰
This is beautiful. Clearly they’re doing something right, 18 years! ❤
Tears of love in my eyes. What a great couple to inspire the world today. Good on you guys, your sister and daughter!
Congratulations Gentlemen. Not everyone has such a love commitment respect & devotion to their partners. You've been together this long, long may your relationship continue.
It’s so refreshing to see love like this regardless of the backlash from their community they stand by each other !
i admire them 😊especially coming from the chicano culture it’s not easy much love i appreciate you guys sharing bringbtear of joy ❤
What a great couple . I wish more people could meet their soulmate and be happy as this couple obviously are ❤
I don’t understand why ppl care so much if someone is gay or not, like it’s not yur life it’s their let ppl be happy!
Love these two! I was born in Anaheim, and grew up in Buena Park, California. Guys who dress and speak like this have always felt comforting somehow. These two seem to have super kind hearts, awesome style, and an amazing family that loves them.
Living the damn dream! ❤
Oh crap I'm from Anaheim and Buena Park
Moved out 😭 of Cali like 16 years ago though .
Live in Texas now 😢
Love New York( visited recently ) and Florida though ❤
See, I was more interested when I thought they were from rivals gangs and became lovers. Then I realized they were just a regular gay couple who have been together for almost 20 years. 😂😂😂😂 I see a reality show and a fictional book genre!
I absolutely love y’all family.
This is beautiful.
I am passionatley moved by you two beautiful men living out your truth. People don't realize that being gay isn't an image or a fashion statement. You guys embody what LOVE really is!!! You guys are in my heart and prayers. Thank you for being you. Sending my support and💝 LOVE FROM DALLAS, TEXAS.
What a unique love story. You can tell they really love each other.
I have fallen in love with them!!!
I don't know these guys but I love and respect them!
WHAT COOL DADS 😭 Shes a lucky girl to have such great parents
The way I click so fast looking at the thumbnail. But after watching it.. totally NOT what I was expecting😂😂 but kudos
All the best fellas!
They need to make a movie about them ,kinda like moonlight .
So cute. Especially the bond with their daughter.
You damn right I came straight to the comments🤣
You guys are the most masculine energy gay men I’ve ever seen.
00:00 🏳🌈 Trino and Adam, a loving couple, challenge stereotypes about their relationship, emphasizing they're lovers, not "gang rivals."
01:09 🏡 Cultural barriers within their Mexican-American background led to familial shame and stigmatization for being gay.
03:28 🤝 Their attire, linked to Cho culture, is misconstrued as gang-related, perpetuating stereotypes and degrading their sexuality.
05:33 💪 Facing false assumptions and judgments, their bond as a couple grows stronger, relying on each other for support against societal biases.
06:13 👶 Trino and Adam's daughter, raised with love and honesty, defies misconceptions about kids raised by same-sex parents, showcasing strength and self-awareness.
07:38 👨👨👧👦 Family support evolves as Trino's sister reflects on initial concerns, regretting not discussing feelings openly but ultimately supporting Trino's journey.
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 wtf
@@Rachelllllll2024They broke it down by chapter. 😅
@@melissaharrison293 lmfaooooooooooo I know, it's just so bizzare
@@Rachelllllll2024 07:45 💩 Trino took a sh*t.
@@melissaharrison293 😭 I literally laughed out loud.
Ok this was a different one 🤯
One looks like spooky from on my block 🤣
I thought I was the only one, that thought so
I love it. I grew up with 2 moms so I can definitely relate.
Daughter looks so much as her tia! Loving family, this is what parenting is about, love!
This is so sweet❤ I respect and admire what they go through to be together. What a beautiful love.
This helped me and my relationship for 16 yrs with alot we battled .. I have never even spoke to someone gay that's how bad my community is against our lifestyle ty TRINO AND ADAM
My cheeks are hurting from smiling the whole video. What an amazing couple, and they raised such a beautiful daughter! ❤
Her husband probably gay too lol
They say they aint rivals but they sword fight daily ⚔️⚔️⚔️⚔️
This was an interesting one. I like those guys!
I have two cousins are gay and I really do support them and love them
This was a awesome story I wish I can find love like this one day.
Being gay has kept you out of the gangs, therefore out of prison, free to raise an amazing daughter without missing a day of her life by being behind bars. Able to be yourselves rather than carbon copy street warriors. You've built a good, solid life together. Keep going! 💞
Love this!
"Wassup homes, we are lovers"
*Makes out
You guys are my favorite couple I've been following you guys on every platform since last year I love your guyses vibes I love that you guys answer questions or talk to people when they talk to you or comment some people don't care they just care about the content
At least the sister & daughter are supportive
Magical 🎉🎉🎉
Thank you for sharing your beauty ❤️
Damn they just licking each other down 😂 ok we
Get it
My friends! I keep saying it, you guys are the cutest couple ever!! #relationshipgoals #lovedontjudge #adamandtrino
LA, Mexican culture dress this way; just thier fashion choice some! which society and the TV has chose to betray them as gang members because they like to wear plaid long shirt, bandanas ect. Just like all cultures have a flavor they represent all over the world! Being lovers i understand thier struggle but its their business and im happy they have each other to love.😊
Congratulations to Lil Vato and Lil Puppet! 😂😂
I’m glad to have found you guys❤❤
I'm proud of you guys🎉 be who you are and F what anyone else says❤
They are actually supercute together
Bless and respect to the both of you ❤ keep shining that light and I hope the hate never gets to you too much
I love them ❤ what an amazing couple❤❤❤
Eish… some things are a BIG NO
What a beautiful couple! God bless them both. Love is love! 18 years together, so happy for them both. 🫶🏼
They dress and play the part but they're surprised that they get judged and put in a box?
It’s sad ppl can’t go out and have to look over they shoulders
That sandwich he made looks good lol
you can tell they are still in love and best friends. ..and they seem like they are rly good dads.
Nothing wrong. Worse is when they hide it😢and have a wife and kids ..
Low key they have a male lover because they cant come up ...
Heart breaking for the wife and kids.
They are loyal to themselves. Without hurting no one.
Ice cube: "can't get enough of this gangsta sh"
I do not approve this message and this lifestyle. Good.luck on trying to have a baby together because it can never happened.
Thats sweet. Viva la raza 🇲🇽 y que viva el amor. Im straight and its not my business to judge these vatos, they love each other and thats what matters.
Love your videos.
I love them! They are so loving and true to themselves. Bottle up their love and send it out because we should all be so lucky, regardless of your preference.
I have so much love for you guys ❤ whish you all the best. 18 years… wow
Hello 👋🤗, can we text?
😮 I can't picture neither of them with a pickle 😂
That's not for you to picture
They’re so confident
Love is love ❤
Very true yes
so go mary a 9 year old love is love
This NASTY WORK
What nasty work? Go on
@@thaliairainaseeing 6:30 2 man together is fucking nasty god made male and female for a reason not for man to be with a man and not for women to be with a woman
They're a cute family.
My mind is 🤯
"gay guys come from the hood"‼️‼️‼️‼️‼️🙌🏽 ....let the hood guys tell it (THEY DONT ) ...i respect anyone who lives in their truth! 🫶🏽
18 years! Wow. Beautiful couple 💑 happy for them. Im not a gay myself but live and let live ❤
Shocking world
They are such beautiful couple!!!! ❤❤❤❤❤
Hello 👋👋, how are you
great couple! i wish them the best ❤
awe the daughter was so sweet
People are just crazy all over the world and need Jesus
The love of two fooo's
I literally don't care yall look cool together and if these fools think you are in the pin more credit and hey they're are doing a great job with their daughter
Wow! You could tell those niggaz are in love. They look at each other the way my wife and Look at each other.
Just fabulous I love they stick to there culture the way of dressing …as a trans woman and my brother being a gay man ..we are all human and deserve kindness accepting understanding and love x
Mwah xxxx❤
Hey be nice@cianmacgana9092
@cianmacgana9092how do you know who they’re attracted to?
@cianmacgana9092 you don’t even know how to answer a question so I’d say that’s pretty ignorant lmao
@cianmacgana9092 I know trans people that are exclusively same-sex attracted. So I was just asking how you knew which sex they’re attracted to. Sorry I got you mad.
@cianmacgana9092 why are you telling me this?
They’re gay bangers
Leave them alone
This is disguting
Did they adopt her? How did they get their daughter?
Just keep on doing you
I’m a Hispanic man and I dated a girl from the hood and she wanted a man who wasn’t from the hood but this girl was not a good influince but this girl wanted me to kiss her male friends which I refused she had a fetish to watch guys kiss unfortunately for her I refused and stoped talking to me
Cool story bro.
@@serendipity1237 right man I got a bunch but that’s just a dose that girl was 18 and I was 30 so kinda crazy
Good don't ever be influenced in that sort of way.
@@taylorray7063 no your right ghetto girl wanted me to kiss her make gangster friend and hug him I was 28 she was 19 but it just not right what you think
@@edgargonzalez6173 that Def ain't right. That's not a rship you want to go into