I'm also a quitter at jobs. Once I was doing a collaboration in a workplace where I didn't know anything, not even where instruments to work were located. Nobody explained or showed me anything. They left me alone. I waited for 10 minutes and then left. I am good at fight or flight response. Especially the flight response.
You and I both girlie 😂 the longest I ever stayed at a job is 2 months top and I’ve been through 5 jobs in the past year and a half 💀 #teamflightresponse
Parenting is the "hardest job ever". That is why I am opting out. I have better things to do in life than squat out babies, fight with their sperm donor, and suffer for the next 20+ years. Y'all ladies who insist on putting yourselves in that life can keep it. God Bless!!!😅😅
Well said video, and absolutely agree with Tera!! So true and I’m 33 years old, and I know as well that kids aren’t for me. I feel that the older I get that I will become more set in not having kids as I want peace , independence, freedom, and happiness in all respects. Peace is hard to get at times with kids, and kids is way too expensive and the price is going up. No thank you!! I rather be childfree and single forever than have kids, and I never have peace nor peace of mind. God bless you and great video! 💜
Lol. I've seen a lot of conscious male and teachers over the past few decades, also a lot of people who make it fun and have conscious jokes, but Tera combines both well. Realistic, consciousness and ability to laugh at the truth is a skill only a few have.
Sometimes it's not even worth your time and effort... That's the sad reality, some of these children rush you off to an early grave or cause mental or some other health issue. I know, I'm a mother of SIX to include 4adults😂
Yes! I recently had this debate with a guy friend who was saying his mother was happy to have all seven of her children, while in the same breath he emphasized how he gave her a hard time because of his acting out and bad behavior at school and in general. And he said she never said that she regretted having them. I told him, as a mother myself of one child, she just didn’t want to hurt your feelings or make you feel bad. No loving mother wants that for her child, but I told him that she did not initially sign up for all that sh**. Then his father left her to do it alone. She had to struggle and face poverty, while working and raising them. Who the hell signs up for that knowingly and willingly?! I told him that he needed a reality check! (He seemed cocky like he was her favorite 🤔) I met her recently and seeing her in person told the story. They definitely messed up her finances, quality and span of life. Even retired she looks like she’s been through it! I had one child while married and I’m done. I wouldn’t even think about seven. Hell, not even two!
Being a cat and dog mom is hard job. My cat will protest when she’s hungry multiple times a day…and the dog 🐕 follows me when she needs to go for her walk.
Lol. It is PRICELESS when you know yourself well, know your boundaries, what you are willing and not willing to do and tolerate. Saves you from so many unnecessary karmic debt, karmic traps and karmic entanglement.
Exactly, bring a whole human being to this world just because you bored?????? Go read a book, write a book or novel, go get a degree or another one....go create something you are passionate about.
I told my mom when she asked me for grandbabies, "If you're prepared to take full responsibility for them when I drop him/her on your doorstep and go on with my life, then I'll give you one." Either way, she's not getting grandkids from me, but she absolutely does not want to raise them if I was considering having kids. I know my limits. Kids are not for me and I'm so glad I know this, because I'd definitely quit parenthood and won't think twice about it.
I HAVE to catch on of these lives!! 16:42 Let me tell you my theory sis! You said parenting doesn’t pay. But if you think about it 😏. Most parents set their kids up for “success” so that child will grow up and feel like they owe everything to the parent. Once the child becomes an adult, said parent gets lazy, stop taking care of themselves, lose the “ parenting fight”, burnout, get sick, and *WAIT* for the child to get rich so that child can *repay* them for ALLLL that work they put in. Most of these parents operate in a *you owe me* mindset. I understand there are nuances but this is a general theory. I need to write this in my content book. 📝😏
"Company Loyalty" is simply a guilt-trip employers use to manipulate the working class into staying with companies and positions that don't serve them in order to continue building the empire of the top brass. Self-sufficiency is the game at hand, not serfdom.
I've been saying this since before I became an adult and the other adults were forcing womanhood on me, "I can't promise minimum eighteen years to myself, I can NEVER promise eighteen years to another being I don't even want." And I'm alive and 24 but my statement stands, I still can't promise a life to a being I don't want.
It must be hard if she is complaining with a team of nannies and cooks to help out. Thank goodness I don’t have any children. She is better than me because I would of dropped those kids off at his house and be the fun weekend parent. I have zero problems quitting jobs either. I remember I worked at this one company that flip the script when I started working. I never unpacked my bags or set up my desk all my boxes were still in the trunk of my car so I could easily move elsewhere. Lol my boss which was my friend thought it was so funny. She left shortly after.
I always told everyone it's not raising the kids that are tough...it's the partner that you have to co-parent with that makes it tough. You get to raise the kids how you want, but all while allowing them to be who they are...they give you even more of a reason to live, can be really fun, and helpful😍😍 Mind you, I only have 1 for now...I can't speak for 2 and 3 at the same damn time🤣😂
Not only all this you mention, but then kids want to be having sex before they are 18. That adds to the stress. My husband just told me one of the kids in his family is going to be a dad at 14 years old. That is bringing another baby to this world.
That's why the first criteria that I look for in a woman is courage. Between a sexy lady that just quit everything and a normal looking but serious and solid and not a quitter and courageous people . I sign with 2 hands the second. You can build with her. I am bob the builder.
Oh please. YOU are not the one that has to carry or birth those children. And I guarantee that when the newness wears off, you will turn into the typical man and leave the childrearing to HER. I am so thankful to be a childfree woman. Dealing with men and children is a losing endeavor for most women.
And by the way, any man that needs a woman to "build with" is a dusty loser. What's the matter? Couldn't build your Kingdom on your own, or better yet, try building with OTHER MEN before you go after your women. That way you have something to offer her.
If the rich can’t do it? My regular ass can’t either. And yes I am team quitter! Cuz who you gon stress out? Not I!
I'm also a quitter at jobs. Once I was doing a collaboration in a workplace where I didn't know anything, not even where instruments to work were located. Nobody explained or showed me anything. They left me alone. I waited for 10 minutes and then left. I am good at fight or flight response. Especially the flight response.
You and I both girlie 😂 the longest I ever stayed at a job is 2 months top and I’ve been through 5 jobs in the past year and a half 💀 #teamflightresponse
Girl yes. Like employers aint not good im out
Think found my tribe with y'all 😂❤
I’m just like you, i quit jobs all the time lol 😂❤
Me too 😂
Parenting is the "hardest job ever". That is why I am opting out. I have better things to do in life than squat out babies, fight with their sperm donor, and suffer for the next 20+ years. Y'all ladies who insist on putting yourselves in that life can keep it. God Bless!!!😅😅
Well said video, and absolutely agree with Tera!! So true and I’m 33 years old, and I know as well that kids aren’t for me. I feel that the older I get that I will become more set in not having kids as I want peace , independence, freedom, and happiness in all respects. Peace is hard to get at times with kids, and kids is way too expensive and the price is going up. No thank you!! I rather be childfree and single forever than have kids, and I never have peace nor peace of mind. God bless you and great video! 💜
Exactly, your legacy is the impact you have on people.
Same, no kids for me. I love my freedom and free spirit. :)
Cheers to freedom🤸🏽♀️🤸🏽♀️
ChildFree, it is the Freedom for Me. 🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌
Lol. I've seen a lot of conscious male and teachers over the past few decades, also a lot of people who make it fun and have conscious jokes, but Tera combines both well. Realistic, consciousness and ability to laugh at the truth is a skill only a few have.
Glad I’m not alone lol 😂❤ thank God!
Sometimes it's not even worth your time and effort... That's the sad reality, some of these children rush you off to an early grave or cause mental or some other health issue. I know, I'm a mother of SIX to include 4adults😂
I concur. Glad to see women telling how it really is.
Yes! I recently had this debate with a guy friend who was saying his mother was happy to have all seven of her children, while in the same breath he emphasized how he gave her a hard time because of his acting out and bad behavior at school and in general. And he said she never said that she regretted having them. I told him, as a mother myself of one child, she just didn’t want to hurt your feelings or make you feel bad. No loving mother wants that for her child, but I told him that she did not initially sign up for all that sh**. Then his father left her to do it alone. She had to struggle and face poverty, while working and raising them. Who the hell signs up for that knowingly and willingly?! I told him that he needed a reality check! (He seemed cocky like he was her favorite 🤔) I met her recently and seeing her in person told the story. They definitely messed up her finances, quality and span of life. Even retired she looks like she’s been through it! I had one child while married and I’m done. I wouldn’t even think about seven. Hell, not even two!
Being a cat and dog mom is hard job. My cat will protest when she’s hungry multiple times a day…and the dog 🐕 follows me when she needs to go for her walk.
Lol. It is PRICELESS when you know yourself well, know your boundaries, what you are willing and not willing to do and tolerate. Saves you from so many unnecessary karmic debt, karmic traps and karmic entanglement.
Exactly.......no motivation when no money 💰 involved.
Exactly, bring a whole human being to this world just because you bored?????? Go read a book, write a book or novel, go get a degree or another one....go create something you are passionate about.
Exactly, kids is not the motivation. Seriously for me!!!!
I told my mom when she asked me for grandbabies, "If you're prepared to take full responsibility for them when I drop him/her on your doorstep and go on with my life, then I'll give you one." Either way, she's not getting grandkids from me, but she absolutely does not want to raise them if I was considering having kids. I know my limits. Kids are not for me and I'm so glad I know this, because I'd definitely quit parenthood and won't think twice about it.
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They only want us to have them so we can “struggle”, experience pain, and “sacrifice” like they did. It’s honestly disturbing.
Good on you for not having them & dumping them on her anyway like so many do. Glad to see women not signing up for these life long sentences.
@@AWholeVibe96 I advised my dau not to have kids. She had one anyway & guess who's doing the heavy lifting?
@@karlareadstheclassics217 you don’t want to know my thoughts on that.
Congrats though 🙂
I HAVE to catch on of these lives!!
16:42 Let me tell you my theory sis! You said parenting doesn’t pay. But if you think about it 😏. Most parents set their kids up for “success” so that child will grow up and feel like they owe everything to the parent.
Once the child becomes an adult, said parent gets lazy, stop taking care of themselves, lose the “ parenting fight”, burnout, get sick, and *WAIT* for the child to get rich so that child can *repay* them for ALLLL that work they put in. Most of these parents operate in a *you owe me* mindset. I understand there are nuances but this is a general theory. I need to write this in my content book. 📝😏
My sister once told me that she will be indebted to our mom forever. I was like wow.
@@eternalabundance39 wow is right cause hell naw lmao
"Company Loyalty" is simply a guilt-trip employers use to manipulate the working class into staying with companies and positions that don't serve them in order to continue building the empire of the top brass.
Self-sufficiency is the game at hand, not serfdom.
I've been saying this since before I became an adult and the other adults were forcing womanhood on me, "I can't promise minimum eighteen years to myself, I can NEVER promise eighteen years to another being I don't even want." And I'm alive and 24 but my statement stands, I still can't promise a life to a being I don't want.
It must be hard if she is complaining with a team of nannies and cooks to help out. Thank goodness I don’t have any children.
She is better than me because I would of dropped those kids off at his house and be the fun weekend parent.
I have zero problems quitting jobs either. I remember I worked at this one company that flip the script when I started working. I never unpacked my bags or set up my desk all my boxes were still in the trunk of my car so I could easily move elsewhere. Lol my boss which was my friend thought it was so funny. She left shortly after.
Exactly. Nobody talks about child birth and death!!!
I always told everyone it's not raising the kids that are tough...it's the partner that you have to co-parent with that makes it tough. You get to raise the kids how you want, but all while allowing them to be who they are...they give you even more of a reason to live, can be really fun, and helpful😍😍 Mind you, I only have 1 for now...I can't speak for 2 and 3 at the same damn time🤣😂
I have plenty of reasons on my own to live. I don't need kids to give me meaning in life.
Not only all this you mention, but then kids want to be having sex before they are 18. That adds to the stress. My husband just told me one of the kids in his family is going to be a dad at 14 years old. That is bringing another baby to this world.
Sis stay blessing us with the realness.
I am self aware. #ChildFree 💃💃💃💃💃💃💃💃💃💃💃💃💃💃
Exactly. Get game from the parents. 😊 #ChildFree
Keep pouring that truth out because I have my cup in my hand and I'm waiting for my drink
She wanted her kids to be pretty that’s why no adoption lol 😊😂❤
Thank god i dont hve kids
I know quitters are self aware. Exactly. 🙌
50% off the color for the color of the week. Every Sunday is a new color of the week.
Hmm. "Trap partner" (child bearing other half) is a serious term.
Imma be even more of a quitter. Wish i quit some dates/institutions earlier
Ha! Advocate for break-ups is funny.
Take out the trash😈
💀😂😂😂😂❤
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Not to mention women who intentionally makes themselves single parents , sounds like even harder work 😳
Brainwashing is real
Right on
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That's why the first criteria that I look for in a woman is courage. Between a sexy lady that just quit everything and a normal looking but serious and solid and not a quitter and courageous people . I sign with 2 hands the second. You can build with her. I am bob the builder.
Oh please. YOU are not the one that has to carry or birth those children. And I guarantee that when the newness wears off, you will turn into the typical man and leave the childrearing to HER. I am so thankful to be a childfree woman. Dealing with men and children is a losing endeavor for most women.
And by the way, any man that needs a woman to "build with" is a dusty loser. What's the matter? Couldn't build your Kingdom on your own, or better yet, try building with OTHER MEN before you go after your women. That way you have something to offer her.
Since when do men take care of their kids to even have a say in the matter. Lmao keep it quiet you serial cheaters and quitters.
@@Childfree_Forever Exactly, statistics don’t lie, men do!
Lol thanks for trolling, you gave me a good laugh 🤣🤣🤣