This video gave me an aha moment on my PTSD. I was thinking what did my narcissistic parents and other narcissistic people do to bring me down and make me feel like I am not good enough. Narcissist's power is the power of amplifying your mistakes and making it appear that is all there is in your inventory. That's how they turned you against yourself. Other Narcs can smell this and are like ahhhh they feel they are not good enough ooooh fresh meat. So we need to stop counting negative inventory and focus on the positive inventory. These positives are our inner strength.
My daughter recently attended your 3-day seminar on mentoring. She loved it and was telling all her family and friends about you. I have now listened to a few of your RUclips videos - they are great! You are great! Thank You for sharing!
Thank you for this...The topic about how our mind keeps inventory really opened my eyes on how much I dwell on the bad...Gonna start counting my blessings. Bless all of you, too.
Your words left a smile on my face even when iI had a terrible day .In my gratitude list today,I will write that I am greatful for your words. Thank you so much
i was picked on a lot in school, i was somewhat of an easy target because i was quiet and didn't bother retaliating or even responding because i didn't want to give those kids more fuel. it made me have sort of a negative self perception and now as an adult, i just kind of think that people have a negative first impression of me or that people just don't like me. the dating scene also messes up my self esteem and confidence, i'm not really that successful which makes me think that i'm simply not attractive and when going out with friends to clubs or bars or something, it's kind of reinforced when i look at a girl and she looks back with sort of a disgusted "what are you looking at?" type of expression. in short, being picked on growing up and being sort of a failure with dating are the two biggest reasons i don't think that i'm good enough, because people have already let me know that
There is no channel on RUclips I have tapped the bell to give me notifications. This one I have. This content is BRILLIANT. (I am SO GREATFUL!!! :D ) I'm going to teach my son this stuff, he's very pessimistic in his attitude and I really want to help him to be happy. Blessings
I REALLY REALLY LOVE THE VIDEO....THE WAY KIRK EXPLAINS HE DESERVES GRATITUDE MORE THEN ALL. BUT I DONT UNDERSTAND WHY I HAVE THIS NOTION THAT HIS SMILE IS FAKE. MAYBE ITS NOT HIM ITS ME.
I am grateful for many kind act I have done and grateful to my parents who always make and buy delicious food for me and grateful to my hair because I always neglect it and cause it to fall out but nevertheless it looks beautiful and I am grateful to myself when I was a child and my dream was to become a psychiatrist to make everyone happy also I grateful to you and this channel that I found it after such a long time that I was feeling bad about myself... I'll be fine and I'll make it through. This is a promise and I never break my promise💪... Thank you so much
Excellent as always. I'm helping you build up your watch hours with my addiction to my rise in vibration I feel when I listen and learn from you. Thank you.
Thank you Kirk, for another amazing video!😁 I'm gonna try to make it to at least a few of your seminars this summer! I really miss the feeling I get when I had gone to them! Also, it was super cool to get a response from you for one of my comments 😁
We'll be thrilled to have you attend! We just posted a live Body Language Show today with a great offer to attend a live event. Hope to see you soon! Here's the link ruclips.net/video/7xaf5ZlSonM/видео.html (the video starts at 20 minutes in)
thank u sooo much i find this videos of you.. can i hire u in my head?because u help me a lot.. i cant talk to someone because they will just judge me😢
This is the third video I’m watching in less than 30 mins and I just found your channel . ❤️ Thing is I’ve been getting these empathetic signs probably 2017 but I’m finally aligning now in 2020. I always knew in my mind I had a purpose!
How do empaths and highly sensitive ppl deal with emotional invalidation? Also how do deal with nonstop talkers.. ppl who go on and on without asking you about you. PLEASE HELP! What is the wording I can use. Love your videos
When doing a thorough research , I've found; 99.9 percent of the population spend most of their time thinking about "What other's thinking about " , they all are thinking about the very same issue. So, if we rise above this number, we actually feel better about ourselves. Thus in turn, we are in a better position to be of help to others.
Such a common thought - Am I good enough? Thanks for sharing this video, very insightful and thought provoking. After talking with a friend who has been struggling this week, I actually just uploaded a video on believing in yourself on my channel - Check it out if you are interested. Remember that you ARE good enough, and you CAN do this, and you WILL get through this. Cheers.
This man deserves some sort of award
Thank you Gavin. I'm glad you found some value and help here. Thanks for watching and be sure to subscribe, I'm posting new videos each day.
Looking from UK 🇬🇧 he as really help me hes the best
This video gave me an aha moment on my PTSD. I was thinking what did my narcissistic parents and other narcissistic people do to bring me down and make me feel like I am not good enough. Narcissist's power is the power of amplifying your mistakes and making it appear that is all there is in your inventory. That's how they turned you against yourself. Other Narcs can smell this and are like ahhhh they feel they are not good enough ooooh fresh meat. So we need to stop counting negative inventory and focus on the positive inventory. These positives are our inner strength.
Thank you for putting my thoughts into words, I'm grateful for your comment. Hope you are better now and dealing well with your PTSD! ❤️
Amen
The only solution...after 37 years..narcisstic abuse childhood neglect.....thank you so much...much gratitude... humbled...it feels beautiful
Key word. INVENTORY. Better for us to keep a positive inventory, rather than allow our mind to go haywire on only the negative ones'.
My daughter recently attended your 3-day seminar on mentoring. She loved it and was telling all her family and friends about you. I have now listened to a few of your RUclips videos - they are great! You are great! Thank You for sharing!
Love your channel and your lessons.
Thank you for this...The topic about how our mind keeps inventory really opened my eyes on how much I dwell on the bad...Gonna start counting my blessings. Bless all of you, too.
Glad it was helpful! 😀
This would be a very valuable lesson to be learnt as young as possible. Even in primary school.
Thanks brother, this video helped tip the scales more towards the positive in my ongoing journey of self compassion
Your words left a smile on my face even when iI had a terrible day .In my gratitude list today,I will write that I am greatful for your words.
Thank you so much
This is golden 💯‼️🙏🏽❤️
this man is great i like he's enthusiasm
Thanks so Much Kirk!
Perfect timing! Thank you!
Thx for the answers I needed.
Thank you sooo much 💐
i was picked on a lot in school, i was somewhat of an easy target because i was quiet and didn't bother retaliating or even responding because i didn't want to give those kids more fuel. it made me have sort of a negative self perception and now as an adult, i just kind of think that people have a negative first impression of me or that people just don't like me. the dating scene also messes up my self esteem and confidence, i'm not really that successful which makes me think that i'm simply not attractive and when going out with friends to clubs or bars or something, it's kind of reinforced when i look at a girl and she looks back with sort of a disgusted "what are you looking at?" type of expression. in short, being picked on growing up and being sort of a failure with dating are the two biggest reasons i don't think that i'm good enough, because people have already let me know that
Thank you very much
There is no channel on RUclips I have tapped the bell to give me notifications. This one I have. This content is BRILLIANT. (I am SO GREATFUL!!! :D ) I'm going to teach my son this stuff, he's very pessimistic in his attitude and I really want to help him to be happy. Blessings
amazing video. Helped me so much
I am so glad I saw these videos. Thanks. I'm also sharing with some one I care about.
I am grateful I found your channel.
Thank you, Audree. Welcome!
Thank you for noticing
You are the best I feel like your taking me an nobody else just me tks x
Thanks… i needed that.
I REALLY REALLY LOVE THE VIDEO....THE WAY KIRK EXPLAINS HE DESERVES GRATITUDE MORE THEN ALL.
BUT I DONT UNDERSTAND WHY I HAVE THIS NOTION THAT HIS SMILE IS FAKE. MAYBE ITS NOT HIM ITS ME.
I so Agree, Thank you for helping me so practically!
I am feeling so much better already!
I’m doing my list right now. Thank You for this video !!! ❤️
Mam one question for you why I want Kirk don't share this more than us people and Kirk sir also to you
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Thankyou man
I am grateful for many kind act I have done and grateful to my parents who always make and buy delicious food for me and grateful to my hair because I always neglect it and cause it to fall out but nevertheless it looks beautiful and I am grateful to myself when I was a child and my dream was to become a psychiatrist to make everyone happy also I grateful to you and this channel that I found it after such a long time that I was feeling bad about myself... I'll be fine and I'll make it through. This is a promise and I never break my promise💪... Thank you so much
Thanks for the video! I needed to hear this.
I am grateful for your video :)
I need to be told I’m not strange and weird everyday please 😂🙌🏻❤️🥺
you are not strange and weird
You’re amazing, I’ll do that ❤ thank you from Israel 🇮🇱 🙏🏾
Thanks for this video❤️ I am grateful for it👌 now 99 more to go
Thank you I am feeling this today!
😘 Thank you .. I begin 😘
Thank you. Going to try the list
This man is a genius
Excellent as always. I'm helping you build up your watch hours with my addiction to my rise in vibration I feel when I listen and learn from you. Thank you.
I am sooooooooooo glad I clicked on this video
Thank you Kirk, for another amazing video!😁 I'm gonna try to make it to at least a few of your seminars this summer! I really miss the feeling I get when I had gone to them! Also, it was super cool to get a response from you for one of my comments 😁
We'll be thrilled to have you attend! We just posted a live Body Language Show today with a great offer to attend a live event. Hope to see you soon! Here's the link ruclips.net/video/7xaf5ZlSonM/видео.html (the video starts at 20 minutes in)
Thank you for this it helped me soooooo much
Education is so important.
I LOVE YOU!
Hey that was awesome!
It's all about the growth mindset baby!
Kirk duncan your awesome !!
Go for this
thank u sooo much i find this videos of you.. can i hire u in my head?because u help me a lot.. i cant talk to someone because they will just judge me😢
i dont feel loved when i was a child maybe i develop this emotion. i love giving loved to other in return they will loved me back😢
It was literally greatttttt...the last tip was literally best❤
VERY GREAT 👍
I am grateful for this presentation!❤️❤️❤️
So true
I love this man 🥰
Yes
Thank you!!
Our pleasure Brichelle.
This is the third video I’m watching in less than 30 mins and I just found your channel . ❤️ Thing is I’ve been getting these empathetic signs probably 2017 but I’m finally aligning now in 2020.
I always knew in my mind I had a purpose!
I'm grateful for indoor plumbing, hot showers and this channel I just found!♥️👍
Very interesting video. But how does listing the things one is grateful for change the fact of the many past mistakes which torment me non stop?
How do empaths and highly sensitive ppl deal with emotional invalidation? Also how do deal with nonstop talkers.. ppl who go on and on without asking you about you. PLEASE HELP! What is the wording I can use. Love your videos
You accept who they are and dont deal with anyone that makes you feel uncomfortable.
When doing a thorough research , I've found; 99.9 percent of the population spend most of their time thinking about "What other's thinking about " , they all are thinking about the very same issue. So, if we rise above this number, we actually feel better about ourselves. Thus in turn, we are in a better position to be of help to others.
Bravo👍👍👍
great as always thank you very much 🙏🏻❤️
Thank you for watching! We are adding more videos each day, to help you add more value and success to your life.
I make videos, but I always end up deleting them and I hate myself for it.
At the beginning I am going out on a limb here. The answer is in comparing ourselves to others.
*problem
I know if I only focus on what I really want, I will be happy and successful. But I can't. The brain is hard wired to focus on what is wrong.
IRK , YOU explaned it so well that I will show it to my Neath whoom I love very much I wish all the best….( You did it better han Me : ))))
I LOVE YOU
Yes❤👍🌞
Can u write these things down on your phone? 📲
Depressed people pull up
Every day for the past 53 years.
Wish you could be my mentor...
How are you smiling so real at the front of a camera and not a person's eyes? Did you practice this, or you are really very cheerful?
I think that it's because that you worry too much
Such a common thought - Am I good enough? Thanks for sharing this video, very insightful and thought provoking. After talking with a friend who has been struggling this week, I actually just uploaded a video on believing in yourself on my channel - Check it out if you are interested. Remember that you ARE good enough, and you CAN do this, and you WILL get through this. Cheers.
Thanks Lauren
100 a week? Or is it 100 a day for a week? I'm scared 🤣
thank you sooo much
Thank you so much!!!!
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