You Should NOT Host Your Own Email Server

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  • Опубликовано: 20 янв 2025

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  • @e3astwind
    @e3astwind 9 месяцев назад +30

    I run my own mail servers and never a single one of them got blacklisted or hacked. So please.

    • @watfordjc
      @watfordjc 3 месяца назад

      Most DNSBLs use either a delisting web form or an e-mail contact. In my experience from when I used to host my own e-mail on the cheapest VPS I could find, most delisting requests take minutes, and I don't think I've had any take more than 48 hours.
      I've had more trouble with VPS providers making it difficult to set PTR records than I've had with DNSBL delisting - AWS are so incomprehensively incompetent at DNS I wouldn't trust them with anything. Speaking of DNS incompetence, there was that time Hurricane Electric messed up so badly they responded NXDOMAIN to all DNS requests, and there was also that time Microsoft finally decided to fix their broken SPF record (I refused to whitelist a multinational out of principle, so all e-mails from Microsoft bounced for several years).
      I've had so many companies mess up (virtual) servers, e-mail, domain renewals, etc. that I am the registrar for my domain names (no middlemen to break things) and my mail server is a Pi 4B within arm's reach and has an L2TP IPv4/IPv6 connection so it always has the same public IP (even if I have to tether it to my phone during an extended broadband outage).
      Other than checking the mainstream news for security alerts a la Heartbleed, and having an uptime plan and backup plan, once you know e-mail you only need to spend a few minutes every year looking into any changes in best practices. The big providers will adopt DNSSEC+DANE and stop trying to push inferior MTA-STS any year now...

    • @kevinsedwards
      @kevinsedwards 22 дня назад

      Can you share any gold nuggets?

  • @mitchellsmith4601
    @mitchellsmith4601 4 месяца назад +8

    We have been running our own mail servers using the same two static IP addresses for twenty years, and they work great.

  • @YourComputer
    @YourComputer Год назад +27

    How do these points not also apply to a third-party email service? Sounds self-refuting.

    • @Robert_s8
      @Robert_s8 4 месяца назад

      His points seem to apply to hosting an email server for other people to use. For example, forwarding email (spam) through your server, data privacy rules, using your server to send mass eamil news letters. If you are using this for personal use for family and friends or business where you have control over how your employees use the service and not sending spam yourself I don't see how most of his reasons apply. Also would the use of IPV6 ip addressing avoid the long list of existing blocked ipv4 addresses?

  • @youruleyourlife
    @youruleyourlife Год назад +49

    silent war big corps vs all of us

    • @IdeaSpot
      @IdeaSpot  Год назад +7

      We lost that one a long time ago 😂

    • @cotizacionesequipo1719
      @cotizacionesequipo1719 Год назад +7

      @@IdeaSpot “We must accept finite disappointment, but never lose infinite hope.” - Martin Luther King, Jr.
      Like Mr. King, I have a dream, that one day on Redmond or Mountain View California, the sons of former email admins and the sons of corporate owners, will be able to sit down together at the table of brotherhood, and be able to send email freely without the fear of rejection and blacklisting.

    • @brackloon4584
      @brackloon4584 Год назад

      @@IdeaSpot Bullshit. Setup your own mail server, containerized, whatever. Anything beats having genocidal zionist corporations sucking your soul, and every email you send.

    • @bob-p7x6j
      @bob-p7x6j 2 месяца назад

      @@cotizacionesequipo1719 ha ha, how is that working out?

    • @cotizacionesequipo1719
      @cotizacionesequipo1719 2 месяца назад

      @@bob-p7x6j Not well, brother, not well, and yet, we must never lose sight that as long as humanity lives, the dream, and all our hopes, go on. Never yield, never surrender, for humanity can be great again, you just need to believe and when we act on it, it will be so.

  • @darahk88
    @darahk88 3 месяца назад +2

    You are supporting you sponsors. Self host yours with no limitation

  • @draganjurjevic1898
    @draganjurjevic1898 Год назад +6

    hello A
    Many of my business clients want to have their own mail server (plesk, cpanel, hmailserver). The reason is data privacy...

  • @gancarczyk_net
    @gancarczyk_net Год назад +5

    Do you know any (possibly free or cheap) SMTP relay service that does not add the "List-unsubscribe" header? I'm sending personal e-mails, not a mailing list :(

  • @kokngonose
    @kokngonose 11 месяцев назад +2

    what about for only receiving email but for sending email use something like postmarkapp? is it still worth the cost you think?

  • @mrrewardnew
    @mrrewardnew Год назад +3

    I think this is directly depends on the kind of marketing you intend on doing

  • @Mugruokgt
    @Mugruokgt 10 месяцев назад

    Please make an updated video - does this still stand after their 2/2024 algo update (gmail)?
    Have a friend that has seen an ENORMOUS deliverability boost from a vps.

    • @zakk6182
      @zakk6182 5 месяцев назад

      Hello how did he get to send with a vps?

  • @dhetherington
    @dhetherington Год назад +2

    Totally agree, I have a new client who's email is hosted on a techies email server which is setup to use POP3, not used pop3 in 10 years. I've got the job of migrating 10 emails to exchange. I was hoping to use the Microsoft email migration tool but I don't think that is an option?

    • @IdeaSpot
      @IdeaSpot  Год назад +3

      i haven't looked at it since Bill Clinton was president, dosen't seem like there is an offical way to do it, but a workaround could be to export as pst first: community.spiceworks.com/how_to/186408-migrate-pop3-email-to-office-365-step-by-step-in-easy-ways

    • @dhetherington
      @dhetherington Год назад

      @@IdeaSpot yes that's what I'm investigating although it's for 11 emails which is annoying

    • @IdeaSpot
      @IdeaSpot  Год назад +2

      Yup sometimes we just have to roll up the sleeves and break rocks for a few hours 😅

    • @dhetherington
      @dhetherington Год назад

      @@IdeaSpot I have heard something called Microsoft purview which allows bulk PST files to be added to accounts. Just trying find a video for the process. Looks a bit complicated to me

  • @geehammer
    @geehammer Год назад +2

    Would it be possible to fire out emails from your server via rotational 4G Mobile proxies?

    • @IdeaSpot
      @IdeaSpot  Год назад +1

      Port will likely be blocked, but if u get it working go for it 😆

  • @rahuldinesh2840
    @rahuldinesh2840 5 месяцев назад +1

    My domain email reputation gone bad with gmail. Now I am self hosting with subdomains.

  • @mijanur020
    @mijanur020 Год назад +2

    Hi Alex,
    I hope you are doing really well. I have been watching your cloud hosting-related videos for a few weeks now. Recently, Namecheep suggested that I migrate my shared hosting to their cloud hosting (One kind of force).
    Unfortunately, I didn't have a way to do that at the time. I'm not very technical, and after migrating my hosting to the cloud, I realized that I don't know much about cloud hosting.
    I am commenting here to find out if it's possible for me to migrate my website back to shared hosting with another hosting company. I would appreciate your answer as I'm not sure about this. It would be great if I could get back my old cPanel.
    Thanks,

  • @aleksandarjevtimijevic
    @aleksandarjevtimijevic Год назад +1

    What do you think about cpanel email and roundcube client, that's what we get with shared hosting. I personally had no major problems, I'm interested in your experience, whether it worked for you or not, and what you propose as an adequate alternative. Thank you

    • @IdeaSpot
      @IdeaSpot  Год назад

      These can be ok, the software you mention is good - the real question is the team managing it, how good are they at keeping it secure and kicking out spammers on their network? If it's working ok for your needs then its fine. In my own experience, when you're trying to email important people who work in MS/Google/Apple environment, you will have more success with the mainstream options. How much $ is it worth to NOT have the conversation 'yes we sent it...did you check your spam folder'?

    • @aleksandarjevtimijevic
      @aleksandarjevtimijevic Год назад

      @@IdeaSpot I agree, you are absolutely right. I almost had a situation where more than 10 computers in one company use the same email office@domain, so I couldn't implement google workspace because their system can see a large number of logins to the same account as a security risk and block the account, so I didn't find another solution besides the default cpanel email.

  • @aperson1181
    @aperson1181 Год назад +1

    Would you recommend namesilo? Are they good?

  • @andresalemany4572
    @andresalemany4572 Год назад +2

    This the closest explanation to understanding email. Idk why it isnt explained more so thank you very much for this explanation

  • @Lee-ee
    @Lee-ee Год назад +1

    Hi Alex, can you please test: BitFire Security - RASP Firewall.
    BitFire:
    Performance: adds 1% to page creation time
    Memory: adds 0.01% to memory usage
    WordFence:
    Performance: adds 44% to page creation time
    Memory: adds 125% to memory usage

  • @Avoc-adorable
    @Avoc-adorable 6 дней назад

    this is a message of discouragement

  • @khalidelgazzar
    @khalidelgazzar 9 месяцев назад

    Great video 😊 thanks Alex

  • @Jozie88
    @Jozie88 20 дней назад

    How much did you get paid to make this video?

  • @the_adgi
    @the_adgi Год назад +1

    Thanks bro

  • @mitchellsmith4601
    @mitchellsmith4601 4 месяца назад +1

    Nope, this guy is totally wrong. If you do everything right, you’ll get 100% deliverability. What do you need to do it right? Multiple servers; clean static IP addresses; external DNS MX, A, and PTR records; SPF, DKIM, and DMARC; great anti spam and anti malware services.

    • @bob-p7x6j
      @bob-p7x6j 2 месяца назад

      hope that was sarcasm....

  • @darinjohnson3671
    @darinjohnson3671 Год назад +1

    That is why something like a Rackspace is a better idea in the long run.

  • @nightlust
    @nightlust Месяц назад

    Fed

  • @LabiaLicker
    @LabiaLicker Год назад

    Would be good to have a video regarding this but specific to self hosting email in australia. isps etc...

    • @IdeaSpot
      @IdeaSpot  Год назад

      I don’t think any ISP will allow port 25 on a residential connection - have you had a look at what options are available?