Dude, I literally shed a tear. I have a friend who had a girl like that, it fucking ruined him. Yes, he's better now, when friends are around, but he never wants to talk about what happens when he's alone and the thoughts start swarming him.
We English can drop the weirdest insults and they always sound just right. I use "chuffnugget" and "dingleberry" a lot, but also combine both with a prefix like: "cowbaggin'" to make "You cowbaggin' chuffnugget". That's just one example, and a polite one. When we get into proper curse words, it goes to another level.
My brother did that once in 2012. He was out on a date and some guy came up and started yelling at his date. He told her that he wasn't going to marriage counseling and that they were just going to get a divorce. Then told her to F- Off and not come home. She told my brother to defend her but my brother started laughing and said if she was married, he was out. He met the girl while running and she had asked him out. Now, the ex husband and my brother are friends. After that incident, my brother got up went to the bar and grabbed a couple of beers for him and the guy. About 2 weeks later, my brother fixed his work trailer (my brother is an ex marine, and welder). About a month later, he threw a BBQ and that guy and his kids were there. I think they are both playing in the same pool league now. The world is a very weird place. My brother has been dating an ICU nurse now for about 8 months and he set that guy up with a pediatric nurse.
I was on a dating app and this girl was a primary school teacher. She literally asked me if I could help her with some money....I politely declined and was already really put off by that. Then she later went on a tangent about how she was bullied at her job by her peers supposedly because they were intimidated by a "strong, intelligent, independent black woman". I literally blocked her phone and never spoke to her again. "Independent" woman out here asking for money before you even meet someone in person....gtfo
Lmao bro same. I matched with some beautiful woman on tinder and we were talking then moved over to Snapchat and not even like an hour later she asked to borrow $100. I straight up said no and that I don't blame her using her looks trying to score some free cash but she got the wrong one this time lol
@@codychampion300 I wouldn’t be surprised if that is the case. What confused me is how proud she was to be from a tough background but she chose to be a teacher at a predominantly white school in one of the most privileged cities in the area ( literally next to the beach)You would think she would want to give back to the underprivileged communities like where she came from, of which there are many just a few miles inland…. 🤔
My wife married me when I graduated from college and had no money. We experienced life together, even seeing our bank account go down to $5. She is still with me when we are doing alright for ourselves and doesn't care how much is in the bank account. Three kids later, she is never dissatisfied and is always content. These videos (I'm a fan Arako, keep going) remind me every time. Fellows, I'm sorry. I think I have the gem everyone is looking for.
Your story is the same with my parents. 21 years of age, fresh from college, got married and breezed through debts to raise my brother and I. And they're still together after 29 years. Always brings a tear to my eye every single time my Mom tells me the things they've been through to raise us.
That's because men like you respect women, as we do you. You don't spend your sad life commenting about how nasty women are. You don't even utter 'body count' which is the most stupid thing ever, especially as people lie. You don't hear stuff like 'high value' etc. So much happier with a guy with no money, than a rich one
the honesty with acknowledging that you reacted to a fake vid makes me support you even more, unlike men, accountability is a women's kryptonite, stay strong brother and keep the vids going
@@eddyalonsomoramorales6069 Men or women are more aggressive ? You know the answer, it's men, so why is it so impossible to believe that men and women take on responsibility differently ?
he said it was a group chat. I wonder if they were letting him know or trying to bully him. Either way I would've thanked them and dropped her off the face the earth.
@@tomdizzo probably a mix of both. But either way he should take it as a good sign to get out while he can. I’d text her the video with a nice “you’re disgusting” and move on with my life lmfao
Bro I’m literally about to shed tears for that last man. Too many good people get shitted on and it’s a shame. You can heart that mans heart breaking through the speakers yo❤️😭
It's jr/ high school tho! Yes it hurts, but no wedding were exchanged. HS is the time to learn the basics of adult life & to be preparing your success path. No reason to be getting in over your head in puppy love, hormone supercharged relationships. With a _14 year old girl!_ (who just wants to be desired/popular) We have to teach young people to be mentally strong, & prioritize. Young men on their purpose will have ample opportunities for female companionship later.
@Jason Ramirez Could be in some. That's why 9th grade is usually too soon for a marriage-like relaruonship. And if your life is ruined by a puppy love situation that's a failure of upbringing/society to help young people keep things in proper perspective. It's irrational/unreasonable to expect Monogamy in a 9th grade 'dating' relationship This is why so many people end up doing traumatic things. 10 years down the road, most healthy folks will _barely even remember_ middle school relationships!! Or classmates, etc.
@@Alvan81 yeah, but that also mean he is very young and that kind of traumatic experience can hit harder compared to someone older with more life experience.
In the same clothing. as the school. If saitama from one punch man was a woman with potential in cruelty instead of potential in strength, She would be called one cuck man and be the one in this video mentioned. I'm not even trying to be funny, It sounds funny as fuck now that i'm reading, But it's fucking horrible, Seriously, If she was an anime character, She would solo anyone with that cruelty she had, Same clothing as school, Fuck dude, I'm surprised the guy didn't cry while saying that...When he talked about the group chat and video, I knew where this was going...
Pro tip: If you catch your wife cheating on you, don't confront her or give any clue that you know, go straight to your lawyer or hire a lawyer and ask them what to do. Heard about this one guy that was actually able to retain custody of his kids and even get alimony from his wife because his lawyer told him to start becoming the main caretaker and to figure out how to reduce his income so it becomes less than hers.
I know what one you're on about - took him 3 years to do it and it completely destroyed her in the end as she was left with no one as she found out the guy she cheated on her husband was broke af despite being a doctor due to paying out for several kids n shit and then eventually left her after he had his fun, effectively. the guy was not only patient but clever to move the way he did.
Also collect evidence. This can be critical in court particularly if you can get her to deny she did anything and then you can prove her a cheater and a liar in front of the judge.
I can feel and relate to the last clip. Dating someone years ago, was a long distance relationship. Everything was good and perfect for nearly a year. Traveled and made time to see each other as often as we could. Over time things started feeling shady and etc. The last time I went to visit her in her state, I woke up early in bed before she woke up. Had a opportunity to look at her phone under the blanket as I was pretending to be asleep and quiet myself. As I'm looking through her photos, my heart sunk. I continue to find the truth and confirmation of my doubts of her up to this point. To find out she been cheating on me with some guy I had a hunch through social media. In her phone she had videos of her on dates and etc with this guy. I was left speechless the moment I watched the last video to be her in the car I helped her get. She was sitting passenger having the guy she was cheating on me with drive the car I helped her get. I started feeling furious inside trying to control myself while still hiding under the blanket. As I'm continue to see the rest of the video, she goes on to start giving this guy a handjob. All the times she would tell me she was with her girlfriends on certain events or dates. Were just moments that she was actually out cheating on me with this guy. She just substituted this guy for her girlfriends in her stories or day to day chit chat that we would have. At that moment nothing felt like could be honest from her. I was madly in love with her and it had been the worst heartache I've had in my life. I've gone through with so much depression and anxiety because of her. She manipulated me for so long, being so naive and forgiving of her lies or excuses. I ended it but sadly I was dumb enough to let her speak to me on a later date. We continue to try start new and work stuff out for it to go on for another 3 years. I should have ended it right there and then when I was betrayed the first time. Not once but twice I was cheated on by her again or at least that I know. Over those years my anxiety was killing me, to the point of my doubts of trust in her and having to resort to constantly checking social media for any clear indications of proof. When the final and last time I saw proof of her cheating on me I disconnected myself entirely from her and never looked back. I wished I could have gone back in time and tell my younger self she's not the one. I'm in a happier place now and a newer relationship after a couple years of non dating. I hope karma hits back really hard for all the shit I went through because of my ex.
@@SgtShnackendale Wrong. Try again shitbag. The only reason it WOULDN'T be okay to go through your partners phone is if they had something to hide. Transparency is a key part of a healthy relationship.
Absolutely, a complete piece of shit. Was clearly just hanging in there hoping the boyfriend would leave and he could get on with the date. How a man could even still find that rotten cunt attractive after finding that shit out is beyond me.
He 100% is thinking he's gonna smash after their argument. She is going to have to monkey branch now anyway, she a 304 who's now desperate for a replacement lol
Fun story, I was dating a chick for a few months, met her at a bar and was seeing a few red flags when I was sober and sometime on. Turns out she was married and her husband was working out of town, I found out went to the house and told the dude face to face. Dude laid me out, 2 hits his fist to my face and my a$$ hitting the floor. We became pretty solid friends, dude bought me a beer for my eye and I gave him the contact to my divorce lawyer 😂
@@lanesmith1465 WTF is wrong with you? It's not a true story unless there is video footage of the event taken as it happened. Doesn't matter that there is a damn court reporter/stenographer taking a written record of the dialogue. World is full of muppets amiright?
There were many times I wished I was a westerner, but seeing all of these videos, all these statistics, and all these talk of men getting treated horribly makes me glad I'm asian. Asians (who are actually from Asia not asian-American etc.) are trustworthy. I've been with the same girl for 5 years. We both have rules and if one of us fucks it up then it's over. I'm glad she was raised by her grandma who's a conservative and always valued dignity. Women like her are rare and I'm grateful to God for her. I pray all Good men find a good women for themselves. There's too much toxicity in the world today. I hope one day we can all overcome it.
I have to look for a partner overseas because of how terrible Asian men are treated here. We're only sought for for our money and what we can bring to the relationship. They simply take and take here, you wont get any love back. :(
I feel that last dude, my wife cheated on my after 3 years of marriage. Lied to me and went on multiple girl camping trips that ended up beingt this guy. I may not have been the best husband but I loved her with all my heart, I worked full time to provide, studied after hours to get a better paying job and went to the gym 5 times a week to keep fit. I never abused her, hit her, yelled at her, controlled her, I was completely loyal and she still did it. My sould was crushed for months, crippling anxiety where I would get stomach pains that would inable me to move, it was quite insanse as ive never experienced anything like that before. Doing better now thanks to God.
Mad respect for explaining exactly what happened with the video that turned out to be fake. Honesty and accountability are powerful traits. As another commentator said, I respect you even more for that. Well done brother 👊
I mean... a lot of these videos are fake. TikTok is mostly for show, kids learned that in a world of 8 billion people it's hard to get attention anymore and shock effect will get you that attention, the more shocking the better. I would estimate that probably about 60% of TikToks we see on here are staged or acted out. It's all just entertainment.
@@RunawayYe Couldn’t agree more. Just the other day I was watching a documentary style video re: how far some content creators will go to get they’re clicks/likes etc
@@SirDistic hehe, for sure. I think he means if it involves cheating lol.. If she is planning a surprise party for him it's probably not grounds for divorce lol.. but if you say you are out with friends, and I come see you are out with one male, who admits he didn't know she was married.. now that's shady.
@@SirDistic If she is willing to lie to go to the supermarket, she is willing to lie for things MUCH WORSE. The only time lying is alright is if she is doing it to surprise you like a gift or a party for you. Outside of that, even a white lie is a red flag because you don't know what else she has lied about. Maybe she lied when she said she was having a girls night out and was riding a train at a party? You never know, and catching her even in a minor lie, is grounds to keep an eye on her and what she is doing to confirm she isn't doing worse. She is your wife and you deserve peace of mind that she isn't jumping other dude's bones and leaving sloppy seconds for you.
I really empathize with that dude at the end. My girl of 7 years and I broke up about 6 months ago. We lived together and on the day we broke up, I came home from work early to talk things through with her only to find another truck in the drive way. I open the door and find her straddling another man on my couch. Lucky their clothes were on, but I freaked out and pulled a gun on them both. I almost dropped them, but I just stood there and thought, “Not worth throwing my life away on these cheaters who deserve each other.” The look of fear on their eyes was sweet enough. But man the next 2 months were hell. It’s so hard to get that vision out of your head of the woman you loved and wanted to spend the rest of your life with being intimate with another man. That poor guy had to see the video of his girl being railed. That will scar you for life.
To be honest after hearing both your stories I feel so lucky that I didn't get to see my ex being railed. I found out that she was being railed from another dude 2 weeks after she broke up with me. For me the worst thing she did was to blame me for leaving me before I found out that she cheated. She destroyed me as a man when she kept blaming me but then I realised that she was just giving me excuses and I really felt good about myself, knowing that I was not at fault. I feel sorry for what you experienced and I hope someone good comes along the way.
My brother I have gone thru this sometimes they both jus deserve a great ass whoopin no guns jus lessons .....I'd beat my own daughters if they pulled shit like that
Thank god you stopped yourself man. You’re right, They weren’t worth throwing the rest of your life away over as painful as I know it is. You would’ve thrown away future peace without her and never would’ve been able to move forward
Omg I'm so sorry! My husband cheated on me. I'm trying to get rid of him but he is basically a squatter. He is too comfortable with me. I feel so bad for you but at least you caught her instead of wasting your time like I'm doing
It's NOT the other guy's problem if he didn't know she was married. The husband's issue really is with HER, even if the other guy knew. The relationship is with HER and SHE has to be held accountable to her family....not that other guy. However, the other guy should have gotten up and left.
It's definitely his problem if he knew lol, because then he chose to get with a married woman and that is 100% his fault. If he didn't, then the apology and leaving is enough. But if he did know, throw him off the same bridge you throw her off.
Oh he knew to an extent. There's no way she was setting everything up and not giving him the intel as to when to show up and whatnot. On top of that, she either had her wedding ring on or had the mark on her finger signaling she took it off. He knew, bro just wanted to smash some ass; regardless of where said ass ends up.
@@JohnSmith-rr3jt From a moral standpoint maybe, but ultimately someone else's relationship is not his problem. Also my guess is the other guy stuck around in case the husband got violent. You can see him moving something on the table, which was probably the sharp silverware.
The fact that he didn’t leave tells me he knew she was married. I know if I didn’t know she was and her husband showed up I’d be outta there in two seconds.
@@JohnSmith-rr3jt Thats an example of a emotional man who can't control his wife misdirecting his anger since he can't direct it at her physically. If a guy can snag your girl then she wasn't yours to begin with. Thats not the guys fault that's what we do. You having an attractive girl that men don't approach regularly is a fairy tale.
I found out way into my marriage I ask my husband why did you marry me. He wouldn’t work,help with house chores,or take care of the kids while I was working 2-3 jobs trying to put food on the table and a roof over our heads. What he told me broke my heart into a million pieces. He said, because mom and I thought you had a lot of money because of where you work. 😢
Mate, if I'm dating a, to my knowledge, single woman and suddenly her husband appears I would be like: "Aw shit, I'm really sorry mate. I swear I didn't know. I'll leave you to it. Good luck" Wouldn't even speak to the girl
Are you kidding? I would eaten my food with some ice cold soda pop and just enjoy the freak show and even joined in on the conversation asking questions and giving advice and stuff. 😂
@@FulltimeDuddooScene Nope. I don't wanna be within range if he snaps. "Man, I'm nobody to you, and I'll always be nobody." And if your girl cheats, remember; unless he's a friend or family, he's not the one with an obligation not to cheat.
So because bad people exist you shouldnt interact with any people? Thats stupid as shit. If you want connection you need to be vulnerable, otherwise don't complain about loneliness.
Once you have good looking clothes, ok communication skills, start lifting weights and make ok amount of money you will have a girlfriend. Stay strong man.
What you said about time and money is so true. Giving people your time is the most precious gift you can give. You can always get more money but you can’t get more time. Most people nowadays have totally lost sight of that.
Good f*cking god..I could barely stomach listening to that last clip. That poor boy, giving up his childhood growing up being in a relationship with that 1 girl, just for her to turn around & throw it away on 1 night of fun with some other dude. Can you honestly believe that women used to collectively secretly believe that "men didn't have feelings" that sh*t boils my blood to no end. I'm 21 now & I am just another convinced bachelor on never getting married til I'm like 40 something. & just living my own life to the fullest. Taking care of my friends, who have stuck with me through highschool, tending to their needs & just having fun. Aint no way in hell, you're ever gonna catch me in these streets hooked on a girl that can just wake up & leave me cuz "its her right" f*ck all that mess lol. You either gonna be obsessed with me or you become the dirt I walk on to get to the top, stay safe out there Kings! Love yourself first.
@@emmanuelo1998 to paraphrase an old dutch saying in english: such as the ward of the house is, does he trust his guests. they will assume men are like them, calculating and ruthless, while men will start out in life believing they are like us, trusting and romantic, and only learn the lesson through getting taken advantage of several dozen times.
I like this channel I like hearing guys speak out in reasonable ways like this. Like we’ve got to point out things like the difference between expecting men to be gentlemanly and drowning yourself in entitlement. Also the point and purpose of a relationship when it comes to cheating😂why do people struggle so much when they chose to be in a relationship..
bruh that last one made my chest hurt man i feel bad for the bro, ive never been in a relationship so i will never understand the pain some of you guys go through. i wish you all the best!
4 years of relationship, the amount of emotional investment he put into her only to get backstabbed like that. That's will leave a nasty emotional scar
I'm going to say what she did was right but you guys are passing judgement with put knowing her side of things. No there is no excuse for cheating but that doesn't mean that he didn't do something to drive her toward other men. There two sided to every story and you have no idea what her side is only what your hearing in the video.
@@michaelrunk5930 This is the exact excuse people use to "get away with cheating" bitch fuck off she cheated on my man no matter what reason if he has remained loyal she is scum. The only thing that would justify it would be him cheating on her first (judging by his reaction thats probably not true.) The fact that anyone tries to justify cheating is why its still happening.
Last clip was gut wrenching, but as Arako said don't waste your time confronting her for her to give some bs excuse. Send the clip, end it and spend your time with your friends/family.
no. you share the clip everywhere. All friends and family. Show no mercy. Send it to her family. Put it on the internet. Share it all over school. Put pictures all over the walls in the bathroom
ARAKO TV has become one of my favorite channels on this site💯KEEP THEM COMING ARAKOTV! Hope you and your fam have a blessed one ARAKO....along with everyone else watching 💯🙏
It's so hard being cheated on and just finding out and that gut wrenching feels that makes your stomach turn. Makes you shakey and physically sick feeling. I feel horrible for anyone who goes through it but I felt it in my heart too when he said what was on the video . It brought back hard feelings that I can't shake. I'm so sorry. You never recover fully when someone betrays your trust. I don't trust anyone in my life at all.
Unfortunately nobody cheated on me on my younger years I didn’t know what to look for but all the signs were there now am still married with a child just sleep in a separate room I just told her because of my snoring I didn’t want to bother her. I pretend everything is fine I travel a lot for work so I gotten laid a lot but is not the same just crazy to feel so lonely.
@@juanguzman8034 your current wife cheated on you? If you're sleeping with others while married too then that's cheating and you both are wrong. I understand loneliness but I think you should divorce. If you can't right now, save up money and prepare to make it easier for coparenting for the kids. Work on healing before sleeping with or meeting anyone. Or if you can both work it out then focus on trusting each other but you both need to come clean and make changes. Cheating is never okay and kids need their parents to be healthy not toxic to each other. It hurts them worse and causes issues when they are older.
@Abby Cheyenne Am amoral since the relationship is over and we are just roommates. I have nothing to gain and a lot to lose by getting a divorce and my kid doesn’t need to suffer because of a selfish mother. My wife has recently started talking to the guy again never apologized and blame me instead as a man I will take the blame and all the shit the only reason I married in the first place was because I was careless and got her pregnant now I know that she did it on purpose because she wanted to get married and I wasn’t interested at the time in settling down but is my fault for falling for it. Right now am working on improving myself am going back to school to earn a master’s degree so am not focusing on other people.
@@juanguzman8034 I get it, do what's best for you but once you make bank with your new career after getting your masters then leave. Women like that only want a title and not what's real. It's hard being a single parent but you could do it and I'm sorry for your situation. No judgement from here because I've never been in that situation just good vibes and prayer for you (because I believe it works so I don't want to offend by saying that) I hope you can figure a different path and find someone who's worth keeping around.
I also falled for those fake-court-videos... I absolutely feel you bro. Watched those videos a whole weekend, until someone mentioned in the comments, that these where fake. So i quickly researched and it hit me hard.
Years ago one of my engineers came home early from an overseas contract. He sneaks in as to not wake his fiancé and finds her asleep with his own brother. He quietly went to the garage and pick up his cricket bat. He walked into the bedroom and with one swift blow shattered his brother's shin. He left without saying a word. To this day he's never spoken to either of them.
@@harmhoeks5996 orly? Aren't you confusing chin and shin my man? Am not the violent type but it almost sounds like a reasonable response in that very extreme scenario.
I always enjoy listening to you sir. Even when when I’m thinking the video conversation is going to an annoying and/or depressing subject level, I find myself listening because of your psychologically, level, calm and balanced assessment of ridiculous situations that people are emotionally over or under reacting to situations that I’ve been calling people out on (especially narcissistic, self-over-evaluated-women) that have misunderstood the past century to believe that womens’ rights and power translates to a type of matriarch and self entitlement. Keep rolling
I don't know why, but I felt the last guy's pain when he shared about his girl cheated on him. Even though his voice was really calm, but it felt like he lost something within and now it feels empty in his chest.
He can either accept it as position of ultimate strength or ultimate defeat, life will always bring you something better, 10x better and 20x folds returns of diamonds and Gold. Not literal diamonds and Gold but for everything to fall into place.
I'll be honest.. If I were the dude who didn't know the girl I was on a date with had a husband and he showed up and was this calm. I'd offer the guy a beer along with an apology and tell the woman to find her own ride home, if anything Id leave and then he can go back to his kids and I still tell that lady to find her own way back.
Of course. You cheat on the family you have built together and by cheating you put yourself above everything yall have with the known consequence of losing it all
Its cool and all how straight and simple you make things up to be, and I agree with you on what the right thing is to do, but emotions exell that by far... if that last clip is True than my guy needs some help, bless him.
@@chillvibed that type of shit can lead someone into suicide who's not mentally capable.of acceptance or who's first time feeling was tarnished they question life in general still sending them into spiraling situations expenses alcoholism and more .....don't be blind.....I know that feeling as I spent years digging myself out but I did took a lot of will power mental and faith
@@MuiGohan true. It's just that I'm 30 and I've seen girls come and go so many times. I guess from my perspective it's no big deal. If he in high school then yes, it's going to be brutal for him. I would still advise to move on. I guess you have to develop the mental toughness. I keep forgetting not everyone has it.
@@chillvibed I agree brotha Im 33 and shit I had to learn that lesson at 21 wit my first official wife she did me all the dirties u can think of no exaggerating....but eventually I copied with it moved on and jus watched everybody a lil closer now I got my new wife and son and hell I'm very happy but still on guard I'm sure if she heard me say this she'd probably trip but I have my reasons lol now adays every one tryna be coniving I agree with you
Holy fuck, the story from the last guy, I felt the pit growing in my stomach.. that's just gutting. I hope he deals with it alright, he doesn't deserve that.
@@alundor Basically on the last day of him being a junior moving up to senior year in school, which was a half day - he didn't get a text message from his GF of 3/4 years (dating since 8th grade) from the morning to the early hours of the next morning which to him was a little weird or passed it off as she was just dealing with some shit in her life. Anyways, two weeks later, he gets invited to a group chat where the only thing posted is a video and said video is of his GF getting fucked and he knows this because she was in the exact same clothes she was wearing on the last day of junior year. It's unknown if he was added to the group chat maliciously or not or what the outcome of that relationship but that said, I can't imagine how that guy is feeling KNOWING that his gf cheated and had literal proof.
Dude my respect for you just skyrocketed! I used to like the (precursor to) Tribe of Men because they have fun commentary, but when that fake divorce judge was presented by them as real I posted a comment that this stuff was fake. They responded with something like "well it's the idea that counts" and didn't offer any corrections, not even putting it in a pinned top comment or anything! I was disappointed to see you feature it in a video, but you rectifying the situation by deleting the video is a true testament to your character. Thanks for the daily dose of entertainment, and thanks for always being genuine with us and caring about proper research and showing us only real shit!
am i the only one that feels like the time is going way way WAY faster when i watch arako? yesterday i watched his channel for more than hour and a half and it felt like 20 minutes
I just want to point out that, what happened to the guy in the last clip, this is when men often commit suicide. To be confronted by this in such a way is some serious pain, even more so if you're so young and don't have much experience with pain yet. For all you guys out there: this is when men need to support each other. We need to be bros and help them get through that pain. At the end of the day, we need more good, strong men, which means we need to stick together to build ourselves up.
but its a "bro" that fck her bih as well.. some dudes are hitting on women even though they know they're in a relationship and women who like this kind of vybe is what destroy young men.. its a vicious cycle.. men will cheat because they got cheated on and would probably destroy a relationship.. same goes for women..
@@fatesteyneit2990 that is also true and it's a shame wen some dudes let it happen to them ...I wouldn't tolerate that shit from either party it's a respect thing fuck em both at that point these hands for everybody equal rights equal lefts
Went through the same shit 5 years ago. I would never suicide but i wanted to go into the mountains(inheritance of my ancestors which has not been visited in almost 200 years, its basically a jungle) so badly to try and survive there. If i survive there i prove to myself i am a capable man who was not the problem, if i die i was the problem. Honestly not even sure how i survived that phase. I had to watch a video of her being fked by my best friend with whom i played DotA every day. Been with her since 2012 till 2017 when shit happend. I think what kept me was the fact i was just finishing faculty for going on board the ship as a cadet. So just being away from everyone working my ass off kept me somewhat sane. No women is worth a minute of your time men! Remember that. Women, a decent one, is just a bonus, nothing more.
i remember when I found out I was cheated on through a paternity test. For the first couple weeks I remember thinking to myself, I completely understand why people commit suicide as that was a repeating thought going on in my head. I remember just wanting the pain to stop and that feeling of wanting to quit...
@@FriendlyHomie How did he not know to GTFO? Her HUSBAND just showed up. He can no longer assume she's single. He must be a hell of a simp to sit there because he's just that desperate to get laid. That guy is pathetic.
I’m only a sophomore and I can validate the last part of the vid for being 100% true, it’s sad but that’s the wrld we live in and at this point I’m just numb 2 this pain, praise 2 that brother✊he needs 2 b strong
I'll disagree with the woman who wants a good career over love. I found the love of my life at 16 years old we were married at 18 had four kids and weren't Rich by any standards. But our children were well taken care of grew up in a house full of love and now have loving families of Their Own. I was married to my soulmate for 39 years when she passed away in 2022
"love don't give me fulfillment" ... heard that alot, when i was like 20, now most of my female friends are reaching 25-35 ... yeah, easy pickings, most of them are trying so hard to get with their old bfs, their old friends, me ... trust me, boost me up by 10 years, ill take the 10y life reduction, I dont want someone with another mans kid, nor someone who slept with 20+ guys, and i definitely dont want someone who is taking 3,4,5,6,7,8,9th+ choice so they can actually have kids and a family.... oh ye, "i never want kids" was their favorite song 10 years ago
This is sad about the cheating or high body count. I found out from my adult stepdaughter information mom had told her about herself. She told me if I knew that mom had a high body count. I told her no and that my understanding was that she was with only one man and that was her father. She went on to say that mom told her after separating from her father that she had many hook ups that exceeded over fifty. I was like “What” no way!!!! I now see my wife in total different light although over 50 years have gone by.
Yeah, I found out the hard way. Could not understand why she was no longer putting effort into the relationship. Found a letter talking about her side fellow and he burned her. Years later found out she was with other guys as well while I paid all the party bills. Saw her years later and she was so happy to see me but I just kept going never did regret it and I learned a couple of things. 1. Trust your instincts. 2. Do not ignore the signs no matter the BS they will try to manipulate you with. 3. When you cannot trust her move on. 4.Party girl is a party girl and nothing is going to change her, if you fall in love she is going to get bored and go looking for a party, always. 5.Never look back!!!!!
my last girlfriend told me one day she wanted more, and wanted me to change, i had made it clear from the rip that if she ever didnt want to be with me, to just say so, and we would be cool. so after she said that mess, i packed up what i cared most about, and moved out when she was at work. she sent me a few texts asking some questions, i let her keep all the stuff i bought, i never yelled, i almost did, but i stopped. havent spoken, text, nothing with her in almost 3yrs. ✌
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If a wife is caught on a date with another man there is only one place she belongs.
To the streets
In a coffin. 😉
In a court
SHE BELONGS TO THE STREETS
Hell
that last guy getting cheated on,he didn't deserve it.I really hope that guy is doing fine,he didn't deserve that betrayal at all.
His friends should check on his mental health. That shit can destroy a man
That shit will make him way stronger. Unfortunately he has alot of healing but he will be stronger
Brothers, you are all so right, let's hope he's a lot better off now. If not, let's hope he can find a healthy way to cope with this.
Dude, I literally shed a tear. I have a friend who had a girl like that, it fucking ruined him. Yes, he's better now, when friends are around, but he never wants to talk about what happens when he's alone and the thoughts start swarming him.
@@MrMartin48705 wow, Holy shit. I'm sorry, but you've left me speechless.
"You're not only a muppet, you're a donut" UK slang is hilarious hahaha
That was my favorite part 🤣🤣
Same. It should be corny af but it's fucking hilarious.
We English can drop the weirdest insults and they always sound just right.
I use "chuffnugget" and "dingleberry" a lot, but also combine both with a prefix like: "cowbaggin'" to make "You cowbaggin' chuffnugget".
That's just one example, and a polite one. When we get into proper curse words, it goes to another level.
100%🤣🤣🤣
@@AnOldEnglishBloke The English Accent can make the Worst Insult sound like the most Amazing Compliment. Lol
My brother did that once in 2012. He was out on a date and some guy came up and started yelling at his date. He told her that he wasn't going to marriage counseling and that they were just going to get a divorce. Then told her to F- Off and not come home. She told my brother to defend her but my brother started laughing and said if she was married, he was out. He met the girl while running and she had asked him out. Now, the ex husband and my brother are friends. After that incident, my brother got up went to the bar and grabbed a couple of beers for him and the guy. About 2 weeks later, my brother fixed his work trailer (my brother is an ex marine, and welder). About a month later, he threw a BBQ and that guy and his kids were there. I think they are both playing in the same pool league now. The world is a very weird place. My brother has been dating an ICU nurse now for about 8 months and he set that guy up with a pediatric nurse.
wholesome brotherhood
Thats true American #salute
Your brother better be careful with a nurse…
Amazing things happen when you have a common enemy with the same goals and objectives.
CHAMP STATUS!
I was on a dating app and this girl was a primary school teacher. She literally asked me if I could help her with some money....I politely declined and was already really put off by that. Then she later went on a tangent about how she was bullied at her job by her peers supposedly because they were intimidated by a "strong, intelligent, independent black woman". I literally blocked her phone and never spoke to her again.
"Independent" woman out here asking for money before you even meet someone in person....gtfo
I've learned anytime someone is being "bullied" at their job, they're not being bullied. They're either just toxic or completely incompetent.
Yo that's what they all say literally. Chick I was messing with said the exact same shit and she was blk
Lmao bro same. I matched with some beautiful woman on tinder and we were talking then moved over to Snapchat and not even like an hour later she asked to borrow $100. I straight up said no and that I don't blame her using her looks trying to score some free cash but she got the wrong one this time lol
@@codychampion300 I wouldn’t be surprised if that is the case. What confused me is how proud she was to be from a tough background but she chose to be a teacher at a predominantly white school in one of the most privileged cities in the area ( literally next to the beach)You would think she would want to give back to the underprivileged communities like where she came from, of which there are many just a few miles inland…. 🤔
She wasn't a primary school teacher. She was just spinning that shit to give herself some credibility bro
My wife married me when I graduated from college and had no money. We experienced life together, even seeing our bank account go down to $5. She is still with me when we are doing alright for ourselves and doesn't care how much is in the bank account. Three kids later, she is never dissatisfied and is always content. These videos (I'm a fan Arako, keep going) remind me every time. Fellows, I'm sorry. I think I have the gem everyone is looking for.
You & my husband have a lot in common.
Good for you my man. There are good women (and men) out there, but they are very rare. Most women are evil. We gotta protect the good ones.
Your story is the same with my parents. 21 years of age, fresh from college, got married and breezed through debts to raise my brother and I. And they're still together after 29 years. Always brings a tear to my eye every single time my Mom tells me the things they've been through to raise us.
That's because men like you respect women, as we do you. You don't spend your sad life commenting about how nasty women are. You don't even utter 'body count' which is the most stupid thing ever, especially as people lie. You don't hear stuff like 'high value' etc. So much happier with a guy with no money, than a rich one
@@misfitm1457 well, I try my best, but I ain't perfect. All I can offer my wife is loyalty, working hard and loving her the best I know.
the honesty with acknowledging that you reacted to a fake vid makes me support you even more, unlike men, accountability is a women's kryptonite, stay strong brother and keep the vids going
According to Who????i didn't know maturity was a gender thing🙄
@@eddyalonsomoramorales6069 in this day and time it seems so
@@hansolo7441 ok🤣🤣🤣men grown woman childish got you🤓🤓🤓
commitment is kryptonite to Chad! but ♀keep trying!!!
@@eddyalonsomoramorales6069 Men or women are more aggressive ? You know the answer, it's men, so why is it so impossible to believe that men and women take on responsibility differently ?
Last video was heartbreaking. Hope that dude is ok
same. poor kid.
damn bro that’s was fucking depressing to hear
he said it was a group chat. I wonder if they were letting him know or trying to bully him. Either way I would've thanked them and dropped her off the face the earth.
@@tomdizzo probably a mix of both. But either way he should take it as a good sign to get out while he can. I’d text her the video with a nice “you’re disgusting” and move on with my life lmfao
@@robtothejuice I would just leave say nothing do nothing to her… And then do stuff that makes me happy.
Man, why do we have to go through so much shit? My heart goes out to that last dude, it's hard but stay up bro
This shit has fear-mongered me from dating. Spend my time, energy and money on a lady just for that, naaaah. I'll spend it all on myself.
Bro I’m literally about to shed tears for that last man. Too many good people get shitted on and it’s a shame. You can heart that mans heart breaking through the speakers yo❤️😭
It's jr/ high school tho! Yes it hurts, but no wedding were exchanged. HS is the time to learn the basics of adult life & to be preparing your success path.
No reason to be getting in over your head in puppy love, hormone supercharged relationships.
With a _14 year old girl!_ (who just wants to be desired/popular)
We have to teach young people to be mentally strong, & prioritize.
Young men on their purpose will have ample opportunities for female companionship later.
@@Alvan81 those are the feeling that last forever tho 😢 make you or break you deep inside
@Jason Ramirez Could be in some. That's why 9th grade is usually too soon for a marriage-like relaruonship.
And if your life is ruined by a puppy love situation that's a failure of upbringing/society to help young people keep things in proper perspective.
It's irrational/unreasonable to expect Monogamy in a 9th grade 'dating' relationship This is why so many people end up doing traumatic things.
10 years down the road, most healthy folks will _barely even remember_ middle school relationships!! Or classmates, etc.
@@Alvan81 yeah, but that also mean he is very young and that kind of traumatic experience can hit harder compared to someone older with more life experience.
In the same clothing. as the school.
If saitama from one punch man was a woman with potential in cruelty instead of potential in strength, She would be called one cuck man and be the one in this video mentioned.
I'm not even trying to be funny, It sounds funny as fuck now that i'm reading, But it's fucking horrible, Seriously, If she was an anime character, She would solo anyone with that cruelty she had, Same clothing as school, Fuck dude, I'm surprised the guy didn't cry while saying that...When he talked about the group chat and video, I knew where this was going...
Pro tip: If you catch your wife cheating on you, don't confront her or give any clue that you know, go straight to your lawyer or hire a lawyer and ask them what to do. Heard about this one guy that was actually able to retain custody of his kids and even get alimony from his wife because his lawyer told him to start becoming the main caretaker and to figure out how to reduce his income so it becomes less than hers.
I know what one you're on about - took him 3 years to do it and it completely destroyed her in the end as she was left with no one as she found out the guy she cheated on her husband was broke af despite being a doctor due to paying out for several kids n shit and then eventually left her after he had his fun, effectively.
the guy was not only patient but clever to move the way he did.
Also collect evidence. This can be critical in court particularly if you can get her to deny she did anything and then you can prove her a cheater and a liar in front of the judge.
I can feel and relate to the last clip. Dating someone years ago, was a long distance relationship. Everything was good and perfect for nearly a year. Traveled and made time to see each other as often as we could. Over time things started feeling shady and etc. The last time I went to visit her in her state, I woke up early in bed before she woke up. Had a opportunity to look at her phone under the blanket as I was pretending to be asleep and quiet myself. As I'm looking through her photos, my heart sunk. I continue to find the truth and confirmation of my doubts of her up to this point. To find out she been cheating on me with some guy I had a hunch through social media. In her phone she had videos of her on dates and etc with this guy. I was left speechless the moment I watched the last video to be her in the car I helped her get. She was sitting passenger having the guy she was cheating on me with drive the car I helped her get. I started feeling furious inside trying to control myself while still hiding under the blanket. As I'm continue to see the rest of the video, she goes on to start giving this guy a handjob. All the times she would tell me she was with her girlfriends on certain events or dates. Were just moments that she was actually out cheating on me with this guy. She just substituted this guy for her girlfriends in her stories or day to day chit chat that we would have. At that moment nothing felt like could be honest from her. I was madly in love with her and it had been the worst heartache I've had in my life. I've gone through with so much depression and anxiety because of her. She manipulated me for so long, being so naive and forgiving of her lies or excuses. I ended it but sadly I was dumb enough to let her speak to me on a later date. We continue to try start new and work stuff out for it to go on for another 3 years. I should have ended it right there and then when I was betrayed the first time. Not once but twice I was cheated on by her again or at least that I know. Over those years my anxiety was killing me, to the point of my doubts of trust in her and having to resort to constantly checking social media for any clear indications of proof. When the final and last time I saw proof of her cheating on me I disconnected myself entirely from her and never looked back. I wished I could have gone back in time and tell my younger self she's not the one. I'm in a happier place now and a newer relationship after a couple years of non dating. I hope karma hits back really hard for all the shit I went through because of my ex.
@@SgtShnackendale An communications device is not holy ground. You have a very strange reverence for mass-produced electronics.
@@SgtShnackendale big miss on the phone thing. I give my GF the code to my phone and vice versa. Easy to stay transparent then.
@@SgtShnackendale Wrong. Try again shitbag. The only reason it WOULDN'T be okay to go through your partners phone is if they had something to hide. Transparency is a key part of a healthy relationship.
@@SgtShnackendale that's something a cheating whore would say
@@SgtShnackendale man shut up
That wasn't pain. That was him deciding if it was worth going full Patrick Bateman, but then he remembered the kids and stopped.
I agree, he was weighing up full decimation.
Exactly, I was on edge by just watching him.
If I had been the other guy, I would have slowly got up and stated very subtly that "I have to return some video tapes...."
He really contemplating it
Full Patrick Bateman 😂.....my new favourite phrase
The fact that the man on the date didn't immediately get up and leave in disgust was shocking. His man card burned up in that moment. Not a man.
Absolutely, a complete piece of shit. Was clearly just hanging in there hoping the boyfriend would leave and he could get on with the date. How a man could even still find that rotten cunt attractive after finding that shit out is beyond me.
Thats what we call a Fuckboi. :)
Hes for the streets
He was probably just in disbelief I don't think he did it intentionally. He apologised, said he didn't know and everything
He 100% is thinking he's gonna smash after their argument. She is going to have to monkey branch now anyway, she a 304 who's now desperate for a replacement lol
Fun story, I was dating a chick for a few months, met her at a bar and was seeing a few red flags when I was sober and sometime on. Turns out she was married and her husband was working out of town, I found out went to the house and told the dude face to face. Dude laid me out, 2 hits his fist to my face and my a$$ hitting the floor. We became pretty solid friends, dude bought me a beer for my eye and I gave him the contact to my divorce lawyer 😂
hahaha this should be a hollywood movie
Sounds emotional
You did that man a solid. Props to you.
Thanks Arako I'm sooooo sick of people reacting to the fake support court. I don't understand how so many people believe it's legit
yo me to lmao like yall don't realize this shit is fake?
Well, it is based on actual court cases.
@@lanesmith1465 WTF is wrong with you? It's not a true story unless there is video footage of the event taken as it happened. Doesn't matter that there is a damn court reporter/stenographer taking a written record of the dialogue. World is full of muppets amiright?
its supposed to be an reinactment of actual court cases.
It might not be legit? But it does give people a topic to discuss as to what you would do?
There were many times I wished I was a westerner, but seeing all of these videos, all these statistics, and all these talk of men getting treated horribly makes me glad I'm asian. Asians (who are actually from Asia not asian-American etc.) are trustworthy. I've been with the same girl for 5 years. We both have rules and if one of us fucks it up then it's over. I'm glad she was raised by her grandma who's a conservative and always valued dignity. Women like her are rare and I'm grateful to God for her. I pray all Good men find a good women for themselves. There's too much toxicity in the world today. I hope one day we can all overcome it.
Thank you for your wisdom sir sakdik 🙏
Being a westerner sucks nowadays , too much subversion and fakeness.
I have to look for a partner overseas because of how terrible Asian men are treated here. We're only sought for for our money and what we can bring to the relationship. They simply take and take here, you wont get any love back. :(
@@OddOtter707 Bro , that sentiment goes for men of all races , it’s what women do the world over .
lol They are even worse there
I feel that last dude, my wife cheated on my after 3 years of marriage. Lied to me and went on multiple girl camping trips that ended up beingt this guy. I may not have been the best husband but I loved her with all my heart, I worked full time to provide, studied after hours to get a better paying job and went to the gym 5 times a week to keep fit. I never abused her, hit her, yelled at her, controlled her, I was completely loyal and she still did it. My sould was crushed for months, crippling anxiety where I would get stomach pains that would inable me to move, it was quite insanse as ive never experienced anything like that before. Doing better now thanks to God.
Mad respect for explaining exactly what happened with the video that turned out to be fake. Honesty and accountability are powerful traits. As another commentator said, I respect you even more for that. Well done brother 👊
I mean... a lot of these videos are fake. TikTok is mostly for show, kids learned that in a world of 8 billion people it's hard to get attention anymore and shock effect will get you that attention, the more shocking the better. I would estimate that probably about 60% of TikToks we see on here are staged or acted out. It's all just entertainment.
Yeah, he was a bit too calm for my liking and the woman didn't seem that affected.
@@RunawayYe Couldn’t agree more. Just the other day I was watching a documentary style video re: how far some content creators will go to get they’re clicks/likes etc
@@lindahandley5267what are you talking about
@@ph-3939 What are YOU talking about?
Not being where she said she would be or with who she said she was with is immediate grounds for dumping/divorcing her.
lol what? So if she says she's going to work and you catch her at the supermarket it's ok to divorce her? You are a clown if you think that.
@@SirDistic hehe, for sure. I think he means if it involves cheating lol.. If she is planning a surprise party for him it's probably not grounds for divorce lol.. but if you say you are out with friends, and I come see you are out with one male, who admits he didn't know she was married.. now that's shady.
@@SirDistic 🤦🏼♂️ you’ve got teacher vibes…
@@SirDistic your name should be sirAutistic
@@SirDistic If she is willing to lie to go to the supermarket, she is willing to lie for things MUCH WORSE. The only time lying is alright is if she is doing it to surprise you like a gift or a party for you. Outside of that, even a white lie is a red flag because you don't know what else she has lied about. Maybe she lied when she said she was having a girls night out and was riding a train at a party? You never know, and catching her even in a minor lie, is grounds to keep an eye on her and what she is doing to confirm she isn't doing worse. She is your wife and you deserve peace of mind that she isn't jumping other dude's bones and leaving sloppy seconds for you.
Damn that last one hit hard even though I'm just a bystander. Couldn't imagine what that guy went through.
I really empathize with that dude at the end. My girl of 7 years and I broke up about 6 months ago. We lived together and on the day we broke up, I came home from work early to talk things through with her only to find another truck in the drive way. I open the door and find her straddling another man on my couch. Lucky their clothes were on, but I freaked out and pulled a gun on them both. I almost dropped them, but I just stood there and thought, “Not worth throwing my life away on these cheaters who deserve each other.” The look of fear on their eyes was sweet enough. But man the next 2 months were hell. It’s so hard to get that vision out of your head of the woman you loved and wanted to spend the rest of your life with being intimate with another man. That poor guy had to see the video of his girl being railed. That will scar you for life.
To be honest after hearing both your stories I feel so lucky that I didn't get to see my ex being railed. I found out that she was being railed from another dude 2 weeks after she broke up with me. For me the worst thing she did was to blame me for leaving me before I found out that she cheated. She destroyed me as a man when she kept blaming me but then I realised that she was just giving me excuses and I really felt good about myself, knowing that I was not at fault. I feel sorry for what you experienced and I hope someone good comes along the way.
My brother I have gone thru this sometimes they both jus deserve a great ass whoopin no guns jus lessons .....I'd beat my own daughters if they pulled shit like that
Thank god you stopped yourself man. You’re right, They weren’t worth throwing the rest of your life away over as painful as I know it is. You would’ve thrown away future peace without her and never would’ve been able to move forward
Omg I'm so sorry! My husband cheated on me. I'm trying to get rid of him but he is basically a squatter. He is too comfortable with me. I feel so bad for you but at least you caught her instead of wasting your time like I'm doing
Been cheated on and I'm glad you realized that it wasn't worth you to hurt them they will do that to each other...
"By law, you have to feed the prisoner" 😂 Damn!
😂😂😂😂😂
😂😂😂😂
And the look on his wife’s face! 😂😂😂😂😂
Who ever asked the person out to dinner or a date should be the one to pay PERIOD... UNLESS THAT PERSON SAYS 50/50 ON THE BILL. Before they go out ..
It's NOT the other guy's problem if he didn't know she was married. The husband's issue really is with HER, even if the other guy knew. The relationship is with HER and SHE has to be held accountable to her family....not that other guy. However, the other guy should have gotten up and left.
It's definitely his problem if he knew lol, because then he chose to get with a married woman and that is 100% his fault. If he didn't, then the apology and leaving is enough. But if he did know, throw him off the same bridge you throw her off.
Oh he knew to an extent. There's no way she was setting everything up and not giving him the intel as to when to show up and whatnot. On top of that, she either had her wedding ring on or had the mark on her finger signaling she took it off. He knew, bro just wanted to smash some ass; regardless of where said ass ends up.
@@JohnSmith-rr3jt From a moral standpoint maybe, but ultimately someone else's relationship is not his problem.
Also my guess is the other guy stuck around in case the husband got violent. You can see him moving something on the table, which was probably the sharp silverware.
The fact that he didn’t leave tells me he knew she was married. I know if I didn’t know she was and her husband showed up I’d be outta there in two seconds.
@@JohnSmith-rr3jt Thats an example of a emotional man who can't control his wife misdirecting his anger since he can't direct it at her physically. If a guy can snag your girl then she wasn't yours to begin with. Thats not the guys fault that's what we do. You having an attractive girl that men don't approach regularly is a fairy tale.
Buddy that last one... Three whole years... My boy's heart must have been ruined. Stay strong brotha🙏
I found out way into my marriage I ask my husband why did you marry me. He wouldn’t work,help with house chores,or take care of the kids while I was working 2-3 jobs trying to put food on the table and a roof over our heads. What he told me broke my heart into a million pieces. He said, because mom and I thought you had a lot of money because of where you work. 😢
Mate, if I'm dating a, to my knowledge, single woman and suddenly her husband appears I would be like: "Aw shit, I'm really sorry mate. I swear I didn't know. I'll leave you to it. Good luck" Wouldn't even speak to the girl
Are you kidding? I would eaten my food with some ice cold soda pop and just enjoy the freak show and even joined in on the conversation asking questions and giving advice and stuff. 😂
@@FulltimeDuddooScene yea ngl, if I'm in that situation, id might stick around to see how it plays out lol
@@FulltimeDuddooScene Nope. I don't wanna be within range if he snaps. "Man, I'm nobody to you, and I'll always be nobody."
And if your girl cheats, remember; unless he's a friend or family, he's not the one with an obligation not to cheat.
@@FulltimeDuddooScene you're definitely toxic.
@@FulltimeDuddooScene porridge stirer
Everytime i get depressed because i want a girlfriend, i always know to come here and i feel better afterwards. Thanks arako for making these.
So because bad people exist you shouldnt interact with any people? Thats stupid as shit. If you want connection you need to be vulnerable, otherwise don't complain about loneliness.
grow up
Better yourself and the girls will come.
These aren’t going to help you want a girlfriend you strive for one make people notice you
Once you have good looking clothes, ok communication skills, start lifting weights and make ok amount of money you will have a girlfriend. Stay strong man.
Respect for admitting your mistakes dude. Love your vids, my son and i watch them all the time. Keep it up brother.
That last one definitely made me sad I feel so bad for that guy I guess you never know till you really know
"You're not only a Muppet, you're a donut too." lmao facts
Don't be cruel to muppets and donuts.
What does it muppet mean in the context he is using it in?
@@truthspreader1996 it means a fool / idiot.
😆👏😄
@@truthspreader1996 bumping this cause idk either lol. It just sounds funny to call someone that but I didn't know they have another meaning?
You have to take care of your prisoner,🤣🤣🤣 fantastic best truthful answer ever. I love it ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️ out of 5
The empathy in that last video is real
Heart goes out to that last guy, walk tall young man, life goes on
What you said about time and money is so true. Giving people your time is the most precious gift you can give. You can always get more money but you can’t get more time. Most people nowadays have totally lost sight of that.
She's mad lucky, in some countries she would've been in heaven in 3.55 secs
Allahu Akhbar!
theres no room over there for adulterers lol
Or hell
Inshallah
@@Ronaldo-eu1nz FAKE
Good f*cking god..I could barely stomach listening to that last clip. That poor boy, giving up his childhood growing up being in a relationship with that 1 girl, just for her to turn around & throw it away on 1 night of fun with some other dude. Can you honestly believe that women used to collectively secretly believe that "men didn't have feelings" that sh*t boils my blood to no end. I'm 21 now & I am just another convinced bachelor on never getting married til I'm like 40 something. & just living my own life to the fullest. Taking care of my friends, who have stuck with me through highschool, tending to their needs & just having fun. Aint no way in hell, you're ever gonna catch me in these streets hooked on a girl that can just wake up & leave me cuz "its her right" f*ck all that mess lol. You either gonna be obsessed with me or you become the dirt I walk on to get to the top, stay safe out there Kings! Love yourself first.
oh they still believe we dont have feelings. they dont have any themselves.
@@emmanuelo1998 to paraphrase an old dutch saying in english: such as the ward of the house is, does he trust his guests. they will assume men are like them, calculating and ruthless, while men will start out in life believing they are like us, trusting and romantic, and only learn the lesson through getting taken advantage of several dozen times.
Amen
I like this channel I like hearing guys speak out in reasonable ways like this. Like we’ve got to point out things like the difference between expecting men to be gentlemanly and drowning yourself in entitlement. Also the point and purpose of a relationship when it comes to cheating😂why do people struggle so much when they chose to be in a relationship..
you are helping plenty of guys and girls sort themselves out. thank you.
bruh that last one made my chest hurt man i feel bad for the bro, ive never been in a relationship so i will never understand the pain some of you guys go through. i wish you all the best!
One of the things i love about ArakoTV is he is willing to admit a mistake and call himself out. So few people like this, so it is refreshing to see.
My deepest sympathies for the last guy. . .
Stay strong, King. . .
I'm so sorry this happened to you. . .
4 years of relationship, the amount of emotional investment he put into her only to get backstabbed like that. That's will leave a nasty emotional scar
That shi hurt me just listening to it
I'm going to say what she did was right but you guys are passing judgement with put knowing her side of things.
No there is no excuse for cheating but that doesn't mean that he didn't do something to drive her toward other men. There two sided to every story and you have no idea what her side is only what your hearing in the video.
@@michaelrunk5930 This is the exact excuse people use to "get away with cheating" bitch fuck off she cheated on my man no matter what reason if he has remained loyal she is scum.
The only thing that would justify it would be him cheating on her first (judging by his reaction thats probably not true.)
The fact that anyone tries to justify cheating is why its still happening.
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Last clip was gut wrenching, but as Arako said don't waste your time confronting her for her to give some bs excuse. Send the clip, end it and spend your time with your friends/family.
no. you share the clip everywhere. All friends and family. Show no mercy. Send it to her family. Put it on the internet. Share it all over school. Put pictures all over the walls in the bathroom
@@halcyon6194 And he'll end up in jail for doing that.
That last one hit me..
That's rough buddy.
ARAKO TV has become one of my favorite channels on this site💯KEEP THEM COMING ARAKOTV! Hope you and your fam have a blessed one ARAKO....along with everyone else watching 💯🙏
It's so hard being cheated on and just finding out and that gut wrenching feels that makes your stomach turn. Makes you shakey and physically sick feeling. I feel horrible for anyone who goes through it but I felt it in my heart too when he said what was on the video . It brought back hard feelings that I can't shake. I'm so sorry. You never recover fully when someone betrays your trust. I don't trust anyone in my life at all.
Unfortunately nobody cheated on me on my younger years I didn’t know what to look for but all the signs were there now am still married with a child just sleep in a separate room I just told her because of my snoring I didn’t want to bother her. I pretend everything is fine I travel a lot for work so I gotten laid a lot but is not the same just crazy to feel so lonely.
Worst feeling ever
@@juanguzman8034 your current wife cheated on you? If you're sleeping with others while married too then that's cheating and you both are wrong. I understand loneliness but I think you should divorce. If you can't right now, save up money and prepare to make it easier for coparenting for the kids. Work on healing before sleeping with or meeting anyone. Or if you can both work it out then focus on trusting each other but you both need to come clean and make changes. Cheating is never okay and kids need their parents to be healthy not toxic to each other. It hurts them worse and causes issues when they are older.
@Abby Cheyenne Am amoral since the relationship is over and we are just roommates. I have nothing to gain and a lot to lose by getting a divorce and my kid doesn’t need to suffer because of a selfish mother. My wife has recently started talking to the guy again never apologized and blame me instead as a man I will take the blame and all the shit the only reason I married in the first place was because I was careless and got her pregnant now I know that she did it on purpose because she wanted to get married and I wasn’t interested at the time in settling down but is my fault for falling for it. Right now am working on improving myself am going back to school to earn a master’s degree so am not focusing on other people.
@@juanguzman8034 I get it, do what's best for you but once you make bank with your new career after getting your masters then leave. Women like that only want a title and not what's real. It's hard being a single parent but you could do it and I'm sorry for your situation. No judgement from here because I've never been in that situation just good vibes and prayer for you (because I believe it works so I don't want to offend by saying that) I hope you can figure a different path and find someone who's worth keeping around.
I also falled for those fake-court-videos... I absolutely feel you bro. Watched those videos a whole weekend, until someone mentioned in the comments, that these where fake. So i quickly researched and it hit me hard.
12 min that’s new! Congrats on almost 500k big man deserves everything coming to you
That last one ripped my heart out. All of this makes me realize how lucky I was with my first girlfriend (the only one I've had).
Wrong. She was lucky to be with you Bro.
Same thing king! We´ve met when we were both 16, now we are 24.
Yea Nighthawk my dude you got that all wrong. She is lucky to have you.
This video is a good mix of man justice with brevity and fairness in the grey areas when the lady makes a valid point. Refreshing.
Well done, sir!
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My heart freaking sank when he said “why you lied to the kids?”
It’s just so freaking sick.
Years ago one of my engineers came home early from an overseas contract. He sneaks in as to not wake his fiancé and finds her asleep with his own brother. He quietly went to the garage and pick up his cricket bat. He walked into the bedroom and with one swift blow shattered his brother's shin. He left without saying a word.
To this day he's never spoken to either of them.
Awesome.
That could've killed the brother?
@@harmhoeks5996 orly? Aren't you confusing chin and shin my man?
Am not the violent type but it almost sounds like a reasonable response in that very extreme scenario.
Why didn’t he do the same to his fiancé ? .
@@allseeingotto2912 for your own brother to do that to you?
The story of the last guy had my stomach turning with discomfort, such a horrible thing to do to someone man he didn’t deserve that at all
Props bro! Accepting you made a mistake and being open about it is the BEST thing anyone can do.
Last clip made my stomach sink. I feel for you. I hope you heal from that one day 🙏🏽
that man said " you have to feed your prisioners " i fuckin laughed out loud
I always enjoy listening to you sir. Even when when I’m thinking the video conversation is going to an annoying and/or depressing subject level, I find myself listening because of your psychologically, level, calm and balanced assessment of ridiculous situations that people are emotionally over or under reacting to situations that I’ve been calling people out on (especially narcissistic, self-over-evaluated-women) that have misunderstood the past century to believe that womens’ rights and power translates to a type of matriarch and self entitlement. Keep rolling
My favorite thing about being an American watching these is that I get to learn the UK slang. “Muppet” or “donut”🤣best believe imma start using them
I've heard of "muppet" but never "donut". shit is funny tho
You're a sausage bud
What does muppet mean in the UK?
What does donut mean in the UK?
yeah it's odd hearing these words used as insults, because in America we love donuts and Muppets lol
@@truthspreader1996 just polite ways of calling someone an idiot, other terms you could use are plonker or mug
Dude you are always right on with your comments!!!!!!
I don't know why, but I felt the last guy's pain when he shared about his girl cheated on him. Even though his voice was really calm, but it felt like he lost something within and now it feels empty in his chest.
He can either accept it as position of ultimate strength or ultimate defeat, life will always bring you something better, 10x better and 20x folds returns of diamonds and Gold. Not literal diamonds and Gold but for everything to fall into place.
You can hear there’s no emotion in his voice anymore
I'll be honest.. If I were the dude who didn't know the girl I was on a date with had a husband and he showed up and was this calm. I'd offer the guy a beer along with an apology and tell the woman to find her own ride home, if anything Id leave and then he can go back to his kids and I still tell that lady to find her own way back.
I love that you own up to your mistakes. Setting a great example.
1st clip- Bruh imagine having kids and doing that. My mother would've be dead for me if she ever did that.
Watch her STILL get half even with this proof. Stay alert, gents.
Whenever you call her a muppet or a donut I’m dead 😂😂😂
When you cheat on your spouse you also cheat on your kids
Adulterers deserve death
Of course. You cheat on the family you have built together and by cheating you put yourself above everything yall have with the known consequence of losing it all
12 min video, thank you Arako TV, today’s gonna be a good day😎
£24k in London won't even be enough for rent & electric. That is pathetic.
Gents, have class and don’t ever mess with another man’s wife.
That's true, but not all guys can be blamed. Alot of men don't know that these women have men.
6:14 “You’re not only a muppet, but you’re a donut.🤣🤣🤣
Its cool and all how straight and simple you make things up to be, and I agree with you on what the right thing is to do, but emotions exell that by far... if that last clip is True than my guy needs some help, bless him.
that last vid is soul crushing. Been through similar, it hurts even worse 😭😭😭😭
I hope the dude ends up successful in life and that bitch gets karma
Amen brother
i feel bad for that guy in the end. heart goes out to that king
He just has to move on. No big deal
@@chillvibed No big deal ? That shit can scar you for life
@@chillvibed that type of shit can lead someone into suicide who's not mentally capable.of acceptance or who's first time feeling was tarnished they question life in general still sending them into spiraling situations expenses alcoholism and more .....don't be blind.....I know that feeling as I spent years digging myself out but I did took a lot of will power mental and faith
@@MuiGohan true. It's just that I'm 30 and I've seen girls come and go so many times. I guess from my perspective it's no big deal. If he in high school then yes, it's going to be brutal for him. I would still advise to move on. I guess you have to develop the mental toughness. I keep forgetting not everyone has it.
@@chillvibed I agree brotha Im 33 and shit I had to learn that lesson at 21 wit my first official wife she did me all the dirties u can think of no exaggerating....but eventually I copied with it moved on and jus watched everybody a lil closer now I got my new wife and son and hell I'm very happy but still on guard I'm sure if she heard me say this she'd probably trip but I have my reasons lol now adays every one tryna be coniving I agree with you
You seem like a smart young man. Keep up the great work
That last one hurts so much man like damn
Holy fuck, the story from the last guy, I felt the pit growing in my stomach.. that's just gutting. I hope he deals with it alright, he doesn't deserve that.
man can you type a summary of it for the one of us who didnt manage to understand it well?
@@alundor
Basically on the last day of him being a junior moving up to senior year in school, which was a half day - he didn't get a text message from his GF of 3/4 years (dating since 8th grade) from the morning to the early hours of the next morning which to him was a little weird or passed it off as she was just dealing with some shit in her life.
Anyways, two weeks later, he gets invited to a group chat where the only thing posted is a video and said video is of his GF getting fucked and he knows this because she was in the exact same clothes she was wearing on the last day of junior year.
It's unknown if he was added to the group chat maliciously or not or what the outcome of that relationship but that said, I can't imagine how that guy is feeling KNOWING that his gf cheated and had literal proof.
@@Mikeyprs21 tyvm man
Dude my respect for you just skyrocketed! I used to like the (precursor to) Tribe of Men because they have fun commentary, but when that fake divorce judge was presented by them as real I posted a comment that this stuff was fake. They responded with something like "well it's the idea that counts" and didn't offer any corrections, not even putting it in a pinned top comment or anything! I was disappointed to see you feature it in a video, but you rectifying the situation by deleting the video is a true testament to your character. Thanks for the daily dose of entertainment, and thanks for always being genuine with us and caring about proper research and showing us only real shit!
am i the only one that feels like the time is going way way WAY faster when i watch arako? yesterday i watched his channel for more than hour and a half and it felt like 20 minutes
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I just want to point out that, what happened to the guy in the last clip, this is when men often commit suicide. To be confronted by this in such a way is some serious pain, even more so if you're so young and don't have much experience with pain yet. For all you guys out there: this is when men need to support each other. We need to be bros and help them get through that pain. At the end of the day, we need more good, strong men, which means we need to stick together to build ourselves up.
Thank u I jus said this to someone
but its a "bro" that fck her bih as well.. some dudes are hitting on women even though they know they're in a relationship and women who like this kind of vybe is what destroy young men.. its a vicious cycle.. men will cheat because they got cheated on and would probably destroy a relationship.. same goes for women..
@@fatesteyneit2990 that is also true and it's a shame wen some dudes let it happen to them ...I wouldn't tolerate that shit from either party it's a respect thing fuck em both at that point these hands for everybody equal rights equal lefts
Went through the same shit 5 years ago. I would never suicide but i wanted to go into the mountains(inheritance of my ancestors which has not been visited in almost 200 years, its basically a jungle) so badly to try and survive there. If i survive there i prove to myself i am a capable man who was not the problem, if i die i was the problem. Honestly not even sure how i survived that phase. I had to watch a video of her being fked by my best friend with whom i played DotA every day. Been with her since 2012 till 2017 when shit happend. I think what kept me was the fact i was just finishing faculty for going on board the ship as a cadet. So just being away from everyone working my ass off kept me somewhat sane. No women is worth a minute of your time men! Remember that. Women, a decent one, is just a bonus, nothing more.
i remember when I found out I was cheated on through a paternity test. For the first couple weeks I remember thinking to myself, I completely understand why people commit suicide as that was a repeating thought going on in my head. I remember just wanting the pain to stop and that feeling of wanting to quit...
No point blaming the man, because 99.9% of the time the woman lied about her being single.
Agree but the man is to blame cause he knew she was cause why would he sit there instead of saying sorry and walk away
@@clarkkent6927 Because its a really awkward moment and he didn't know what to do.
@@FriendlyHomie Probably
@@clarkkent6927 or waiting for the check because walking away without paying is a crime.
@@FriendlyHomie How did he not know to GTFO? Her HUSBAND just showed up. He can no longer assume she's single. He must be a hell of a simp to sit there because he's just that desperate to get laid. That guy is pathetic.
That last clip almost broke me. Dang I feel that for that brother. I pray his strength.
Bro that fake ending got me I had to click back and watch the full video. Good one.
The guy that said “Because you’ve got to feed the prisoner” is an old school soldier and true warrior poet
When your videos hit that moment of "she belongs to the STREETS." I laugh every time.
What is wrong with these young women?!! OMG! 🙄
That last clip took my soul out of my body just for how horrible it was........
I’m only a sophomore and I can validate the last part of the vid for being 100% true, it’s sad but that’s the wrld we live in and at this point I’m just numb 2 this pain, praise 2 that brother✊he needs 2 b strong
First guy took it real well
"You're not only a muppet, you're a donut". Arako you are an absolute savage
yet absolutely on point lol
Came on a bit string with that one
That last one was so messed up I feel so bad for bro. He saw it with his own eyes and knows a lot of other ppl did to that must feel awful
I'll disagree with the woman who wants a good career over love. I found the love of my life at 16 years old we were married at 18 had four kids and weren't Rich by any standards. But our children were well taken care of grew up in a house full of love and now have loving families of Their Own. I was married to my soulmate for 39 years when she passed away in 2022
"love don't give me fulfillment" ... heard that alot, when i was like 20, now most of my female friends are reaching 25-35 ... yeah, easy pickings, most of them are trying so hard to get with their old bfs, their old friends, me ... trust me, boost me up by 10 years, ill take the 10y life reduction, I dont want someone with another mans kid, nor someone who slept with 20+ guys, and i definitely dont want someone who is taking 3,4,5,6,7,8,9th+ choice so they can actually have kids and a family.... oh ye, "i never want kids" was their favorite song 10 years ago
This is sad about the cheating or high body count. I found out from my adult stepdaughter information mom had told her about herself. She told me if I knew that mom had a high body count. I told her no and that my understanding was that she was with only one man and that was her father. She went on to say that mom told her after separating from her father that she had many hook ups that exceeded over fifty. I was like “What” no way!!!! I now see my wife in total different light although over 50 years have gone by.
Yeah, I found out the hard way. Could not understand why she was no longer putting effort into the relationship. Found a letter talking about her side fellow and he burned her. Years later found out she was with other guys as well while I paid all the party bills. Saw her years later and she was so happy to see me but I just kept going never did regret it and I learned a couple of things. 1. Trust your instincts. 2. Do not ignore the signs no matter the BS they will try to manipulate you with. 3. When you cannot trust her move on. 4.Party girl is a party girl and nothing is going to change her, if you fall in love she is going to get bored and go looking for a party, always. 5.Never look back!!!!!
It takes a real man to admit his mistakes.
everytime the "she belongs to the streets" clip is gonna play, I close my eyes and nod with him.
You're not the hero we deserve, but need!
It happened 3x on this one.
my last girlfriend told me one day she wanted more, and wanted me to change, i had made it clear from the rip that if she ever didnt want to be with me, to just say so, and we would be cool. so after she said that mess, i packed up what i cared most about, and moved out when she was at work. she sent me a few texts asking some questions, i let her keep all the stuff i bought, i never yelled, i almost did, but i stopped. havent spoken, text, nothing with her in almost 3yrs. ✌
Good man for owning up to your misstake. Arako the Legend!
12:40 that's a good idea just send the video and block leave it at that lol
No 🧢 funniest G rated insults of all time come from the UK lol when dude call em a Muppet or a doughnut I lose my shi haha