It was so funny, I felt bad cause I was crying with Vale in that moment feeling her emotions then I saw the foot and lost it 😭😭😭😭 Jayco really is a good dad, they are so blessed to have each other 🥹🙌🏼
I went tbrough this as well. I wanted to breast feed my last baby but he didnt want to latch so i used a breast pump and still didnt produce enough milk to feed. I literally pumped for like an hour and would only get like 1/2 an ounce. My breasts were soo sore. My partner said it was time to stop pumping and just stick with formula.
Valentina, you are superwoman. You are NOT a failure. Baby Mateo is so blessed to having a loving and caring mother willing to do anything in her power to make sure he’s well fed and taken care of. And bless you Jayco for being the expectation of what a husband and father should be. ❤
22:25 My heart broke for you val… I’ve been through exactly what you’re going through and trust me when I say you are definitely NO FAILURE.. Your baby is learning his ways alongside w/ you learning as well! you’re doing amazing, keep doing it mama 🤍
Just a tip from one mom to another. Since he gets cold easily and loves to be warm, my daughter was the same way, wrap a cloth around him when he’s in the bath that way when you pour the water over him he’s still covered in the warm wet cloth. It helps a lot. My mom used to do the same thing with me. Love you both
The fact that Jayco changed his lifestyle for vale speaks value I love this for them Vale you are blessed to have a great husband and god blessed yall on the right timing with baby Matthew ❤❤❤❤ I love yall 🙏❤️😊
this video had me crying, smiling, laughing and all of the above!! so proud of you two you guys are AMAZING parents!!! Val you’re such a trooper!!! And you’re doing amazing!!! Ánimo siempre! 🤍🤍🫶🏼
Watching vale become a mom is making me emotional. I’m not usually an emotional person however she’s been transparent about her mental health struggles and this era of her life is so fulfilling for her and it shows.
Wait jayco comforting her with his toes is such a jayco thing to do😂😂 but yes Valentina I feel you on that, I cried and felt like a failure too 😭 just pump as much as you can it’s not to late
I love how real and honest you are . Mainly the part when you let us know you haven’t showered . Every single mom has been through that and they make it seem like everything is flawless! This is the most realistic coming home vlog that I have ever seen! You also showed us how to properly clean the baby because other people make it seem so unrealistic and it’s so annoying. This is real , raw and uncut really. Thank you . Im 31 and I’ve been trying for a baby since I was 18 . I lost 2 but I’m going to keep trying . It’s so positive here. I’m definitely subscribing
I'm sending every ounce of baby blessings your way! I promise that once you give your mind, body and soul time to release and relax your happy, healthy miracle will arrive! Don't punish yourself! So many of us get caught up in the bundle of lifes stress, that we forget to most importantly take the time to care for ourselves! I give you thee very best of luck❤
9:23 saying you have to wait for your mommyyy!!! Yesss so cute she’s so grateful to have you jayco my husband didn’t help wasn’t supportive lead to us almost divorcing but God restored our married I’m now 1 year posportum with 2 babies and we are thriving! Be there for your wife and listen to her! Her body went through more then you can think💓💓💓
I really love the positive outlook jayco has. I feel like moms have a constant reminder their life is going to change during the 40 weeks of pregnancy but for men it hits very late. Great example of a supportive partner
Drink lots of coconut water and water! A lot of water will help produce more and lots of oats will do so too. If you can, power pumping will help produce more but don’t over do it because it’ll be too much to where you start getting that block. Keep going! You got this! As you said a fed baby is a happy baby! Props to you on continuing this breastfeeding journey bc it is def not for the weak!
i’m so proud of you guys y’all have the cutest baby !!! and Valentina don’t feel like a failure because your worth as a mother isn’t measured by how much milk you produce and it don’t make you less of a mom either what matters is the love, comfort and care you give to your baby you both are doing an incredible job and Matthew is to lucky and blessed to have parents like you and Jayco ❤
Omg I literally cried 3 times watching this because being a parent to a newborn can be so difficult. My sister had to do her whole pregnancy and give birth and currently 3 months in with my precious nephew she did everything without the baby daddy. It’s just been her and our whole family helping raising him with no dad. Her boyfriend has done so much more for her baby than the actual baby daddy so seeing this just makes me so happy. Wish you all the best ❤
This video is what should be trending, real genuine honest souls going through beautiful moments while walking with god 🩷 you guys are doing amazing and I’m so happy for you guys!!!!!!!! Valentina girl you did what most couldn’t, definitely keep giving yourself some grace! You got this mama’
My mom was a lactation consultant for decades before she retired. Everything you're going through is common, it's normal, and exactly what you said, in that the most important thing is bottle or breast, he's getting the nutrition he needs to grow. Keep your head up, its okay to cry and feel all the feels, but you're going great!
Parenting is the hardest but most awarding experience, remember every baby is different do whatever works best for you guys… my baby turns 3 in April. ENJOY EVERY MOMENT. It truly goes by in a blink of an eye. You’re going to miss the newborn bubble
Jayco putting on the little boots as mittens was so funny😭😭 You guys are doing amazing. Wishing you guys nothing but the best on this beautiful journey 🫂❤️!!
I love this and felt this to my core, husband and I were the same way after we had our son, he is now 1 years old, so happy for you guys, and Matthew is so blessed to have you guys as his parents!!! Blessing xoxo❤❤
I have 3 kids. My oldest was the formula-fed baby. I was doing everything to breastfeed but my mom gave her the bottle. She kept telling me that a fed baby is the best baby. NEVER EVER LET ANYONE AND YOURSELF THAT YOU FAILED. You did what is best for YOUR baby. I highly suggest finding a parenting support group and a mommy group. Made lots of friends. Don't doubt yourself. I can tell you that being a parent is most rewarding but difficult journey.
Mama of 3 here, I have a four month old and this is my first time being able to produce enough milk for my daughter. My first two daughters, I couldn’t make enough. You’re doing perfectly great, mama. What jayco said, take it day by day! You guys have such good support system! Keep it up! I just had to keep reminding myself that she is getting fed, i had to power pump once, maybe twice the most (1 in the early morning and 1 at night). I followed the 20 min pump, 10 min break, 10 min pump, 10 minute break, and then 10 min pump. It worked like magic.
Seeing everything val went through and just how she is handling everything gives me so much hope and faith currently 37 weeks 1st time mommy im superrrrr nervous for the process but super excited to see my baby boy and just hold him
Jayco comforting you with his foot 🥹🥹 I’m sorry that breast feeding has been hard on you, but you’re truly INCREDIBLE!! you two as parents is so inspiring!!
i was literally crying watching this, i’m so happy for you guys. vale your so blessed to have such an amazing partner by your side, i pray for this when my time comes. god bless your beautiful family !!
Just wanted to give a tip I was given after I had my second baby. For formula fed babies my nurse that discharged me recommended to boil a good amount of water and then pour into multiple bottles for throughout the day and night so you don’t have to make it every time baby is hungry. BEST TIP EVER imo. And also, so proud of you for breastfeeding! It’s tough and takes time to adjust to. I originally had my second baby on formula due to some complications with my son but after I was able to bring him home I was doing formula and breastfeeding. My four month old is now exclusively breastfed. Has gotten so much easier with time. Give yourself some grace beautiful momma. You and your husband are doing amazing! Welcome to parenthood.
you guys are so pure, my heart! I am so proud of you mama, you're so strong and a super mommy! Dad you're so supportive, you raised the standards! seriously AHH ILY BOTH and baby Matthew! God bless your family!
You got this Val!! Oatmeal, coconut water, lactation supplements, lactation cookies they work like a charm!! You got this!! God bless you guys you’re doing amazing 🫶🏼
Aww Valentina, when you cried about the breastfeeding, I cried with you. I remember my milk really did not come in until almost a week. I got really sick with mastitis so many times it was worse than labor. I was sooo hard on myself. Breastfeeding did get easier but I wish I was not hard on myself. There is hope but pls be easy on yourself. Now with my second baby I promised to be easy on myself. A fed baby is better than a starving baby. It’s so easy to mom shame ourselves. Pls pls be give yourself more grace. Sending you a big mom hug ❤ God bless you always Val ❤❤❤
I’ve been right there with you momma! YOU’RE NOT ALONE! The fact that it makes you so upset shows just what an amazing mom you are and how much you care! You’re doing amazing!! Just take one feed at a time! ❤
Girl, like you said a fed baby is better than a starving baby! Don't be so hard on yourself! Breastfeeding is so hard mentally! People don't understand who never did it! Your rocking it as a mom! God bless you guys! ❤
My daughter is 4 years old and i instantly teared up when i heard baby cry in car seat 🥹 I remember the moment like it was yesterday. Hug him so tight and don’t waste any moment 🥲 it goes by so fast it’s crazy
Congratulations how beautiful this video is for baby Mathew to always have and look back at when he gets older. You two complement each other so perfectly and I feel the genuine love through the screen to where so many times I’ve got teary eye for your beautiful family. May God continue to bless you guys❤
7:54 he’s so cute! ❤but his head shouldn’t lean to the side like that, you should add in the newborn insert that they sell for newborns so that this shouldn’t happen
You got this momma! As a first time mom, I also cried thinking I wasn’t going to be able to breastfeed baby the first couple weeks but keep latching baby he’ll get the hang of it. You’re doing great 💙
You guys are just amazing. What a great dad this little guy has. Mama you’re just amazing. Don’t be hard on yourself. You are an amazing mama. Matthew has great parents. Y’all have touched my heart in ways you’ll never know. This is truly a Heavenly family. God has truly blessed this family.
I’m an OB nurse! Don’t feel like a failure. Some women’s bodies do not produce much milk. As long as baby is fed and happy and healthy, that’s what matters. Keep pumping, keep massaging and keep stimulating with the baby to help with breastfeeding! You’re doing amazing ❤
Hi momma , you’re not a failure! It takes time and patience. As long as he is fed that’s all that matters! When I had my daughter she wouldn’t latch right either. I felt the same way. you have a good support system! God bless you guys 🩵
So so happy for you 3. Thank you for sharing your precious time. I watched all of your love. Your baby is so blessed to have you two as his parents... I live in Maple Grove, Minnesota .I feel blessed to be able to see your story.
The comforting foot rub from Jayco while she was emotional about switching to formula SENT ME😂😂❤You two are so amazing and such loving parents. A fed baby is a happy baby❤and ya’ll are doing amazing!
🥺 Sending love your way valentina .. don't feel like a failure .. he's fed that's all that matters ! My baby boy is 2 and i remember crying because i was so dissapointed that i couldn't produce as much milk as i wanted too .. i'm just so glad i had my fiancé by my side &' you have jayco 🫶🏻 just make sure you're open with him through this time . . let him know how you're feeling and when you have help take it ! i know it's hard but it's also very easy to lose yourself in this vulnerable state . xoxo god bless you guys and baby boy 🤍
Valentina and Jayco your love and your partnership makes parenthood look easy. Im so happy yll have eachother to lean on. God bless you guys and Matthew🤍
22:57 as a breastfeeding mom you definitely got this it’s the most tiring job but also so rewarding I did one year of pumping it had its ups and downs but I’m so glad I keep strong . Drink alots of water and eat , eat and eat try lactation cookies or oatmeal!!!💙
Wow your a true trooper mama. You did great having him all natural. He was a big baby! Congrats on the birth of Matthew. Magician, he's so precious . Keep us updated on his progress
New subscriber from the birth video here! Although I been discovered y’all. So happy to be with you guys. You are going to be great mothers and father’s!! 🥹❤
When God decided to send that little angel your way he knew you are so perfect to be his parents and val you are not a failure carrying that angel for 9month going through unbearable pain for 52hours and brought him out perfect and healthy ,there is no words in this whole world that can define how amazing and strong you are not every woman out here can do or take half of what you did congratulations to you two we thank God for everything that he has done
Watched your brith story! I’m 32 weeks and you gave me that motivation to not get an epidural! Prayers to you and your family! God was with you every step 💗
While watching vale giving birth made me so emotional to the point I was crying because I know you’re going to be a great mother for Matthew. God bless both of y’all. I’m so happy for you vale.
I hope you read this VALENTINA !! Don’t be so hard on yourself I can see you’re very emotional too and I was also like that after my baby came ! Your hormones are everywhere but y’all are doing great!!! Newborn stage is the hardest
It’ll get easier guys!!! Coming from a mom of two, I combo fed right out of the hospital, then exclusively breastfed when my milk came in. Both boys were exclusively breastfed! I’m just an “enougher” but I’m so thankful I can provide them whatever they need! It may take a bit for your milk to come in too. Don’t be too hard on yourself. You’re doing amazing mama! You’ve done one of the hardest and most amazing things in the world. Give yourself grace! 🤍
I honestly love seeing these vlogs you guys are very transparent with us and not most ppl r 🥺 seeing Valentina body after labor is just so beautiful🥺🩷 I am not a parent myself, but I enjoy watching these Vlogs because I do want to have my own baby soon with my partner and you guys being transparent with us really does help prepare me for the future, but I also can feel the love that is coming through from your these videos 🥹🙏 once again congratulations and welcome to the world Matthew🩵
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omg i love how valentina carries herself 😭 she lets herself feel her emotions but also gives herself some grace & keeps a positive mindset
Mama did amazing. I know I couldn’t handle it without any epidural. I had to have an epidural so hats off to you, mama.❤❤❤❤❤❤❤🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉
This parent life was definitely for you two! 🥰🫶
Okay I love it jayco massaging her with his feet to comfort her 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 22:37
Oop Val if I waited a couple secs hahahha🤣🤣🤣🤣💕💕
It was so funny, I felt bad cause I was crying with Vale in that moment feeling her emotions then I saw the foot and lost it 😭😭😭😭 Jayco really is a good dad, they are so blessed to have each other 🥹🙌🏼
@johanniecruz7050BYE SAME 😭😭😭
Yasss 🫶🏻
What a beautiful loving couple They are going to be the best mum and dad to baby Mathew 😊🇬🇧
You’re not a failure girl. Some moms just don’t produce enough and it’s just the way it is. God knows you are the best mama
I went tbrough this as well. I wanted to breast feed my last baby but he didnt want to latch so i used a breast pump and still didnt produce enough milk to feed. I literally pumped for like an hour and would only get like 1/2 an ounce. My breasts were soo sore. My partner said it was time to stop pumping and just stick with formula.
What a blessing it is that when Matthew gets older he can watch all of these clips back and know how much his parents love him
this is all i kept thinking about, he’s going to SOB
Valentina, you are superwoman. You are NOT a failure. Baby Mateo is so blessed to having a loving and caring mother willing to do anything in her power to make sure he’s well fed and taken care of. And bless you Jayco for being the expectation of what a husband and father should be. ❤
22:25 My heart broke for you val… I’ve been through exactly what you’re going through and trust me when I say you are definitely NO FAILURE.. Your baby is learning his ways alongside w/ you learning as well! you’re doing amazing, keep doing it mama 🤍
I love seeing you guys as parents! Val you’re radiating a different glow!🥹🩷
Just a tip from one mom to another. Since he gets cold easily and loves to be warm, my daughter was the same way, wrap a cloth around him when he’s in the bath that way when you pour the water over him he’s still covered in the warm wet cloth. It helps a lot. My mom used to do the same thing with me. Love you both
Yes I would do the same with all 3 girls
We did that with our boy too!
25:07 jayco realizing his booties weren’t for his hand 😭😭😭
he really said “i didn’t find them 😕”😭😭😭😭
i know😂
The fact that Jayco changed his lifestyle for vale speaks value
I love this for them
Vale you are blessed to have a great husband and god blessed yall on the right timing with baby Matthew ❤❤❤❤ I love yall 🙏❤️😊
this video had me crying, smiling, laughing and all of the above!! so proud of you two you guys are AMAZING parents!!! Val you’re such a trooper!!! And you’re doing amazing!!! Ánimo siempre! 🤍🤍🫶🏼
El pie de Jayco trying to comfort you 😂🥹
that was so cute !! holding the baby but him trying to comfort his baby (valentina) at the same time 😭💕🥹
each time vale says shes gonna cry makes me wanna cry , Congrats Val and Jayco!!!!
I don't think in my whole life I've ever seen a father so involved you're such a great father Jacob keep up the good work... ❤
Watching vale become a mom is making me emotional. I’m not usually an emotional person however she’s been transparent about her mental health struggles and this era of her life is so fulfilling for her and it shows.
Wait jayco comforting her with his toes is such a jayco thing to do😂😂 but yes Valentina I feel you on that, I cried and felt like a failure too 😭 just pump as much as you can it’s not to late
0:17 lmao dispatched is funny. They need to have a good days rest to catch up.
32:54 I STARTED BAWLINF WHEN VALENTINA STARTED CRYING, JAYCO SUCHHH A SWEET MAN
I love how real and honest you are . Mainly the part when you let us know you haven’t showered . Every single mom has been through that and they make it seem like everything is flawless! This is the most realistic coming home vlog that I have ever seen! You also showed us how to properly clean the baby because other people make it seem so unrealistic and it’s so annoying. This is real , raw and uncut really. Thank you . Im 31 and I’ve been trying for a baby since I was 18 . I lost 2 but I’m going to keep trying . It’s so positive here. I’m definitely subscribing
I'm sending every ounce of baby blessings your way! I promise that once you give your mind, body and soul time to release and relax your happy, healthy miracle will arrive! Don't punish yourself! So many of us get caught up in the bundle of lifes stress, that we forget to most importantly take the time to care for ourselves! I give you thee very best of luck❤
@Sunset252 thank you so so much !!!
Awe I'm 33 and have lost 3, still trying but so afraid. I feel you ❤
i lost it when he started reassuring her with his foot
9:23 saying you have to wait for your mommyyy!!! Yesss so cute she’s so grateful to have you jayco my husband didn’t help wasn’t supportive lead to us almost divorcing but God restored our married I’m now 1 year posportum with 2 babies and we are thriving! Be there for your wife and listen to her! Her body went through more then you can think💓💓💓
I really love the positive outlook jayco has. I feel like moms have a constant reminder their life is going to change during the 40 weeks of pregnancy but for men it hits very late. Great example of a supportive partner
“dispatched” 10 seconds in Jayco 😂😂
Drink lots of coconut water and water! A lot of water will help produce more and lots of oats will do so too. If you can, power pumping will help produce more but don’t over do it because it’ll be too much to where you start getting that block. Keep going! You got this! As you said a fed baby is a happy baby! Props to you on continuing this breastfeeding journey bc it is def not for the weak!
Yes! And bone broth
i’m so proud of you guys y’all have the cutest baby !!! and Valentina don’t feel like a failure because your worth as a mother isn’t measured by how much milk you produce and it don’t make you less of a mom either what matters is the love, comfort and care you give to your baby you both are doing an incredible job and Matthew is to lucky and blessed to have parents like you and Jayco ❤
Omg I literally cried 3 times watching this because being a parent to a newborn can be so difficult. My sister had to do her whole pregnancy and give birth and currently 3 months in with my precious nephew she did everything without the baby daddy. It’s just been her and our whole family helping raising him with no dad. Her boyfriend has done so much more for her baby than the actual baby daddy so seeing this just makes me so happy. Wish you all the best ❤
awwww this is so precious🥹 i just started watching recently but i’m excited to see more of little matthew! i love you guys❤
This video is what should be trending, real genuine honest souls going through beautiful moments while walking with god 🩷 you guys are doing amazing and I’m so happy for you guys!!!!!!!! Valentina girl you did what most couldn’t, definitely keep giving yourself some grace! You got this mama’
My mom was a lactation consultant for decades before she retired. Everything you're going through is common, it's normal, and exactly what you said, in that the most important thing is bottle or breast, he's getting the nutrition he needs to grow. Keep your head up, its okay to cry and feel all the feels, but you're going great!
Parenting is the hardest but most awarding experience, remember every baby is different do whatever works best for you guys… my baby turns 3 in April. ENJOY EVERY MOMENT. It truly goes by in a blink of an eye. You’re going to miss the newborn bubble
Aww I love how peluche was so excited to meet Mathew it was so wholesome 🥹🥰
awww i literally started to tear up when peluche was sniffing him🥹🥹 such a beautiful family!!
Jayco putting on the little boots as mittens was so funny😭😭 You guys are doing amazing. Wishing you guys nothing but the best on this beautiful journey 🫂❤️!!
Those are the moments that will always be with you guys and moments you get to look back 🥹🫶 May God keep blessing you guys ✝️
amen!!
When Valentina started i started crying 😢
I love this and felt this to my core, husband and I were the same way after we had our son, he is now 1 years old, so happy for you guys, and Matthew is so blessed to have you guys as his parents!!! Blessing xoxo❤❤
A fed baby is a happy baby. Everyone is different please don’t let mommy expectations/experiences get to you love. You’re already an amazing momma ❤
I have 3 kids. My oldest was the formula-fed baby. I was doing everything to breastfeed but my mom gave her the bottle. She kept telling me that a fed baby is the best baby. NEVER EVER LET ANYONE AND YOURSELF THAT YOU FAILED. You did what is best for YOUR baby. I highly suggest finding a parenting support group and a mommy group. Made lots of friends. Don't doubt yourself. I can tell you that being a parent is most rewarding but difficult journey.
Mama of 3 here, I have a four month old and this is my first time being able to produce enough milk for my daughter. My first two daughters, I couldn’t make enough. You’re doing perfectly great, mama. What jayco said, take it day by day! You guys have such good support system! Keep it up!
I just had to keep reminding myself that she is getting fed, i had to power pump once, maybe twice the most (1 in the early morning and 1 at night). I followed the 20 min pump, 10 min break, 10 min pump, 10 minute break, and then 10 min pump. It worked like magic.
Seeing everything val went through and just how she is handling everything gives me so much hope and faith currently 37 weeks 1st time mommy im superrrrr nervous for the process but super excited to see my baby boy and just hold him
Jayco comforting you with his foot 🥹🥹 I’m sorry that breast feeding has been hard on you, but you’re truly INCREDIBLE!! you two as parents is so inspiring!!
i was literally crying watching this, i’m so happy for you guys. vale your so blessed to have such an amazing partner by your side, i pray for this when my time comes. god bless your beautiful family !!
you guys are the cutest parents ever omg i been following you guys for a long time now and im so proud of you guys i love you guys
Just wanted to give a tip I was given after I had my second baby. For formula fed babies my nurse that discharged me recommended to boil a good amount of water and then pour into multiple bottles for throughout the day and night so you don’t have to make it every time baby is hungry. BEST TIP EVER imo. And also, so proud of you for breastfeeding! It’s tough and takes time to adjust to. I originally had my second baby on formula due to some complications with my son but after I was able to bring him home I was doing formula and breastfeeding. My four month old is now exclusively breastfed. Has gotten so much easier with time. Give yourself some grace beautiful momma. You and your husband are doing amazing! Welcome to parenthood.
you guys are so pure, my heart! I am so proud of you mama, you're so strong and a super mommy! Dad you're so supportive, you raised the standards! seriously AHH ILY BOTH and baby Matthew! God bless your family!
being dispatched as parents is the best feeling 😂 congrats you two ❤
You got this Val!! Oatmeal, coconut water, lactation supplements, lactation cookies they work like a charm!! You got this!! God bless you guys you’re doing amazing 🫶🏼
Aww Valentina, when you cried about the breastfeeding, I cried with you. I remember my milk really did not come in until almost a week. I got really sick with mastitis so many times it was worse than labor. I was sooo hard on myself. Breastfeeding did get easier but I wish I was not hard on myself. There is hope but pls be easy on yourself. Now with my second baby I promised to be easy on myself. A fed baby is better than a starving baby. It’s so easy to mom shame ourselves. Pls pls be give yourself more grace. Sending you a big mom hug ❤ God bless you always Val ❤❤❤
I’ve been right there with you momma! YOU’RE NOT ALONE! The fact that it makes you so upset shows just what an amazing mom you are and how much you care! You’re doing amazing!! Just take one feed at a time! ❤
Girl, like you said a fed baby is better than a starving baby! Don't be so hard on yourself! Breastfeeding is so hard mentally! People don't understand who never did it! Your rocking it as a mom! God bless you guys! ❤
My daughter is 4 years old and i instantly teared up when i heard baby cry in car seat 🥹 I remember the moment like it was yesterday. Hug him so tight and don’t waste any moment 🥲 it goes by so fast it’s crazy
Thank you for being so transparent about the whole breastfeeding situation because I feel like I’m not alone that’s exactly what happened to me 🥺
I literally cried the whole video seeing Valentina & Jayco being the best parents to baby Matthew ❤️❤️❤️🥹🥹🥹💘💘
Congratulations how beautiful this video is for baby Mathew to always have and look back at when he gets older. You two complement each other so perfectly and I feel the genuine love through the screen to where so many times I’ve got teary eye for your beautiful family. May God continue to bless you guys❤
You are both so loving with each other and little Mathew.This is how families should be. So loving..
7:54 he’s so cute! ❤but his head shouldn’t lean to the side like that, you should add in the newborn insert that they sell for newborns so that this shouldn’t happen
Valentina A FAILURE?!! Ur literally superwoman you’ve gotten so far!!! So proud of you 🫶🏻🫶🏻
You got this momma! As a first time mom, I also cried thinking I wasn’t going to be able to breastfeed baby the first couple weeks but keep latching baby he’ll get the hang of it. You’re doing great 💙
You guys are just amazing. What a great dad this little guy has. Mama you’re just amazing. Don’t be hard on yourself. You are an amazing mama. Matthew has great parents. Y’all have touched my heart in ways you’ll never know. This is truly a Heavenly family. God has truly blessed this family.
I’m an OB nurse! Don’t feel like a failure. Some women’s bodies do not produce much milk. As long as baby is fed and happy and healthy, that’s what matters. Keep pumping, keep massaging and keep stimulating with the baby to help with breastfeeding! You’re doing amazing ❤
The way we can actually see how val turned the switch from her old self to her new mom self😍
Valentina is so strong, oh Vale, I cried with you😢😢😢
How precious is this video 🤍
Hi momma , you’re not a failure! It takes time and patience. As long as he is fed that’s all that matters! When I had my daughter she wouldn’t latch right either. I felt the same way. you have a good support system! God bless you guys 🩵
So so happy for you 3. Thank you for sharing your precious time. I watched all of your love. Your baby is so blessed to have you two as his parents... I live in Maple Grove, Minnesota .I feel blessed to be able to see your story.
You guys were meant to be parents 🥺 may God keep blessing your beautiful family!🙏🏼💞
you guys are the most genuine family channels!! love you guys and may god always be with you.
You guys have me smiling so hard & tearing! Valentina is such an emotional person, I can relate 😭
The comforting foot rub from Jayco while she was emotional about switching to formula SENT ME😂😂❤You two are so amazing and such loving parents. A fed baby is a happy baby❤and ya’ll are doing amazing!
the BOOTIES as mittens hahah I died!😂😂😂 25:36
I also had a hard time producing what helped me was milky oatmeal and body armours/electrolites!
3:52 aww his little crying 🥲🥲 such a beautiful family 💗💗
🥺 Sending love your way valentina .. don't feel like a failure .. he's fed that's all that matters !
My baby boy is 2 and i remember crying because i was so dissapointed that i couldn't produce as much milk as i wanted too .. i'm just so glad i had my fiancé by my side &' you have jayco 🫶🏻 just make sure you're open with him through this time . . let him know how you're feeling and when you have help take it ! i know it's hard but it's also very easy to lose yourself in this vulnerable state . xoxo god bless you guys and baby boy 🤍
Valentina and Jayco your love and your partnership makes parenthood look easy. Im so happy yll have eachother to lean on. God bless you guys and Matthew🤍
que bellos momento y Matthew tan lindo y tierno❤❤❤❤❤
You guys are such good parents❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
22:57 as a breastfeeding mom you definitely got this it’s the most tiring job but also so rewarding I did one year of pumping it had its ups and downs but I’m so glad I keep strong . Drink alots of water and eat , eat and eat try lactation cookies or oatmeal!!!💙
This!! Breastfeeding was so hard especially the first month but pushed through & was able to exclusively breastfeed for a year & 3 months
32:13 Mathew was like: 👎🤛👊
OMGG MATTHEW IS SO LUCKY TO HAVE U BOTH AS PARENTS
Matthew is a beautiful baby boy. Congratulations again guys. So happy for you!❤
Awww I wanted to cry seeing Val mom recording them arriving home with baby Matthew!
He is soo loved and he doesn’t even know it yet!
Wow your a true trooper mama. You did great having him all natural. He was a big baby! Congrats on the birth of Matthew. Magician, he's so precious . Keep us updated on his progress
you got this momma ! and shoutout to jayco for being such a supportive partner
crying this is so beautiful. may God bless your family!
This video was a reminder to not settle one day we will all find our person to do life with!!! God bless yall
25:26 he looks like a doll ❤❤He’s so precious. And I love how Jayce put the booties on his hands like they were mittens.
New subscriber from the birth video here! Although I been discovered y’all. So happy to be with you guys. You are going to be great mothers and father’s!! 🥹❤
when jayco brought the flowers to val, i cried! and i'm not really the emotional kind of person. yall are so so precious. we love you guys!
When God decided to send that little angel your way he knew you are so perfect to be his parents and val you are not a failure carrying that angel for 9month going through unbearable pain for 52hours and brought him out perfect and healthy ,there is no words in this whole world that can define how amazing and strong you are not every woman out here can do or take half of what you did congratulations to you two we thank God for everything that he has done
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Watched your brith story! I’m 32 weeks and you gave me that motivation to not get an epidural! Prayers to you and your family! God was with you every step 💗
While watching vale giving birth made me so emotional to the point I was crying because I know you’re going to be a great mother for Matthew. God bless both of y’all. I’m so happy for you vale.
I hope you read this VALENTINA !! Don’t be so hard on yourself I can see you’re very emotional too and I was also like that after my baby came ! Your hormones are everywhere but y’all are doing great!!! Newborn stage is the hardest
It’ll get easier guys!!! Coming from a mom of two, I combo fed right out of the hospital, then exclusively breastfed when my milk came in. Both boys were exclusively breastfed! I’m just an “enougher” but I’m so thankful I can provide them whatever they need! It may take a bit for your milk to come in too. Don’t be too hard on yourself. You’re doing amazing mama! You’ve done one of the hardest and most amazing things in the world. Give yourself grace! 🤍
Jayco comforting Valentina with his feet 😭🤣
oh my when you both started singing to him I lost it completely!! such precious moments, can't wait to have a family of my own🥲🩵
Best mommy and daddy to baby Matthew, god knew the beautiful life he’s created for you all 🤍🥹🙏
This is just beautiful, watched this with a knot in my throat, god bless the 3 of you
Matthew is so so so lucky to have such good parents
I honestly love seeing these vlogs you guys are very transparent with us and not most ppl r 🥺 seeing Valentina body after labor is just so beautiful🥺🩷 I am not a parent myself, but I enjoy watching these Vlogs because I do want to have my own baby soon with my partner and you guys being transparent with us really does help prepare me for the future, but I also can feel the love that is coming through from your these videos 🥹🙏 once again congratulations and welcome to the world Matthew🩵