It's not really revenge, he's a stranger and most people would not invite strangers to their wedding, forgive him andmake so security know he is not welcome.. forgiving is for you not him and just bc you forgive doesn't mean he shares in your life. Have a happy joyful wedding and best life💕
I'm pretty sure most custody agreements don't let one parent leave the country with the child cause that's how a lot of children of divorce get kidnapped away from the domestic parent.
I can understand that when the mom left maybe the dad blocked her from taking their daughter but when she -op- got kicked out why she -the mom - didn't come back for her kids. Yes, the dad is evil but the mom is not much better either
Yeah I don't think op realizes mom's kinda been crappy throughout the entire ordeal. Who tells their kids their father cheated on them? That's odd to me like a manipulative tactic.
This sounds so much like my life. Except for I probably will never get married and even if I did. He wouldn't have any joy for walking you down the aisle. But literally every other thing happened to me too .
Well, If you had moved out like op then you don't have to include them in your life. You can just leave him in the past. And if he ever tries to enter your life again, there is always the block button.
This brings back memories of my own father who did the same to my mother cheated on her at least 2 times he even manipulated my mom to get back with him only to abandon his family again im just glad it wasnt just me i guess
Gonna be the voice no one likes in this situation but literally had this type of mother. Theres honestly no reason to burden a child with the information their father cheated unless you're trying to manipulate the child into not liking that parent. Thats coming straight from my therapist btw it's not healthy for a parent to put the other parent in that context even if theyre hurting. I'm going to guess she was behind the whole bad relationship. Sounds like your father flat out didn't trust you and that has to come from somewhere. So either you were a sneaky kid with your mom encouraging either your behavior or your mom was telling your father shit and encouraging his strictness, to try to manipulate the situation further. This is honestly classic divorced parents. Why did you move in with your dad for a few years in the first place? From what you've stated you prefered your mom so something significant must have happened. Never considered she was pulling the strings because she wants you to cut off the relationship?
Are you a counselor?? Therapist?? Have any kind of degree or training for all this absolute BS your spewing. OP could have seen the father cheating. The father married the affair partner. Kids aren't stupid. How dare you blame the child that knows w/o a doubt that the father hates her. Gods, go back to your rock. Your a horrible person. My children's father divorced me when they were fairly young. Due to HIS infidelity, but always cried that I had abanded them when I had to go overseas for active duty. He read every single page of our divorce to them. And cut off contact until I was able to get stateside. He won custody due to my military status and his abandonment charges and they spent 5 years in TX with little to no contact. My youngest was hated. Both of his next wives flat out stated my youngest should move back with me (I desperately tried but it was all power moves for the ex. He used the kids to control the situation). You sure seem to know a shit ton more info then what is given in very little time from this 60 sec blurb Gaslighting the victim. Go away 👿👿
You could say you'll send him and invite and you have the perfect place for hik in mind. Then the invite is to another country so on the day he is panicking on the otherside of the world right where he belongs, as far as humanly possible on your best day
So your mom moved COUNTRIES and didn't take any time to make sure you were good???? Did she help you pay for stuff? Because it sounds like mom wasn't any good really either. She just was better than dad.
The fact that you’re putting it on the Internet shows that you do care. Maybe take a breather, sit on it for a while, give it a few days and maybe try and reconsider. You may both feel a lot better if you hashed it out
How is mom the favorite? She abandoned him because if you usually let your kid go through this and you don’t do anything about it you don’t even step up to go and get your kid in a much better stepdad he allowed it to happen too.He had to live with a friend and not his mother who hasn’t been in his life for a few years?!?
This is not true at all guys please don’t fall for it. This is nothing other than just a stupid Internet script. But let’s just say that there’s some truth to this what you have here is a case of two people who are gigantic assholes and I think the other person is at fault, the kid I’m including him in that the dad is horrible, but the kids not good either
That "i don't care if i hurt his feelings" attitude is a good way to be in cases like this
You don't care? Their gaslighting won't work
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Not even revenge, just the natural consequence of disowning her
Good 4 u he wasn't even worthy of being called a father
You owe him no explanation
It's not really revenge, he's a stranger and most people would not invite strangers to their wedding, forgive him andmake so security know he is not welcome.. forgiving is for you not him and just bc you forgive doesn't mean he shares in your life. Have a happy joyful wedding and best life💕
Yeah, why would you not go abroad with Mom?
I'm pretty sure most custody agreements don't let one parent leave the country with the child cause that's how a lot of children of divorce get kidnapped away from the domestic parent.
She'd have needed to go through the courts to be able to bring them.
Because her "Dad" wouldn't allow it.
I can understand that when the mom left maybe the dad blocked her from taking their daughter but when she -op- got kicked out why she -the mom - didn't come back for her kids. Yes, the dad is evil but the mom is not much better either
Good, because like he declared he's not your family.
I don’t see this is revenge. OP is only honoring the boundaries set by their dad regarding who is and isn’t family. 😊
Mom left you too
Yeah I don't think op realizes mom's kinda been crappy throughout the entire ordeal. Who tells their kids their father cheated on them? That's odd to me like a manipulative tactic.
This sounds so much like my life. Except for I probably will never get married and even if I did. He wouldn't have any joy for walking you down the aisle. But literally every other thing happened to me too .
Well, If you had moved out like op then you don't have to include them in your life. You can just leave him in the past. And if he ever tries to enter your life again, there is always the block button.
Karma is getting ahold of your dad.
Tbf poor form from the mum to leave her in that environment as a teenager
I’m all for trying to reconcile with family but actions have consequences and some times those consequences are a harsh necessity.
My younger brother is walking me down the aisle, not sure if I’m inviting my bio mum because I don’t talk to her and is part of 95% of my trauma.
So the loving mother dumped the OP on the father and left. 😂😂😂😂
Energy Matched
We will be there 😂
Sorry my guy, but you dont get treat your kids like crap their whole lives and expect parent rewards. This isn't the old days.
Oh no, it's the consequences of my actions
This brings back memories of my own father who did the same to my mother cheated on her at least 2 times he even manipulated my mom to get back with him only to abandon his family again im just glad it wasnt just me i guess
Gonna be the voice no one likes in this situation but literally had this type of mother. Theres honestly no reason to burden a child with the information their father cheated unless you're trying to manipulate the child into not liking that parent. Thats coming straight from my therapist btw it's not healthy for a parent to put the other parent in that context even if theyre hurting. I'm going to guess she was behind the whole bad relationship. Sounds like your father flat out didn't trust you and that has to come from somewhere. So either you were a sneaky kid with your mom encouraging either your behavior or your mom was telling your father shit and encouraging his strictness, to try to manipulate the situation further. This is honestly classic divorced parents. Why did you move in with your dad for a few years in the first place? From what you've stated you prefered your mom so something significant must have happened. Never considered she was pulling the strings because she wants you to cut off the relationship?
Are you a counselor?? Therapist?? Have any kind of degree or training for all this absolute BS your spewing.
OP could have seen the father cheating. The father married the affair partner. Kids aren't stupid. How dare you blame the child that knows w/o a doubt that the father hates her.
Gods, go back to your rock. Your a horrible person.
My children's father divorced me when they were fairly young. Due to HIS infidelity, but always cried that I had abanded them when I had to go overseas for active duty. He read every single page of our divorce to them. And cut off contact until I was able to get stateside. He won custody due to my military status and his abandonment charges and they spent 5 years in TX with little to no contact.
My youngest was hated. Both of his next wives flat out stated my youngest should move back with me (I desperately tried but it was all power moves for the ex. He used the kids to control the situation).
You sure seem to know a shit ton more info then what is given in very little time from this 60 sec blurb
Gaslighting the victim. Go away 👿👿
Your mom just abandoned you??
Good for you!
She the right but I have a question, why didn't she go abroad with her mom after dad kicked her out.
Good for you.
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You could say you'll send him and invite and you have the perfect place for hik in mind. Then the invite is to another country so on the day he is panicking on the otherside of the world right where he belongs, as far as humanly possible on your best day
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And why couldn't you have stayed with the stepdad
So your mom moved COUNTRIES and didn't take any time to make sure you were good???? Did she help you pay for stuff? Because it sounds like mom wasn't any good really either. She just was better than dad.
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You couldn’t reach out to your mom or go to her????
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The fact that you’re putting it on the Internet shows that you do care. Maybe take a breather, sit on it for a while, give it a few days and maybe try and reconsider. You may both feel a lot better if you hashed it out
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Armchair psychology at it's finest.
@@michellesmith7704 I’m not diagnosing anyone but I am a psych major 😂
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How is mom the favorite? She abandoned him because if you usually let your kid go through this and you don’t do anything about it you don’t even step up to go and get your kid in a much better stepdad he allowed it to happen too.He had to live with a friend and not his mother who hasn’t been in his life for a few years?!?
If she would have took him she would have been accused of kidnapping
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This is not true at all guys please don’t fall for it. This is nothing other than just a stupid Internet script. But let’s just say that there’s some truth to this what you have here is a case of two people who are gigantic assholes and I think the other person is at fault, the kid I’m including him in that the dad is horrible, but the kids not good either
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