Why Spock’s Sexuality is so Dang Controversial (SEX IN STAR TREK BONUS)

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  • Опубликовано: 25 дек 2024
  • Star Trek Strange New Worlds seemingly might be making Spock heterosexual.... but does that take away from the queer history of the character?
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  • @dominicksigismondi3802
    @dominicksigismondi3802 2 года назад +505

    Honestly, if Strange New Worlds features Spock running around shouting "I'm straight!" I think that would be the strongest possible indication that he isn't.

    • @matthewlongstaff3112
      @matthewlongstaff3112 2 года назад +76

      Like, "I'm in control of my emotions!"

    • @merri-toddwebster2473
      @merri-toddwebster2473 2 года назад

      I mean, Michael's parting speech to him is basically "Find a guy name Jim Kirk and hang onto him"

    • @Maerahn
      @Maerahn 2 года назад +19

      Thank you for making me giggle today.

    • @dieSpinnt
      @dieSpinnt 2 года назад +13

      That seems logically correct.
      Live long and defroster!

    • @t3h51d3w1nd3r
      @t3h51d3w1nd3r 2 года назад +1

      What? If he says he straight that means he's gay? So if he said he's gay you'd take it as hes straight? I think you just want the character to be gay

  • @GrannyGamer1
    @GrannyGamer1 2 года назад +392

    I'm 66 years old.
    I watched Spock on our brand new, RCA color TV that Dad bought specifically to watch Star Trek.
    My sexuality and identity were excuses for my mother, the church and the community to terrorize and torture me.
    I ran away at 17 and immediately became a Queer rights activist.
    Half a century later, I'm appalled we've not matured more gracefully as a culture.
    These insecure, remedial, cowards who clutch pearls, concern troll and gaslight are only proving their God, their sexuality and their comprehension of 10th grade biology are inadequate and failed.
    Stop weighing the rest of us down!

    • @semperfi818
      @semperfi818 2 года назад +16

      Preach, friend -- and join me and others like us in working for IDIC on earth, in all senses.

    • @GrannyGamer1
      @GrannyGamer1 2 года назад +28

      @@semperfi818 I'm old, disabled, living in isolation and poverty.
      I've done my time.
      It's on y'all now.

    • @semperfi818
      @semperfi818 2 года назад +22

      @@GrannyGamer1 Your spirit is still strong, and it inspires me. BTW, my friend, I'm 63 by the calendar, with a bad back that has earned me disability payments, but I'm just getting started, so I'll help carry it forward to rally the next generations to keep up the good fight.

    • @GrannyGamer1
      @GrannyGamer1 2 года назад +19

      @@semperfi818 it's not my job to inspire you. And I find that both condescending and dismissive of my situation.
      I am bot strong. I am broken, exhausted, in searing pain, isolated, impoverished, terrified and closeted.

    • @semperfi818
      @semperfi818 2 года назад +19

      @@GrannyGamer1 Forgive me for phrasing that wrongly enough to hurt where I'd only intended honor -- I'm sorry, and I don't make light of your situation, but wish you an end to your pain and your fears, peace in your heart, safety where you are and the ability to continue, a day at a time. Nobody should have to suffer like what you describe; I will try my best to help make life better for all who hurt in all of those ways.

  • @sconesandjam
    @sconesandjam 2 года назад +201

    *Rubs my bisexual hands together, puts on heart shaped glasses*
    "Let's do this."

    • @sconesandjam
      @sconesandjam 2 года назад +12

      (Also, wow your Twitter take is basically what I mentioned in my community post that my partner and I believed.)
      ✨Bi/Ace solidarity in Starfleet.✨

  • @tangentreverent4821
    @tangentreverent4821 2 года назад +508

    Given Kirk's observed sex life, plus the footnote saying greatest rather than "only sexual," Kirk being non straight makes sense. The idea that all of those alien women having the same lower genitalia as cis human women strains credibility.

    • @tangentreverent4821
      @tangentreverent4821 2 года назад +7

      @@willdwyer6782 😆

    • @TheDawnofVanlife
      @TheDawnofVanlife 2 года назад +32

      With the exception of his Alien? Wife on the Native American Planet, prime timeline Kirk actually never slept with that many woman. There’s like two in the original series for sure. Three if you count his son’s mother from the films series who was human. And seemed to have voluntarily ended a full on relationship with him. He was more then a bit of a mysoginist, but not a womanizer. In TOS Kirk was either actually ‘in love of the week’ (which was actually rare) or an alien female was interested in him and he either went with it enough to gain some advantage in a bad situation and get the crew out of it or was under the influence. The Kirk sleeping around stereotype was actually not true. Kelvin Kirk is more based on the ‘idea’ formed from the episodic nature of TOS Kirk always having some woman after him. Rather Kirk was actually in love or attracted or interested at all. Even his kiss with Uhura was forced on him by magical aliens. The only thing he was ever shown explicitly in love with was the Enterprise.

    • @M_M_ODonnell
      @M_M_ODonnell 2 года назад +26

      I don't hesitate to jump between different interpretations on a whim. At the moment I'm on "heterosexual homoromantic Kirk in an intense queerplatonic relationship with usually-ace/aro Spock," but that might change in five minutes (or less if someone suggests another reading that I like).

    • @LexYeen
      @LexYeen 2 года назад

      And let's not forget how _ridiculously_ horny Roddenberry was.

    • @OllamhDrab
      @OllamhDrab 2 года назад +4

      @@TheDawnofVanlife (Actually Miramanee was a transplanted Human, that's why they were some cultural descendents of abducted Native Americans. )

  • @xerofelix7090
    @xerofelix7090 2 года назад +475

    I love how ridiculous this argument is. Like, bisexuality exists people! He can like men AND women. Lmao

    • @LexYeen
      @LexYeen 2 года назад +39

      It's like saying that you can't enjoy peanut butter _and_ chocolate when Reese's cups exist!

    • @Corbomite_Meatballs
      @Corbomite_Meatballs 2 года назад +13

      @@LexYeen Don't you mean chocolate *and* peanut butter?!? /s

    • @mrspeabody615
      @mrspeabody615 2 года назад +19

      but asexuality also exists and thats what spock stood for for me at least. He is driven by logic, therefore something like attraction to either man or woman isn't necessesairily a part of him, making him not like men nor women. And thats why giving him a love interest at all is not logical, unless he is only "mating" with another vulcan to ensure his race can go on and in that case only a heterosexual relationship would make sense because of the obvious biological conditions. Still, spock is an obviously carreer driven scientist not any ordinary vulcan, so his desire to contribute to sustain the vulcan race would not be a high priority unless the race is threatened to go extinct. But if you argue the human side of spock is strong enough any sexuality is viable, asexual, bi, homo, hetero etc.

    • @mrspeabody615
      @mrspeabody615 2 года назад +4

      @@LexYeen but what if you don't like any sweets?

    • @generatoralignmentdevalue
      @generatoralignmentdevalue 2 года назад +11

      There's also a conflation of romantic and sexual orientations, when Spock seems pretty likely to me to have them be different.

  • @gozerthegozarian9500
    @gozerthegozarian9500 2 года назад +436

    OMG Jessie using the LLAP Vulcan salute for a scissoring gesture is ART! All bow down in worship of the Queen of Intros! 🙌🙌🙌

    • @ChuckMeIntoHell
      @ChuckMeIntoHell 2 года назад +7

      🖖✂️🖖

    • @searchingfororion
      @searchingfororion 2 года назад +5

      You read my mind! Did we meld or something and I forgot?
      This happens often actually, and not just on Jessie's channel. I go to post a comment with observations and encouragement (or what I think is a clever joke) and *you've* already beat me to it *and* delivered it better.
      Scheiße!

    • @gozerthegozarian9500
      @gozerthegozarian9500 2 года назад +3

      @@searchingfororion Aw, thank you! You're very kind! :-)

    • @gozerthegozarian9500
      @gozerthegozarian9500 2 года назад +3

      @@sebastianevangelista4921 LOL, this is brilliant headcanon, I love it! XD

    • @laurelgardner
      @laurelgardner 2 года назад +4

      D... doesn't everybody do this?

  • @CaptainPikeachu
    @CaptainPikeachu 2 года назад +166

    I personally would like Spock to be bisexual (or even pansexual). I feel like in the fandom discussion of Spock’s sexuality, there were quite a few bits of bisexual erasure that I ran into, with some folks acting as if gay Spock would be superior to bi Spock with the implication of being bi as somehow less queer than being gay. I feel even in our own queer communities, there’s biases and prejudices we have not necessarily worked through. I certainly get why folks were upset about the depictions in the trailer and the possibility of making Spock explicitly straight, that would suck tbh. But I also wish I didn’t have to see so many comments that felt like it was erasing the queerness of bisexual people.

    • @alisaurus4224
      @alisaurus4224 2 года назад +3

      Did i just somehow miss the furor when Zachary Quinto’s Spock was straight-presenting in the 2009 movie? I was less online then, but did follow movie criticism. Or was it not as big of a deal?

    • @BadgerPride89
      @BadgerPride89 2 года назад +7

      @@alisaurus4224 that was a mine field at the time because they paired him up with uhura, a black woman, but yeah, there was a lot of fuss and general ickiness over it.

    • @marocat4749
      @marocat4749 2 года назад +4

      Ideally it could be a polycule with kirk,
      And i like gay spock, but given he did show attraction to women, pan spock to go. And some kind of ace.

    • @Hyzentley
      @Hyzentley 2 года назад +5

      Exactly this. The discussion reeked of biphobia most of the time IMO

    • @EleneDOM
      @EleneDOM 2 года назад

      @@BadgerPride89 I loved the pairing of Spock and Uhura, which seemed not too far-fetched, given the way they got along in TOS. Particularly Kirk's total inability to get any attention from her whatsoever.

  • @Bubblesthewitch
    @Bubblesthewitch 2 года назад +457

    I’ve always interpreted every character in Trek as Bi unless otherwise stated. Since human history shows that without cultural stigma most people default to Bi if the federation is an ideal society it would make sense that Bi is the default. As far as I can remember Dr. Crusher is the only confirmed straight character.

    • @thedevicebook
      @thedevicebook 2 года назад +42

      Gates McFadden has now come out as saying Dr Crusher is bisexual. Turning down one Trill doesn't mean she doesn't have the capacity to be with women. If you see Trill as an allegory for trans, it does imply that at that stage, she wasn't open to dating MtF trans folks but that may change later, or perhaps she was just weirded out by the entire thing (not the transition, the whole "weren't you just inside Riker" thing though my brain is fuzzy on that detail.)

    • @EmeralBookwise
      @EmeralBookwise 2 года назад +39

      To me that's exactly what any belief that romance and sexuality are spectrums should lead to. If every one is on a spectrum, then very few people would be strictly straight or strictly gay. Most people might be strongly preferential to one or the other, but would also still be open to the possibility of exploration if they ever met the "right" person.
      I know that's certainly been my own personal experience.

    • @jessieGreyJedi
      @jessieGreyJedi 2 года назад +2

      i see a lot of characters as pansexual some straight some gay and as far as data goes i don't believe he was asexual i believe because he didn't have emotions until the films his sexuality is more complicated than saying he was straight or asexual as far as Kirk and Spock maybe in the future sexuality is seen differently in the future not to mention what sexuality in an alien species might be different on how humans interpret it now i do think representation is important but i dont think we should change a character's sexuality when its been explicitly straight like with the case with sulu if the actor or writer says there is no room for any other interpretation then we should respect that and just make new lgbtqia + characters

    • @JanetDax
      @JanetDax 2 года назад +7

      Personally, I so wanted a lesbian couple on DS9. I guess that is what fanfic is for.

    • @josephfisher426
      @josephfisher426 2 года назад +3

      What about the majority of ST characters was begging for an analysis of their sexualities? There are designated horndogs and the all too frequent designated bimbos, and there are the uncertainties of how other species work, and there are the occasional family units like Miles and Keiko... but mostly we don't learn much personal at all about the characters.
      Also the Federation is not a society in and of itself (and to the extent to which we see it having social characteristics, they are quite dysfunctional). The Federation (and its enemies) are a collection of numerous races that bring their own probably very diverse customs to the table, including whatever their cultural stigmas are.

  • @HollowGolem
    @HollowGolem 2 года назад +123

    I love your point on how heteronormativity colors our interpretation.
    I teach Latin, and when my kids start reading ancient poetry, one of the first *wham* moments for them is realizing that, at least among writers who have survived to our day, most of them were bisexual in modern terms. Realizing that bisexuality was normalized at that time (kinda, the sexual politics of the time were still pretty bad) can help remind people that the way things are NOW isn't "normal" or "natural." It's just the way things are now, and they can change, as they always have over time.

    • @ttthecat
      @ttthecat 2 года назад +5

      This makes me want to go back and pull out my Ovid! And my old first year latin text books! I did two years but I think I would have kept with it if you were my professor! I still can recite the first declension!

    • @HollowGolem
      @HollowGolem 2 года назад +11

      @@ttthecat Ovid's the only explicitly straight poet, sadly.
      Martial seems to be mostly straight, too.
      But Horace, Propertius, Catullus, etc. all wrote love poetry to dudes.

    • @neuralmute
      @neuralmute 2 года назад +9

      @@HollowGolem Wait, how can we forget Sappho?!?
      (Yes, I know very little of her work still exists, but what there is of it is lovely!)
      Edit: Oops, my woman-lovin' brain (which is also on some pretty heavy migraine meds and painkillers right now!) mixed up my Greek and Latin in the love of historical queer literature. I am a silly duck.

    • @HollowGolem
      @HollowGolem 2 года назад +3

      @@neuralmute We read Sappho only through Catullus in Latin (he translated some of her poetry, though "I'm jealous of your husband" is different coming from a guy than from a woman.)
      But Sappho is definitely in that "functionally bisexual" cadre as well, if we go to Greek. She wrote love poetry to womena nd men, talked about the lives fo her children, etc. She's noteworthy for being a pretty open book in terms of her poetry and making her art personal in a way that very few poets had before her.

  • @gozerthegozarian9500
    @gozerthegozarian9500 2 года назад +415

    In my own personal headcanon, Spock being a bi ace or demisexual was what made the most sense to me, even though I didn't have that terminology at the time. Spock and Kirk being super into each other was, to my eyes, very apparent, and while he was experiencing pon-farr (which looked to be a culturally conditioned physical reaction or something to my teen Trekkie self), he didn't seem to experience any actual attraction to T'Pring and, frankly, seemed glad to have gotten out of his arranged marriage. Any type of vaguely sexual/sensual/physically romatic interaction he had seemed to be either under the influence of sci-fi space mindfuckery or more for the benefit of his partner than his own...or both!

    • @marocat4749
      @marocat4749 2 года назад +9

      I think kirk spock i the strongest, but given he has attrations to women too, and he is some kind of ace, Pan demi/ace, yeah checks out.
      And the movies later play into shipper so thats , lik what cant they do before the klingons?

    • @sasandbernard7862
      @sasandbernard7862 2 года назад +8

      True. Spock seemed genuinely distressed during pon farr, and all of his prior comments about sex indicated sex-repulsion. Kirk and Spock definitely have chemistry, but the "sexual" (ish) element of that chemistry was always Kirk.

    • @CT_Phipps
      @CT_Phipps 2 года назад +3

      I didn't get any sort of ace vibe from Spock but then again my strongest memories of Spock are that he was the crew member who had the most romances like cave time traveling girl, the cloud city girl, and the spore incident. He was the real player on the enterprise.

    • @EleneDOM
      @EleneDOM 2 года назад +1

      @@CT_Phipps Note Jadzia Dax's comments about him!
      The conventions of '60s TV dictated that all the main characters had to have love interests at times, and so they did. Which had to get explained by spores or "reverting to his ancestors" or whatever since Spock was originally portrayed as unapproachable and remote.

  • @FinntasticMrFox
    @FinntasticMrFox 2 года назад +23

    It's very sad that when queer people say "We'd like to see more of ourselves", so many cishet people *hear* "We demand to see fewer of you." We've been so aggressively vilified in media and politics, just wanting to be ourselves is perceived to be an imposition.

  • @lionofhighpark
    @lionofhighpark 2 года назад +57

    I feel it's worth noting that Spock's Pon Farr is satiated, not by consummating his marriage to T'Pring, but by a physical confrontation with Kirk. Yes, the script has him explain that the 'shock of thinking he killed his captain' snapped him out of it, but that can just as easily be read as a bit of obfuscation as it can a more straight explanation.

  • @displacerkatsidhe
    @displacerkatsidhe 2 года назад +196

    Only 3 minutes in, loving everything so far.
    My only weirdness with the topic is because subconsciously I associate Spock with my grandpa. When I first saw the original show as a little-little kid, and Spock walked into the screen, I pointed at him and said "granpa's on the show!" And from them on Lenard Nemoy and my grandpa have been forever linked in my brain.
    But I also know my grandparents had an uncomfortably healthy sex life into his late 70s 🤣

    • @VinceWhitacre
      @VinceWhitacre 2 года назад +31

      Haha you know what, good for your grandparents, and condolences to you 😅

  • @Salsmachev
    @Salsmachev 2 года назад +57

    It's also totally possible for a person's sexuality to change over time, either as they discover new truths about themself or as they just flat out change and develop as a person. There's nothing to stop us from saying that Spock has been, at various times, straight, gay, bi, ace, etc and just has an evolving relationship with his own sexuality.

    • @banquetoftheleviathan1404
      @banquetoftheleviathan1404 2 года назад

      It’s not consistent for me at all and the things that make me bi are drugs and narcissism. A lil too dark to be openly inviting people into. One of my friends said biflexible.

  • @gozerthegozarian9500
    @gozerthegozarian9500 2 года назад +232

    Cishet folks having a fit over queer representation being added to Trek (or, for that matter, any media/franchise) are like omnivores having a fit about restaurants adding vegan options to their menue or vegetarian sides to their meat-based main dishes . Like, cool your thrusters, Billy-Bob, you can still eat all the rib-eye you can stuff down, nobody is forcing rabbit food on you! Geez!

    • @arklestudios
      @arklestudios 2 года назад +24

      As a vegan who largely keeps that to himself, I couldn't agree more with that interpretation.
      Also, straight people can have queer headcanons too. I will go to my grave saying that Crewman Cutler on Enterpise was bi and she only flirted with Phlox because T'Pol turned her down.

    • @robinchesterfield42
      @robinchesterfield42 2 года назад +6

      Oh my goddess that is THE BEST WAY OF DESCRIBING THAT I have _ever_ freaking heard. XD See also: Mentioning any other winter holiday besides Christmas. IT'S NOT TAKING YOURS _AWAY_, IT'S JUST ALSO MENTIONING THAT OTHER OPTIONS EXIST *TOO!* GEEZ!
      Also I've always been someone who enjoys a good hamburger _and_ a good salad, often in the same meal (the crunchy fresh veggies make a nice contrast to the heavy greasiness of the burger, and vice-versa.) I guess in the context of food preferences as metaphor for sexual preferences that makes it sound as if I'm bi and/or like threesomes, but really I'm mostly ace. Heh.

    • @robinchesterfield42
      @robinchesterfield42 2 года назад +5

      @@arklestudios I never thought of that, but that's a fun idea. I can totally see that. (Also, I wish somebody would've hit on Hoshi as well. T'Pol was The Hot One, sure, but Hoshi wasn't exactly chopped flarn!)

    • @SHDUStudios
      @SHDUStudios 2 года назад

      @@arklestudios I agree with Jessie’s interpretations of the characters too, and always have.

    • @foujj
      @foujj 2 года назад

      Jeez, I hope these whining straight nitwits don't make people feel all us straight dudes are bigoted assholes. WTF guys, there's plenty of room on the couch.

  • @yoissy
    @yoissy 2 года назад +31

    To be honest, if Spock ran around yelling "I'M STRAIGHT"...
    Might seem like he was uh, overcompensating lol

  • @SLYKM
    @SLYKM 2 года назад +46

    The reactions for the tweet at 18:26 echo a similar problem within the Encanto community with some fans being just as dismissive of queer interpretations, which also include the insult of "you're sexualizing kids movie characters by having queer headcanons!"
    I think everyone here should also watch We Are Gay's latest video on Encanto btw. It is a good companion to listen to about this similar topic of how queerness is generally seen as an attack on people bc they see the default as straight.
    (There were 69 comments before my comment. 👀)

  • @VenusAD
    @VenusAD 2 года назад +151

    Hey, Jessie! Tiny correction from the Ace-spec side: the term is sex "favorable", not positive. Positive is a political position/opinion about sex overall including towards others enjoying it, being open about, etc. People who enjoy/like/want sex are considered favorable.
    I think Spock might be more averse or indifferent, as he doesn't seem uncomfortable with sex so much as just...not into it. I really enjoyed this video! I feel like Kirk and Spock are more of a true QPR (Queer Platonic Relationship). Their love can be just as intense and passionate without being romantic or platonic, and that's the vibe I get....though I think Kirk, being likely bi, has some unrequited urges that just get tamped down because Spock isn't into it.
    TBH, though I know Star Trek fairly well enough for a casual fan, this makes me want to watch more. I guess I'll go watch your other ST videos now too lol

    • @radiationshepherd
      @radiationshepherd 2 года назад +4

      But, in fairness, some people do still say positive to mean the same thing

    • @KireiC
      @KireiC 2 года назад +3

      I did not know this! And now I do. Thanks for the clarification. :)

    • @Nakia11798
      @Nakia11798 2 года назад +3

      I've literally always heard it called sex-positive
      I AM ace

  • @rillip3
    @rillip3 2 года назад +46

    This reminds me of Ruth Bader Ginsberg's famous quote: "People ask me sometimes, when - when do you think it will it be enough? When will there be enough women on the court? And my answer is when there are nine." There are plenty of shows today that don't have any gay people still. That's the way it's been for decades. It should be fine if a show wanted to have no straight people.

  • @FalkaRiannon
    @FalkaRiannon 2 года назад +64

    The irony of someone with the bi flag in their profile pic complaining about Spock being straight because he kisses a woman is...just...so why???

    • @alenefitzgerald4454
      @alenefitzgerald4454 2 года назад +3

      Pretty colours? The fade on the Bi flag is aesthetically pleasing. That or internalized biphobia/erasure.

    • @akodaah13-e32
      @akodaah13-e32 8 месяцев назад

      Besides, there is no problem with spock maybe being heterosexual.

  • @M_M_ODonnell
    @M_M_ODonnell 2 года назад +28

    If Gene Roddenberry were a literature professor, I would absolutely take the "Kirk has no real problem with the idea, he just doesn't swing that way" bit being both in-character and third-hand ("we, the fictional editors of this text, asked fictional Kirk, and this is what he told us") as deliberately ambiguous and a somewhat heavy-handed if light-hearted version of "um...they're all fictional, so there's no *real* version of their relationship, interpret them however you want." Now, he wasn't a literature professor, but since Spock, Kirk, and the (meta)fictional editors are all imaginary, I'll still feel free to enjoy being able to move between interpretations as the mood strikes me (like you point out in the video).

  • @ForeignManinaForeignLand
    @ForeignManinaForeignLand 2 года назад +17

    One ting that Jess will do is find a way to talk bout shreks & star trek.. And i love it 😂💜

  • @disappointedidealist1989
    @disappointedidealist1989 2 года назад +19

    While I'm not sure where I stand on this question, one thing I always took was this: Spock loved his friend and expressed that love. Many Star Trek characters have given me examples of non-toxic masculinity, and even the idea that I, as a straight man, can still express love for my guy friends.

  • @terryhinch
    @terryhinch 2 года назад +16

    And Riker is pansexual and polyamorous. You don't need to interpret that, the man is what he is. We love him for that.

    • @OllamhDrab
      @OllamhDrab 2 года назад +3

      Actually Riker seems to be personally and very clearly personally-attracted to women. He just doesn't care if they're cis or trans by Human readings. And as Jessie's pointed out, he seems to be incredibly sex-positive about anyone having good sex just in general. I wouldn't actually read him as pan, say, just for embracing Sorin's gender identity. Just being with someone androgynous or trans doesn't actually 'make' someone pansexual.

  • @tangentreverent4821
    @tangentreverent4821 2 года назад +58

    My interpretation of the footnote is;
    My big problem with Spock is that he doesn't have enough of a sex drive to tempt me .
    Edit: no more Spock's low sex drive is a turn off.

    • @raphaelatienza
      @raphaelatienza 2 года назад +5

      OMG 😂
      Comparing Spock to his opposite first officer,
      Riker... 😂😂😂 Oh My
      Is there such a thing as anysexual?

    • @lyndonwesthaven6623
      @lyndonwesthaven6623 2 года назад +10

      My reading is that he's stated he wouldn't be satisfied in a monogamous relationship with Spock, but that means the possibility of an open relationship is completely..... open.

    • @neuralmute
      @neuralmute 2 года назад

      @@raphaelatienza I think RIker would be omnisexual. Yes, that's a thing. Let's not think about what he gets up to alone with that trombone and lots of lube. XD

    • @generatoralignmentdevalue
      @generatoralignmentdevalue 2 года назад +6

      It read as him fully endorsing but carefully not outing his bi/gay friend, and reminding any ladies around what his own sexual preferences are while letting his unspoken romantic thing with Spock remain unspoken. And I don't even ship it.

  • @Geekus
    @Geekus 2 года назад +6

    “People only appeal to authorial intent to deny someone else’s reading.”
    Good lord, that sticks. It’s true, and it’s the kind of fundamentalism that is the beating heart of toxic fandom. And really, in something as communal and meaningful as fandoms, can you even think of a worse thing for a fandom to be than toxic?
    Another superbly spoken and deftly made video, Jessie. You continue to discuss Trek and our own world in exactly the way I’ve always wanted to see done on RUclips.

  • @JanetDax
    @JanetDax 2 года назад +18

    Don't have to tell me. I was disappointed when Xena Warrior Princess and Gabrielle didn't get to go off to The Isle of Lesbos together where they belonged.

  • @NethDugan
    @NethDugan 2 года назад +74

    The thing that gets me about this is the erasure of bi and pan folk, how 'gay' gets used to mean gay but also glomps up bi and pan people for some and so you don't know which version the person speaking means. With Andrew J Robinson and Garak what he described was more that he saw the character as pan (he said omnisexual because pan wasn't used then, but pan) not gay. Spock could kiss a woman and fall for a woman and such and he could still be bi and this gets ignored so so much. Big time.

    • @OllamhDrab
      @OllamhDrab 2 года назад +6

      Sometimes it can be a fine line between 'erasure' and just *privacy* if being bi means you can't be with anyone without proclaiming you could also be with someone else. Monosexuals don't have to do that, but yaknow, part of us not having to do that also means 'don't just assume anyone you want is even of a compatible orientation,' that shouldn't be on us either.

    • @EleneDOM
      @EleneDOM 2 года назад

      Thank you, NethDugan. THANK YOU.

    • @EleneDOM
      @EleneDOM 2 года назад

      I'm so delighted to see someone other than me use the word "monosexual."

  • @Audrey-ib1qz
    @Audrey-ib1qz 2 года назад +7

    My take is that Jessie Gender is a beautiful woman who has a delightful take on all of the Star Trek genre.

  • @ambrabridges2161
    @ambrabridges2161 2 года назад +65

    I always considered Spock asexual/demisexual, demiromantic, with his feelings towards Jim being demiromantic and Jim's being more on the bisexual spectrum. As an ace/aro myself, I've identified with Spock since my childhood.

    • @vamp_bat_chomp
      @vamp_bat_chomp 3 месяца назад

      I know, I still all in all like snw, but definitely a little sad Spock seems less ace spec mow.

  • @fairsparrow871
    @fairsparrow871 2 года назад +9

    As a bi, I feel extremely charmed by bisexual Kirk and biromantic Spock. Love that.

  • @princessjellyfish98
    @princessjellyfish98 2 года назад +77

    I wish my experience with aos Kirk/Spock fandom could've been more positive. As a queer woc who got into aos after growing up watching tos, I certainly didn't go into the fandom expecting to feel hostility surrounding Kirk/Spock, since I went into it as a fan of the pairing. However, seeing the fan reaction to the now-canonized spock/uhura relationship (which was also strongly hinted at by Roddenberry in tos), and specifically the way fans treated Uhura as a part of that dynamic, ended up turning me away from the Kirk/spock pairing. The (rightful) disappointment at the lack of queer rep in the modern trek films quickly transferred into a specific vitriol towards an interracial pairing with a black woman love interest, and it was disheartening to see white queer people so quickly dismissive of the impact of canonizing that relationship, even in the 2000s. From the interactions I had/saw, people were very quick to re-pair uhura up with a side character or even off-screen cameos like nurse chapel, in order to get Kirk and Spock together. meanwhile, other popular queer readings of Kirk with other characters like McCoy weren't considered nearly as often as alternatives. It was always uhura that had to be "moved." Even now, if you search for fanfic of spock/uhura you'll have to wade through pages and pages of Kirk/spock where Kirk breaks the couple up (and they still decided to tag it as spock/uhura of course). All this to say that; I couldn't go into the fandom for the new films and enjoy Kirk/spock like I used to after seeing the way fandom treated Uhura, when she went from being a side character they could ignore, to a threat to the main queer pairing (of two cis white dudes). I'm not saying there aren't multi-shippers out there (that's literally me lol) or that every Kirk/spock shipper was terrible, it was just my experience. I was so excited by the prospect of spock/uhura becoming canon, and then when I saw how the rest of fandom reacted, treating it as a targeted slight and a step backwards, it was hard for me to ignore the obvious elephant in the room of who in the queer community was raising these concerns and how.

    • @sash_iii
      @sash_iii 2 года назад +8

      Interesting points, it really sucks how early 2010's fandom was obsessed with the slighting and demonisation of canon female love interests to get other more popular ships together -- especially with the added aspect of race in this case. Fortunately canon female love interests seem to be handled a *lot* better in fandom these days, at least from what I've seen!
      Personally, I have mixed feelings about the whole Spock/Uhura thing; as Uhura was the only main female character in the first film, I didn't particularly enjoy her being paired up with a more plot relevant male lead. I guess to me it felt like they were tying her down a bit? Although she still had her own role and great moments, it seemed like the romance was thrown in as just a standard 'every action movie need a romance subplot' sorta thing that these characters were convenient for due to the hints towards them in TOS.
      That being said, I liked the way the end of their relationship was portrayed in Beyond and the overall arc it took (despite the bickering in Into Darkness).

    • @Cdr2002
      @Cdr2002 2 года назад +4

      Ooof, I know toxic shipping fandom all too well (Mortal Kombat in my case, DC and Marvel at times as well) my condolences

    • @ttthecat
      @ttthecat 2 года назад +5

      Thank you for articulating what I felt but hadn't known how to express, my utter disappointment that Uhura had to be used as a "wedge" or "obstacle" or "antagonist" to SPirk. (The joy of good Drama and Angst aside it was kind of ugly.) The hostility was really upsetting, and I had always assumed that everyone(especially the xenophiles) in the future was "bi" 'cause that just made sense to be open to any possibility of love, I found the covetous hostility towards a happy S/U ship disappointing. I grew up with ALL the trek series and I never wanted my idea of romantic joy to come at someone else's expense. There is room for every flavor of love, hostility need not apply.

    • @christineherrmann205
      @christineherrmann205 2 года назад +5

      I had no idea Uhura/Spock had happened in canon - that's pretty cool!

    • @inabacklistmood3124
      @inabacklistmood3124 2 года назад +2

      This! I'm so sorry you had to experience this. Princess Weeks made a great video on how yt queer fans erase and demonize pairings with poc love interests in favor of a gay ship.

  • @lyricbot8513
    @lyricbot8513 2 года назад +20

    The timing of this video with the SNW trailer is the healing I needed, to be honest with you. Thank you Jessie!

    • @SkinnyDaisieArts
      @SkinnyDaisieArts 2 года назад +1

      I would argue that straight v. gay is a human premise!… would further press The point that Spock, coming from a culture that is so "straight laced" and uptight, it is entirely possible that he grew up Asexual. Whatever his natural desires might be. /And as a sapoio-sexual /asexual myself. I believe that Spock would find JTKirk to be a tiresome jackass. And while some of the fan base reacted negatively to the reboot. Now. Chris Pine as Kirk. Ok, maybe,.,..perhaps Shat' and his weird, stilted delivery were the problems all along. To the folks who griped about the reboot Spock/Uhura pairing... get over it, who wouldn't want to get stuck in elevators with Zoey Seldama???. Or for that matter, Rebecca Romjin,? Now that was some sexual tension!

    • @semperfi818
      @semperfi818 2 года назад +2

      @@SkinnyDaisieArts Your assertion that Spock would have quickly grown disenchanted with Kirk, even finding him a "tiresome jackass," compels me to suggest that perhaps Spock elicits in Kirk a best self not usually expressed elsewhere, which draws the Vulcan intensely to his captain.

  • @KatrinaLeFaye
    @KatrinaLeFaye 2 года назад +37

    The only issue I have with Spock/Kirk is Kirk really should not be sleeping someone in his crew.

    • @martaaleksejczuk1660
      @martaaleksejczuk1660 2 года назад +3

      This is my interpretation of why they don't get together. :')

    • @EleneDOM
      @EleneDOM 2 года назад +2

      So glad someone finally brought this up. We've always been told that captains are isolated because there is no one in the crew who is not in their chain of command, so no one they can date. (Why Janeway ended up with a holo-guy.) The XO is still a subordinate and should be off limits.
      And anyway, isn't Kirk's main romantic bond supposed to be with the Enterprise herself?

  • @theoddone3628
    @theoddone3628 2 года назад +81

    I dont know why, but before the calvin timeline, I always saw spock as asexual. BTW, I adore your Star Trek videos. They are unusual, intelligent, intersting and very entertaining. And this is comming from a Star Wars fan.

    • @LexYeen
      @LexYeen 2 года назад +5

      The universe is infinite, there's no reason you can't enjoy both!

    • @TheDawnofVanlife
      @TheDawnofVanlife 2 года назад +7

      Being DemiSexual is on the Asexual spectrum as well as being Graysexual. As a Demi or Gray sexual you may be able to take or leave or not even care about actual sex, even if you have a partner you love. If they want it, you may participate and even enjoy it. But desiring it and being ‘turned on’ may never actually be a thing. I see Spock on that Demi/Gray spectrum even in the Kelvin timeline.

    • @Nakia11798
      @Nakia11798 2 года назад

      @@TheDawnofVanlife There's no spectrum. A means NONE. There is an allosexual spectrum.

  • @jonni2317
    @jonni2317 2 года назад +32

    I love your interpretations of Spock, Kirk, Picard and Data. My daughter and I play a game when we're watching movies and tv, we call it But Make it Gay, we kinda rewrite the scripts as we go. It started with My Fair Lady, but we do it with everything; Stargate, Star Trek, Star Wars, BSG, Merlin, Dr Who, the Bible, they're all better the more queer characters you add especially SG1 the only straight characters left are Teal'k and Colonel Hammond at this point. But it isnt just our reading of things, they(producers, execs, etc) leave intangible echos and shadows of queerness in the media for the LGBTQIA community to grasp at while everyone else is oblivious to it and then people get upset when we notice it or add it in on our own. We're simultaneously being encouraged and discouraged from adding our own subtext, its frustrating. I'm not sure what I'm trying to say but I don't think people will ever stop changing old stories to fit with our times. Stories evolve and grow with us over time and i talk too much

    • @sandorenckell5259
      @sandorenckell5259 2 года назад +6

      Make it so... gay

    • @ttthecat
      @ttthecat 2 года назад +4

      I just realized that is technically all of the fan fiction I have ever read was a version of that awesome game! I am determined to play that later with other movies and my lgbt+ family!

    • @angelasmith5019
      @angelasmith5019 2 года назад

      Ok but what did you change about Merlin in your game? Did you make Uther and Gaius a thing?

  • @hambone.fakenamington
    @hambone.fakenamington 2 года назад +41

    I’ve always taken Spock and everyone else in ST as bi unless specified otherwise, just because that’s the future I want. Any interpretation other than Het would have been awesome for this new show tho I wish writers would take direction from what is popular with fans.
    Even though I don’t interpret Spock as Ace (because he’s pretty much just like other Vulcans in the extended lore, just with more pressure on him, and they do bone so I never saw his general non sexual behavior as standing out among his culture just among humans who are more casual with their attraction and my bi as fuck ass just makes people bi whoops) but it would have been awesome to see a popular fan interpretation brought to life. Or even framing him as Demi and having the genders of who he might find himself growing closer to to be more flexible, maybe a guy instead of a girl or a non-binary character and actor would have been cool to see.
    Haven’t finished the vid, wanted to get my thoughts about before I hear yours! Excited for your opinion!

  • @rabnerd28
    @rabnerd28 2 года назад +3

    You can't tease me with that 3 hour video Jessie. I have a weakness for long form video essays.

  • @okamiseven
    @okamiseven 2 года назад +41

    Thank you for reminding folks that kissing a woman "makes spock straight" OR BI/PANSEXUAL. Tired of having to remind the LGs that we exist

    • @beth7935
      @beth7935 2 года назад +1

      Yeah, it's just immediately obvious if you're bi/pan- "He kissed a woman- _and?_ That doesn't automatically mean he's straight, jeez!" You can kinda understand straight cis people jumping to that conclusion, but LGT+ people??

  • @JosephKerr27
    @JosephKerr27 2 года назад +12

    I always interpreted Spock as aromantic, being devoted to science, logic, philosophy, music, chess, and all things fascinating. Just his own Vulcan boldly going and coming (Captain, your pun was... satisfying). Still, I'm down with Kirk/Spock fan fiction. I like Saldaña's Uhura with Quinto's Spock as well. All are valid in the multiverse, and I'm all for that IDIC :)

  • @Dunedien
    @Dunedien 2 года назад +5

    As a biromantic ace, I’ve always read Spock that way and I was pleasantly surprised to see that interpretation from someone else.

  • @grandsome1
    @grandsome1 2 года назад +8

    Can we canonize Jessie as patron Saint of Star Trek fandom for being so nuanced and kind to people who litteraly attacked her personhood in those Twitter comments. Hope you take care of yourself, it must not be easy to do this.

  • @starwarssyl1177
    @starwarssyl1177 2 года назад +19

    A thing I think the Author's Intent contingent has failed to realize is, the instant I or any other fan writes a short story, I become the Author, and in that space, then, only my interpretation, my intent matters, according to the rules they invented.

    • @marocat4749
      @marocat4749 2 года назад +1

      There is also that with a show, youhave not one author, and like with garak wher pretty sure writers did thip them, ther were definitly writers shipping kirk and spock, it woulsnt be as popula if some authors hadnt the intent to make kirk well in a romantic aexual relationship with spock. No matte ho much he slept around, that is authos intent too.
      And whatevr his thoughts were thre, h made remarks that makes it open that it could be. Regarding authors intent. Even if it was fo the shipper if, he did,

  • @20000dino
    @20000dino 2 года назад +13

    I don’t have anything of relevance to say, I just want to thank you for delivering some of the best queer-media-related-content on RUclips, and for being such a patient voice when it comes to those who really don’t deserve it. You inspire me as a gay Demi-boy, Jessie ❤️

  • @SteviiLove
    @SteviiLove 2 года назад +7

    I always thought/was taught the value of art is in the fact that everyone has their own perspective and none are wrong because art is subjective.
    I feel like those that are hostile/toxic stans miss the point entirely of their favorite media.

  • @AmaranthOriginal
    @AmaranthOriginal 2 года назад +20

    It's always a little weird to me. I thought it was great that there were so many people of colour in Discovery, despite being super white. It didn't "threaten" me, because I could still enjoy the characters. But I've grown up with TV shows full of straight cis dudes who don't represent me, while it seems the bulk of Trek fans have never really been challenged to identify with a hero outside their comfort zone.
    Hell, I was happy when Disco threw us the bone of one gay couple. Before Jett or the kids appeared on the show...I am ecstatic that we have so many queer characters, finally, but it's still only a fraction of the crew, and it's disheartening to see people so upset that people like me...exist.

  • @richardwithanarr
    @richardwithanarr 2 года назад +2

    11:00 "and this isn't even to mention that Star Trek The Motion Picture featured scenes like this" [advertisement for Harry Potter, here, on the Jessie Gender channel where we are deeply critical of its author]
    I can't help but laugh sometimes at ad breaks.

  • @jlbeeen
    @jlbeeen 2 года назад +18

    I with Spock, or really any Vulcan, it can go different ways. Due to pon farr, I see most Vulcan characters have more fluid attractions that can change. And I know some AFAB and trans people who find their hormone levels change how and who they're attracted to, so I think that makes most logical sense, but also leaves it open for interpretation.

  • @raininscotland
    @raininscotland 2 года назад +10

    I've realised along the way that a lot of characters I idolised as a child were ones who came across as neurodivergent and asexual, which makes a lot of sense to me. I've always read Spock as somewhere on the asexual spectrum, even before I had the terminology to explain it.
    I've also never understood why some people get so annoyed when others interpret things differently. I'm always interested to hear different takes on my favourite shows and characters.

    • @Nakia11798
      @Nakia11798 2 года назад

      I never even watched star trek, but something about him made me think "he doesn't have sex", even before I knew what an asexual was, so I get what you're saying.

  • @Xboxkokoko
    @Xboxkokoko 2 года назад +14

    Bruh, did those people complaining about Spock having a relationship with a woman not watch TOS? Yes, there was a LOT of chemistry between Kirk and Spock, but the whole Pon Far episode is almost all about how he needs to bone down with a woman right now!
    I think people aren't considering him being bi or pan, or asexual for 7 years at a time. This woman in the trailer is probably T'Pring, the vulcan who he telepathically bonded with at age 7
    (oh hey, you said that too, guess I should listen to the video before commenting)

    • @AD_AP_T
      @AD_AP_T 2 года назад +3

      People using Pon Farr as evidence of orientation for *any* Vulcan feels like missing the point, too - isn't the entire point that it causes them to act out of character and against their normal desires?

    • @someoneotherthananne8524
      @someoneotherthananne8524 10 месяцев назад

      With Pon Farr part of the tension of the episode is that Spock has to return to T’Pring, but he doesn’t want to. He even talks about “wishing he’d been spared”. I think that episode therefore doesn’t really work as evidence for Spock’s heterosexuality, as he doesn’t seem attracted to T’Pring but rather acknowledges having sex with her as the only way to save his life.

  • @marumae
    @marumae 2 года назад +8

    I never thought about the fact that part of the reason I related to Spock was because of his biracial (species?) Status but it's true. The plotlines and stories where this came up resonated the most with me (he's still my favorite Trek character) (also this is me being biracial m'self) and...I think I understand some new aspects of myself and why I love this character...thanks Jessie 😊.
    Footnote, I always thought of Spock as Asexual (and that also made me relate being on the Ace Spectrum m'self.)

  • @ladyliberty417
    @ladyliberty417 2 года назад +10

    Thanks for your thoughts Jessie,
    I’m always learning a thing or two
    on how to open my mind to other ways
    of seeing Star Trek over the years-
    Spock is sometimes an enigma but always interesting, ha!! ✌🏼❤️

  • @toecutterjones
    @toecutterjones 2 года назад +1

    Not even a Star Trek fan but the thumbnail totally sold me.

  • @gatobuho-
    @gatobuho- 2 года назад +6

    I agree with everything you say, I also feel that this is one of those toxic behaviors of the fandom, where they want their point of view to be the right one. Personally I always saw Spock as pansexual, and his relationship with Kirk as a deep and platonic friendship, and I love his relationship with Uhura in the Kelvin timeline, but I don't try to impose my point of view on anyone.
    Another issue that almost nobody touches is the fact that it seems that people usually interpret friendship as a romantic relationship, this especially happens to men, let us remember that men have always been educated to repress their feelings and when they express them they put them in a awkward situation where they are interpreted as romantic interest, and I don't mean just straight men I just think there are many people who fetishize gay or bisexual men.

  • @tsuritsa3105
    @tsuritsa3105 2 года назад +12

    I personally read Spock as mostly asexual with some bi tendencies. As GozerTheGozarian said in this thread, perhaps Spock is demi. Sexuality is complicated.
    What amuses me here is that people are judging this just off the trailer as if bisexuality is not even a thing, not even a possibility. To me as a bisexual woman it is one more piece of bierasure in the culture.
    It's sad that people are still so hung up on seeing depictions of characters in the sexual orientation they are most comfortable or used to.
    Sorry; my words are off this morning, it's 532 and I'm not getting everything out the way I want. This whole situation just makes me sad.

  • @Ninjacatmuffin
    @Ninjacatmuffin 2 года назад +21

    Wonderful video. I share your feelings in that I enjoy seeing characters that share parts of my identity (aro ace to be more specific). I'm glad that more recent Star Trek series have included more queer folk. I'm saddened but not surprised that some get weirdly antagonistic about it.
    Semi-related note: Headcanons can be fun! I enjoy hearing about others' headcanons in fandom even if they don't match mine. It's interesting to see how people can relate to characters in different ways

  • @onbearfeet
    @onbearfeet 2 года назад +11

    This entire video is hilarious to me because I've been using Spock for years in discussions of the lack of ace rep in media. He's one of what I call the "three S's"--three well-known characters that people analogize asexuality to when they don't really understand it. (The other two are Sherlock Holmes and Sheldon Cooper.) What makes it funny to me is that all three characters can be read canonically as something other than ace...but straights tend to jump to the idea that they never bump uglies because it's more comfortable than identifying with a non-straight character who does. Or, as I put it, "These characters are what people think asexuality is...and none of them seem to actually BE ace."

    • @Nakia11798
      @Nakia11798 2 года назад +1

      What of asexuals who ARE like that?

    • @onbearfeet
      @onbearfeet 2 года назад +1

      @@Nakia11798 Also totally valid! But Spock and Sheldon Cooper both have significant plotlines about their experience of sexual attraction and Holmes' fascination with Irene Adler and relationship with Watson have been feeding fan writers for over a hundred years, so it's entirely possible to read all three characters as NOT ace! Which is part of the problem with extremely limited rep. When audiences generalize from a sample size that small--and two of these characters were created well before asexuality was widely understood to be an orientation--people tend to get rather weird ideas about what aces are like, and get mad when real aces are, well, people. Nobody has this problem with straight characters, and nobody necessarily has to have this problem with gay characters at this point. With aces, however, it lingers.

  • @edj8008
    @edj8008 2 года назад +17

    It so strange that so many people are so afraid of " otherness " and being asosiated with otherness.

    • @semperfi818
      @semperfi818 2 года назад +5

      A sad and needless fear, if one thinks about it: all of us are "other," in one sense or another, so it would make the most sense, from a mental-health perspective, to learn to accept this as human reality and move on with one's life. (Remember Rimbaud's telling observation: "'I' is another.")

    • @edj8008
      @edj8008 2 года назад +1

      @@semperfi818 I was years and years sins I read any poetry

    • @semperfi818
      @semperfi818 2 года назад

      @@edj8008 The French Symbolists might be a rough go for you now if that's so, but there's poetry everywhere in life (though I doubt what I wrote was anything close, sure), ready to be relished...

    • @edj8008
      @edj8008 2 года назад +1

      @@semperfi818 Im starting with the poetic Edda. It's s bit crude but it translate very well 2 swedish and it's actually funny (in a toxic and rude way but still funny)

    • @semperfi818
      @semperfi818 2 года назад +1

      @@edj8008 Ah, you're Swedish, digging into your cultural heritage -- my Swedish-descended partner would approve, and I am impressed. Enjoy your poetic deep-dive.

  • @qiae
    @qiae 2 года назад +2

    I think one of the issues around fanfic and slashfic topics is that there is a societal focus on getting the "right" interpretation with everything, when most of existence is a lot more grey than that.

  • @happyascheese
    @happyascheese 2 года назад +11

    I just couldn't get into shipping Kirk/Spock in AOS. Kirk came off as strictly heterosexual to me for one thing. Then, there was the choking scene in the first film. I tend to treat AOS and TOS as two separate things. I shipped a lot of Pike/Mccoy back in the day until Pike's character got the axe. One of the things that attracted me to the paring in the first place was the disability representation. It's so hard to find representation as a disabled, lesbian woman. I do more shipping in TOS now.

  • @andrwblood9162
    @andrwblood9162 2 года назад +2

    Y'All didn't understand that this was just the primer for the 3 hour continuation video of the Sex In Trek series.
    48 hour Star Trek essay series! LET'S GO

  • @That80sGuy1972
    @That80sGuy1972 2 года назад +4

    You covered nearly every base here and covered them brilliantly... perfectly. You left out one straight male relationship, the "bromance". It's a slang term contraction of "bro" short for brother meaning male best friends and how it's shockingly close to being a romantic relationship, so... "bromance" meaning a "bromantic relationship".
    If all the bigots and rebels without a clue actually cared to look into what a bromance was, they'd probably see Kirk and Spock as more of a bromance than anything actually sexual and-or romantic.
    That being said, I can see emotionally-controlled-disciplined Vulcan best friends doing sexual favors for someone they are not attracted to as a mere favor for a friend. "Come to my room, we need to talk." "Oh, I need to know how long so I know when. Do you need an orgasm, a quick conversation, or a discussion that might take all night?"
    I can also see a hyper-heterosexual hornball hiding his bisexual side with a trusted best friend behind closed doors during dry spells... like, say, a captain of a vessel in space that does not want drama from female crew. It's the 80s "I'm not gay, neither is my friend. We just help each other out in dry spells between girls" bisexual denial.
    This is my personal bias. I don't actually believe anyone is absolutely straight or gay. Everyone is just a different flavor of bisexual. If you think you are straight or gay, you just haven't met someone of your non-preferred sex that entices you... yet. Or, you are in denial.
    When I was in the closet as a female preferring bisexual, I was a f^g beating bigoted hyper-heterosexual who always had a best friend who "was totally not gay, straight like me, but we helped each other during dry spells"... a line we told ourselves and each other but kept our behind-closed-doors fun secret.
    Also, as someone whose family moved an average of twice a year my whole young life, I saw a LOT of secrets that people keep and explore with strangers/vagabonds that they hide from their communities. Let's just say that the biggest moral-signaling loud people are usually self-loathers who can relate to that which they red-faced scream against.

  • @NoahMiller13579
    @NoahMiller13579 2 года назад +8

    I've always interpreted Spock as bi, in every depiction of him.
    As for shipping, I've never been able to buy Kirk and Spock as a couple, sometimes I have trouble believing they're even friends. I can see Spock starting a relationship with pretty much any character *except* Chapel, Kirk, and T'Pring.

  • @hopekeeley2122
    @hopekeeley2122 2 года назад +5

    I’ve noticed this weird phenomenon in shipping circles, one character has to be gay and one has to be bi. Whoever had a prominent female love interest is bi, and if the second had one too, that’s just comphet from repression. People can’t seem to fathom 2 bi people in a relationship unless it’s a cute “we dated the same person but now we’re dating each other” thing like in legends of korra

  • @october7895
    @october7895 2 года назад +4

    Let me tell you, I'm screaming, crying, shaking and screaming again bc im so excited for this

  • @jacobfike3697
    @jacobfike3697 2 года назад +6

    When confronted with antisemitism, white supremacy, transphobia, etc., these people will "death of the author" you within an inch of your life, but as soon as you read something as maybe being queer in any way, suddenly the creator's original intent is incontrovertible holy writ

  • @lisasmith6271
    @lisasmith6271 2 года назад +1

    I think what this video is about and it makes sense!!!! I think back about all of the Star Trek episodes I have watched I understand what you are saying!!!! You made it clear to me about the way the characters were relating to each other!!!! You did a great service to present this video to your viewers!!!!!!

  • @teucer915
    @teucer915 2 года назад +3

    I never got into Trek.
    But I did do a deep dive into Euripides after finding a translation of The Trojan Women in my high school library, and I definitely found representation I don't think the old playwright intended.
    In fact, you see me displayed here as teucer915. Teucer has a cameo in the Iliad but I know him from how he shows up in Euripides' "Helen", and I saw that version of the character as Queer when I needed a role model. I've been calling myself teucer online for about 20 years now.
    I don't give a shit what the ancient playwright really had in mind.

  • @kzisnbkosplay3346
    @kzisnbkosplay3346 2 года назад +2

    Representation! I have been an ally for years, but had no label for my asexuality until watching an episode of House. I was so curious, and started to feel comfortable with the label, just during the course of the episode. And then at the end they 'cured' the character, and, even knowing the show was inaccurate, it completely eliminated that validity I had suddenly found. That was a roller coaster.

  • @thedevicebook
    @thedevicebook 2 года назад +3

    At 16:42 Jessie finally mentioned the possibility of Spock being bisexual. At the 4 minute mark, I was already pissed at all the fans that were mad that "Spock kiss girl. Spock straight! Wtf?" Which misses that bisexuality exists. In my headcanon he's demisexual panromantic and Kirk's footnote sounds full on pansexual. (Sorry if a similar comment of mine got posted and I am repeating myself. RUclips seems to have either deleted or hidden my other comment.)

  • @erincorcoran5936
    @erincorcoran5936 2 года назад +6

    It's kind of frustrating that a lot of people are not even considering the possibility he's bi or pan or anything else, like you mentioned in the end. I understand if the interpretation you hold dear is gay or straight, but automatically assuming that he can ONLY be one or the other is.. really tiring as a BiRo-Ace myself. So much of the spectrum deals with erasure that "controversies" and discourse like this feel just like that. Like its a 3 second clip that hasnt done anything more to one side or another than any of the previous interpretations, is the outrage necessary? Meanwhile the biggest question I have is "why are 2 vulcans kissing like humans?"..
    Thank you very much for your excellent dissection of the converstaion as always Jesse! Much love for the work you do ❤

    • @EleneDOM
      @EleneDOM 2 года назад +1

      I definitely questioned why the two Vulcans were kissing like humans.

  • @cdarklock
    @cdarklock 2 года назад +13

    It seems obvious to me that as time has gone on, queer people have become more and more visible. If we carry that trend accurately into the 23rd century, they're going to be clearly visible, everywhere. Star Trek has always tried to carry trends outward into the future. Roddenberry had the miniskirt persist into the future, and even put a few men into them, because he saw women wearing men's clothes in the 1960s... and naturally expanded this to men wearing women's clothes in the future. Star Trek has always been "what does the leftist utopia really look like?" - and that vision has changed over time.
    TNG had new answers and asked new questions. DS9 had new answers and asked new questions. Discovery and Enterprise had new answers and asked new questions. That's what Star Trek does. That's largely what we all like about it.

  • @pablobratcat
    @pablobratcat 2 года назад +6

    Spock is basically the asexual version of Captain Jack.

  • @janistransbian
    @janistransbian 2 года назад +27

    i still maintain that captain kirk is asexual. plus dr. mccoy always seemed to have a thing for spock. his obsession for vulcan physionomy speaks volumes. captain picard is also asexual via my interpretation. both captains suggested that they have duties to their respective ships. this seems to be a common defense for asexuals.

    • @semperfi818
      @semperfi818 2 года назад +5

      An interesting take on Capt. Kirk's sexuality: so might his strenuous pursuit of women and aliens who resembled them be construed, then, as a sort of reaction formation on the part of a Starfleet officer keenly sensing some need to appear conventionally (heterosexually) virile as part of the role? (This is, surely, in addition to the media Powers that Be's commercial investment in not offending the heterosexual majority of potential viewers.)

    • @ponetium
      @ponetium 2 года назад +3

      Honestly, Mc'Coy and Spok and Kirk definitely got drunk one night and woke up naked in the same bed. The three of them have a really strong dynamics, and Mc'Coy is definitely into Spock.
      His teasing speaks volumes!

    • @neuralmute
      @neuralmute 2 года назад +1

      @@ponetium I've decided that this is canon. Thank you.

  • @estudiordl
    @estudiordl 2 года назад +1

    Excellent video as usual. I'm still awe how strong you are to actually endure such negativity in social media to make your word out. I quit twitter at the beginning of the pandemic and I don't miss that toxic environment a bit. 😅🤗🤗

  • @JEstey10000
    @JEstey10000 2 года назад +7

    It's unexpectedly fitting that Jessie used a homoerotic scene from Star Trek: The Motion Picture to introduce the big question, "Which matters more, the creator's intentions, or the fans' interpretations?"
    The whole conflict of ST:TMP is set off by V'ger rigidly sticking to its goal of finding its creator and fulfilling its original purpose, no matter what obstacles it has to overcome in order to do so. Never mind that V'ger has vastly outlasted, outgrown, and transcended its original "creator" and mission - and never mind that V'ger's stubborn adherence to its own (limited) understanding of its creator's intent only threatens to wipe out that creator's legacy!
    I think we could easily read V'ger as a stern warning against an overly strict & narrow focus on creator intent, especially when a work can become so much more powerful (and even com alive!) by incorporating the ideas and perspectives from other times & places.

  • @rachumsmcone9184
    @rachumsmcone9184 2 года назад +1

    Reclaimation completely valid! Every time art and/or media becomes shared whether publicly or privately, it becomes subjected to death of the author. Wanna keep something purely to oneself? Never share, because whatever one shares will never solely belong to them and only them ever again.

  • @SAVYWRITESBOOKS
    @SAVYWRITESBOOKS 2 года назад +7

    This is top of my watch later playlist but i came here to say... The page 22 footnote only CONFIRMED that Kirk & Spock were together, not debunked it, and i will DIE ON THIS HILL

  • @havvasweb
    @havvasweb 2 года назад +1

    in 1998, i had a friend in HS who was strughling with coming out. but he wouldnt say anything. we had to kiss in our highschool musical... and i just could feel all this awkward pain. he really thought no one knew. and i didnt know what to do to help.
    then i saw wilson cruz in my so called life and he moved me. i got up the courage to approach my friend and offer understanding amd support like a good weirdo friend should do. . . he was shocked and happy and all the things. he felt seen, i think.
    seeing wilson cruz in disco is like unbeleivable to me. with anthony rapp. in this context. inspiring my gen z friends. i love how it all comea around.

  • @maruubnd
    @maruubnd 2 года назад +6

    The statement "fans don't get to decide canon" was rendered useless when GOT showrunners decided to make fan theories happen, and, going further back, when certain writer confirmed that certain wizard was gay after years of fan theories and fics.

  • @roryfroschauer4821
    @roryfroschauer4821 2 года назад +2

    Jessie, you're continuously one of my favorite creators in the trek fandom and this video is no exception to that

  • @mattgelfer
    @mattgelfer 2 года назад +4

    Wonderful video, as always! I think you hit upon something in this and several of your other videos: people seem to think about and interact with these characters as if they are real people, not fictional characters. If they were real people, then it WOULD be wrong to interpret them as something they say they’re not. But since they are fictional characters, it ISN’T wrong to read them in several different ways, particularly a character like Spock who had existed for nearly 60 years. There’s something about Trek that makes people, myself included, feel like these characters are real, living people. It’s part of what makes the franchise great, but it leads to some toxic fandom too. This confusion is nicely encapsulated in that one response to your tweet. Your tweet was about fictional characters, the “equivalency” they were going for in their retort was about YOU (a REAL person).
    Sorry for the rambling response, but I don’t think it’s ever been so crystallized for me before.

  • @emilyjones9675
    @emilyjones9675 2 года назад +1

    and here I was clicking on the video thinking this was just the next installment of sex in Star Trek, only to find out it’s a bonus??!! 😱 you are too good to us, Jessie 😭

  • @transitengineer
    @transitengineer 2 года назад +5

    As always, thank you for sharing with us your comments. Perhaps this is just a generational issue. As a person who grew up in the 1960's and 1970's: Kirk, Spock, Bones, and Scotty were all "Alpha Males" (strong, confindent, and would only have sexual relations with females). But, what perhaps viewers today miss is that these type of Men would also have deep friendships with males. In addition, while these were not sexual relationships many times there was more love between them and each other than for say..."the girl friend of the week" and, you can clearly see this in the choices they make (smile...smile).

  • @lindseybockhorst9537
    @lindseybockhorst9537 2 года назад +1

    Thank you as always for your thoughtful, fair, and empathetic breakdown of a controversial issue. I immensely enjoyed this!

  • @venusluv-i1v
    @venusluv-i1v 2 года назад +6

    Yay! Star Trek videos!
    I don't know if my other comment got deleted, but I wanted to mention that there should be room for intersectionality in these conversations. I am a black and queer person with a variety of mixed opinions. To start, I loved it when Spock and Uhara became an item in the new Star Trek. It is rare that black women are actually shown in stable relationships with men. Most blk women are portrayed as less romantic and desirable than their wht counterparts. But I am also bi and I wish there was room for him to be bi, not as an afterthought of the monosexual divide, but because it would make for great bi rep (especially for men and boys).
    Of course, I also sympathize with those who genuinely are attached to canon. I tend to be very attached to traditional canon of things I grew to love and I honestly hate change. I always prefer new characters that are queer or poc than just changing an already established character. But I don't think Spock falling in love with the captain would change the canon too much if he were to be bi.

  • @alsy6813
    @alsy6813 2 года назад

    I know nothing about star trek and characters in it, and yet listening to your videos about them is such a pleasure. I love every video of yours with no exception, but these ones, when I can see you talking patiently about the thing that you love, is the best comfort watch in the world.
    Thank you for being yourself, and for sharing your amazingness with us.
    (And this is a bit of a rumbly comment, but I wanted to say this huge THANK YOU for a while now, and I can't resist it now)
    ❤️

  • @nathancombs527
    @nathancombs527 2 года назад +4

    Jessie, I feel you. As soon as I saw young Pike in The Menagerie, I knew which captain I'd want behind me XD

  • @xrayvsns5976
    @xrayvsns5976 2 года назад +1

    Thank you so much for your hard work on this important and fun subject.
    Have you heard the one how Picard was in a throuple with the crushers, perfectly happy as a unicorn until Wesley’s dad died. Every time I see Jean’luc getting awkward with Beverley, or paternalistic with Wesley it sits in the foreground. My personal favorite.

  • @liamodonovan6610
    @liamodonovan6610 2 года назад +3

    Always excited to see you with a new video love you Jessie awesome intelligent video

  • @Skip-Towne
    @Skip-Towne 2 года назад +1

    excellent video. Tbh i feel like star trek by nature of its setting encourages relating to different people with different experiences, it kind of baffles me that so many can miss this aspect.

  • @JosephKerr27
    @JosephKerr27 2 года назад +3

    The characters of Adira Tal and Senna Tal are so inspired. Given the inherently multigendered "Other Memory" of Trill symbionts, it now seems so obvious to make groundbreaking, wonderful characters.

  • @SAVYWRITESBOOKS
    @SAVYWRITESBOOKS 2 года назад +2

    I can't wait for this video. You're the actual best Jessie

  • @snorpenbass4196
    @snorpenbass4196 2 года назад +9

    I mean...the slash stuff has always been a fandom thing, no matter how much we might not want it to be. But making him specifically het...eh. I like the idea of him being mostly ace, with the occasional experimentation. His relationship with Uhura (which was actually in TOS!) always felt like an ace but not aro thing. Making him aggressively cishet just feels like pandering (winky eye). That said, I think any new interpretation is just a new interpretation, neither wrong nor right. As long as he's still an overcompensating half-Vulcan, it's Spock.

  • @atmaweapon2803
    @atmaweapon2803 2 года назад +1

    So happy you made this video! This coincided nicely with my rewatch of TMP, the new 4K remastering of the Director's Edition.
    I have been following this history ever since I became a Star Trek fan, practically speaking. I have always loved the footnote from the TMP novelization - I always read it as queer positive. Kirk quite nearly (and arguably clearly) confirms his bisexuality with the quote!
    (That said, Roddenberry's TMP novelization is completely bananas and probably deserves its own video by somebody.)

  • @RBEmpathy
    @RBEmpathy 2 года назад +6

    It's only fitting that Spock would have Schrodinger's sexuality.

  • @Kleineganz
    @Kleineganz 2 года назад +2

    One thing that came to mind when watching this is how those of us in the queer community are having to use the *intentions of the writer* to defend the queer romantic confession of love from the character Castiel to Dean Winchester in the episode "Despair" (season 15, episode 18) of Supernatural. The writer himself is gay, and he meant the "I love you" confession to be a romantic declaration of love. That's how the actor, Misha Collins played it. That's how the director, Richard Speight Jr. directed it. Yet, many fans were up-in-arms about it and will tell anyone who cheers the confession as anything other than an "I love you, bro" moment that we are wrong... despite the fact that this time we literally have the *intentions of the writer* on our side.
    It never ends, does it?

  • @mazzw1067
    @mazzw1067 2 года назад +3

    I feel both called out and comforted.

  • @mudgetheexpendable
    @mudgetheexpendable 2 года назад +1

    ..."there is a need, more than ever, a need for queer representation..."
    Soul sibling! You are so very right.

  • @spencer2571
    @spencer2571 2 года назад +4

    Spock has always been just 'Dad' to me, so I never thought about him this way. It's been interesting to learn the significance of his sexuality for queer trekkies. I know how emotional/meaningful it was for me when Seven was confirmed as Bi.

    • @EleneDOM
      @EleneDOM 2 года назад

      Same here-- my Space Dad, since 1966.