Years ago I had a friend from Bangladesh who was a computer science major but in the meantime he was managing a pizza delivery store. I had my BA in History and had taken one or two graduate courses but with an ill wife and a teen daughter trombone player (those things cost over $700 each and had to buy 2 of them over the years!) in the band. He was always planning to go back to Bangladesh but he also had a wife and daughter which kept him working at the restaurant. By the way he was the general manager and I was the asst manager. We made a good team for four years till he finally finished his degree and moved home. We talked a lot and her stories always remind me of yours.
... This is the first time I've heard somebody say they came to germany for food. 😅 I can understand if somebody comes from a poor country or from a conflict/war to have the luxurity of regular/expensive food here but let's be honest there is a reason germans themself go to asian/italian/turkish restaurants and maybe know a handfull of german dishes. 😂❤
That job stress is real in every country. I worked on a community college campus with the largest CC International students in the state. I learned a lot about the VISA process and working both on and off campus. The safest was a student that was on a ViSA from her family and could not work nor volunteer directly. She could volunteer if her clubs were volunteering. I created a program for clubs to volunteer for activities and events on campus so she could gain experience.
That was so kind and professional of you to do so❤❤❤. Employers want experience but its difficult to obtain at times. Your post gave me hope for the future❤❤❤
With your online portfolio, you can do anything in media world. Especially in international companies. Edit since its so hard to get for many of you: Companies love doers, creative people who manage and complete assignments, who have completed track of projects especially if they created them on their own, or know how to manage international communities. It gives them an edge over other applicants because they are seen as active applicant. Despite what you think, its not easy to become famous or successful online. Yet she did it, all on her own. And that makes Uyen talented and unique. Companies of any kind even in the area people study see that (also because they think in how can it benefit us).
Maybe she doesn't want to commit to that. Maybe for her it's just a fun hobby. If she's moved to Germany for a particular degree I'm sure she's eager to get a job in her field and keep learning
You should go wherever you think that there are the most opportunities for you and your fiancé, and also where you will be able to visit your loved ones.
Sad to say that I only recently learned that Pell Grant recipients qualify for a LOT of benefits and I am one (also first-gen). The one time I'm more than happy to swallow my pride cause after everything was said and done, I'm now saving approximately $280mo. I also went from budgeting $600yr MINIMUM on bus fare to $279yr exactly on a Fall, Spring, and Summer bus pass to where I've spent about $10 on fare since January 2022. I'm stressed af as a student but I can't lie, the benefits come in clutch cause needed and it's gonna be the one thing I'll actually miss when I graduate.
Guess that applies to most international students. I know that feeling of having family/parents/siblings abroad far away but let me remind you that you are all welcome to take germany as your second home and I'm happy for your achievements, god bless! 🫶💪
@@juliejanesmith57 exactly! I studied in my own country and now, 5 years after graduation, I have seen all those. Except for moving, because my mom would rather help me so I could stay where I live now, since our hometown doesn't have a good level of life :(
@@juliejanesmith57 Not only developed but even in "undeveloped" or "third world" countries too. Many countries are very poor and parents can't either afford a visa for a more expensive country or their visa doesn't get approved (due to limited approvals) or they don't get accepted from any uni. Those children will still try to find a way for work or study, maybe far in a different village inside the country or in a neighbouring country. They may not live as luxurious as in europe but have a chance to earn money or get a degree while still suffering the same difficulties (missing family and home) as students in europe,etc. It's a bitter sweet reality. 🫶
@@aleaiacetaest9132 Why would you hope so? Lol, I love my fellow humen but I prefer working alone on my own as I'm not really good socialising or customer care.
@@pyrophoresist1497 even worse, my parents told me just to date and marry someone asap for the greencard 😅 it’s not like a partner is gonna fall from the sky..
@@tuongchu2867 That reminded me my mother suggested some times in the past to marry a European citizen so I could get "PR" or citizenship (after some years). I always rebuffed it.
@@bookssolitude6519 It depends on a lot of factors, namely sector of study I would say. While the unemployment is generally low, there is a lot of competition and there's a lot of underemployment among immigrants. Think people who finished university in a continent that isn't north America or Europe who drives a taxi, or works in a call center, etc. I lucked out but I have a lot of privilege going for me. I personally would not trade it for the world though. Canada is great!
@@Ashloup aha. What about housing for international students? I am not from a privileged background and I heard about the housing crisis in Canada. I wonder if it's possible for international students to find a place to stay while finishing their studies. Also, is it hard to find part time jobs while studying?
As a former international student, the anxieties are too real. once you've worked your first job it goes down aggressively, you stop feeling like an idiot 24/7 whether its your fault or not😂, only difference is my family basically said don't come back
I'm an international student who is currently thinking about pursuing medical in Germany (public university, ofc) but I'm not sure about so many things. Mainly the accommodation cost (preferably a student dorm), class timings and regarding part time jobs... can you please tell me all that you can? More the info the better, really
Please post a video about wedding culture in both your respective countries? Also wedding attire customs would be great! Congrats on graduation, Uyen! ❤️Much love from California.
In the end you'll go to wherever the best opportunities are. Wherever that is, I'm certain you will have thought it out throughly and will be together.🍀
the job application one is so true and really sad. My Husband wrote so many application and only had to choice to work at a shitty company while looking for something better. Me a german need to write a maximum of like 10 applications and with at least 5 job offers to choose from. (And he is way smarter and diligent than me)
It depends on the command of German you acquire while studying in Germany. If you didn’t focus on learning the language, why should employers consider you? So let’s assume the German language skills are solid. Why don’t you apply with Lufthansa? They are desperately seeking staff, not only cabin crew, but cabin crew is a great first step into a multi national and global company. And no, your salary won’t be 10k per month right away.
@@MR-xo6sh You obviously have no clue. You are talking about USA where even the blacks compete about skintone. The darkest one is the loser in a Black American community. In Germany you need to speak fluent German of course and you need the skills for the job. 8 years of basic school in America is nothing. . Germans go to school for 11 years for basic education. Then they do three years of dual system apprenticeship. Training on the job for three years plus going to jobschool two days every week. Jobschool is specialized for training the theoretical skills necessary for the job. If anyone from another country has no German language skills and no experience in any field they can't get a job in Germany of course. Need to do three years of apprenticeship or get a study diploma like all Germans do.
FFS, how do you make me cry in less than 30 seconds??!! Ugh. I wish you all the best, and your cinematography is at master class level. They should also name a fan after you or give you an Oscar for best use of a fan in social media, lol.
All of that added stress makes me feel really sorry for what international students have to deal with. Just trying to finish your senior year is hard enough!
It's important to befriend international exchange students to help them feel welcome and relax and have fun so they don't feel alone and like their hair is gonna fall out soon
LOL somehow kinda going through the same thing in the good ol US of A rn?? I’m turning 26 (getting kicked off parents insurance) and slightly physically disabled and I’m terrified I wanna move away I’m already in big medical debt lolol GOOD LUCK I believe in you girl it’s tricky dealing with government shenanigans but it’s worth it to stay with your mate!! I wish you guys the best of luck getting through it you’ve got amazing strength 💪💕
Sad to hear that, in Germany just international students have to fear insurance payments. If you a unemployed german citizen you will get unemployment money and free healthcare till you get a job. Is there any comparable solution in the USA for you?
26 and in big medical debt… one of the few things that I’ll probably never be able to wrap my head around. How can so many US citizens still be ok with enslavement through medical bills?
Oh I can relate! It was so hard to say goodbye to my student's benefits, especially the public transportation discount (it's 10 times cheaper when you're a student)
My friends and I were thinking of applying for scholarship to be an exchange student. And this video inspires me to go. Although there are hardships, I know it's all gonna be worth it and ofc fun!!
I'm an international student who is currently thinking about pursuing medical in Germany (public university, ofc) but I'm not sure about so many things. Mainly the accommodation cost (preferably a student dorm), class timings and regarding part time jobs... can you please tell me all that you can? More the info the better, really
Awesome storytelling and dramatization of emotions. There’s a short film to be found in your content. Well done ! Very much looking forward to seeing the next phase of your life.
I moved to Canada for school and I'm graduating soon, I feel this!!! I can't apply for a new visa until I get my diploma and my visa is expiring soon ahhhh
For International students wherever you're, don't coming back to your home especially if you are from SEA. It's downgrade especially for your financial... 😶
@@roslindale Economic recession, inflation spiralling through the roof, unemployment all really ruin your chances when you go back home. Even if you get a job, which you can, it's not in line with what you studied at all (The pandemic & Russia-Ukraine war contributed heavily to these factors)
@@roslindale it's mostly because you are seen as superior than other who graduate in the uni within your country. The currency kills your expectation and it's not worth to fight for higher salary bcs they thought you are just being arrogant.
Everyone misses the student life once its gone. Probably the only time in my life that was 90% about me. Almost no responsibilities and no worries - I could mostly do whatever I wanted.
@@brinkiTOgo sorry you missed this. My parents supported me financially, so a 10-15 hrs student job was all I needed to afford everything I wanted. In terms of pressure - my IT studies were quite easy for me, so I was coasting most of the time, with some intense bursts of studying in between.
That’s true for all students - not only international ones. And Germany is very generous to begin with: Free tuition, free public transport, free health care, special allotment of grands, etc. and a full year of grace period after graduation. But at some point you have to carry your own weight in society - even in Germany.
I'm planning on studying in Germany for a year, so I can probably relate eventually. But I can't relate to the last one, I have all intentions of returning to Norway as SOON as possible after I graduate and continue my education in Norway again.
I'm an international student who is currently thinking about pursuing medical in Germany (public university, ofc) but I'm not sure about so many things. Mainly the accommodation cost (preferably a student dorm), class timings and regarding part time jobs... can you please tell me all that you can? More the info the better, really
@@Bjuesea just to experience a different culture, and after having been in Germany for 5 months I can say that Germany was too different for me, I'd rather go back where I'm familiar.
@@t-mag3004 Thank you for your immediate reply and I‘m sorry you could not find a second place to call home over here. I like Norway a lot, but you can‘t compare spending a vacation to sharing everyday life with all its challenges somewhere else. I was just wondering why you wanted to come over in the first place because it sounded like you expected exactly what you experienced, but I still hope there might be some beautiful things coming your way before heading back home. Kind regards 🙋♀️
Stay strong, it’ll all come out good in the wash (did it 30 years ago, now a well travelled, married ex-expat with lots of lovely connections… and a job I love in a language that is not my native tongue). 😅
Totally understand that! I graduated in Australia and once done, I’ve been wondered on wether to go back home or not - 17 years have passed since then!
@@joaovieira6729 My sis is german like me and studied in Germany, like I said. ^^ But only for the benefits to be a student. Everything is cheaper (busses, trains, museums, clubs, zoos, swimming etc), you get an appartment easier which is paid by the proud Papa (😐), you don't have to pay insurances by yourself and you have soooo much free time for parties and vacations (if you don't study seriously)....the list goes on. 🤷🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️
Jokes aside, that‘s the cold hard truth in Germany. Most people, who go there, go there for all the benefits it offers to those in different situations, who are not working. For net contributors, going to Germany doesn‘t make any sense economically.
student's visa for international students, HUGE students discounts for public transport, restaurants, bars, clubs, even sometimes hotels, generally a lot of places in europe have massive students discounts. cheap insurance and universal healthcare. a lot of universities can also offer financial aid for their students
@@satinizer8021 damn and the pain of it disappearing is enhanced 20x then Imagine bringing enough money for transportation but you realize you don't have the discounts anymore. The habit will ruin you 🥺
Why? Are you going to betray the other students by blocking a seat and not intending to study? First you start to study then we tell you about the benefits. Maybe you should find a job and not study at all.
@@doroparker1702 There's plenty of university programs without an NC so nobody would be losing a seat if you're just studying on paper. The problem is you'd only be allowed to work 20 hours max.
Oh girl, I so understand you ❤️ be brave my dear, I wish you the best. You are lucky to be with someone who supports you unconditionally. I am sure you will be fine. Kisses from Italy
Yep… family “encouragement” is the worst. I am married to Taiwanese and live here for 12 years already …. It feels like they are rooting for my marriage to fail, it sucks:))
Omg sooo relatable!!! I'm planning on applying for foreign studies but I also have to stress about what will happen after I finish my studies lol! Lots of love Uyen 💕💕
I'm an international student who is currently thinking about pursuing medical in Germany (public university, ofc) but I'm not sure about so many things. Mainly the accommodation cost (preferably a student dorm), class timings and regarding part time jobs... can you please tell me all that you can? More the info the better, really
I’m sorry you’re going through this. You should definitely move where it benefits you the most. Life’s too short to feel stuck❤ any good partner would understand and work with you. It takes time to work things through especially big decisions. Everything will be okay and your ideas will fall into place knowing you and your dedication. ❤
I knew a girl who was staying in the us with a working visa after her student visa but it got denied randomly one year and she was the only in her grad class of 10+ students who was denied. Visas can be harsh
You pay very little as a student here. It's around 100€/month. Once you're employed, you pay about 15% of your gross income. It's automatically deducted from your paycheck by your employer. There's private insurance available as well, but you can only get that as a state employee, business owner or freelancer. Everyone else has to be in the public system. So not sure, what she's referring to, since she doesn't even have a job yet. If she was a citizen or refugee or something, the social welfare system would pay for her health insurance, while she's unemployed, since health insurance is mandatory. You're literally not allowed, to not have it. As a former visa student without a job (yet), she might have to pay for it herself, since she isn't a citizen and her being here is voluntary (so to speak). That would indeed be a bummer!
So usually you pay around 80 € per month and all basic costs for appointments and neccessary operations are included. After graduation you pay around 180€ per month. With a propper job it is a percentage of your income (14%) and a maximum of 760€. The idea behind this is to offer students and low income people an afordable insurance.
@@zanza4965 we pay monthly fees for insurance and still have to pay for everything medical related. Our insurance only covers a fraction of the cost and medical costs here, are much higher, compared to everywhere else in the world.
@@SJ-ni6iyUS is still better especially quality of healthcare in Germany sucks. Maybe it sound good like 125 euro per month and everything included but, for going to doctor you have to wait 3-6 month. But in US if you have money all doors open to you
@@nariman_alizada. that’s the thing, we have to pay a lot of money, on top of already paying monthly insurance fees. In Germany you wouldn’t have to worry about working, while battling an illness, just to keep insurance. In America, most places fire u or u have to work a certain amount of days, to be insured. We can get Medicare/Medicaid, from the government but u can’t own anything, or have money in the bank. Insurance has to approve medical care for Americans and we also get the waiting game.
Tough luck but every non-EEA student needs to be aware of this. There are ways to get around it so you don't have to go back home to a stagnant & completely different job market(vs when you left): -Apply for a PhD if your grades are good -Study for a new bachelor/Masters degree until you get a job. I wouldn't do it but respect the grind of those who do. Know people on their 4th/5th degrees (some actually did get a full-time job afterwards) Delay some of your final year course module exam(s) &/or your thesis so you can stay longer as a student. The final year of your studies is busy & tough because you're supposed to be multitasking. Working on finishing your degree & applying for your next steps after your graduate(e.g. applying for PhD positions, jobs, graduate programs etc to get something that sticks) based on whether you want to stay abroad or go back home. (Many 3rd worlder students want to stay abroad legally doing something & not go home because of unemployment, lack of jobs, spiralling inflation, economic recession which all affect opportunities to get jobs/positions) There's always competition & nothing is handed on a silver platter so you need to be prepared. It's basic common knowledge at the Master's level but a lot don't even know this, very ignorantly.
Dont. *) 1) Employees with a doctoral degree can be sourced from anywhere in the world today. There are plenty of PhDs in India or Eastern Europe. (I am a manager, frequently hiring for R&D positions.) You will be competing with them. 2) Companies are reluctant to hire highly specialised individuals. They are hard to replace, and a risk to the company. 3) You will not have an advantage in your career. Neither in pay, nor in working conditions. 4) You'll probably not get a decent job in academia, particularly not in Germany. *) Unless you are prepared to devote your life to science. There are exceptions for very few situations.
Ach... Save your incorrect Indian centered advice. Does NOT apply to Germany. I know plenty of PHd's here in CH working in hospitality... and CH has BETTER education than DE 😂
As a foreigner and a musician living in Madrid, I feel you!! So much so, I even wrote a song about the visas struggle and international love woes that come with it all🥹
U r correct in ur desperation. You spend the majority of your young life in becoming a doctor. And the cost 💲 of all that entails. And finally U r a doctor! No Job is available that pays u well enough to live, pay the loans, rent, food, trans, AND all those Patinos that question ur education, ur intelligence, and don’t even believe in science. So you are YELLING at the top of ur lungs! Why! What for ! At this point, I would advise you: go find a big science minded research company and just breathe! It is very very disappointing but you have got to let it go for a while and regroup. In a few years see how you feel. But for now leave. Right now! Don’t get stuck with “ but they need me” They will be OK. U on the other hand you may not ! if u don’t get out!
You’ve captured the headaches and anxieties that most international students go through, thanks!
Went through it 25 years ago... no regrets... whatever decision you make, you make it ✅️
Don’t be an international student then.
@@Patrick3183 eat cake then
Gasheri, hang in there
@@Patrick3183 🤡
Years ago I had a friend from Bangladesh who was a computer science major but in the meantime he was managing a pizza delivery store. I had my BA in History and had taken one or two graduate courses but with an ill wife and a teen daughter trombone player (those things cost over $700 each and had to buy 2 of them over the years!) in the band. He was always planning to go back to Bangladesh but he also had a wife and daughter which kept him working at the restaurant. By the way he was the general manager and I was the asst manager. We made a good team for four years till he finally finished his degree and moved home. We talked a lot and her stories always remind me of yours.
are you still friends??
What did you expect to be doing with a BA in history?
@@Bowie_E your mother
I loved your story, I hope you two remain in touch, I study history in my homeland, how's studying history in germany? Which period do you like?
@Bowie E Who raised you? Your lack of manners is atrocious.
As an international student, I can say that I came only for the food
Are you a masochist or something? For German food?
@@HelloOnepieceMY REACTION EXACTLY 😂😂😂😂
German food? 🤡
... This is the first time I've heard somebody say they came to germany for food. 😅 I can understand if somebody comes from a poor country or from a conflict/war to have the luxurity of regular/expensive food here but let's be honest there is a reason germans themself go to asian/italian/turkish restaurants and maybe know a handfull of german dishes. 😂❤
Please tell me its not germany cuz do they even eat food over there💀
That job stress is real in every country. I worked on a community college campus with the largest CC International students in the state. I learned a lot about the VISA process and working both on and off campus. The safest was a student that was on a ViSA from her family and could not work nor volunteer directly. She could volunteer if her clubs were volunteering. I created a program for clubs to volunteer for activities and events on campus so she could gain experience.
That was so kind and professional of you to do so❤❤❤. Employers want experience but its difficult to obtain at times. Your post gave me hope for the future❤❤❤
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Thanks for making that club for her. That probably helped, not just her, but ,any other international students as well.
You're a hero, may God bless you Insh-Allah Ameen
That's such an awesome thing you've done for them. I hope others find solace in your program.
That standing up shot was so cool!!
It had a big impact
Yeah I had to watch that a few times to work it out.
was wondering why i didn’t see any comments about this
With your online portfolio, you can do anything in media world. Especially in international companies. Edit since its so hard to get for many of you: Companies love doers, creative people who manage and complete assignments, who have completed track of projects especially if they created them on their own, or know how to manage international communities. It gives them an edge over other applicants because they are seen as active applicant. Despite what you think, its not easy to become famous or successful online. Yet she did it, all on her own. And that makes Uyen talented and unique. Companies of any kind even in the area people study see that (also because they think in how can it benefit us).
yes!!!!!!!!!
Maybe she doesn't want to commit to that. Maybe for her it's just a fun hobby. If she's moved to Germany for a particular degree I'm sure she's eager to get a job in her field and keep learning
Pretty sure this is a generalized video. Most students aren't content creators
@@takutolovex Pretty sure she actually was a student and did all this.
Can i ask what an online portfolio is?? Is it about her being a content creator and her subscribers and stuff?
You should go wherever you think that there are the most opportunities for you and your fiancé, and also where you will be able to visit your loved ones.
Alternatively, move to the Canary Islands
They're getting married soon so I believe they will stay in Germany for the time being
Yes. These are the options. Correct.
It's no longer her choice alone because she is engaged to be married. That's not how relationships work.
Gee thanks for your suggestion captain obvious
This is too real, and I’m not even an international student!!! But when I graduated, all those “student discounts” went bye bye
we didnt even have student discounts in my country
@@pinkpugginz You poor souls 🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺
Sad to say that I only recently learned that Pell Grant recipients qualify for a LOT of benefits and I am one (also first-gen). The one time I'm more than happy to swallow my pride cause after everything was said and done, I'm now saving approximately $280mo. I also went from budgeting $600yr MINIMUM on bus fare to $279yr exactly on a Fall, Spring, and Summer bus pass to where I've spent about $10 on fare since January 2022.
I'm stressed af as a student but I can't lie, the benefits come in clutch cause needed and it's gonna be the one thing I'll actually miss when I graduate.
student discounts not being available to non students? wicked.
Been 35 yrs since I graduated, and I STILL miss all the awesome student discounts!! Especially the cheap travel virtually anywhere! 😊
Guess that applies to most international students. I know that feeling of having family/parents/siblings abroad far away but let me remind you that you are all welcome to take germany as your second home and I'm happy for your achievements, god bless! 🫶💪
I mean, for everything except a visa this applies to most students in developed countries everywhere unfortunately.
@@juliejanesmith57 exactly! I studied in my own country and now, 5 years after graduation, I have seen all those. Except for moving, because my mom would rather help me so I could stay where I live now, since our hometown doesn't have a good level of life :(
I hope you work at the immigration center or are a matchmaker 😆
@@juliejanesmith57 Not only developed but even in "undeveloped" or "third world" countries too. Many countries are very poor and parents can't either afford a visa for a more expensive country or their visa doesn't get approved (due to limited approvals) or they don't get accepted from any uni. Those children will still try to find a way for work or study, maybe far in a different village inside the country or in a neighbouring country. They may not live as luxurious as in europe but have a chance to earn money or get a degree while still suffering the same difficulties (missing family and home) as students in europe,etc. It's a bitter sweet reality. 🫶
@@aleaiacetaest9132 Why would you hope so? Lol, I love my fellow humen but I prefer working alone on my own as I'm not really good socialising or customer care.
Your music selection amazes me at its absolute appropriateness! Your videos are such jewels of visuals paired with audio clips. BRAVA! 🏆🏆🏆
what is the name of the music
bravo
@@nj7728 its Fairytale from shrek
@@AHB82 thank youu ❤️
@@nj7728 😊
saddest part is when your family Does NOT want you back, rather nagg you to get a job ASAP as if it were up to us.
That's my fam!! They keep telling to get a job & not come back empty handed & unemployed (like I did last time years ago)
@@pyrophoresist1497 even worse, my parents told me just to date and marry someone asap for the greencard 😅 it’s not like a partner is gonna fall from the sky..
@@tuongchu2867 That reminded me my mother suggested some times in the past to marry a European citizen so I could get "PR" or citizenship (after some years). I always rebuffed it.
@@pyrophoresist1497 messed up. why so they can leech off you more
@@tuongchu2867 Especially when greencards are getting harder to get now even if you married someone
Omg this one hurts! I moved to Canada and finished school here and felt ALL of these!!! Hang in there, it does get better folks.
Is it possible to get jobs after finishing your diploma in Canada? If I may ask.
@@bookssolitude6519 It depends on a lot of factors, namely sector of study I would say. While the unemployment is generally low, there is a lot of competition and there's a lot of underemployment among immigrants. Think people who finished university in a continent that isn't north America or Europe who drives a taxi, or works in a call center, etc.
I lucked out but I have a lot of privilege going for me. I personally would not trade it for the world though. Canada is great!
@@Ashloup aha. What about housing for international students? I am not from a privileged background and I heard about the housing crisis in Canada. I wonder if it's possible for international students to find a place to stay while finishing their studies. Also, is it hard to find part time jobs while studying?
I'm Mexican and moved to the UK for a masters. I'm staying here, so I'm feeling all this very, very intensely
Te vamos a extrañar. México necesita gente con preparación, pero no te culpo por quedarte allá. Disfruta tu vida y recuerda, el tequila se exporta.
Do babes. No tengas miedo. Échale ganas. Los europeos están bien sopes y necesitan nuestra chispa. Te va a ir bien.
Te deseamos las mejores de las suertes paisano ¡Se feliz! Estarás bien ;)
The replies under your comment are about to make me cry 😭😭 i wish people from my country were as supportive as latinos ❤️
Gracias paisanos, me dan mucha inspiración! A darle con todo!
As a former international student, the anxieties are too real. once you've worked your first job it goes down aggressively, you stop feeling like an idiot 24/7 whether its your fault or not😂, only difference is my family basically said don't come back
I'm an international student who is currently thinking about pursuing medical in Germany (public university, ofc) but I'm not sure about so many things. Mainly the accommodation cost (preferably a student dorm), class timings and regarding part time jobs... can you please tell me all that you can? More the info the better, really
Please post a video about wedding culture in both your respective countries? Also wedding attire customs would be great! Congrats on graduation, Uyen! ❤️Much love from California.
In the end you'll go to wherever the best opportunities are. Wherever that is, I'm certain you will have thought it out throughly and will be together.🍀
All jokes aside, this is a big change and I can imagine how real these struggles are.
It's not that big of a change
her fiance makes a lot of money shes fine
Girl every short you make is a masterpiece. 😂😂 You are a masterpiece!! ❤❤
the job application one is so true and really sad. My Husband wrote so many application and only had to choice to work at a shitty company while looking for something better. Me a german need to write a maximum of like 10 applications and with at least 5 job offers to choose from. (And he is way smarter and diligent than me)
Believe me: this happened to a German girl 20 years ago as well - economy crisis in Germany.
It depends on the command of German you acquire while studying in Germany. If you didn’t focus on learning the language, why should employers consider you? So let’s assume the German language skills are solid. Why don’t you apply with Lufthansa? They are desperately seeking staff, not only cabin crew, but cabin crew is a great first step into a multi national and global company. And no, your salary won’t be 10k per month right away.
Remember that in Germany the rule is ‘the whiter the better’
I, a German, can not confirm. Even though I studied biodiversity and ecology 🤡
@@MR-xo6sh You obviously have no clue. You are talking about USA where even the blacks compete about skintone.
The darkest one is the loser in a Black American community.
In Germany you need to speak fluent German of course and you need the skills for the job.
8 years of basic school in America is nothing.
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Germans go to school for 11 years for basic education.
Then they do three years of dual system apprenticeship.
Training on the job for three years plus going to jobschool two days every week.
Jobschool is specialized for training the theoretical skills necessary for the job.
If anyone from another country has no German language skills and no experience in any field they can't get a job in Germany of course.
Need to do three years of apprenticeship or get a study diploma like all Germans do.
You still be just fine, you have a great partner to help you through it all. Love From Scotland xxxx
This is what it was like for me after graduating in England. I unfortunately couldn't get a job there, so I'm not there anymore.
Oh, just living this at the moment, I'm graduating in September, and need to get a job asap. Sending hugs, that must have sucked
Where you able to stay in Europe?
You don’t wanna stay in that crumbling sh*t hole.
FFS, how do you make me cry in less than 30 seconds??!! Ugh. I wish you all the best, and your cinematography is at master class level. They should also name a fan after you or give you an Oscar for best use of a fan in social media, lol.
All of that added stress makes me feel really sorry for what international students have to deal with. Just trying to finish your senior year is hard enough!
It's important to befriend international exchange students to help them feel welcome and relax and have fun so they don't feel alone and like their hair is gonna fall out soon
most international students families have a lot of money so they dont have the same stress.
Herzlichen Glückwunsch zum Master.🎉 Gut gemacht 💪🏼 Bitte verlass uns nicht. ❤
❤❤❤
Nooo, don't move back. We want to keep you! ❤
Thanks for showing the real side of struggles for international students.
LOL somehow kinda going through the same thing in the good ol US of A rn?? I’m turning 26 (getting kicked off parents insurance) and slightly physically disabled and I’m terrified I wanna move away I’m already in big medical debt lolol GOOD LUCK I believe in you girl it’s tricky dealing with government shenanigans but it’s worth it to stay with your mate!! I wish you guys the best of luck getting through it you’ve got amazing strength 💪💕
get on the state insurance if yours has it.
Sad to hear that, in Germany just international students have to fear insurance payments. If you a unemployed german citizen you will get unemployment money and free healthcare till you get a job. Is there any comparable solution in the USA for you?
26 and in big medical debt… one of the few things that I’ll probably never be able to wrap my head around. How can so many US citizens still be ok with enslavement through medical bills?
Don't forget "oh, I actually have to speak german now?"
Oh I can relate! It was so hard to say goodbye to my student's benefits, especially the public transportation discount (it's 10 times cheaper when you're a student)
Ого, это где так? У меня разве что скидка 50% на междугородние автобусы 😅
@@summerprewett9761 Москва и проездной на метро)) месяц безлимита стоит 400р где-то
@@sveetlana ого, с московскими ценами на общественный транспорт и правда очень дёшево для студента. Спасибо за ответ!
My friends and I were thinking of applying for scholarship to be an exchange student. And this video inspires me to go. Although there are hardships, I know it's all gonna be worth it and ofc fun!!
I'm an international student who is currently thinking about pursuing medical in Germany (public university, ofc) but I'm not sure about so many things. Mainly the accommodation cost (preferably a student dorm), class timings and regarding part time jobs... can you please tell me all that you can? More the info the better, really
That growth panning shot was VERY well choreographed!
Awesome storytelling and dramatization of emotions. There’s a short film to be found in your content. Well done ! Very much looking forward to seeing the next phase of your life.
I moved to Canada for school and I'm graduating soon, I feel this!!! I can't apply for a new visa until I get my diploma and my visa is expiring soon ahhhh
Going through the visa process currently for Canada. Terrified of getting denied and seperated from my husband and step kid again
For International students wherever you're, don't coming back to your home especially if you are from SEA. It's downgrade especially for your financial... 😶
@@roslindale Economic recession, inflation spiralling through the roof, unemployment all really ruin your chances when you go back home. Even if you get a job, which you can, it's not in line with what you studied at all
(The pandemic & Russia-Ukraine war contributed heavily to these factors)
@@roslindale it's mostly because you are seen as superior than other who graduate in the uni within your country. The currency kills your expectation and it's not worth to fight for higher salary bcs they thought you are just being arrogant.
@@roslindale If you want to yes you can. What you said is a true dilemma suffered by many.
My time with parents has been cut short. You never get today back. Treasure it ❤
Everyone misses the student life once its gone. Probably the only time in my life that was 90% about me. Almost no responsibilities and no worries - I could mostly do whatever I wanted.
I wish I had this ... But my studies were overshadowed by pressure, sickness and fear of not having enough money
@@brinkiTOgo i feel you
@@brinkiTOgo sorry you missed this. My parents supported me financially, so a 10-15 hrs student job was all I needed to afford everything I wanted. In terms of pressure - my IT studies were quite easy for me, so I was coasting most of the time, with some intense bursts of studying in between.
@@philipkoene5345 you have a real knack for sensitivity
😢true
Добро пожаловать на следующий уровень! Главное, не стать “сурком”☺️
Есть уверенность, что Вам это не грозит 🌸🌸🌸 Удачи во взрослой жизни! 🍀
Best option: Apply for Masters.
Your videos are so relatable.... Coz my daughter is in Germany as a master's student only😊
Wow! I loved the positioning and filming in this one, especially the cost of health insurance growing over 5x! Stellar!
The hardest work is over and success is on the way. Congratulations on your graduation! ❤and it is normal to be nervous!
What a rollercoaster of emotion. From your final presentation with the joy and exuberance, to this 😢
That’s true for all students - not only international ones. And Germany is very generous to begin with: Free tuition, free public transport, free health care, special allotment of grands, etc. and a full year of grace period after graduation. But at some point you have to carry your own weight in society - even in Germany.
Wish you success. You will make it. Being there done that :)
I'm planning on studying in Germany for a year, so I can probably relate eventually. But I can't relate to the last one, I have all intentions of returning to Norway as SOON as possible after I graduate and continue my education in Norway again.
I'm an international student who is currently thinking about pursuing medical in Germany (public university, ofc) but I'm not sure about so many things. Mainly the accommodation cost (preferably a student dorm), class timings and regarding part time jobs... can you please tell me all that you can? More the info the better, really
So why do you intend to go there anyway? 🤔
@@Bjuesea just to experience a different culture, and after having been in Germany for 5 months I can say that Germany was too different for me, I'd rather go back where I'm familiar.
@@t-mag3004 Thank you for your immediate reply and I‘m sorry you could not find a second place to call home over here. I like Norway a lot, but you can‘t compare spending a vacation to sharing everyday life with all its challenges somewhere else. I was just wondering why you wanted to come over in the first place because it sounded like you expected exactly what you experienced, but I still hope there might be some beautiful things coming your way before heading back home. Kind regards 🙋♀️
😂😂😂😂😂 omg the cinematography just keeps getting better!
Sounds like it’s right time for marriage
YOU are a marvelously talented,
naturally gifted video storyteller
and a blessing to have found❣️
Stay strong, it’ll all come out good in the wash (did it 30 years ago, now a well travelled, married ex-expat with lots of lovely connections… and a job I love in a language that is not my native tongue). 😅
This is too emotional for me
Sure you haven't thought of filmmaking? Your camera work and storytelling are really impressive.
Do you have acting background??? Your facial expressions and the way you express emotions are top notch!
The weight of the world lifts off your shoulder when you realize you can always go home 😊
Same at Canada 💔 wish you all the success, you'll get through!
Totally understand that! I graduated in Australia and once done, I’ve been wondered on wether to go back home or not - 17 years have passed since then!
I'm glad u stayed here🎉
It would be overwhelmed but will work out one way or another, pls stay healthy and take care of yourself
My (german) sister "studied" 8 years only for the benefits and parties... 😅
Couldn’t she apply for a citizenship, considering she lived there for 8 years legally?
As an international student I see no parties nor benefits actuality. Not that they are so significant
@@joaovieira6729 My sis is german like me and studied in Germany, like I said. ^^ But only for the benefits to be a student. Everything is cheaper (busses, trains, museums, clubs, zoos, swimming etc), you get an appartment easier which is paid by the proud Papa (😐), you don't have to pay insurances by yourself and you have soooo much free time for parties and vacations (if you don't study seriously)....the list goes on. 🤷🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️
@@glacyneyla-lifestyle oh my bad, I didnt see the german part, sorry :(
@@joaovieira6729 ^^
whoah! I can't get over how really creative you are! 👌👍😻😻
This is so true even in the UK. My partner is Indonesian and its 100% accurate I snorted. Especially the Health Insurance :D
Indonesian here, NHS insurance cost alots. Did ur partner manage to get a job in Uk after that?
@@bagaspermana88 not yet we are working on it.
@@MRdeviousdale goodluck mate
Same, it hits so hard im gonna cry again
And apparently go back to my shithole when my visa expires
I can understand your pain.. I am going through the same stuff... You are not alone.. N i trust u, you'll get through this.. U'll survive...
So true and applies to other countries as well.
RUclips needs you pay you big time. Your content is always perfection!
Jokes aside, that‘s the cold hard truth in Germany. Most people, who go there, go there for all the benefits it offers to those in different situations, who are not working. For net contributors, going to Germany doesn‘t make any sense economically.
So true 😢 plus here in Ansterdam theres a terrible horrible housing crisis 😭
Could u make a video about student benefits in Germany ?
student's visa for international students, HUGE students discounts for public transport, restaurants, bars, clubs, even sometimes hotels, generally a lot of places in europe have massive students discounts. cheap insurance and universal healthcare. a lot of universities can also offer financial aid for their students
Makes sense why many continue to study longer then. Thanks.
@@satinizer8021 damn and the pain of it disappearing is enhanced 20x then
Imagine bringing enough money for transportation but you realize you don't have the discounts anymore. The habit will ruin you 🥺
Why?
Are you going to betray the other students by blocking a seat and not intending to study?
First you start to study then we tell you about the benefits. Maybe you should find a job and not study at all.
@@doroparker1702 There's plenty of university programs without an NC so nobody would be losing a seat if you're just studying on paper. The problem is you'd only be allowed to work 20 hours max.
Oh girl, I so understand you ❤️ be brave my dear, I wish you the best. You are lucky to be with someone who supports you unconditionally. I am sure you will be fine. Kisses from Italy
Yep… family “encouragement” is the worst. I am married to Taiwanese and live here for 12 years already …. It feels like they are rooting for my marriage to fail, it sucks:))
Same in Italy for post-graduates that moved across the country to study lol
Omg sooo relatable!!! I'm planning on applying for foreign studies but I also have to stress about what will happen after I finish my studies lol! Lots of love Uyen 💕💕
I am stressing out what to do if i dont finish..
@@hoale811yep that's another one of the many things I fear!
@@BellaIsDedDo you have the Instagram? I have a couple of questions hah @bellalsded
I'm an international student who is currently thinking about pursuing medical in Germany (public university, ofc) but I'm not sure about so many things. Mainly the accommodation cost (preferably a student dorm), class timings and regarding part time jobs... can you please tell me all that you can? More the info the better, really
And how creative these videos are. You're incredible.
I dont have student benefits for years now... it still hurts
I don’t know Germany at all, but seems very relatable to any country on the Earth. 🙏🏻
Me when I decided to get back into Uni and was jobless for the entire period -- but the govt decided to put an age cap to certain student discounts :)
The last one was heartbreaking.
I’m sorry you’re going through this. You should definitely move where it benefits you the most. Life’s too short to feel stuck❤ any good partner would understand and work with you. It takes time to work things through especially big decisions. Everything will be okay and your ideas will fall into place knowing you and your dedication. ❤
aaaaw
I knew a girl who was staying in the us with a working visa after her student visa but it got denied randomly one year and she was the only in her grad class of 10+ students who was denied. Visas can be harsh
Ich hoffe, dass Du hier glücklich bist und deine Zukunft schön ist! ❤
I’m curious about the cost of healthcare increasing x5. I’m American and I bet it’s a million times better then ours.
You pay very little as a student here. It's around 100€/month. Once you're employed, you pay about 15% of your gross income. It's automatically deducted from your paycheck by your employer.
There's private insurance available as well, but you can only get that as a state employee, business owner or freelancer. Everyone else has to be in the public system.
So not sure, what she's referring to, since she doesn't even have a job yet. If she was a citizen or refugee or something, the social welfare system would pay for her health insurance, while she's unemployed, since health insurance is mandatory. You're literally not allowed, to not have it.
As a former visa student without a job (yet), she might have to pay for it herself, since she isn't a citizen and her being here is voluntary (so to speak). That would indeed be a bummer!
So usually you pay around 80 € per month and all basic costs for appointments and neccessary operations are included. After graduation you pay around 180€ per month. With a propper job it is a percentage of your income (14%) and a maximum of 760€. The idea behind this is to offer students and low income people an afordable insurance.
@@zanza4965 we pay monthly fees for insurance and still have to pay for everything medical related. Our insurance only covers a fraction of the cost and medical costs here, are much higher, compared to everywhere else in the world.
@@SJ-ni6iyUS is still better especially quality of healthcare in Germany sucks. Maybe it sound good like 125 euro per month and everything included but, for going to doctor you have to wait 3-6 month. But in US if you have money all doors open to you
@@nariman_alizada. that’s the thing, we have to pay a lot of money, on top of already paying monthly insurance fees. In Germany you wouldn’t have to worry about working, while battling an illness, just to keep insurance. In America, most places fire u or u have to work a certain amount of days, to be insured. We can get Medicare/Medicaid, from the government but u can’t own anything, or have money in the bank. Insurance has to approve medical care for Americans and we also get the waiting game.
Totally relatable 😢 going through the same anxiety now 😢 Best of luck for you❤
Tough luck but every non-EEA student needs to be aware of this. There are ways to get around it so you don't have to go back home to a stagnant & completely different job market(vs when you left):
-Apply for a PhD if your grades are good
-Study for a new bachelor/Masters degree until you get a job. I wouldn't do it but respect the grind of those who do. Know people on their 4th/5th degrees (some actually did get a full-time job afterwards)
Delay some of your final year course module exam(s) &/or your thesis so you can stay longer as a student.
The final year of your studies is busy & tough because you're supposed to be multitasking. Working on finishing your degree & applying for your next steps after your graduate(e.g. applying for PhD positions, jobs, graduate programs etc to get something that sticks) based on whether you want to stay abroad or go back home.
(Many 3rd worlder students want to stay abroad legally doing something & not go home because of unemployment, lack of jobs, spiralling inflation, economic recession which all affect opportunities to get jobs/positions)
There's always competition & nothing is handed on a silver platter so you need to be prepared.
It's basic common knowledge at the Master's level but a lot don't even know this, very ignorantly.
You do these brilliantly 👏
My parents wouldn't ask me to come back and instead instead asking me to find a job there 🤣
omg this is so well made, I love it
Or when you graduate in 2024 and some of your student benefits run out in august
I cannot Express How much I love that you used this Sound
As soon as you marry the VISA will be sorted and you can go into "Familienversicherung" with him so basically will go down to zero ❤
"Familienversicherung" German realy love ther compound words.
It's interesting in my field (nature conservation and hydrolgy) there were tons of open job positions. With the other struggles I feel you.
Get a PhD since your grades are good 👍
She actually did, in other videos she talks about it
Dont. *)
1) Employees with a doctoral degree can be sourced from anywhere in the world today. There are plenty of PhDs in India or Eastern Europe. (I am a manager, frequently hiring for R&D positions.) You will be competing with them.
2) Companies are reluctant to hire highly specialised individuals. They are hard to replace, and a risk to the company.
3) You will not have an advantage in your career. Neither in pay, nor in working conditions.
4) You'll probably not get a decent job in academia, particularly not in Germany.
*) Unless you are prepared to devote your life to science. There are exceptions for very few situations.
Bad idea!
@@whitewatcher85Germany is bullshit.
Ach...
Save your incorrect Indian centered advice.
Does NOT apply to Germany.
I know plenty of PHd's here in CH working in hospitality... and CH has BETTER education than DE 😂
True for most international students across the world.
Look like its time to marry:))))
When mum is waving to have you back its heartbreaking x
I’m so early. I am Vietnamese and my crush is german. Who knows? I might be you too😅😅😅
Do you live in Germany?
But you got such an impressive exam score!!
But you have husband for visa.. So no worries 😁😁
They're only engaged. A lot can happen.
You are one of the greatest natural entertainers i have seen
As a foreigner and a musician living in Madrid, I feel you!! So much so, I even wrote a song about the visas struggle and international love woes that come with it all🥹
Girl, if that BF won't put a ring on that finger, you pack up and move home.
They are engaged I believe.
That is the definition of studying abroad O.o or living abroad in general.
As a human, i don't wanna be a doctor anymore
U r correct in ur desperation. You spend the majority of your young life in becoming a doctor. And the cost 💲 of all that entails. And finally U r a doctor!
No Job is available that pays u well enough to live, pay the loans, rent, food, trans,
AND all those Patinos that question ur education, ur intelligence, and don’t even believe in science.
So you are YELLING at the top of ur lungs! Why! What for ! At this point, I would advise you: go find a big science minded research company and just breathe!
It is very very disappointing but you have got to let it go for a while and regroup.
In a few years see how you feel.
But for now leave. Right now!
Don’t get stuck with “ but they need me”
They will be OK.
U on the other hand you may not ! if u don’t get out!