Thats not always true. There are many good and respectful families with brat children and vice versa. Education Is important but many times thats depend on personal tendencies and external influences
The most expensive thing I ever bought my daughter was a dressmakers' mannequin because she's into cosplay. She was thrilled, and five years later she still uses it all the time. Our unspoken rule was always that we'd spend a little more if the gift was a special activity, or something that would last and encouraged creativity or thought. Hokey and old fashion as it may seem, our Christmas has never been just about "stuff"--it's tradition, our community, crafting and cooking, expressing our love for friends and family. One of our favorites is the Good Deeds Competition, where we do at least one helpful thing for another person each day of the holiday season, then compare notes over dinner. She's a good person, one who I both like and admire, and I think, because she was in a truly terrible situation before we adopted her, and she still has some memory of those times, that she has an entirely different understanding of hardship and gratitude than many young people. I don't know what I'd do if I had one if these kids in the family. Feel like a complete failure as a parent and human being, I guess.
My mom also has spent a bit more money on gifts since I started working professionally as an artist (I didn't really have any passions that required items before that, only singing and writing). It was fantastic. Even though we weren't the best off she knew what I wanted and needed. And my dad started spending less money on me because he wanted me to be a lawyer. Jokes on him, I make more money than he does now (though certainly not as much as a lawyer)
I can't wrap my head around most of these. I've had a very comfortable life, went to a private school, many of my friends are from multi-millionaire families. Not once would it cross my mind to ask for let alone complain about an Iphone, TV, or car. Nor have I seen my more affluent friends make such egregious requests. A gift should be something small but personal designed to have sentimental not monetary value. I don't think it's totally wrong to give your kid a car for their 16th or a play station (though I am a little jealous) but if the kid expects that calibre of stuff handed to them you've failed parenting.
@@elpanderohabanero2915 That's a sad truth. Sometimes, a person is just born bad, and no amount of good parenting will help them. But of course, any and all parents should aspire to be good parents anyway.
Jesus… My Dad gifted me his 6 month old (at the time) iPad Air for Christmas (boxed up and with all the gear). Someone bought him an iPad Mini for his birthday just before Christmas, not knowing he had the Air, and he preferred the Mini so gave me the Air. I didn’t care if it was a hand-me-down, I was pretty damn stoked!
This past Christmas was the first one since my Mom died. I would have given every gift I ever had, or ever would receive to have her there. It's the people that matter, not the presents.
Second one I didn't celebrate because my dad passed, it sucks, he never managed to give me expensive presents but that's ok, those kids need to know how life actually is and their parents are failing them
Actually, the last one at 7:42 was kinda cute. While it was rude of the little girl to call her gift the "worst ever", at the same time, she's 5 and doesn't necessarily know better. And what's more, would an electric guitar really mean that much to a child of that age? What's more, she loved playing with the box, using it to play games with her mom. So, maybe a little spoiled, but LOADS better than all the other brats on here!
I wouldn't blame a 5 year old so much for overeacting to a confusing present but yeah, she should know better. But I love that she wanted to share her box game with her mom. Maybe one day when she's a little older she'll appreciate the guitar and be able to say a proper sorry.
My parents got me a guitar when I was maybe 4. I don't know why and I never played it, but I still thought it was cool. I don't recommend getting a small child a guitar (now that I think about it, it wasn't even a child sized guitar because I'm pretty sure I was still able to hold it properly at 16).
To be fair my reaction at that age to that gift would propably have been something like this: "what's that? * pokes it and jumps back * i don't like music. Music is boring" Can I make a horsestable out of that box?
I find it unbelievable that there are so many spoiled brats like these. My kids grew up being thankful for what they got....they may not have liked it or it was the wrong thing, but they sure as hell never acted like this. If one of these was my kid, I would spend the rest of my life making sure they got nothing except a card thanking them for the donation to those in need.
When I turned 16, my family stopped celebrating Christmas with gifts. Mom hated how entitlement and materialism was ruining a holiday meant for love and family bonding. So we stopped giving gifts and stopped feeding into the obligatory gift giving and forced smiles of presents no one really wants but must pretend to like. Similarly, I stopped celebrating my birthday with gifts also. We all did. Instead, my family give “thinking of you” gifts dotted throughout the year, without the sense of obligation on the proper holiday. It’s much more freeing and meaningful and far less stressful.
our family motto is: If you break my things, you *will* pay for a new one yourself. If you break your own things, you *can* pay for it yourself, but you don't *have* to, you just will have to go without
When I was in 4th grade, my teacher made me share my crayons with the other kids at my table. I didn't want to, they were brand new, these kids were known for breaking people's crayons, and there was a bucket of broken crayons at the front of the classroom they could get from. Teacher said, "Sharing is caring." I told her I didn't care about them. Still had to share. They broke my crayons, and the teacher took the broken ones for her bucket. I went home, told my mom and took all but one pencil out of my backpack. She offered to go to the store before getting into comfortable clothes and I said no, they'll just break them again next time. No use wasting the money. She offered to talk to the teacher. It hadn't worked before, wasn't going to work again, and wasn't worth her taking time off work. Next day, we were still doing the project that we needed crayons for. Those cretins turned to me with smirks on their faces, only to see my own. Teacher asked me why I had no crayons, pencils, glue, nothing. I told her that my mom paid good money for them so I could use them. Not so other kids could destroy them. And money doesn't grow on trees. I took care of my stuff, but since I had to share, and the other kids didn't care, then neither would I. Then I asked for the broken crayon bucket. She didn't want to give it to me because I, "Should have crayons, pencils, and glue. It was on your list!" I looked her dead in the eye and told her again that I didn't care, and she could take that up with my mama. She gave me the bucket. All these entitled little kids need to wake up to reality. Be thankful for what they've got and what it cost. Jeez, even for Christmas, I got AT MOST 5 presents and they were things that MEANT something, not just whatever was "in" and expensive. Hell, I had to convince my mom to splurge on a pair of $70 shoes when I was 14. 10 years later, they're still going strong. That's $7 a year. Worth it. I take care of them, and they are still my go to pair. THAT is what's important. Quality. Not quantity or price.
This is why I made my children earn what they wanted. They did chores,cut grass, raked yards. Yeah I know it was "cruel and unusual punishment", but now they are adults (26, 23, and 20), who have jobs and appreciate the value of a dollar. And thank God cuz if any of them had acted like these posts Ida been in prison
Punishment is locking your kids in the basement for five hours. Doing chores is teaching them to grow up to be hard working people. Every child should do chores, especially in a larger family where there’s more dishes to wash, clothes to clean, etc. I’ve always considered cutting the grass and raking leaves and shoveling snow chores as well lol.
My parents also use this system where I receive a quarter or a dollar or five bucks depending on what I do and it works splendidly. It both lets me work for what I want, gives me motivation to do chores, takes work off my parents, and lets me know that if I have something I really want, the ability to buy it is mine alone through hard work. Kudos to you.
So u basically did parenting which helped both your society and your family and u think what u did was unusual punishment?🤣🤣🤣 If u are in Asia parents would make u sleep hungry for getting 99/100 and if u disrespected your teachers are any elder you are 1 billion% in deep trouble which u will remember for the rest of your life hard as it is it makes good and strong youths and not spoiled idiots
@@letherealcs5448 ikr, I did all those "for free" through my whole childhood & teen years (of course according to my abilities, wasn't cutting grass at 5 yo haha) Because that was "helping out the family". Was pretty shocked when my mom had to switch parenting methods for my brothers and started to gives them a little bit (like 1€ but still XD) of money for main chores. Had to convince myself that THEY didn't have a treat when they asked for one (I never asked for one because parents were kind of broke when I was small lol)
My nephew is 12 years old. At the age of 10, he wanted to learn how to weld. He began practicing by either using the big old welder in the basement, or the welder/generator in the shed. For Christmas, my dad bought him a very cheap Harbor Freight welder of his own. Granted, it was crappy. The wire-feed would always bind up, and the welds were always splattered with.. well, splatter. Did this kid piss and moan? Did he throw a hissy-fit? No. He did the best he could with the cheap welder, even watching tutorials about it trying to improve the quality of his welds. Over summer he did odd jobs and saved his money along with his allowance. He bought himself a brand new welder, and this boy lays down some of the cleanest beads now. Now he making sculptures out of scrap and sells them. One of the nearby supply stores wants to start selling his little items. His thing now is boot racks made out of horseshoes. He buys his own rods, his own materials and does the work himself. In the house is a shoe-rack that I use daily, a cute cat complete with welding-rod whiskers and washer eyes sitting on the foyer table, a cow made in the same fashion, and several other little oddball things he makes. Sure this past Christmas he wanted that new PS5. But he got the little portable Switch game. No fit. No complaints. He plays the switch just as happily as ever. When he's not making cool little things with his welder, or playing his electric guitar. When not doing those things, he plays games on the computer he bought himself. He is currently saving for a first-gen Cummins Dodge Ram. He wants to outfit it with a flatbed and a genset welder so he can start doing on the spot repairs and such. Yes my family does help him when possible. He received a brand new auto-darkening welding hood, rod carrier, boots, a welders apron and various other supplies for Christmas as well. However, his attitude and determination to learn it and stick with it has earned him those things. ALL while still doing well in school. Again.. he's 12 years old. He acts 100X more mature than many adults I know of..
@@ashleymoon2969 Nephew actually. But you could still be right since my parents legally adopted him from my actual brother. And thank you. He's a good kid. Agitates the hell out of me sometimes, but a good kid, nonetheless.
@@Cammi_Rosalie If this is his true passion encourage him. He can make serious money turning his hobby into a career. I'm impressed at age 12 learning how to weld dang that's impressive!
I’m 14 and I didn’t get anything for Christmas this year. It wasn’t because I did anything bad, I just didn’t ask for anything specific. Am I sad? Yes. Am I angry at my parents? No. My dad baked a chocolate pie with me and we watched a movie together. For the kids out there who didn’t get what they want, try to pay attention to the moments instead. Spend some time with family. Christmas isn’t just gifts.
My uncle once gave me a shoe box full of coal for Christmas when I was... 8-11 I think. I laughed and said a sarcastic but playful thaaaaanks. He smirked and told me there was actually a Nintendo DS game at the bottom (sure enough, a little cartridge was stuck there with a piece of scotch tape) but I NEVER would have reacted anywhere close to how the kids did in the video. Even if there wasn't anything at the bottom and it was just coal, I still would have appreciated it (partly because I liked setting things on fire but mostly because I wasn't an entitled child). The smiles and time together is more important than materialistic gifts that you could replace later; you can't replace lost time.
@@ryderthesinful Reminds me of the time I asked for money for my b-day and I was given chocolate coins, play money and an Eddie Money CD. Very memorable.
I just sat through a 3 hour movie about Anne Frank. At 15 she was sent to a concentration camp where her entire family died, except for her dad. I have zero sympathy for entitled brats. Maybe they should watch the movie. Or how about Joseph Merrik, seriously deformed and dragged from place to place to have people gawk at him. When he finally got to the hospital he never once complained. Joseph didn't have room in his heart for self pity. Try watching that documentary. Point is, there are so many who don't have anything, who suffer atrocities and don't complain. A car? An iPhone? I wish.
please interact with more people in your area and actually have conversations instead of just sitting there and checking your social media. And since you like watching movies so much, try to actually learn something from them about the nature of humanity beyond simplistic terms like "entitlement", "misery" and "suffering"
Leave it to the internet to make me feel damn lucky as a kid and now since I can't work, I've been damn lucky to be able to live at home even in my 40s.
I feel that living at home. Parents or siblings are almost always cheaper landlords. With four working adults in the house we've suddenly got more money than we've had in years.
Santa brings the fun stuff Mom and Dad get you what you need. Once your 7 you get what you need and maybe 1 thing you want. Never electronics, those are earned.
Parents who give kids electronics shouldn’t be able to have kids. Ffs the things I wanted the most when I was a kid were legos, the little magnetic pyramids that you could build into anything you wanted, hell I even remember getting a vintage erector set (you’ll feel old af if you know what it is) and losing my shit cus I loved that kinda stuff…never understood why they give electronics to kids nowadays.
@@WildWildWeasel I loved my erector set. Building blocks were the best, you could plant army men in it and throw tennis balls at it to destroy the fort. Kid's don't know play today and they can't occupy themselves. See I grew up to be a troll. HAHAHA.
@@noneofyourbusiness7861 I love anything that you have to build/put together yourself, I still got that erector set somewhere, same with all of my other Lego sets from back in the day…and yeah, kids today are way too damn addicted to electronics…like I do have electronics myself and my instruments which are electric but I can’t spend more than a certain amount of time before a screen because I start to get really fatigued and my eyesight goes to shit haha
Isn't it the other way around, though? Santa brings the things you need, parents the fun stuff. That way the poor kids who did not get a PS5 will understand that it was not because Santa is a .
All my stuff i worked for, and it feels great to do it. May not be the best stuff out there, but it works. My first car was a wrecked '99 Blazer I bought for 250 dollars, or it was going to the scrapyard. A couple months, and basic hand tools got me a pretty decent ride, and for having no previous hands-on automotive experience it came together quite well. Computer is now 9 years old, with the motherboard from 2008. It is slow and overheats, but the fact that it *works* is enough for me to be happy. My only main thing gifted to me was a 20 dollar phone when I turned 14, and that thing felt lightning quick for someone who had never held one before. Life in the middle of nowhere where the biggest priority is to make it to the end of the day helps you to be grateful for much more
I was born to a stay at home mom and iron worker dad, im the third born and i have 6 brothers and we grew up poor and i cannot be HAPPIER FOR IT because it made me realize and appreciate thing's
Is it not the parents' fault for failing to teach their children ethics and morality? They should've taught their children why acting like this is wrong. Not doing so is setting the child up for failure. When I shoplifted a pastry from a gas station as a small child, my mother told me why it was wrong and gave it back, I took the lesson not to steal to heart. Were it not for my mother being good at teaching ethics and morality I might've grown up not understanding people, creating lots of problems in the future. These parents aren't teaching their children things they need to learn. You can't just throw money at a child and expect them to learn everything themselves! And on the topic of predisposed lack of empathy, a parent should get their child to see a psychologist or something for that. A lot of the time circumstance leads to worse parenting than one intended... Not everyone can afford necessities and not everyone is mentally equipped to raise a child, but all the same it still ruins those kids.
Sometimes the kids’ peers, what the kids watch, and what they are taught at school also play a part in their personality development and maturity. Are the parents supposed to be involved in all of that exposure to make sure it’s best for their kids’ health? Absolutely. Are the parents often too busy working to make ends meet and thus aren’t around to see what their kids are learning from others? Also very true. Life is a balance, and when the kids get to a certain age (when their brains are fully developed), the parents should no longer shoulder all the responsibility for their kids’ actions and beliefs. At that stage in life, the kids (who are no longer kids) should be fully held accountable and not the parents.
damn.. not only would I take their Christmas gifts and donate them, they'd be without a computer and phone so they can't whine about what an awful parent I am and how much they hate me. I bet some of these parents actually caved to their bratty kids tho
you can't win your kids' love and approval by being doormats with money...and what happens when these entitled little darlings start living in the real world?
PEOPLE, how can you be so ungrateful. I am 14 and I literally have to work at a job to get what I would like to have. Then I see these kids getting spoiled to hell. God help us all
It's so sad to see some of these kids in the video thinking their parents are terrible when some kids grow up with nothing, or are abused by their parents
5:53 I'm not sure I'd call him a brat. It's a pity about the hard work and the yarn that went into it, but he is not a Weasley. Kids don't have to love all the clothes that are put on them.
My Grandma has always told me that when she buys or makes me clothes I have every right to say that I don't like it and she will take it back without any offence, that's always made me feel a lot more comfortable when receiving gifts! (But she knows me really well and always knows what I like)
@@rachelmartin3631 sorry you’ve got to know your kid and know that they’re not going to love something like that. Also I knit and that jumper is not great. I honestly do not blame the kid for being very disappointed and unlikely to ever wear the thing in public. I mean why would you make something that’s going to get your kid teased?
My mother once bought a crocheted dress for me and it was the ugliest frumpiest thing EVER. Also, once you reach a certain age, wearing stuff like that will get you bullied.
im 13 going into 14, idk whether im spoilt or not, i dont think im spoilt cause i work hard to impress my mum but i do think im spoiled cause i dont think i do enough for her
Seeing what these kids (and parents) say and do in this video just makes me sad for them. Money can buy all the things, but you can't buy kindness, compassion, love, friendships, happiness and a realistic world view, etc. That has to be taught, felt, experienced and comes from within. Seems to me, in that regard, they are poorer than most.
intended selfishness where u dont care if ur action hurts or even kills someone, long as u get what u want...is pure evil because it is NOT from abuse, sadness, or rage...it's SOLELY from a predispositioned LACK of empathy, compassion, and heart.
I can undertsand the little girl not liking the pink guitar. She enjoyed a cardboard space ship. That is cute and she might develop musical interest later on.
Generally speaking at that age, you want to have the instruments available for them to explore but not break the bank in case they don't take an interest. Starter kits and second-hand are good for this.
I remember asking for a PS5 for Christmas a year or two ago and told my parents that they if I didn’t get one I’d be fine. I told them not to stress about it. And to get me what they thought would be better. We got lucky and found one for retail price.
We got gifted a couple new consoles over the years. Those were entire family gifts. It stayed in the living room and got shared by all siblings. Then we bought most of the games ourselves. As an adult without kids, I've bought a couple consoles for my sister's families. Certainly not something they expected to receive though.
My dad found a NES a lot of years ago, It was Broken and he fixed It! We had a new NES and gosh how we enjoyed It. We didn't cared about was found in a scrap It was awesome
Omg these kids should be greatful for even getting presents I never got presents when I was smaller ( 11 now) All I got was a barbie doll once and I was happy with it Didn't really care about the presents cared more about the food lol My parents raised me right I love them to death ❣️
Me to, i am also 11, just found out i got like, 1 present when my friends got 20 is because my parents were saving money to give me a massive present later on when we would appreciate it more, im going gokarting, wish me luck i love my parents 💕
If I had a kid and they either broke something I bought them in front of me or sold it cause it "Wasn't the right one!" then I would refuse to buy them gifts or anything ever again and if they wanted something they would have to work to get their own money for it.
I'm eating breakfast while watching this, and the level of entitlement makes me want to throw up! Especially the kids that say they hate their parents. Both of my parents are gone, and I miss my mom worse than anything (I was three when my dad died, so don't remember him)! I grew up poor, and never expected or asked for anything expensive. I've always been a firm believer in 'it's the thought that counts'. These kids are ungrateful brats, but they had to have gotten that way, in part, because of the parents. Society is also a major factor. Society teaches it's all about the monetary value, instead of the thought behind the gifts. I've always appreciated homemade gifts more, because it takes time and thought to make a homemade gift.
i was spoiled as a kid, mainly because my dad had a decent-paying job. toys and iPads (not that much, only 3 in the span of 10 years) galore. i feel guilty seeing these comments saying things like “if you give your children electronics, you are a bad parent”, “i had to work for these things while kids today get the newest tech without hard work”. i get where these comments are coming from, but still, i feel bad for having nice things and being spoiled as a kid. i kind of get some of the kids here IF the parents promised them, and hyped them up for what they wanted, only for them to buy something worse with no “hey, we don’t have enough money, we’ll settle for something else” or something like that. if the kid was like “hey, i want a phone!” and the parents bought them a samsung and the kid threw a tantrum, the kid is seriously an entitled brat that needs to be more thankful.
Growing up I never asked for a console, a phone, a car or even anything smaller. I was the kind of kid who genuinely couldn't think of a single thing I wanted that I didn't have. With one exception... Every Christmas, every birthday, I would ask for my own private Boeing 737 jetliner. Never got one.
If you are rich enough to go to Disney land multiple times and your friends are just on their phones, it's boring. I mean, I just loved seeing the rides with old animatronics such as splash mountain and country bear jamboree because I was really into vintage robotics. I kinda get it if you go every freaking month, it gets annoying.
I feel like a few of these are people pissed their significant other didn’t get them what they wanted. One was pissed they didn’t get a car and the profile pick looked like an adult.
The most expensive gift I ever got was a the Goosebumps ventriloquist (Slappy) and a Child’s Play doll. (Chucky) I can’t believe these people are getting upset over cars that weren’t the right color and/or not getting a Ps5 or an IPhone. I get new games come out and new phones do too.. but buying everything that “just comes out” is gonna put more financial stress on you and your family. Unbelievable how these kids are so ungrateful. It’s not always their fault though- sometimes the parents just raise them like that. 🤷
3:36 That kid is from northern-India and he wasn't later pushed into the river himself by his parents to bring the car back?!! Are you kidding me?!! I'm genuinely shocked :)
It can be kind of a bummer if you only get one gift, but usually if you get one expensive thing the second gift is small. Lots of gifts are usually for people who wanted a bunch of small things - or for little kids.
Idk about anyone else, but when it's Christmas and birthday time, I get genuine anxiety that I won't like the presents because I don't want to appear ungrateful. How these kids can be so ungrateful is beyond me. These kids should be lucky to have parents like these, considering that there are parents who abuse their children or there are poor families. Kids these days (although NOT ALL kids) 🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄
4:40 aaand who gave them full access to RUclips? 🥴 5:40 I can understand her frustration. Seems like her Mum and (older?) sister are leaving her nearly fully alone in Disneyland...
As a kid, I used to sit at my grandmother's table poring through the Sears & Montgomery Ward Christmas catalog toy sections knowing I'd not see the stuff in those pages under the tree. I was happy, though. Mom did the best she could raising her three youngest on her own. We were loved, well-fed and safe. ❤ These brats though.........
I dont celebrate christmas but my mom would buy a gift and hide it in the house nevertheless. Just one single gift but i didnt mind, and once it was even wrapped in newspaper and not some fancy wrapping paper. But i didnt care still. 2 RC cars, a pokeball with a small rubber squirtle and a big box of crayons. Thanks mom 😘
This is horrible. But you have to teach kids empathy, how to be thankful and humble. I’m so sick of people demanding gifts. A gift is freely given and it is up to the giver to decide how much to spend and what it is.
I would like to add a perspective. Growing up I was often gifted with donations made in my name - I got to research & (later on) select the organisation & project. I still have every certificate framed & know the story behind them. Another cool gift were events with friends & family, honoring time together. Material gifts can be great to, homemade, an enabler or standing as a monument for a day or person to always be remembered. Give your kid some AirPods if he/she can research the expected lifespan, origin & true value of those things… see what happens.
The 3-year-old's reaction wasn't a spoiled brat's reaction, that's just a typical 3-year-old. They'll say they want it one way, then cry when it's changed, because they don't actually know what they want.
@@melanielizbeth7375 I have no answer for that because I honestly have no idea how to. I mean... if they know, they know, but it might change as they get older? Just... All I can say is don't force anything and just see how they feel as they get older. I'm honestly not sure why you're asking when my comment had nothing to do with gender ^^"
I think these kids are a reason to just cancel christmas completely. Saves so much time and effort with the tree and so and if you don't have gifts these brats have nothing to complain about - simple solution..
These comments confirm my whole "adults are power/money hungry egomaniacs who are so self absorbed that they don't wven notice when everyone around them hates them and wishes they were in a nursing home" mindset
Can't believe the world is filled with so many ungrateful, spoiled, inconsiderate children and youngsters.They don't have a clue about what life is about!
A few of these, like the rose gold iMac, prove that kids need to either learn to play chess or be taught game theory so they learn not to make stupid decisions without thinking the "plan" through to the next step and the two steps after that properly. Step 1: get rid of laptop for no payment. Step 2: Step 3: profit, somehow, despite having no product to sell or trade.
As bad as these kids are, it speaks more about the parents. These kids have been taught that it's ok to be selfish and spoiled. Sure, little kids tend to be that way way but they will grow out of it if they're taught properly and shown good examples by their parents. Sheesh.
Ahhh, if only we'd acted like this 40-50 years ago, the earth would be humanless and this never would of become our reality! Also, modern parents being CLUELESS on how to parent could also be to blame?
I really pity all these parents. Spoiled children is fine and all, but when they grow up to be spoiled and entitled adults are the worst. At least you can correct children when they're young, Less hope for adults to get better.
Personally, I think one of the biggest causes of this type of parenting, and thus this type of child, is when the parent feels the need to buy their own kid’s love and affection. This causes the child to react with trained and engrained entitlement which bleeds into everything else they do. And this current society with parents allowing their households to have no rules or structure and allowing their children to dictate their bedtimes and their punishments is only exacerbating the issue of immaturity and entitlement. This is why the issue of narcissism and depression are at an all time high. Because kids are being allowed to ruin their own lives because the parents don’t what their kids to hate them by due to discipline. So, they don’t discipline their kids. This is the era where the parents are letting the kids raise themselves. 🤦♀️
I remember begging for an Atari when I was a kid. It was a huge step up from Pong. And I used the argument that it would be cheaper than going to an arcade in the long run. I got my Atari under the condition that I buy my own games. Thankfully back then consoles and games weren't such a big investment or I would still be waiting.
When I was a kid I never ask my parents or write letters to Santa about what gift I wanted to get (bc I thought Santa just gives out random gifts to children so I never asked😅). I was content and happy with what they give me.
5:45. In fairness, I'd rather go almost anywhere than Disneyland. I'm 59 now, and rather too old for it, but even when I was a kid, I had zero interest in going to the place. Living in the the UK, with parents who could not afford the trip, it was off the table anyway, but it really didn't bother me.
A couple of these I understand, like the disneyland one and the last one. The disneyland one could have been more respectful but I would feel the same way. The last one, well, the kid was only 5 and I do agree that boxes are way more fun
And here I am remembering all the other kids playing Pokémon red and blue growing up and that I only got to play Pokémon for the first time as an adult because my girlfriend gifted me a ds and Pokémon Pearl (original) three years ago for Christmas. They weren’t even ones she bought as they were her own gently used ones. She only bought the charging cord and a very cute carry case for it for me. I adore her. She knew how much I loved Pokémon and didn’t want me to miss out on the childhood experience of everyone else around our age (that could afford it). I still don’t have red and blue as I don’t have the consoles for them and my girlfriend hasn’t a spare but I don’t mind watching her play them for herself when she does so so it’s not like I lose out. My brother gifted me a switch lite he bought off a friend along with Pokémon sword, also bought off a friend. I specifically left those off my Christmas list that year because I didn’t wanted anyone spending the money of such things but the hilarity of what happened between his friends made it affordable for him to buy their extras off them for me. Basically this couple tried to buy themselves and each other a switch and a copy of some games and ended up with four consoles and doubles of the games because they both had the same thought. The extras were all sold off to friends once they realized and it made for a funny newlywed story. So that’s how my brother got it. My family is good to me. I would not be able to justify the expense of these games if they weren’t gifts. I was even wary of preordering Arceus but my grandmother sent me the money and insisted when she found out and so I gave in. I’m grateful as heck about these people! Expensive things that are just for fun are really difficult for me to feel justified in buying if they have no practical use (like say, a nice pair of work shoes that will last years vs a video game I might lose interest in in a week). So that’s why I feel really happy when I’m indulged. I like being loved even if it isn’t the exact right thing. The only times I’m not grateful about gifts is if they are clothes (because I’m a weird fit so very few off the rack clothes fit me correctly so I have to try on things) or things that are too intensely scented (I have a really good sense of smell and so it gives me an instant headache, some scents, especially intense ones). That’s about it. I don’t mind a shopping trip if someone insists they want to buy me clothes but I have to try them on. Scented stuff is a no go though. That stuff is just too much. Buy me a cheap and pretty fan if you want a cheap gift for me over buying me a candle please. I’m not picky. It’s just not going to do anything but hide in a corner where I can’t smell it ever again if I’m bought a candle. I don’t regift.
I think the most expensive thing I ever got was a tv and that was only because the one I had stopped working I didn’t ask for it because I was going to buy it my self and I was so great full they got one for me because I never expected it from them.
Yeah, those "kids" are gonna have a rude awakening, and the parents are doing such a disservice to them.. Spoiled kids, become spoiled entitled awful adults.. Good Lord, I'm happy that my kids aren't like these!!
nowadays, christmas is a very expensive affair for my family. my mum easily spends over £1000 a year on it and my family. but it wasnt always like that, and our family wasnt as comfortable as we are now. even though, every christmas, we would always be thankful for what we got. cheap dollhouses that we still had years later, knock-off hobby horses who's ears tore off on the second week, and the year we finally got a communal wii for us all to play, we lost our SHIT and were on it everyday until we sold it ~6 yrs later. even to this day, if i dont like the gift my mum, or someone else got me, I DONT CARE. my mum knows i like pokemon, so she bought me a t-shirt with a grookey on the front. i was 14 at the time, and even though i liked sobble better, even though i thought it was a bit childish, you had BETTER BELIEVE i thanked my mum and wore it out all the time the first week i got it. ill still even put it on occasionally if i have nothing else to wear, its comfortable. the ENTITLEMENT that emanates from these people makes me sick to my stomach. it seems to only be by the uber-privileged too, seeing their tantrums over iphones and brand-new cars. if my mum got me a car for my birthday, id probably start crying on the spot and take her A N Y W H E R E she wanted in it. doesnt matter if its a 7 hour drive. because i love my mother, and i love the fact that she has the generosity to give so much to other and expect nothing in return.
That one person who thought their brother being autistic would get people to give them presents is awful. My brother is autistic and I would never use him like that.
I’m actually happy some kids are like this, because it brings a laugh to my face they actually behave like this, I legit got my mother Old smart watch but I’m Thankful.
I didn't get any birthday presents this year because of financial problems, people need to stop complaining and be grateful for the gifts that they do get
The kid that literally was like “my mom can afford a car for $11k but can’t afford to buy me xyz” is absolutely a brat. I doubt if the mom paid cash or financed it would have over $1k lying around for their kids ridiculous wants. Conspicuous consumption is poisoning our kids.
My brother tried to pull the "when i become 18 you buy me a car right? Or give me loads of money" he can't drive. He also couldn't understand that my single mom doesn't have enough money for this ...ah and we're twins xD
I can kind of understand the Disneyland one to some degree. I mean, if they didn't want to go they shouldn't be forced to go?? Like, they can just stay home. The rest of it is a little entitled, but come on...if someone doesn't want to go somewhere, they should be allowed the option to stay home
I always would work hard all year then put my birthday and Christmas towards a pokemon game, while buying everyone else presents. This seems ridiculous
Full respect for the parents who see their kids acting like brats and immediately take the gift(s) back. You wanna be ungrateful, you don't get shit.
If they’d raised their kids better in the first place there wouldn’t be an issue.
Thats not always true. There are many good and respectful families with brat children and vice versa. Education Is important but many times thats depend on personal tendencies and external influences
Please don’t cuss. Kids watch this. Including myself
@@scottiharris9821 If you're a kid you should be watching the kids version of youtube, that's what it's for.
@@snowdroppax2726 And not everyone wants to see a swear in the comments section. Note all the blooped out cusses in the video. For kids.
The most expensive thing I ever bought my daughter was a dressmakers' mannequin because she's into cosplay. She was thrilled, and five years later she still uses it all the time. Our unspoken rule was always that we'd spend a little more if the gift was a special activity, or something that would last and encouraged creativity or thought. Hokey and old fashion as it may seem, our Christmas has never been just about "stuff"--it's tradition, our community, crafting and cooking, expressing our love for friends and family. One of our favorites is the Good Deeds Competition, where we do at least one helpful thing for another person each day of the holiday season, then compare notes over dinner. She's a good person, one who I both like and admire, and I think, because she was in a truly terrible situation before we adopted her, and she still has some memory of those times, that she has an entirely different understanding of hardship and gratitude than many young people.
I don't know what I'd do if I had one if these kids in the family. Feel like a complete failure as a parent and human being, I guess.
My mom also has spent a bit more money on gifts since I started working professionally as an artist (I didn't really have any passions that required items before that, only singing and writing). It was fantastic. Even though we weren't the best off she knew what I wanted and needed.
And my dad started spending less money on me because he wanted me to be a lawyer. Jokes on him, I make more money than he does now (though certainly not as much as a lawyer)
I can't wrap my head around most of these. I've had a very comfortable life, went to a private school, many of my friends are from multi-millionaire families. Not once would it cross my mind to ask for let alone complain about an Iphone, TV, or car. Nor have I seen my more affluent friends make such egregious requests. A gift should be something small but personal designed to have sentimental not monetary value. I don't think it's totally wrong to give your kid a car for their 16th or a play station (though I am a little jealous) but if the kid expects that calibre of stuff handed to them you've failed parenting.
Agreed 100%.
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@@elpanderohabanero2915 That's a sad truth. Sometimes, a person is just born bad, and no amount of good parenting will help them. But of course, any and all parents should aspire to be good parents anyway.
You’re parents did a marvelous job raising you. You’re absolutely correct❤️
@@nunyabiznes4471 yh ngl i feel kinda spoilt and im trying to change
Jesus…
My Dad gifted me his 6 month old (at the time) iPad Air for Christmas (boxed up and with all the gear). Someone bought him an iPad Mini for his birthday just before Christmas, not knowing he had the Air, and he preferred the Mini so gave me the Air.
I didn’t care if it was a hand-me-down, I was pretty damn stoked!
All but one of my phones have been hand me downs. They suit me fine.
This past Christmas was the first one since my Mom died. I would have given every gift I ever had, or ever would receive to have her there. It's the people that matter, not the presents.
Second one I didn't celebrate because my dad passed, it sucks, he never managed to give me expensive presents but that's ok, those kids need to know how life actually is and their parents are failing them
I'm sorry for both of your losses.
Actually, the last one at 7:42 was kinda cute. While it was rude of the little girl to call her gift the "worst ever", at the same time, she's 5 and doesn't necessarily know better. And what's more, would an electric guitar really mean that much to a child of that age? What's more, she loved playing with the box, using it to play games with her mom. So, maybe a little spoiled, but LOADS better than all the other brats on here!
I wouldn't blame a 5 year old so much for overeacting to a confusing present but yeah, she should know better. But I love that she wanted to share her box game with her mom. Maybe one day when she's a little older she'll appreciate the guitar and be able to say a proper sorry.
@@coyoteartist Yeah, hopefully. :)
My parents got me a guitar when I was maybe 4. I don't know why and I never played it, but I still thought it was cool. I don't recommend getting a small child a guitar (now that I think about it, it wasn't even a child sized guitar because I'm pretty sure I was still able to hold it properly at 16).
my cat would also appreciate the box
To be fair my reaction at that age to that gift would propably have been something like this: "what's that? * pokes it and jumps back * i don't like music. Music is boring"
Can I make a horsestable out of that box?
I find it unbelievable that there are so many spoiled brats like these. My kids grew up being thankful for what they got....they may not have liked it or it was the wrong thing, but they sure as hell never acted like this. If one of these was my kid, I would spend the rest of my life making sure they got nothing except a card thanking them for the donation to those in need.
Spoling children isint bad but not putting dicipline is
When I turned 16, my family stopped celebrating Christmas with gifts. Mom hated how entitlement and materialism was ruining a holiday meant for love and family bonding. So we stopped giving gifts and stopped feeding into the obligatory gift giving and forced smiles of presents no one really wants but must pretend to like.
Similarly, I stopped celebrating my birthday with gifts also. We all did. Instead, my family give “thinking of you” gifts dotted throughout the year, without the sense of obligation on the proper holiday. It’s much more freeing and meaningful and far less stressful.
1:36 If my kids break something on purpose they never get a replacement!
our family motto is: If you break my things, you *will* pay for a new one yourself. If you break your own things, you *can* pay for it yourself, but you don't *have* to, you just will have to go without
@@averyreuber1150 I hope this applies to breaking stuff on purpose. Not if someone accidentally breaks someone else's thing.
When I was in 4th grade, my teacher made me share my crayons with the other kids at my table. I didn't want to, they were brand new, these kids were known for breaking people's crayons, and there was a bucket of broken crayons at the front of the classroom they could get from. Teacher said, "Sharing is caring." I told her I didn't care about them. Still had to share. They broke my crayons, and the teacher took the broken ones for her bucket. I went home, told my mom and took all but one pencil out of my backpack. She offered to go to the store before getting into comfortable clothes and I said no, they'll just break them again next time. No use wasting the money. She offered to talk to the teacher. It hadn't worked before, wasn't going to work again, and wasn't worth her taking time off work. Next day, we were still doing the project that we needed crayons for. Those cretins turned to me with smirks on their faces, only to see my own. Teacher asked me why I had no crayons, pencils, glue, nothing. I told her that my mom paid good money for them so I could use them. Not so other kids could destroy them. And money doesn't grow on trees. I took care of my stuff, but since I had to share, and the other kids didn't care, then neither would I. Then I asked for the broken crayon bucket. She didn't want to give it to me because I, "Should have crayons, pencils, and glue. It was on your list!" I looked her dead in the eye and told her again that I didn't care, and she could take that up with my mama. She gave me the bucket.
All these entitled little kids need to wake up to reality. Be thankful for what they've got and what it cost. Jeez, even for Christmas, I got AT MOST 5 presents and they were things that MEANT something, not just whatever was "in" and expensive. Hell, I had to convince my mom to splurge on a pair of $70 shoes when I was 14. 10 years later, they're still going strong. That's $7 a year. Worth it. I take care of them, and they are still my go to pair. THAT is what's important. Quality. Not quantity or price.
This is why I made my children earn what they wanted. They did chores,cut grass, raked yards. Yeah I know it was "cruel and unusual punishment", but now they are adults (26, 23, and 20), who have jobs and appreciate the value of a dollar. And thank God cuz if any of them had acted like these posts Ida been in prison
that isnt punishment tbh
Punishment is locking your kids in the basement for five hours. Doing chores is teaching them to grow up to be hard working people. Every child should do chores, especially in a larger family where there’s more dishes to wash, clothes to clean, etc. I’ve always considered cutting the grass and raking leaves and shoveling snow chores as well lol.
My parents also use this system where I receive a quarter or a dollar or five bucks depending on what I do and it works splendidly. It both lets me work for what I want, gives me motivation to do chores, takes work off my parents, and lets me know that if I have something I really want, the ability to buy it is mine alone through hard work. Kudos to you.
So u basically did parenting which helped both your society and your family and u think what u did was unusual punishment?🤣🤣🤣
If u are in Asia parents would make u sleep hungry for getting 99/100 and if u disrespected your teachers are any elder you are 1 billion% in deep trouble which u will remember for the rest of your life hard as it is it makes good and strong youths and not spoiled idiots
@@letherealcs5448 ikr, I did all those "for free" through my whole childhood & teen years (of course according to my abilities, wasn't cutting grass at 5 yo haha) Because that was "helping out the family".
Was pretty shocked when my mom had to switch parenting methods for my brothers and started to gives them a little bit (like 1€ but still XD) of money for main chores. Had to convince myself that THEY didn't have a treat when they asked for one (I never asked for one because parents were kind of broke when I was small lol)
My nephew is 12 years old. At the age of 10, he wanted to learn how to weld. He began practicing by either using the big old welder in the basement, or the welder/generator in the shed. For Christmas, my dad bought him a very cheap Harbor Freight welder of his own. Granted, it was crappy. The wire-feed would always bind up, and the welds were always splattered with.. well, splatter. Did this kid piss and moan? Did he throw a hissy-fit? No. He did the best he could with the cheap welder, even watching tutorials about it trying to improve the quality of his welds. Over summer he did odd jobs and saved his money along with his allowance. He bought himself a brand new welder, and this boy lays down some of the cleanest beads now. Now he making sculptures out of scrap and sells them. One of the nearby supply stores wants to start selling his little items. His thing now is boot racks made out of horseshoes. He buys his own rods, his own materials and does the work himself. In the house is a shoe-rack that I use daily, a cute cat complete with welding-rod whiskers and washer eyes sitting on the foyer table, a cow made in the same fashion, and several other little oddball things he makes.
Sure this past Christmas he wanted that new PS5. But he got the little portable Switch game. No fit. No complaints. He plays the switch just as happily as ever. When he's not making cool little things with his welder, or playing his electric guitar. When not doing those things, he plays games on the computer he bought himself. He is currently saving for a first-gen Cummins Dodge Ram. He wants to outfit it with a flatbed and a genset welder so he can start doing on the spot repairs and such. Yes my family does help him when possible. He received a brand new auto-darkening welding hood, rod carrier, boots, a welders apron and various other supplies for Christmas as well. However, his attitude and determination to learn it and stick with it has earned him those things. ALL while still doing well in school.
Again.. he's 12 years old. He acts 100X more mature than many adults I know of..
I love your brother. X
@@ashleymoon2969 Nephew actually. But you could still be right since my parents legally adopted him from my actual brother. And thank you. He's a good kid. Agitates the hell out of me sometimes, but a good kid, nonetheless.
@@Cammi_Rosalie sorry, dont know why I said brother lol. X
@@ashleymoon2969 No biggie. Like I said, you are correct in a way.
@@Cammi_Rosalie If this is his true passion encourage him. He can make serious money turning his hobby into a career. I'm impressed at age 12 learning how to weld dang that's impressive!
I’m 14 and I didn’t get anything for Christmas this year. It wasn’t because I did anything bad, I just didn’t ask for anything specific. Am I sad? Yes. Am I angry at my parents? No. My dad baked a chocolate pie with me and we watched a movie together. For the kids out there who didn’t get what they want, try to pay attention to the moments instead. Spend some time with family. Christmas isn’t just gifts.
My uncle once gave me a shoe box full of coal for Christmas when I was... 8-11 I think. I laughed and said a sarcastic but playful thaaaaanks. He smirked and told me there was actually a Nintendo DS game at the bottom (sure enough, a little cartridge was stuck there with a piece of scotch tape) but I NEVER would have reacted anywhere close to how the kids did in the video. Even if there wasn't anything at the bottom and it was just coal, I still would have appreciated it (partly because I liked setting things on fire but mostly because I wasn't an entitled child). The smiles and time together is more important than materialistic gifts that you could replace later; you can't replace lost time.
@@ryderthesinful
Reminds me of the time I asked for money for my b-day and I was given chocolate coins, play money and an Eddie Money CD. Very memorable.
I just sat through a 3 hour movie about Anne Frank. At 15 she was sent to a concentration camp where her entire family died, except for her dad. I have zero sympathy for entitled brats. Maybe they should watch the movie.
Or how about Joseph Merrik, seriously deformed and dragged from place to place to have people gawk at him. When he finally got to the hospital he never once complained. Joseph didn't have room in his heart for self pity. Try watching that documentary.
Point is, there are so many who don't have anything, who suffer atrocities and don't complain. A car? An iPhone? I wish.
Just because one person went through hell doesn't mean nobody else is allowed to be happy. God, what a miserable person you are
please interact with more people in your area and actually have conversations instead of just sitting there and checking your social media. And since you like watching movies so much, try to actually learn something from them about the nature of humanity beyond simplistic terms like "entitlement", "misery" and "suffering"
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@@dragonheart7901 Way to miss the point! Not getting the piece of electronic cr*p you wanted is not grounds for the reactions of some of these brats
@@nicecoat5004 bro, what? do you think they didn't learn from an Anne Frank movie?
Leave it to the internet to make me feel damn lucky as a kid and now since I can't work, I've been damn lucky to be able to live at home even in my 40s.
Why can't you work, if you don't mind answering?
I feel that living at home. Parents or siblings are almost always cheaper landlords. With four working adults in the house we've suddenly got more money than we've had in years.
Santa brings the fun stuff Mom and Dad get you what you need. Once your 7 you get what you need and maybe 1 thing you want. Never electronics, those are earned.
Parents who give kids electronics shouldn’t be able to have kids. Ffs the things I wanted the most when I was a kid were legos, the little magnetic pyramids that you could build into anything you wanted, hell I even remember getting a vintage erector set (you’ll feel old af if you know what it is) and losing my shit cus I loved that kinda stuff…never understood why they give electronics to kids nowadays.
@@WildWildWeasel I loved my erector set. Building blocks were the best, you could plant army men in it and throw tennis balls at it to destroy the fort. Kid's don't know play today and they can't occupy themselves. See I grew up to be a troll. HAHAHA.
@@noneofyourbusiness7861 I love anything that you have to build/put together yourself, I still got that erector set somewhere, same with all of my other Lego sets from back in the day…and yeah, kids today are way too damn addicted to electronics…like I do have electronics myself and my instruments which are electric but I can’t spend more than a certain amount of time before a screen because I start to get really fatigued and my eyesight goes to shit haha
@@WildWildWeasel They have a few videos on here of toy commercials from the 50's 60's and 70's. Pretty cool, you'll remember some of them.
Isn't it the other way around, though? Santa brings the things you need, parents the fun stuff. That way the poor kids who did not get a PS5 will understand that it was not because Santa is a .
All my stuff i worked for, and it feels great to do it. May not be the best stuff out there, but it works. My first car was a wrecked '99 Blazer I bought for 250 dollars, or it was going to the scrapyard. A couple months, and basic hand tools got me a pretty decent ride, and for having no previous hands-on automotive experience it came together quite well. Computer is now 9 years old, with the motherboard from 2008. It is slow and overheats, but the fact that it *works* is enough for me to be happy. My only main thing gifted to me was a 20 dollar phone when I turned 14, and that thing felt lightning quick for someone who had never held one before. Life in the middle of nowhere where the biggest priority is to make it to the end of the day helps you to be grateful for much more
When all we see is the original post it isn't "ungrateful kids learning a lesson". Its just displays of ingratitude.
I was born to a stay at home mom and iron worker dad, im the third born and i have 6 brothers and we grew up poor and i cannot be HAPPIER FOR IT because it made me realize and appreciate thing's
Is it not the parents' fault for failing to teach their children ethics and morality? They should've taught their children why acting like this is wrong. Not doing so is setting the child up for failure. When I shoplifted a pastry from a gas station as a small child, my mother told me why it was wrong and gave it back, I took the lesson not to steal to heart. Were it not for my mother being good at teaching ethics and morality I might've grown up not understanding people, creating lots of problems in the future. These parents aren't teaching their children things they need to learn. You can't just throw money at a child and expect them to learn everything themselves! And on the topic of predisposed lack of empathy, a parent should get their child to see a psychologist or something for that. A lot of the time circumstance leads to worse parenting than one intended... Not everyone can afford necessities and not everyone is mentally equipped to raise a child, but all the same it still ruins those kids.
Sometimes the kids’ peers, what the kids watch, and what they are taught at school also play a part in their personality development and maturity.
Are the parents supposed to be involved in all of that exposure to make sure it’s best for their kids’ health? Absolutely. Are the parents often too busy working to make ends meet and thus aren’t around to see what their kids are learning from others? Also very true.
Life is a balance, and when the kids get to a certain age (when their brains are fully developed), the parents should no longer shoulder all the responsibility for their kids’ actions and beliefs. At that stage in life, the kids (who are no longer kids) should be fully held accountable and not the parents.
damn.. not only would I take their Christmas gifts and donate them, they'd be without a computer and phone so they can't whine about what an awful parent I am and how much they hate me. I bet some of these parents actually caved to their bratty kids tho
Of course they did, you don't get kids doing this up to driving ages if the parents react appropriately
you can't win your kids' love and approval by being doormats with money...and what happens when these entitled little darlings start living in the real world?
@@judythompson8227 oh dear. That'd be quite the show
@@judythompson8227 I think they would actually laugh at them
PEOPLE, how can you be so ungrateful. I am 14 and I literally have to work at a job to get what I would like to have. Then I see these kids getting spoiled to hell. God help us all
It's so sad to see some of these kids in the video thinking their parents are terrible when some kids grow up with nothing, or are abused by their parents
5:53 I'm not sure I'd call him a brat. It's a pity about the hard work and the yarn that went into it, but he is not a Weasley. Kids don't have to love all the clothes that are put on them.
He got a gift. Some one took time an effort to make that sweater. He might hate it, but he can say thank you.
@@rachelmartin3631
This is kind of the reason I own a t-shirt that's 2 sizes too small. I'm keeping it for the sentiment.
My Grandma has always told me that when she buys or makes me clothes I have every right to say that I don't like it and she will take it back without any offence, that's always made me feel a lot more comfortable when receiving gifts! (But she knows me really well and always knows what I like)
@@rachelmartin3631 sorry you’ve got to know your kid and know that they’re not going to love something like that. Also I knit and that jumper is not great. I honestly do not blame the kid for being very disappointed and unlikely to ever wear the thing in public. I mean why would you make something that’s going to get your kid teased?
My mother once bought a crocheted dress for me and it was the ugliest frumpiest thing EVER. Also, once you reach a certain age, wearing stuff like that will get you bullied.
i'm a kid. i'm not spoiled.
but it's just that my mom is too worried of me.
you guys all deserve a mom like her :D
im 13 going into 14, idk whether im spoilt or not, i dont think im spoilt cause i work hard to impress my mum but i do think im spoiled cause i dont think i do enough for her
Seeing what these kids (and parents) say and do in this video just makes me sad for them. Money can buy all the things, but you can't buy kindness, compassion, love, friendships, happiness and a realistic world view, etc. That has to be taught, felt, experienced and comes from within. Seems to me, in that regard, they are poorer than most.
intended selfishness where u dont care if ur action hurts or even kills someone, long as u get what u want...is pure evil because it is NOT from abuse, sadness, or rage...it's SOLELY from a predispositioned LACK of empathy, compassion, and heart.
I can undertsand the little girl not liking the pink guitar. She enjoyed a cardboard space ship. That is cute and she might develop musical interest later on.
Generally speaking at that age, you want to have the instruments available for them to explore but not break the bank in case they don't take an interest. Starter kits and second-hand are good for this.
I remember asking for a PS5 for Christmas a year or two ago and told my parents that they if I didn’t get one I’d be fine. I told them not to stress about it. And to get me what they thought would be better. We got lucky and found one for retail price.
We got gifted a couple new consoles over the years. Those were entire family gifts. It stayed in the living room and got shared by all siblings. Then we bought most of the games ourselves.
As an adult without kids, I've bought a couple consoles for my sister's families. Certainly not something they expected to receive though.
My dad found a NES a lot of years ago, It was Broken and he fixed It! We had a new NES and gosh how we enjoyed It. We didn't cared about was found in a scrap It was awesome
Omg these kids should be greatful for even getting presents
I never got presents when I was smaller ( 11 now) All I got was a barbie doll once and I was happy with it
Didn't really care about the presents cared more about the food lol
My parents raised me right
I love them to death ❣️
Me to, i am also 11, just found out i got like, 1 present when my friends got 20 is because my parents were saving money to give me a massive present later on when we would appreciate it more, im going gokarting, wish me luck i love my parents 💕
Thank you, for being a good human being.
You're totally right, food supremacy✨
Joke aside. Thanks to be a good human
4:05 that depends on her age... has the warranty on your daughter expired?
*only one way to find out*
Traditional Asian culture: Give birth to more kids to gain more wealth, logic! :D
Me: 0, take it or leave it 🤠
If I had a kid and they either broke something I bought them in front of me or sold it cause it "Wasn't the right one!" then I would refuse to buy them gifts or anything ever again and if they wanted something they would have to work to get their own money for it.
I feel like these kind of people have a special place that they belong.
That place is the street.
I'm eating breakfast while watching this, and the level of entitlement makes me want to throw up! Especially the kids that say they hate their parents. Both of my parents are gone, and I miss my mom worse than anything (I was three when my dad died, so don't remember him)! I grew up poor, and never expected or asked for anything expensive. I've always been a firm believer in 'it's the thought that counts'. These kids are ungrateful brats, but they had to have gotten that way, in part, because of the parents. Society is also a major factor. Society teaches it's all about the monetary value, instead of the thought behind the gifts. I've always appreciated homemade gifts more, because it takes time and thought to make a homemade gift.
I sincerely hope the parents who saw these texts, etc. will save them and present copies to their brain dead children when they have their own kids.
Honestly wouldn’t society be better if these people didn’t reproduce???
The kid who was complaining about only getting six presents needs to think about how there are tons of kids who would love to get ONE present.
i was spoiled as a kid, mainly because my dad had a decent-paying job. toys and iPads (not that much, only 3 in the span of 10 years) galore. i feel guilty seeing these comments saying things like “if you give your children electronics, you are a bad parent”, “i had to work for these things while kids today get the newest tech without hard work”. i get where these comments are coming from, but still, i feel bad for having nice things and being spoiled as a kid.
i kind of get some of the kids here IF the parents promised them, and hyped them up for what they wanted, only for them to buy something worse with no “hey, we don’t have enough money, we’ll settle for something else” or something like that. if the kid was like “hey, i want a phone!” and the parents bought them a samsung and the kid threw a tantrum, the kid is seriously an entitled brat that needs to be more thankful.
Ignore these guys. They are all just so hateful
They don’t teach their kids morals and ethics, and THAT’S the problem here.
Growing up I never asked for a console, a phone, a car or even anything smaller. I was the kind of kid who genuinely couldn't think of a single thing I wanted that I didn't have. With one exception...
Every Christmas, every birthday, I would ask for my own private Boeing 737 jetliner. Never got one.
I understand the disney one a little : It's not funny to spend time in a park, or anywhere, when all of your friends/family are on their phones
Thats kinda right... But come on its freaking disneyland
@@cracarlos_au5757 it’s boring
Disneyland is a total bore for a teenager. You have to wonder if the parents were doing it more for themselves then for the kid.
If you are rich enough to go to Disney land multiple times and your friends are just on their phones, it's boring. I mean, I just loved seeing the rides with old animatronics such as splash mountain and country bear jamboree because I was really into vintage robotics. I kinda get it if you go every freaking month, it gets annoying.
I feel like a few of these are people pissed their significant other didn’t get them what they wanted. One was pissed they didn’t get a car and the profile pick looked like an adult.
The most expensive gift I ever got was a the Goosebumps ventriloquist (Slappy) and a Child’s Play doll. (Chucky)
I can’t believe these people are getting upset over cars that weren’t the right color and/or not getting a Ps5 or an IPhone. I get new games come out and new phones do too.. but buying everything that “just comes out” is gonna put more financial stress on you and your family.
Unbelievable how these kids are so ungrateful. It’s not always their fault though- sometimes the parents just raise them like that. 🤷
3:36
That kid is from northern-India and he wasn't later pushed into the river himself by his parents to bring the car back?!! Are you kidding me?!! I'm genuinely shocked :)
5:17 OMG THE POOR MOM!!! 😭😭😭😭 I would have loved that jumper!!!!
I have no sympathy for parents of spoiled brats. You raised them, you deal with the consequences.
I swear if my kids over show this amount of selfishness and ungratefulness, they’ll be on the next bus to military school.
Wth is this!? I’m content to get one gift. I honestly blame the parents for allowing their kids to grow up with this attitude.
It can be kind of a bummer if you only get one gift, but usually if you get one expensive thing the second gift is small. Lots of gifts are usually for people who wanted a bunch of small things - or for little kids.
Idk about anyone else, but when it's Christmas and birthday time, I get genuine anxiety that I won't like the presents because I don't want to appear ungrateful. How these kids can be so ungrateful is beyond me. These kids should be lucky to have parents like these, considering that there are parents who abuse their children or there are poor families. Kids these days (although NOT ALL kids) 🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄
4:40 aaand who gave them full access to RUclips? 🥴
5:40 I can understand her frustration. Seems like her Mum and (older?) sister are leaving her nearly fully alone in Disneyland...
As a kid, I used to sit at my grandmother's table poring through the Sears & Montgomery Ward Christmas catalog toy sections knowing I'd not see the stuff in those pages under the tree. I was happy, though. Mom did the best she could raising her three youngest on her own. We were loved, well-fed and safe. ❤ These brats though.........
I dont celebrate christmas but my mom would buy a gift and hide it in the house nevertheless. Just one single gift but i didnt mind, and once it was even wrapped in newspaper and not some fancy wrapping paper. But i didnt care still. 2 RC cars, a pokeball with a small rubber squirtle and a big box of crayons. Thanks mom 😘
This is horrible. But you have to teach kids empathy, how to be thankful and humble. I’m so sick of people demanding gifts. A gift is freely given and it is up to the giver to decide how much to spend and what it is.
I feel like im not in the normal here, i asked for a mushroom guide book and a tortilla blanket. That’s it
I would like to add a perspective. Growing up I was often gifted with donations made in my name - I got to research & (later on) select the organisation & project. I still have every certificate framed & know the story behind them. Another cool gift were events with friends & family, honoring time together. Material gifts can be great to, homemade, an enabler or standing as a monument for a day or person to always be remembered. Give your kid some AirPods if he/she can research the expected lifespan, origin & true value of those things… see what happens.
Considering most of these are really ungrateful for latest tech, the Arthur jumper boy suddenly feels less ungrateful
My jaw aches from how many times it dropped reading some of these posts.
The 3-year-old's reaction wasn't a spoiled brat's reaction, that's just a typical 3-year-old. They'll say they want it one way, then cry when it's changed, because they don't actually know what they want.
But they clearly know that they don’t want their current gender…right? 😮
@@melanielizbeth7375 I have no answer for that because I honestly have no idea how to. I mean... if they know, they know, but it might change as they get older? Just... All I can say is don't force anything and just see how they feel as they get older. I'm honestly not sure why you're asking when my comment had nothing to do with gender ^^"
@@melanielizbeth7375 And, while I'm at it... the 3-year-old was crying about the color of his drivable jeep.
I think these kids are a reason to just cancel christmas completely. Saves so much time and effort with the tree and so and if you don't have gifts these brats have nothing to complain about - simple solution..
It’s “spoiled” not “spoilt” that’s so aggravating 😂
Most of these are over 5years old and some are 10year old posts. I just wonder how these people are feeling about their past selves now lol
I refused my father to spend 40K a semester for college. I decided to attend the local state college that's 5k a semester and it's closer to home.
These spoiled brats need to be taken to homeless shelters and shown kids who are grateful to receive a gift of any kind or of any value.
Guys, when they find out what Christmas is really about they will go crazy. "what do you mean 'it's not about presents?'"
Chances are these kids aren’t giving any gifts to their parents yet expect super expensive gifts.
These comments confirm my whole "adults are power/money hungry egomaniacs who are so self absorbed that they don't wven notice when everyone around them hates them and wishes they were in a nursing home" mindset
Most of these snapshots are of kids acting out. In what way are these kids getting shamed? Really, the parents are being shamed.
Bruh if I got any of the items that people thought were bad, I’d be delighted.
the computer one at 2:03, i would genuinely buy, so that when the dad says he isnt getting them another computer, then they wouldnt have one at all
Can't believe the world is filled with so many ungrateful, spoiled, inconsiderate children and youngsters.They don't have a clue about what life is about!
*Me who never got a Christmas present my entire life (I'm not a Christian but still, my mom bakes a cake or we go for picnincs):* 👁👄👁
A few of these, like the rose gold iMac, prove that kids need to either learn to play chess or be taught game theory so they learn not to make stupid decisions without thinking the "plan" through to the next step and the two steps after that properly.
Step 1: get rid of laptop for no payment.
Step 2:
Step 3: profit, somehow, despite having no product to sell or trade.
As bad as these kids are, it speaks more about the parents. These kids have been taught that it's ok to be selfish and spoiled. Sure, little kids tend to be that way way but they will grow out of it if they're taught properly and shown good examples by their parents. Sheesh.
Ahhh, if only we'd acted like this 40-50 years ago, the earth would be humanless and this never would of become our reality! Also, modern parents being CLUELESS on how to parent could also be to blame?
I really pity all these parents. Spoiled children is fine and all, but when they grow up to be spoiled and entitled adults are the worst.
At least you can correct children when they're young, Less hope for adults to get better.
Personally, I think one of the biggest causes of this type of parenting, and thus this type of child, is when the parent feels the need to buy their own kid’s love and affection. This causes the child to react with trained and engrained entitlement which bleeds into everything else they do.
And this current society with parents allowing their households to have no rules or structure and allowing their children to dictate their bedtimes and their punishments is only exacerbating the issue of immaturity and entitlement.
This is why the issue of narcissism and depression are at an all time high. Because kids are being allowed to ruin their own lives because the parents don’t what their kids to hate them by due to discipline. So, they don’t discipline their kids.
This is the era where the parents are letting the kids raise themselves. 🤦♀️
My parents always took my siblings and me on trips for Christmas instead of presents and it is honestly much better.
I remember begging for an Atari when I was a kid. It was a huge step up from Pong. And I used the argument that it would be cheaper than going to an arcade in the long run. I got my Atari under the condition that I buy my own games. Thankfully back then consoles and games weren't such a big investment or I would still be waiting.
When I was a kid I never ask my parents or write letters to Santa about what gift I wanted to get (bc I thought Santa just gives out random gifts to children so I never asked😅). I was content and happy with what they give me.
Meanwhile, I'm happy with the jumper my Mum knitted for me because she made it and I will cherish it forever. Some kids need their heads unscrewed.
5:45. In fairness, I'd rather go almost anywhere than Disneyland. I'm 59 now, and rather too old for it, but even when I was a kid, I had zero interest in going to the place. Living in the the UK, with parents who could not afford the trip, it was off the table anyway, but it really didn't bother me.
A couple of these I understand, like the disneyland one and the last one.
The disneyland one could have been more respectful but I would feel the same way.
The last one, well, the kid was only 5 and I do agree that boxes are way more fun
And here I am remembering all the other kids playing Pokémon red and blue growing up and that I only got to play Pokémon for the first time as an adult because my girlfriend gifted me a ds and Pokémon Pearl (original) three years ago for Christmas. They weren’t even ones she bought as they were her own gently used ones. She only bought the charging cord and a very cute carry case for it for me. I adore her. She knew how much I loved Pokémon and didn’t want me to miss out on the childhood experience of everyone else around our age (that could afford it). I still don’t have red and blue as I don’t have the consoles for them and my girlfriend hasn’t a spare but I don’t mind watching her play them for herself when she does so so it’s not like I lose out. My brother gifted me a switch lite he bought off a friend along with Pokémon sword, also bought off a friend. I specifically left those off my Christmas list that year because I didn’t wanted anyone spending the money of such things but the hilarity of what happened between his friends made it affordable for him to buy their extras off them for me. Basically this couple tried to buy themselves and each other a switch and a copy of some games and ended up with four consoles and doubles of the games because they both had the same thought. The extras were all sold off to friends once they realized and it made for a funny newlywed story. So that’s how my brother got it. My family is good to me. I would not be able to justify the expense of these games if they weren’t gifts. I was even wary of preordering Arceus but my grandmother sent me the money and insisted when she found out and so I gave in. I’m grateful as heck about these people! Expensive things that are just for fun are really difficult for me to feel justified in buying if they have no practical use (like say, a nice pair of work shoes that will last years vs a video game I might lose interest in in a week). So that’s why I feel really happy when I’m indulged. I like being loved even if it isn’t the exact right thing. The only times I’m not grateful about gifts is if they are clothes (because I’m a weird fit so very few off the rack clothes fit me correctly so I have to try on things) or things that are too intensely scented (I have a really good sense of smell and so it gives me an instant headache, some scents, especially intense ones). That’s about it. I don’t mind a shopping trip if someone insists they want to buy me clothes but I have to try them on. Scented stuff is a no go though. That stuff is just too much. Buy me a cheap and pretty fan if you want a cheap gift for me over buying me a candle please. I’m not picky. It’s just not going to do anything but hide in a corner where I can’t smell it ever again if I’m bought a candle. I don’t regift.
I have to agree with Arthur. That is the kind of sweater that will get you beat up at school.
I think (hope?) they were going for the Weasley look.
I think the most expensive thing I ever got was a tv and that was only because the one I had stopped working I didn’t ask for it because I was going to buy it my self and I was so great full they got one for me because I never expected it from them.
I agree with Arthur, would not like that jumper. All of the rest, these parents raised these spoiled kids, so deal with them. Poor parenting!
Yeah, those "kids" are gonna have a rude awakening, and the parents are doing such a disservice to them.. Spoiled kids, become spoiled entitled awful adults.. Good Lord, I'm happy that my kids aren't like these!!
nowadays, christmas is a very expensive affair for my family. my mum easily spends over £1000 a year on it and my family. but it wasnt always like that, and our family wasnt as comfortable as we are now. even though, every christmas, we would always be thankful for what we got. cheap dollhouses that we still had years later, knock-off hobby horses who's ears tore off on the second week, and the year we finally got a communal wii for us all to play, we lost our SHIT and were on it everyday until we sold it ~6 yrs later.
even to this day, if i dont like the gift my mum, or someone else got me, I DONT CARE. my mum knows i like pokemon, so she bought me a t-shirt with a grookey on the front. i was 14 at the time, and even though i liked sobble better, even though i thought it was a bit childish, you had BETTER BELIEVE i thanked my mum and wore it out all the time the first week i got it. ill still even put it on occasionally if i have nothing else to wear, its comfortable.
the ENTITLEMENT that emanates from these people makes me sick to my stomach. it seems to only be by the uber-privileged too, seeing their tantrums over iphones and brand-new cars. if my mum got me a car for my birthday, id probably start crying on the spot and take her A N Y W H E R E she wanted in it. doesnt matter if its a 7 hour drive. because i love my mother, and i love the fact that she has the generosity to give so much to other and expect nothing in return.
I got my first job at 13 because I wanted "stuff" And that's the way it should be.
This was actually quite depressing.
That one person who thought their brother being autistic would get people to give them presents is awful. My brother is autistic and I would never use him like that.
I’m actually happy some kids are like this, because it brings a laugh to my face they actually behave like this, I legit got my mother Old smart watch but I’m Thankful.
I didn't get any birthday presents this year because of financial problems, people need to stop complaining and be grateful for the gifts that they do get
The kid that literally was like “my mom can afford a car for $11k but can’t afford to buy me xyz” is absolutely a brat. I doubt if the mom paid cash or financed it would have over $1k lying around for their kids ridiculous wants. Conspicuous consumption is poisoning our kids.
I was a spoiled kid growing up, but even I knew better than to break something that was given to me just because it wasn't "perfect". Yikes...
I wonder how these "entitled" / spoiled persons earn money/ what kind of job they have , some people do not deserve internet or even technology
You know what, I think I might never have children. I feel bad for my parents and now I feel even worse hahaha
My brother tried to pull the "when i become 18 you buy me a car right? Or give me loads of money" he can't drive. He also couldn't understand that my single mom doesn't have enough money for this ...ah and we're twins xD
Anyone who still gets any kind of presents for Christmas is lucky. Christmas in my family got cancelled because it's "too much of a hassle"
:(
I can kind of understand the Disneyland one to some degree. I mean, if they didn't want to go they shouldn't be forced to go?? Like, they can just stay home. The rest of it is a little entitled, but come on...if someone doesn't want to go somewhere, they should be allowed the option to stay home
These kids make it hard to be anti abortion
I always would work hard all year then put my birthday and Christmas towards a pokemon game, while buying everyone else presents. This seems ridiculous
4:30 isnt actually a bad thing if he/she wasnt mean while saying that. The description sounds more like the gifter got his/her ego hurt.