The enablers were the adults, they lent an ear to the gossip. People think it's not their problem so it becomes entertainment for them. And the those spreading misinformation and manipulation take advantage of it. We learn the hard way how our attention either helps or adds to the problem. Polite conversation shouldn't include having personal problems through gossip pollute our minds. Sometimes changing the subject or excusing yourself is the best defense. That signals the perdon spreading rumors to keep their composure and mind how they act around others. The ending for this story was great with good resolutions all around. ❤🙌🏻👏
OP’s mother is just so proud of him. She forgets that she’s not supposed to tell everybody what he’s doing. How successful he is it’s really nobody’s business but his own and his mothers if he chooses to tell her. But not everybody else in the family. Not when you’ve got a nasty toxic witch change the W to a B in the family who think she’s entitled to your money. She thinks because you got a raise you’re going to take 12 people to Disney World and pay $15,000 for that. This nasty witch has no right and saying how he will spend his money. No right in asking anybody for money no right and telling all the kids your uncles going to take you to Disney World. And let me tell you $15,000 for 12 people at Disney World would not even cover the cost. But still, it’s not up to the nephew to pay for the trip. And then to go on social media that witch. And try and destroy your nephew. His client list his work hours his parking space all of that is none of her business. I’m glad her husband finally stood up to her after all these years. The OP was perfectly correct, and not giving out his money to his aunt to pay for a trip for everybody. The Witch even went to her own sister, who built herself a tiny business after her husband passed away and asked her for money, unbelievably toxic witch. Seems she finally got what she deserved. Everybody turning their backs on her.
His Mom is nothing but a big blabber mouth. Because of that his Aunt said Marcus made a Promise that he never actually made putting him in a very bad spot. His Aunt should be ashamed of herself.
The enablers were the adults, they lent an ear to the gossip. People think it's not their problem so it becomes entertainment for them. And the those spreading misinformation and manipulation take advantage of it. We learn the hard way how our attention either helps or adds to the problem. Polite conversation shouldn't include having personal problems through gossip pollute our minds. Sometimes changing the subject or excusing yourself is the best defense. That signals the perdon spreading rumors to keep their composure and mind how they act around others. The ending for this story was great with good resolutions all around. ❤🙌🏻👏
OP’s mother is just so proud of him. She forgets that she’s not supposed to tell everybody what he’s doing. How successful he is it’s really nobody’s business but his own and his mothers if he chooses to tell her. But not everybody else in the family. Not when you’ve got a nasty toxic witch change the W to a B in the family who think she’s entitled to your money. She thinks because you got a raise you’re going to take 12 people to Disney World and pay $15,000 for that. This nasty witch has no right and saying how he will spend his money. No right in asking anybody for money no right and telling all the kids your uncles going to take you to Disney World. And let me tell you $15,000 for 12 people at Disney World would not even cover the cost. But still, it’s not up to the nephew to pay for the trip. And then to go on social media that witch. And try and destroy your nephew. His client list his work hours his parking space all of that is none of her business. I’m glad her husband finally stood up to her after all these years. The OP was perfectly correct, and not giving out his money to his aunt to pay for a trip for everybody. The Witch even went to her own sister, who built herself a tiny business after her husband passed away and asked her for money, unbelievably toxic witch. Seems she finally got what she deserved. Everybody turning their backs on her.
Judging by the looks of your aunt she is the 12 people that she wanted you to pay for
His Mom is nothing but a big blabber mouth. Because of that his Aunt said Marcus made a Promise that he never actually made putting him in a very bad spot. His Aunt should be ashamed of herself.
My gosh. Talk about using guilt to manipulate.
Talk about user and abuser of the family trust just the reason why you gotta be careful. It comes to money and family.
What if all the relatives and neighbors Patricia talked to would contribute? If they are so eager that the children should go.
Marcus knew his mother couldn't keep her mouth shut. Why tell her your business? I mean, OP is 35 years old. Should be stronger than that. Weak.
Marcus Chen? Again with the Chen? Thumbs down!