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Charli xcx - party 4 u (official video)

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  • Published on Jun 21, 2025
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  • @C4YA_
    @C4YA_ Month ago +26024

    the embarrassment of realizing how you’ve destroyed yourself over someone who will never spare you a fraction of a second is so deep and real, thank you for this charli.

  • @nachigonzalez455
    @nachigonzalez455 Month ago +39993

    We should normalize artists releasing MV for old songs, bc this is a MASTERPIECE

  • @YouTube
    @YouTube Month ago +27777

    so worth the 5 year wait 😭

  • @kenleyflutterstovlog
    @kenleyflutterstovlog 18 days ago +101

    this song literally was so great for the 5 year wait it literally explains how you can be stuck on smb and they can feed you till you get deeeeeeep into their love and they just drop you. like a continual circle of love and drought. ily for this charli.

  • @freallee
    @freallee Month ago +15319

    A perfect representation of feeling deeply embarrassed when you go above and beyond for someone that does not feel the same about you. The need to escape from your own skin. The feeling of disgust that overwhelms you in such a rotten way. The frustration that blinds you and causes you to reach a new and unfamiliar level of self hatred.

    • @vincentruvo6988
      @vincentruvo6988 Month ago +38

      Nightmarish. Yuck!

    • @dylan5896
      @dylan5896 Month ago +15

      this.
      omg

    • @methcatss
      @methcatss Month ago

      Love u 4 this

    • @RickGraziano
      @RickGraziano Month ago +139

      Yes. The heartache is stabbing, but then the thought that others have seen you throw everything you have into loving them, and they then witness you being shrugged off like you were a dead leaf that landed on their shoulder. Those people then look at you, and you can see pity mixed with morbid curiosity in their eyes.
      And you can absolutely not withdraw enough from their gaze to possibly even consider just how devastating that heartbreak has been to you and your soul.

    • @CallumsBarbieDolls
      @CallumsBarbieDolls Month ago

      Papi ceechyna

  • @flinty7888
    @flinty7888 Month ago +20920

    The song for when you do everything for someone and they barely even notice you… charli we love you.

  • @bkamber377
    @bkamber377 Month ago +8396

    The entire video being set after the party where he didn't show up, after the heartbreak of him not coming, destroying the billboard because she feels hopeless and desperate without him. It's genius. She could've easily taken this song literally and filmed the video during the empty party but by framing it in the aftermath of the party, she captured the essence of the desperation and longing from the entire how i'm feeling now album era

    • @Hellokitty-o5r
      @Hellokitty-o5r Month ago +5

      ruclips.net/video/fwtM4oOk718/video.html *Part 2*

    • @seulmiseforever9603
      @seulmiseforever9603 Month ago +253

      What makes me even more amaze by this m/v is that Charli somehow manage to capture the 2020 feeling in the m/v setting too! From her being alone in the party to her being outside in the wild probably to show how everyone else is quarantined.
      This whole m/v just make me feel oddly nostalgic about it

    • @bkamber377
      @bkamber377 Month ago +100

      @@seulmiseforever9603 100%, the feeling of dressing up and decorating for a party of one or two people, everyone else existing somewhere far away. The MV almost takes a current era/brat lens BACK to 2020 and really captures those feelings

    • @seulmiseforever9603
      @seulmiseforever9603 Month ago +43

      @@bkamber377party 4 u m/v truly make me feel like I’m reliving how i’m feeling now era so much except there is a brat twist at around near end to remind us that this m/v is shooting during BRAT era and her burning down the picture also indirectly tell us that Charli is ready to start the new chapter now!

    • @bhaskarchatterjee5249
      @bhaskarchatterjee5249 Month ago +22

      @@seulmiseforever9603even the dress is on point w 2019-2020 trends, charli is an emotion

  • @jovanjebog
    @jovanjebog 27 days ago +201

    I love how she recognized a universal experience and turned it into a pop song that will never leave my brain. I love you, Charli, for this one. All my life, I’ve felt like I was too much-and then there are times when I feel like I’m not enough. You managed to incorporate both of those universal experiences and turn them into this masterpiece. Congrats to your amazing team, the production, and of course, to YOU. I love you, Charli, baby.

  • @itsdivyag
    @itsdivyag Month ago +10892

    this song was so slept on for years it only reaffirms I have taste

  • @cypherjash
    @cypherjash Month ago +4797

    party 4 u resonates the shame I felt for going out of my comfort zone to impress someone but it didn't get his attention-not even a little bit

    • @officielDenisso
      @officielDenisso Month ago +70

      I truly relate to your words… Party 4 U captures that quiet heartbreak so well. Charli’s ability to turn deep emotions into art is inspiring. I’m honestly here because her music moves me. And as an independent artist myself, her courage pushes me to keep creating. If you ever feel like discovering a new sound, I’d love to share a piece of my world with you 🎧💫

    • @firstofawll
      @firstofawll Month ago +59

      the song actually gets much deeper… imagine if you already knew getting out of your comfort zone wouldn’t impress him but only hurt YOU more… but you still did it.

    • @SamiraWagner123
      @SamiraWagner123 Month ago

      Charlie new album ruclips.net/video/nSl3MhG4uug/video.htmlsi=Nn1sWBvY071iGts8

    • @inezdivaqueen
      @inezdivaqueen Month ago +4

      this omg

    • @alphysthedinosaur5832
      @alphysthedinosaur5832 Month ago +1

      ​@@officielDenissoYou can do it!! You'll make it!! Just don't give up no matter what! Rooting 4U! 💜✨️

  • @cashinoutcampbells9444
    @cashinoutcampbells9444 Month ago +2305

    The slowmo with the confetti falling and the crying and realization that that person isn't coming, beautifully done charli. Im happy to have waited 5 years for this

    • @seulmiseforever9603
      @seulmiseforever9603 Month ago +13

      There is really no any other better way of visualizing it like Charli did!

    • @Lina-ti6qt
      @Lina-ti6qt Month ago +4

      That literally made me tear up!!!! So good

    • @officielDenisso
      @officielDenisso Month ago +7

      That scene hit so hard… the confetti, the stillness, and that quiet heartbreak - Charli really knows how to portray emotions visually. Five years was worth the wait. Her art speaks to us deeply. I came for her brilliance, and as an indie artist, it inspires me so much. If you're ever curious to hear something new, I’d be honored to share my sound with you 🎧✨

    • @HongHVH-s9x
      @HongHVH-s9x Month ago

      I love you💗💗💗

    • @shrekism
      @shrekism Month ago +2

      @@officielDenissohi chatgpt!!!

  • @niveenthe1dfan515
    @niveenthe1dfan515 13 days ago +32

    This mv song is the freaking embodiment of thinking you meant so much to someone, putting ur ass out there for them above and beyond, only to realize they never gave 2 shits about u.
    The self loathing you feel at that point, thinking of all those times you've defended that piece of genuine shit to ppl you love and made a fool of yourself is fuckin agonising.

  • @pepijnishere
    @pepijnishere Month ago +3354

    I've waited 5 years for this, happy 5 years of hifn

  • @Novaurawr
    @Novaurawr Month ago +2847

    Charli dropping a MV for a 5 year old song on a random Saturday is somehow the most charli thing ever

    • @archiemoir
      @archiemoir Month ago +120

      not a random day! - exactly 5 years from when she released the album this song is on, 'how i'm feeling now' i think it's actually an important resolution for this song and the album as a whole

    • @coconutsmusicreviews
      @coconutsmusicreviews Month ago +16

      Just like how on a random wednesday she dropped B2b and Club classics with no prior warning.

    • @Daddiemoney
      @Daddiemoney Month ago +3

      Iconic tbh

    • @Daddiemoney
      @Daddiemoney Month ago +6

      @@archiemoirI didn’t hear this song before it started becoming a trend on TikTok. And I really thought it was another song becoming a hit from the brat album 😭

    • @angelem18
      @angelem18 Month ago +2

      Thursday*

  • @venusbleeds
    @venusbleeds Month ago +2034

    this video explains exactly the identity charli has been portrayed throughout her career. you can see her eras throughout the entire sequence of the video. in her career and in the video you can tell she started with people saying she's "too digital" with the vhs sequence (True Romance) then "too camp" with the house party scene (sucker), then "too avant garde" with pop 2 (walking on the street with heels) , then "too messy" with brat (after she takes her clothes off) and then in the end she burns it all down, to reveal her real self. i am so stoked for this INCREDIBLE woman, and cant wait to see what she does next.

  • @anakruger9641
    @anakruger9641 3 days ago +46

    My 19th of June day, thanks Charli xcx xoxo

  • @MoonGaz
    @MoonGaz Month ago +4142

    "brat is over!" *10 years later charli dropped the 365 official music video*

    • @Diego-mn5kb
      @Diego-mn5kb Month ago +68

      I hope so, but plz no that longer

    • @miwoomsmsmsm
      @miwoomsmsmsm Month ago +46

      I don't think a remix of a music would get a mv, imo it would be nice a mv for club classics or everything is romantic

    • @negusucheru7806
      @negusucheru7806 Month ago +14

      Hopefully she will make more mvs on the brat songs

    • @HongHVH-s9x
      @HongHVH-s9x Month ago

      💋💋💋💋

    • @zay4643
      @zay4643 Month ago +7

      666 likes... with a princess streak!

  • @astralakiraa
    @astralakiraa Month ago +8431

    everyone say thank you charli

  • @Baotr13
    @Baotr13 Month ago +2862

    Hope we can make "release MV for old songs" become a trend, because there're a lot of MASTERPIECES need to be reconized!!!

  • @eightnor
    @eightnor 28 days ago +119

    ugh the visual representation of charli killing brat is everything to me this whole roll out (and charli's whole discography) is EVERYTHING to me because she's so thoughtfut with every decision but makes it seem effortless charli u absolute icon ily 4eva and eva ---> on that pls pls bring back the old cover arts :'(

  • @HANBIT0101
    @HANBIT0101 Month ago +2227

    TRACK 10 DESERVES AN MV TOO!! 😭🙏

  • @infinitytop
    @infinitytop Month ago +582

    "This isn’t just a song… it’s the soundtrack of loving someone who never shows up. 🕯

  • @angelxcx
    @angelxcx Month ago +1554

    She said this one is for the angels 💜

  • @rara-t5t7g
    @rara-t5t7g 16 days ago +18

    最高傑作と言っても過言でもない作品。
    charli大好き💕

  • @leandroxcx
    @leandroxcx Month ago +1334

    finally 'party 4 u' getting the recognition it deserves

  • @MaluDelRio
    @MaluDelRio Month ago +1808

    the billboard scene was straight CINEMA

    • @Jake-Reuploads
      @Jake-Reuploads Month ago +40

      It’s kinda sad, but only because Charli was serving in that picture on the billboard

    • @pockybae6520
      @pockybae6520 Month ago +35

      was GAY cinema*

    • @nnikkittenn
      @nnikkittenn Month ago +33

      It's giving The Substance and the shame she feels about how her old self

    • @SunnySummerSundays
      @SunnySummerSundays 14 days ago

      Was cringe af. She couldnt destroy it. Then she threw the paint wrong xd then it didn't ignite the fire

  • @iann.blablabla
    @iann.blablabla 2 days ago +6

    The queen of hyperpop 😭🙏🏻

  • @YDude26
    @YDude26 Month ago +1242

    The “u” went from being her lover to being the public and her newfound audience. She finally threw a party that the world wants to join in on. But now the party is ending and the fear and bittersweetness of not knowing if people will still care for her has set in.

  • @erincc957
    @erincc957 Month ago +997

    This is for the people who yearn!! For the people that just want their crush to notice them and for their crush to feel even just a fraction of what they feel for them. The embarrassment of knowing they will never feel the same way about you and the self hatred for still wanting them despite that. It’s for the people who watch other couples be happy and want something like so badly for yourself but no one even seems to notice you.

    • @ApoloKim19
      @ApoloKim19 Month ago +11

      I feel like that right now Omg Randy I hate you cuz u don’t see me like I do

    • @HongHVH-s9x
      @HongHVH-s9x Month ago +5

      You are beautiful💗💗💗

    • @glow_and_grow_360
      @glow_and_grow_360 Month ago +3

      my exact situation!!!! im so glad this video exists

    • @buzzfeedhater
      @buzzfeedhater Month ago

      That makes you an idiot lol

  • @asmrcamcorder
    @asmrcamcorder Month ago +3176

    it took five years for ppl to get ittttt

    • @tunahead
      @tunahead Month ago +85

      better late than ever i guess

    • @yx9y0
      @yx9y0 Month ago +11

      literally

    • @des.mezzzz
      @des.mezzzz Month ago +57

      proud to say I got it right after it was released

    • @teresarose5780
      @teresarose5780 Month ago +15

      Never felt a covid mood more tbh

    • @cream3.142
      @cream3.142 Month ago +2

      @des.mezzzzdo you want a cookie?

  • @Oneinfinitesleepover
    @Oneinfinitesleepover 3 days ago +16

    Happy 19th of June🤍

  • @seraphieii
    @seraphieii Month ago +808

    The rawness of the cinematography brings me back to the old albums

  • @textbookapologist
    @textbookapologist Month ago +541

    Charli's a genius!! Party 4 u is a simple but very relatable situation: doing something special for someone that doesn't even show up for you. With its recent tiktok fame, people have shared what the song's different parts mean to them, and charli talks about how that last verse meaning "this is actually the moment you realize that one person isn't ever coming to your party so you stand in the middle of the room, tears briefly fill your eyes but then you wipe them away, pretend you’re ok and proceed to get unbelievably fcked up and then spend the next week feeling completely ashamed of yourself xx" This made me think that this was going to be the pivotal theme of this MV when she announced it, where there's a party but charli is shown being crushed and upset in the moment.
    Instead, true to Charli's form, she directed an epilogue to party 4 u. The video is not about what she did and what she created for someone who didn't show up for her; it is about her shame and her hate for what she became. It's a hangover while still being drunk and high. It's the shakes and the headache and the harsh light. It's hating your surroundings, your outfit, and the clarity that comes with starting to sober up.
    And then she sets fire to the billboard of herself (a very heavy handed metaphor for self-destruction) and the eyes remain; an incredibly intentional nod to The Great Gatsby, the most popular parallel for Party 4 u!
    Party 4 u is such a raw and vulnerable song, and charli xcx painted a black coat of fresh paint over it with this music video. She's so incredible!

    • @giannabaenana
      @giannabaenana Month ago +3

      Thank you for this!! Needs to be pinned 🔥

    • @crxzy4881
      @crxzy4881 Month ago +7

      Omg I didn’t even realize the allusion with the eyes to GG

    • @hollyvayne
      @hollyvayne Month ago +6

      Such a good reference with the Great Gatsby! Wow thanks for sharing, your whole text is wonderful :)

    • @teamoasul
      @teamoasul Month ago +2

      i love you for this

    • @chynalili
      @chynalili 28 days ago

      mwa

  • @quietfeel980
    @quietfeel980 Month ago +1727

    BRAT was charli’s party for her angels, and the world joined. the euphoria of brat summer and wanting that moment to last forever, the anxiety she must be going through for wondering how she’s gonna top BRAT, that there might not be another moment like this. the bittersweetness of saying goodbye to this party you threw for the world. oh charli, u were always ahead of everyone. the world finally caught on to u and will be here for ur next party 🤍🪽

  • @FezCaliph
    @FezCaliph 2 days ago +5

    She did not have to go this hard 😫🔥🔥

  • @futurehofer1564
    @futurehofer1564 Month ago +578

    I like that Charli is someone whose career didnt go as she planned, she wasnt a huge star as soon as she started (maybe differently than what she expected) but she kept on going and kept on making her genuine music and boom and now all of her work gets recognition and has turned into a star.
    We never really know the paths our lives will take and we really cant plan our lives, all we can do is keep doing our best

    • @urfavboo4679
      @urfavboo4679 Month ago +14

      i’m a fan since true romance and her evolution was so beautiful.

    • @cereneee
      @cereneee Month ago

      lol no she was HUGE in the 2010s

    • @andree7286
      @andree7286 Month ago +20

      Charli has had pockets of success throughout the years but Brat has solidified her place in music. She is the perfect example what can happen when you persevere thru it all

    • @James-if3kc
      @James-if3kc Month ago +6

      SHe literally sang on the biggest song of 2014...

    • @James-if3kc
      @James-if3kc Month ago

      @@andree7286 Or when you completely sell your soul...

  • @ChazD-yo2is
    @ChazD-yo2is Month ago +261

    This is literally the essence of self-destructive love and how we will give away all of ourselves just to make that one person notice us.

  • @mymusic_era
    @mymusic_era Month ago +1448

    TRACK 10 DESERVES AN MV TOO 🩷!! please Charli do ittt I’m begging you 😭🙏.

  • @jenny5moon
    @jenny5moon 24 days ago +15

    God her eyebrows are SO GOOD ugh yes please

  • @treisprollytraveling
    @treisprollytraveling Month ago +1340

    waiting for a text back that never came.
    waiting for them to show up and they never did.
    wasting so much time changing your self-image just for maybe a chance of them wanting you back.
    waiting for them to show up, physically is draining, but emotionally, will destroy you.

  • @n.kxznnn
    @n.kxznnn Month ago +340

    3:31 The look she had while she was destroying the billboard of herself captures the feeling of this song so well 🤧. It's like she's been holding back all the hurt and disappointment she was feeling earlier in the video and was just able to let them out at this point. Thank u for blessing us with this Charli 🥹💚

    • @officielDenisso
      @officielDenisso Month ago

      Yes! That moment hit so hard 💔 The emotion was raw and so real - you could feel every ounce of pain and release. Charli is a genius at expressing the unspoken. As someone who also creates music, this kind of storytelling inspires me deeply. If you're ever in the mood to discover new voices, you’re welcome to visit my world too 🖤🎧

  • @keiruzh
    @keiruzh Month ago +3208

    1:25 hi british vogue im charli xcx and this is what in my bag

  • @mysticofmaddness9180
    @mysticofmaddness9180 19 days ago +6

    I’m glad that even someone as perfect as Charli has felt like this. lol Not because misery loves company, but just because it means maybe I’m not as worthless as I’ve been made to feel in the past. 😅

  • @andrijadukic7183
    @andrijadukic7183 Month ago +360

    how i understood this is that her burning the huge poster of herself is a reflection of her being angry at herself for thinking that the person was going to show up to the party in the first place and being mad about how delusional she was. this is such a cool music video we love you charli

    • @mischajones2926
      @mischajones2926 Month ago +6

      YES it’s too good omfg

    • @des.mezzzz
      @des.mezzzz Month ago +3

      NO ACTUALLY

    • @alexspader
      @alexspader Month ago +6

      " Birthday cake in August, but you were born 19th of June " oh, a Gemini 😁

    • @ramateuku
      @ramateuku Month ago +1

      Yes! I also see it analogous to Great Gatsby’s green light, but he doesn’t get noticed

    • @Simalspides
      @Simalspides Month ago

      ​@@alexspader sybau

  • @Paulsnk
    @Paulsnk Month ago +945

    There’s something so poetic about her tearing up the billboard in rage, its like she knows she might never have this ‘Brat’ movement again.

    • @bajabl
      @bajabl Month ago +128

      I thought it was because she’s disgusted with herself for going above and beyond for this guy that didn’t show up?

    • @cowgirltheworld
      @cowgirltheworld Month ago +29

      @bajabl layers!

    • @chyandyeux
      @chyandyeux Month ago +110

      someone on twitter pointed that it could also mean she doesn't want to be just known by the whole brat era and the people loved her even in her hifn/how i'm feeling now era which makes her heart bigger than ever, hence this video release/blowing up of the song for the angels and new fans in the future!

    • @humanharddrive1
      @humanharddrive1 Month ago +13

      "its like she knows she might never have this ‘Brat’ movement again" - implying much?

    • @joshburns35
      @joshburns35 Month ago +7

      @bajablI thought this was the day after the party. She’s the only one left. The place is trashed

  • @ninaalvarez6443
    @ninaalvarez6443 Month ago +288

    no because how does 2:49-onwards sound like that feeling when you go to the bathroom alone in the middle of the party and you look at yourself in the mirror and feel kinda weird because because you're supposed to be enjoying yourself but you're just.... not.
    how is this sound such a memory!!! charli you genius!!

    • @Tomgamer5998
      @Tomgamer5998 Month ago +2

      u wrote because two times- (sorry) but this seems oddly specific

    • @DewMan001
      @DewMan001 Month ago +1

      And with such simple production to begin with too

  • @vic7694
    @vic7694 3 days ago +12

    happy june 19th😭

  • @connorphillips7953
    @connorphillips7953 Month ago +509

    Can’t even imagine how it must feel to be slept on for so long and finally be able to go back and revisit the music that deserved better 😭 so deserved

    • @philosophy_bot4171
      @philosophy_bot4171 Month ago +8

      Beep, bop... I'm the Philosophy Bot. Here, have a quote:
      "Anyone who keeps the ability to see beauty never grows old."
      ~ Franz Kafka

  • @jeff51344
    @jeff51344 Month ago +520

    The song's story and themes align closely with the Great Gatsby (obsessing over a lost love and throwing parties in hopes of reuniting). The eyes on the billboard in the video are a direct reference to the billboard in the book (representing a higher power watching the empty glamour and moral decay of society). Burning the billboard could represent the rejection of moral judgement or breaking free from the illusion of a past love.

    • @MarkTiffanyHwangChau
      @MarkTiffanyHwangChau Month ago

      Omg I just tweeted about this @tchaulla.bsky.social lmao and you are so right, that's exactly how I felt about the billboard too!
      She has a billboard in the Von Dutch music video too

    • @nathanadler4024
      @nathanadler4024 Month ago +11

      and there is a famous billboard in the book!

    • @alexisvelez8658
      @alexisvelez8658 Month ago +6

      Too deep actually hahaha I just think she is iconic

    • @douchebagalicious
      @douchebagalicious 29 days ago

      EXACTLYYYYYY. SOOOO GATSBY CODED. LEGENDDDD

    • @corrina8125
      @corrina8125 7 days ago

      Right? This song always made me think of TGG.

  • @sushigirlxox
    @sushigirlxox Month ago +175

    The way she’s able to depict her self hatred always makes me cry. She’s so passionate, emotional and creative. Just a musical genius. Charli, thank you SO much for this. Us Angels are beyond happy

  • @sx.1869
    @sx.1869 Month ago +358

    this is the fully realised version of how i’m feeling now. she never got to live out this era in the real world because we were in lockdown. this music video is really special🥲🥲 happy 5th birthday party 4 u

    • @Hellokitty-o5r
      @Hellokitty-o5r Month ago

      🎉

    • @ampersignia
      @ampersignia Month ago +2

      I think this video could have been done during the Covid era but this song wasn’t a single

  • @patchworkatthedoor
    @patchworkatthedoor Month ago +652

    Album released on my 18th birthday, party 4 u mv released on my 23rd birthday, life is good

  • @vincedive
    @vincedive Month ago +224

    charli is THE artist, giving pre brat, white mercedes vibes, nostalgic. A vision. The feels. A moment.

  • @lexi6815
    @lexi6815 12 days ago +4

    This song fells like that moment when you’re at a party and you realize all your friends are having fun but the person you wanted to be with doesn’t even acknowledge you and you feel like you’re in slow motion while everyone else is moving regularly

  • @JerQuartz
    @JerQuartz Month ago +305

    The representation of destroying the parts of yourself you like for someone that won’t be there 😭 10/10 video

  • @thugshakerzzz
    @thugshakerzzz Month ago +1485

    this song is the hit of realization that you have to move on when moving on physically makes you feel like your organs being torn apart and your throat about to explode , but you have to because you've been stuck in this loop for a long time and you're running of time .

  • @alimayfield
    @alimayfield Month ago +290

    i love how at first she tries to romanticise herself as she usually does but as the video progresses, she strips more and more, highlighting her vulnerability and her true sense and her burning the billboard shows that she hates herself for thinking that the person would shut up

  • @PheavyDreams92
    @PheavyDreams92 13 days ago +4

    "This feels like falling in love and falling apart at the same time. The visuals, the vibe, the emotion - Charli turned heartache into art. 🥀✨"

  • @yarisparis
    @yarisparis Month ago +160

    Justice for "how I'm feeling now" has been served at long last!

  • @Mirage-u1b
    @Mirage-u1b Month ago +3343

    "sorry I couldn't make it"
    "its ok."

    • @Tomgamer5998
      @Tomgamer5998 28 days ago +74

      LITERALLY THIS SONG SUMMARIZED.

    • @mrdompaul
      @mrdompaul 24 days ago +26

      Oh shit, *THIS*

    • @pixiii_18
      @pixiii_18 20 days ago +12

      "Oh okay no problem!!" Let me just bawl my eyes out

    • @jamesrosagaran6634
      @jamesrosagaran6634 16 days ago +4

      “oh yea, no problem. Maybe next time then.” And then the next time didn’t come and you’re just at that moment every time someone makes you feel the same way

  • @IMSAFLOL
    @IMSAFLOL Month ago +158

    It's so cool how she managed to capture the emotion and essence of the song. You can see the desperation, needing to see that person at the party she threw just for them, (and possibly burnt herself out in the process of trying to please that person but not being able to see them?) thanks for this Charli!!!
    Also the og version of this song is nearly 8 years old!

  • @JoshVicta-dx4vc
    @JoshVicta-dx4vc Day ago +3

    This song gets more heartbreaking the more I hear it.

  • @nightberries5146
    @nightberries5146 Month ago +372

    when you constantly try to please people and drain yourself just to be liked, only to realize you're still nothing to them in the end.

  • @jonathantomaz300
    @jonathantomaz300 Month ago +511

    That's the music that my ex boyfriend dedicated to me right in the beggining of our relationship, he died eleven months later. I miss you wherever you are Dan, this song will always be our song. I’ll keep throwing you parties. Love you

    • @Noa-mo2mb
      @Noa-mo2mb Month ago +15

      i'm so sorry for your loss. Sure he's looking after you from above

    • @DaviMendes-p8b
      @DaviMendes-p8b Month ago +6

      I'm so sorry for your loss. I hope Charli brings you comfort.

    • @whoisdirtwitch
      @whoisdirtwitch Month ago +4

      Omg 🥲❤️‍🩹🫶🏻

    • @spotlessmindx
      @spotlessmindx 26 days ago +1

      :( sending you love

    • @CozyGlow625
      @CozyGlow625 16 days ago

      I'm sorry for your loss, may he fly high. Sending much love to you ❤️💜

  • @burnt-croissants
    @burnt-croissants Month ago +271

    Charli xcx, always ahead of her time. It took five years for everyone else to get it.

    • @trevorj2370
      @trevorj2370 Month ago +11

      Took longer than that. Just like she once said, “it’s hard being ahead”

    • @jj_ezus
      @jj_ezus Month ago

      i dont care, i love it. such** an ikonica pop star

  • @EditedbyGigi
    @EditedbyGigi 27 days ago +7

    I built my whole identity around being someone they could love me. turns out they didn't know me. thank you charli for sound tracking the moment i realized i was begging to be loved by someone who felt nothing about me.

  • @yeojin4thgenmainslayyer898

    congratulations to the OG angels for receiving this gift

    • @yeojin4thgenmainslayyer898
      @yeojin4thgenmainslayyer898 Month ago +21

      as a boom clap angel who reclaimed brat status during brat season, this must've been whiplash for the OGs who got to live to see this day

    • @yeojin4thgenmainslayyer898
      @yeojin4thgenmainslayyer898 Month ago +6

      and TRULY thank you for this gift, charli xx

    • @boogermaiden
      @boogermaiden Month ago +7

      ​@yeojin4thgenmainslayyer898 me too I'm a sucker era angel!

    • @ramseslopezg
      @ramseslopezg Month ago +1

      im so emotional rn like fr

    • @britxcxeon
      @britxcxeon Month ago +3

      ​@@yeojin4thgenmainslayyer898 thank you, I'm an angel since 2021 and seeing this made me really fucking emotional💔

  • @purple.eye12
    @purple.eye12 Month ago +142

    she was literally ahead of the time with this song. but the justice for this song was inevitable, so happy for her

  • @ROB-ew6wg
    @ROB-ew6wg Month ago +772

    Y’all finally giving charli flowers after 5 years

    • @ROB-ew6wg
      @ROB-ew6wg Month ago +59

      I’m sorry after a decade

    • @ttsparklesmusic
      @ttsparklesmusic Month ago +1

      mhm smh 😭

    • @woodykrska9947
      @woodykrska9947 Month ago +9

      I imagine that the people who have been fans since True Romance and Sucker are going crazy now.

    • @joey.thanes
      @joey.thanes 18 days ago +1

      She was being poorly promoted by Atlantic Records. The WHOLE time.

  • @firstofawll
    @firstofawll 3 days ago +8

    my birthday is TODAY 😭❤️ imma play tf outta this song at the party tonight

  • @harrykey6016
    @harrykey6016 Month ago +522

    Her whole back catalogue needs to go viral like this song did

  • @tessthemirrorball
    @tessthemirrorball Month ago +228

    the billboard scene was giving the substance & i love it sm. charli deserves to be appreciated & celebrated for her past work & not only brat & i'm so glad she is finally getting her flowers

  • @calciumhill
    @calciumhill Month ago +902

    HOW IM FEELING NOW BEST CHARLI ALBUM

  • @jelanimoeridjan8772
    @jelanimoeridjan8772 3 days ago +6

    It’s the 19th of June⭐️

  • @The_MadonnaCorner
    @The_MadonnaCorner Month ago +278

    HIFN deserves better. This whole album is amazing, raw and vulnerable. This is the blue print for Brat and Charli's whole music. I listened to this album when I was 10 in 2020 and now I'm 15 and this album has shaped me into who I am today.

    • @Hellokitty-o5r
      @Hellokitty-o5r Month ago +1

      🎉

    • @findingsubtext
      @findingsubtext Month ago +18

      I’d say Pop2 or XCX World were the blueprint tbh. Especially as she’s mentioned pop2 being her first major attempt at something like brat. She still performs Track 10 from Pop2, and Unlock It was probably her first hyperpop hit song (thanks to TikTok).

    • @josephmoralesmx
      @josephmoralesmx Month ago +1

      Period

    • @baekhyunbyun8056
      @baekhyunbyun8056 Month ago +1

      This album is giving the emptiness after party

  • @769I5
    @769I5 Month ago +673

    at first i was upset that my favourite charli song got so popular, but without that popularity we wouldve never gotten this visual masterpiece

    • @trevorj2370
      @trevorj2370 Month ago +4

      THIS!!

    • @cruznahoel678
      @cruznahoel678 Month ago +31

      Why? It's not like its getting used in a bad way, people are just sharing their interpretation of the song.
      I get that you want your niche to be niche but honestly this is like the best kind of tiktok popular a song can be imo
      I mean i felt way worse with the deep commercialization at the end of the brat era.

    • @769I5
      @769I5 Month ago +8

      @@cruznahoel678noooo i understand what you mean i never said it was a bad thing im actually happy! this has been my fav song since 2021 and i just have alot of memories and connections with it.

    • @metaphysicalgraffiti
      @metaphysicalgraffiti Month ago +12

      I wouldn't have rediscovered her without this song. It means everything to me.

    • @769I5
      @769I5 Month ago +2

      @@metaphysicalgraffitii love that for you❤

  • @tia5460
    @tia5460 Month ago +80

    i love the homemade, raw feeling of this so much. it seems like she's always known that staying true to your own individuality, creativity, and community is what truly pays off for artists, and she's finally being given the opportunity to do exactly that by creating exactly what she wants to 🤍 we love u charli xx

  • @verysmartpizza
    @verysmartpizza Month ago +234

    She threw a party… and no one came. And somehow, it’s the most beautiful thing I’ve ever seen. 🥺💔

    • @MitchNeil
      @MitchNeil Month ago +33

      @verysmartpizza I think people came to the party, but the guy she liked didn't come. This is afterwards when everyone leaves and she's realizing how much effort she put towards someone who doesn't care about her. It wasn't necessarily a party *for* him, but she was hoping he would come because she wanted to impress him. Idk that's how I've always interpreted it.

    • @lorenzoc1487
      @lorenzoc1487 Month ago

      🥹❤

    • @dianecooper2
      @dianecooper2 Month ago +2

      No its not that no ine cane its that the person she most wanted to cone to the party never showed up

    • @Roseshavethorns
      @Roseshavethorns 28 days ago

      People came, it’s the one that mattered most that didn’t show, which hurts worse

  • @LuisalbertoGonzalezcarme-uj1sh

    The way Charli XCX released this new video should be adopted by the rest of the music industry. Who said videos have to be from a new era? I love how she chose to release a video for a song from a past album. I hope this behavior becomes fashionable, shattering this stereotype. There are so many songs without official videos, and these are true works of art! What a shame!

  • @mfal12345
    @mfal12345 Month ago +75

    one thing Charli knows how to do well is to hear her fans out. releasing this MV after years of the song being released because it got an unprecedented exposure on social media is extremely intelligent but also not really done by other artists that go through the same situation.
    thanks for this beautiful visual miss Charli.

  • @_cheddarcheese_
    @_cheddarcheese_ Month ago +346

    the emotion in this song is so raw, so beautiful, this may be one of the best songs of this century so far

    • @Hellokitty-o5r
      @Hellokitty-o5r Month ago +1

      ruclips.net/video/fwtM4oOk718/video.html *Part 2*

    • @mofstar8683
      @mofstar8683 Month ago +3

      Hello??? I mean obviously i love this song but most angels wouldn’t even call this her best song 😭 sensationalism goes crazy

    • @blueming2218
      @blueming2218 Month ago +11

      ​@@mofstar8683 I also think this isn't even one of her best, but maybe it's just their opinion yk? Different tastes exist

    • @_cheddarcheese_
      @_cheddarcheese_ Month ago

      @@blueming2218 yes hifn is my favourite charli album and i never said this was her best i said one of the best

    • @eeee8489
      @eeee8489 Month ago

      ​@@mofstar8683 I am sorry?? people have different music tastes

  • @TTrap
    @TTrap Month ago +100

    The end when her photo was burning and you could hear audience cheering and clapping in the background… wow that’s so powerful

  • @DenzexDenze
    @DenzexDenze Month ago +45

    This is So inspiring. because sometimes as an artist you think your music is flopping but then 5 years later it’s the biggest song outttt

  • @raissgaga
    @raissgaga Day ago +2

    And when we needed her the most she showed up

  • @Westinpayne
    @Westinpayne Month ago +167

    wow I’ve been by Charli’s side since True Romance and I’m astounded at how true to herself she’s remained. retaining that electronic DIY experimentalism is what’s drawn the true fans. and the layers to this video are insane.
    On the nose: being gutted that the person you cared about didn’t show up when you needed them.
    A little deeper: recognizing that Brat was the claim to mainstream fame, and that it won’t last for ever.
    Also: the “u” in question being all of us. she threw this party for us and wants to be recognized beyond just the Brat era.

    • @farrellplew720
      @farrellplew720 Month ago +4

      I was thinking this same thing, way better songs and deeper song on her previous albums. where was the "party" then!

    • @syntheticsilkwood2206
      @syntheticsilkwood2206 Month ago +2

      Omg the last lines are so true

  • @DG-bj9ni
    @DG-bj9ni Month ago +147

    This is her whole journey as an artist. The quirky beginnings, crash, then burning everything down, becoming her core self with a cig on the sofa. This is her artistry, this is Charli.

  • @giem5417
    @giem5417 Month ago +234

    the embarrassment of realizing how you've destroyed yourself over someone who will never spare you a fraction of a second is so deep and real, thank you forr this charli its been ages since i heard this song

  • @hieuho12345
    @hieuho12345 3 days ago +2

    Charli knows how to throw a party. TRUST HER

  • @jlvk
    @jlvk Month ago +137

    If you told me half a decade ago the party4u music video would finally drop I wouldn't believe you

  • @dusthymn8187
    @dusthymn8187 Month ago +57

    It’s such a sad and simple concept that you would throw an entire party just for your crush to show up because youre too nervous to ask him on a one on one date, and this video perfectly captures the outro where Charli realizes he’s not going to come and her self destruction. This is a song for anyone who has ever had their heart let down

  • @Flutter_by
    @Flutter_by Month ago +180

    FINALLY!! THERE IT IS

  • @VictoriaWhitlock
    @VictoriaWhitlock 19 days ago +9

    This got me in my feels

  • @Waffledsandwhich
    @Waffledsandwhich Month ago +1127

    this was for the angels not the brats 🤍

  • @cool_doughnut2124
    @cool_doughnut2124 Month ago +136

    god the 'party on you' part is so devastatingly beautiful, Charli you made a masterpiece

    • @Plrmvm
      @Plrmvm Month ago +3

      It blew my mind realizing she’s also saying’ “Part of you knew” knowing they wouldn’t.

    • @y2kcelebrity
      @y2kcelebrity 24 days ago

      @@Plrmvm lol she did not

  • @byeitsalexx
    @byeitsalexx Month ago +43

    it's so crazy how she effectively portrays despair and self destruction without having to do too much over-the-top expressions like woahhhh you could feel the emotions!! so happy we finally got a video for one of her best songs

  • @softpotchi6974
    @softpotchi6974 4 days ago +5

    I just remember when he and me had a conversation about which song do we relate the most as of the moment few months ago, and i told him this song because i feel like i’m so distant to him.
    Instead of listening and understanding the song itself, he only replied “oh wow, you must be on a mood to party” assuming me to be happy. I didn’t bothered to explain.
    Now we’re not together anymore and this song is now everywhere, i’m sure he already knew what i meant and what I felt. Though it’s too late now.

    • @365clvbbৎ
      @365clvbbৎ 4 days ago

      that man needs to enroll in xcx world university and understand what this song means. hope ur okay bb❤❤

  • @sweetstuffedjuno
    @sweetstuffedjuno Month ago +768

    i honestly love the symbolism in this song,
    especially when she defaces her billboard poster, its such an artistic way to show that you're losing or destroying yourself in the process just for trying to get the attention of someone that wont even give you the time of day, doing almost anything.
    and when she burns it, its a literal way to say "im burnt out."
    since this song revolves around wanting attention from someone, i would also like to point out she does 3 tactics to do this :
    - she "threw a party" (stated in the lyrics) for her loved one, since throwing lavish parties are a way to get someones attention
    - crying usually gets their attention (also stated in the lyrics, specifically verse 2), she just wants their affection.
    - and undressing herself/leaving herself bare, (seen in the music video AND in the lyrics), since showing skin is also another tactic to get someones attention
    get this woman her fucking flowers.

    • @OurUnderdog
      @OurUnderdog Month ago +3

      Well said...good comment. And true. ❤

    • @RonnyMachdas
      @RonnyMachdas Month ago +1

      Charli next MV ruclips.net/video/nSl3MhG4uug/video.htmlsi=_voWcT2HMioY7d96

    • @ji1117
      @ji1117 Month ago +2

    • @nyxanth247
      @nyxanth247 28 days ago +2

      Well worded

    • @Tomgamer5998
      @Tomgamer5998 28 days ago +4

      the metaphors she uses in this music video omg…

  • @SydsGigs
    @SydsGigs Month ago +467

    no one speak to me for the next 4:56 this is family business

    • @xcxfan
      @xcxfan Month ago +9

      Literally what I told my mom when I got the notification 💀

    • @philosophy_bot4171
      @philosophy_bot4171 Month ago +4

      Beep, bop... I'm the Philosophy Bot. Here, have a quote:
      "Waste no more time arguing about what a good man should be. Be one."
      ~ Marcus Aurelius

    • @keerthiDandeniya
      @keerthiDandeniya 21 day ago

      love the quote beep boob⁠@@philosophy_bot4171

    • @jayitadas5453
      @jayitadas5453 18 days ago +2

      ​@@philosophy_bot4171why did u write this😭

  • @oneheartt
    @oneheartt Month ago +73

    charli i love you so much

  • @5600block
    @5600block 21 day ago +2

    As an old man who wouldn't trade his life for anyone's, dont take y'all's blessings for granted. There's always gonna be something you want or something. You need but enjoy what you have to the fullest with full absolute dedication or let it go somewhere that'll be appreciated as it should be. That goes for lovers, friends, money and so on. Life goes by in a blink and if you don't appreciate fully something, it's not for you❤ p.s playing the field only plays yourself