I burst out laughing when both of you were so taken aback by the word Behandlungszimmer. In German we just string nouns together and thus create really long words. Love from Germany.
On the point of corsets, as someone who wears one instead of a modern bra and spanx, they definitely can cause more issues if you're prone to body dysmorphia and can cause you to go too far, into the dangerous waist size territory. But if you wear it responsibly and with the idea that the corset is there for support and to create a silhouette that better showcases certain clothing styles, you can do it safely. It can be a slippery slope, but so can a lot of things. PS, if anyone's going to wear them, don't tight-lace to the extreme, its just not worth it and will cause more issues.
I’d love to start wearing one instead of a bra because mine are heavy and weigh on my shoulders and contribute to my bad back. But because my torso is short, a lot of real function-not-fashion corsets are too long. Do you have any advice?
Corsests first and foremost used to be for support, and were also worn over a layer of clothing. Of course they created a certain silhouette but they used to be fitted to your body, they weren't the torture devices they're often made out to be. But yeah, now there are a lot of shitty corsets or "waist trainers" out there that just hurt your organs
I was thinking this! Corsets weren’t originally designed to reshape your body and they aren’t meant to be worn for long periods of time. They’re for support and people nowadays really don’t recognize that so they try to gain the shape by tightening and tightening and tightening which isn’t only mentally dangerous but physically! I wish more people were educated on this topic 😩
Not a corset person, but I wore waist trainers for a long time in my late teens/college years. I didn't realize it was supposed to only be worn for an hour or so a few days a week, but I would get compliments about how nice I looked all the time so I'd wear it every time I stepped out of the house to feel better about myself (so a forty hour work week at minimum) and I did it for FOUR years. Now I have severe rib pain and stomach issues from my insides being compressed so badly, but I looked SO much better so I didn't stop until the damage was permanent. It's not worth it, not at all
I don't wear mine that tight. I wear mine all the time because I have scoliosis and it keeps me from slumping. When I did wear it too tight, it bruised me and hurt my ribs. Now I inhale as big as I can before I tighten it. That way I know I have breathing room.
@@dontmindme9046 you are totally right and I didn't even catch it. I was just confused because a proper corset does no damage. But I could see how a waist trainer could.
As someone who suffers from depression. This really hits hard. I used to want to alter almost everything on my body, but once I finally loved/excepted myself , it changed my view on how I saw myself, for once I felt beautiful and loved. You start to see the beauty in others too. So sad that she doesn't feel special, everyone should feel special.
"There was nothing special about me." That quote right there, and her specific use of the word 'special' explains why she went on this journey to change herself. To me it sounds like a deeper mental issue where she might have been depressed and just didn't feel like she was even "there". She looked cute in my opinion to begin with but maybe she felt overlooked by all her peers.
Ken, in regards to wearing expired contacts. They suggest not wearing them because of bacteria/fungi, you could get a severe eye infection wearing them. Better safe than sorry!
Also the material can break/dissolve and that could also hurt your eyes. As someone who had eye surgery, I wouldn't risk anything on my eyes because if I can avoid not doing another one, I would
Yeah, materials naturally erode, when friction is applied. You might not think it, but all that blinking adds up, even with lubrication. Things don't erode at a constant rate, small deviations become magnified. So you end up with a relatively scratchy film covered in little moist pockets for bacteria
I was really scared about Lasik too. I toyed with the idea for YEARS. Finally, I took a leap of faith last May and it's the BEST thing I've ever spent money on. Not having to deal with contacts or glasses (which I started wearing in the 5th grade, I'm 34 now) is truly liberating!! I did NOT feel a thing when they were working on my eyes... well, except for this gel that they put on which felt refreshing af. It took less than 5 minutes and my vision was almost perfect not even 5 hours later!
@@InsertName69 they wont have a live feed where you can watch yourself being operated on, your ride (that you're required to have) can watch the surgery in the other room though. throughout the process, my vision was intact. there was a moment when things got really blurry, but there was not a second when everything was dark.
@@angelicpinay47you say you feel during the process butbdoes your eyes hurt after? If you move a little does it make you blind? Im thinking about it but really scare me
Expired contacts isn’t just like dry contacts since it’s in fluid it’s a bacterial/ fungal risk. I feel the wallet when it’s like wasted but as a whole it’s just not worth it
Being an exotic cat breeder and collecting Monster High are some interesting things about her already. It makes me sad to see that she doesn't already feel special and it makes me sad for the alt community, who already carry around baggage of being steteotyped as having daddy issues or low self-esteem or whatever. It's really just a style at the end of the day and a pretty cool one, too
Getting your eyeball tattooed has a pretty strong possibility of becoming permanently blind if you don't take very, very specific care of it and basically grabbed a doctor to do it.
She seems like a sweet person, probably didn't meet the right people that would genuinely enjoy her being herself & give support in her self-esteem... But I really hope she's truly is happy & satisfied now, not just saying it... To y'all out there, you are special in your own way, appreciate the little good things in life & you'll definitely feel better
Body Dysmorphoria needs to be talked about more, and i feel surgans should have clients go to see a psychologist before going under the knife... its a hard conversation... while peopel should be able to do what they want with their body, there is a serious danger that somones on the verge of killing themselves, because they're suffering from something that will never be fixed on the outside, because they're diagnosed with a more severe mental illness.
@@nataliemarlowe2516 i agree with most of Alternative culture and what people do to change their body to be what they want.. Body Modification and mutilation does have a fine line...The ones who get to me are those who are like the woman who put bleach in her eyes to become blind, The Black Alien whos planning on cutting off body parts, others who are also becoming disabled, and Oli London who's obsessed with a human that they have to look like them, to become them.. definitely dangerous behavior.
One thing that I learned in psychology is one of the most common treatments for body dysmorphia, is in fact surgery. It’s not really something that you can just get a cure for through a psychologist and through medications. Eventually it comes back to surgery. Because unless you actually change the body part do you feel like isn’t part of you, you’ll never truly accept it. Body dysmorphia goes beyond oh I don’t like this about me. Body dysmorphia is literally feeling like part of your body does not belong to you. Like someone took a piece of someone else and put it on your body. It’s not just “I don’t like my nose”. It’s “oh this is definitely not my nose. This is someone else’s nose. I don’t know who’s nose this is but I need it off my body”
I was really little the first times I started thinking about cutting my face up or being in an accident where I lose my face, because my entire childhood was just being a pretty blonde doll for everyone but also no one wanting to actually be my friend. I didn't even feel like a girl and all anyone ever talked about was how pretty I was or people flirting with me, as a child. I'd often fantasize about being burned or hit by a car and having scars so people can be interested in my character and what I've been through instead of the fact that I looked like a barbie. Like people literally called me Barbie and I hate Barbie so much, it drove me pretty crazy. I'm glad I never went through with mutilating myself but it was always on my mind. "If I had a messed up face then I'd know if this guy actually wants to be buds but he probably just sees me as a potential girlfriend and as soon as I say I'm not interested he won't be my friend anymore". I knew kids who had scars from accidents and they were popular because people pitied them, I felt like "maybe if I get hurt really bad someday people will always be nice to me after". It was really messed up thinking all those things before I even got to middle school, and luckily I never did anything drastic and hurt myself, but this is a serious thing even a small child could be thinknig of, when people project onto that child's looks all the time or they feel unseen as the person they want to be respected as. And there's two ways they can go, they pronounce the things they think attracts people to them because they want more attention, or they remove what people obsess over that takes the focus off their personality becaue they want less attention. It can be very dangerous and more people need to address dysmorphia in its many forms early on before it drives people crazy to endanger themselves.
Male body Dysmorphoria is really bad as female dysmenorrhea but never talked about steroids oils unhealthy dieting body shamming really bad stuff but mostly people only talk about women body dysmenorrhea all of it is still bad and unhealthy but
Ken saying about how women must feel after taking off the corset... It's the same with makeup. I only started to feel truly attractive natural once I stopped wearing makeup and having that daily disappointment once I took it off and looked different xx
It works with hair too! I only felt truly beautiful after I shaved my head and accepted myself as beautiful without it ‐ it was very freeing - now I can see my beauty no matter what my hair looks like
Ken I gotta say man, I was introduced to you from Felix's channel, I had no idea who you were. A couple videos later and man I couldnt stop myself from subbing to you. From one dad to another, you're a fuckin cool dude man. Even when you rip on people you at least try to be respectful in a way lol. I started watching your videos on your channel and man, I dont think there is a single "youtuber" that I resonate with on the same level as you. Just wanted to share that man, you may not see it but yeah. Love your stuff man, take er easy, never sleazy.
I have to add that through you I was also introduced to buff and that guy is god damn fantastic XD so thx for that too man, and thanks to you too Buff, you're both awesome.
Lasik was easily the best money I have ever spent. Not having to worry about glasses or contacts for 20 years was bliss. It doesn't defeat the aging process, so I'm starting to wear glasses again and they're such a PITA.
Honestly I'd rather spend like £25 a month getting disposable contacts. Invasive surgeries where I have to be awake really scare me, and contacts are really easy to use.
I'm planning to have lasik next year. My astigmatism is too high to wear contacts and the pinching on my nose by the glasses male my always inflamed sinus even worse and harder to breath a lot of times.
I got lasik 2 years ago. Had astigmatism also. I couldn’t see The Big E (the first letter on the eye exam) without my glasses and driving at night was horrible with the light starbursts from headlights and such. I am very happy with it. And I’m a very scaredy-cat type person. If you have very poor vision it is worth it. I feel much more confident driving and sewing and so much more :)
On the point of wearing a corset, I've heard that it can be very beneficial for people who have posture issues since it basically forces you to sit up straight and push your chest out. On the subject of lasik, I was looking into doing it in the last year and it wasn't actually too scarey like I thought. Nowadays they numb your eyes, laser them and your done. I think they said that the entire procedure is less then 7 minutes and your vision is fine within 2 weeks. I personally wouldn't use expired contacts since they create bacteria and having eye infections can get pretty nasty, take it from me I've had pink eye in both of my eyes for 2 weeks, not a fun experience at all.
I know someone who has their tongue split and she opted out of listening to music and she said the worst thing was she could hear them sawing through it basically. She also said every morning she would have to separate her tongue again, since the gauze would shift through the night, and obviously your body is trying to heal itself.
@@trillijuanaplays they're shapes/designs made of silicone, not like implants the way breasts are. She had a star fish implant first (I believe) in her hand but do to how thin the skin was it started to reject. She had it removed and an anchor put in the other hand.
I feel sad hearing her talk like that about herself and thinking she's special only after the mods but I also feel the same about myself. Body dysmorphia is a terrible mindset to live with. I can never tell how I actually look but I can nitpick at every part of my body I want to change. On the flip side, as long as she's not hurting anyone, or herself in the process then why not? We're only here for a little while, why not dress/modify etc yourself into someone you enjoy and love being?
I suppose the could be the question posed, what if this is a means of self-harm for her? I’ve had my own issues with my body and wanted to have surgeries etc before for a time period. My psychologist was great and helped me learn to cope with the feelings better, telling me that I’d they persisted after some amount of time or a while after my mental disorder became more stable, then we’d come back to discussing surgeries and procedures. And I think it saved me to be honest. I still struggle somewhat but I’m better overall. The idea of “it’s not hurting anyone” is intriguing because often we actually don’t know if anyone, including the individual in question, is being hurt or not. It would take a proper psychologist/ psychiatrist or maybe an entire team.
@@ladyolinden I've seen a few people (on botched I believe) that get suggested they see someone for possible body dysmorphia but only AFTER they've gone to EXTREMES. I feel like a couple of minimal modifications are ok but once you start showing signs of not stopping and wanting to do more/go bigger then you should be referred to a mental health professional, before you do irreversible damage. The mods she's done so far are ok, nothing too major but the eye surgery is getting up there, specially bc of the possible complications. But the modifications mixed with how she talks about herself, should be taken as a warning.
I think it's ok to an extent but every procedure has it's risks and if the person becomes disabled or scarred they might end up needing help from someone else for the rest of their life or die. If her eye procedure had blinded her or slowly blinds her she'll need help to live as she adjusts. These surgeries do not resolve the body image issues as it's a psychological issue, usually stemming from childhood. Pivotal points in their life affected them, like puberty and possibly even earlier in life. At some point they were told they were unattractive or boring or had something wrong with their body. The surgeries usually never end because they'll always find fault with themselves because they never treated the mental aspect first.
@@LordxPaesh The color in her eyes could have made her possibly blind. Same with not caring about the risks, she does hurt herself in more extremes. Of course no one is in the position to tell her to stop because it's her body, her choice and her money but if we go only about the information that was given in the video, she will not have a final form and be happy about it. I think it's the change in itself that she craves and not the outcome so it will not stop. Though of course it could be totally different
@@ladyolinden I definitely agree with your last couple sentences. I saw a comment from someone who said that the "as long as they are not hurting anyone" saying is harmful, but I say that they themselves are part of the "anyone" in that case. But no one, except qualified professionals and definitely not strangers on the internet, can really say if they are hurting themselves.
So I am a professional corseteer and I agree you should never over due the corset. Because it should never be uncomfortable and you should be able to breathe. Taking off the corset is an amazing feeling tho. If you take it off and feel sick or upset call a doctor because you might have over done it.
12:42 I absolutely adore Dane 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 the things he thinks of/says 🤣🤣🤣 “I hope to *god* that’s not a window” had me dying 🤣🤣🤣 he always says some out of pocket but hilarious shit I stg🤣
No Buff don't be team Jacob! Don't you know that Chris Hansen is waiting for Jacob to come in the house after the school bus leaves. That part of the movie got edited out, but I understand that multiple tasers were deployed.
Honestly I’m happy for her, she had a childhood dream, achieved it and is loving the results. In a very small way I know what it’s like to finally achieve a childhood dream in adulthood. I wholeheartedly support this 👍🏻
Recently had 6 teeth removed because I never saw the dentist as a kid, 3 wisdom teeth were exactly the way Buff says, lodged completely sideways. GET IT OUT BUFF. It will be causing so much unnessessary pain for you that you won't even notice until being removed - your mouth is literally crushing itself from the inside, if you're worried about the pain of getting it taken out you can opt to be put to sleep, which is often done when a wisdom tooth is like that. If I didn't get mine removed, I would have never seen life as clear as I do now, it was ALWAYS a distraction, and I can't see how it wouldn't be for you Buff. Anyway, you be you at the end of the day, I'm just talking from recent experience (finally almost healed after like 3 months)
So my friend used expired contacts once and the lens disintegrated in her eye… she had damage to her eye for several weeks and was lucky. The optometrist told her that there was potential for her to have gone blind it she hadn’t acted so fast to rinse her eye out.
I feel bad for people with that level of vanity. They literally just think their shell is their whole person, I can't even hang out with people who think that way. As for lasic, I've had several friends who did it, and love it - I have a fear of eye-things, so I'm glad my vision is still good on its own, lol. But doctors who still wear glasses, may also have something where they can't get lasic. Depending on your eyes, a lot of people can't get it because it won't work on them. Like I believe near-sighted people mostly cannot get it.
Very well said. It's sad because they keep searching for happiness, yet are empty mentally spiritually,etc and wonder why they're so miserable. I wish her the best but 🤷♀️
Please don’t use the expired lenses ! My partner didn’t realize at first they AND the prescription expired. You have to go back for another consult to make sure no change in the eye , the contact that’s old could no longer be what you need and it will mess your eye up/ the solution in with them may not be there anymore / had a chemical change which will irritate your eye ! Sad to waste them and to have to get another appointment for new prescription, but better than getting an eye infection or scraping the eye up!
don't worry hun, i saw he liked a comment talking about how someones expired lenses have increased probability to build fungi and bacteria so i dont think he will
@@Echokeres that’s good, when I had posted this no one really had commented yet, and no one had about the contacts yet. Figured I’d give a shot to warn him /others, little sad I didn’t get a like lol🥲
"Expired contacts", my two cents on it (I wore lenses for more than 8 years before I got LASIC): It is no problem whatsoever to wear them for longer than they say - long as you have the best way of storing them. When using "normal" contact fluid I would often get pink eye/etc. even with fresh lenses. That was forever eradicated however when I switched to the system where you put the lenses in a little container with a small platinum coated ring and add a peroxide fluid. It causes a reaction that cleans your lenses over night super thoroughly. Just need to wash them off in the morning with the "normal" lens fluid (because you *do not* want peroxide in your eye!!!) and you're golden. I often wore my monthly lenses for at least 8 weeks and never had any problems thanks to the storage system. Highly recommend investing in it!
Fun fact. The reason why most people have to have their wisdom teeth taken out, is because they do in fact lay down and face forward and it pushes on the other teeth. It can be painful and cause all kinds of issues with your other teeth, like pushing on them and making them crooked.
You can also get a life-threatening infection that is insanely painful. That happened to me. One of my wisdom teeth was even growing up under my jaw. A friend of mine almost died from the same thing. He was in the hospital for a couple of weeks because they had to make a hole and slowly drain the infection from his face, while giving him strong antibiotics. It was awful.
Huge misconception on corsets is that they injure your organs. But the actual risk is more about the increased blood pressure. Also girl with smallest corset waist DID NOT get her ribs removed and it took her her entire life to achieve that. I also haven't met anyone in corset groups that go extreme with body modification past corsets so I really disagree with it being a gateway, a lot of us use it for joint disorders, back pain, scoliosis, posture ect. Of course people like the aesthetic as well, and of course some will take it too far. But they're very safe if used right & fitted properly, and incredibly therapeutic for people like me with back and join pain
well... if not used properly and used by someone who has dysmorphia it can be a gateway. you can break ribs you are squeezing all your organs together and can most likely cause bowel problems. I agree with your comment, just not the first sentence because it isn't a misconception most of the time. If you use it for back problems or other medical problems then you aren't going to wear it the way everyone else wears it for aesthetic. That's what Ken was talking about, wearing it for the aesthetic.
Any advice on wear to get a good one? I want to start replacing, and my sewing skills aren’t that good yet, but I can’t find a place with corsets that are functional instead of just fashion that also fit shorter torsos.
@@Echokeres that's like saying weed is a gateway drug. If you have an addictive personality then yeah it can be a gateway to a drug abuse problem. A lot of people wear corsets for ascetic and don't abuse their bodies. I've never heard of anyone breaking their ribs from wearing a corset. I think most corset wearers don't have bowel problems from it. If they do then they should stop wearing one immediately. There are so many corset wearers who are well educated about corsets and practice wearing them safely.
Shannon But high blood pressure is bad. Consistent hypertension causes heart disease, artery problems, aneaurisms, kidney problems, even heart attack. Also consistent wearing of corsets weakens your core, and back actually.. and a weak core will cause back pains in the long term. You have to be relying on your corset for back support all the time which is what your natural body is capable of. Most of the time, but tbh all of the time it seems, women wear corsets just for the look of a small waist. Not for the health. You should work out and strengthen your core and back through exercises and lifting.
Wooof buff was so spot on at the end with “ that can be you all day but not the only thing about you” and then Ken with “‘i love you, even if you don’t love yourself.”!! I just
I LOVE watching the graph change!! On theast 1000lb sisters it was 59 & 41 then he got a HUGE jump to 61.3 & 38.7! Rock on Ken & Dane, you guys deserve it! Stay toasty 🍞 and I love you guys 🧡
My daughter was naturally beautiful, very popular (good grades), and innocent. ( job modeling beginners not provocative)Well, 4 yrs ago or more, she moved away 3000 miles to Cali. She was unsatisfied with what God gave her and was influenced to plastic surgery and tattoos and fillers , boobs ,bad company botox. Her appearance and demeanor have changed so much that I do not recognize or know her anymore. She won't even talk to me anymore. She's too good for me and her biological family. It's insulting to me when she says she's ugly and hideous. Her father was so handsome my side was all girls, and we grew old graciously. We are all naturally beautiful. Not concerted, but always said we were pretty. I don't think if she made this drastic move, she would still be my daughter. Be happy with yourself, keep good hygiene, and be kind to others. You don't have to change. Be satisfied with what the man upstairs gave u! We are all beautifully created!!!
“there’s nothing special about me” hit hard. i still say that about myself to this day. it can be a very very damaging mindset and i hate knowing others struggle with it :(( edit: i also bite the inside of my mouth a lot with my canines lol it’s so painful
I'm currently living in Germany and I cracked up when Ken read Behandlungszimmer 1 almost correctly on the first try 🤣 German words are really a mouthful for people that don't speak the language so kudos for you!
So that's why Ken makes so many videos about these people tryna become Vampires! He's trying to distract us from the fact that he is a vampire himself! I should've known! How else can you explain those mighty fangs and the dashing good looks that never age?
I got LASIK done last year, it was absolutely terrifying but I still love it 😂 hurt much less than breaking my wrist, but it WAS more traumatizing. I'm still SO glad I did it. I wake up with a better outlook on the day just being able to enjoy the sight of the trees out my window, and the view in the distance when I'm outdoors. I hated needing glasses/contacts because I could never be sure Id have access to them. For years my glasses were glued and taped together. When I was a teenager I was homeless and wearing expired contacts, it was extremely painful and gave me constant migraines. Being old makes them get dry really fast, and scratchy, plus more prone to ripping. But I couldn't drive or work without some semblance of sight 😅🤷♀️
Sclera contacts can get expensive for good pairs or for prescription pairs; I've seen some sites with the nicer all black sclera contact lenses for like 300~400. They have problems with drying out your eyes (which can cause tissue damage long run) and can allow bacteria growth; similar reason why some types of contacts are not intended to be left in for extended periods or overnight. They can mess with your eye's chemistry. The sclera darkening I think has a few ways its done and none sound great, tattooing via ink injection I think is the most prominent. The dye is not injected into the tissue, but between two layers of the eye, where it spreads out over a large area (which is why her eyes be so dang blotchy). To quote Wikipedia "It is extremely dangerous, as some procedures have caused visual impairment and blindness, severe permanent pain, and loss of the eye." Body mods are rad, but also be safe yall.
I think Ken is so goddamn attractive. His dad-bod and awesome personality makes my little 36 year old heart flutter. Mary's a lucky gal. So is Ken tho cause Mary's a fine momma
I had INCREDIBLY sharp canines when I had my braces taken off. I LOVED how they looked. But due to Ehlers Danlos Syndrome, my teeth crumbled before my eyes between the ages of 27-29. I ended up having all of my teeth pulled at 29 and got dentures. The Cosmetic Dentist was nice enough to make my Dentures look like my real teeth, with sharp canines and everything.
What if she's just expressing herself through her looks 🤷♀️ shes not hurting anyone so what's the issue and why do people think they have a right to be policing others bodies.
@@UltraMarineBlue where did I say you said that? I didn't. You did say though that she is being shallow. You can take pride in your looks and have an aesthetic without being shallow. She looked perfectly happy and content in this video so I'd wager shes doing just fine.
@@xstarkidx8064 assuming she's fine from this one video isn't very.. "in depth" of you. Also, your were responding to my comment by criticizing people policing others, so assuming you were talking about me makes sense, and I think I am right in assuming so and now you're just back peddling xD
"there was nothing special about me" makes me think besides just her body dysmorphia she also has depersonalization issues and the body mods have helped her depersonalization problems.
I don’t wear corsets (I have one corset belt, but it’s not actually compressing anything it’s just for the style lol) but I do wear a chest compressor (binder) and it can be pretty dangerous if done incorrectly, so I assume it also carries through to corsets
Consulting room in Dutch: "Behandelkamer" Pronounced as: Buh-hahn-duhl-kaa-mur Very similar to German, as per usual. It's interesting to hear how Americans pronounce Dutch and German words, but now you know how to pronounce Behandelkamer, before inevitably forgetting it again in give or take ... 14 seconds. 😏
Being Barbie I find is basically that typical model influencer who payed for that nice body, and maintains with a hell of a diet and workout system, and a editing/filters that makes us feel bad about our own looks... I guess rich, fake and disproportionate is correct 😂
@@wtichery I do too sometimes, I'd be lying if I said I love my body & face fully (even on the best days) I just try to remind myself they tend to not actually be happy people in general with themselves and life. I mean most of what we see and are shown is a lie and just performances really
@@SporadicKristal yeah I completely agree, fashion and identity can be very visually performative. I enjoy it, just glad to live in a time period you aren't burned alive for seeming peculiar 😂
Can she even "feel anything at this point? 14 years after my c-section and I still don't have all the feeling back on my belly. At this point maybe she needs to spend that money on therapy 🤷 My brother-in-law's father is a plastic surgeon and he will yell at you in you are not wearing sunscreen. He knows what's up when it comes to skin. He is about health.
Ken, old contacts are prone to rip and fall apart while in your eye. The pieces can get stuck behind your eyeballs, which is painful, but you'll have to go in to have them removed.
it's kinda saddening that she thinks she needs all these modifications to feel special, but maybe it's not as deep as we're all assuming. maybe she just wants to appear fascinating to catch the eyes of others, and nothing more. either way, if she's happy, then i support her. and not gonna lie, if i saw her out in public, my first thought would be that she's cool as hell
Fun fact: Hairless cats (aka Sphynx cats) are a Canadian breed! They were developed in Toronto Cananda in the 1960. Sphyx cats are a product of inbreeding. A female cat with the gene gave birth to a hairless male kitten and they continued to breed the mother with her son to produce litters of hairless kittens.
Corsetting actually supports the back and bust, and doesn’t crush your organs in when done correctly. Although I get what Ken is saying with the crazy disproportionate 16 in. waists… It can be taken too far, but most people don’t.
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Buff saying “show your personality, that could be special” is honestly just some good and wholesome advice
Some people feel the need to show it to everyone. Like, if they don't see then they don't understand.
Exactly why I love him.
What if this is her personality?
doubt it
It’s good advice to good role-models. 😂
Shout out to Ken for being the internet dad we all need and deserve. And bless up Uncle Buff for being funny and giving sweet advice.
Forreal!!🙏🏼
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"I love you even if you don't love yourself" damn ken
I was just about to say that.
My Feels 😭
The kiss too 🥺
gotta love them when they can't love themselves, right?
That's a helluva lotta people Kenny loves 😄
What a nice thing to say, I'm glad someone does! :'D
I burst out laughing when both of you were so taken aback by the word Behandlungszimmer. In German we just string nouns together and thus create really long words. Love from Germany.
My favourite: "Fussbodenschleifmaschinenverleih" and it isn't even the longest German word
Reminds me of the Cody Ko video where he tried to pronounce "Schwangerschaftsgelüste".
All 3 of those just look like random letters jumbled together to my simple American brain 🤣🤣
On the point of corsets, as someone who wears one instead of a modern bra and spanx, they definitely can cause more issues if you're prone to body dysmorphia and can cause you to go too far, into the dangerous waist size territory. But if you wear it responsibly and with the idea that the corset is there for support and to create a silhouette that better showcases certain clothing styles, you can do it safely. It can be a slippery slope, but so can a lot of things. PS, if anyone's going to wear them, don't tight-lace to the extreme, its just not worth it and will cause more issues.
My roommate wears them from time to time, and honestly, it's more for back support than anything.
I’d love to start wearing one instead of a bra because mine are heavy and weigh on my shoulders and contribute to my bad back. But because my torso is short, a lot of real function-not-fashion corsets are too long. Do you have any advice?
@@caidalee1994 custom made corsets are the best. Have you ever been properly measured and fitted for a bra though?
Corsests first and foremost used to be for support, and were also worn over a layer of clothing. Of course they created a certain silhouette but they used to be fitted to your body, they weren't the torture devices they're often made out to be. But yeah, now there are a lot of shitty corsets or "waist trainers" out there that just hurt your organs
I was thinking this!
Corsets weren’t originally designed to reshape your body and they aren’t meant to be worn for long periods of time. They’re for support and people nowadays really don’t recognize that so they try to gain the shape by tightening and tightening and tightening which isn’t only mentally dangerous but physically! I wish more people were educated on this topic 😩
Ken: Does she know vampires stay beautiful because...
Buff: Don't say it Ken!
Me: Undead?
Ken: Not real.
Well then...
I thought he was gonna say "because they drink blood" lol
My thought exactly
Not a corset person, but I wore waist trainers for a long time in my late teens/college years. I didn't realize it was supposed to only be worn for an hour or so a few days a week, but I would get compliments about how nice I looked all the time so I'd wear it every time I stepped out of the house to feel better about myself (so a forty hour work week at minimum) and I did it for FOUR years. Now I have severe rib pain and stomach issues from my insides being compressed so badly, but I looked SO much better so I didn't stop until the damage was permanent. It's not worth it, not at all
Were you tight lacing?
@@lisagriffith665 You can't tightlace with a waist trainer.
I don't wear mine that tight. I wear mine all the time because I have scoliosis and it keeps me from slumping. When I did wear it too tight, it bruised me and hurt my ribs. Now I inhale as big as I can before I tighten it. That way I know I have breathing room.
@@dontmindme9046 you are totally right and I didn't even catch it. I was just confused because a proper corset does no damage. But I could see how a waist trainer could.
@@lisagriffith665 corsets can cause damage
As someone who suffers from depression. This really hits hard. I used to want to alter almost everything on my body, but once I finally loved/excepted myself , it changed my view on how I saw myself, for once I felt beautiful and loved. You start to see the beauty in others too. So sad that she doesn't feel special, everyone should feel special.
"There was nothing special about me." That quote right there, and her specific use of the word 'special' explains why she went on this journey to change herself. To me it sounds like a deeper mental issue where she might have been depressed and just didn't feel like she was even "there". She looked cute in my opinion to begin with but maybe she felt overlooked by all her peers.
Not going to lie she wasn’t that bad looking then she turned herself into that abomination
👁👄👁💧
She used the word "special" again when talking about her eyes, comparing it to everyone else's. You probably nailed it.
@@Moesaurus True! I picked up on that too but forgot to write about it. She's using "special" on purpose.
@@SporadicKristal there’s two different crying emojis, why make things hard on yourself
I love buff attitude . Yeah! you’re fckng special and unique!
Ken, in regards to wearing expired contacts. They suggest not wearing them because of bacteria/fungi, you could get a severe eye infection wearing them. Better safe than sorry!
Also the material can break/dissolve and that could also hurt your eyes.
As someone who had eye surgery, I wouldn't risk anything on my eyes because if I can avoid not doing another one, I would
Was looking for this comment, thank you😂
Yeah, materials naturally erode, when friction is applied. You might not think it, but all that blinking adds up, even with lubrication. Things don't erode at a constant rate, small deviations become magnified. So you end up with a relatively scratchy film covered in little moist pockets for bacteria
But what about disposable contacts? If they’re sealed but old, do they still go bad?
@@Godisnotdeadonlyresting yes.
I was really scared about Lasik too. I toyed with the idea for YEARS. Finally, I took a leap of faith last May and it's the BEST thing I've ever spent money on. Not having to deal with contacts or glasses (which I started wearing in the 5th grade, I'm 34 now) is truly liberating!! I did NOT feel a thing when they were working on my eyes... well, except for this gel that they put on which felt refreshing af. It took less than 5 minutes and my vision was almost perfect not even 5 hours later!
were you able to see everything happening? that’s my fear
@@InsertName69 they wont have a live feed where you can watch yourself being operated on, your ride (that you're required to have) can watch the surgery in the other room though. throughout the process, my vision was intact. there was a moment when things got really blurry, but there was not a second when everything was dark.
@@angelicpinay47 ooooh that’s terrible
Did they put a needle in your eye?
@@angelicpinay47you say you feel during the process butbdoes your eyes hurt after?
If you move a little does it make you blind?
Im thinking about it but really scare me
When Ken said he loves us even if we don't love ourselves that hit me right in my depression
Can we just acknowledge that Mary is literally the Barbie(absolutely stunning) to our Ken?
Ken talking about his expired contacts and how he’s considering putting them in anyways is so relatable 😂
Don’t do it! Sure you are fine most of the time but my friend did it once and her lens disintegrated in her eye… it was bad!!
@@kimbit47 right. I wouldn't mess with contact expiration dates. Not my eyes!
Expired contacts isn’t just like dry contacts since it’s in fluid it’s a bacterial/ fungal risk. I feel the wallet when it’s like wasted but as a whole it’s just not worth it
Imma stick with glasses
@@DPAllNightLong 😂🤣 Me too
Being an exotic cat breeder and collecting Monster High are some interesting things about her already. It makes me sad to see that she doesn't already feel special and it makes me sad for the alt community, who already carry around baggage of being steteotyped as having daddy issues or low self-esteem or whatever. It's really just a style at the end of the day and a pretty cool one, too
No, they do have huge issues fam
@@charizard1521 lol 🤡
Nah they really have issues lmao. Look at r/AltGirls, not. SINGLE person without issues.
Getting your eyeball tattooed has a pretty strong possibility of becoming permanently blind if you don't take very, very specific care of it and basically grabbed a doctor to do it.
A doctor would never do that
It's an injection and yes it needs to be properly diluted with saline before injection.
@@josephine.i.am. that's why you need to grab em
She seems like a sweet person, probably didn't meet the right people that would genuinely enjoy her being herself & give support in her self-esteem... But I really hope she's truly is happy & satisfied now, not just saying it...
To y'all out there, you are special in your own way, appreciate the little good things in life & you'll definitely feel better
No she’s fucked, there’s no way she’s happy looking at this shit in the mirror lol
@@charizard1521 stop projecting your insecurities lol
Body Dysmorphoria needs to be talked about more, and i feel surgans should have clients go to see a psychologist before going under the knife... its a hard conversation... while peopel should be able to do what they want with their body, there is a serious danger that somones on the verge of killing themselves, because they're suffering from something that will never be fixed on the outside, because they're diagnosed with a more severe mental illness.
or maybe ya know like, if someone is going through the lengths that these people are they should go thru treatment
@@nataliemarlowe2516 i agree with most of Alternative culture and what people do to change their body to be what they want.. Body Modification and mutilation does have a fine line...The ones who get to me are those who are like the woman who put bleach in her eyes to become blind, The Black Alien whos planning on cutting off body parts, others who are also becoming disabled, and Oli London who's obsessed with a human that they have to look like them, to become them.. definitely dangerous behavior.
One thing that I learned in psychology is one of the most common treatments for body dysmorphia, is in fact surgery. It’s not really something that you can just get a cure for through a psychologist and through medications. Eventually it comes back to surgery. Because unless you actually change the body part do you feel like isn’t part of you, you’ll never truly accept it. Body dysmorphia goes beyond oh I don’t like this about me. Body dysmorphia is literally feeling like part of your body does not belong to you. Like someone took a piece of someone else and put it on your body. It’s not just “I don’t like my nose”. It’s “oh this is definitely not my nose. This is someone else’s nose. I don’t know who’s nose this is but I need it off my body”
I was really little the first times I started thinking about cutting my face up or being in an accident where I lose my face, because my entire childhood was just being a pretty blonde doll for everyone but also no one wanting to actually be my friend. I didn't even feel like a girl and all anyone ever talked about was how pretty I was or people flirting with me, as a child. I'd often fantasize about being burned or hit by a car and having scars so people can be interested in my character and what I've been through instead of the fact that I looked like a barbie. Like people literally called me Barbie and I hate Barbie so much, it drove me pretty crazy. I'm glad I never went through with mutilating myself but it was always on my mind. "If I had a messed up face then I'd know if this guy actually wants to be buds but he probably just sees me as a potential girlfriend and as soon as I say I'm not interested he won't be my friend anymore". I knew kids who had scars from accidents and they were popular because people pitied them, I felt like "maybe if I get hurt really bad someday people will always be nice to me after". It was really messed up thinking all those things before I even got to middle school, and luckily I never did anything drastic and hurt myself, but this is a serious thing even a small child could be thinknig of, when people project onto that child's looks all the time or they feel unseen as the person they want to be respected as. And there's two ways they can go, they pronounce the things they think attracts people to them because they want more attention, or they remove what people obsess over that takes the focus off their personality becaue they want less attention. It can be very dangerous and more people need to address dysmorphia in its many forms early on before it drives people crazy to endanger themselves.
Male body Dysmorphoria is really bad as female dysmenorrhea but never talked about steroids oils unhealthy dieting body shamming really bad stuff but mostly people only talk about women body dysmenorrhea all of it is still bad and unhealthy but
I love Buff's face when Ken's struggling to find the word and he knows it. "Canines" lol
you just know he knows it from hos expression !
Ken saying about how women must feel after taking off the corset... It's the same with makeup. I only started to feel truly attractive natural once I stopped wearing makeup and having that daily disappointment once I took it off and looked different xx
It works with hair too! I only felt truly beautiful after I shaved my head and accepted myself as beautiful without it ‐ it was very freeing - now I can see my beauty no matter what my hair looks like
Same, I stopped wearing foundation, and it felt weird at first but I got used to it
@@vi0letrei don’t hijack this positive message by telling girls to shave their head lmaooo
“I love you, even if you don’t love yourself” godamnit Ken 😭❤️
Ken I gotta say man, I was introduced to you from Felix's channel, I had no idea who you were. A couple videos later and man I couldnt stop myself from subbing to you. From one dad to another, you're a fuckin cool dude man. Even when you rip on people you at least try to be respectful in a way lol. I started watching your videos on your channel and man, I dont think there is a single "youtuber" that I resonate with on the same level as you. Just wanted to share that man, you may not see it but yeah. Love your stuff man, take er easy, never sleazy.
I have to add that through you I was also introduced to buff and that guy is god damn fantastic XD so thx for that too man, and thanks to you too Buff, you're both awesome.
Lasik was easily the best money I have ever spent. Not having to worry about glasses or contacts for 20 years was bliss. It doesn't defeat the aging process, so I'm starting to wear glasses again and they're such a PITA.
I couldn't get lasik for years because I have astigmatism.
Finally, they have eye surgery for it 🙄
Now I don't care 😬
Honestly I'd rather spend like £25 a month getting disposable contacts. Invasive surgeries where I have to be awake really scare me, and contacts are really easy to use.
I'm planning to have lasik next year. My astigmatism is too high to wear contacts and the pinching on my nose by the glasses male my always inflamed sinus even worse and harder to breath a lot of times.
I got lasik 2 years ago. Had astigmatism also. I couldn’t see The Big E (the first letter on the eye exam) without my glasses and driving at night was horrible with the light starbursts from headlights and such. I am very happy with it. And I’m a very scaredy-cat type person. If you have very poor vision it is worth it. I feel much more confident driving and sewing and so much more :)
Waking up and being able to see is the most amazing thing!! I had to get PRK but it was the best decision I have ever made
On the point of wearing a corset, I've heard that it can be very beneficial for people who have posture issues since it basically forces you to sit up straight and push your chest out. On the subject of lasik, I was looking into doing it in the last year and it wasn't actually too scarey like I thought. Nowadays they numb your eyes, laser them and your done. I think they said that the entire procedure is less then 7 minutes and your vision is fine within 2 weeks. I personally wouldn't use expired contacts since they create bacteria and having eye infections can get pretty nasty, take it from me I've had pink eye in both of my eyes for 2 weeks, not a fun experience at all.
What a wholesome ending "I love you even if you don't love yourself". I really enjoy watching you guys! Hands down my favorite RUclipsrs
"You gotta be a vampire if you have a cat like that"
Me - sweats, as I'm petting my sphynx. "HE'S ONTO ME"
I know someone who has their tongue split and she opted out of listening to music and she said the worst thing was she could hear them sawing through it basically. She also said every morning she would have to separate her tongue again, since the gauze would shift through the night, and obviously your body is trying to heal itself.
She also had a couple of silicone implants, specifically in her hands, but one started to reject.
silicone in her hands? do you know why for?
@@trillijuanaplays they're shapes/designs made of silicone, not like implants the way breasts are. She had a star fish implant first (I believe) in her hand but do to how thin the skin was it started to reject. She had it removed and an anchor put in the other hand.
@@trillijuanaplays it just creates a design under the flesh
“I love you even if you don’t love yourself.” I needed that so much 🥺
I feel sad hearing her talk like that about herself and thinking she's special only after the mods but I also feel the same about myself.
Body dysmorphia is a terrible mindset to live with. I can never tell how I actually look but I can nitpick at every part of my body I want to change.
On the flip side, as long as she's not hurting anyone, or herself in the process then why not? We're only here for a little while, why not dress/modify etc yourself into someone you enjoy and love being?
I suppose the could be the question posed, what if this is a means of self-harm for her?
I’ve had my own issues with my body and wanted to have surgeries etc before for a time period.
My psychologist was great and helped me learn to cope with the feelings better, telling me that I’d they persisted after some amount of time or a while after my mental disorder became more stable, then we’d come back to discussing surgeries and procedures.
And I think it saved me to be honest. I still struggle somewhat but I’m better overall.
The idea of “it’s not hurting anyone” is intriguing because often we actually don’t know if anyone, including the individual in question, is being hurt or not. It would take a proper psychologist/ psychiatrist or maybe an entire team.
@@ladyolinden I've seen a few people (on botched I believe) that get suggested they see someone for possible body dysmorphia but only AFTER they've gone to EXTREMES. I feel like a couple of minimal modifications are ok but once you start showing signs of not stopping and wanting to do more/go bigger then you should be referred to a mental health professional, before you do irreversible damage.
The mods she's done so far are ok, nothing too major but the eye surgery is getting up there, specially bc of the possible complications. But the modifications mixed with how she talks about herself, should be taken as a warning.
I think it's ok to an extent but every procedure has it's risks and if the person becomes disabled or scarred they might end up needing help from someone else for the rest of their life or die. If her eye procedure had blinded her or slowly blinds her she'll need help to live as she adjusts. These surgeries do not resolve the body image issues as it's a psychological issue, usually stemming from childhood. Pivotal points in their life affected them, like puberty and possibly even earlier in life. At some point they were told they were unattractive or boring or had something wrong with their body. The surgeries usually never end because they'll always find fault with themselves because they never treated the mental aspect first.
@@LordxPaesh The color in her eyes could have made her possibly blind. Same with not caring about the risks, she does hurt herself in more extremes.
Of course no one is in the position to tell her to stop because it's her body, her choice and her money but if we go only about the information that was given in the video, she will not have a final form and be happy about it. I think it's the change in itself that she craves and not the outcome so it will not stop.
Though of course it could be totally different
@@ladyolinden I definitely agree with your last couple sentences. I saw a comment from someone who said that the "as long as they are not hurting anyone" saying is harmful, but I say that they themselves are part of the "anyone" in that case. But no one, except qualified professionals and definitely not strangers on the internet, can really say if they are hurting themselves.
Why did the "I love you, even if you don't love yourself" almost make me cry? Lol damn ken.
So I am a professional corseteer and I agree you should never over due the corset. Because it should never be uncomfortable and you should be able to breathe. Taking off the corset is an amazing feeling tho. If you take it off and feel sick or upset call a doctor because you might have over done it.
Professional corseteer 😂😭😭
Also, overdo*
@@charizard1521 lol my bad can't spell. And yup I fit people into corsets as my job.
@@cuptea7368 Happy to be of service lol n ngl that’s cool asf 👍
12:42 I absolutely adore Dane 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 the things he thinks of/says 🤣🤣🤣 “I hope to *god* that’s not a window” had me dying 🤣🤣🤣 he always says some out of pocket but hilarious shit I stg🤣
No Buff don't be team Jacob! Don't you know that Chris Hansen is waiting for Jacob to come in the house after the school bus leaves. That part of the movie got edited out, but I understand that multiple tasers were deployed.
Honestly I’m happy for her, she had a childhood dream, achieved it and is loving the results. In a very small way I know what it’s like to finally achieve a childhood dream in adulthood. I wholeheartedly support this 👍🏻
Recently had 6 teeth removed because I never saw the dentist as a kid, 3 wisdom teeth were exactly the way Buff says, lodged completely sideways.
GET IT OUT BUFF.
It will be causing so much unnessessary pain for you that you won't even notice until being removed - your mouth is literally crushing itself from the inside, if you're worried about the pain of getting it taken out you can opt to be put to sleep, which is often done when a wisdom tooth is like that.
If I didn't get mine removed, I would have never seen life as clear as I do now, it was ALWAYS a distraction, and I can't see how it wouldn't be for you Buff.
Anyway, you be you at the end of the day, I'm just talking from recent experience (finally almost healed after like 3 months)
Hi! Can I ask what are some specific improvements you’ve experienced?
@@atheenacollis8582 It doesn't feel like my mouth is full of marbles :)
Ken's optometrist: *wears glasses*
Ken: why don't you get laser eye surgery?
Optometrist: are you kidding? Have you seen how it's done? No thanks!!!
So my friend used expired contacts once and the lens disintegrated in her eye… she had damage to her eye for several weeks and was lucky. The optometrist told her that there was potential for her to have gone blind it she hadn’t acted so fast to rinse her eye out.
I love you two, Buff’s laugh cracks me up 😂
IT'S FINALLY MY BIRTHDAY!! I've been waiting all year for Ken to wish me a happy birthday 🥳🎉
happy birthday!!!!🥳🪅
Happy birthday 🥳 to you
Happy birthday 🎉🎊
Happy birthday 🎈🎂
Happy birthday 🎉🎈
I feel bad for people with that level of vanity. They literally just think their shell is their whole person, I can't even hang out with people who think that way.
As for lasic, I've had several friends who did it, and love it - I have a fear of eye-things, so I'm glad my vision is still good on its own, lol. But doctors who still wear glasses, may also have something where they can't get lasic. Depending on your eyes, a lot of people can't get it because it won't work on them. Like I believe near-sighted people mostly cannot get it.
I’ve looked into it, but your eyesight had to be consistent for several years. I can’t get it because my eyes just get worse every year
Yeah I can't get it because of the nature of my eye condition.
I have awful sight but the idea needing to be awake during the lasic process scares me so much I will never get it
@@mentalpopcorn2304 Same here! My vision is awful, but I can't do that to myself I'd have a full blown panic attack.
Very well said.
It's sad because they keep searching for happiness, yet are empty mentally spiritually,etc and wonder why they're so miserable. I wish her the best but 🤷♀️
Ken: Team Edward
Buff: Team Jacob
Me: Team Couch
13:45 gotta love the dad jokes especially when he laughs at them himself 😂
Please don’t use the expired lenses ! My partner didn’t realize at first they AND the prescription expired. You have to go back for another consult to make sure no change in the eye , the contact that’s old could no longer be what you need and it will mess your eye up/ the solution in with them may not be there anymore / had a chemical change which will irritate your eye ! Sad to waste them and to have to get another appointment for new prescription, but better than getting an eye infection or scraping the eye up!
don't worry hun, i saw he liked a comment talking about how someones expired lenses have increased probability to build fungi and bacteria so i dont think he will
@@Echokeres that’s good, when I had posted this no one really had commented yet, and no one had about the contacts yet. Figured I’d give a shot to warn him /others, little sad I didn’t get a like lol🥲
"Expired contacts", my two cents on it (I wore lenses for more than 8 years before I got LASIC):
It is no problem whatsoever to wear them for longer than they say - long as you have the best way of storing them. When using "normal" contact fluid I would often get pink eye/etc. even with fresh lenses. That was forever eradicated however when I switched to the system where you put the lenses in a little container with a small platinum coated ring and add a peroxide fluid. It causes a reaction that cleans your lenses over night super thoroughly.
Just need to wash them off in the morning with the "normal" lens fluid (because you *do not* want peroxide in your eye!!!) and you're golden. I often wore my monthly lenses for at least 8 weeks and never had any problems thanks to the storage system.
Highly recommend investing in it!
Fun fact. The reason why most people have to have their wisdom teeth taken out, is because they do in fact lay down and face forward and it pushes on the other teeth. It can be painful and cause all kinds of issues with your other teeth, like pushing on them and making them crooked.
You can also get a life-threatening infection that is insanely painful. That happened to me. One of my wisdom teeth was even growing up under my jaw. A friend of mine almost died from the same thing. He was in the hospital for a couple of weeks because they had to make a hole and slowly drain the infection from his face, while giving him strong antibiotics. It was awful.
Mine came in at 28 and I only discovered them because I started having horrible migraines all the time. Absolutely had to be removed.
I had to get a wisdom tooth removed because it was growing sideways and if I didn’t get it taken out I was going to get very sick because of it.
I love how these videos turn into life lessons with Buff and Ken
Huge misconception on corsets is that they injure your organs. But the actual risk is more about the increased blood pressure. Also girl with smallest corset waist DID NOT get her ribs removed and it took her her entire life to achieve that. I also haven't met anyone in corset groups that go extreme with body modification past corsets so I really disagree with it being a gateway, a lot of us use it for joint disorders, back pain, scoliosis, posture ect. Of course people like the aesthetic as well, and of course some will take it too far. But they're very safe if used right & fitted properly, and incredibly therapeutic for people like me with back and join pain
well... if not used properly and used by someone who has dysmorphia it can be a gateway. you can break ribs you are squeezing all your organs together and can most likely cause bowel problems. I agree with your comment, just not the first sentence because it isn't a misconception most of the time. If you use it for back problems or other medical problems then you aren't going to wear it the way everyone else wears it for aesthetic. That's what Ken was talking about, wearing it for the aesthetic.
Any advice on wear to get a good one? I want to start replacing, and my sewing skills aren’t that good yet, but I can’t find a place with corsets that are functional instead of just fashion that also fit shorter torsos.
@@pneuma6202 please help me too, I do want to start waist training
@@Echokeres that's like saying weed is a gateway drug. If you have an addictive personality then yeah it can be a gateway to a drug abuse problem. A lot of people wear corsets for ascetic and don't abuse their bodies. I've never heard of anyone breaking their ribs from wearing a corset. I think most corset wearers don't have bowel problems from it. If they do then they should stop wearing one immediately. There are so many corset wearers who are well educated about corsets and practice wearing them safely.
Shannon But high blood pressure is bad. Consistent hypertension causes heart disease, artery problems, aneaurisms, kidney problems, even heart attack.
Also consistent wearing of corsets weakens your core, and back actually.. and a weak core will cause back pains in the long term. You have to be relying on your corset for back support all the time which is what your natural body is capable of.
Most of the time, but tbh all of the time it seems, women wear corsets just for the look of a small waist. Not for the health. You should work out and strengthen your core and back through exercises and lifting.
Thanks!
At this point I’ll just say this, being special does not come from believing your special
So possibly scaring people makes you special, ok 🤨
@Sahir Damani I was referring to the vampire lady not your English
Wooof buff was so spot on at the end with “ that can be you all day but not the only thing about you” and then Ken with “‘i love you, even if you don’t love yourself.”!! I just
I love watching Ken and Dane, I literally find myself laughing with them as if i was with them. Thats why they have the best Graph🙏🏽
I LOVE watching the graph change!! On theast 1000lb sisters it was 59 & 41 then he got a HUGE jump to 61.3 & 38.7! Rock on Ken & Dane, you guys deserve it! Stay toasty 🍞 and I love you guys 🧡
Buff has resting-"wtf"-face and it's great
My daughter was naturally beautiful, very popular (good grades), and innocent. ( job modeling beginners not provocative)Well, 4 yrs ago or more, she moved away 3000 miles to Cali. She was unsatisfied with what God gave her and was influenced to plastic surgery and tattoos and fillers , boobs ,bad company botox. Her appearance and demeanor have changed so much that I do not recognize or know her anymore. She won't even talk to me anymore. She's too good for me and her biological family. It's insulting to me when she says she's ugly and hideous. Her father was so handsome my side was all girls, and we grew old graciously. We are all naturally beautiful. Not concerted, but always said we were pretty. I don't think if she made this drastic move, she would still be my daughter. Be happy with yourself, keep good hygiene, and be kind to others. You don't have to change. Be satisfied with what the man upstairs gave u! We are all beautifully created!!!
“there’s nothing special about me” hit hard. i still say that about myself to this day. it can be a very very damaging mindset and i hate knowing others struggle with it :((
edit: i also bite the inside of my mouth a lot with my canines lol it’s so painful
I'm currently living in Germany and I cracked up when Ken read Behandlungszimmer 1 almost correctly on the first try 🤣
German words are really a mouthful for people that don't speak the language so kudos for you!
So that's why Ken makes so many videos about these people tryna become Vampires!
He's trying to distract us from the fact that he is a vampire himself! I should've known!
How else can you explain those mighty fangs and the dashing good looks that never age?
I got LASIK done last year, it was absolutely terrifying but I still love it 😂 hurt much less than breaking my wrist, but it WAS more traumatizing. I'm still SO glad I did it. I wake up with a better outlook on the day just being able to enjoy the sight of the trees out my window, and the view in the distance when I'm outdoors. I hated needing glasses/contacts because I could never be sure Id have access to them. For years my glasses were glued and taped together. When I was a teenager I was homeless and wearing expired contacts, it was extremely painful and gave me constant migraines. Being old makes them get dry really fast, and scratchy, plus more prone to ripping. But I couldn't drive or work without some semblance of sight 😅🤷♀️
Sclera contacts can get expensive for good pairs or for prescription pairs; I've seen some sites with the nicer all black sclera contact lenses for like 300~400. They have problems with drying out your eyes (which can cause tissue damage long run) and can allow bacteria growth; similar reason why some types of contacts are not intended to be left in for extended periods or overnight. They can mess with your eye's chemistry.
The sclera darkening I think has a few ways its done and none sound great, tattooing via ink injection I think is the most prominent. The dye is not injected into the tissue, but between two layers of the eye, where it spreads out over a large area (which is why her eyes be so dang blotchy).
To quote Wikipedia "It is extremely dangerous, as some procedures have caused visual impairment and blindness, severe permanent pain, and loss of the eye."
Body mods are rad, but also be safe yall.
I think Ken is so goddamn attractive. His dad-bod and awesome personality makes my little 36 year old heart flutter. Mary's a lucky gal. So is Ken tho cause Mary's a fine momma
😂😂 Buff is literal sunshine , I love these two guys
I can admire her way for saying she's trying to be the ultimate vampire barbie, and not saying she is/ or was a vampire in a past life.
Fun drinking game: watch a playlist of these two and take a shot every time Buff says “that’s all I know.”
I love your pfp
Or when he says “tase him” during the how to catch a predator segments lol
Having Lasik is the best thing I've ever done! I was practically blind and now have perfect vision. The procedure only took about 45 seconds per eye
These two are the funniest out there. Especially when Ken goes lvl 99 mean girl 😂 he doesn't suffer fools!!
Omg Another black person
@@ninafamilia2619 what?
@@ninafamilia2619 bruh
@@ninafamilia2619 Okay and your point was?
@@brittanyhoward98 bytch why is you mad. ?
I had INCREDIBLY sharp canines when I had my braces taken off.
I LOVED how they looked.
But due to Ehlers Danlos Syndrome, my teeth crumbled before my eyes between the ages of 27-29.
I ended up having all of my teeth pulled at 29 and got dentures.
The Cosmetic Dentist was nice enough to make my Dentures look like my real teeth, with sharp canines and everything.
What if she has to be shallow because she doesn't like what's underneath 🥺🥺🥺 but she seems so nice! There's way more important things than her looks!
But she herself makes her looks the only important thing about her. So that's her issue
What if she's just expressing herself through her looks 🤷♀️ shes not hurting anyone so what's the issue and why do people think they have a right to be policing others bodies.
@@xstarkidx8064 where did I say she needs to change how she looks?
@@UltraMarineBlue where did I say you said that? I didn't. You did say though that she is being shallow. You can take pride in your looks and have an aesthetic without being shallow. She looked perfectly happy and content in this video so I'd wager shes doing just fine.
@@xstarkidx8064 assuming she's fine from this one video isn't very.. "in depth" of you. Also, your were responding to my comment by criticizing people policing others, so assuming you were talking about me makes sense, and I think I am right in assuming so and now you're just back peddling xD
buff has such a contagious smile/laugh I love it!
*has a split tongue*
Ken: “ew makes my skin crawl”
*cries in freak*
Split tongue you say
Right!? lol freaks unite
Ken: "look at my cannibal teeth"
Mary: haha I'm in danger!
"there was nothing special about me" makes me think besides just her body dysmorphia she also has depersonalization issues and the body mods have helped her depersonalization problems.
I don’t wear corsets (I have one corset belt, but it’s not actually compressing anything it’s just for the style lol) but I do wear a chest compressor (binder) and it can be pretty dangerous if done incorrectly, so I assume it also carries through to corsets
Consulting room in Dutch:
"Behandelkamer"
Pronounced as:
Buh-hahn-duhl-kaa-mur
Very similar to German, as per usual.
It's interesting to hear how Americans pronounce Dutch and German words, but now you know how to pronounce Behandelkamer, before inevitably forgetting it again in give or take ... 14 seconds. 😏
Hey a German fella here, "Behandelkamer" seems so evil haha 😂 . A "Kammer" means "Chamber" to us in German. Still nice to know what it is in Dutch!
@@Andy-qs1ox ikr😂
Husband is dutch and is showed him this word and he said it no issues. I still can't pronounce it
Nothing like a cinnamontoastken video to fix a horrible day, never fails to make me happy
Oh sure but when I spend $3 on a bag of Flaming Hot Cheetos, I'M the one breaking the budget
My dentist filed my canines down too because they were “too sharp” lol my family always (and still does) joked I was a vampire
Being Barbie I find is basically that typical model influencer who payed for that nice body, and maintains with a hell of a diet and workout system, and a editing/filters that makes us feel bad about our own looks... I guess rich, fake and disproportionate is correct 😂
I wanna be a real fake tooo
@@wtichery I do too sometimes, I'd be lying if I said I love my body & face fully (even on the best days) I just try to remind myself they tend to not actually be happy people in general with themselves and life. I mean most of what we see and are shown is a lie and just performances really
@@SporadicKristal yeah I completely agree, fashion and identity can be very visually performative.
I enjoy it, just glad to live in a time period you aren't burned alive for seeming peculiar 😂
"I love you, even if you don't love yourself" 🥺so wholesome
i will never understand rich people
or women
The only birthday greeting I look forward to (but I watched this 14 hrs after it was uploaded lol). Thank you, Ken.
Can she even "feel anything at this point? 14 years after my c-section and I still don't have all the feeling back on my belly. At this point maybe she needs to spend that money on therapy 🤷
My brother-in-law's father is a plastic surgeon and he will yell at you in you are not wearing sunscreen. He knows what's up when it comes to skin. He is about health.
"and I love you, even if you don't love yourself" and yeah man, I love you too, even if I don't love myself...
Buff is actually the best he really is the secondary glue of the channel love the wholesomeness and always makes me laugh
12:45 "I hope to god it's not a window" 😭😭
Each of his videos is uplifting, does everyone agree with this?
Definitely, yes
Definitely a perk in my days
Yes i agree with you
Yes! Even the horrible catch a predator ones, they have a great to makes us laugh 💯
I did until the emojis
Hey Dane ☺️. Thanks for shifting the Buffpro thing. Now I realize how elevated I was 😂🤣. Love you guys, stay safe ❤️
if i wanna feel special i just buy myself pie.
As a kid we're told "be careful you'll put your eye out". Then as adults we pay to have someone slice our eye open. I'll stick with glasses. LOL
Ken, old contacts are prone to rip and fall apart while in your eye. The pieces can get stuck behind your eyeballs, which is painful, but you'll have to go in to have them removed.
I am 33 and finally learning to love myself, so thank you 😊
it's kinda saddening that she thinks she needs all these modifications to feel special, but maybe it's not as deep as we're all assuming. maybe she just wants to appear fascinating to catch the eyes of others, and nothing more. either way, if she's happy, then i support her. and not gonna lie, if i saw her out in public, my first thought would be that she's cool as hell
My Mom had a lens put in both eyes through lasik surgery to get rid of cateracts and she can see much better now, they both went without a hitch!:)
If Ken freaks out about "Behandlungszimmer" wait til he hears about the "Toilettenbürstenbenutzungsanweisung" :D
😂😂😂
Or Fussbodenschleifmaschinenverleih.
Lol. Are you guys just making words up now? 😭
@@OnyaB nope 😂
@@OnyaB No, really not. 😊
Buffs teeth are so adorable on him. You know your blessed when imperfect teeth look good on you.
Fun fact: Hairless cats (aka Sphynx cats) are a Canadian breed! They were developed in Toronto Cananda in the 1960. Sphyx cats are a product of inbreeding. A female cat with the gene gave birth to a hairless male kitten and they continued to breed the mother with her son to produce litters of hairless kittens.
I've been sick for the last few weeks (cooped up in my apartment). I discovered your videos. I'm feeling so much better now. Thank guys!
I'm a big fan of certain body mods, like the fangs and the tongue split are pretty cool
Corsetting actually supports the back and bust, and doesn’t crush your organs in when done correctly. Although I get what Ken is saying with the crazy disproportionate 16 in. waists… It can be taken too far, but most people don’t.
Looks like Christina p from the live special