Our Miscarriage Story at 8.5 weeks

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  • Опубликовано: 8 янв 2025

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  • @keelywood7254
    @keelywood7254 3 месяца назад +3

    You will always be that little beans mam and dad and no one can take that away from you both! thank you so much for sharing your story and awareness for such an important thing , sending lots of love ❣️

  • @hollypleasance9111
    @hollypleasance9111 3 месяца назад +4

    You should be so proud of sharing your story. You are a beautiful couple and will make it through this together.
    As much as the hospital was a blur and a shock for you both it sounds like the staff really let you both down. No Doctor should do anything to you without making their actions completely clear beforehand and getting your consent. All staff should show empathy and patience when dealing with anybody going through this. There is no excuses.
    Sending you love and positivity. I cried along with you watching this xxxxxxxxx

  • @NadsCall
    @NadsCall 3 месяца назад +1

    Wow, you both are so so brave 🤍 This is so raw, vulnerable & my heart breaks for your loss 😢 Your strength & hope is admirable (despite how you have been treated in hospital) & so many couples going through the same will be gaining strength through your bravery of sharing your story 🫶🏼 You both are amazing people & incredible together, your jellybean will forever love you for giving them a chance at life through the love you share for each other - you’ll forever be their Mum & Dad ❤️ Sending you both so much love, hugs & courage to get through this heartbreaking time 💕🤗 xxx

    • @nathananddanielle18
      @nathananddanielle18  3 месяца назад +1

      @@NadsCall what a gorgeous comment to read this morning, thank you so so much we appreciate more than you know ❤️

  • @meganrose1259
    @meganrose1259 3 месяца назад

    I am so sorry for both of you, you are the most amazing couple and you don’t deserve this pain ❤ I am also so sorry for your experience with the medical professionals, there is being disconnected and then there’s being downright insensitive and rude! I don’t think they dealt with it very well at all 😠 sending love to you both 💛💛

    • @nathananddanielle18
      @nathananddanielle18  3 месяца назад +1

      @@meganrose1259 thanks so much Megan really means a lot to us both. Yeah 100% just wasn’t right. Thank you ❤️❤️

  • @lelp2038
    @lelp2038 3 месяца назад +2

    I want to say you both are amazing you are both so strong I'm so proud of you for letting yourselves process one of thee hardest parts of life. We lost at 12 week scan and was told baby had passed at 9 weeks so total shock to us. If you ever need someone to speak to or just throw your thoughts to please do not hesitate to contact me. Your story mirrors ours so much and I feel so much for you both

    • @nathananddanielle18
      @nathananddanielle18  3 месяца назад +1

      @@lelp2038 really feel that about letting yourself process but I can understand how people would want to try and block it and try to move straight past it for whatever their reason. So so sad about your baby. We’re sending you love. Thank you so much for taking the time to share and comment your story Lesley 🫶🏼

  • @ems.6610
    @ems.6610 3 месяца назад +1

    So sorry you guys are going through this! The strength you both have is just incredible. Thinking of you all at this time ❤

    • @nathananddanielle18
      @nathananddanielle18  3 месяца назад

      @@ems.6610 thank you so much em it means the world to us 🫶🏼❤️

  • @dianemassey9420
    @dianemassey9420 3 месяца назад +1

    I just want to send you both a great big hug and so much love. I'm so sorry your going through this. Your love for each other shines through. Your comforting words to anybody else going through this are just amazing ❤ xxx

  • @suziebelle1959
    @suziebelle1959 3 месяца назад

    I like many women have been through this too, its truly heartbreaking! I didnt want any medical intervention so just went to bed and let it happen because like you said people can be very cruel. To say to someone that you are young and will get pregnant again does not help as you wanted the one you had. I did go on to have a healthy full term baby after but the one that didnt make it is still there in my heart. Im so so sorry you both had to go through this ❤

    • @nathananddanielle18
      @nathananddanielle18  3 месяца назад

      @@suziebelle1959 such a lovely message thank you so so much ❤️❤️

  • @BMEvs
    @BMEvs 3 месяца назад

    I’m so sorry you’ve had to go through this. Sending you both so much love 🤍🤍🤍

  • @caralowe9185
    @caralowe9185 3 месяца назад

    I’m so sorry Danielle and Nathan I’m watching this crying with you 😢😢sending you both lots of love and hugs xxxx you will always be that baby’s mum/dad no one can take that away from you both xxxx💔💔

    • @nathananddanielle18
      @nathananddanielle18  3 месяца назад +1

      @@caralowe9185 thank you so much cara ❤️❤️

    • @caralowe9185
      @caralowe9185 3 месяца назад

      @@nathananddanielle18 it’s ok ❤️❤️

  • @shannonwuke1043
    @shannonwuke1043 3 месяца назад +1

    Sending lots of love. Someone will definitely find comfort in this video and be going through the same thing ❤

    • @nathananddanielle18
      @nathananddanielle18  3 месяца назад

      @@shannonwuke1043 thanks Shannon we appreciate that so much ❤️🫶🏼

  • @ireneweir9760
    @ireneweir9760 3 месяца назад

    My heart is breaking for you both. I want to reach through the screen and give you both a massive cuddle and tell you that you will get through this. Take time to heal and grieve for your baby as you need to deal with this in your own way/time. Sending much love💜

    • @nathananddanielle18
      @nathananddanielle18  3 месяца назад

      @@ireneweir9760 thank you lovely we appreciated it so much ❤️

  • @nicolebarker9035
    @nicolebarker9035 3 месяца назад

    Oh guys, this is truly heartbreaking 💔 I am so so sorry you are going through this but my god the bravery it’s taken for you guys to sit and do this video.. this is going to help so many ❤️ Just know that every single one of us is here for you, right behind you both. One day at a time, step by step. Your experience with the hospital sounds awful and I’m sorry it was like that, I hope you get some answers. Take care of yourselves 🫶🏻 Sending lots and lots of love in the North East xx

    • @nathananddanielle18
      @nathananddanielle18  3 месяца назад

      Thanks you so much for such kind words Nicole, you know it means the world. It was such a hard conversation to have but I’m glad we’re reaching people that have either been through it or just speaking to people that haven’t about a topic they might not hear much about, it’s important to me now. Thank you so much ❤️❤️

    • @nicolebarker9035
      @nicolebarker9035 3 месяца назад

      @@nathananddanielle18 I went through 7 years of infertility and IVF to have my son born in October last year. I too speak up and tell my story in the hopes it will help someone. I know it’s hard to do and takes the most amount of strength but just know that this video is going to help so many ❤️🫶🏻 Take time for you both and keep talking ❤️ You can see from watching you both that your bond is tight knit. You’ve got this xx

  • @rebeccadavis6466
    @rebeccadavis6466 3 месяца назад

    Sending you both so much love I'm so sorry you weren't met with the kindness you deserve I cried the whole way through this! You are both such amazing people and a perfect example of how love should be ♥

    • @nathananddanielle18
      @nathananddanielle18  3 месяца назад

      Aw Rebecca thank you so much for the lovely words ❤️

  • @rachelanne8752
    @rachelanne8752 3 месяца назад +1

    I don't usually comment on videos but my husband and i are still dealing with my miscarriage (I'm still bleeding) we lost our baby 9 days ago, I was 10 weeks and 3 days, this was my first pregnancy and we're truly devastated, I've never felt pain like it, emotionally and physically.
    Ive been trying to seek some sort of comfort and finding videos I can relate to and share this pain with, Im sorry this has happened, I truly understand what you're going through and my god does it hurt.

    • @nathananddanielle18
      @nathananddanielle18  3 месяца назад +1

      Rachel I’m so so sorry to hear you’re going through it too, that’s exactly what I’ve been doing just trying to find anyone talking about it and thinking oh right they’re feeling the same or similar feelings to me and you almost look for reassurance from people who have gone through it some time ago to think right they have gotten through it and they look happy now because you honestly think how will I get past this heartbreak. But I really am sending you all the love and strength you need in this awful time. I think for me once the awful physical pain stopped I could start focusing on the mental pain/healing. Lots of love to both of you ❤️

    • @rachelanne8752
      @rachelanne8752 3 месяца назад

      ❤️

  • @emilywilliams8927
    @emilywilliams8927 3 месяца назад +1

    So brave ❤ you sharing with us supports others more than you realise xx

    • @nathananddanielle18
      @nathananddanielle18  3 месяца назад +1

      @@emilywilliams8927 thanks so much Emily, that really is our hope from this ❤️

  • @anita1love
    @anita1love 3 месяца назад

    I only watched your house tour video, and this one came up...honestly I'm in tears and feel for you, so, so sorry that you guys had to go through it, sending my condolences and wish you all the comfort on this trying times 🙏🏾 💔

  • @sophieriley4399
    @sophieriley4399 3 месяца назад

    Sending you all so much love! ❤️ 😢 xx

  • @Ali_xox_90
    @Ali_xox_90 3 месяца назад

    So sorry for your news guys 💜 youre both so strong to be able to talk about it so openly and it's certainly going to help lots of people xxx

    • @nathananddanielle18
      @nathananddanielle18  3 месяца назад +1

      @@Ali_xox_90 thank you Ali so kind of you too say, we really hope it does ❤️

  • @sarahcollins244
    @sarahcollins244 3 месяца назад

    You guys are so brave,you have shared your story even though it’s still so raw and incredibly painful for you both xx This video had me In tears alot as seeing you guys hurting so bad truly made me upset 😢,you guys have got a love that many people search for and sometimes never find and that love will see you guys through this difficult time xx keep hope in your heart and in time you guys will be blessed again xx sending you guys hugs and love and you take the time you need to heal and I for one will look forward to seeing your next video of your simple,realistic and beautiful life together xxx

    • @nathananddanielle18
      @nathananddanielle18  3 месяца назад

      Aw Sarah that was just beautiful to read thank you so much 🫶🏼❤️

    • @sarahcollins244
      @sarahcollins244 3 месяца назад

      @@nathananddanielle18 ❤️❤️❤️

  • @elledonaldson5765
    @elledonaldson5765 3 месяца назад

    Oh I’ve unfortunately been there🥺 sending you both so much love. I live close to you, so I hope you don’t mind me saying, but sounds very much like north tees😣 all I can say is, after my miscarriage, so in my second pregnancy, I bled like crazy until the second trimester to the point where I was convinced it was a miscarriage (she was classed as a threatened miscarriage until 16 weeks) as were the hospital but she’s earth side now and worth it 1million times over, so next time you get pregnant please still hold on to that hope🥹 your time will come❤️‍🩹lots of love💝

    • @nathananddanielle18
      @nathananddanielle18  3 месяца назад

      Yep you’d be right in thinking that. Sorry that you’ve been through it too and so so happy for where you’re at now. God I can’t even imagine how anxious you must have been throughout, I’m scared for that feeling because I really want to be able to enjoy another pregnancy but feel like it would be impossible, hopefully with some healing, hope will be there next time ❤️

  • @cazdixon4265
    @cazdixon4265 3 месяца назад

    So much love in your family with the group hugs, so sorry for your loss ❤

  • @KimHodgson-wv8wb
    @KimHodgson-wv8wb 3 месяца назад

    Youl always be a mummy and daddy nothing and no one can take that away from you. Your baby will live on through you both and will always be in your hearts and always be looking down on you. ❤️❤️❤️

    • @nathananddanielle18
      @nathananddanielle18  3 месяца назад +1

      @@KimHodgson-wv8wb 100% thank you Kim ❤️❤️❤️

  • @naomilee1997
    @naomilee1997 3 месяца назад

    I'm absolutely devastated for you 😔 thinking of you both ❤

    • @nathananddanielle18
      @nathananddanielle18  3 месяца назад +1

      Thanks so much Naomi ❤️

    • @naomilee1997
      @naomilee1997 3 месяца назад

      ​@nathananddanielle18 my inbox is always open for you both if you ever need anything ❤

  • @carolbarrett9059
    @carolbarrett9059 3 месяца назад

    Omg....Danielle you are being so strong hun I feel for you both......but I have too say even though I love the both of you, I need to say Nathan's face tells everything. Men try to hide things but Nathan can't hide it xx

    • @nathananddanielle18
      @nathananddanielle18  3 месяца назад

      It’s so true, one of the many reasons I fell in love with Nathan was his ability to show his emotion ❤️

    • @carolbarrett9059
      @carolbarrett9059 3 месяца назад

      @nathananddanielle18 I love how you can open up to us and show us how vulnerable you can be and how loving you both are.
      This is why your followers fall in love with you both.......sending you both love and best wishes especially in healing your heart💖💖💖💖

  • @Gorillatagniceplayer
    @Gorillatagniceplayer 3 месяца назад

    So sorry for your loss sending lots of hugs x

  • @thelightside3974
    @thelightside3974 3 месяца назад

    The biggest amount of love sent to you both..❤

  • @roselynch8939
    @roselynch8939 3 месяца назад

    Sending you both so much love ❤

  • @TrionaORegan-qu5hm
    @TrionaORegan-qu5hm 3 месяца назад

    Awe Guys, I am sooooo sorry ye lost yeer little baby!! I put a creeping rose on our wall and it's so nice to still see it taken over the wall in full bloom. It's a very lonely disappointing time. Don't blame yourselves!!! Thinking of you both!! Mmmmmwah 💚💚☘️☘️

    • @nathananddanielle18
      @nathananddanielle18  3 месяца назад

      @@TrionaORegan-qu5hm thank you so much, love that rose idea 🫶🏼

  • @katiehull2590
    @katiehull2590 3 месяца назад

    Sending all three of you so much love. My thoughts are with you. X

  • @shaisthakhan3806
    @shaisthakhan3806 3 месяца назад +1

    In Islam as Muslims, we believe the baby will pull their mother by their umbilical cord, to the highest of heaven should she feel the wrath of cruel miscarriage in this life.. you will meet again 🩷 sending hugs and love xxx

  • @Teddyboychelsea
    @Teddyboychelsea 3 месяца назад

    I promise you both grandma has this baby in her arms❤ her and nanna Sandra will look after for sure ❤❤❤

  • @TrionaORegan-qu5hm
    @TrionaORegan-qu5hm 3 месяца назад

    It's me again! Ye are going to think I am sooooo mad!! We lost our Baby at week 13 But, We had a missed miscarriage which means our baby went at week 9. Yeer baby will help ye both for sure!! What we did was, get away from our home, everybody means so well but we went on a 2 nights away, nothing fancy, just out of it, crying, hopes, dreams, shock, disappointment, denial. Pain, nothing like it!!! It's a Bereavement. Nathan , you are an Amazing Husband. This absolutely Awful time will Defo bring ye closer. Do Not let this horrendous time dread ye going forward having yeer little Baby! The 1 thing my Dotey Gynaecologist said to me, which I thought was a tad cruel at first but his words were right weeks and months later. This is what he said...... I am going to say this to ye now..... Sometimes this awful thing because...... It's nature's way of tidying things up. Mmmmmwah ☘️☘️☘️💚💚💚

    • @nathananddanielle18
      @nathananddanielle18  3 месяца назад

      So sorry to hear, missed miscarriages sound truly awful I’ve read a lot about them. Yeah 100% need some time somewhere. Thank you so so much ❤️

  • @TrionaORegan-qu5hm
    @TrionaORegan-qu5hm 3 месяца назад

    Are you serious?? Guys a D and C is usually done in Theatre. Why didn't somebody just do a scan????? What!!!!!!!!

  • @margaretorwin3944
    @margaretorwin3944 3 месяца назад