Eminem - Stan ft. Dido (Official Video - Dirty Version)

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  • Опубликовано: 19 окт 2019
  • Stan by Eminem ft. Dido
    (C) 2000 Aftermath/Interscope Records.
    #Eminem #Stan #Dido
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  • @MobileRecordingsRo
    @MobileRecordingsRo 3 года назад +22722

    It's not the "dirty version", it's the normal version, because that's how people express themselfs in real life.

    • @kaylemathewcomendador6964
      @kaylemathewcomendador6964 3 года назад +398

      It’s dirty for TV airing standards.

    • @rawsy4769
      @rawsy4769 3 года назад +492

      @@kaylemathewcomendador6964 Not really, I've seen movies airing on TV containing harsher stuff than this videoclip

    • @kaylemathewcomendador6964
      @kaylemathewcomendador6964 3 года назад +202

      @@rawsy4769 I guess the TV stations that aired the censored version went “we don’t want all the music videos to get explicit, despite us airing really adult programs at times”. TV stations and networks can have weird double standards I guess.

    • @metamon2704
      @metamon2704 3 года назад +165

      Back when this was released music videos and songs were censored or they couldn't be played on MTV or the radio - you can thank your Christian "moral majority" for that.

    • @Paidinfullcc1gt
      @Paidinfullcc1gt 3 года назад +77

      Censorship is a great fucking thing, thank fuck we have it or else the world would be messed up place.

  • @collinpankratz8735
    @collinpankratz8735 3 года назад +17693

    this isnt dirty this is the right version. a song about a topic like this should never be censored

    • @user-su4eq6xt3b
      @user-su4eq6xt3b 3 года назад +164

      I think they did this so kids could listen to it more easily. Duh man.

    • @collinpankratz8735
      @collinpankratz8735 3 года назад +1402

      @@user-su4eq6xt3b If kids are listenning to a guy killing himself and his pregnant girlfriend after he talked about cutting himself you kinda past the boundry of : No cussing

    • @imk6018
      @imk6018 2 года назад +362

      Yes, because the censored version is pretty much silence

    • @llkingvonnotfrom63rd61
      @llkingvonnotfrom63rd61 2 года назад +17

      @@user-su4eq6xt3b wym the kids listening to nba yb saying nigga a shit ton wym

    • @rockingamingwiththesahit2145
      @rockingamingwiththesahit2145 2 года назад +77

      @@collinpankratz8735 I am one of those ‘kids’ and It are it as what it is=A story. It’s like the goat him self said, listen to rap like u watch a movie;know that it’s not real

  • @ADcommenter
    @ADcommenter 11 месяцев назад +829

    He wasn't worried about crashing, he was worried more about how he was even going to send the tape to eminem.

    • @laceyfree5562
      @laceyfree5562 3 месяца назад +6

      Frfr 😂

    • @spencerfreeman9064
      @spencerfreeman9064 3 месяца назад +13

      But the divers found the tape in the car

    • @otroweonllamadoseba
      @otroweonllamadoseba 3 месяца назад +1

      Slim*

    • @brodeur_edits0.9
      @brodeur_edits0.9 2 месяца назад +3

      ​@@spencerfreeman9064but EM never got the tape though

    • @laurababyyy1
      @laurababyyy1 2 месяца назад +8

      @@brodeur_edits0.9but he watched it on the news,and that’s when he realised the person was stan

  • @faiirysomi
    @faiirysomi 10 месяцев назад +359

    7:55 "come to think about it, his name was... it was you."
    FUCKING CHILLS.

    •  3 месяца назад +27

      Yeah, and did you see the reflection on the window?

    • @yaboifinni2091
      @yaboifinni2091 3 месяца назад +15

      @was looking for this comment. This is the first time I’ve seen this music video/ listening to this song since I was about 10 (18 now) because I never understood what the song was really about when I was younger. Coming back to it now is completely different. THE best song/music video for storytelling I’ve ever seen. (Sorry for the long reply)

    • @visionar7303
      @visionar7303 2 месяца назад +7

      Crazy, I litteraly said “shit that gave me chills” after hearing that line and I open the comments and see this 💀

    • @Earthnevevo
      @Earthnevevo 2 месяца назад +4

      ​@@visionar7303and them Em looking up and out, realising the magnitude of it all.

    • @Lil_Walk_Dog901
      @Lil_Walk_Dog901 22 дня назад

      That's Stan

  • @XBroForeverX
    @XBroForeverX 4 года назад +8252

    Finally the real official dirty version which features him drinking vodka in the car and shows dido inside the trunk

    • @cade.s
      @cade.s 4 года назад +320

      LowDown
      I had never seen the dido in the trunk but i did remember him with the vodka drinking in the car

    • @izoilica2516
      @izoilica2516 4 года назад +66

      LowDown okay, thanks I was unsure if that was her being his girlfriend

    • @arnoldpollycarp8064
      @arnoldpollycarp8064 4 года назад +63

      that is dido? thought that was his girlfriend in the trunk? heheheh

    • @jessicaellis4223
      @jessicaellis4223 4 года назад +150

      Much better than the version where he said he drank a 5th of koolaid....

    • @nicoleharrington9086
      @nicoleharrington9086 4 года назад +76

      I remember when I first saw this verson on TV and they never aired this version again.

  • @curtthegamer934
    @curtthegamer934 4 года назад +3309

    This is the rare actual uncensored video that shows Stan chugging alcohol and Dido tied up in the trunk of his car. All the other "explicit version" videos online were just the censored video with the explicit audio synced up with it.

    • @XBroForeverX
      @XBroForeverX 4 года назад +107

      And those other videos are just badly synced as well, the audio doesn’t even sync in at all with the video.

    • @thiobillian5727
      @thiobillian5727 3 года назад +29

      That's why this channel named Eminem Explicit.

    • @purge2--u--nite342
      @purge2--u--nite342 3 года назад +15

      EM WANTED the REALNESS TO BE SEEN AND FELT. I remember when this dropped and MTV showed it randomly mostly at night. Then it just never got air play.... Took me back to that first day 💯

    • @zzgordoxzzgaming4718
      @zzgordoxzzgaming4718 2 года назад +1

      yeah while watching the censored version got me confused a little

    • @jokerzwild00
      @jokerzwild00 2 года назад +1

      @@purge2--u--nite342 Is that you Stan? Are you "Em's" #1 fan?
      Haha just playing. Slim Shady is cool as fuck.

  • @HarmonicDX
    @HarmonicDX Год назад +592

    One of the best story based music videos ever. Em casting Dido herself as the main female role in a song with a chorus that samples her was a power move.

    • @kenyattatucker1279
      @kenyattatucker1279 9 месяцев назад +8

      I seen this on MTV

    • @otroweonllamadoseba
      @otroweonllamadoseba 3 месяца назад +12

      Yes, and i won't regret defending that without her this wouldn't as good as it is.

    • @jgil1966
      @jgil1966 20 дней назад

      Iconic shit

    • @PockASqueeno
      @PockASqueeno 13 дней назад

      Yep. That and “Ol’ Red.”

  • @MiniCritStudios
    @MiniCritStudios 2 месяца назад +34

    the sad thing about this song is at the end, when Eminem says "it was you.." and the music stops, if you look at the window when the thunder crashes you can see Stan's ghost.. staring at Eminem in disappointment.

    • @Irokaj-backwards
      @Irokaj-backwards 2 месяца назад +6

      never noticed that, thanks for pointing it out

  • @CultWhatever
    @CultWhatever 4 года назад +5944

    Never noticed Stan’s ghost in the window in the last scene

    • @syno023
      @syno023 4 года назад +732

      7:57 For anybody looking for it :)

    • @cade.s
      @cade.s 4 года назад +31

      Tecno ,
      ✌️😌

    • @shontaunique2249
      @shontaunique2249 4 года назад +87

      Omg me either

    • @hughhann1179
      @hughhann1179 4 года назад +22

      oh yeahhhhhhhhhh

    • @NO_SHIT_SHELMON
      @NO_SHIT_SHELMON 4 года назад +54

      @@syno023 we want stan vol2

  • @SpiderMan-hc2ld
    @SpiderMan-hc2ld 4 года назад +5968

    Damn, I can't help but to feel bad for everyone involved in this song. Stanley, for feeling that his idol had let him down to the point where it drove him to suicide, Matthew, for losing his older brother and blaming his former hero, Stanley's girlfriend, for somehow putting up with Stanley which would later cause her demise along with her unborn child, and Eminem, who wanted to help him, but by the time he got the letter, it was too late, causing him to be cited as the reason Stanley died. This is most certainly how you write a good tragedy story

    • @locdaddy9295
      @locdaddy9295 3 года назад +321

      I wish this was a movie

    • @dennys0000
      @dennys0000 3 года назад +80

      @@locdaddy9295shit happens my fav band deleted the only date on italy for their concert sadly i could even afford the vip ticket well it's gone now ("starset" btw no t a fan on stan's level but i like their music ) but life goes on

    • @abdulraheemnasiru8324
      @abdulraheemnasiru8324 3 года назад +62

      Mathew came back April 2020 and broke into eminem house

    • @abdulraheemnasiru8324
      @abdulraheemnasiru8324 3 года назад +1

      @Stanky Fish licker ???

    • @abdulraheemnasiru8324
      @abdulraheemnasiru8324 3 года назад

      @Stanky Fish licker what are u saying be more clear

  • @leohedrick1624
    @leohedrick1624 Год назад +1473

    The song that give you the chills every time … people don't make songs like this anymore!

    • @ragnar930
      @ragnar930 Год назад +55

      Yeah they do you just are too normie to find it

    • @X1ZR
      @X1ZR Год назад +23

      @@ragnar930 Put us on then lmao.

    • @X1ZR
      @X1ZR Год назад +12

      @@sh4pp Facts, a song like this would have certain people going insane nowadays.

    • @unfilteredopinionated
      @unfilteredopinionated Год назад +6

      They do u just have bad music taste

    • @starseahawk3516
      @starseahawk3516 Год назад +7

      We can tell your at least 40 by the exclamation but everybody like what they like

  • @henrygaida7048
    @henrygaida7048 6 месяцев назад +12

    7:07 Did anyone else notice that the flowers that Stan's mother throws on his grave are yellow and white? (Symbolic of Em's/Stan's bleached hair and white T-shirt.) The attention to details is amazing: this isn't a music video, it's a short film.

    • @einsachtsechsnull
      @einsachtsechsnull 6 месяцев назад +1

      look at 7:57 at the reflection of stan another great detail

  • @realeggyg897
    @realeggyg897 4 года назад +3951

    Oh? You Stan?
    Name every pregnant girl you've driven into a river

    • @diogenes5850
      @diogenes5850 4 года назад +222

      Dido

    • @a.kinser1220
      @a.kinser1220 4 года назад +165

      I get what you’re saying completely but the thing is that the people that say ‘stan’ have never listened to this song, let alone even heard of it. It’s quite sad. There are some that have heard the song but they are all just uneducated.

    • @countdrakeula1169
      @countdrakeula1169 4 года назад +44

      Uhhh at least 24

    • @eyesoftomorrow4134
      @eyesoftomorrow4134 4 года назад +31

      rest in peace sarah.

    • @trolla5125
      @trolla5125 3 года назад +7

      50.

  • @newpacificorder854
    @newpacificorder854 4 года назад +10081

    This is the most beautiful Eminem song of all time. His ability to storytell is amazing and he is incredibly talented. Truly a masterpiece.

    • @muhammaDEsmustafa
      @muhammaDEsmustafa 4 года назад +199

      Here he tells a story, darkness tells two stories, next album multiple parallel stories described and told by the same set of words. This guy sets standards and crushes them

    • @chungarito7739
      @chungarito7739 4 года назад +29

      Doesn’t beat lose yourself tho

    • @s.danlees6026
      @s.danlees6026 4 года назад +26

      Listen “Darkness” bro, its new

    • @dom4814
      @dom4814 4 года назад +12

      Eh I’ve heard better story telling songs but yeah I get what you’re saying em is a legend

    • @harrypotter6894
      @harrypotter6894 4 года назад +9

      @@s.danlees6026 didn't like darkness. It had a story but lacked a melody or punch. No feelz

  • @maxxibro
    @maxxibro Год назад +726

    This song is still awesome 22 years after it was released. What a timeless masterpiece.

    • @kastlet405
      @kastlet405 Год назад +8

      @Jsw_2x yes it has, relased on october 20, 2000

    • @Drekel
      @Drekel Год назад +22

      fuck it been that long?

    • @darkpistol96
      @darkpistol96 Год назад +13

      @@Drekel We are old as fuck

    • @reynoldodupuis1891
      @reynoldodupuis1891 Год назад +2

      It got released 13 yrs ago

    • @Drekel
      @Drekel Год назад +5

      @Reynoldo Dupuis no this is from 2000

  • @jippy33
    @jippy33 Год назад +230

    I still hold this to be the greatest piece of storytelling in a song ever.

    • @Weed1086
      @Weed1086 Год назад +4

      I agree, I even saved it onto my playlist of favourite songs, I’m updating the playlist today

    • @khristionlouvatin6874
      @khristionlouvatin6874 11 месяцев назад +1

      It is

    • @producedby3am344
      @producedby3am344 9 месяцев назад +1

      You don’t listen to a lot of rap then do you💀

    • @Annihilated64-13yearsago
      @Annihilated64-13yearsago 5 месяцев назад

      @@producedby3am344huh

    • @Pivks
      @Pivks 4 месяца назад +5

      @@producedby3am344ur a clown 🤡 what “rap” song is better ? Lemme guess King Von🤣

  • @deen0001
    @deen0001 4 года назад +3006

    “Dear Slim, I recorded three songs but you still ain’t calling”
    - Nick Cannon

  • @scizorbullet8185
    @scizorbullet8185 4 года назад +5622

    Why tf is stan used as this positive thing when in reality it's the worst thing you can be in a fanbase

    • @rudyceron3420
      @rudyceron3420 4 года назад +691

      It’s not used as a positive thing them weird as Ariana grande fans start using it without knowing the meaning fully they didn’t even kno Eminem basically made the word Stan they were saying it just means super fan lmao

    • @NoName-qj6of
      @NoName-qj6of 4 года назад +299

      Rudy Ceron they must be dumb since it means stalker fan

    • @extrahourinthepit
      @extrahourinthepit 4 года назад +82

      Y’all knew that in the Third Reich’s German the connotation of the term “fanatisch” was turned to positive?
      Yeah, that.

    • @dennialiester
      @dennialiester 4 года назад +70

      Rudy Ceron Stan means “Stalker Fan”

    • @nicoleharrington9086
      @nicoleharrington9086 4 года назад +155

      Kids nowadays use heavy words loosely

  • @gxtmfa
    @gxtmfa 9 месяцев назад +134

    This song really hits when you know you have people looking up to you. I really wasn’t expecting to cry listening to it this time, but life changes you.

    • @mikeliterous9827
      @mikeliterous9827 8 месяцев назад +8

      Everybody needs a eminem story binge once n a while. Closest thing I have to therapy

  • @ogbokawalter6362
    @ogbokawalter6362 21 день назад +5

    This is dark and gritty af. A timeless masterpiece in its right.

  • @toastiiwoastii
    @toastiiwoastii 4 года назад +3686

    I find it really sad that people are glad to say they are stans after watching the song and knowing the definition of a Stan is a person completely obsessed with a person to the point of stalking them. It's really sad.

    • @unlawful_salmon1554
      @unlawful_salmon1554 4 года назад +164

      Stalker+fan= *stan*

    • @ratherande
      @ratherande 4 года назад +234

      I feel like that people use it in a way to say that they’re a big fan instead of the actual meaning

    • @Marina-yn3mf
      @Marina-yn3mf 4 года назад +102

      You're taking it way too seriously. I don't think anyway uses the word in that meaning.

    • @Heytheremrsky
      @Heytheremrsky 4 года назад +182

      @Marina you don’t know Stans then. There’s a reason Em made this song, these people exist and aren’t only in fairy tales

    • @toastiiwoastii
      @toastiiwoastii 4 года назад +25

      @@Heytheremrsky no I'm pretty sure he made the song Stan to give light to the story if the guy who killed his pregnant wife and self because he didn't get a letter back.

  • @illiardbilliard2355
    @illiardbilliard2355 4 года назад +1455

    The origin of the term "stan". Unsettling, really.

    • @diogenes5850
      @diogenes5850 4 года назад +92

      (ST)alker f(AN)

    • @Random-xq4by
      @Random-xq4by 4 года назад +13

      😬 I don’t Stan anymore lol

    • @Random-xq4by
      @Random-xq4by 4 года назад +3

      Not like I ever did

    • @gabrielramiah3486
      @gabrielramiah3486 3 года назад +3

      @@diogenes5850 nice one idiot, that is what it originally ment

    • @kujikawathemeekmage3640
      @kujikawathemeekmage3640 3 года назад +23

      Gabriel Ramiah - bruh how are they an idiot if they were correct

  • @Repelling144
    @Repelling144 Месяц назад +8

    there really isn't a rap song today that compares to this

  • @minoushka_mina
    @minoushka_mina Год назад +320

    This song still gives me chills, so well written.

  • @LucyMichela
    @LucyMichela 4 года назад +4296

    Anyone else feel Stan is proof the rap can be so meaningful, so catchy, and so imaginative all at once?

    • @cyb8490
      @cyb8490 4 года назад +5

      Ye

    • @daringducky6236
      @daringducky6236 4 года назад +88

      Anyone who thinks rap can’t be is a fucking idiot. It’s music just like any other genre.

    • @_notqasim
      @_notqasim 4 года назад +3

      @Johnnie Walker and biggie

    • @805livin4
      @805livin4 4 года назад +1

      Alpha Encoder and nick canon

    • @itsdakota6442
      @itsdakota6442 3 года назад +23

      any genre that has lyrics can it just takes a really good artist to do it

  • @FRESHboosters
    @FRESHboosters 4 года назад +1107

    Most underrated acting in a music video, ever. I remember seeing this when I was 10 and legitimately wondering why movies weren’t directed like this.

    • @rockinrachel1670
      @rockinrachel1670 4 года назад +21

      As a 7 year old that gave me the chills and still does to this day the video and song 😱😨

    • @ymj4256
      @ymj4256 3 года назад +12

      I know it's not the point
      But movie are mean to have a longer plot and have a clearer structure.
      This song is kinda to short for a movie.

    • @scsorluv
      @scsorluv 3 года назад +8

      that the guy from final destination of course hes gonna be good at acting and its crazy cause final destination was made the same year stan was

    • @davidao2551
      @davidao2551 3 года назад +9

      Devon Sawa is an actual actor obviously but Dido was very good too

    • @timbaktuu9845
      @timbaktuu9845 3 года назад +1

      So explicit lyrics meant nothing to u kids🤣 gud 🖖

  • @gray.wesley
    @gray.wesley 7 месяцев назад +240

    this is easily my favourite song of all time. a song like this, sung like this about topics like these just hits so hard. i was a victim of sexual assault when i was 8 and i've had PTSD since i was 5 (it's a long story). my dad was absent from my life a lot and we never really got along that well. music was and still is my outlet, and this song just always gets me in the feels. this song has saved my life so many times i don't even remember now. Em, if you're seeing this, i hope you know that i'm thankful to you for making this song, and i want you to know that my girlfriend's pregnant. if she's having a boy, we're calling him Stan, after the song you wrote. it saved us both so many times and we're infinitely grateful for it and it's just incredibly important to us. thank you.

    • @justagirlfrombrooklyn8653
      @justagirlfrombrooklyn8653 6 месяцев назад +16

      hope your girl has a healthy delivery❤️‍🩹

    • @gray.wesley
      @gray.wesley 6 месяцев назад +16

      @@justagirlfrombrooklyn8653 thank you so much! two months so far, everything's looking up!!

    • @enlightenme.5371
      @enlightenme.5371 6 месяцев назад +7

      @@gray.wesleybeautiful story

    • @Tamo375
      @Tamo375 6 месяцев назад +4

      Oh man I hope you’re doing better now, and I’m sure you’ll make great parents

    • @lisajuliae.9239
      @lisajuliae.9239 5 месяцев назад +5

      Much Love from Germany ❤

  • @MateAndMead
    @MateAndMead Год назад +640

    Let me be clear, I'm usually not a fan of rap or hip hop. AT ALL.
    But I can't help to admire Eminem's lyrical skills and appreciate his music. It stands out pretty strongly from most, if not all other rap I've heard.

    • @salllumen4418
      @salllumen4418 Год назад +20

      It’s modern rap most modern rap sucks

    • @Ryu_hayabusa561
      @Ryu_hayabusa561 Год назад +10

      Best music lives in the Underground! Look up vinnie paz, immortal technique, Apathy etc

    • @Abaddon_Narukami
      @Abaddon_Narukami Год назад +4

      Yeah bro literal chills

    • @jaikaransingh9087
      @jaikaransingh9087 Год назад +1

      @@Ryu_hayabusa561 billy woods is kicking it nowadays too

    • @notlucas7078
      @notlucas7078 Год назад +12

      @@salllumen4418 Modern rap is fine there's lots of great rap coming out you just have to look a little harder for it

  • @user-wu8nr7pd1x
    @user-wu8nr7pd1x Год назад +2857

    I really love that how Eminem changes the sense of Dido’s song. While in hers meant that everything would be ok while her special person is by her side, being optimistic in the end, here it shows a sad story about a fan who found shelter in Eminem escaping from his tragic life but he became obsessed. Even his childhood was tragic witnessing domestic abuse against her mom and how his father cheated on her numerous times. Everything, from the lyrics to the video, brings tears to my eyes, it’s so perfect.

    • @ragnar930
      @ragnar930 Год назад +51

      Gay

    • @SPCv4
      @SPCv4 Год назад +39

      I really like your analysis, it's very interesting and insightful

    • @jordank4889
      @jordank4889 Год назад +1

      ​​@@ragnar930 moron

    • @disordely
      @disordely Год назад +18

      yeah true I totally agree, the original version where she was singing about unicorns hit me harder though because when the great fairy came into her life it was a nod to the true mafia story of 1974 and that resonated with me less

    • @jordank4889
      @jordank4889 Год назад +16

      @@disordely what

  • @novapariah8135
    @novapariah8135 4 года назад +1971

    The hardest part of this video is seeing Stan's mum see that Matthew bleached his hair in memory of his older brother, and the haunted look in her eyes. Every actor in this is brilliant at showing the devastating effects of excessive fanaticism, and it's such a shame that the meaning of the phrase has been watered down by people calling themselves 'stans' for different artists and being proud of it, even though that's the exact opposite intention of the phrase to what Em wanted to express.

    • @thewallfangirl2980
      @thewallfangirl2980 3 года назад +21

      Thats his girlfriend

    • @novapariah8135
      @novapariah8135 3 года назад +183

      @@thewallfangirl2980 I kinda doubt that, because Stan's girlfriend is most likely chilling with Spongebob and Patrick at the moment on account of being tied up in the boot of the same car Stan drowned in without restraints

    • @thewallfangirl2980
      @thewallfangirl2980 3 года назад +10

      @@novapariah8135 you’re crazy

    • @novapariah8135
      @novapariah8135 3 года назад +27

      @@thewallfangirl2980 shut up nerd

    • @yt-dman
      @yt-dman 3 года назад +19

      so he sleeps with his mom?
      lmao.
      it is very clearly stan's gf.
      the grave part i'd assume is where stan's actual mom is.

  • @CannedWatermelon-fd3my
    @CannedWatermelon-fd3my 3 месяца назад +4

    "oh shit, i forgot, how am i supposed to send this shit out?"
    famous last words

  • @dannydevlin1893
    @dannydevlin1893 Год назад +252

    I randomly listened to this while driving my car and it brought tears to my eyes. Not because of the brilliance of the story and all that goes with it, but because of the pure nostalgia I suddenly associate with this song 🥲🥹

    • @smeetsnoud1
      @smeetsnoud1 Год назад +6

      Goddamn I have the exact same experience (but on a train)

    • @dannydevlin1893
      @dannydevlin1893 Год назад +1

      @@smeetsnoud1 I hope you enjoyed 💖

    • @shandonmichael8699
      @shandonmichael8699 Год назад +14

      Don't tell me she was in the trunk 🙆🏾🙆🏾what did you do?

    • @BigD81000
      @BigD81000 Год назад +9

      @@shandonmichael8699 he drank a fifth of vodka. Dare him to drive?

    • @TinkerKell6
      @TinkerKell6 3 месяца назад +1

      Same

  • @superswagnoob2395
    @superswagnoob2395 4 года назад +486

    Stan: here’s that autograph for your brother I wrote it on a starter cap
    Kill shot: here’s that autograph graph for your daughter, I wrote it on a starter cap

    • @999bucko2
      @999bucko2 4 года назад +64

      I think you get it but its cause mgk always said he was his biggest fan

    • @dunderbaer2430
      @dunderbaer2430 3 года назад +8

      Damn, this is the first time I actually realize this. Thanks

    • @jkbroboss
      @jkbroboss 3 года назад +12

      I think its cause hes joking like stans brother was mgk

    • @Gusthesaltybus
      @Gusthesaltybus 3 года назад +3

      @@jkbroboss no he’s saying mgk is Stan bc he always said he was ems biggest fab

    • @athulchandran2737
      @athulchandran2737 3 года назад

      I read a comment it jokingly said Stanley's young brother was MGK.
      What if that line from "killshot" was a reference of "Stan" 😂 Eminem is a f***ing genius

  • @cosasinsolitas5712
    @cosasinsolitas5712 3 года назад +2494

    That last verse is so amazing, it's something I've never heard before, a trick verse. You think M is going to say "His name was Stanley too" but he says "His name was St.. It was you" wow Eminem is such a lyricist.

    • @istachi
      @istachi 2 года назад +201

      It's a rhyming technique he learned from Biggie, I believe. He uses the same technique in Criminal and Murder Murder.

    • @matthewbartlett3442
      @matthewbartlett3442 2 года назад +131

      Also the break of the rhythm makes it hit even harder

    • @darkghoul4049
      @darkghoul4049 2 года назад +28

      @@istachi yeah, em once said on a interview that used to study the greats…

    • @soapscope3721
      @soapscope3721 2 года назад +134

      Hits even harder when you look at the window next to slim during this line and see Stan’s ghost glaring at him… shivers.

    • @williamwawerka8992
      @williamwawerka8992 2 года назад +4

      Well if he rhymed too with to it wouldn't be that much of a great rhyme right
      So not really an option

  • @user-iq1zw6kc9k
    @user-iq1zw6kc9k 2 месяца назад +4

    One of the greatest songs ever written

    • @kelliekells404
      @kelliekells404 28 дней назад +2

      It was. He wrote so many songs! He's a genius..

  • @vontejones4215
    @vontejones4215 Год назад +132

    Much respect to Dido. One Love, Dido

    • @crowsfan691
      @crowsfan691 Год назад +12

      Seriously underrated artist.

    • @kickboxerforever00
      @kickboxerforever00 Год назад +3

      DIDO, Oh.... You mean "Stans girlfriend" with the blonde hair in this video? 😉

  • @screed3705
    @screed3705 3 года назад +746

    He made this song to talk about the type of fan mail he got, and how disturbing some times it can be... this song is about some of the hardest and most messed up parts about being famous. Getting mail from crazed fans threatening to kill themselves if the celebrity doesn’t answer. Your not a real fan if you threaten the celebrity with your life just for a response. Real fans actually care about the celebrity and realize that they have feelings too, and that just because they are famous doesn’t mean that they still aren’t a normal person. Society is cruel...

    • @horizontal-hd8343
      @horizontal-hd8343 3 года назад +20

      Great comment dude. Totally agree

    • @robbob5302
      @robbob5302 Год назад +9

      Yes.
      And then he turns around and gives us a grocery list of what we need, to be a *real* Eminem Stan.
      Including that album he did with Rawkus. And don't forget that underground stuff he did with Skam!

    • @Bewefau
      @Bewefau Год назад +6

      not if they have mental issue's. The singer always sings about mental issues but how many of them really have it? There mostly rich and famous normal people are not and have nobody to fall on.

    • @sneezlebottom137
      @sneezlebottom137 Год назад +3

      "He made this song to talk about the type of fan mail he got, and how disturbing some times it can be..."
      You have a source to back that up? From what I've read, he wrote this when he was just becoming famous and he was surprised that people wanted to meet him and knocked on his door.

  • @hdwuox
    @hdwuox 3 года назад +2956

    Every time I listen to this song, I cry. Last year, my father passed due to overdose. He was just like Stan, except he wasn't this obsessive. He always wanted to make new friends, meet new people and relate to them. He was so nice to me and so many other people, but sadly, he put too much trust into certain things and people, and he passed away. He loved this song so much, and eminem was one of his favorite artists. Every time this song comes on in my playlist, I remember him. Miss you.

    • @anar8343
      @anar8343 3 года назад +48

      Wow. So sorry to hear that 😢

    • @hdwuox
      @hdwuox 3 года назад +32

      @@anar8343 Thank you for the response.

    • @anar8343
      @anar8343 3 года назад +14

      @@hdwuox sure

    • @proudfarmero1390
      @proudfarmero1390 3 года назад +19

      @@hdwuox Dam bro that's kinda deep and I can relate in a certain way keep youre head up 💯

    • @MiguelAngel-go4ck
      @MiguelAngel-go4ck 3 года назад +12

      That must be horrible, i hope you are doing better

  • @curtishoodless9543
    @curtishoodless9543 9 месяцев назад +47

    Used to listen to this song when I was younger and just liked the song but as you get older you start to actually listen to the lyrics properly and realize how deep it is

    • @jonybech
      @jonybech 14 дней назад +1

      I really feel the same. Heard when I was teenager and this was a hit. But currently im finding it hard to listen and it makes me shiver.

  • @Canuckchick32
    @Canuckchick32 17 дней назад +3

    How Stan's hair magically changes when he looks in the mirror lmao 🤣

  • @manual4379
    @manual4379 3 года назад +460

    The scene where Eminem is writing the note to Stan, and Stan is watching him through the window was crazy.

    • @nelly4843
      @nelly4843 3 года назад +72

      Still stalking him after death, he was obsessed 😓

    • @patrikjansen7831
      @patrikjansen7831 2 года назад +22

      I thought it was only a reflection of Eminem

    • @octaviocarrasco408
      @octaviocarrasco408 2 года назад +41

      @@patrikjansen7831 first it is his reflection, but at the very end appears stan in a quick glance

    • @Toxic_Toaster_
      @Toxic_Toaster_ Год назад +4

      @@octaviocarrasco408 ya I think it’s when the flashing part happens at the end

    • @etherealdepths
      @etherealdepths Год назад +3

      wow, i never noticed that!!

  • @WestSide1971
    @WestSide1971 4 года назад +877

    Damn this song is still kicking I'm speechless *I haven't heard this in about 5-6 years*

    • @connorgray8276
      @connorgray8276 4 года назад

      IilMcNugget it’s so true man. It’s scary, just sayin don’t go crazy on yo self just need to just chill out even on the hardest days😌😞

    • @tsimms8567
      @tsimms8567 4 года назад +2

      On God 💯 I haven't heard this song since middle school... I'm 30 now... Had to download it..

    • @noc8003
      @noc8003 4 года назад

      IilMcNugget can you please send me the original photo of your pfp please

    • @noc8003
      @noc8003 4 года назад

      If u will send it to my insta n_0_c_

    • @UnchartedTheProtogen
      @UnchartedTheProtogen 3 года назад

      HE LIVES

  • @daisymay833
    @daisymay833 Год назад +71

    This song hits hard. My mum always used to sing the chorus when I was little, it's not til I grew up and realised she went through what the lady in the video did, makes me cry everytime I hear this song now, love you mum.

    • @CocoaPuff229
      @CocoaPuff229 Год назад +1

    • @jackakakreanxx5587
      @jackakakreanxx5587 4 месяца назад

      Out of curiosity who did her lover worship?

    • @Montristerik
      @Montristerik 4 месяца назад +9

      How did she get out of the trunk (asking for a friend)

    • @jackakakreanxx5587
      @jackakakreanxx5587 4 месяца назад

      @@Montristerik tell your friend that this was before cara were invented

    • @laceyfree5562
      @laceyfree5562 3 месяца назад +1

      Agree..how did she get out of the trunk and who was her man obsessed with?? Why would she sing that then around you?

  • @stefannafets7828
    @stefannafets7828 10 дней назад +1

    God in heaven. Never knew it was Devon. Makes IT even better. What hell of a Song ! Long live Final Destination and you three of course!!!

  • @Popo_333
    @Popo_333 2 года назад +839

    Man this hit me just now after all these years. When he says "That's my girlfriend in the trunk but I didn't slith her throat, I ain't like you" is a reference to Eminem's track "Just the 2 of us" , and it's incredible the level of song writing where he himself can write about a fan critisizing himself

    • @slaqualquercoisamemo5117
      @slaqualquercoisamemo5117 Год назад +43

      And the fifth of vodka

    • @deftonestilldeath
      @deftonestilldeath Год назад +30

      The song is called 97 Bonnie and Clyde

    • @Anvekeen
      @Anvekeen Год назад +43

      In a way it reinforces the craziness of the fan too, because it's almost as if he believes everything written in Em's songs. (Of course it's only one way to interpret it, I believe he's not that dillusional and just means it as a diss. But its cool to think about)

    • @supastuff06
      @supastuff06 Год назад +9

      I thought it was a reference to kim

    • @riverpresley7284
      @riverpresley7284 Год назад +9

      Em references slitting throats A LOT LOL

  • @korihinton
    @korihinton 3 года назад +283

    I like how Eminem changed his voice to sound more like a normal person for Stan then when he go to his part he like the Eminem we all know

    • @LibraJohnny
      @LibraJohnny Год назад +6

      Yes, he does a real actor's performance in this song.

    • @robbob5302
      @robbob5302 24 дня назад +1

      Yes. He was less nasal as Stan. I never noticed that before.

  • @jacobeparsels9251
    @jacobeparsels9251 Год назад +6

    This is one of the reasons people say Eminem is on the goat list because anybody can make a one hit wonder or a club banger but very few mcs can tell a story and pull you in like reading a book or watching a great movie

  • @DrM1x
    @DrM1x 11 месяцев назад +31

    The fact that this has to censored because of some babies is wild. This is a masterpiece and a perfect example of human thoughts

  • @anggiemoobaya1110
    @anggiemoobaya1110 3 года назад +73

    Stan = Stalker+Fan

  • @darby.lestrange
    @darby.lestrange 4 года назад +710

    I like how he still lifted up the toilet seat up for her.🤣🤣

    • @puromann2370
      @puromann2370 4 года назад +30

      bro thats fucked up

    • @radiopenis1011
      @radiopenis1011 4 года назад +173

      He even opened the trunk for her 🤣🤣

    • @absolutelyshmooie7086
      @absolutelyshmooie7086 4 года назад +69

      Darby.LeStrange
      He opened the door for her
      Opened the toilet seat for her
      *opened the trunk for her*

    • @chillmanmax
      @chillmanmax 4 года назад +59

      @@radiopenis1011 he even killed her with him. such a gentleman

    • @scumfuccc
      @scumfuccc 3 года назад +22

      Professionals have standards

  • @flemit35
    @flemit35 День назад

    I like how he switches hands when writing as Stan.

  • @UniverseGamerLumi
    @UniverseGamerLumi Год назад +17

    This music video is so cinematic, in 8 minutes its deeper than some hour long movies

  • @brentdemty6859
    @brentdemty6859 4 года назад +526

    I’ve seen the long version many times but the drinking and his girlfriend in the trunk never.

    • @dom4814
      @dom4814 4 года назад +38

      It’s cuz this is the dirty version

    • @smileless3465
      @smileless3465 4 года назад +16

      Fuck vevo amirite

    • @mayank12ma
      @mayank12ma 4 года назад +1

      Smileless word

    • @Alice-zj1ez
      @Alice-zj1ez 4 года назад +3

      it was censured

    • @Robin93k
      @Robin93k 4 года назад +43

      @@dom4814 This ain't dirty, this is the original, how it was meant to be, and how it was envisioned by Eminem.
      The other versions, are the Marketing cuts, to make more money with this song!

  • @xanwess
    @xanwess 4 года назад +305

    This video feels like 3 minutes

    • @user-zo3os2cc2g
      @user-zo3os2cc2g 3 года назад +36

      Yeah, you just get so absorbed into it it feels like it isn’t 8 minutes at all

    • @nicelittlekiller9121
      @nicelittlekiller9121 3 года назад +6

      I didnt even realise its 8 minutes

    • @Tren_abuser
      @Tren_abuser 3 года назад +3

      Yes after you watch it 10 times

    • @jerrygil1965
      @jerrygil1965 3 года назад

      Amen

    • @jurek.owsiak
      @jurek.owsiak 3 года назад +2

      to me it feels like an entire fucking movie

  • @Hii13712
    @Hii13712 2 месяца назад +4

    Wow, just wow is the only way to describe this song, i went from loving the tune to learning the lyrics to not getting it out my head and finally understanding the meaning. And the song is so carefully tied together about the growing painful obbsesion even the name of the song relates to it if you search up what is the origin of the name stan. Its gery unsettling: While some say the term is a combination of "fan" and "stalker," "stan" was first coined in 2000 when Eminem dropped a twisted allegory in a song called "Stan," about a man who was pushed to the edge when his idol wouldn't answer his fan mail. The word used to be synonymous with overzealous or obsessed. Unbelievable

  • @vicciking7411
    @vicciking7411 4 месяца назад +15

    This is a true piece of art! This was so groundbreaking when it was released,the youth of today who love Eminem have no idea what it was really like when he started to blow up like he was a PHENOMENON and still is,never a better rapper to grace the earth better than him TELL ME IM WRONG 😭😭😭😭

    • @TinkerKell6
      @TinkerKell6 3 месяца назад

      You ain’t wrong lol I’m so glad I got to watch the come up too. What a time to be alive. Everyone was talking about this.

  • @thexkalx
    @thexkalx 4 года назад +257

    7:57...stan(window) is stalking Eminem

  • @vidahasselburg3841
    @vidahasselburg3841 4 года назад +1203

    One of the most intense and disturbing mv I have ever seen. When I was like 18 I remember us all smoking weed and drinking and this video came on and we were stunned, everyone stopped drinking smoking, nobody talked for like a minute after this. Dido and Devon Sawa deserved way more accolades for their performances than they got. This mv is a part of music history now, and stanning is part of our shared language. This deserves mad respect for its unabashed showing of what it’s like for a celebrity when a mentally ill person falls in love with them. Eminem is a genius, this is why he has been so successful and still sits on top of Rap as the Rap God. He was challenging more old white man barriers than anyone ever had back when everyone just was trying to live in a censored world without choices; because of course old white men expected younger black men to challenge them, but a young white man was supposed to take it up the butt by the established order like they always had. Eminem said fuck y’all to that. This is why my 60 yr old pretend perfect Christian aunt had a few Eminem cd’s stashed in her trunk. You can’t hide from someone who you need to see.

    • @sofakingonmynuts1438
      @sofakingonmynuts1438 3 года назад +23

      I agree, this song and half his music is like, little pockets of time, selected and told perfectly, the other half is him bull shitting, and people love him for his realism, unfiltered emotions

    • @kevinray55shorts17
      @kevinray55shorts17 2 года назад +4

      Yeah man and what's sad but also funny people hate him because how he makes him music and stuff a good example is obviously this song because just to get it our there without it being censored labeled it dirty because of stupid reasons

    • @apokkalyps6
      @apokkalyps6 2 года назад +1

      Ok, but i dont get what races or color of skin has to do with this, i find it incredible that you have such a racist culture in US, distiguishing so hardly between color of skin.

    • @kingtaj
      @kingtaj 2 года назад +2

      @@apokkalyps6 why do you find it so surprising that race is so important here in the US? This country was founded on slavery - of course with that history there will always be deep wounds and scars. This country is still slowly healing.

    • @apokkalyps6
      @apokkalyps6 2 года назад

      @@kingtaj so was the greek democracy and none is crying to this day about the rights of persians in greece. Hell, even in germany being a jew nowadays isnt a big deal which affects every fucking aspect of your life. Stop acting like you or anyone alive nowadays has a big trauma about what happened in the past. If you still make such a distinguishement about color of skin is because black people or white people are RACIST, either because the policy of your country which collects different ethnicities in guettos or because the forced importance of color of skin in the politic speech

  • @TamagotchiFreakFan
    @TamagotchiFreakFan 2 дня назад

    FINALLY found this version after putting up w the fake "explicit" versions. Thank you 1000x over for posting❤ this song is the reason "stan" is part of gen z lingo (meaning "super fan" but most folks dont know the origin of it and they should)

  • @Run_IT_Riddler
    @Run_IT_Riddler Год назад +8

    Tells the story of so many of us men growing up as a boy hopeless and needing a father figure. Sad but direct truthful story.

  • @roriroderick3599
    @roriroderick3599 2 года назад +1603

    I heard my 13yr old daughter bumpin this song from her room. Made me such a proud parent. This song and album is classic. One of Em’s best songs

    • @syndicategaming81
      @syndicategaming81 2 года назад +12

      @Strihke same im also 15

    • @BadeBay
      @BadeBay 2 года назад +7

      @@syndicategaming81 same bro

    • @joemama-kp1jz
      @joemama-kp1jz 2 года назад +5

      @@BadeBay same g

    • @1drillgod
      @1drillgod 2 года назад +11

      15 gang 🖤

    • @majin.2138
      @majin.2138 2 года назад +4

      @@joemama-kp1jz same 15 👊🏾

  • @kdnotnice
    @kdnotnice 4 года назад +487

    When the beat comes in at 1:47 as dido is singing is so eerie and dark I love it. The beat just has this vibe that gives you chills

    • @isatherebel1520
      @isatherebel1520 4 года назад

      G-funk vibe bro

    • @damienx0x
      @damienx0x 2 года назад

      It's not eerie it's atmospheric.

    • @dankdio2887
      @dankdio2887 Год назад

      @@damienx0x and how would you describe the atmosphere that the it's creating?

  • @YoursUntruly
    @YoursUntruly Год назад +6

    The half step in the 4’th bar in the chorus’ baseline is so underrated. It adds such a malicious vibe to the end of the chorus.

  • @Chonkasaurus_Rex
    @Chonkasaurus_Rex 3 месяца назад +4

    7:58 Stan is spot able in the window

  • @AA-fn9xz
    @AA-fn9xz 2 года назад +481

    Has there ever been a better storytelling song than Stan? I really think this is the best ever.

    • @shipshoptoolsoklama8172
      @shipshoptoolsoklama8172 2 года назад +12

      Also this is a conversation between 2 people whic is interesting

    • @darvish2776
      @darvish2776 2 года назад +25

      Dance with the devil by immortal technique

    • @AA-fn9xz
      @AA-fn9xz 2 года назад +11

      @@darvish2776 also very good. Prefer Stan though.

    • @33qmel
      @33qmel 2 года назад +2

      @@AA-fn9xz did you hear Bad Guy? its a sequel to stan

    • @AA-fn9xz
      @AA-fn9xz 2 года назад +1

      @@33qmel yeah I have. Good song.

  • @Voradorek84
    @Voradorek84 3 года назад +27

    That "Damn" in the end hits like a literal truck. Damn.

  • @jimbeam2299
    @jimbeam2299 Год назад +15

    The stock screams while she’s in the trunk always make me laugh lmao

    • @jimbeam2299
      @jimbeam2299 Год назад

      @@DonaldDonnyDonDonaldson lmao it really does

    • @iodine-53
      @iodine-53 3 месяца назад +3

      I first heard it on goat simulator. I can't get it out of my head 💀

  • @hayforhank3914
    @hayforhank3914 Год назад +86

    One of his best songs to date. Can always rely on this song to pull me out of my dark days

    • @ashj0
      @ashj0 Месяц назад

      How does a song like this pull someone out of their dark days? I feel like it would be the opposite

  • @sodawx
    @sodawx 3 года назад +245

    I wish the Dream stans would see this

    • @whyar3y0uga34
      @whyar3y0uga34 3 года назад +25

      yep and he supports their stanhood being a stan should be a gender too cause its too obbsessive

    • @Yurei2K
      @Yurei2K 3 года назад +41

      Nah bro we gotta show this to BTS Stans. They make Dream Stans look like Dream Fans.

    • @cs7811
      @cs7811 3 года назад +3

      @@Yurei2K lol

    • @cheese5911
      @cheese5911 3 года назад +29

      @@Yurei2K those crazy ass thing treat their idols like God, they disobey their parents but not their idols

    • @kiara8611
      @kiara8611 3 года назад +2

      @@whyar3y0uga34 its cuz when we mean ''we stan dream'' its like saying that we are big fans idk if that makes sense

  • @tonyd-sj3hq
    @tonyd-sj3hq 4 года назад +44

    That last scene with Matthew hugging the Gravestone was just sad

  • @Battle_One
    @Battle_One 8 дней назад

    With social media, we can all be em and stan at the same time.

  • @ILoveHazbinHotel
    @ILoveHazbinHotel Год назад +9

    I'm 12. My dad, since i am starting to like eminem, told me to watch this music video. I love it. It's amazing.

    • @aaqilian5.085
      @aaqilian5.085 4 месяца назад

      Tell your dad he’s a douche and he should be teaching you better.

  • @svnsnt
    @svnsnt Год назад +264

    Arguably the most iconic beat drop

  • @ivyhallquist3159
    @ivyhallquist3159 3 года назад +36

    Can we just take a moment to appreciate how amazing Devon Sawa did playing Stan in this video?

  • @Gats001
    @Gats001 10 месяцев назад +6

    This is one of the deepest songs iv heard in a long time. Its not easy being a fan but even harder being a celebrity

  • @mrpinkmaster
    @mrpinkmaster 3 месяца назад +3

    the craziest villian arc

  • @lewiscarr9127
    @lewiscarr9127 Год назад +240

    Lyrics:
    _(chorus)_
    My tea's gone cold, I'm wondering why I
    Got out of bed at all
    The morning rain clouds up my window
    And I can't see at all
    And even if I could it'll all be gray
    But your picture on my wall
    It reminds me, that it's not so bad
    It's not so bad
    _(chorus)_
    My tea's gone cold, I'm wondering why I
    Got out of bed at all
    The morning rain clouds up my window (window)
    And I can't see at all
    And even if I could it'll all be gray
    But your picture on my wall
    It reminds me, that it's not so bad
    It's not so bad
    Dear Slim, I wrote you but still ain't callin'
    I left my cell, my pager, and my home phone at the bottom
    I sent two letters back in autumn, you must not've got 'em
    There probably was a problem at the post office or somethin'
    Sometimes I scribble addresses, too sloppy when I jot 'em
    But anyways, fuck it, what's been up man, how's your daughter?
    My girlfriend's pregnant too, I'm 'bout to be a father
    If I have a daughter, guess what I'm a call her?
    I'ma name her Bonnie
    I read about your Uncle Ronnie too, I'm sorry
    I had a friend kill himself over some bitch who didn't want him
    I know you probably hear this every day, but I'm your biggest fan
    I even got the underground shit that you did with Skam
    I got a room full of your posters and your pictures, man
    I like the shit you did with Rawkus too, that shit was phat
    Anyways, I hope you get this, man, hit me back
    Just to chat, truly yours, your biggest fan
    This is Stan
    _(chorus)_
    My tea's gone cold, I'm wondering why I
    Got out of bed at all
    The morning rain clouds up my window (window)
    And I can't see at all
    And even if I could it'll all be gray
    But your picture on my wall
    It reminds me, that it's not so bad
    It's not so bad
    Dear Slim, you still ain't called or wrote, I hope you have a chance
    I ain't mad, I just think it's fucked up you don't answer fans
    If you didn't wanna talk to me outside your concert
    You didn't have to, but you could've signed an autograph for Matthew
    That's my little brother, man, he's only six years old
    We waited in the blistering cold for you
    For four hours and you just said, "No"
    That's pretty shitty, man, you're like his fuckin' idol
    He wants to be just like you, man, he likes you more than I do
    I ain't that mad though, I just don't like bein' lied to
    Remember when we met in Denver, you said if I'd write you you would write back
    See, I'm just like you in a way
    I never knew my father neither
    He used to always cheat on my mom and beat her
    I can relate to what you're saying in your songs
    So when I have a shitty day, I drift away and put 'em on
    'Cause I don't really got shit else, so that shit helps when I'm depressed
    I even got a tattoo of your name across the chest
    Sometimes I even cut myself to see how much it bleeds
    It's like adrenaline, the pain is such a sudden rush for me
    See, everything you say is real, and I respect you 'cause you tell it
    My girlfriend's jealous 'cause I talk about you 24/7
    But she don't know you like I know you Slim, no one does
    She don't know what it was like for people like us growin' up, you gotta call me, man
    I'll be the biggest fan you'll ever lose
    Sincerely yours, Stan
    P.S. we should be together too
    _(chorus)_
    My tea's gone cold I'm wondering why I
    Got out of bed at all
    The morning rain clouds up my window (window)
    And I can't see at all
    And even if I could it'll all be gray
    But your picture on my wall
    It reminds me, that it's not so bad
    It's not so bad
    Dear Mr. I'm Too Good To Call Or Write My Fans
    This will be the last package I ever send your ass
    It's been six months and still no word, I don't deserve it?
    I know you got my last two letters, I wrote the addresses on 'em perfect
    So this is my cassette I'm sending you, I hope you hear it
    I'm in the car right now, I'm doing ninety on the freeway
    Hey Slim, I drank a fifth of vodka
    You dare me to drive?
    You know the song by Phil Collins, "In the Air of the Night"
    About that guy who could have saved that other guy from drowning
    But didn't, then Phil saw it all, then at a a show he found him?
    That's kinda how this is, you could a rescued me from drowning
    Now it's too late, I'm on a thousand downers now, I'm drowsy
    And all I wanted was a lousy letter or a call
    I hope you know I ripped all of your pictures off the wall
    I love you Slim, we coulda been together, think about it
    You ruined it now, I hope you can't sleep and you dream about it
    And when you dream I hope you can't sleep and you scream about it
    I hope your conscience eats at you and you can't breathe without me
    See Slim, shut up bitch! I'm tryin' to talk!
    Hey Slim, that's my girlfriend screamin' in the trunk
    But I didn't slit her throat, I just tied her up, see I ain't like you
    'Cause if she suffocates she'll suffer more, and then she'll die too
    Well, gotta go, I'm almost at the bridge now
    Oh shit, I forgot, how am I supposed to send this shit out?
    _(chorus)_
    My tea's gone cold I'm wondering why I
    Got out of bed at all
    The morning rain clouds up my window (window)
    And I can't see at all
    And even if I could it'll all be gray
    But your picture on my wall
    It reminds me, that it's not so bad
    It's not so bad
    Dear Stan, I meant to write you sooner but I just been busy
    You said your girlfriend's pregnant now, how far along is she?
    Look, I'm really flattered you would call your daughter that
    And here's an autograph for your brother
    I wrote it on the Starter cap
    I'm sorry I didn't see you at the show, I must've missed you
    Don't think I did that shit intentionally just to diss you
    But what's this shit you said about you like to cut your wrists too?
    I say that shit just clownin', dawg, come on, how fucked up is you?
    You got some issues Stan, I think you need some counseling
    To help your ass from bouncing off the walls when you get down some
    And what's this shit about us meant to be together?
    That type of shit'll make me not want us to meet each other
    I really think you and your girlfriend need each other
    Or maybe you just need to treat her better
    I hope you get to read this letter, I just hope it reaches you in time
    Before you hurt yourself, I think that you'll be doin' just fine
    If you relax a little, I'm glad I inspire you but Stan
    Why are you so mad? Try to understand, that I do want you as a fan
    I just don't want you to do some crazy shit
    I seen this one shit on the news a couple weeks ago that made me sick
    Some dude was drunk and drove his car over a bridge
    And had his girlfriend in the trunk, and she was pregnant with his kid
    And in the car they found a tape, but they didn't say who it was to
    Come to think about, his name was, it was you
    Damn!

    • @kovic_
      @kovic_ Год назад +8

      Thanks dude

    • @kovic_
      @kovic_ Год назад +8

      Thanks dude

    • @scorpionattitude
      @scorpionattitude 9 месяцев назад +7

      Thank you. I love to read along while I listen. Much appreciated, even a year after said post🖤🔥🦂

    • @producedby3am344
      @producedby3am344 9 месяцев назад +4

      We have ears thank you my guy

    • @lewiscarr9127
      @lewiscarr9127 9 месяцев назад +11

      @@producedby3am344 you clearly don’t have eyes if you can’t see that i made this comment over a year ago

  • @worldwideemarr
    @worldwideemarr 2 года назад +182

    Dido:]
    My tea's gone cold I'm wondering why I got out of bed at all
    The morning rain clouds up my window and I can't see at all
    And even if I could it'd all be gray, but your picture on my wall
    It reminds me, that it's not so bad, it's not so bad
    My tea's gone cold I'm wondering why I got out of bed at all
    The morning rain clouds up my window and I can't see at all
    And even if I could it'd all be gray, but your picture on my wall
    It reminds me, that it's not so bad, it's not so bad
    [Eminem as Stan:]
    Dear Slim, I wrote you but you still ain't calling
    I left my cell, my pager, and my home phone at the bottom
    I sent two letters back in autumn, you must not've got 'em
    There probably was a problem at the post office or something
    Sometimes I scribble addresses too sloppy when I jot 'em
    But anyways; fuck it, what's been up? Man, how's your daughter?
    My girlfriend's pregnant, too, I'm bout to be a father
    If I have a daughter, guess what I'mma call her?
    I'mma name her Bonnie
    I read about your Uncle Ronnie, too, I'm sorry
    I had a friend kill himself over some bitch who didn't want him
    I know you probably hear this every day, but I'm your biggest fan
    I even got the underground shit that you did with Skam
    I got a room full of your posters and your pictures, man
    I like the shit you did with Rawkus, too, that shit was phat
    Anyways, I hope you get this, man, hit me back
    Just to chat, truly yours, your biggest fan
    This is Stan
    [Dido:]
    My tea's gone cold I'm wondering why I got out of bed at all
    The morning rain clouds up my window and I can't see at all
    And even if I could it'd all be gray, but your picture on my wall
    It reminds me, that it's not so bad, it's not so bad
    [Eminem as Stan:]
    Dear Slim, you still ain't called or wrote, I hope you have a chance
    I ain't mad - I just think it's fucked up you don't answer fans
    If you didn't wanna talk to me outside your concert
    You didn't have to, but you could've signed an autograph for Matthew
    That's my little brother man, he's only six years old
    We waited in the blistering cold for you
    For four hours and you just said, "No"
    That's pretty shitty man - you're like his fucking idol
    He wants to be just like you man, he likes you more than I do
    I ain't that mad though, I just don't like being lied to
    Remember when we met in Denver - you said if I'd write you
    You would write back - see I'm just like you in a way
    I never knew my father neither
    He used to always cheat on my mom and beat her
    I can relate to what you're saying in your songs
    So when I have a shitty day, I drift away and put 'em on
    'Cause I don't really got shit else so that shit helps when I'm depressed
    I even got a tattoo of your name across the chest
    Sometimes I even cut myself to see how much it bleeds
    It's like adrenaline, the pain is such a sudden rush for me
    See everything you say is real, and I respect you 'cause you tell it
    My girlfriend's jealous 'cause I talk about you 24/7
    But she don't know you like I know you Slim, no one does
    She don't know what it was like for people like us growing up
    You gotta call me man, I'll be the biggest fan you'll ever lose
    Sincerely yours, Stan
    P.S.
    We should be together, too
    [Dido:]
    My tea's gone cold I'm wondering why I got out of bed at all
    The morning rain clouds up my window and I can't see at all
    And even if I could it'd all be gray, but your picture on my wall
    It reminds me, that it's not so bad, it's not so bad
    [Eminem as Stan:]
    Dear Mister I'm-Too-Good-To-Call-Or-Write-My-Fans,
    This'll be the last package I ever send your ass
    It's been six months and still no word. I don't deserve it?
    I know you got my last two letters;
    I wrote the addresses on 'em perfect
    So this is my cassette I'm sending you, I hope you hear it
    I'm in the car right now, I'm doing 90 on the freeway
    Hey Slim, I drank a fifth of vodka, you dare me to drive?
    You know the song by Phil Collins "In the Air Tonight"
    About that guy who could've saved that other guy from drowning
    But didn't, then Phil saw it all, then at a show he found him?
    That's kinda how this is, you could've rescued me from drowning
    Now it's too late. I'm on a thousand downers now, I'm drowsy
    And all I wanted was a lousy letter or a call
    I hope you know I ripped all of your pictures off the wall
    I loved you, Slim, we could've been together, think about it
    You ruined it now, I hope you can't sleep and you dream about it
    And when you dream I hope you can't sleep and you scream about it
    I hope your conscience eats at you and you can't breathe without me
    See, Slim,-shut up bitch! I'm trying to talk!
    Hey, Slim, that's my girlfriend screaming in the trunk,
    But I didn't slit her throat, I just tied her up. See, I ain't like you
    'Cause if she suffocates she'll suffer more, and then she'll die, too
    Well, gotta go, I'm almost at the bridge now
    Oh shit, I forgot, how am I supposed to send this shit out?
    [*car tires squeal, crash, loud splash*]
    [Dido:]
    My tea's gone cold I'm wondering why I got out of bed at all
    The morning rain clouds up my window and I can't see at all
    And even if I could it'd all be gray, but your picture on my wall
    It reminds me, that it's not so bad, it's not so bad
    [Eminem:]
    Dear Stan, I meant to write you sooner but I've just been busy
    You said your girlfriend's pregnant now, how far along is she?
    Look, I'm really flattered you would call your daughter that
    And here's an autograph for your brother
    I wrote it on the Starter cap
    I'm sorry I didn't see you at the show, I must've missed you
    Don't think I did that shit intentionally just to diss you
    But what's this shit you said about you like to cut your wrists, too?
    I say that shit's just clowning , dawg
    C'mon! How fucked up is you?
    You got some issues, Stan, I think you need some counseling
    To help your ass from bouncing off the walls when you get down some
    And what's this shit about us meant to be together?
    That type of shit'll make me not want us to meet each other
    I really think you and your girlfriend need each other
    Or maybe you just need to treat her better
    I hope you get to read this letter, I just hope it reaches you in time
    Before you hurt yourself, I think that you'll be doing just fine
    If you relax a little, I'm glad I inspire you but, Stan
    Why are you so mad? Try to understand, that I do want you as a fan
    I just don't want you to do some crazy shit
    I seen this one shit on the news a couple weeks ago that made me sick
    Some dude was drunk and drove his car over a bridge
    And had his girlfriend in the trunk, and she was pregnant with his kid
    And in the car they found a tape, but they didn't say who it was to
    Come to think about it, his name was... it was you
    Damn

  • @LunaRoseManor
    @LunaRoseManor Год назад +4

    Stan is a masterclass in horror fiction. It's so well paced and prophetic in its message that it's hard to believe this came out before broadband internet.

  • @lustip8194
    @lustip8194 Год назад +5

    The “damn” at the end makes it kinda funny tho

  • @vickysib0611
    @vickysib0611 3 года назад +877

    Plot twist : Stan's 6 years old brother is MGK

    • @evancosta6622
      @evancosta6622 3 года назад +13

      Tf

    • @DrFatesOrder
      @DrFatesOrder 3 года назад +166

      @@evancosta6622 what do you mean "tf?"
      Stan's 6 year old brother grew up and became Machine Gun Kelly.
      It's pretty simple lol

    • @felixlewis117
      @felixlewis117 3 года назад +114

      @@DrFatesOrder would actually make a lot of sense when you remember MGK used to idolize Eminem

    • @mcdongalemployee
      @mcdongalemployee 3 года назад +14

      holy shit

    • @yoshpeters3079
      @yoshpeters3079 3 года назад +10

      That would make sense but didn’t stan come out in 2000 and mgk was 10 at the time?

  • @JNemRar
    @JNemRar 2 года назад +9

    "Come to think about it.. his name was... it was you" coldest line ever

  • @TheAlphaRider13
    @TheAlphaRider13 2 месяца назад +2

    The Real Version..❤ all time hit Motivational for me.

  • @tedd5361
    @tedd5361 11 месяцев назад +4

    yooo wtf ive probably seen the Stan music video like 20 times in my life, i just noticed this for the first time. its like a 2 second splice, but at the funeral, at 7:39 you can see the aunt take off her kids hood, and the kid has a slim shady haircut, and she looks at him with dread.
    god damn thats so fkn cool cant blv i never noticed that ahahahah

  • @Phantasia.Official
    @Phantasia.Official 3 года назад +1368

    *LYRICS*
    _(chorus)_
    My tea's gone cold I'm wondering why I
    Got out of bed at all
    The morning rain clouds up my window
    And I can't see at all
    And even if I could it'll all be gray
    Put your picture on my wall
    It reminds me, that it's not so bad
    It's not so bad
    _(chorus)_
    My tea's gone cold I'm wondering why I
    Got out of bed at all
    The morning rain clouds up my window
    And I can't see at all
    And even if I could it'll all be gray
    Put your picture on my wall
    It reminds me, that it's not so bad
    It's not so bad
    Dear Slim, I wrote you but still ain't callin'
    I left my cell, my pager, and my home phone at the bottom
    I sent two letters back in autumn, you must not-a got 'em
    There probably was a problem at the post office or somethin'
    Sometimes I scribble addresses too sloppy when I jot 'em
    But anyways, fuck it, what's been up? Man how's your daughter?
    My girlfriend's pregnant too, I'm 'bout to be a father
    If I have a daughter, guess what I'm a call her?
    I'ma name her Bonnie
    I read about your Uncle Ronnie too I'm sorry
    I had a friend kill himself over some bitch who didn't want him
    I know you probably hear this everyday, but I'm your biggest fan
    I even got the underground shit that you did with Skam
    I got a room full of your posters and your pictures man
    I like the shit you did with Rawkus too, that shit was fat
    Anyways, I hope you get this man, hit me back,
    Just to chat, truly yours, your biggest fan
    This is Stan
    _(chorus)_
    My tea's gone cold I'm wondering why I
    Got out of bed at all
    The morning rain clouds up my window
    And I can't see at all
    And even if I could it'll all be gray
    Put your picture on my wall
    It reminds me, that it's not so bad
    It's not so bad
    Dear Slim, you still ain't called or wrote, I hope you have a chance
    I ain't mad, I just think it's fucked up you don't answer fans
    If you didn't wanna talk to me outside your concert
    You didn't have to, but you coulda signed an autograph for Matthew
    That's my little brother man, he's only six years old
    We waited in the blistering cold for you
    For four hours and you just said, "No."
    That's pretty shitty man, you're like his fuckin' idol
    He wants to be just like you man, he likes you more than I do
    I ain't that mad though, I just don't like bein' lied to
    Remember when we met in Denver, you said if I'd write you you would write back
    See I'm just like you in a way
    I never knew my father neither
    He used to always cheat on my mom and beat her
    I can relate to what you're saying in your songs
    So when I have a shitty day, I drift away and put 'em on
    'Cause I don't really got shit else so that shit helps when I'm depressed
    I even got a tattoo of your name across the chest
    Sometimes I even cut myself to see how much it bleeds
    It's like adrenaline, the pain is such a sudden rush for me
    See everything you say is real, and I respect you 'cause you tell it
    My girlfriend's jealous 'cause I talk about you 24/7
    But she don't know you like I know you Slim, no one does
    She don't know what it was like for people like us growin' up, you gotta call me man
    I'll be the biggest fan you'll ever lose
    Sincerely yours, Stan
    P.S. we should be together too
    _(chorus)_
    My tea's gone cold I'm wondering why I
    Got out of bed at all
    The morning rain clouds up my window
    And I can't see at all
    And even if I could it'll all be gray
    Put your picture on my wall
    It reminds me, that it's not so bad
    It's not so bad
    Dear Mister "I'm Too Good To Call Or Write My Fans"
    This will be the last package I ever send your ass
    It's been six months and still no word, I don't deserve it?
    I know you got my last two letters, I wrote the addresses on 'em perfect
    So this is my cassette I'm sending you, I hope you hear it
    I'm in the car right now, I'm doing 90 on the freeway
    Hey Slim, I drank a fifth of vodka
    You dare me to drive?
    You know the song by Phil Collins, "In the Air of the Night"
    About that guy who could a saved that other guy from drowning
    But didn't, then Phil saw it all, then at a a show he found him?
    That's kinda how this is, you could a rescued me from drowning
    Now it's too late, I'm on a thousand downers now, I'm drowsy
    And all I wanted was a lousy letter or a call
    I hope you know I ripped all of your pictures off the wall
    I love you Slim, we coulda been together, think about it
    You ruined it now, I hope you can't sleep and you dream about it
    And when you dream I hope you can't sleep and you scream about it
    I hope your conscience eats at you and you can't breathe without me
    See Slim, shut up bitch! I'm tryin' to talk!
    Hey Slim, that's my girlfriend screamin' in the trunk
    But I didn't slit her throat, I just tied her up, see I ain't like you
    'Cause if she suffocates she'll suffer more, and then she'll die too
    Well, gotta go, I'm almost at the bridge now
    Oh shit, I forgot, how am I supposed to send this shit out?
    _(chorus)_
    My tea's gone cold I'm wondering why I
    Got out of bed at all
    The morning rain clouds up my window
    And I can't see at all
    And even if I could it'll all be gray
    Put your picture on my wall
    It reminds me, that it's not so bad
    It's not so bad
    Dear Stan, I meant to write you sooner but I just been busy
    You said your girlfriend's pregnant now, how far along is she?
    Look, I'm really flattered you would call your daughter that
    And here's an autograph for your brother
    I wrote it on the Starter cap
    I'm sorry I didn't see you at the show, I must of missed you
    Don't think I did that shit intentionally just to diss you
    But what's this shit you said about you like to cut your wrists too?
    I say that shit just clownin' dog, come on, how fucked up is you?
    You got some issues Stan, I think you need some counseling
    To help your ass from bouncing off the walls when you get down some
    And what's this shit about us meant to be together?
    That type of shit will make me not want us to meet each other
    I really think you and your girlfriend need each other
    Or maybe you just need to treat her better
    I hope you get to read this letter, I just hope it reaches you in time
    Before you hurt yourself, I think that you'll be doin' just fine
    If you relax a little, I'm glad I inspire you but Stan
    Why are you so mad? Try to understand, that I do want you as a fan
    I just don't want you to do some crazy shit
    I seen this one shit on the news a couple weeks ago that made me sick
    Some dude was drunk and drove his car over a bridge
    And had his girlfriend in the trunk, and she was pregnant with his kid
    And in the car they found a tape, but they didn't say who it was to
    Come to think about, his name was, it was you
    Damn!

    • @jesu_nvl
      @jesu_nvl 2 года назад +21

      Thanks!

    • @JESUSCHRISTSAVES_
      @JESUSCHRISTSAVES_ 2 года назад +24

      I’m crying 😢 this song bring a lot of memories

    • @atternaVA
      @atternaVA 2 года назад +11

      I thought it was but your picture on my wall

    • @Lucasthepro-pc3kw
      @Lucasthepro-pc3kw 2 года назад +10

      He copy pasted from internet but the Internet got it wrong

    • @Phantasia.Official
      @Phantasia.Official Год назад +6

      @@Lucasthepro-pc3kw WTF are you talking about?
      I listened and wrote down his lyrics he spoken in this video.

  • @alexblack8014
    @alexblack8014 3 года назад +443

    I've heard this song so many times and I just came back to it. I'm still shocked by how amazing it is. The storytelling is amazing. It's incredibly sad, and what makes it even sadder is that stuff like this can actually happen if someone becomes too mentally ill beyond help like Stan was. Stan was so obsessed with Eminem because he was the only one who was able to help him through his mental illness, but it wasn't enough because it wasn't actual therapy. It's honestly really sad. Also idk if this is based on a true story or not but if it is it makes it even sadder and devastating

    • @davidmonroe4741
      @davidmonroe4741 3 года назад +5

      Mark David Chapman was the original Stan.

    • @AverageCurve
      @AverageCurve 2 года назад +3

      @@davidmonroe4741 except he killed the artist

  • @Billz92StONeD
    @Billz92StONeD 29 дней назад +3

    I dont know how 'meet the grahams' got me here but im here

    • @FreeSmokeEA
      @FreeSmokeEA 28 дней назад

      Real life I just did the same thing think he stole the flow lol

  • @Ingens_Scherz
    @Ingens_Scherz Год назад +7

    Fuck I'd forgotten just how raw this was. Still incredible.

  • @kidgee9979
    @kidgee9979 3 года назад +96

    I just realized that the term “stan” referring to die hard fans, comes from this.

    • @crook7493
      @crook7493 3 года назад +18

      stan = stalker fan

    • @samstevens2945
      @samstevens2945 3 года назад +2

      @@crook7493 no, it comes from this song.

    • @CharlesVDoktaur
      @CharlesVDoktaur 3 года назад +26

      @@samstevens2945 no, he’s right.
      Combining “stalker” and “fan” gets “Stan” so that’s why Eminem used that name for this song

    • @XMizzTuraX
      @XMizzTuraX 3 года назад +2

      Literal *die hard* it’s twisted

    • @syphex2882
      @syphex2882 2 года назад +7

      @@CharlesVDoktaur but it does also come from this song so it’s really both

  • @southparkseason7episode119
    @southparkseason7episode119 3 года назад +94

    This sounds creepy but this is my comfort song

    • @jerrygil1965
      @jerrygil1965 3 года назад +3

      It's not creepy at all, it's human

    • @alyssapinon9670
      @alyssapinon9670 3 года назад +19

      Same. For me, Dido has such a nice voice that even when she's signing depressing lyrics it sounds very soothing

  • @ElBlancoBoss
    @ElBlancoBoss Год назад +39

    This shit got my eyes tearful, I can't believe how great and powerful that song really is. Definitely will help me clear my mind when I work out. Stay strong everyone ❤️

  • @quizzesforfun7039
    @quizzesforfun7039 2 месяца назад +5

    Still a masterpiece in 2024

  • @jazzfan033
    @jazzfan033 2 года назад +9

    I love how 80% of Eminem comment sections are just talking about clean/dirty.
    Now, with that out of the way, it's real interesting to look at the brief moment where Stan meets Eminem in the second verse closely. You can see that Em actually looks quite uncomfortable. Not looking enthusiastic at all.

  • @loganbremerman1248
    @loganbremerman1248 4 года назад +86

    I was 15 when this album dropped. Back when you bought a physical C.D. My friend looked like he was 18 and they didnt card him when we bought this. Stayed in the player for weeks straight.

    • @angelastevens8268
      @angelastevens8268 4 года назад +3

      Logan Bremerman me too until my dad heard it and took it from my CD player. A nice red and silver one 😉

    • @jaidendetering8734
      @jaidendetering8734 3 года назад +1

      Those were the days

  • @kendosianez2863
    @kendosianez2863 Год назад +8

    Thanks to my 8th grade teacher, whom was close friends of dido, I discovered didos music, Eminem is the greatest. 30 years old now, and I have to admit as a poor kid, Eminem was my go to. Made me feel like I wasn't the only one going through. Time flies by quick.

  • @dustinsmith869
    @dustinsmith869 3 дня назад

    This might be the best song ever.

  • @waynemyers2469
    @waynemyers2469 2 года назад +1213

    Damn, I'm a 68 year-old ex-construction-worker/hobo/skeptic but I have to admit, this piece of lyrical, melodic music just stunned me. From a purely stylistic standpoint, considering the story, the communicative power and the overarching rhythm tying it all together it was exquisite. I've, of course, heard of Eminem and I've even heard a little bit of his stuff like the theme-song from Godzilla and the thing he does at the end of "Eight Mile", I've heard those but apparently Hollywood isn't getting his good stuff because this was just on a different level. It was meaningful and ordinary at the same time, which is part of the magic, I think, Eminem doesn't appear to be trying to use language as leverage, as so many musicians and writers and performers often do, each in their own way trying to fiddle with your emotions, trying to invoke that emotional response that is the payoff but instead he invites you to walk down to the store with him or he'll talk to you like you just bumped into him coming down the stairs, he's present and he's got something to say and you are moved to listen and so, there-in, lay the true payoff.
    So, I figure I've got a good ten years left in which to broaden my horizons and experience new stuff and sample different things and just keep trying to grow before I wither and end up laying horizontal in a hole while some stranger throws dirt in my face...

    • @brendanfarthing
      @brendanfarthing 2 года назад +68

      Well said. And broadening your horizons will probably give you another 20 years my man. Enjoy the next phase of your life. Eminem is a rare musical and lyrical genius in our life time.

    • @gmoney87ism
      @gmoney87ism Год назад +28

      I hope you’ve got longer than that my friend. But yea, I really enjoy that a contemporary artist is still capable of depth and substance in their lyrics and orchestration

    • @suprcmc
      @suprcmc Год назад +17

      May you live in power here and any dimensions u find yourself in 🪞❤️💯

    • @MailSenih
      @MailSenih Год назад +18

      Randomly replying to your comment but, I hope you have many more than just 10 years to enjoy and explore.
      Much love,
      Liam

    • @B7RZ
      @B7RZ Год назад +7

      respect

  • @gamemodeon4170
    @gamemodeon4170 3 года назад +12

    Stans ghost in the lighting part really scares the shit out of me

  • @kingsmanike
    @kingsmanike День назад

    Stan would be happy wherever he his that Eminem even sang a song in his name

  • @secretyui2038
    @secretyui2038 3 года назад +14

    I love that his voice switch from slim to em