**CORRECTION: A couple of people called this out and I want to make sure it's pinned here...I DID NOT roll my 401k over to a ROTH IRA, I misspoke **face palm**. It was a Traditional IRA. So sorry about that. As @moneycoachmalika constructively pointed out below: DO NOT roll your 401k over into a ROTH IRA as you would have to pay taxes on it!***
The universe has a way of pushing us. Instead of sitting and looking out the window it pushes us to get up and walk out the door they've opened. Ypu've got this. 🙌🏽 At 65 I've been in your spot several times in my life. The past 5 yrs alone I've lived in 3 different countries. I'm ready to move on again now even. ❤️👏🏼
@@agl5132 I asked the universe for this…and very specifically not even abstractly! I love it when the universe delivers!! What are you ready to move on to next?
@@robertaclemmons7999Thank you because the same thing happened to me and I know God was like … go … go to that next thing you’ve been doing on the side, that’s where I want you to be.
I got let go from my job last week. I cried out of shock, but I felt it was coming and I was unfulfilled. Anyways,the next day I was like okay. This is my chance to travel and re discover what I truly want to do.
@@KeepingUpWithAdine **hugs** those tears were valid regardless of being unfulfilled and ready to go. I didn’t cry but my feelings were still hurt for a little minute
Unemployed and homeless here! Looking to go abroad for a while for a mental break from America! Looking for jobs is stressful and dealing with toxic jobs is stressful! I need a break. Thanks for your relatable content
I got let go at my job yesterday, and I am not upset either. 😂 On the bright side, it's on my resume and will help me in the future anyway when I move forward with my life.
@@taras.1212 i feel like this entire video was positive, no? This happened exactly the way I wanted it to and I’ve been spending my time doing things I ACTUALLY WANT to do…it feels glorious!
Your video is relatable in so many ways and like you I too am taking what I'm going through in stride and believing in God that this too shall pass... I would definitely like to see a video on rolling over a 401K and also doing other investments to see which way could be the best route to go with my money. A side hustle can turn out to be that dream job/business that turns your life around. Thank you for reminding me of that!
Just a side note for the future, you CAN ask for a severance package when you quit. My husband told me to ask for a severance package when I gave notice and I was like, ummm....that's not how that works. He was like just ask, told me what to say and I got a HUGE severance and they paid for my wedding as a separate "thank you". I didn't even ask for that. Now, I did have to work there for a few more months and they extended the package, but it allowed me to go after my dreams. Good luck to you!🎉
Good morning, I’m a new subscriber. Once I heard you say you are over 40 I had to subscribe. I’m a 40 plus trying to break into this world so I love to see other over 40 RUclipsrs. I will spend some time checking out your content.
I had an unexpected experience similar to you a few years ago. It was one of the best things that happened to me. I actually had time to cook and get fit, declutter my house and garage. I was able to go to my daughter’s school for events and support her. I was off for 8 months. I still had enough money to stay off for the remainder of the year but my job actually called me back offered me an opportunity to work remotely. I am thinking about talking a sabbatical break like that every few years.
Love that you made the decision to get paid to leave. Similar happened to me in 2023... best decision for me to see the writing on the wall and get my severance. It allowed me to take a 6 month break and regroup. Best of luck to you... you'll be just fine! As a colleague said to me... "Congratulations on your new found freedom!" 🎉❤
Love 💕 this post! I was recently laid off. Tbh, I had already checked out mentally. Like you said, it was “comfortable” but I saw the writing on the wall, but did not want to quit. I received severance and applied for unemployment, as I freelance, regroup and re-strategize; starting book keeping business to be more entrepreneur. 🎉
I finally found a content creater in her forties that I love!! You are so likeable!! I'm going through Perimenopause phase, too, and I wake up in the middle of the night daily. I came across your content. I learned so much watching this video. I was taking notes. I also live in Atl. Keep up the good work, girl. God is working through you!😊
Yes, side hustle video. I have trouble coming up with what I can do that will make money. You are the G.O.A.T. of remote work Libryia, as well as a scrapper. Your future is so bright, where are your shades? 😎
Your experience of feeling stuck resonates with me. I’ve been at my current company ten years and trying to figure out what’s next. Feeling stuck but I love my company and the people I work with.
thank you for watching! I do want to say I never felt stuck. Ever. For me, "stuck" is an indication that you are a victim of your circumstances. I was never a victim. I was making a conscious decision every day to stay there because it was "easy" and "comfortable" but I was never stuck and neither are you!!! I'd love to know why you're feeling stuck if you don't mind sharing.
I am glad I came across your channel. I was let go after two years on a three year contract. It has rocked my world. I wish I could have your attitude. I have spent the last two weeks in deep depression and very fearful of next steps. It was one of my highest paying jobs ever-and now I feel like I won’t get ahead. I look forward to your updates as a source of inspiration.
you just showed up in my feed saw the title and sending you my ❤ i lost my dream job when I was 42 the job i went to college for and had to go down a different direction i landed in tech and although not my dream it has been stable and allows me to do other things i want to do and has also been a huge stepping stone to my personal growth - you are obviously amazing! leadership shift is real you just got caught hun you will be better than ok
I so relate to this video. I was let go from my corporate job in 7/2020. I was there for 8 years and was paid well, but I think I was too comfortable. I panicked for about 30 minutes and then my mindset shifted from panic and confusion to how I can capitalize on this turn of events. Like you, I knew that I would be fine. I ended up creating my dream job and, ironically, it's centered around my side hustle I have done since 1991. Sometimes we have to be pushed out of our comfortability so that we can truly prosper and live in our purpose. You will be more than fine.
God is getting ready to open up your Entrepreneurial dream that you have been waiting for but, he couldn't open the door until he closed one door. You are going to be just fine. God got you.
Yessss❤, 'The I don't want to have someone else control my future nor success ' motto. I've been this way for years, and people think I'm nuts. Thanks for this video. It's nice to see someone else utilize side hustling too.
This is a good place to be. I appreciate your story. I’m working towards goals you’ve already achieved. Starting a bit late at close to 47 but I’m determined to get there. I have a job (mainly remote & have been with the company for almost 5 yrs) but I’m homeless. I have up my place in 2022 to travel for a few months to visit family/friends. Then, I took a project with my job that had me living in Phoenix hotels for 1 yr & a quarter. In the midst of that, my dad fell ill so I started taking on a larger role in caring for him and my step mom’s business and medical needs. Though, their health has leveled out after several surgeries, I still take care of their business affairs. Now, I find myself stuck in a state I don’t want to be in because I’ve overextended myself financially and have been priced out of most rental markets. I’ve been searching for side jobs that can fit into my life now. Like you, I know everything will work out but it doesn’t prevent me from being exasperated at times.
Sorry for ur job loss. But i 100% know you’ll be ok. I’m also a PM and can’t bring myself to work another 9to5. Self employed is it for me. I’m adding real estate investing to my goals list in 2025. Would love to see some of your Airbnb/real estate videos. I like how u talk thru your goals and hold yourself accountable.
Yes, please do a video on side hustles that have worked for you. I’m new here and just love your channel so far! I appreciate your realness and honesty!
34:55 If you have a “Traditional” 401k with your old employer, please do not rollover to a “Roth” IRA. You will have to pay taxes on the ENTIRE balance. If you rollover your 401k, choose an IRA with the same tax treatment (i.e. a Traditional IRA) to avoid creating a tax event.
this is what I say, I told people many years ago, its an expiration date on the job. This situation is reoccurring and I am startled to hear this over and over again. I started a business in my 30s, used my job income to fund the business, when they let me go, I didn't need to find a new job. People, please work on working yourself out of a job instead of getting comfortable. What defines a winner is a winner is willing to do what losers won't. Hustle, build a business while you working, no vacations, no lattes, no nothing! Just grind!
First time listener. I was laid off in 2023. This video was helpful in so many ways. Even the comments where encouragement. You helped me take inventory of what I have accomplished. I'm currently stuck so your monthly goal setting strategy will help me start moving forward. Looking forward to see your video on getting unstuck.
Such great advice and I feel you! Almost 17 years ago, I was forced out of a job I felt secure in. It was a hard lesson, but I too learned to never be too comfortable in any job. Fast-forward to now, I keep my skills and resumé up to date (I believe it was you in another video that said: "If you stay ready, you don't have to get ready"). Anyhow, I'm working on starting my side hustle and I'm less complacent than I was back then. As for side hustles, I recommend people don't tell your boss or coworkers at your 9 to 5 about it if there's no rule saying you must tell them-just gives them an excuse to see you as a threat (been there too). I'm also aware some companies nowadays require you to disclose your side hustles/second jobs. I'll never tell anyone to break their company's rules, just be aware and don't disclose more than they require you too.😉 Otherwise, great video and keep hustling!👍
sad you had to learn that the hard way but happy you not only learned but LEANED!!! Keeping your resume up to date is major key and something A LOT of folks sleep on!
I'm so glad I came across your page! I've been at my job for 25 years, and I'm ready to spread my wings and explore new opportunities! 💼✈️ #NewBeginnings #CareerGoals
Love everything you shared....I have been in a very similar situation at work for the last two years (!) and was recently let go with a severance package. Although it was still a bit of a surprise to get the news, I have been manifesting that to happen for a minute. Now, I have the flexibility to take a break for a couple of months to heal from a very toxic work situation and think about what I truly want before I jump back into the job market. Thank you!!
Inspirational simply that!! You are truly your own therapist please rewatch your own content if you ever feel doubtful! Definitely learned so much from you ! GRACE 🙏🙏🙏
@@dreamscape54 it’s so interesting that I said I WANTED this to happen and everyone keeps saying “sorry it happened” I wonder why that is…why do you all see this as a bad thing?
@@LibryiaJones1I'm happy for you! A layoff is not necessarily a bad thing especially when you're not happy & you see it coming. That layoff only means to start thinking of your next while move while you are enjoying your severance. Thats right!! Pay me to leave😊
@@karynwithers504 agreed and as someone this is alway so curious about how our brains work, I'm wondering what's driving the "sorry for your loss" type comments. I wonder if it's conditioning and that we default to thinking we need "a good job". Very curious.
@@LibryiaJones1 I don't see it all as a bad thing. The "sorry to hear that" was directed to the fact that layoffs are not ideal. It's definitely conditioning to think layoffs are a bad thing.
It was meant for me to find this video. I'm going through it now. I've worked for this company 6.5 years & now their nitpicking on everything (trying to get a paper trail) going. I am the point I want to quit but financially I cannot. However, I have the feeling their definitely coming for me. I really dislike logging in with a headache each day & feeling uneasy. I continue to speak positivity into myself. It's hard. It really is. But hugs & positivity to you & your journey
I love the peace that you seem to have even after hearing the news of being laid off. Keep up with your side hustle until it can be your full time hustle. No true stability in companies. Rooting for you 🎉❤
This video was so good! It just popped up into my algorithm, and for once, YT got it right. First, you look great, Sis! Glowing beautifully. Second, I rarely have the attention span to listen to someone talk for 45 minutes, but this was such a great video with a lot of useful, PRACTICAL information. Third, love your energy and optimism!! Keep going. Keep glowing. Keep growing. ❤
Thanks for all you do and sharing your story! It’s certainly best to listen to our inner spirit. Scary, but what a weight lifted, and kudos to you for allowing yourself time to figure out things.
Sorry about the job loss ❤ it does sound very good to be able to get to focus on your business now!! I’m currently a digital nomad and luckily our company culture hasn’t changed with the VC investment, which I was afraid of.
Thank you! But no need to be sorry, I'm not! Either way I was going to leave, this way I got paid for it. So glad your company culture didn't change, that's a blessing. Also, thank you for watching and commenting. I love chatting with ya'll in the comments
Loved this video 🥰 this is my current existence.. my job “restructured” or downsized. Im going into my 4th year. It’s the best thing that has ever happened to me and I was always about my business. Not anymore life is very short and I pray hope to never return… no side hustle. Just living the dream ❤
Hi Libryia 👋🏽 I was let go8 months ago and now I haven't been good at finding anything remote. 😢 I'm excited for you and your new horizons! I know you can do it! You’ve poured into many people assisting them 🙌🏾
New subscriber! Also Remote PM, over 40 and just got into consulting with my LLC this year. I can draw some similarities in our stories! You will soar and thrive.
OMG, thank you for this post...why do we have the same life? Just let go in October and figuring it out. I wanted out from my previous job for a while so like you I'm good for now! Blessings to you on your journey forward!
Please do a more indepth video on transferring 401k funds when you leave a company. I have 2 from previous jobs and have one with my current job. This has been an incredibly helpful post! So glad you popped up in my feed! I subscribed immediately at the end of it! 🤗🤗 Tracey from San Diego, California
I was notified tuesday on my day off 🙃. I too have decided to take a corporate sabbatical. I had been working on vision for some time and had been feeling stuck because i just didn’t have time ( wife and mother of 4). Thankfully severance is nice and I’m financially responsible. I’m going to take some time and bet on myself! best of luck to you! I’m a new sub!
My company culture just shifted. I’m taking this weekend to recenter and I’m so glad I found your page. Please make a video showing different side hustles
Libryia! Sorry about your job loss but you got plan A thru Z so you are beyond prepared. I have been on sabbatical since last October and slowly getting back to myself. Thankful for the Exodus Summit ladies, yall were life changing since I got my Mexican Temp Residency. You guys changed my mindset about time freedom! Forever grateful! Also, HRT changed my life! I hit Perimenopause and I thought I was going crazy. I am sleeping and mood stabilized since getting on a regimen that works for me. Definitely a personal decision. I also have the Estring that increased my sexual health. Gotta love that 🥰 I pray God's blessings upon you 🙏
Sorry for your loss. Went thru a similar situation too. The only downside is that I didn't see it coming. Definitely, felt a sense of relief and treasure the space to plan the next chapter of my life! But, as a US citizen, file for unemployment and medicaid so you can have some type of income and health coverage. All the best! ❤
@@jr9941 thanks for watching but why are you sorry? I’m not! I can’t apply for unemployment because I make money in other ways and wouldn’t qualify given how much I make and I’m not going to do the tax choreography necessary to make it look like I don’t make money bc I don’t want to run the risk of being charged with fraud by the feds.
Watching this from my job where I'm a contractor...my fantasy is to be let go, but my bills say not yet lol. I really need to focus on creating my online course so it can be up & running when I finish school, but I get distracted with life when I get home! Super frustrating!
people are OVER online courses made by random people, sorry but people don't have money for more fluff courses, and I am sure yours will be different, but no it won't
Keep your head up Sister, You seem like a bright and intelligent lady, File your unemployment and continue to send your resume on Indeed for another management position, Don't wait until you get behind, You'll overcome, Remain resilient and persistent ❤
I've always held you in high regard so I knew there was a more of a back-story than you 'just getting fired'. You're far too smart for that. Not a fan of the 'urbanisms' and 'profanity' so much... I feel like you're more professional and better than that, but I'm so glad you're good. Your journey teaches so much. Thanks for continuing to share your journey.
@@traceylankford8579 thank you for saying that, so sweet…and yeah definitely more to the story. I respect your point of view, I think professional, smart, urban, and profane can all coexist….and they do in me…but it’s not for everyone and I get that. I appreciate you hanging out and hope we get to learn from one another on this here journey ❤️.
I love hearing these life updates. Your life is really inspiring. I've been thinking about becoming "homeless" for a while before I choose my next residence. I would love to hear more about how you prepared. Do you have your things in storage? I'm trying to plan about maybe 6 months of bouncing around to different places.
I just found your channel and loved your video and prespective on life. I need some of what you got! I subscribed and will be checking out your other videos.
Hello beautiful! I’m glad this popped up. I so needed to hear this. It’s so scary when you loose your job and that’s your only income. Can I ask though, where did you get that beautiful big pic behind you?
I would love for you to do the "travel thing where you take people on trips" as I want to travel but I am afraid to do it by myself. Never been anywhere without a reason (funeral, wedding, visiting a "friend" in that town, etc.) I lost my husband 3 years ago and I don't know if that has something to "do with my fear".
I was recently watching your IG stories and I remember wondering to myself if you were still employed somewhere. Because it seems like you were just traveling quite a bit and enjoying life. I was thinking that maybe you'd transitioned from the 9-5 into full time entrepreneurship. Getting laid off didn't occur to me, but sometimes that's a blessing in disguise. I'm excited for your future endeavors and will be watching. I picked up some good tips from this video: 1) I need to set goals and I'm going to start by using the categories you listed. 2) I need side hustles!!! Lastly, anybody who boldly claims to make really good dressing is my friend in my mind cuz babbbbyyyyy!!! Dressing is my favorite holiday food with mac n cheese as a close second. And I don't play about either! 🤣🤣🤣
@@TheReduxLife honestly though I’m not traveling anymore than I was when I was employed! I’ve been traveling like this for a long time. Like if I listed the places I’ve been over the last 3-4 years by month, you’ll see that my travel from Sep (when I got let go) to Nov didn’t increase, it was the same AND I’ve always “just enjoyed life” it’s my personal mission to do so!!! Life is for the LIVING! It’s definitely a blessing and happened exactly the way I hoped it would 🙌🏾 Yes to goal setting. I’m TOTALLY with you on dressing and mac and cheese being the faves! My sister makes the best baked mac and cheese…it’s so good!
Thanks for sharing. Hope you and your daughter get health insurance soon. Did you ask for severance package or did they offer any? Great that you have a side hustle. I’ve got to get a side hustle. I’ve been fired before, got unemployment. 😊
I am very close to this same spot. I am currently working myself out of my job because we were bought out. Also, consulting firm, and I run the internal org which means I am one of the highest paid non billable roles. I have prepared basically the same way you have.
I had the same experience with layoffs this year. I am a Project Manager/Product Owner for over 10+ years for a software company. I am over 40 as well attempting to pivot again. Am tired!
Don't give up, just be creative and start moving in your next move. At least you can get unemployment. Whenever I got a raise, I invested and saved my money so whenever it was time to pivot, I wasn't too stressed. Also, I always had my resume circulating.
@@lmpreston1 I can’t get unemployment because I make quite a bit of money outside of my day job. I actually train people on how to land jobs (specifically remote jobs) but I am not interested getting a job at the moment 🤷🏾♀️
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**CORRECTION: A couple of people called this out and I want to make sure it's pinned here...I DID NOT roll my 401k over to a ROTH IRA, I misspoke **face palm**. It was a Traditional IRA. So sorry about that. As @moneycoachmalika constructively pointed out below: DO NOT roll your 401k over into a ROTH IRA as you would have to pay taxes on it!***
“Be open to everything and attached to nothing” is a great life philosophy.
@@jacquelynbracey2781 oooh lemme write that down!! Thanks for sharing.
The universe has a way of pushing us. Instead of sitting and looking out the window it pushes us to get up and walk out the door they've opened. Ypu've got this. 🙌🏽 At 65 I've been in your spot several times in my life. The past 5 yrs alone I've lived in 3 different countries. I'm ready to move on again now even. ❤️👏🏼
@@agl5132 I asked the universe for this…and very specifically not even abstractly! I love it when the universe delivers!! What are you ready to move on to next?
Preach!😊❤🎉
You are right, God does has a way of pushing us to our next.
@@robertaclemmons7999Thank you because the same thing happened to me and I know God was like … go … go to that next thing you’ve been doing on the side, that’s where I want you to be.
I got let go from my job last week. I cried out of shock, but I felt it was coming and I was unfulfilled. Anyways,the next day I was like okay. This is my chance to travel and re discover what I truly want to do.
@@KeepingUpWithAdine **hugs** those tears were valid regardless of being unfulfilled and ready to go. I didn’t cry but my feelings were still hurt for a little minute
Prayers 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
Unemployed and homeless here! Looking to go abroad for a while for a mental break from America! Looking for jobs is stressful and dealing with toxic jobs is stressful! I need a break. Thanks for your relatable content
If you can take a break, I highly recommend it! Also **hugs**
she is not actually homeless though. owns properties
@@rogers5622 Oooooo ok, really?
I enjoyed you at the Exodus summit and definitely enjoy your channel. I need to work aggressively to find remote work or working abroad.
I got let go at my job yesterday, and I am not upset either. 😂 On the bright side, it's on my resume and will help me in the future anyway when I move forward with my life.
Stay positive ...when one door closes another one opens.
@@taras.1212 i feel like this entire video was positive, no? This happened exactly the way I wanted it to and I’ve been spending my time doing things I ACTUALLY WANT to do…it feels glorious!
@LibryiaJones1 Yes, it definitely was positive. Be blessed
Nice that your co-workers and even clients reached out!
@@YogaBlissDance right? It was really sweet.
If you are reading this, I hope you become successful ❤
Your video is relatable in so many ways and like you I too am taking what I'm going through in stride and believing in God that this too shall pass... I would definitely like to see a video on rolling over a 401K and also doing other investments to see which way could be the best route to go with my money. A side hustle can turn out to be that dream job/business that turns your life around. Thank you for reminding me of that!
Just a side note for the future, you CAN ask for a severance package when you quit. My husband told me to ask for a severance package when I gave notice and I was like, ummm....that's not how that works. He was like just ask, told me what to say and I got a HUGE severance and they paid for my wedding as a separate "thank you". I didn't even ask for that. Now, I did have to work there for a few more months and they extended the package, but it allowed me to go after my dreams.
Good luck to you!🎉
@@AngieConfidential that’s really cool!
companies are barely surviving out there now, this happens less and less
Always require a severance package. You were an executive. It’s to their advantage to send you off with severance.
Good morning, I’m a new subscriber. Once I heard you say you are over 40 I had to subscribe. I’m a 40 plus trying to break into this world so I love to see other over 40 RUclipsrs. I will spend some time checking out your content.
I had an unexpected experience similar to you a few years ago. It was one of the best things that happened to me. I actually had time to cook and get fit, declutter my house and garage. I was able to go to my daughter’s school for events and support her. I was off for 8 months. I still had enough money to stay off for the remainder of the year but my job actually called me back offered me an opportunity to work remotely. I am thinking about talking a sabbatical break like that every few years.
Love that you made the decision to get paid to leave. Similar happened to me in 2023... best decision for me to see the writing on the wall and get my severance. It allowed me to take a 6 month break and regroup. Best of luck to you... you'll be just fine! As a colleague said to me... "Congratulations on your new found freedom!" 🎉❤
@@MsAntoniaNY YOU GET IT!!! Thank you!
Love 💕 this post! I was recently laid off. Tbh, I had already checked out mentally. Like you said, it was “comfortable” but I saw the writing on the wall, but did not want to quit. I received severance and applied for unemployment, as I freelance, regroup and re-strategize; starting book keeping business to be more entrepreneur. 🎉
I finally found a content creater in her forties that I love!! You are so likeable!! I'm going through Perimenopause phase, too, and I wake up in the middle of the night daily. I came across your content. I learned so much watching this video. I was taking notes. I also live in Atl. Keep up the good work, girl. God is working through you!😊
Yes, side hustle video. I have trouble coming up with what I can do that will make money. You are the G.O.A.T. of remote work Libryia, as well as a scrapper. Your future is so bright, where are your shades? 😎
I recorded one, almost done editing it. Posting it next week!
@LibryiaJones1 See, that's why you da G.O.A.T. M.V.P. Not Ms. Jackson but Ms. Jones if ya nasty! 🤌🏾
@@winnieb1352 😂😂😂😂
I am so glad I found your channel I’m also a libra I love your content❤
Your experience of feeling stuck resonates with me. I’ve been at my current company ten years and trying to figure out what’s next. Feeling stuck but I love my company and the people I work with.
thank you for watching! I do want to say I never felt stuck. Ever. For me, "stuck" is an indication that you are a victim of your circumstances. I was never a victim. I was making a conscious decision every day to stay there because it was "easy" and "comfortable" but I was never stuck and neither are you!!! I'd love to know why you're feeling stuck if you don't mind sharing.
“Trouble don’t last always.” You’re right. ❤
I hold you in high esteem. Admire your smarts and tenacity. Looking forward to all your best life updates.
Thank you Roxana!!! I really appreciate it! ❤
I am glad I came across your channel. I was let go after two years on a three year contract. It has rocked my world. I wish I could have your attitude. I have spent the last two weeks in deep depression and very fearful of next steps. It was one of my highest paying jobs ever-and now I feel like I won’t get ahead. I look forward to your updates as a source of inspiration.
you just showed up in my feed saw the title and sending you my ❤ i lost my dream job when I was 42 the job i went to college for and had to go down a different direction i landed in tech and although not my dream it has been stable and allows me to do other things i want to do and has also been a huge stepping stone to my personal growth - you are obviously amazing! leadership shift is real you just got caught hun you will be better than ok
I so relate to this video. I was let go from my corporate job in 7/2020. I was there for 8 years and was paid well, but I think I was too comfortable. I panicked for about 30 minutes and then my mindset shifted from panic and confusion to how I can capitalize on this turn of events. Like you, I knew that I would be fine. I ended up creating my dream job and, ironically, it's centered around my side hustle I have done since 1991. Sometimes we have to be pushed out of our comfortability so that we can truly prosper and live in our purpose. You will be more than fine.
God is getting ready to open up your Entrepreneurial dream that you have been waiting for but, he couldn't open the door until he closed one door. You are going to be just fine. God got you.
Yessss❤, 'The I don't want to have someone else control my future nor success ' motto. I've been this way for years, and people think I'm nuts. Thanks for this video. It's nice to see someone else utilize side hustling too.
You’re going to be alright, sending positivity and prayers! It’s always something ~💕🙏🏾
This is a good place to be. I appreciate your story. I’m working towards goals you’ve already achieved. Starting a bit late at close to 47 but I’m determined to get there. I have a job (mainly remote & have been with the company for almost 5 yrs) but I’m homeless. I have up my place in 2022 to travel for a few months to visit family/friends. Then, I took a project with my job that had me living in Phoenix hotels for 1 yr & a quarter. In the midst of that, my dad fell ill so I started taking on a larger role in caring for him and my step mom’s business and medical needs. Though, their health has leveled out after several surgeries, I still take care of their business affairs. Now, I find myself stuck in a state I don’t want to be in because I’ve overextended myself financially and have been priced out of most rental markets. I’ve been searching for side jobs that can fit into my life now. Like you, I know everything will work out but it doesn’t prevent me from being exasperated at times.
Yes, things will work out 😊❤ Blessings!!!
Sorry for ur job loss. But i 100% know you’ll be ok. I’m also a PM and can’t bring myself to work another 9to5. Self employed is it for me. I’m adding real estate investing to my goals list in 2025. Would love to see some of your Airbnb/real estate videos. I like how u talk thru your goals and hold yourself accountable.
that's great bc there are no jobs out there for PM anyway lol
In the same boat.., just lost a big chunk of my income at 41, and just trying to figure it all out.
I feel this. I am 51 with a new business while trying to find a new job.
Love your optimism and transparency!
Yes, please do a video on side hustles that have worked for you. I’m new here and just love your channel so far! I appreciate your realness and honesty!
@@DaisyCA26 I did! It’s posting tomorrow!!
34:55 If you have a “Traditional” 401k with your old employer, please do not rollover to a “Roth” IRA. You will have to pay taxes on the ENTIRE balance. If you rollover your 401k, choose an IRA with the same tax treatment (i.e. a Traditional IRA) to avoid creating a tax event.
@@moneycoachmalika good catch and good callout!! I def rolled into a traditional IRA…cuz who finna pay taxes!! Thank you for posting this!
Oh I just realized I said “Roth” in the video, that was a MISTAKE!!! Now I see why you called this out! Thank you again
this is what I say, I told people many years ago, its an expiration date on the job. This situation is reoccurring and I am startled to hear this over and over again. I started a business in my 30s, used my job income to fund the business, when they let me go, I didn't need to find a new job. People, please work on working yourself out of a job instead of getting comfortable. What defines a winner is a winner is willing to do what losers won't. Hustle, build a business while you working, no vacations, no lattes, no nothing! Just grind!
First time listener. I was laid off in 2023. This video was helpful in so many ways. Even the comments where encouragement. You helped me take inventory of what I have accomplished. I'm currently stuck so your monthly goal setting strategy will help me start moving forward. Looking forward to see your video on getting unstuck.
Such great advice and I feel you! Almost 17 years ago, I was forced out of a job I felt secure in. It was a hard lesson, but I too learned to never be too comfortable in any job.
Fast-forward to now, I keep my skills and resumé up to date (I believe it was you in another video that said: "If you stay ready, you don't have to get ready"). Anyhow, I'm working on starting my side hustle and I'm less complacent than I was back then.
As for side hustles, I recommend people don't tell your boss or coworkers at your 9 to 5 about it if there's no rule saying you must tell them-just gives them an excuse to see you as a threat (been there too).
I'm also aware some companies nowadays require you to disclose your side hustles/second jobs. I'll never tell anyone to break their company's rules, just be aware and don't disclose more than they require you too.😉
Otherwise, great video and keep hustling!👍
sad you had to learn that the hard way but happy you not only learned but LEANED!!! Keeping your resume up to date is major key and something A LOT of folks sleep on!
I'm so glad I came across your page! I've been at my job for 25 years, and I'm ready to spread my wings and explore new opportunities! 💼✈️ #NewBeginnings #CareerGoals
Love everything you shared....I have been in a very similar situation at work for the last two years (!) and was recently let go with a severance package. Although it was still a bit of a surprise to get the news, I have been manifesting that to happen for a minute. Now, I have the flexibility to take a break for a couple of months to heal from a very toxic work situation and think about what I truly want before I jump back into the job market. Thank you!!
the job market is non existent, good Luck as it may be more of a year or 2 out of a job
I am so glad i listened to this. I am never stuck. Yes please do a video on side hustle job's.
Inspirational simply that!! You are truly your own therapist please rewatch your own content if you ever feel doubtful! Definitely learned so much from you ! GRACE 🙏🙏🙏
Your story resonates so well with me I also know that a shift is coming in my company I do love this video
Sorry to hear about that. It maybe a blessing. Congrats
@@dreamscape54 it’s so interesting that I said I WANTED this to happen and everyone keeps saying “sorry it happened” I wonder why that is…why do you all see this as a bad thing?
@@LibryiaJones1I'm happy for you! A layoff is not necessarily a bad thing especially when you're not happy & you see it coming. That layoff only means to start thinking of your next while move while you are enjoying your severance. Thats right!! Pay me to leave😊
@@karynwithers504 agreed and as someone this is alway so curious about how our brains work, I'm wondering what's driving the "sorry for your loss" type comments. I wonder if it's conditioning and that we default to thinking we need "a good job". Very curious.
@@LibryiaJones1 I don't see it all as a bad thing. The "sorry to hear that" was directed to the fact that layoffs are not ideal. It's definitely conditioning to think layoffs are a bad thing.
Having a better relationship with God is always good. 👍🏾
Something similar recently happened to me. Anyway, I always enjoy your content and seeing in interviews. Thank you for sharing 💜
thank you for watching!!!
It was meant for me to find this video. I'm going through it now. I've worked for this company 6.5 years & now their nitpicking on everything (trying to get a paper trail) going. I am the point I want to quit but financially I cannot. However, I have the feeling their definitely coming for me. I really dislike logging in with a headache each day & feeling uneasy. I continue to speak positivity into myself. It's hard. It really is. But hugs & positivity to you & your journey
Thank you so much for sharing! I’m so impressed your positive attitude and I’m looking forward to following your journey.
Hugs. This is just the start of a new season. Keep us posted.
Hey girl!!! You know I will!
Over 40? Not me coming on this video thinking you were 26!
@@NigeriaSimone girl! Make an eye appointment pronto!! 😂😂😂 jk thank you 🫶🏾
I love the peace that you seem to have even after hearing the news of being laid off. Keep up with your side hustle until it can be your full time hustle. No true stability in companies. Rooting for you 🎉❤
This video was so good! It just popped up into my algorithm, and for once, YT got it right.
First, you look great, Sis! Glowing beautifully.
Second, I rarely have the attention span to listen to someone talk for 45 minutes, but this was such a great video with a lot of useful, PRACTICAL information.
Third, love your energy and optimism!! Keep going. Keep glowing. Keep growing. ❤
Omg so grateful you came up on my feed. I am recently unemployed and this video really helped. This took the fear away of being unemployed
Thanks for all you do and sharing your story! It’s certainly best to listen to our inner spirit. Scary, but what a weight lifted, and kudos to you for allowing yourself time to figure out things.
Sorry about the job loss ❤ it does sound very good to be able to get to focus on your business now!! I’m currently a digital nomad and luckily our company culture hasn’t changed with the VC investment, which I was afraid of.
Thank you! But no need to be sorry, I'm not! Either way I was going to leave, this way I got paid for it.
So glad your company culture didn't change, that's a blessing.
Also, thank you for watching and commenting. I love chatting with ya'll in the comments
@ well thank you! You got me thinking of remote work, then lead me to Hannah Dixon, which lead me to finally traveling!
Loved this video 🥰 this is my current existence.. my job “restructured” or downsized. Im going into my 4th year. It’s the best thing that has ever happened to me and I was always about my business. Not anymore life is very short and I pray hope to never return… no side hustle. Just living the dream ❤
Hi Libryia 👋🏽 I was let go8 months ago and now I haven't been good at finding anything remote. 😢 I'm excited for you and your new horizons! I know you can do it! You’ve poured into many people assisting them 🙌🏾
that is bc the jobs are gone, esp remote jobs, they are fading and people either have no work or need to go back to office.
Congrats!! Blessing in disguise you’ll be fine.
@@Pupfrank THANK YOUUUU!!
This was an amazing video. I gained so many ideas 💡 I plan to implement immediately. 😊
New subscriber! Also Remote PM, over 40 and just got into consulting with my LLC this year. I can draw some similarities in our stories! You will soar and thrive.
@@Sugarbella10 so will you!! **high-five**
OMG, thank you for this post...why do we have the same life? Just let go in October and figuring it out. I wanted out from my previous job for a while so like you I'm good for now! Blessings to you on your journey forward!
Wishing you well! Excited for what you will create. Give yourself grace every step of the way.🙏🏾
January is a good time, fresh starts n all
Wow girl. Im in shock 😮. Love the channel and your transparency.
Please do a more indepth video on transferring 401k funds when you leave a company. I have 2 from previous jobs and have one with my current job. This has been an incredibly helpful post! So glad you popped up in my feed! I subscribed immediately at the end of it! 🤗🤗 Tracey from San Diego, California
I was notified tuesday on my day off 🙃. I too have decided to take a corporate sabbatical. I had been working on vision for some time and had been feeling stuck because i just didn’t have time ( wife and mother of 4).
Thankfully severance is nice and I’m financially responsible. I’m going to take some time and bet on myself! best of luck to you! I’m a new sub!
Love your monthly goal planning. I’ve never been great at setting goals. I’m going to try this.
Yesssss! Those side hustles come in clutch
Woohoo!!! Welcome to freedom. I hope to see you in Vietnam. I’ll be there in Feb.
My company culture just shifted. I’m taking this weekend to recenter and I’m so glad I found your page. Please make a video showing different side hustles
December for plan your year please! I enjoy the life update and love your outlook! I wish you the best!
@@BMHarris yes ma’am! Thank you so much!
Enjoy this time and yes side hustle
Libryia! Sorry about your job loss but you got plan A thru Z so you are beyond prepared. I have been on sabbatical since last October and slowly getting back to myself. Thankful for the Exodus Summit ladies, yall were life changing since I got my Mexican Temp Residency. You guys changed my mindset about time freedom! Forever grateful! Also, HRT changed my life! I hit Perimenopause and I thought I was going crazy. I am sleeping and mood stabilized since getting on a regimen that works for me. Definitely a personal decision. I also have the Estring that increased my sexual health. Gotta love that 🥰 I pray God's blessings upon you 🙏
Sorry for your loss. Went thru a similar situation too. The only downside is that I didn't see it coming. Definitely, felt a sense of relief and treasure the space to plan the next chapter of my life! But, as a US citizen, file for unemployment and medicaid so you can have some type of income and health coverage. All the best! ❤
@@jr9941 thanks for watching but why are you sorry? I’m not! I can’t apply for unemployment because I make money in other ways and wouldn’t qualify given how much I make and I’m not going to do the tax choreography necessary to make it look like I don’t make money bc I don’t want to run the risk of being charged with fraud by the feds.
@@LibryiaJones1 because it would be fraud
Listen. Same!! Higher Ed consulting partner facing role. Happened in September and it was just the forcing function I needed.
Watching this from my job where I'm a contractor...my fantasy is to be let go, but my bills say not yet lol. I really need to focus on creating my online course so it can be up & running when I finish school, but I get distracted with life when I get home! Super frustrating!
people are OVER online courses made by random people, sorry but people don't have money for more fluff courses, and I am sure yours will be different, but no it won't
🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾I needed this video this morning
Thanks for sharing your goal categories. Looking forward to seeing your holiday pic.
Love this! Vietnam sounds amazing!
I’m so happy to have come across your page. New subscriber
Keep your head up Sister, You seem like a bright and intelligent lady, File your unemployment and continue to send your resume on Indeed for another management position, Don't wait until you get behind, You'll overcome, Remain resilient and persistent ❤
Please do a video on side hustles.
First time watching your content - I’ve liked and subscribed. Great insights. Cheers to new beginnings
Thank you and welcome!
I've always held you in high regard so I knew there was a more of a back-story than you 'just getting fired'. You're far too smart for that. Not a fan of the 'urbanisms' and 'profanity' so much... I feel like you're more professional and better than that, but I'm so glad you're good. Your journey teaches so much. Thanks for continuing to share your journey.
@@traceylankford8579 thank you for saying that, so sweet…and yeah definitely more to the story. I respect your point of view, I think professional, smart, urban, and profane can all coexist….and they do in me…but it’s not for everyone and I get that. I appreciate you hanging out and hope we get to learn from one another on this here journey ❤️.
I love hearing these life updates. Your life is really inspiring. I've been thinking about becoming "homeless" for a while before I choose my next residence. I would love to hear more about how you prepared. Do you have your things in storage? I'm trying to plan about maybe 6 months of bouncing around to different places.
@@itsyagirlnykeep yes my things are in storage.
I just found your channel and loved your video and prespective on life. I need some of what you got! I subscribed and will be checking out your other videos.
I love all of the positivity in this video! Yes, please do side hustle videos. I need help.
Hunny! You're an amazing catch. Anyone would be truly blessed to be your partner 🥰 💞 Sending love. ❤
Hello beautiful! I’m glad this popped up. I so needed to hear this. It’s so scary when you loose your job and that’s your only income.
Can I ask though, where did you get that beautiful big pic behind you?
I would love for you to do the "travel thing where you take people on trips" as I want to travel but I am afraid to do it by myself. Never been anywhere without a reason (funeral, wedding, visiting a "friend" in that town, etc.) I lost my husband 3 years ago and I don't know if that has something to "do with my fear".
I was recently watching your IG stories and I remember wondering to myself if you were still employed somewhere. Because it seems like you were just traveling quite a bit and enjoying life. I was thinking that maybe you'd transitioned from the 9-5 into full time entrepreneurship. Getting laid off didn't occur to me, but sometimes that's a blessing in disguise. I'm excited for your future endeavors and will be watching.
I picked up some good tips from this video:
1) I need to set goals and I'm going to start by using the categories you listed.
2) I need side hustles!!!
Lastly, anybody who boldly claims to make really good dressing is my friend in my mind cuz babbbbyyyyy!!! Dressing is my favorite holiday food with mac n cheese as a close second. And I don't play about either! 🤣🤣🤣
@@TheReduxLife honestly though I’m not traveling anymore than I was when I was employed! I’ve been traveling like this for a long time. Like if I listed the places I’ve been over the last 3-4 years by month, you’ll see that my travel from Sep (when I got let go) to Nov didn’t increase, it was the same AND I’ve always “just enjoyed life” it’s my personal mission to do so!!! Life is for the LIVING!
It’s definitely a blessing and happened exactly the way I hoped it would 🙌🏾
Yes to goal setting.
I’m TOTALLY with you on dressing and mac and cheese being the faves! My sister makes the best baked mac and cheese…it’s so good!
The 1st date conversation😂. I been there but in reality I was an amazing catch. I just didn’t look too hot on paper 😂
Thanks for sharing. Hope you and your daughter get health insurance soon. Did you ask for severance package or did they offer any? Great that you have a side hustle. I’ve got to get a side hustle. I’ve been fired before, got unemployment. 😊
This is a great video. Thank you for sharing😊
Thanks for watching!
I am very close to this same spot. I am currently working myself out of my job because we were bought out. Also, consulting firm, and I run the internal org which means I am one of the highest paid non billable roles. I have prepared basically the same way you have.
I think it would be good to do the How to plan the year content in mid-end of January…
Wow you look so young such a pretty lady I wish you all the best
Love a woman with a plan!
I had the same experience with layoffs this year. I am a Project Manager/Product Owner for over 10+ years for a software company. I am over 40 as well attempting to pivot again. Am tired!
Don't give up, just be creative and start moving in your next move. At least you can get unemployment. Whenever I got a raise, I invested and saved my money so whenever it was time to pivot, I wasn't too stressed. Also, I always had my resume circulating.
@@lmpreston1 I can’t get unemployment because I make quite a bit of money outside of my day job. I actually train people on how to land jobs (specifically remote jobs) but I am not interested getting a job at the moment 🤷🏾♀️
New Subscriber here. Thanks for sharing your story.
New subscriber here! Yea, you’re a vibe!🎉
Awww yay!! thanks for subscribing!