A lost soul in the midst of a midlife crisis. . He did take out a good chunk of life insurance..there is that. I feel bad for them…his children, his wife, his entire family has been in mourning for months..now this kick in the head. A lot to process. I pray this makes all the other family members tighter and they get through this with The Peace and The Comfort and triumph.
Um, I'd say he paid his dues after however many years, he can do whatever he wants rather than be prisoned into a life he doesn't want. The only downside is wasting official resources
@@user-is6yl9wi7e So you started with a rhetorical question, insisting on an answer you want. You then followed that stunt with name-calling, wishing that "cold hearted" would stick. And for finale, you concluded that there was " no need to explain" your position. Well, I guess I'm quite convinced, lol, that you're about as illiterate as diploma mills can produce
WTH. No kid deserves to be abandoned. This is going to be super traumatizing for them. Some people are really really awful, and your dad is one of them. 💔. Nothing they did justifies his immaturity!
The man obviously doesn't want his life as a husband, dad, family man, etc, anymore. The family should consider him as a dead life in their family and move on.
@@GixxerRider1991I'm going to assume that you're a man and refuse to hold other men accountable for their 🍆 activities and believe that all men who abandon their family and cheat on their wives do it because they are mistreated at home. 🙄
@@Thaddeus-ml8if you are right. We don't know the whole story but faking your death and trying to collect insurance money so you can run away with a complete stranger from another country who you probably never met seems like a better idea to you than filing for a divorce?
@@jadar9356 To assume there's issues and blaming the children for their own father having accountability issues is just insane. The dude wanted young poonanny, not escaping from a "trapped" life.
@@jadar9356that is false. It also doesn’t matter. This is worse. He has kids. Weirdo. Y’all make excuses for each other like it’s no one’s business 😂😂😂
@charlie2timez- but hows it false? The comment didnt say anything false. Sure, its a shity thing to do but it does nothing to make that persons comment false…🤷♂️
@@wysta01 1) this person is literally just expressing their opinion in a respectful manner 2) who hurt you? it seems like you're the one projecting here.
A man will fake his death, leaving his family behind to chase after a woman he met on-line. I SAY...mom, do not accept him back in your life. He wanted out..let him stay out! Let the kids decide if they want to talk to him. (If he is found). Usually, children are so forgiving. I wish the family find answers and their hearts will be at peace soon.
As soon as I say the title I already guessed it How can the police say to bring Ryan home tot he kids He obviously doesn’t want them or anything so why bother Forget him
Fortunately, kids are a lot more resilient than we sometimes recognize. These kids needn't be messed up for life just because their Dad's a shameless tool.
We have a home in Green Lake and happened to be on the lake a couple of times when they were out looking for his body. I can honestly say the company the county hired did a great job of looking for him.
My heart broke for the sweet faced children. Literally crying for them. They don’t deserve this. A feeling of abandonment… praying they heal from this as they mature into adulthood. Some parents don’t deserve kids!!
Funny how the police use the ruse of it is important that we get him back to his family. (Like that is really going to make him comeback). Be even more insane if it turns out he was being 'catfished' by a group looking to take his money and there is no woman.
They don't. He is facing a bunch of charges if he comes back. I doubt the family wants anything to do with him. The cops are using them to guilt trip him into coming back. They are not dumb and know what they are doing.
@@donnaleveron5711 No, they won’t miss him when he’s in jail! They’ll only miss the man he pretended to be. Once they realize that the person they loved never existed, they won’t miss the cruel monster he revealed himself to be! Real, genuine people don’t inflict this kind of pain on the ones who love them the most! Funny thing is, his selfish cruelty is so despicable that no one will ever want him! He’s created a jail for himself that he can never be released from nor escape!
Yes, they look like a very nice family. Shame... A family is a blessing. Some people are always chasing a fantasy, instead of enjoying reality. I hope you are blessed Malcolm.
@@Ccubed92 Saying "I'd love to have a family" sounds desperate, but faking your own death to get out of a marriage makes sense to you? Not enough beds at the looney bin these days...
Man that’s crazy. I wouldn’t want him back stay over there with her and you will see just how life goes talking to people online. Are you kidding me right now with three kids and a wife just crazy
Wow imagine you're the kid of that father and now your classmates know your dad ran away from your family! 😮 That is so embarrassing!! Should've blurred their faces 🥲 On the upside, imagine you're bullied by one of those kids and now you realize karma does exist.
This isn’t the same as the Karli Russel case. She wanted the attention for clout. He didn’t. He just wanted to disappear probably bc of a manipulative wife.
Nah, imagine letting volunteers and your community waste manpower and resources trying to find you just because you can’t leave your family properly like every other deadbeat.
What he did to his family was reprehensible but did he actually commit a crime? He filed no false police report, but simply disappeared and left his belongings behind.
The sad part about this it was probably a catfish and he’s probably dead somewhere in Uzbekistan with that lady or man who pretended to be a lady holding onto his $375,000 life insurance policy. But worst case scenario is he is alive and he comes back and his wife has to take him in again???
Imagine mourning your dead spouse, only to find out that he was actually alive as a moronic, sociopathic coward. Almost worse than death. I wouldn’t waste time trying to “get him back” to his family, I would no longer trust him around the children. Let him enjoy Uzbekistan, and whatever old man scammed him online.
So what He Lied to his family! He doesn't deserve to be reunited with his family unless he is truly repentant, which I doubt since he was caught and it wasn't voluntary.
That last part is crazy! Why is anyone pleading with this man to phone home and come back to his family? He’s made it clear he doesn’t want them and he’s moved on. If I were his family, I’d be pissed off because now I can’t cash the policy.
They are better off without him
He’s enjoying his 22 y/o Uzbek mistress with a gigantic currency exchange rate now, he isn’t complaining 👍🏼
your right!
I would rarely agree with a statement like that. but in this case, I totally agree.
I hope he is arrested and locked up in his new country
His wife is a doll! I'd be spending everyday loving on her, she looks likes she takes care of herself! What's her Snapchat?
“They miss their dad..” - Nope! Put me through that sadness just to find out it was intentional so you could run away? Stay gone and don’t call.
Having your kids go through the horrific trauma of their father dying is better than filing for divorce. What a selfish POS.
You mean isn't better, right?
It's better because of financial gain. Filing for divorce will make both parties poorer but faking death can make them richer from insurance payout.
@@cy4330 expect for the fact he withdrew all of his life insurance before he disappeared… its in the video
@@cy4330 So you'd rather traumatize your children to get richer in this situation?
It is better. Facts.
This is a blessing in disguise for his wife. He's not even man enough to get a divorce and take responsibility for his children.
I was thinking the same thing.
Just like a lot of women getting abortions because they cant take responsibility.
Hes $375k richer and doesnt have to deal with ungrateful brats and has regular sex, a blessing in disguise for both.
She picked him
A lost soul in the midst of a midlife crisis. . He did take out a good chunk of life insurance..there is that. I feel bad for them…his children, his wife, his entire family has been in mourning for months..now this kick in the head. A lot to process. I pray this makes all the other family members tighter and they get through this with The Peace and The Comfort and triumph.
What selfish and shameful man
Bad juju will find him.
Um, I'd say he paid his dues after however many years, he can do whatever he wants rather than be prisoned into a life he doesn't want. The only downside is wasting official resources
@@aaabbb-py5xd He paid his dues? No. He hasn't. If you are just as cold-hearted as he is... then there's no point trying to explain why you're wrong.
@@user-is6yl9wi7e So you started with a rhetorical question, insisting on an answer you want. You then followed that stunt with name-calling, wishing that "cold hearted" would stick. And for finale, you concluded that there was " no need to explain" your position. Well, I guess I'm quite convinced, lol, that you're about as illiterate as diploma mills can produce
Maybe he never got along with his wife and his kids treated him like crap.
I bet the "woman" he met online is a nigerian dude 😂
That might still work.
Nigerian prince 😂
😂
😢I bet you now he is at the bottom of the lake in a foreign country for real now
Probably transgener
GOOD LUCK BUDDY
If he did indeed abandon his family for a woman he met online, it shows how selfish a person he is.
At least he didnt kill his wife😮 like any other cases.
More like -- Nigerian Romance Scam he met online.
You never know what goes on behind closed doors. Just saying.
@@RealdoseofTruthright, his family could have been horrible to live with. 🤷🏻♂️
WTH. No kid deserves to be abandoned. This is going to be super traumatizing for them. Some people are really really awful, and your dad is one of them. 💔. Nothing they did justifies his immaturity!
The man obviously doesn't want his life as a husband, dad, family man, etc, anymore.
The family should consider him as a dead life in their family and move on.
Correct. No reconciliation-forgive him and move on
Agree
That's right. The man they thought they knew is certainly dead.
The wife checked out before he did this. Probably the reason why he left.
@@dannyfrogstill how could you do that to your kids
If I were his kid, I would want him locked up. How cruel! To make your own children believe you are dead so you can run off and have a new life? Sick.
Mistress possibly was a scam and he may end up dead after the scammers take his cash. Such a pathetic individual
Then the life insurance policy is still good?😂
@@c.s.mcleod7383How would he cash his own insurance policy?
Play stupid games, win stupid prizes.
I thought the same…
doubt it
Those searchers are HEROES. I am so bothered rhat this sad excuse of a man jerked them around.
Such a cold and heartless thing to do to your family 😡
They all probably saw it coming.
At least he didn’t murder his family - just saying
Maybe they all treated him like crap.
@@sj-nc4by That's true, that would definitely be much worse...so sad that that's a thing : (
Blows me away how heartless people are
When a man doesn't understand its a blessing to have a loving family.
How loving could it have been for him to do what he did? Something tells me there's more to this story.
@@GixxerRider1991 he prob just got bored, hes prob even going thru a midlife crisis.
It could be that he's just a horrible person.
@@GixxerRider1991even if he had problems with his wife, it’s an asshole move to his children. He’s a coward and a weakling
@@GixxerRider1991I'm going to assume that you're a man and refuse to hold other men accountable for their 🍆 activities and believe that all men who abandon their family and cheat on their wives do it because they are mistreated at home. 🙄
What a total slimeball, for real. 😣
You don’t know the story. The Karen was probably too unbearable for him. At least he didn’t Chris’s Watt her.
@@Thaddeus-ml8if you are right. We don't know the whole story but faking your death and trying to collect insurance money so you can run away with a complete stranger from another country who you probably never met seems like a better idea to you than filing for a divorce?
I bet he got catfished
@@Thaddeus-ml8if but we do know ignoring he abandoned his children and ASSuming all women are Karens shows everyone you’re a douche bag.
@@Thaddeus-ml8if Even IF she was a raving lunatic he is a coward. Make her believe he is dead? Break up and be done with it!
He looks so uncomfortable in that family photo.
This poor family! God bless them! I can't imagine how this would feel.
He definitely pulled a scumbag move, but atleast he tried to leave them 375k...
Way to embarass his minor children by showing their faces. Just classless.
🤣🤣🤣
The kids probably do tik tok and have their own social media presence.
You do know this picture was shown when they thought he had drowned.
Well surely it was aired when they thought he went missing.
They look like any basic white kids lol no one cares 😂
You know this guy is watching this too.
Bro got AI catfished hard and is now wandering Europe looking for his Nadia 😂
lol…..Nadia or Esmeralda
Reminds me of the movie " TalHotBlond" or whatever it is called. That's a true story lol!
I don't know what is worse: that you imagine these fan-fict scenarios to cope, or the fact that you actually believe them.
@@cosmobella20"omg this is just like Harry Potter". Imagine if pop culture wasn't your only frame of reference.
@@PearlySwine ? What ?
I feel bad for the wife & the kids what a beautiful family
Nice looking family. Sorry the dad is a jerk.
The family probably had major issues. Yet here you are dating what a beatififul family just bc they smiling in a pic.
@@jadar9356 To assume there's issues and blaming the children for their own father having accountability issues is just insane. The dude wanted young poonanny, not escaping from a "trapped" life.
@@jadar9356 if there was “problems” in the marriage that doesn’t give him any right to fake his death and leave his family.
@@jadar9356 true. But he should have gotten a divorce, not run away like a little boy!
To all of the people that took time searching for this piece of crap, I am sorry. Please dont let this man deter you from helping again. Many thanks.
That’s no man. Small boys do things like that.
🤦🏾♀️🤷🏾♀️ And make him pay back the taxpayers
This isn’t like the Karli Russel case. She did it for clout. He just wanted to disappear. Clout chasing is pathetic.
@@jadar9356that is false. It also doesn’t matter. This is worse. He has kids. Weirdo. Y’all make excuses for each other like it’s no one’s business 😂😂😂
@charlie2timez- but hows it false? The comment didnt say anything false. Sure, its a shity thing to do but it does nothing to make that persons comment false…🤷♂️
They will. He'll be arrested and held accountable for the resources lost while searching for him.
@@Charlie2timezclout chasing by women is a huge problem. He doesn’t want to be found . Karli did. She wanted to be famous on the gram.
The ONLY thing I can say is, at least he ran away and didn’t do what so many husbands do. He let them all live.
POS
What a sociopath! He’s also financially damaged his family besides harming them irreparably emotionally!
Well the woman should also work and not depend of another adult to provide for them
Get cubed. 😊@@Ccubed92
@@Ccubed92 Maybe she is a stay at home mom with a career on hold.
@@Ccubed92, raising a family and caring for a home is a full-time job in and of itself. It just happens to be one that is grossly underpaid.
@@Ccubed92People like you always thinks it's about money
Just his body language in that family photo tells me he never wanted a family and wants the hell out of there.
I was thinking the same thing!!
He seems trapped in a marriage he never really wanted is the vibe I got from the picture
@@USNBLUEpoor baby, forced into 15 years of marriage at the age of 5... oh wait
@USNBLUE so adult men can be trapped in relationships? Why did he get her pregnant 3 times? Men have zero accountability?
@ I never said that. I think he should have gotten a divorce if it was that bad.
The question is will the family take him back. Being a father of 4 I can’t imagine another father doing this to his family.
stop projecting... just because nobody wanted your mother
But he is a father of 3 ,there is a difference
@@wysta01
1) this person is literally just expressing their opinion in a respectful manner
2) who hurt you? it seems like you're the one projecting here.
You don't have to imagine it, it really happened.
Men have been abandoning their families for decades. Why the surprise?
Poor family. It breaks your heart. They look so sweet and trusting.
They probably were. Something like this does something to people though.
Plot twist: Uzbekistan woman is actually Nigerian prince.
😂😂😂
lmfao!!
He better do the "Crocodile Dundee" test asap!
💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀
He got scammed and there is about a 99% chance that hes dead.
I can only pray
Karma
A man will fake his death, leaving his family behind to chase after a woman he met on-line. I SAY...mom, do not accept him back in your life. He wanted out..let him stay out! Let the kids decide if they want to talk to him. (If he is found). Usually, children are so forgiving. I wish the family find answers and their hearts will be at peace soon.
As soon as I say the title I already guessed it
How can the police say to bring Ryan home tot he kids
He obviously doesn’t want them or anything so why bother
Forget him
If the wife didn't want to have sex with him for years ?
@@rozolux6115Divorce exists
He just messed up those 3 innocent children for life because of his selfishness!!
Fortunately, kids are a lot more resilient than we sometimes recognize. These kids needn't be messed up for life just because their Dad's a shameless tool.
If Jesus is just, he won’t be coming back except in a box. Amen 🙏
Blur the kids' and wife's faces. Protecting criminals but not innocent minors??
Yeah other channels blurred it. Or just blur the dad's face with the crap emoji.
@bl8388 👍
Maybe the family sent them the pic and told them to print it
I agree. They should not be showing the children's faces! They are going through enough as it is.
Criminal? What's the crime?
Beautiful wife and kids, he doesn't deserve them.
We have a home in Green Lake and happened to be on the lake a couple of times when they were out looking for his body. I can honestly say the company the county hired did a great job of looking for him.
My heart broke for the sweet faced children. Literally crying for them. They don’t deserve this. A feeling of abandonment… praying they heal from this as they mature into adulthood. Some parents don’t deserve kids!!
dude WHAT!?! what an unbelievably terrible thing to do to your family 👀
You don't even know the family or what secrets they are hiding
@ oohh please
@@Ccubed92 We know the secrets your hiding: lack of intellect.
He got himself a catfish, but it wasn’t at the lake. 😂
😂😂😂
Underrated comment 😂
Funny how the police use the ruse of it is important that we get him back to his family. (Like that is really going to make him comeback).
Be even more insane if it turns out he was being 'catfished' by a group looking to take his money and there is no woman.
Or some professional dater from Odessa.
He looks very uncomfortable in that family portrait
After what he's done, they want him back? 🤦🏼
IKR. But he makes the best tacos for family taco Tuesday!
Right??
They don't. He is facing a bunch of charges if he comes back. I doubt the family wants anything to do with him. The cops are using them to guilt trip him into coming back. They are not dumb and know what they are doing.
They probably need the money now that They're not getting the life insurance
@El_HomNot like he cares anyway. bre_Dan
Wow.....what a piece of work that guy is. In the long run that woman and her children will be far better off without that scumbag!
They'll miss him when he is in jail, too.
Love it!
🤣
yeah....he's in serious doo doo!~! for sure.
@@donnaleveron5711 No, they won’t miss him when he’s in jail! They’ll only miss the man he pretended to be. Once they realize that the person they loved never existed, they won’t miss the cruel monster he revealed himself to be! Real, genuine people don’t inflict this kind of pain on the ones who love them the most! Funny thing is, his selfish cruelty is so despicable that no one will ever want him! He’s created a jail for himself that he can never be released from nor escape!
Where's the crime?
Praying for his wife and children so devastating ❤❤❤❤❤
OMG what a disgusting "man"!! To do this to his family!!
Imagine the heartlessness it takes to put your kids through that. That guy is the lowest form of life.
He drowned in his lust
bro just wanted a new start
@@randomdude2582And abandoning your family and making them believe you’re dead is the way to do that?
@@terrywade3696 well said. He was a coward. Truth.
@@terrywade3696 why you are acting like I am siding with him?
@@randomdude2582his wife and kids did too: they just didn't know it😅
Oh how sad 😢. Poor family, and those that volunteered their time and resources to help find him.
Coward.
A Real man NEVER abandones his children
Dudes(dad) is such a coward. Faking death to run off w/online girlfriend- get a flipping life.
What a selfish and disgraceful thing to do to your wife and kids
What a terrible person. I'd love to have a family like this.
You don't even know the family or how they are based of a picture. Sound. Really desperate
@@Ccubed92you need to erase that chit.there ain't no reason in being that mean. You're probably just still mad at your mother
@@Ccubed92that dude is deperate as hell 😂
Yes, they look like a very nice family. Shame... A family is a blessing. Some people are always chasing a fantasy, instead of enjoying reality. I hope you are blessed Malcolm.
@@Ccubed92 Saying "I'd love to have a family" sounds desperate, but faking your own death to get out of a marriage makes sense to you? Not enough beds at the looney bin these days...
wow, not blurring the faces of the family... nice journalism.
They only do that for criminals and shoplifters. Those guys really need their privacy.
They've been through enough without having their faces blurred on top of it all!
@@hkiajtaqks5253😂😂😂 really
First of all, I feel better for this family. Second of all, what's more stunning is that Uzbekistan is not Europe, it's Central Asia!
His poor family 😔
🤣🤣🤣
Man that’s crazy. I wouldn’t want him back stay over there with her and you will see just how life goes talking to people online. Are you kidding me right now with three kids and a wife just crazy
Wow imagine you're the kid of that father and now your classmates know your dad ran away from your family! 😮 That is so embarrassing!! Should've blurred their faces 🥲 On the upside, imagine you're bullied by one of those kids and now you realize karma does exist.
Every other network blurred them I noticed.
The classmates would already know just from the uncommon name and location.
The last sentence there is very indicative of your very low level of intelligence.
Clearly, he doesn’t care about his family. People used to disappear all the time, it’s just that now with technology it’s impossible.
“Get him home with his family”? What! !?
it's just a nicer way of saying "come back to your family so we can arrest you"
@@MirAviationI certainly hope so! He doesn't deserve this beautiful family!
Imagine causing this much trauma to the people you are supposed to be protecting.
My heart breaks for his family
Then Go and marry her and accept their kids
@@harijha7560id jet.
You could have protected the family's identity. Have some decency.
He should have to repay all of those hours that the first responders spent looking for his dumb ass. What a disgrace. Shame doesn't even say it.
This isn’t the same as the Karli Russel case. She wanted the attention for clout. He didn’t. He just wanted to disappear probably bc of a manipulative wife.
They do in Cali 😏
You wanna bankrupt his poor family? As if they haven't gone through enough hell already?
@@miki_9034 family won’t pay. If he’s found he will pay it back.
@@Sheriden. I didn't get your logic. Dude is married. His money is their money too.
Same on you for showing the kids faces!
Probably got catfished and will end up in a barrel, after they take his cash. What a putz! Feel bad for his family
This will become a Lifetime movie.
Sounds like my father: he preferred abandoning his children than supporting them. Fun and games for him, starvation for us.
The woman he met online is a 13 year old in his parents basement trolling unhappily married american men LOL
He did her a favor by leaving; he just chose the wrong way.
Nah, imagine letting volunteers and your community waste manpower and resources trying to find you just because you can’t leave your family properly like every other deadbeat.
At least he didn’t annihilate them! That unfortunately does happen when men don’t want to pay spousal or child support.
He ought to be charged with fraud and anything else to do with faking a death. Plus have to reimburse the cost of the wasted search..
He should be prosecuted and aply the law to its fullest.
Prosecuted for what?...
@@leelaural Life insurance fraud of over 100k+ was done, what do you mean?
@leelaural
Uhh fraud?? Misuse of government funds?? Come on
What he did to his family was reprehensible but did he actually commit a crime? He filed no false police report, but simply disappeared and left his belongings behind.
@NadiaSeesIt it's legal in USA, you can't do anything about it
You can't possible be that cruel and that stupid at the same time like wth
That’s what you call CATFISHING..what a jerk
Omg 😳 how desperate does one have to be to do such a thing… and how EMBARRASSING for his family to find out about this…. Smh
The sad part about this it was probably a catfish and he’s probably dead somewhere in Uzbekistan with that lady or man who pretended to be a lady holding onto his $375,000 life insurance policy.
But worst case scenario is he is alive and he comes back and his wife has to take him in again???
I hope she gets a good lawyer
You just wish this is a scenario. Funny how women wouldn’t even care until he’s with “another woman” 🤔
The life insurance policy was for the family.... use your brain
He is dead by now
What a selfish, sorry a$$ manchild. I feel so badly for his family.
They don’t want him back with his family..They wanna arrest him
Exactly what I thought. Why on Earth would they want him back?
Imagine mourning your dead spouse, only to find out that he was actually alive as a moronic, sociopathic coward. Almost worse than death. I wouldn’t waste time trying to “get him back” to his family, I would no longer trust him around the children. Let him enjoy Uzbekistan, and whatever old man scammed him online.
That look like an awkward family photo….
Uncomfortable and spineless dad jumps out of that picture. Not standing tall and proud. Look at Mom’s backbone! Very different body language.
I hope he wasn’t fiddling with his boys 😞
Main concern is to get him back with his family? Come on we all know this dude is going straight prison if he reappears
What a coward. What did your family do to deserve this treatment?
Exactly 💯💯💯
What a coward. Instead of being honest with his wife, he chooses to fake his death?! Crazy as hell.
RYAN needs to go to prison for fraud and dishonesty
What a complete scumbag.
Oh no, there is no coming back from that, what an absolute selfish moron
How could he do that to his family. What a monster
WOW! What a creep to do that to his children and wife. They should find out how to get his accounts and charge him for the search. Jerk! (from Sandi)
Took out an insurance policy to give his family less than 400k, and they won't even get that after now, knowing he just ditched them.
They’re such liars. They want him to come home so they can put them in prison not to reunite him with his family.
So what He Lied to his family!
He doesn't deserve to be reunited with his family unless he is truly repentant, which I doubt since he was caught and it wasn't voluntary.
That last part is crazy! Why is anyone pleading with this man to phone home and come back to his family? He’s made it clear he doesn’t want them and he’s moved on. If I were his family, I’d be pissed off because now I can’t cash the policy.
Whatta coward.
If my Dad faked his own death I wouldn't want him back. What an Evil thing to do to your family.
What an idiot
I just feel so badly for his family. How they must feel....
MIDLIFE CRISIS!
You guys don't seem to get it! He's gone Rogue and he's gone to an awful lot of trouble to do it. He's totally off his rocker.
Wtf!!! It's called just leave like a man n get ur own place.
Old saying my Auntie used:
'Good riddance to bad rubbish.'
Needs to be in jail!
He can run off with the jailer after a couple weeks.
Unbelievable- I’m losing faith in the human race😭
Already done here on my end.