In the fact that she won’t even take responsibility for any of it is what makes me annoyed. It’s bad enough that she already did it, but at least have the decency to apologize.
I'm looking at it another way. The liquor was a gift for them. So if they just give the drinks away, not a gift anymore. Many people do not have open bars at weddings. I think it was their prerogative.
That's your fault for going to a wedding you have to pay for booze. I would never, that's so cheap and even more so that they are keeping the money. I would rather get married at the court house than have to make my guests pay for booze at MY WEDDING. People travel from out of state, pay for hotels, cars, etc. It is your wedding, but you should be a good host. It would be different if they really couldn't afford to have an open bar, but it sounds like they got the money and still decided to deceive their friends.
I think that was a genius idea. I had a request for my wedding...monetary gifts only. My wedding was paid for in full from those gifts honeymoon included
If they had been up front about it, it wouldn't have been a big deal. Its the fact that they went about it very sneaky that everyones upset. The husband even gloated about scamming everyone.
If they later found out a relative was covering the bar tab and they decided to just keep it a cash bar I don’t see it as being any different than them charging in the first place to help with the cost. The relative obviously did it for them not everyone else. It’s actually pretty scummy to expect money back when you found out the money was going to them.
**the way the bride handled it with the "poker" tournament is pretty gross. But in general I don't see the big deal , it's a wedding I've been to multiple weddings where that type of situation was made publicly aware ..I honestly don't see the big deal and to ask for an apology is at this point is rather petty
I don't think any of their friends should have been pissed. They are supposed to be at a wedding to love and support the bride and groom. So, they kept the cash from the alcohol. Who cares? That would give them whatever opportunity they needed to start a new life together. Granted, knowing the groom wanted to enter a poker tournament with it is stupid as hell.
@@sonyahesler5400 It's not other people's jobs to pay for your wedding. If you can't afford a huge wedding, don't have one. It's all about a "new life together" anyway, isn't it?
He is a crappy friend. The bride and groom had to feed you, pay for a place to party. Half of the ones that show up don’t bring gifts. They have a honey moon to pay for so the least you can do is pay for your alcohol. You ate and partied for free, next time bring your own alcohol weirdos.
It was a gift to the bride and groom. Not a gift to the guests. They already had to pay for the food, drinks, & cake they all ate and the venue (maybe). If they didn't want to pay, no one forced them to pay. I think it was a great idea to get a return on all the money they already spent on everyone else. Weddings are never about the bride and groom. It's to impress and please the guests. So I say they don't owe anyone anything.
Once you get a gift, it’s your gift to do whatever you want with it. If they want to sell their gift of alcohol, it’s up to them it’s up to them . The guests would have been paying one way or another. If you don’t want to pay for your drinks, then don’t pay for them.
I don’t think they were scammed, they paid for their drinks like people would at any bar. Am I scammed if my neighbor sells me cookies because we’re friends, of course not, I got what I paid for, even if the cookies were gifted to them.
I don’t think the caller should have made this a big deal or told all the other guests. Yes alcohol should have been free but the bride/groom doesn’t owe people a meal and all the alcohol. They could have made 1-2 free then charge for the rest, either way gifts & money given to the wedding couple should be used for their future whether it came from the alcohol fund or gifts but to act like you’re owed money bc you paid for the alcohol you bought is just ridiculous. They would have paid for alcohol to party else where anyways.
they cashed in their wedding gift. so what? like no couple ever returned a gift for it’s value? they did it this way. it’s their gift, their wedding and their choice.
The money wasn't stolen. Whether the booze was gifted or not, the couple has the right to charge or not charge. Weddings are expensive and if they were able to cut a corner then congratulations to them.
That bride is shady af! I’d steer clear of that friendship 😂
In the fact that she won’t even take responsibility for any of it is what makes me annoyed.
It’s bad enough that she already did it, but at least have the decency to apologize.
I would of came to both of them sober the next day a reminded him he told me and ask for my cut 🤣
I'm looking at it another way. The liquor was a gift for them. So if they just give the drinks away, not a gift anymore. Many people do not have open bars at weddings. I think it was their prerogative.
The gift of the free alcohol was given to the bride and groom, not the guests. The guests got what they paid for. They were not cheated in any way.
They SHOULD have put the gift money towards the bar tab for free drinks, then cash after that money runs out. THAT'S what you do if you aren't shady.
That's your fault for going to a wedding you have to pay for booze. I would never, that's so cheap and even more so that they are keeping the money. I would rather get married at the court house than have to make my guests pay for booze at MY WEDDING. People travel from out of state, pay for hotels, cars, etc. It is your wedding, but you should be a good host. It would be different if they really couldn't afford to have an open bar, but it sounds like they got the money and still decided to deceive their friends.
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It'd be a little weird to me that they charge for drinks, but I wouldn't care that much. Then again, I'm not much of a drinker, lol.
I think that was a genius idea. I had a request for my wedding...monetary gifts only. My wedding was paid for in full from those gifts honeymoon included
If they had been up front about it, it wouldn't have been a big deal. Its the fact that they went about it very sneaky that everyones upset. The husband even gloated about scamming everyone.
Y’all STOP When people show you who they are, don’t question it EVER 🤔
It's healthy to question.
If they later found out a relative was covering the bar tab and they decided to just keep it a cash bar I don’t see it as being any different than them charging in the first place to help with the cost. The relative obviously did it for them not everyone else. It’s actually pretty scummy to expect money back when you found out the money was going to them.
Honestly I don't even think it's anybody's business where the money goes who cares. Either buy a drink or don't
**the way the bride handled it with the "poker" tournament is pretty gross.
But in general
I don't see the big deal , it's a wedding I've been to multiple weddings where that type of situation was made publicly aware
..I honestly don't see the big deal and to ask for an apology is at this point is rather petty
I can’t believe you all even called this woman.
I don't think any of their friends should have been pissed. They are supposed to be at a wedding to love and support the bride and groom. So, they kept the cash from the alcohol. Who cares? That would give them whatever opportunity they needed to start a new life together. Granted, knowing the groom wanted to enter a poker tournament with it is stupid as hell.
I agree with you. Besides weddings are expensive asf. It shouldn’t be that big a deal
@@sonyahesler5400 It's not other people's jobs to pay for your wedding. If you can't afford a huge wedding, don't have one. It's all about a "new life together" anyway, isn't it?
Friends like some broke ass friends demanding their $50 back to try and make rent 😂
He is a crappy friend. The bride and groom had to feed you, pay for a place to party. Half of the ones that show up don’t bring gifts. They have a honey moon to pay for so the least you can do is pay for your alcohol. You ate and partied for free, next time bring your own alcohol weirdos.
It was a gift to the bride and groom. Not a gift to the guests. They already had to pay for the food, drinks, & cake they all ate and the venue (maybe). If they didn't want to pay, no one forced them to pay. I think it was a great idea to get a return on all the money they already spent on everyone else. Weddings are never about the bride and groom. It's to impress and please the guests. So I say they don't owe anyone anything.
Once you get a gift, it’s your gift to do whatever you want with it. If they want to sell their gift of alcohol, it’s up to them it’s up to them . The guests would have been paying one way or another. If you don’t want to pay for your drinks, then don’t pay for them.
It’s their gift and they money- don’t feel obligated to return it
Sounds like these people need a class on how to byob and trips to the car for refills.
I don’t think they were scammed, they paid for their drinks like people would at any bar. Am I scammed if my neighbor sells me cookies because we’re friends, of course not, I got what I paid for, even if the cookies were gifted to them.
It's their wedding. The guests are not entitled to getting free alcohol.
I don’t think the caller should have made this a big deal or told all the other guests. Yes alcohol should have been free but the bride/groom doesn’t owe people a meal and all the alcohol. They could have made 1-2 free then charge for the rest, either way gifts & money given to the wedding couple should be used for their future whether it came from the alcohol fund or gifts but to act like you’re owed money bc you paid for the alcohol you bought is just ridiculous. They would have paid for alcohol to party else where anyways.
I agree, it really isn't anyone buisness how they went about using the gift they got
Bonny & Clyde wedding??
That’s messed up atleast charge like a tiny bit not full price
She’s be dead to me forever
They dtarted the wedding on the wrong side. Hope they got diarea from the cake or just bad karma.
they cashed in their wedding gift. so what? like no couple ever returned a gift for it’s value? they did it this way. it’s their gift, their wedding and their choice.
Honestly who cares… I would not care at all if my friends charged for alcohol at their wedding
I wouldn't return it because it was their wedding gift
The money wasn't stolen. Whether the booze was gifted or not, the couple has the right to charge or not charge. Weddings are expensive and if they were able to cut a corner then congratulations to them.
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I don't feel like she did anything wrong. She shouldn't have to pay back squat.
If she did this to me I it would be very different she would need protection