I quote one of the comments that can explain it better It's about her Confidence. It's not like "People will like me regardless" But "I'll be fine if they don't" So she doesn't really care about what they think or if they will choose her or not
Those are the lies we tell ourselves. There are thousands of beautiful girls that has zero personality, charism or self confidence. So are also girls who are not even “pretty” (through the eyes of society) and has the same attention and success as her. It’s all about how you carry yourself. The world sees you the same way you see yourself. Being mega pretty only works at first 5 min. That show had other beautiful girls too, and none achieved her potential
1. Fortunately everyone has natural beauty and it is up to us how we want to enhance ourselves / what qualities we want to sharpen IN ourselves. Sure, we will need some resources in order to do that but Marilyn Monroe once had a photoshoot in a potato sack because someone said she was only charming for the way she just cloaks herself in lavish dresses. Well, it seems like everyone was charmed with her confidence and self-assurance that day. 2. I can't help but wonder if this second step came from the passive-aggression in a scarcity mindset. You don't need green paper bills to carry class and charm, all you need is to invest in the inner-space of your being until you consider your mind rich with so much wisdom, morals, systems, creation, and memories. Until you consider your heart rich with emotion, love, connection, passion, creativity. Until your body is rich with nutrition and hydration, and hygiene and care.. The paper will follow. The money will follow. But the money has never been the foundation. 3. Who said?
@@raniaa6328 That show had other beautiful girls too and all of them had designer things too, but none of them achieved her success. And you think this is just about beauty and money. She outstanded because she knows how to carry herself. Her mindset, emotional intelligence, sympathy, self esteem and confidence is what made her achieve all this. Also, do you really think that she would ever get this attention if she was rude, arrogant or dumb? Or just imagine her just like this, the same face, but with a poor skin care, hair care, body care, nail care, clothes care, oral hygiene etc ? Imagine if she just woke up and didn’t put any make up, didn’t brush/style her hair, dress some ugly clothes and that’s all. Would she still look pretty to you?
I know boys and girls are all over her mysteric charisma but I just can’t imagine myself with that cause I value honesty and expressiveness. Embrace yourself and whatever makes who you are!
That's actually charisma in itself. Sure, Jia is mysterious, but only because she is authentic so her self-preservation, protection and honesty. That is her grace because it is how she can navigate the world. If we obligate ourselves over the authenticity of our expressiveness, well perhaps that's quite counter-intuitive. Stay true, people.
The first step : being pretty The second step : will not be completed if the first step doesn't exist , this is what social media and these kind of reality shows want ...
Your anger is valid but No, men who have female companions and mature men can see through more than looks this happens mostly after 25 but you have to be expressive to let them find that. This is the reason why most successful men's partner looks like average and still chose her to be her partner even they had a large pool of options.
You are right. Her body language, poise and speech is close to perfection. From the first episode, I think all the men were surprised she could hold her own in the kitchen. I also noticed her ear rings, handbag and Gucci accessories. She switched ear rings like daily on the show.
I wonder who taught Jia this or where did she learned it from or has she always embodied all of this gracefulness. I know her family background would be a big contribution as well, bc let’s be real, not all of us were allowed to grow up with this kind of feminine energy. The environment and family plays a role, but then again, we can always learn. My question is then back to how or where or who did she learn it from? Because this is all a lot of remember bc social constructs are complex.
Could be a combination of traits and mannerisms that she picked up from other people. When you interact with different people, you tend to adopt some of the things they do that you find interesting or mesmerizing.
She majored in Korean dance so has the gracefulness of a dancer. She is also beautiful so has men fawning over her leading her to build that confidence. There's something about her too, she's a master at being around men.
My mother drilled this behavior into me starting from a young age. She admitted that when she was pregnant with me, she had expectations of what I should look like and how I should act. She is very happy that I turned out how she wanted me to be. Growing up, I was really annoyed with how controlling my mom was in how I look and behave. Even in adulthood, I feel restricted but I cannot deny that I have never had trouble in the dating department.
I’m sorry for that. There are more important things than men and dating, you shouldn’t have to be obliged to act a certain way to please man. Be yourself and the right man will love you just the way you are ❤
@@GH-fb9dh Thank you for your words. I actually have a great partner now and we definitely show a more free and less elegant side to each other. I have definitely broken a few of my mom’s rules to attract him!
@@babypearl "I have definitely broken a few of my mom’s rules to attract him!" This is so liberating to read. Thank you for sharing a bit of your story
Let me get real , the only reason people are obsessed with her is cause she is pretty. Her personality is nothing out of the ordinary or highly feminine or even charming.
you'r either jealous or an incel because there is no way that you saw singles inferno ... every women on that show is very pretty but the personalities are different and the way they interact is also different??
@@yaymilko even Jia was the prettiest among them 💀you nibbas seriously aren't going to admit pretty privilege and halo effect are primarily at play here not some feminine energy crapp. if one were average or below average and acted like Jia, they would not be called "magnetic" or sum sht probably be called a diva or something like that they would not have gotten everyone's attention. Sorry but it is what is
Watching her on the show was such a delight. As a woman, I’m not really the mysterious type, but she made me get the appeal. I just love how she carries herself
Great analysis, however I have never even watched the show but I'm still mesmerized by her character. Which is also valid for a lot of her followers. So in my opinion it's primarily her pretty face, skinny body and the way she carries herself, BUT majority of it is just her physical attractiveness.
yeah i feel like its the halo effect where since shes so stunning, people gravitate towards her and shes gotten this calm and cool attitude. i do wonder if she wasnt as stunning (i hate rating people's attractiveness but our world is just superficial), like if she was slightly pretty by societal standards and had the same attitude, would that attract the same guys and people be amazed by her charisma? i feel like not but idk
@@Givebackthescarf I was just wondering, isn't this the girl who lied about her life and done herself in fake stuff. Ha, so she wasn't canceled? Must be nice being pretty...
The other girls on the show were also extremely pretty but they didn't give the same effect that Gia had. Gia carries herself with confidence and poise and really rested in her feminine energy.
@@zainabreads4382yeah, i feel like if someone who has “less” pretty physical qualities carried theirselves the same way she carries herself, people would probably just say that that person is full of themselves. Yes, Jia has a lot of feminine essence and qualities, but its really her looks that really solidifies the vibe :/
I think people were attracted to her because she's the literal embodiment of Asian beauty standards. Pretty face, long straight hair, fair skin, and teeny tiny fragile-looking body. Also, personality wise, she's demure, non-dominant, and knows how to flirt. These are all text book Asian Ideal Woman criterias. I'm pretty sure she wouldn't be as popular in an american TV show where people might value more of health and personality.
She has a very good and strong personality though. Don't know about health cuz celebs always lie about their health (be it Asian or Western celebs) She's very satisfied and confident with herself but yeah she won't stand out against bold personalities that are present in Western media
That can’t be the only reason since everyone on this show was considered attractive. One of the girls, I think her name is jiyeon, has the type of look that men prefer and was constantly complimented, but she wasn’t as memorable as Jia since her personality and aura is different. Still cute tho 💕
@@thevoidness1541Jiyeon was actually the one praised for her looks and pale skin. All the men said Jia was unapproachable until they spoke to her and got to see her personality
@@saltandlight93i disagree bc she has quiet confidence. If you put her in a show with Americans who are more out there, she’d be seen as more reserved and it wouldn’t work. It works bc she’s in an environment where ppl are intensely shy and tend to be the same. If you put her in a U.S. or uk dating show, it wouldn’t work as well.
Welll in today's era... " Being feminine takes so much confidence" as it eludes confidence and high self esteem and not caring bout people's opinions....It's brave
I knew a girl like Jia in my school, many of the guys liked her. Her mannerisms were very similar to Jia's, even her facial features were similar come to think of it. It's creepy how similar they were. I was like this shy quiet nerd who said and did weird things and she was like this calm confident quiet-yet-magnetic presence in class. But I don't actually mind who I am now, I know that some of my traits are definitely not like Jia's because I'm much more outspoken and quirky and often I like leaving the house with messy hair and no makeup. But that also led me to become a lawyer whereas Jia and people like her are content creators. So I love myself now and I know that this will attract the right people to me instead of being someone I'm not, even if Jia is more feminine 😀
Great breakdown! I love how you emphasised on her feminine body language! I have noticed that a lot when editing her videos. She also seems relaxed and takes her time even when speaking... Her voice is very soft too!
Same. She's cute but doesn’t have the WoW factor. Her strong points are that she's always well put together and mysterious. That's about it. That will obviously take you further than being "pretty". Most pretty girls lose at life, I'm not sure most people are aware of this.
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Good for all the elegant girlies out there. I couldn't do that because my enviromment conditions won't let me so I had to adopt others ways to behave. I just wish more content talking about other femenine approaches and not just the princess one.
such a great analyse of Jia’s behaviour and mindset . Thank you so much you helped understand her much better to actually apply and have her mindset . In a world full of masculine women , women who doesn’t know their worth and value a role model like Jia gives me so much hope .
there's nothing wrong with being a masculine woman and that doesn't mean they dont know their worth. Puling down other women isn't very feminine of you.
As a "masculine" woman with no intent to change I know my worth and appreciate different type of women (and people) for what they bring. If we were all the same, we'd be boring. You can appreciate Jia without having to speak on other people. I like Jia but I appreciate my unique self too.
Many “feminine” women don’t know their worth either and there’s nothing wrong with being “masculine.” Y’all would not like to be shamed for being feminine so there’s no reason to shame those who aren’t.
Guys come down! Jia is an introvert,obviously she will be calm, quite, not to expressive, make others work for her attention etc.but what made her so stand out is her self love and confidence. She know who she is, she value herself without making others feel not important. She placed herself in high position and not looking at others with low gaze.so please don't try to be like her.Be the best version of yourself.
@@cookiejarrrrhow was she a pick me?😭people only say that bc they don’t like her… there was not a single scene of her putting down other women for male validation
She is absolutely stunning and has such a regal vibe. I want to take on her confidence and kindness. I think she is genuinely a good person. However for me, I couldn't take on most of what she does. My gender identity and attraction is far different and more "fluid" (as you say) than her and since my identity is really important to me, letting go of it would be letting go of me. If there is a way as a person under the nonbinary umbrella and on the queer aroace spectrum to exude the same energy as her, I would love to know. Feminine energy is still very important to me as I was raised with femininity but I do want to learn to balance Feminine, Masculine, and Androgyne energy.
To be honest I didn't really like her..but I was happy with her choice at the end of the show, that way she gained some point for me. Thanks for the video tho!
No but why are the majority of the comments are like "she's just pretty that's why blah blah" lol there are so many gorgeous gorgeous beautiful girls but they don't have that magnetism in themselves for eg - Katherine Langford, she's literally the most beautiful face in the world I have ever seen (personally) but she doesn't have that magnetic thing about herself her presence doesn't seem loud uk what I am trying to say but on the other hand monica Bellucci literally the most beautiful women ever but she is also extremely magnetic her aura her presence is so powerful .... ( I hope y'all get what I mean lol)
Jia is born with innate energy that makes men and people want her. We want her because she's energetically on a different level, healthy feminine energy, we want to be on the same energetic level as herself Also Jia loves herself so much. She knows herself so much and is genuinely happy being alone. She sees the guys and she knows there isn't a guy that matches her type, that's why she doesn't reveal anything about her because she doesn't want them. If she doesn't want them, she could just go along, make the conversation, validating the men, entertaining the men of their pursuit like the men can try to win her over, it's coming from an ego boost to win over a woman like Jia who's honestly energetically on a different level
which allure? She lives in a country where a certain appearance is valued: plastic surgeries, extremely light skin, extreme thinness, silicone chest with a straight "Chopstick body", so it's not hard to understand In most western countries, she would have first corrected her eyes
Yeah I don’t find Jia pretty. Her eyes seems seriously crosseyed and her face is too wide. She just fits korean beauty standards, but western not at all. Her eyes seriously scares me.
hi can you make a video about the character of a nano from the girl from nowhere series? she has a charisma and a strong aura, and I would like to hear your talk about her
I think is so cool do these things, because it pulls up woman confidence and make her feel beautiful. However, be in this persona for a long time should be really tough. As time goes by, you believe that you shouldn't open up to people and that you should always maintain a beautiful and controlled posture to be appreciated. This can be very harmful in the long term.
After I rewatch the show ,prolly 4 times I ve noticed , no one and I mean none of the men cared about anything other than jias beauty . They don't ask her likes , dislikes, idea , feelings .. all of the conversation are fun , flirty but never deep . Unlike season 2 and 3 most popular girl had their match with guys that truly shared their expectations and future plans like jinyoungxsulki and season 3 ganheex beauty with short hair ( forgot her name ) . So jia met them with the same energy flirty but never attached herself to any she could see right through their shallow facade
She wasn't the girl who was called antiphatich and wore copy clothes, and has a fame obssesion?? Idk about her history but Ive watched some titles on RUclips that she was into a scandal. Wasn't her? So this scandal happened after or before the show or, what happened?? I love her aura, but this is the impression I have on her. What happened? Someone can clear me, please? Wasn't her or Im confussing her?
only 8-9 items from her 500 items were fake, rest are authentic luxury brands. also wearing fake stuff is no big deal as people make it out to be, they were just jealous of how pretty and confident song jia was and they needed a reason to hate her.
this comes more from the exploration of your inner world, your visions, your deep feelings, your self exploration, when you analyze and realise all this and it's influence on the outer world, you see the answers ❤️
I’ll be real the allure with Gia to these men is she’s attractive and knows she’s attractive. However amazing she really is, these guys aren’t picking up on that. She’s a challenge to them. Also she’s the one who most looked like maybe an idol so with men they’ll go after the girl everyone wants to make themselves feel like they’ve “won”.
Yeah. It's literally all just the good ol' pretty privilege and halo effect not some "feminine energy" crap. 💀 Man the internet really is freakin' weird.
Jia is bomb re tactics but I do think jiyeon is worth analyzing she didn't get any postcards in the beginning ans in two episodes later she was getting picked by all...I am only aT S1 E3 but still..she is often described as pure innocence they need to protect her and that she is smart yet unassuming
@@pinkeyed Even she was prettier than all of the girls. She's different, for what? Acting like a diva around guys and being reserved? It's pretty privilege and halo effect. You won't even give her attention if she were average in looks. Get over it. 💀
People underestimate the power of mistery and patience. I lose all my interest in someone if they just go all out on the first date. And people nowadays feel the need to do so as a way to affirm themselves. The first few months of a get-to-know someone is just so exciting if you go slowly and leave some things to the imagination and eagerness.
Ariana Grande is way prettier and has actual talent. Jia is more like Kim Kardashian who are just famous for being rich or acting rich. As Jia is not actually rich and used fake stuff.
It's funny because what seemed to charmed most of the people is what I thought were off putting about her lol. I really didn't like how unattainable she seemed especially considering the context of a dating show where you should be open to be vulnerable to the people around you. Her demure side felt faked or forced at some point because it didn't match how she appear at other times. She is really popular so maybe it's just a me problem that I don't understand her. In general I have hard time with cold and mysterious looking individuals anyway but I do understand it's a type lots of people like. The male contestants even mentioned they have interest in girls who doesn't seem interested in them so I guess it's part of the allure but because she kept that facade throughout the show I felt like we didn't see much of her inner self. So these types of personalities even if the seems interesting on paper I think they are difficult to relate to. And even with the man she ended up with I was wondering what connected them together other than the physical attraction
Yes pretty, but women should be whatever they wanna be, the more this stereotypical femininity is praised the more pressure more women will get to be clones of this style.
women can be whatever they want. Some ppl want to ooze feminine energy that aligns with more traditional roles which is why the creator made the video. It’s a way for people who are interested to apply certain techniques to themselves. No one is being forced to do this.
@Lemonade-up9br Stereotypes become stereotypes when something is naturally predominant. certain characteristics that are common between men and women are natural because of the hormonal make up, increasing the propensity of being drawn to certain behaviors and interests. It’s natural and we’re all individuals at the end of the day. But we have to be honest and admit stereotypes didn’t come from nowhere. *They shouldn’t be enforced*, but to say it’s unnatural is very naïve and comes from social programming. Some men and women are finding life to be easier when they don’t fight and live against their “natural” ways.
What's the point of your video taking this show as an example for feminity? I heard that the guy she chose dumped her just because she used fake designer wear. Which shows he dated her only because he thought she was rich. If he was really attracted to her for her feminine nature, he would be cherishing her till today but no he didn't love her because she was feminine but he felt attracted only because of her outer appearance.
All is true, but the fact that it was made public that everything about her was fake (which was a mini scandal) makes me question if she is really like this or just had a massive secret that made her attractive...
@@SJDT97 ooh didn’t know about the insta post😭😭. Idk i from the Netherlands and here is not such a big deal. Except if you lie about it, but people don’t get angry with you.
It might not even be a skill problem. Some people are incompatible or life gets in the way and might not have had time for a relationship at that point in time
I was loooking for this!! No one seemed to notice. Good to know that the wonky eye can be hidden with all the other stuff she does. She really does focus on her strength!!
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honestly she loves herself so much and like who wouldnt 😭 shes such a great role model and she knows what she possesses through herself its so amazing
I quote one of the comments that can explain it better
It's about her Confidence. It's not like "People will like me regardless" But "I'll be fine if they don't" So she doesn't really care about what they think or if they will choose her or not
1st step : be super Mega pretty
2nd step : be rich
3rd step : the 2 previous steps are essential
Those are the lies we tell ourselves. There are thousands of beautiful girls that has zero personality, charism or self confidence. So are also girls who are not even “pretty” (through the eyes of society) and has the same attention and success as her. It’s all about how you carry yourself. The world sees you the same way you see yourself. Being mega pretty only works at first 5 min. That show had other beautiful girls too, and none achieved her potential
Everyone is pretty and has a certain beauty to them, we all have potential so try to show it!
1. Fortunately everyone has natural beauty and it is up to us how we want to enhance ourselves / what qualities we want to sharpen IN ourselves. Sure, we will need some resources in order to do that but Marilyn Monroe once had a photoshoot in a potato sack because someone said she was only charming for the way she just cloaks herself in lavish dresses. Well, it seems like everyone was charmed with her confidence and self-assurance that day.
2. I can't help but wonder if this second step came from the passive-aggression in a scarcity mindset. You don't need green paper bills to carry class and charm, all you need is to invest in the inner-space of your being until you consider your mind rich with so much wisdom, morals, systems, creation, and memories. Until you consider your heart rich with emotion, love, connection, passion, creativity. Until your body is rich with nutrition and hydration, and hygiene and care.. The paper will follow. The money will follow. But the money has never been the foundation.
3. Who said?
@@raniaa6328 That show had other beautiful girls too and all of them had designer things too, but none of them achieved her success. And you think this is just about beauty and money. She outstanded because she knows how to carry herself. Her mindset, emotional intelligence, sympathy, self esteem and confidence is what made her achieve all this. Also, do you really think that she would ever get this attention if she was rude, arrogant or dumb? Or just imagine her just like this, the same face, but with a poor skin care, hair care, body care, nail care, clothes care, oral hygiene etc ? Imagine if she just woke up and didn’t put any make up, didn’t brush/style her hair, dress some ugly clothes and that’s all. Would she still look pretty to you?
She is not rich! She was involved in a scandal for wearing replicas of famous brands. But she made it look very good right? :)
I know boys and girls are all over her mysteric charisma but I just can’t imagine myself with that cause I value honesty and expressiveness. Embrace yourself and whatever makes who you are!
yeah i feel the same , i am soo expressive and life of a party so its hard for me to be like the cool nd calm personality
True 👌🏻
I like someone that expressive because i'm the opposite of it ..
That's actually charisma in itself. Sure, Jia is mysterious, but only because she is authentic so her self-preservation, protection and honesty. That is her grace because it is how she can navigate the world. If we obligate ourselves over the authenticity of our expressiveness, well perhaps that's quite counter-intuitive. Stay true, people.
I love myself. I am an extremely beautiful soul.. I love myself to death. I love myself a lifetime
The first step : being pretty
The second step : will not be completed if the first step doesn't exist , this is what social media and these kind of reality shows want ...
Thank you
Finally someone being honest
Your anger is valid but No, men who have female companions and mature men can see through more than looks this happens mostly after 25 but you have to be expressive to let them find that.
This is the reason why most successful men's partner looks like average and still chose her to be her partner even they had a large pool of options.
@@srikrishnavasanth3895 no they still have to be pretty enough-_- without that you wouldnt have a chance to"prove yourself"
Nobody wants to admit that pretty privilege and halo effect is essential here 😂 stop lying ppl
what i love about her is that she's able to do all of this while never putting down other women in the process.
@bekhedda9090I love how you worded this
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SO. SO REAL!!!
Exactly. She’s a true Queen
Exactlyyyyy
You are right. Her body language, poise and speech is close to perfection.
From the first episode, I think all the men were surprised she could hold her own in the kitchen.
I also noticed her ear rings, handbag and Gucci accessories. She switched ear rings like daily on the show.
But sadly it's fake where she bashed
@@kimmanreofficial only couple out of hundred items were fake. Proved by dispatch.
I wonder who taught Jia this or where did she learned it from or has she always embodied all of this gracefulness. I know her family background would be a big contribution as well, bc let’s be real, not all of us were allowed to grow up with this kind of feminine energy. The environment and family plays a role, but then again, we can always learn. My question is then back to how or where or who did she learn it from? Because this is all a lot of remember bc social constructs are complex.
shes an insecure person and doesn't want people to hate her. That's why she's built another persona
She said in a old video her parents mainly her mom raised her that way pretty much so she’s had the same mindset since she was young
this is such a weird take @@dawn3589
Could be a combination of traits and mannerisms that she picked up from other people. When you interact with different people, you tend to adopt some of the things they do that you find interesting or mesmerizing.
She majored in Korean dance so has the gracefulness of a dancer. She is also beautiful so has men fawning over her leading her to build that confidence. There's something about her too, she's a master at being around men.
My mother drilled this behavior into me starting from a young age. She admitted that when she was pregnant with me, she had expectations of what I should look like and how I should act. She is very happy that I turned out how she wanted me to be. Growing up, I was really annoyed with how controlling my mom was in how I look and behave. Even in adulthood, I feel restricted but I cannot deny that I have never had trouble in the dating department.
No matter how much you perform femininity, cater to them, grovel, etc. you are always on thin ice with men
I’m sorry for that. There are more important things than men and dating, you shouldn’t have to be obliged to act a certain way to please man. Be yourself and the right man will love you just the way you are ❤
@@GH-fb9dh Thank you for your words. I actually have a great partner now and we definitely show a more free and less elegant side to each other. I have definitely broken a few of my mom’s rules to attract him!
@@babypearl "I have definitely broken a few of my mom’s rules to attract him!" This is so liberating to read. Thank you for sharing a bit of your story
what were some of the things she wanted you to do or act...i want to implement
Let me get real , the only reason people are obsessed with her is cause she is pretty.
Her personality is nothing out of the ordinary or highly feminine or even charming.
but that doesn't make any sense bc the other girls in the show are pretty as well
you'r either jealous or an incel because there is no way that you saw singles inferno ... every women on that show is very pretty but the personalities are different and the way they interact is also different??
@@lisasteiner4699 is that personality here in the room with us? 💀
@@jomyvu it was in the room with us and it still is
@@yaymilko even Jia was the prettiest among them 💀you nibbas seriously aren't going to admit pretty privilege and halo effect are primarily at play here not some feminine energy crapp. if one were average or below average and acted like Jia, they would not be called "magnetic" or sum sht probably be called a diva or something like that they would not have gotten everyone's attention. Sorry but it is what is
Watching her on the show was such a delight. As a woman, I’m not really the mysterious type, but she made me get the appeal. I just love how she carries herself
Great analysis, however I have never even watched the show but I'm still mesmerized by her character. Which is also valid for a lot of her followers. So in my opinion it's primarily her pretty face, skinny body and the way she carries herself, BUT majority of it is just her physical attractiveness.
yeah i feel like its the halo effect where since shes so stunning, people gravitate towards her and shes gotten this calm and cool attitude.
i do wonder if she wasnt as stunning (i hate rating people's attractiveness but our world is just superficial), like if she was slightly pretty by societal standards and had the same attitude, would that attract the same guys and people be amazed by her charisma?
i feel like not but idk
@@zainabreads4382 without that face no one would have given her attention , its all about being pretty
@@Givebackthescarf I was just wondering, isn't this the girl who lied about her life and done herself in fake stuff. Ha, so she wasn't canceled? Must be nice being pretty...
The other girls on the show were also extremely pretty but they didn't give the same effect that Gia had. Gia carries herself with confidence and poise and really rested in her feminine energy.
@@zainabreads4382yeah, i feel like if someone who has “less” pretty physical qualities carried theirselves the same way she carries herself, people would probably just say that that person is full of themselves. Yes, Jia has a lot of feminine essence and qualities, but its really her looks that really solidifies the vibe :/
I think people were attracted to her because she's the literal embodiment of Asian beauty standards. Pretty face, long straight hair, fair skin, and teeny tiny fragile-looking body. Also, personality wise, she's demure, non-dominant, and knows how to flirt. These are all text book Asian Ideal Woman criterias. I'm pretty sure she wouldn't be as popular in an american TV show where people might value more of health and personality.
She has a very good and strong personality though. Don't know about health cuz celebs always lie about their health (be it Asian or Western celebs)
She's very satisfied and confident with herself but yeah she won't stand out against bold personalities that are present in Western media
That can’t be the only reason since everyone on this show was considered attractive. One of the girls, I think her name is jiyeon, has the type of look that men prefer and was constantly complimented, but she wasn’t as memorable as Jia since her personality and aura is different. Still cute tho 💕
Americans will surprise you. They're actually not that easy to box in and she's attractive and flirtatious.
@@thevoidness1541Jiyeon was actually the one praised for her looks and pale skin. All the men said Jia was unapproachable until they spoke to her and got to see her personality
@@saltandlight93i disagree bc she has quiet confidence. If you put her in a show with Americans who are more out there, she’d be seen as more reserved and it wouldn’t work. It works bc she’s in an environment where ppl are intensely shy and tend to be the same. If you put her in a U.S. or uk dating show, it wouldn’t work as well.
Welll in today's era... " Being feminine takes so much confidence" as it eludes confidence and high self esteem and not caring bout people's opinions....It's brave
I knew a girl like Jia in my school, many of the guys liked her. Her mannerisms were very similar to Jia's, even her facial features were similar come to think of it. It's creepy how similar they were.
I was like this shy quiet nerd who said and did weird things and she was like this calm confident quiet-yet-magnetic presence in class. But I don't actually mind who I am now, I know that some of my traits are definitely not like Jia's because I'm much more outspoken and quirky and often I like leaving the house with messy hair and no makeup. But that also led me to become a lawyer whereas Jia and people like her are content creators. So I love myself now and I know that this will attract the right people to me instead of being someone I'm not, even if Jia is more feminine 😀
Well said girlie, and i'm so proud of you! Hope yoyr find someone who loves you for you and your uniqueness!
@@theprettygoodgatsby thank you so much 😇 I think I did
@@diyab1056 hey congratulations!! I'm rooting for u girlie!!💕
@@theprettygoodgatsby thank you! 😍
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I really love her so much and I’m so happy Jia decided to come back to the spotlight
Absolutely love your channel AND Ji-a, so thankful you did a video on her.
i love jiaaa shes so confident and is helping other women❤️❤️
i want to be that someone who's every youtuber's main topic that analyzes or studies from my very demeanour to my body language.
Yeah girl same😅
Great breakdown!
I love how you emphasised on her feminine body language!
I have noticed that a lot when editing her videos. She also seems relaxed and takes her time even when speaking... Her voice is very soft too!
I feel like it's not only her appearance. it's her mannerism and the way she carried herself that makes her attractive ...
I never find her attractive but I learn a lot from videos that analyze her!
Same. She's cute but doesn’t have the WoW factor. Her strong points are that she's always well put together and mysterious. That's about it. That will obviously take you further than being "pretty". Most pretty girls lose at life, I'm not sure most people are aware of this.
this is actually a very good video. Far better of what one finds on youtube on the topic of femininity.
God Bless you kingdom sister 🌸 when you read Proverbs and put so much joy and peace over me! I was praying for you, and then I realized you’re in Gods hands already. subscribed!
its literally because she is gorgeous
Jia knew how to play the game. Her and Jiyeon knew what to do to charm people
Good for all the elegant girlies out there. I couldn't do that because my enviromment conditions won't let me so I had to adopt others ways to behave. I just wish more content talking about other femenine approaches and not just the princess one.
I’ve never heard of her but she is captivating. Thank u for highlighting this beauty.🌸
such a great analyse of Jia’s behaviour and mindset . Thank you so much you helped understand her much better to actually apply and have her mindset . In a world full of masculine women , women who doesn’t know their worth and value a role model like Jia gives me so much hope .
there's nothing wrong with being a masculine woman and that doesn't mean they dont know their worth. Puling down other women isn't very feminine of you.
no need to bring down masculine women
As a "masculine" woman with no intent to change I know my worth and appreciate different type of women (and people) for what they bring. If we were all the same, we'd be boring. You can appreciate Jia without having to speak on other people. I like Jia but I appreciate my unique self too.
Many “feminine” women don’t know their worth either and there’s nothing wrong with being “masculine.” Y’all would not like to be shamed for being feminine so there’s no reason to shame those who aren’t.
"masculine women"? that term is a paradoxon
"Beauty without confidence Is a easy target for jealous women & lustful men."
She has both beauty & confidence.
she's so soft and delicate
Guys come down! Jia is an introvert,obviously she will be calm, quite, not to expressive, make others work for her attention etc.but what made her so stand out is her self love and confidence. She know who she is, she value herself without making others feel not important. She placed herself in high position and not looking at others with low gaze.so please don't try to be like her.Be the best version of yourself.
I love this analysis !! Please explore more feminine icons.
Thanks again
some of the comments did not pass the vibe check
ikr
Please make a video about Season 2’s, Shin Seul-ki. She had the men mesmerized as well.
tbh she kinda pissed me off 😭 I much preferred soeun
nah she a pick me
@cookiejarrrr how?
@@cookiejarrrrhow was she a pick me?😭people only say that bc they don’t like her… there was not a single scene of her putting down other women for male validation
She is absolutely stunning and has such a regal vibe. I want to take on her confidence and kindness. I think she is genuinely a good person.
However for me, I couldn't take on most of what she does. My gender identity and attraction is far different and more "fluid" (as you say) than her and since my identity is really important to me, letting go of it would be letting go of me. If there is a way as a person under the nonbinary umbrella and on the queer aroace spectrum to exude the same energy as her, I would love to know. Feminine energy is still very important to me as I was raised with femininity but I do want to learn to balance Feminine, Masculine, and Androgyne energy.
Yay song jia!!! 💗💗💗
She look like an anime character that’s why she’s so unique.
Proverbs 31 is wonderful guide to reach to reach a beautiful goal.
The makeup artist ate. I need a tutorial
This
To be honest I didn't really like her..but I was happy with her choice at the end of the show, that way she gained some point for me. Thanks for the video tho!
No but why are the majority of the comments are like "she's just pretty that's why blah blah" lol there are so many gorgeous gorgeous beautiful girls but they don't have that magnetism in themselves for eg - Katherine Langford, she's literally the most beautiful face in the world I have ever seen (personally) but she doesn't have that magnetic thing about herself her presence doesn't seem loud uk what I am trying to say but on the other hand monica Bellucci literally the most beautiful women ever but she is also extremely magnetic her aura her presence is so powerful .... ( I hope y'all get what I mean lol)
She so pretty ❤️
love her huhu
I love how you added a bible verse ❤
Ikr !!
That’s what I was gonna say! 💕💕
Me to
The moment I saw it I squealed 💜. I’m so glad I found this channel. I really really want to be feminine enough before going into the university
Yes!
Jia is born with innate energy that makes men and people want her. We want her because she's energetically on a different level, healthy feminine energy, we want to be on the same energetic level as herself
Also Jia loves herself so much. She knows herself so much and is genuinely happy being alone. She sees the guys and she knows there isn't a guy that matches her type, that's why she doesn't reveal anything about her because she doesn't want them. If she doesn't want them, she could just go along, make the conversation, validating the men, entertaining the men of their pursuit like the men can try to win her over, it's coming from an ego boost to win over a woman like Jia who's honestly energetically on a different level
Jia is girl crush , but Seulki is real and natural feminity that attract men.
which allure? She lives in a country where a certain appearance is valued: plastic surgeries, extremely light skin, extreme thinness, silicone chest with a straight "Chopstick body", so it's not hard to understand
In most western countries, she would have first corrected her eyes
Westerners would despise her lol
Yeah I don’t find Jia pretty. Her eyes seems seriously crosseyed and her face is too wide. She just fits korean beauty standards, but western not at all. Her eyes seriously scares me.
@@vixxexo6855 exactly. She also got tons of plastic surgery and it shows
@@ClaireEmiliashe only got her nose done🤭
@@ClaireEmiliainsecureeeee
hi can you make a video about the character of a nano from the girl from nowhere series? she has a charisma and a strong aura, and I would like to hear your talk about her
But thinking about it that mystery will end one day when u’ll have a partner how are u gonna deal with that
I love the scripture quote you added 🎀
I think is so cool do these things, because it pulls up woman confidence and make her feel beautiful.
However, be in this persona for a long time should be really tough.
As time goes by, you believe that you shouldn't open up to people and that you should always maintain a beautiful and controlled posture to be appreciated.
This can be very harmful in the long term.
Wow I wish I could be more like her
After I rewatch the show ,prolly 4 times I ve noticed , no one and I mean none of the men cared about anything other than jias beauty . They don't ask her likes , dislikes, idea , feelings .. all of the conversation are fun , flirty but never deep . Unlike season 2 and 3 most popular girl had their match with guys that truly shared their expectations and future plans like jinyoungxsulki and season 3 ganheex beauty with short hair ( forgot her name ) . So jia met them with the same energy flirty but never attached herself to any she could see right through their shallow facade
She wasn't the girl who was called antiphatich and wore copy clothes, and has a fame obssesion??
Idk about her history but Ive watched some titles on RUclips that she was into a scandal. Wasn't her?
So this scandal happened after or before the show or, what happened?? I love her aura, but this is the impression I have on her. What happened? Someone can clear me, please? Wasn't her or Im confussing her?
only 8-9 items from her 500 items were fake, rest are authentic luxury brands. also wearing fake stuff is no big deal as people make it out to be, they were just jealous of how pretty and confident song jia was and they needed a reason to hate her.
First be be beautiful 💕
Please recommend books to enter this kind of energy and mystery with calm along with it
this comes more from the exploration of your inner world, your visions, your deep feelings, your self exploration, when you analyze and realise all this and it's influence on the outer world, you see the answers ❤️
she is blessed with a beautiful bodytype and cute face thats it, nothing else
I think every woman in singles inferno is blessed with those features, but not everyone pulled like her
@@mayuhmetal because she acted like she is a diva with all those branded bags , and she was way more pretty from most of them
@@GivebackthescarfThat was already debunked. Only 8 or 20 items over 500 were proven to be fake so it's not a fake persona. Get over it
She takes care of herself and does a diet. She's also extremely feminine.
I’ll be real the allure with Gia to these men is she’s attractive and knows she’s attractive. However amazing she really is, these guys aren’t picking up on that. She’s a challenge to them. Also she’s the one who most looked like maybe an idol so with men they’ll go after the girl everyone wants to make themselves feel like they’ve “won”.
Exactly. She feels like money and they want to buy money 😂
You are all obsessed with her and making assumptions on your own. Internet is a wierd thing
Yeah. It's literally all just the good ol' pretty privilege and halo effect not some "feminine energy" crap. 💀 Man the internet really is freakin' weird.
So basically being yourself is feminine
she is my inspiration
i only have like the first 2 😭
Jia is bomb re tactics but I do think jiyeon is worth analyzing she didn't get any postcards in the beginning ans in two episodes later she was getting picked by all...I am only aT S1 E3 but still..she is often described as pure innocence they need to protect her and that she is smart yet unassuming
Clicked to make a Jiafei comment.
Strange how the people who love her are the same people who hated on her a couple years back. It's so weird
i love this accent
LOL no its just that in Korea, they like and are into a certain type of women who is more childish like oppa type.
☠️☠️☠️☠️🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣oppa type lol
almost got a seizure reading this
@@luxkzee its a youtube comment, not university essay.
Oppa means older brother, you probably meant to say Dongsaeng
Thank you for the video 🌺
Are you from South Africa?
Are you South African? Just curious 😄
i seemed to recognise the south african accent too haha !
I thought so too!!!!!!
Lol I asked myself the same thing,that accent was too familiar
Can I know the show name?
Singles inferno
I feel like this analysis would be much more insightful if the woman was average looking
Her gorgous looks already puts her at a huge advantage
im legit the opposite of her, i wish i could be like that
don't! You will attract only the wrong kind of men. Be open-minded, be yourself, be kind and don't hide your true self!
@@ClaireEmilia tysm this meant a lot
Who is she btw?
Nice
love the bible verse
Step one: be pretty😢
Don't know why Jia reminds me of JENNIE
sameee
Wonyoung for me,jennie avg with expensive clothes and make up, like imma be honest,jennie is amazing as an idol
@@wonyoung.97 I agree especially at 0:32 that’s Wonyoung right there
lol bs! you should be pretty first. it’s literally called pretty privilege
Stop no it’s not
nahh so many girls are pretty, but not all of them do it like jia. she's rlly different, get over it.
@@pinkeyed Even she was prettier than all of the girls. She's different, for what? Acting like a diva around guys and being reserved? It's pretty privilege and halo effect. You won't even give her attention if she were average in looks. Get over it. 💀
People underestimate the power of mistery and patience. I lose all my interest in someone if they just go all out on the first date. And people nowadays feel the need to do so as a way to affirm themselves. The first few months of a get-to-know someone is just so exciting if you go slowly and leave some things to the imagination and eagerness.
Jia's going to be like: wth who's revealing out these details 😂
first you neeed a face like jia to be magnetic and irresistible
No you don’t stop hateing
@@MalailaHarrison-wp2qu dude i am complimenting her face , how this even hate are you some 10 year old who think having a different opinion is hate?
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Like a manipulator 😅 this is how you get them girl
I think this is what ariana grande trying to look and act now 😅
she could never tho
Ariana Grande is way prettier and has actual talent. Jia is more like Kim Kardashian who are just famous for being rich or acting rich. As Jia is not actually rich and used fake stuff.
@@vixxexo6855 no she isn’t
@@Mishel813 Jia is crosseyed and has too flat face that is wide. I don’t see any beauty in Jia honestly, her eyes creep me out.
@@vixxexo6855 and even though she looks “cross eyed” she’s still able to pull these men😂
It's funny because what seemed to charmed most of the people is what I thought were off putting about her lol. I really didn't like how unattainable she seemed especially considering the context of a dating show where you should be open to be vulnerable to the people around you. Her demure side felt faked or forced at some point because it didn't match how she appear at other times. She is really popular so maybe it's just a me problem that I don't understand her. In general I have hard time with cold and mysterious looking individuals anyway but I do understand it's a type lots of people like. The male contestants even mentioned they have interest in girls who doesn't seem interested in them so I guess it's part of the allure but because she kept that facade throughout the show I felt like we didn't see much of her inner self. So these types of personalities even if the seems interesting on paper I think they are difficult to relate to. And even with the man she ended up with I was wondering what connected them together other than the physical attraction
These videos and the ebooks I’ve been reading have literally changed me I feel like the only woman on earth sometimes lolol
hey can you please recommend me a few ebooks?
Which books? Help us sis ❤
Yess recommend the books
Is this her real personality or one of her role for a sitcom? If it's a role, then there's a chance she's not like that in real life. Lol.
I remember Ariana grande
Yes pretty, but women should be whatever they wanna be, the more this stereotypical femininity is praised the more pressure more women will get to be clones of this style.
True 👍
And there are some women who want to be and already are this “stereotypical feminine woman” nothing wrong with that at all
women can be whatever they want. Some ppl want to ooze feminine energy that aligns with more traditional roles which is why the creator made the video. It’s a way for people who are interested to apply certain techniques to themselves. No one is being forced to do this.
@Lemonade-up9br Stereotypes become stereotypes when something is naturally predominant. certain characteristics that are common between men and women are natural because of the hormonal make up, increasing the propensity of being drawn to certain behaviors and interests. It’s natural and we’re all individuals at the end of the day. But we have to be honest and admit stereotypes didn’t come from nowhere. *They shouldn’t be enforced*, but to say it’s unnatural is very naïve and comes from social programming. Some men and women are finding life to be easier when they don’t fight and live against their “natural” ways.
I hope there are more clones of this type. There are too many masculine women these days. Even as a woman I feel uncomfortable.
Какая тайна? 🤣 Она просто красивая и немного глупая, вот почему она нравится мужчинам
how is she stupid?
you sound jealous🤭
This is so funny cuz my boyfriend hates her I think shes a girls girl i love her
What's the point of your video taking this show as an example for feminity? I heard that the guy she chose dumped her just because she used fake designer wear. Which shows he dated her only because he thought she was rich. If he was really attracted to her for her feminine nature, he would be cherishing her till today but no he didn't love her because she was feminine but he felt attracted only because of her outer appearance.
What a shallow perspective.
@@jhovera7985 .......share your opinion then?
All is true, but the fact that it was made public that everything about her was fake (which was a mini scandal) makes me question if she is really like this or just had a massive secret that made her attractive...
Only her clothes weren’t from the real brands but fake, but that is not such a big deal. Lots of people wear fake clothes or shoe reps
@@SJDT97 ooh didn’t know about the insta post😭😭. Idk i from the Netherlands and here is not such a big deal. Except if you lie about it, but people don’t get angry with you.
Spoiler, she broke up with her boy, it seems that they need more skills besides beauty, behaviour and atraction.
It might not even be a skill problem. Some people are incompatible or life gets in the way and might not have had time for a relationship at that point in time
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I did not like her at all. And she is in a big scandall, that shows her personality. Never ever do i want to be like her.
Apart from her wonky eye !
Everyones eyes r not the same eyes 💀
It's her mouth that's too big for her face
I was loooking for this!! No one seemed to notice. Good to know that the wonky eye can be hidden with all the other stuff she does. She really does focus on her strength!!
her eye adds to her beauty
Her eyes seems crosseyed.
Cope😂
Thanks for the video ❤