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I just finished minimalizing my home--kitchen, closet, dresser, every single room. Unable to go anywhere for two weeks (here in Ecuador all roads were blocked because of political unrest), I found life not to be boring at all. I loved being home. In the zen-like simplicity, everything was enhanced--reading, cooking, music, doing Yoga. Clarity. Peace. Appreciation. Joy. Thank you.
Since I've started going through my house decluttering, I've experienced a noticeable drop in my stress level. I walk into my kitchen or my family room now and I feel so much lighter now that I can see there's not stuff everywhere. Being able to open a kitchen cabinet and immediately find what I want is so amazing. The more open feeling is wonderful. And I've found myself more motivated to keep things organized and clean. I actually WANT to clean and tidy up now, and keep my house looking neat and simple. Also, I'm a worrier, too. I'm trying to get better about it and decluttering/minimalism is helping. Decluttering my mind is a lot harder for me than decluttering a room, though!
Great video. I became a minimalist over a year and a half ago. I was a disaster prior to that. I was buying things I did not need with money I did not have to fill that hole of emptiness. I gradually changed that. I now only buy what I need rather than what I want and to my surprise I had so many things I did not need. I do not buy unless I pay for it cash. I do not charge things unless I pay the full balance at the end of the billing cycle. It is amazing on how much weight is lifted off of me. I still have some purging, but I am finding life much more enjoyable without the worry of owing for things I do not even use. My philosophy is if I have not used in in 6 months , I sell it or donate it. Simple. I keep my emotions out of the process of purchasing or keeping things.
I have been decluttering since January I’m just now seeing some results. And when I do realize it it makes me happy and calm there is a sense of freedom there. I still have a long way to go, it is a journey but it is definitely one that I do find enjoyment out of. And it is so worth it.
I don’t think minimalist living is boring. At the end what we treasure is the memories and experiences we have had with the people and animals we love or the places we love. What you said about “feeling responsible for things” that you own really resonated with me. When you own things, you have to take care of them and store them, and if you aren’t using them, ultimately have to expend mental energy to decide how to donate, sell, or discard them. As a former shopaholic I have spent a lot of time now going through my possessions and seeing what “sparks joy” and what I actually need- I also moved into a place with less storage space, so that was a big motivator for me to downsize. Ultimately I’d like to change my job to do something where I have more time and energy to be creative, even if I make less money. Thanks for making these videos and helping me to look at life in a different way.
Having less stuff on my closet has helped me to live my life simply amazing. And its not boring, infact it helped me to be more creative in a way that I never thought possible. I now live in my life in this philosophy "the less the better and live life with quality over quantity" 🤗🤗🤗
I don’t think having less things in life is boring. In fact, it can be quite overwhelming to have more than what we can care for, as we tend to waste both our time and energy in taking care of many things in our life. Instead, it’s better to have few select things which add value to our life, as you always point out in your videos. Great video, by the way. 👌🏻
I used to feel like I was suffocating all the time, long story short, I even get rid of my bed and just kept the mattress, I adopted the Japanese lifestyle in that sense. Now I can workout and do more creative things in my room during the day and at night I just have to pull out the mattress to sleep. Besides that my family have seen the benefits of decluttering and they're starting now. My dad is thrilled to see the yard and the garage with mostly only plants, you can tell the difference, the air even flows different. My mom is planning to get rid of the excess of clothes. Minimalism truly changed our lifes for the best.
Vera, I just found your channel this evening, and am so glad I did. I think the more I consume (& internalize) the truths you’re sharing, the more courage I will have to eventually make the life changes I know I need to make. Thank you!
Such a beautiful video! I completely agree that physical clutter creates mental clutter. I am finding more than more that “stuff” has little value. Experiences are indeed much more meaningful. Thank you for your dedication to this amazing channel. ♥️♥️♥️
Great lessons learned. Experiences and relationships are much more valuable than wealth and possessions. Living minimally is not boring or restrictive. It allows me to travel, write and spend time pursuing my passions.
I’ve been working on being a minimalist for a few months now. I let go 40 percent of my Stuff. I’m finding it freeing. To clean my home takes less effort. Deciding what to wear is an easier process. Being a minimalist for me gives me time to enjoy the things I love to do and it’s easy on my wallet as well. Great video!
Hi! I've just discovered your channel, watched some videos and I already feel so inspired. I'm normally a very disorganized person, but ambitious at the same time :)) and starting this year I am decided to include minimalism in my life and change my lifestyle. For 20 days now I've been eating healthy with just some really tiny guilty pleasures (90% of the time based on healthy food - it's a real progress for me) and I also have maintained my room clean almost every day. I'll keep going to progressively introduce good habits in my lifestyle. Your content is the type of content I want to see more often on RUclips. It has quality and inspiration and adds value to our lives. So, keep going and I'm looking forward to more videos! :)
Wow thank you for your kind words Andra and congratulations on all the progress you've already made with introducing healthy habits into your life! :) Good luck with everything
Thank you, Vera, for this video, and all your videos. I found #5 in this video very helpful for me to hear. I tend to be a perfectionist, in that if I don't think I can do something perfectly or completely, I don't start. So, this "taking the first step and going from there" is very helpful to hear.
Hi! I’m not the kind of viewer who likes to comment a lot. But i felt in the obligation to make a special case of your channel, as it’s been helping me so much so far, in my minimalism starting journey. All of your topics are so interesting, useful and full of ressources to actually help us... so well, congratulations on your work and content, and thank you so much for it!! ☺️
Minimalism has helped me to worry less and trust in God. With that, I know that all will be provided to me and my family😊🏠 I know that it's not healthy to store up treasures, so I keep that thought in mind, knowing that my excess has helped someone in need!
Nice video. Most people who make minimalist videos say that, while they are downsizing, that they learn more about intentional living and they end up being more interested in adding in "experiences," rather than owning "things."
I feel more happiness since we are on this journey of minimalism. I can see the beauty in having so much less. It helps not feeling so stressed and worried. My brain feels calmer.
I know a psychiatrist who says that studies show that decluttering, organizing, cleaning and tidying are all actions that have a positive impact on depression (reducing it).
I think that a conscious effort to remain minimal is very helpful. It has helped me reevaluate purchases and spending. There is something about it that helps return your focus from material to spiritual. And it is also visually relaxing. My work day goes at a frantic pace and I’m always fighting my way out from under missed deadlines, new work, stress. Coming home to visual peace helps me calm down.
I've started on a minimalism journey early this year. But i must say it is pretty tough when you are not living alone. Things do not "leave" but "stay". However it is also a challenge for me to declutter in this journey. Sentiments for stuff is very much the blocker. For a start, i try to put in place a rule of "things must be thrown away b4 anything new comes into the house". I do believe that life is not boring with minimalism but it is how you are living the life that you want.
Hey there! Yes I understand. Maybe this video will be helpful for you, I talk about living with others as a minimalist and how to deal with that: ruclips.net/video/SYP7FclAn3M/видео.html
Hi, hello from Indonesia. I think minimalism gives me freedom. Its not boring at all. I appreciate small things more since I practice minimalism. And it’s kinda challenging (in a good way) because I have to find creative ways to live to the fullest with minimal stuffs. Thank you for sharing, you are such an inspiration 🙏🏻😊
It all started with a no buy year, then I found minimalism. And the transition itself has been really open minded for me. It´s incredible how our stuff can blind us from the "things" that really matters such as family, nature and our innerself. Definitely having fewer things has rewarded me in a way that stuff couldn´t.
Simple Happy Zen downsizing and getting rid of half our possessions allowed us to retire early and spend our days doing what we want to do. No shopping trip is worth giving up my freedom. 💜
I'm not allowing not trusting I'm always thinking what if🤷♀️ but tiny however steady steps I've started putting things in boxes if not used after a couple of months than I donate or toss, thanks for such a calm video 🙏soothing!
Simple Happy Zen You look so calm. I cannot imagine that you worry. You are such an inspiration! I used to think that but now that I am a senior citizen, I feel like all the stuff that I have inherited or accumulated is stifling my creativity and holding me back. Your videos help me so much. Please keep them coming!! God bless you!! ❤️🙏🏻
Life is so much more meaningful when we do what we love, what we're passionate about, when we follow our heart and our purpose... when we feel free and we can wake up every day feeling fulfilled and excited about life, the stuff that we have don't define us and don't define our success 💕
I want to take on minimalism because i got a lot of things that lying around my room & after declutter few things through small steps (starting with my closet) and letting go items that i keep holding on for so long, i feel much happier knowing that i can maximize things that i already have.
What an insightful video Vera! Thank you so much, your words are very wise. I agree absolutely, this keeps reminding me again about what is important in my life. I am grateful I’ve found you , I should surround myself with people like you😊❤️. Your video always looks so polished, organized and beautiful, every word and quote that you say I know has been well thought of. ☺️🌸
Beautiful video again, Vera 💗 And I find the last point really relevant. I've noticed how setting "relatively big" goals has often had the effect that I ended up procrastinating and not even got started. Taking one small step at a time to avoid feeling overwhelmed by the "big" goal can really be key, also with changing habits. Thank you 😊
So glad to find your channel today. We just moved from a 3 bedroom with a full basement and garage, into a condo type space with about a third of the space. My husband and I are both entrepreneurs, we homeschool, and love to do art and music. We have downsized EIGHT car loads of things in the process! That feels great but I am still struggling with the amount we still have. So it feels like a lot of work ahead, I really appreciate the tips I have seen already and look forward to more videos ♡♡♡
Also, I had begun the decluttering process about 2 years ago so I felt like I had made really good progress. But small spaces really do make you face the facts!
This is a very good video to make us think about our goals in this matter of minimalism. I started this journey that I call "On my way to the essentials" because I want to have more space in my life and more freedom. I have already removed a lot of stuff from my house, a lot of weight, but I had reached an impasse. Your videos have been an inspiration to continue this journey. Thank you, Vera!
Living with less makes me feel freer, lighter and I have less to maintain and clean up after. I can open my cupboards and have room to see what is there. I use all that I have so things don't just sit and clutter my space. I've been decluttering for about a year and a half.
I dont think it would be boring. I know stuff is just stuff. I like my stuff, however i feel less is more. Better, not weighing you down. I would like to spend my money visting my family or vacation. I can see the benefits of minimalism, i am considering it
I used to joke that my goal was to have a boring life. There was a time when my life was chaotic and dramatic and people would often say that I should write a book about my life experiences. What would make a great book doesn't make a good life. "May you live in interesting times" is a Chinese curse. Now, gratefully, my life is much less interesting and much, much happier. Bring on the boredom!! 😉
I‘m still at a stage where I sometimes think about shopping just for the sake of having something new - it’s a habit that I’ll have to change, I guess. But not being weighed down by stuff I don’t really use and have to „manage“ is more important. And you’re so right, it doesn’t have to be this cure-all, extreme lifestyle. It’s very individual and whatever you want to make it! I am so not bored, I do things that cost little to no money and it’s a real boost for my creativity, whether to use up things in my kitchen or find ways of entertainment that don’t revolve around buying something or expensive events.
May I add to this? I like museums, and shopping is like walking through a (modern cultural history) museum. With a museum minds eye, I see what our consumerist society values, keep up on what is on trend, so I am still involved and can understand those around me are experiencing. I also notice how I get drawn in to the impulse to buy..but as I learn more, i understand how minimalist life has made me a free person, instead of spending my life as a credit card slave. Hugs.
Sure I feel lighter and better with minimalism. I started 1 year ago and i got rid of more than 70% of my wardrobe and i don't regret anything!for shopping now i feel myself more exigent in terms of quality of my purchases ...
Hi Vera, I have been watching your videos for a few months now and I just wanted to say thanks! I really like your honesty and compassion. To answer your question, life is not boring with less stuff! 😊 - Angela
Great Video! You really motivate me not to give in. I am not that far in getting rid of things, but I really have a vision. And mostly there are so much things I want to do or learn, that I have to let go. You are so overwhelmed by these that you are bored, because you cannot decide what NOT to do. I think minimalism leads to less boredom and more intentional living. I hope I will get to this stage soon.
Thanks for sharing your thoughts, I think as soon as you start focussing on what matters, and as soon as you start to question having things in your life or buying new things, you're already a minimalist :)
I started my journey as a minimalist 10 years ago, and I have been always felt like I am an outsider whenever I hang out with my friends or my family. Most of them are maximalist, and they really care about their status quo. They buy luxury stuff, a lot. Most of the conversations are about bags, high heels, clothes, etc. I don't know if they judge me as a weirdo behind my back, but I feel that I am against the consumer society. Just a dilemma!
I understand. Have you seen the video about minimalist struggles, dealing with people who don't understand? Maybe it could be helpful ruclips.net/video/SYP7FclAn3M/видео.html
I'm not really a minimalist, but "small talk" about clothes and such are so boring! I much prefer, deep, intellectual conversation. Sure, small talk is necessary sometimes, but if that's all my friends talked about...we probably couldn't hang out lol. Maybe try changing the conversation into a topic that is deeper than superficial (I know your comment is 6 months old now, but just a thought if you're still having this dilemma).
Hi hope your well ? We feel so much better after getting rid of our stuff a lot of stuff it’s so much stress free when tidying up and you can find stuff when you want it someone said to me what would you like for Xmas I said nothing I’ve got everything I need my family warm a house food don’t want nothing don’t need nothing my god a few years ago I would of said everything that’s out there but don’t want it now as a family we’ve worked so hard getting rid of stuff it was very hard work with 3 teenagers then in a 4 bedroom detached house still in the house but now only one daughter living with us and all of them is now like us don’t want crap in the houses we’re saving up for a new front door and a hoilday but am so happy with the way minimal has changed us for the better mind and soul take care love 💕
Thanks so much for sharing your story Michelle, I loved reading it, congrats on all the progress you and your family have made! And I'm doing very well, thank you :)
Today I made my first purchase this month (appart from food, of course): a headband with cat ears attached for halloween. Small, inexpensive, discreet... very minimalist. And it will probably be my only purchase at least until November
Simple Happy Zen Actually I am from Spain. I will not dress up but the kids in my building will be trick or treating so cat ears for me! It is like a wink to Halloween
No, I think minimalist living means you have more time to enjoy your life. Believe me I grew up in a house where there was alot of "stuff" stored away and never used. When cleaning out my parent's home, I got rid of tons of stuff and tons of photos. My mother bought stuff and my father took photos by the ton. I didn't take much of anything, but some photos and a small thing here or there. I was traveling across the US from California to NJ and back. Just couldn't haul back alot because it was expensive and I had no room anyway.
Hi Vera, I have been watching all your videos, as I always enjoy each one. Keep up all the great work, you help so many find the key to living stress free and realizing what’s really important . I live as you, I also shop very intentionally, the thought I put into buying anything, sometimes makes me laugh, but I know once it enters my home, it takes up space. Less is best, and what has happened to me is I just appreciate what I do have xo
This is exactly how I feel now. I would love to get rid of more items but if I do we won't have a place to sit. lol. My goal is to live in a home 10 x 24 ft. All I need is a comfortable place to sit and sleep. I enjoy having less so much. I do more outside in nature and truly enjoy every moment.
I live in 800 Sq ft. It is too big. I do not want to spend a lot of time cleaning and repairing things. I want to be out with family and friends making memories. This has given me time to serve others for God. This brings me great joy!!!! I am happier now then ever and when I had a brand new home etc I was not happy.
love this! im moving into a new studio that 1/2 of the size of my old and i decided to get rid of 1/2 of my stuff and live minimalistic life! cant wait ti get through all the stuff and get rid of it it feels so good!
Hi vera lots of love every time i watch your video i feel inspired i m on my minimalism journey your videos has inspired me to do so i feel so better now i save a lot of money on the process my home is more cleaned decluttered
Thanks for the video. It’s a great reminder for me to really buckle down and declutter. My problem is buying an article of clothing in multiples. It all started when I had a denim jacket that I really loved, wore it so much that it started to fall apart. Ever since then when I see a jacket I really like I buy it in multiples. Crazy huh! OCD? I’m in the process of decluttering now, wish me luck.
I love your video Vera. The more I watch your video the more things in common I found in my house with yours. I have the same type fruit bowl(my one is red) and same species of indoor plant.
I got say you very good i watch quite few your videos most my questions answered well I learned a lot ideas not just physical side also mental ideas you seem a good councillor I like to thank you 😊
Less shopping was boring to me in the beginning because it was new. Now it's not boring because I have found different hobbies to take place of shopping, like focusing on making content for my channel, reading, and more!
I am into it since 2017 and I feel some practical differences, but not the mental ones yet. I need just a few hours for cleaning everything instead of three days. But it still looks messy most of the time and I am still not where I want to be. It is also because my life changed a lot in these years (giving birth to a wonderful son). Concentrate on the things you’re already „there“, this is my advice. For me this is my wardrobe. And our office became a wonderful, open space for my little one (therefore the other rooms feel more cluttered again although we sold most video games and CDs and a lot of furniture like one desk, five shelves and a big office container). I am not the big declutterer, getting rid of everything at once, because I also feel very responsible for my stuff, but important is not to let new things in. Then you simply reduce naturally by gifting, wearing down, breaking cups... So you get to new stages every few month. And sometimes there will be the urge to reduce further (got rid of most of my Mangas just last month by selling them). this slow process is frustrating, I know. But some people simply are not that quick as most of the RUclips minimalists. I feel I am just before the next step. We will probably move to a smaller space next year and I feel like letting go a lot of stuff until then.
muhlenstedt sometimes you don't see the benefits with your eyes but minimalism for me has changed my view on things. Objects are tools, not something to get emotionally attached. I'm now Loving people, not things.
@@asliceofjhow thank you, yes I will reflect on your words, minimalism is about changing the ways of seeing life, this has to come first and perhaps is natural that the real changes take more time to be noticed- Have a nice Sunday!
Hi Vera, I never commented here before although I subscribed to your channel a while ago. To me a life with less things is not boring, but it can be poor. I'll explain this better: I am not a minimalist like you or other youtubers I follow, but I like to get rid of stuff that doesn't bring me joy or that I do not value anymore. I also praise a mindful shopping and do not spend my money on impulse buying anymore, BUT I would never get rid of old photo albums, dolls, cute little things that are of sentimental value to me, because I want and love to be surrounded by objects that represent me, my life, my taste, my sense of coziness and warmth. I find homes without posters or pictures on the walls very sad, also I find sad neutral colours everywhere, even in the wardrobe. Why do minimalists fear colours in their lives? I don't get it, seriously. Everything in my house is colourful, made of natural fabrics and materials but still vibrant with colours and patterns and that's the way I love it. I have to say that I've never been a compulsive hoarder or anything like that, and I got rid of loads of things in the last few years but again, minimalism is not really my piece of cake, although I enjoy ideas on how to become more essential. Ciao from Italy!
Hey there Prizzy! :) Thanks for commenting! Yes I feel minimalism can also be colorful, it depends on the person and their personality. I think a lot of minimalists are probably attracted to that calm vibe, maybe because we prefer order? I personally am very sensitive to stimuli, so I prefer to have my home calm, with natural materials and a lot of plants, not much color besides that, because it helps me to relax and unwind after being in a hectic environment. But everyone should do what works for them, and if you want lots of color, then definitely do it! :D
Hi Vera I definitely don’t think minimalism is in anyway boring? Having less stuff frees our mind and soul to spend more time being instead of doing ? And that allows us the time and clarity to see what is most important to us ! It is always best to de clutter gradually over time as I too am a bit of a worrier but find if I try to take a bit more time with everything I do it feels more achievable? You have a lovely home and thank you for everything in this video you help me to keep on track with my downsizing project ❤️
Tashi delek vera. I think minimalism is not boring at all. I think is healthy to let go of some of our stuff so we become more humble and appreciate the things we have. From Buddhist point of view it’s good to be a minimalist so that a Buddhist person have more time to practice buddhism and spend more time with meditation.
Hi from Pakistan. I notice you surround yourself with lots of plants. Please make a video on how to keep and maintain indoor plants. Everyone talks about them but hardly anyone shares how they are maintaining them in their rooms on daily basis. I bought some indoor plants like aloe vera, snake and money plant too but I struggled with keeping their leaves dust free and since I worried about how much sunlight they would require or bug infestations, they ended up on my staircase.
Hey there! Thanks for your suggestion :) I actually don't do anything special with my plants, I just give them water once a week and dust them off occassionally. Because of that, I haven't made a video about it yet. But with plants, an important thing is their location. If a plant isn't thriving, try placing it somewhere else. For me, that has almost always done the trick so far :)
I have decided to sort through my belongings are for a few reasons; I currently live in a two-story home with my husband. Our children are now on their own. There will come a time for us to move into a smaller home, so I have decided now is the time to adapt to the minimized living style. The second reason that I want to own less is when I do depart from this life, I would hate to leave so much stuff for my children to have to sort through as I would rather leave them a collection of family photographs and a few sentimental items from me.
Thanks for sharing Sharon, I think those reasons are both good :) Decluttering for a future move is a smart thing, it really helps moving much easier when the time comes :) Good luck with everything!
Hey Vera, May I ask where you got your furniture (your tv cabinet, dresser and the tall cabinet)? Me and my boyfriend are looking for such furniture but can’t seem to find it anywhere. We live in Belgium so the Netherlands is really not far. We don’t even live an hour away from Sluis. I really hope you can help us! I love your videos and am becoming a minimalist myself, you’re such a big inspiration for me! Thank you for making them! Greetings, Melodie
Thank you Melodie! We got them from Leen Bakker, which is kind of like a Dutch Ikea type store. But we got them 7 years ago so they don't sell them anymore unfortunately...
I think it’s great getting rid of all that clutter really clears the mind, sorry to go off subject your hair looks great and is getting really long could you do a hair care routine❣️
I started a year ago and it really takes time . I feel like I learned a lot about myself, I still have a hard time letting go of things,even though I have got rid of so many things. I have to ask myself why?? Why keep this if I never wear or use it ?? Once I let it go I don’t even think about it again... I love my house clean and organized with less stuff 😊
I don't think my things define me, it actually kind of lets people know me when they come into my life. They look around and see that I like rocks and antiques (not alot but some) Plus I don't really have the expensive to fix some things in my house. Get my floors redone and have a wall in my basement that needs a bit of fixing, Lol. I do wish my adult children could rid their life of some stuff but I don't push it. I like to sort things out in category first then give it to people who can use it. Tools are great for younger boys and girls. I have taken cloths and shoes to laundry mats so people don't have to buy them they can just have them. It makes me feel good too I have to admit.
What brand dresser , desk and tv stand do you have. I would love to know and see if it is still available. I really like it. You have got me decluttering in a major way. Thanks. Love your videos.
I worry a lot, too, especially since I've had experiences of poverty and that long-term-lasting stress that it creates to always wonder how to pay your next meal or rent. And the worst part is: you learn that nobody in the world helps you, when you are poor. people are actually happy to see you fall, and when you are down, they like to hit you and insult you further, in order to enjoy your suffering. Human beings are really the worst thing that can happen to you, when you are poor. You end up all alone and then, when life gets better (like you get a job, and can pay bills better) then you know that you can lose all of it in an instant. Also it makes life less pleasurable, when you learn that nothing is forever. When life gives you something, you can't really enjoy it because you know "Life is going to take this away from me again some time". The poverty experience really changed me from an optimist to a realist.
It was my initial fear with minimalism but I think that owning fewer possessions would actually be less boring because I would enjoy and use those possessions that I still owned more. I have a whole room full of art supplies, but I haven’t painted in a year. With one tray of watercolours and one set of pencils, one rubber and sharpener and a pad of paper - how much simpler would it be? Less choices would reduce the overwhelming number of decisions that I need to make each day.
Yes I agree, thanks for sharing Anne. I think you're absolutely right. I've actually tried watercolours a few years ago and loved it, maybe I'll pick it up again someday :)
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I just finished minimalizing my home--kitchen, closet, dresser, every single room. Unable to go anywhere for two weeks (here in Ecuador all roads were blocked because of political unrest), I found life not to be boring at all. I loved being home. In the zen-like simplicity, everything was enhanced--reading, cooking, music, doing Yoga. Clarity. Peace. Appreciation. Joy. Thank you.
Thats's amazing, congrats on all the progress you've made! Hope the situation will get better where you live
I love minimalism. I can keep my house neat and tidy and it doesn’t take much to keep our home clean. It’s very freeing
Yes that's one of the best things isn't it :D
Since I've started going through my house decluttering, I've experienced a noticeable drop in my stress level. I walk into my kitchen or my family room now and I feel so much lighter now that I can see there's not stuff everywhere. Being able to open a kitchen cabinet and immediately find what I want is so amazing. The more open feeling is wonderful. And I've found myself more motivated to keep things organized and clean. I actually WANT to clean and tidy up now, and keep my house looking neat and simple.
Also, I'm a worrier, too. I'm trying to get better about it and decluttering/minimalism is helping. Decluttering my mind is a lot harder for me than decluttering a room, though!
Thanks for sharing your experiences, I can definitely relate to loving that feeling of opening a drawer and immediately finding what you need :D
You just spoke my mind!
You speak my mind . I ll say that decluttering stuff is also a therapy somehow we feel so much free and lighter after...
Great video. I became a minimalist over a year and a half ago. I was a disaster prior to that. I was buying things I did not need with money I did not have to fill that hole of emptiness. I gradually changed that. I now only buy what I need rather than what I want and to my surprise I had so many things I did not need. I do not buy unless I pay for it cash. I do not charge things unless I pay the full balance at the end of the billing cycle. It is amazing on how much weight is lifted off of me. I still have some purging, but I am finding life much more enjoyable without the worry of owing for things I do not even use. My philosophy is if I have not used in in 6 months , I sell it or donate it. Simple. I keep my emotions out of the process of purchasing or keeping things.
Thanks for sharing Sal and I'm happy to read that minimalism has already given you so much :)
I have been decluttering since January I’m just now seeing some results. And when I do realize it it makes me happy and calm there is a sense of freedom there. I still have a long way to go, it is a journey but it is definitely one that I do find enjoyment out of. And it is so worth it.
That's great and so awesome you're already starting to results like that :)
Minimalism makes it easier to relax.
For me too!
That what I experienced after I adopted it. Materialism and living inside the matrex was exsausting. Freedom is pricless!
I don’t think minimalist living is boring. At the end what we treasure is the memories and experiences we have had with the people and animals we love or the places we love. What you said about “feeling responsible for things” that you own really resonated with me. When you own things, you have to take care of them and store them, and if you aren’t using them, ultimately have to expend mental energy to decide how to donate, sell, or discard them. As a former shopaholic I have spent a lot of time now going through my possessions and seeing what “sparks joy” and what I actually need- I also moved into a place with less storage space, so that was a big motivator for me to downsize. Ultimately I’d like to change my job to do something where I have more time and energy to be creative, even if I make less money. Thanks for making these videos and helping me to look at life in a different way.
Thanks for sharing your story, I loved reading it. :) Enjoy your day and good luck with everything!!!
Having less stuff on my closet has helped me to live my life simply amazing. And its not boring, infact it helped me to be more creative in a way that I never thought possible. I now live in my life in this philosophy "the less the better and live life with quality over quantity"
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That's amazing, thanks so much for sharing and enjoy your weekend! :)
I feel like your 🏠 is the perfect amount of minimalism. It's warm, but clean and uncluttered. Perfect
Aw thank you, that's sweet 🤗
I don’t think having less things in life is boring. In fact, it can be quite overwhelming to have more than what we can care for, as we tend to waste both our time and energy in taking care of many things in our life. Instead, it’s better to have few select things which add value to our life, as you always point out in your videos. Great video, by the way. 👌🏻
Thank you so much Varsha, I completely agree 😊
I used to feel like I was suffocating all the time, long story short, I even get rid of my bed and just kept the mattress, I adopted the Japanese lifestyle in that sense. Now I can workout and do more creative things in my room during the day and at night I just have to pull out the mattress to sleep.
Besides that my family have seen the benefits of decluttering and they're starting now. My dad is thrilled to see the yard and the garage with mostly only plants, you can tell the difference, the air even flows different. My mom is planning to get rid of the excess of clothes. Minimalism truly changed our lifes for the best.
Wow that's wonderful, thanks for sharing Cris!
Vera, I just found your channel this evening, and am so glad I did.
I think the more I consume (& internalize) the truths you’re sharing, the more courage I will have to eventually make the life changes I know I need to make.
Thank you!
You're very welcome and welcome to the channel! :) Have a great day
I started this year with the journey to go zero waste and minimalist living. I take my time and try to create new habbits.
That's amazing Michelle, good for you! :) I wish you the best of luck with everything
Such a beautiful video! I completely agree that physical clutter creates mental clutter. I am finding more than more that “stuff” has little value. Experiences are indeed much more meaningful. Thank you for your dedication to this amazing channel. ♥️♥️♥️
That's so sweet, thank you Nena for your support, I really appreciate it :D Enjoy your day!!
Great lessons learned. Experiences and relationships are much more valuable than wealth and possessions. Living minimally is not boring or restrictive. It allows me to travel, write and spend time pursuing my passions.
I love that large palm tree behind you, so peaceful to have greens in the house.
I’ve been working on being a minimalist for a few months now. I let go 40 percent of my Stuff. I’m finding it freeing. To clean my home takes less effort. Deciding what to wear is an easier process. Being a minimalist for me gives me time to enjoy the things I love to do and it’s easy on my wallet as well. Great video!
Wow you're making good and fast progress, congrats! :) Enjoy your day
Hi! I've just discovered your channel, watched some videos and I already feel so inspired. I'm normally a very disorganized person, but ambitious at the same time :)) and starting this year I am decided to include minimalism in my life and change my lifestyle. For 20 days now I've been eating healthy with just some really tiny guilty pleasures (90% of the time based on healthy food - it's a real progress for me) and I also have maintained my room clean almost every day. I'll keep going to progressively introduce good habits in my lifestyle.
Your content is the type of content I want to see more often on RUclips. It has quality and inspiration and adds value to our lives.
So, keep going and I'm looking forward to more videos! :)
Wow thank you for your kind words Andra and congratulations on all the progress you've already made with introducing healthy habits into your life! :) Good luck with everything
Thank you, Vera, for this video, and all your videos. I found #5 in this video very helpful for me to hear. I tend to be a perfectionist, in that if I don't think I can do something perfectly or completely, I don't start. So, this "taking the first step and going from there" is very helpful to hear.
You're very welcome and I'm glad to hear the tip was helpful :) I'm like that too haha, and it's been helping me a lot
Hi! I’m not the kind of viewer who likes to comment a lot. But i felt in the obligation to make a special case of your channel, as it’s been helping me so much so far, in my minimalism starting journey.
All of your topics are so interesting, useful and full of ressources to actually help us... so well, congratulations on your work and content, and thank you so much for it!! ☺️
Aw thank you so much for leaving such a kind and encouraging comment :) I really appreciate it. Have a lovely weekend!
Minimalism has helped me to worry less and trust in God. With that, I know that all will be provided to me and my family😊🏠 I know that it's not healthy to store up treasures, so I keep that thought in mind, knowing that my excess has helped someone in need!
Thanks for sharing your thoughts Julie, enjoy your day! :)
Nice video. Most people who make minimalist videos say that, while they are downsizing, that they learn more about intentional living and they end up being more interested in adding in "experiences," rather than owning "things."
Yes I agree with that :)
I feel more happiness since we are on this journey of minimalism. I can see the beauty in having so much less. It helps not feeling so stressed and worried. My brain feels calmer.
That's awesome :) Thanks for sharing Lucy
I know a psychiatrist who says that studies show that decluttering, organizing, cleaning and tidying are all actions that have a positive impact on depression (reducing it).
I totally believe that :)
I've been helping my coworker and his four kids to declutter, and now he's more mindful of his home and more motivated to do things.
That's awesome! :)
Thank you for the reminder that things work out. Your #4.
I love how relaxing all of your videos are. 🌸
Thank you so much Audrey :) Glad you enjoy my videos!! Have a great day today
i´m feeling so much better without my stuff!! i don´t need things to feel better or richer etc... love minimalism....
That's great Jóhanna, I feel the same way :)
I think that a conscious effort to remain minimal is very helpful. It has helped me reevaluate purchases and spending. There is something about it that helps return your focus from material to spiritual. And it is also visually relaxing. My work day goes at a frantic pace and I’m always fighting my way out from under missed deadlines, new work, stress. Coming home to visual peace helps me calm down.
I've started on a minimalism journey early this year. But i must say it is pretty tough when you are not living alone. Things do not "leave" but "stay". However it is also a challenge for me to declutter in this journey. Sentiments for stuff is very much the blocker. For a start, i try to put in place a rule of "things must be thrown away b4 anything new comes into the house". I do believe that life is not boring with minimalism but it is how you are living the life that you want.
Hey there! Yes I understand. Maybe this video will be helpful for you, I talk about living with others as a minimalist and how to deal with that: ruclips.net/video/SYP7FclAn3M/видео.html
@@SimpleHappyZen thanks for sharing this video. Great tips to get going on my journey 😘
I have been living a minimal lifestyle for 6 years. Because of this for the past 3 years I have lived my dream life in the Caribbean.
That's wonderful!
Hi, hello from Indonesia. I think minimalism gives me freedom. Its not boring at all. I appreciate small things more since I practice minimalism. And it’s kinda challenging (in a good way) because I have to find creative ways to live to the fullest with minimal stuffs. Thank you for sharing, you are such an inspiration 🙏🏻😊
Thanks so much for the kind words, and I love what you said about appreciating the small things more, and finding more creativity
What do you think? Is a life with fewer things and less shopping boring sometimes? 🤔 Or not? 👇🏻👇🏻
It all started with a no buy year, then I found minimalism. And the transition itself has been really open minded for me. It´s incredible how our stuff can blind us from the "things" that really matters such as family, nature and our innerself. Definitely having fewer things has rewarded me in a way that stuff couldn´t.
Simple Happy Zen downsizing and getting rid of half our possessions allowed us to retire early and spend our days doing what we want to do. No shopping trip is worth giving up my freedom. 💜
i think no ... i find shopping boring now...
I'm not allowing not trusting I'm always thinking what if🤷♀️ but tiny however steady steps I've started putting things in boxes if not used after a couple of months than I donate or toss, thanks for such a calm video 🙏soothing!
Simple Happy Zen You look so calm. I cannot imagine that you worry. You are such an inspiration! I used to think that but now that I am a senior citizen, I feel like all the stuff that I have inherited or accumulated is stifling my creativity and holding me back. Your videos help me so much. Please keep them coming!! God bless you!! ❤️🙏🏻
The greatest change I’ve ever done minimalism.
Retirement is so much easier and attainable.
You are brilliant! David Jenson CHICAGO
Thanks David! Have a great day
Life is so much more meaningful when we do what we love, what we're passionate about, when we follow our heart and our purpose... when we feel free and we can wake up every day feeling fulfilled and excited about life, the stuff that we have don't define us and don't define our success 💕
I love it! :) Thanks Erika
@@SimpleHappyZen have a beautiful day !!! 💕
I want to take on minimalism because i got a lot of things that lying around my room & after declutter few things through small steps (starting with my closet) and letting go items that i keep holding on for so long, i feel much happier knowing that i can maximize things that i already have.
Thanks for sharing Gabriella and good luck with decluttering!! :)
What an insightful video Vera! Thank you so much, your words are very wise. I agree absolutely, this keeps reminding me again about what is important in my life. I am grateful I’ve found you , I should surround myself with people like you😊❤️. Your video always looks so polished, organized and beautiful, every word and quote that you say I know has been well thought of. ☺️🌸
Wow thank you so much Leila, I put a lot of thought and effort into my videos so that means a lot ✨🌺
Beautiful video again, Vera 💗 And I find the last point really relevant. I've noticed how setting "relatively big" goals has often had the effect that I ended up procrastinating and not even got started. Taking one small step at a time to avoid feeling overwhelmed by the "big" goal can really be key, also with changing habits. Thank you 😊
Thank you Isabel, so glad you found it helpful 😊 I think small steps are what generate big results over time 🍃🌱
@@SimpleHappyZen Indeed! 😊
So glad to find your channel today. We just moved from a 3 bedroom with a full basement and garage, into a condo type space with about a third of the space. My husband and I are both entrepreneurs, we homeschool, and love to do art and music.
We have downsized EIGHT car loads of things in the process! That feels great but I am still struggling with the amount we still have. So it feels like a lot of work ahead, I really appreciate the tips I have seen already and look forward to more videos ♡♡♡
Also, I had begun the decluttering process about 2 years ago so I felt like I had made really good progress. But small spaces really do make you face the facts!
Thats amazing, congratulations on the move and on all the progress with decluttering! Just keep taking things step by step, you're doing great :)
This is a very good video to make us think about our goals in this matter of minimalism. I started this journey that I call "On my way to the essentials" because I want to have more space in my life and more freedom. I have already removed a lot of stuff from my house, a lot of weight, but I had reached an impasse. Your videos have been an inspiration to continue this journey. Thank you, Vera!
That's amazing, lots of luck with your journey!
Living with less makes me feel freer, lighter and I have less to maintain and clean up after. I can open my cupboards and have room to see what is there. I use all that I have so things don't just sit and clutter my space. I've been decluttering for about a year and a half.
Wow that's awesome Karen, congrats on the progress you've already made!
I dont think it would be boring. I know stuff is just stuff. I like my stuff, however i feel less is more. Better, not weighing you down. I would like to spend my money visting my family or vacation. I can see the benefits of minimalism, i am considering it
Love this!! I feel minalmalism makes my life so much less stressful and more peaceful!! 🤗🤗🤗🤗💚💚💚💚💚
Thanks Connie! :) Same here
Simply.......I appreciate all you do to inspire us to be the BEST version of ourselves. Thank u
Thank you so much Carmen :) Enjoy your day 🤗🌹✨
I love the statement your things don't define you.I really love everything about this video. Thanks Vera
Thank you so much Cathy 🤗😍
Binging all of your videos ☺️ thanks for all your advice!! You are really helping me to de-clutter!
Yay, thank you so much!! 🤗🌷
I used to joke that my goal was to have a boring life. There was a time when my life was chaotic and dramatic and people would often say that I should write a book about my life experiences. What would make a great book doesn't make a good life. "May you live in interesting times" is a Chinese curse. Now, gratefully, my life is much less interesting and much, much happier. Bring on the boredom!! 😉
Thanks so much for sharing and I'm really happy to hear your life is much happier now! :)
Your channel is becoming one of my favorites. It is very calming and I resonate so much with the topics discussed here.
Thank you so much, that's nice to hear :) Have a great day!
Felt so happy to see the Ganesh statue under the plant .... lovely .... I simply love a minimalist life ... it’s so fascinating... never boring 😍🥰
Thank you so much! 😊 That statue's one of my favorites
I‘m still at a stage where I sometimes think about shopping just for the sake of having something new - it’s a habit that I’ll have to change, I guess. But not being weighed down by stuff I don’t really use and have to „manage“ is more important. And you’re so right, it doesn’t have to be this cure-all, extreme lifestyle. It’s very individual and whatever you want to make it!
I am so not bored, I do things that cost little to no money and it’s a real boost for my creativity, whether to use up things in my kitchen or find ways of entertainment that don’t revolve around buying something or expensive events.
Thanks for sharing Michelle! 🤗🌹
May I add to this? I like museums, and shopping is like walking through a (modern cultural history) museum. With a museum minds eye, I see what our consumerist society values, keep up on what is on trend, so I am still involved and can understand those around me are experiencing. I also notice how I get drawn in to the impulse to buy..but as I learn more, i understand how minimalist life has made me a free person, instead of spending my life as a credit card slave. Hugs.
Pancake Circus I love museums! Haven’t thought about it that way, but that’s a great idea.
I have that same habit but I actually took a break from all social media it makes a difference without having ads in your face
@@vizrez1326 those adds are so annoying.
Sure I feel lighter and better with minimalism. I started 1 year ago and i got rid of more than 70% of my wardrobe and i don't regret anything!for shopping now i feel myself more exigent in terms of quality of my purchases ...
That's amazing, congrats!! :)
I think minimalist living would be fabulous!! I am starting a minimalist journey now.
Thanks for commenting Renee and good luck on your minimalism journey 🤗🍃🌱
Your videos help me to become a happier, calmer person. Thank you!
Wow that's amazing, thank you :)
Love your channel, calming voice with making sense.
Thanks so much Larry :)
Hi Vera, I have been watching your videos for a few months now and I just wanted to say thanks! I really like your honesty and compassion. To answer your question, life is not boring with less stuff! 😊 - Angela
Thank you so much Angela, that's kind of you to say! :) Enjoy your week!
I’ve come to realize that having a lot of stuff is stifling and having less is freeing and reduces stress.
Great Video! You really motivate me not to give in. I am not that far in getting rid of things, but I really have a vision. And mostly there are so much things I want to do or learn, that I have to let go. You are so overwhelmed by these that you are bored, because you cannot decide what NOT to do. I think minimalism leads to less boredom and more intentional living. I hope I will get to this stage soon.
Thanks for sharing your thoughts, I think as soon as you start focussing on what matters, and as soon as you start to question having things in your life or buying new things, you're already a minimalist :)
I started my journey as a minimalist 10 years ago, and I have been always felt like I am an outsider whenever I hang out with my friends or my family. Most of them are maximalist, and they really care about their status quo. They buy luxury stuff, a lot. Most of the conversations are about bags, high heels, clothes, etc. I don't know if they judge me as a weirdo behind my back, but I feel that I am against the consumer society. Just a dilemma!
I understand. Have you seen the video about minimalist struggles, dealing with people who don't understand? Maybe it could be helpful ruclips.net/video/SYP7FclAn3M/видео.html
I'm not really a minimalist, but "small talk" about clothes and such are so boring! I much prefer, deep, intellectual conversation. Sure, small talk is necessary sometimes, but if that's all my friends talked about...we probably couldn't hang out lol. Maybe try changing the conversation into a topic that is deeper than superficial (I know your comment is 6 months old now, but just a thought if you're still having this dilemma).
When u said "life has a way", u reminded me of that iconic line in Jurassic Park - "Life finds a way". 🙂
Haha oh yeah I forgot about that :D
Hi hope your well ? We feel so much better after getting rid of our stuff a lot of stuff it’s so much stress free when tidying up and you can find stuff when you want it someone said to me what would you like for Xmas I said nothing I’ve got everything I need my family warm a house food don’t want nothing don’t need nothing my god a few years ago I would of said everything that’s out there but don’t want it now as a family we’ve worked so hard getting rid of stuff it was very hard work with 3 teenagers then in a 4 bedroom detached house still in the house but now only one daughter living with us and all of them is now like us don’t want crap in the houses we’re saving up for a new front door and a hoilday but am so happy with the way minimal has changed us for the better mind and soul take care love 💕
Thanks so much for sharing your story Michelle, I loved reading it, congrats on all the progress you and your family have made! And I'm doing very well, thank you :)
Today I made my first purchase this month (appart from food, of course): a headband with cat ears attached for halloween. Small, inexpensive, discreet... very minimalist. And it will probably be my only purchase at least until November
Ooooh I love it!! We don't really celebrate halloween here the same way as in the US, but I would love to dress up like a cat haha
Simple Happy Zen Actually I am from Spain. I will not dress up but the kids in my building will be trick or treating so cat ears for me! It is like a wink to Halloween
That's so cute :D
No, I think minimalist living means you have more time to enjoy your life. Believe me I grew up in a house where there was alot of "stuff" stored away and never used. When cleaning out my parent's home, I got rid of tons of stuff and tons of photos. My mother bought stuff and my father took photos by the ton. I didn't take much of anything, but some photos and a small thing here or there. I was traveling across the US from California to NJ and back. Just couldn't haul back alot because it was expensive and I had no room anyway.
Hi Vera, I have been watching all your videos, as I always enjoy each one. Keep up all the great work, you help so many find the key to living stress free and realizing what’s really important . I live as you, I also shop very intentionally, the thought I put into buying anything, sometimes makes me laugh, but I know once it enters my home, it takes up space. Less is best, and what has happened to me is I just appreciate what I do have xo
Thank you so much for your kind comment Christine, I loved it 🤗💖
This is exactly how I feel now. I would love to get rid of more items but if I do we won't have a place to sit. lol. My goal is to live in a home 10 x 24 ft. All I need is a comfortable place to sit and sleep. I enjoy having less so much. I do more outside in nature and truly enjoy every moment.
I live in 800 Sq ft. It is too big. I do not want to spend a lot of time cleaning and repairing things. I want to be out with family and friends making memories. This has given me time to serve others for God. This brings me great joy!!!! I am happier now then ever and when I had a brand new home etc I was not happy.
Thanks so mcuh for sharing and good luck on your journey! :)
love this! im moving into a new studio that 1/2 of the size of my old and i decided to get rid of 1/2 of my stuff and live minimalistic life! cant wait ti get through all the stuff and get rid of it it feels so good!
Congrats and good luck with the move Iveta!
@@SimpleHappyZen thank you 💚
I’m late to this video, but better late than never. I’ve been interested in minimalism and this video is so encouraging!
So glad to hear it :D Good luck on your minimalism journey!
Hi vera lots of love every time i watch your video i feel inspired i m on my minimalism journey your videos has inspired me to do so i feel so better now i save a lot of money on the process my home is more cleaned decluttered
Wow I'm so happy to hear that Saheli, congrats!! :)
i think shopping less is not boring, i can save my money for food and traveling 😉thank you vera for this very good made video 💝😻
Thank you so much Cristina! :)
Thanks for the video. It’s a great reminder for me to really buckle down and declutter. My problem is buying an article of clothing in multiples. It all started when I had a denim jacket that I really loved, wore it so much that it started to fall apart. Ever since then when I see a jacket I really like I buy it in multiples. Crazy huh! OCD?
I’m in the process of decluttering now, wish me luck.
Thanks for sharing and good luck with decuttering! :) Let me know how it goes
I love your video Vera. The more I watch your video the more things in common I found in my house with yours. I have the same type fruit bowl(my one is red) and same species of indoor plant.
Ah that's so cool! :) Have a happy Monday
Such a wonderful well made video 😊
Thank you so much, that's so nice to hear :)
This is a great video! And I believe you are right, less stuff is the key to less stress.
Thanks Liz! 😄
I got say you very good i watch quite few your videos most my questions answered well I learned a lot ideas not just physical side also mental ideas you seem a good councillor I like to thank you 😊
Thank you so much :)
Less shopping was boring to me in the beginning because it was new. Now it's not boring because I have found different hobbies to take place of shopping, like focusing on making content for my channel, reading, and more!
Yes same here :) Thanks Mariela! Hope you're doing well 🤗🌹
I am decluttering since one year and I can not notice the difference.Your videos are helping me to go on!
muhlenstedt ...don't give up! I started decluttering the beginning of 2017 and just recently my home is beginning to look the way I want it to😊
@@amolamula405 thank you very much for sharing your experience, I am feeling more normal after reading that!☺☺😘😘
I am into it since 2017 and I feel some practical differences, but not the mental ones yet. I need just a few hours for cleaning everything instead of three days. But it still looks messy most of the time and I am still not where I want to be. It is also because my life changed a lot in these years (giving birth to a wonderful son). Concentrate on the things you’re already „there“, this is my advice. For me this is my wardrobe. And our office became a wonderful, open space for my little one (therefore the other rooms feel more cluttered again although we sold most video games and CDs and a lot of furniture like one desk, five shelves and a big office container). I am not the big declutterer, getting rid of everything at once, because I also feel very responsible for my stuff, but important is not to let new things in. Then you simply reduce naturally by gifting, wearing down, breaking cups... So you get to new stages every few month. And sometimes there will be the urge to reduce further (got rid of most of my Mangas just last month by selling them). this slow process is frustrating, I know. But some people simply are not that quick as most of the RUclips minimalists. I feel I am just before the next step. We will probably move to a smaller space next year and I feel like letting go a lot of stuff until then.
muhlenstedt sometimes you don't see the benefits with your eyes but minimalism for me has changed my view on things. Objects are tools, not something to get emotionally attached. I'm now Loving people, not things.
@@asliceofjhow thank you, yes I will reflect on your words, minimalism is about changing the ways of seeing life, this has to come first and perhaps is natural that the real changes take more time to be noticed- Have a nice Sunday!
Girl loved ur story and enjoyed it.
Plus learned alotttt
Hahaha thank you so much Laila, so glad to hear it!! Have a lovely day today ✨🌺
Hi Vera, I never commented here before although I subscribed to your channel a while ago. To me a life with less things is not boring, but it can be poor. I'll explain this better: I am not a minimalist like you or other youtubers I follow, but I like to get rid of stuff that doesn't bring me joy or that I do not value anymore. I also praise a mindful shopping and do not spend my money on impulse buying anymore, BUT I would never get rid of old photo albums, dolls, cute little things that are of sentimental value to me, because I want and love to be surrounded by objects that represent me, my life, my taste, my sense of coziness and warmth. I find homes without posters or pictures on the walls very sad, also I find sad neutral colours everywhere, even in the wardrobe. Why do minimalists fear colours in their lives? I don't get it, seriously. Everything in my house is colourful, made of natural fabrics and materials but still vibrant with colours and patterns and that's the way I love it. I have to say that I've never been a compulsive hoarder or anything like that, and I got rid of loads of things in the last few years but again, minimalism is not really my piece of cake, although I enjoy ideas on how to become more essential. Ciao from Italy!
Hey there Prizzy! :) Thanks for commenting! Yes I feel minimalism can also be colorful, it depends on the person and their personality. I think a lot of minimalists are probably attracted to that calm vibe, maybe because we prefer order? I personally am very sensitive to stimuli, so I prefer to have my home calm, with natural materials and a lot of plants, not much color besides that, because it helps me to relax and unwind after being in a hectic environment. But everyone should do what works for them, and if you want lots of color, then definitely do it! :D
Hi Vera I definitely don’t think minimalism is in anyway boring? Having less stuff frees our mind and soul to spend more time being instead of doing ?
And that allows us the time and clarity to see what is most important to us ! It is always best to de clutter gradually over time as I too am a bit of a worrier but find if I try to take a bit more time with everything I do it feels more achievable? You have a lovely home and thank you for everything in this video you help me to keep on track with my downsizing project ❤️
Thank you Therese and have a happy Monday!! :)
Tashi delek vera.
I think minimalism is not boring at all. I think is healthy to let go of some of our stuff so we become more humble and appreciate the things we have. From Buddhist point of view it’s good to be a minimalist so that a Buddhist person have more time to practice buddhism and spend more time with meditation.
Thanks so much for sharing, have an amazing day! :)
Hi from Pakistan. I notice you surround yourself with lots of plants. Please make a video on how to keep and maintain indoor plants. Everyone talks about them but hardly anyone shares how they are maintaining them in their rooms on daily basis. I bought some indoor plants like aloe vera, snake and money plant too but I struggled with keeping their leaves dust free and since I worried about how much sunlight they would require or bug infestations, they ended up on my staircase.
Hey there! Thanks for your suggestion :) I actually don't do anything special with my plants, I just give them water once a week and dust them off occassionally. Because of that, I haven't made a video about it yet. But with plants, an important thing is their location. If a plant isn't thriving, try placing it somewhere else. For me, that has almost always done the trick so far :)
Hi! Can you do a plant tour video ? Your plants look so beautiful and well taken care of specially the palm tree right behind you😊
Thank you so much Nissi! :) Maybe I'll do that someday
I have decided to sort through my belongings are for a few reasons; I currently live in a two-story home with my husband. Our children are now on their own. There will come a time for us to move into a smaller home, so I have decided now is the time to adapt to the minimized living style. The second reason that I want to own less is when I do depart from this life, I would hate to leave so much stuff for my children to have to sort through as I would rather leave them a collection of family photographs and a few sentimental items from me.
Thanks for sharing Sharon, I think those reasons are both good :) Decluttering for a future move is a smart thing, it really helps moving much easier when the time comes :) Good luck with everything!
Amazing.
Your voice is so calming
Thank you so much Lucia :) Have a nice day today!
Hey Vera,
May I ask where you got your furniture (your tv cabinet, dresser and the tall cabinet)? Me and my boyfriend are looking for such furniture but can’t seem to find it anywhere. We live in Belgium so the Netherlands is really not far. We don’t even live an hour away from Sluis.
I really hope you can help us!
I love your videos and am becoming a minimalist myself, you’re such a big inspiration for me!
Thank you for making them!
Greetings,
Melodie
Thank you Melodie! We got them from Leen Bakker, which is kind of like a Dutch Ikea type store. But we got them 7 years ago so they don't sell them anymore unfortunately...
I think it’s great getting rid of all that clutter really clears the mind, sorry to go off subject your hair looks great and is getting really long could you do a hair care routine❣️
Thank you so much Joanne! :) I actually don't do anything special with my hair, but I'll think about if I can make a good video about that :D
I started a year ago and it really takes time . I feel like I learned a lot about myself, I still have a hard time letting go of things,even though I have got rid of so many things. I have to ask myself why?? Why keep this if I never wear or use it ?? Once I let it go I don’t even think about it again... I love my house clean and organized with less stuff 😊
Thanks for sharing and it's definitely a process, congrats on all the progress you've already made! :)
I don't think my things define me, it actually kind of lets people know me when they come into my life. They look around and see that I like rocks and antiques (not alot but some) Plus I don't really have the expensive to fix some things in my house. Get my floors redone and have a wall in my basement that needs a bit of fixing, Lol. I do wish my adult children could rid their life of some stuff but I don't push it. I like to sort things out in category first then give it to people who can use it. Tools are great for younger boys and girls. I have taken cloths and shoes to laundry mats so people don't have to buy them they can just have them. It makes me feel good too I have to admit.
Thanks for sharing, and have a happy Monday! :)
Thank you, it was down to the bone 💕
You're very welcome Tijana 😊🍃 Enjoy your day!
What brand dresser , desk and tv stand do you have. I would love to know and see if it is still available. I really like it. You have got me decluttering in a major way. Thanks. Love your videos.
I worry a lot, too, especially since I've had experiences of poverty and that long-term-lasting stress that it creates to always wonder how to pay your next meal or rent. And the worst part is: you learn that nobody in the world helps you, when you are poor. people are actually happy to see you fall, and when you are down, they like to hit you and insult you further, in order to enjoy your suffering. Human beings are really the worst thing that can happen to you, when you are poor. You end up all alone and then, when life gets better (like you get a job, and can pay bills better) then you know that you can lose all of it in an instant. Also it makes life less pleasurable, when you learn that nothing is forever. When life gives you something, you can't really enjoy it because you know "Life is going to take this away from me again some time". The poverty experience really changed me from an optimist to a realist.
What you think about you bring about.
Thank you
Very inspiring video !😊
Thank you so much Néa :D
No I dont think it would be boring. Less clutter means more time. I get to spend more time with my kids, friends and my parents.
Yes I feel the same way :) Thanks Heather!
It was my initial fear with minimalism but I think that owning fewer possessions would actually be less boring because I would enjoy and use those possessions that I still owned more. I have a whole room full of art supplies, but I haven’t painted in a year. With one tray of watercolours and one set of pencils, one rubber and sharpener and a pad of paper - how much simpler would it be? Less choices would reduce the overwhelming number of decisions that I need to make each day.
Yes I agree, thanks for sharing Anne. I think you're absolutely right. I've actually tried watercolours a few years ago and loved it, maybe I'll pick it up again someday :)
Thanks for this video, very helpful !
You're very welcome, glad it was helpful! :) Enjoy your weekend
I think a minimalist life is more freedom
I agree :)
I LOVE BEING A MINIMALIST!!!:-)❤️🇵🇭🇺🇸🇨🇭🙏🌴🌎
Me too :D
I like the look!
Thank you for this video. Really.
You're very welcome, thank you for commenting, have a lovely day!